I Have a Crush On a Coworker

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    It Makes Me Feel Great

    My coworker is married and quite a bit older than me. But he's kind and thoughtful, and good looking. Being around him usually makes me feel good about myself. I think it can be a good thing having a crush on a coworker - for starters, it has made me put even more effort into my...
    joker46 joker46
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 13, 2012

    She's Like A Sister To Me

    I started a new job six months ago. It's a simple gig, but it's done wonders for me. I was in a bad place before and just feeling like I was getting back on my feet, being a human and getting on with my life, was like being born again. I was happy. I liked going to work and being...
    darkdoor darkdoor
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 14, 2013

    I may expand on this

    as time goes on. A few years ago I thought I had resigned myself to the probability that I would never have sex again. My wife developed a brain tumor and we have not had sex for ten years (8 years then). I got a new job and there was a smokin' (beautiful), flirtatious woman...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    He's 19, and soooooooo cute.

    I don't even get it I just know I like him.
    RomanNZolanski16 RomanNZolanski16
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    I work at a gym with this guy "chris".

    So of course I'm around testosterone and endorphins all day. I specifically get turned on by my Chris. Chris has the perfect physique. He's very built and his muscle just barely ripple. He had the most detailed, beautiful tattoo work on his arms. And that's a plus on it's own...
    Mtlawren Mtlawren
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2014

    He is so hot, smart, funny & nice.

    I can't stand that he is leaving for a 3 year residency in July. I am going to miss him terribly & probably never see him again. Sigh.... I keep fantasizing about our paths crossing again in the future & we get together & live happily ever after.
    marriedintx marriedintx
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    I had a crush on my coworker

    and it seemed mutual for a while. He was older and worked in human resources. We went out a few times and seemed to enjoy each other's company. A few weeks later he decided to take a job elsewhere and left for training. The night before he left we were making out in his car and...
    asimp000 asimp000
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    Four of them actually

    but one stands out. One is constantly in my head in my mind in my thoughts.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    I Would Hit It

    We've worked together for over a year now.  He was the first person I met and he showed me a bunch of procedures on my first day in the store (retail management), so we were in each other's personal space while I learned the ropes.  I could tell he was into me just as...
    QueenD QueenD
    31-35, F
    7 Responses May 31, 2008

    Silly, Unrequited Crush

    I have feelings for someone at my place of work. This is the first job I've ever had, in retail. Ironically, I started working there almost 5 months ago (about 2 months after my break-up), and though the crush did not develop right away, it did not take very long. We didn't work...
    Delete151 Delete151
    26-30, F
    Apr 7, 2013

    Don't look at me with those gorgeous blue eyes.

    You don't want to know what will happen <3 :p
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    Never have had a crush on a coworker,

    so this is my first. It happened over time. I didn't realize until a couple of months ago but looking back it's been about 8 months since it started. I don't need this in my life but there's no way of getting her out of my head. I can't have a crush, I'm married and have...
    crushlime crushlime
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    Is It Wrong To Have A Crush On Someone At Work When You Are Married???

    I can't handle this. At least it feels like I can't handle this feeling....It's happy, painful and achy all at the same time... I just don't feel like myself these days. We work in the same unit, but not on the same team. I see her all the time, but wish I worked with her...
    crush4825 crush4825
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Oct 3, 2012

    So I was talking with a female coworker earlier

    this morning about cooking breakfast, my crush (older male coworker) was there too, and he said something like, "Oh so (my name) cooks??". I said "Oh nothing special, just usual breakfast, you know, eggs and bacon." He replied "Oh I love that!" Is this considered as flirting or...
    JUSTME1217 JUSTME1217
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    Story of my life. We

    both started working the same day and right from day one we hit it off. We share all interests and all we do is laugh when we are together. Whether at work or outside of work. Obviously getting involved with a coworker is never smart. So should I just let it go or make her aware...
    cgarc538 cgarc538
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

    I haven't REALLY LiKED a guy

    since my breaking up with my ex.... But I think my coworker is cute. That's as far as that goes.. just a crush. & I keep it hella professional. Plus, don't know if he'd ever go for a girl like me. Like... if he thinks we're compatible. More so, if i think we're compatible...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    Can't help but smile

    when I see him or think about him it's annoying and I want it to stop
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    Bro Code?

    I am always getting friend zoned by guys. Sure, I'm pretty and I think I'm really funny, but I know that I frighten most men away by talking. I'm intimidating, and I have the inability to control my mouth most of the time. There's a guy at work who isn't scared of me. In fact...
    Annie828 Annie828
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

    I've been staying in a corporate apartment

    for a month now, and experiencing living with some people from work who lives at the other states/towns for awhile. They come and go. So these two guys came last night, and I have to say that I think I have a crush on one of them. We both have our bf/gf already but we are still...
    JUSTME1217 JUSTME1217
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    Oh I Just Think He Is So Cute!

    I ahve a crush on a coworker. I work for AT&T out of El Paso, Texas. His name is Elias Perez.  He is always so clean cut, dresses well, takes care of himself. Elias is kind and sweet to everyone. A few times I have actually came back from break late just so I would be...
    susanturrentine susanturrentine
    May 29, 2008

    I noticed him a few weeks ago,

    always glancing in my direction. He was a few cubicles away from mine. When my boss is speaking to me he'll glance. When we cross paths in the hallway he stares at me, when he is standing talking to one of his team members, he will look at my direction, those sort of things that...
    marellamorton marellamorton
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    I'm 23 years old and currently engaged to a man

    of 4 years. I work as a nursing assistant in a group home, and there is this sexy, tall, dark n handsome nurse who is 39. I've been working with him a year now almost, but was never attracted to him right away...we had a staff meeting one night and he wore a blue tee. He was...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    Omg he so damn fine. And he's

    so funny. I hate this stupid crush cus he CLEARLY has a girlfriend but my crushes are harmless. I do not make moves. If anything I try to avoid the person lol but it's hard when I had a dream about him as well 🙈
    lolabaybee lolabaybee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2014

    Initially it was, he's new

    and nice looking. Then one day he said he'd heard me listening to Rock and asked me if I liked Incubus. Black guy that likes Rock music, front of the line qualification to me :-D I'm the super shy quiet chick at work but he kept saying hi to me. One day, we had a movie moment...
    BlackSheep613 BlackSheep613
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    He is so freaking nice!

    !! He is not even handsome, just super cute! Such a distraction at work!! Hahaha!!
    Gia00 Gia00
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2015

    So there is a coworker

    that is very attractive. It makes it kinda awkward, as him and I are the only single people at work. (we are teachers, and all of the other teachers and staff are all married or in a serious relationship). I have caught him staring at me during staff meetings and in the...
    sweetie8403 sweetie8403
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    My Boss is sexy!!! He is a very educated,

    polite, successful man! He is so tall, super funny, and such a nice body! So sociable as well!! I want him for Christmas please!
    Gia00 Gia00
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    Every time I see him i immediately go to a

    place in my mind where it's just him and I and we do all sorts of nasty things together... He will never know though.
    chapter7 chapter7
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    I'm pretty sure she likes me back to.

    I'm hesitant to act. I study business and know why it is frowned upon. I also know it was told it was bad to get in a relationship with someone from my church, but I did anyways and it ended very badly. I'm told not to get in a relationship because much like my church, it would...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    I had a crush on a co worker

    that went nowhere .
    kaylakoerper kaylakoerper
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015

    So, there's this one guy at work who's

    absolutely gorgeous. And at first, that's all it was. A distraction. Someone to look at. Now I need a new distraction because he's my obsession. I want him so much. I sure as hell hope my "boy buffet" this weekend works out, because I don't know how else I'm going to fix this.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    I can't get her out of my head.

    I know it is a bad idea and it is inappropriate. I don't even think she thinks of me in that way. She is one of the managers at my work but is not over my department. Her smile just makes the whole world feel a little brighter. It makes my day every time I see it. Our...
    CainMarko CainMarko
    26-30, M
    3 Responses May 18, 2015

    A couple of months ago,

    I made fudge to celebrate someone's birthday, and one of my coworkers liked it so much that she not only gave me a hug that day, but also the next. Ever since then, I've had a crush on her, but it's only been recently that I want to ask her out. Problem is, we have differing...
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    He Is Taken

    My crush is one of my close friend at work and he is taken and in a serious relationship. I tried to change my mind by going on other dates with guys but I always come back to him. I always compare everyone to him. I feel like we would make a great couple and I think that he...
    honeybeebzz honeybeebzz
    26-30, F
    Jan 2, 2012

    I think I'm having the beginnings of a crush on

    my colleague. I don't want to let it go too far though.
    jollybeanses jollybeanses
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    He's the last guy I expected to have a crush on

    because he is so indifferent. I think I like indifferent guys. -_- I shouldn't because I am taken. He's a 200 lb guy and slightly a social hermit and a gamer and he's so sweet and spunky and funny and normal. it's hard to find a normal guy that isn't trying to hard these days or...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 3, 2015

    I'm his protège and I love how he's protective

    of me, even when my problems are that of a personal nature. I can't get over the way he gushes over me but, again, it can't ever happen.
    jollybeanses jollybeanses
    41-45, F
    Jan 31, 2016

    Am I Wrong Here?

    I need some perspective here from others. You may want to read my other 2 posts at; EP Link & EP Link The short version is that an employee of mine and I got very close. (She is 34 I am 48, both married). This really happened in January. We never got more physical than...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 5, 2012

    Is this confession time.

    ..? I have always had an appreciation for natural beauty. She is older than me by about 20 yrs, but she has a walk and a body that lights a fire in my Levi's.
    nearlyneil nearlyneil
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    Yes But I'm Not Going There..

    I'm not really that kind of a person.I think he likes me (well as a person at least.) I don't think it's reciprocated like that at all but it's better that way.I think by having a crush on a guy lately means he simply arouses me. :PI don't really know him, maybe it's better that...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    Feb 13, 2012

    Well, it's not necessarily a crush,

    but I do find a few of them attractive. They're new, so getting to know them will either make or break a friendship.
    deleted deleted
    May 19, 2015

    I have the biggest, filthiest crush on my

    coworker at the moment. 'I'd lie' by Taylor swift is my anthem right now.
    ladycaroline ladycaroline
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    We have a mentor/mentee relationship albeit a

    friendly and casual one. Today he crossed a line: he initiated an innuendo. I can't help but think sometimes that he cares about me - perhaps not as a potential partner but as a protege, at least. He openly expressed his desire for me to do well in school, is always attentive...
    jollybeanses jollybeanses
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2016

    Was just a crush year ago ,

    I knew I couldn't be with him in anyway he was married I'll never be the other women that ain't right I've been cheated on so I know how it is, he wanted to be in a relationship I said no you live with your wife I can't be with s married man he said we ain't even together I ain...
    LucidxxShivery LucidxxShivery
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    I find it so hard not telling her how amazing

    she is when I see her so stressed and sad sometimes. I have to remain professional. I make my poor attempts at jokes to lighten the mood, which usually gets a small smile but it doesn't seem to do much to make her feel better. Frustrating...
    CainMarko CainMarko
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 11, 2015
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