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I Have a Crush On a Friend

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    Him Again

    Last night I was hanging with Jared and another friend. She had to leave the room for a while and we were by ourselves just playing a game. I was telling him about a friend of mine that is having some girl problems. He started saying he was having girl problems too and my heart...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Love Hem Like Crazy

    All right here it gose so there is this guy that is 4 years older then me n i just found out how i really feel about hem Crazy right well i think he likes me too but im not sure the really funny thing is he is like my best friend so its kind of strange but we have been texting...
    Daretodance7741 Daretodance7741 13-15 Jun 11, 2011

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    I Wonder If...

    I never should have told him. Because this whole year or at least a greater part of it has been a war because of it. A hated war... Spiteful hate and insults on both sides. No lie... I know he loves me even if he doesn't... And I love him too even if I can never say it. I tried...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 29, 2012

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    Everyday

    I see him everyday and it doesn't help. He's always teasing me about different things, but it's not in a bad way. He's also one of the few people that is nice to me at school. Most of the time I can't even look him in the eye because I know he's disappointed in me. I have scars...
    MizuNiatora MizuNiatora 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    I Think I Love Her

    We talk and my heart pounds. We fight and I feel depressed. I have had relationships in the past with people I KNOW I love. But with her i am unsure,I have felt very dearly of her since age 16, I love talking to her and I just want her to leave her abusive relationship and fall...
    Kristen123456789 Kristen123456789 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    If I Only Had a Brain

    Three years ago I met this girl and became very good friends with her.  I did not go after her romantically because I was in a relationship, a very steamy relationship.  There was lots of sex, excitement, a crazy family to hang out with, and lots of road trips and great...
    scottea84 scottea84 21-25, M 1 Response Jun 8, 2009

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    I Find It Hard to Get Over Her

    I love this girl so much. Ive known her for about half a year, and from the beginning Ive had a big crush on her, and during this time we've spent massive amounts of time together, talking, doing things, living and learning. So she really grew on me, and my crush turned to love...
    villejokiranta villejokiranta 18-21 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    What I've Been Thinking About.

    I met a guy at my college. His name is Jared. He was in a class with my sister (who goes to the same college as I), and she introduced us. We started doing stuff with Jared occasionally, getting lunch and playing pool and other small activities. We all had fun together. At this...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2012

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    Confusing And Twitterpating

    I recently became friends with a college theater classmate. We started working on a romantic scene together (our choosing) and we have flirted and so forth. Unfortunately we are both in relationships and do not want an affair. I am still working with him and want to stay...
    summer5456 summer5456 18-21 May 6, 2010

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    I recently started to like one of my friends

    but I don't know how to let him know that I like him without actually telling him. Plus, I think he likes someone else and that makes me feel awful 'cause he won't like me back :(
    marialaura99 marialaura99 16-17, F Feb 9

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    This Is What I Want To Tell Him :)

    To my first, closest, guy friend in college, I want you to know that right now... "I miss how we used to hang out after our classes. I mean, yes. I really, really, really miss those times. It's like now -- we've drifted apart. Or was it that, during those times, we were doing a...
    ErinValcourt ErinValcourt 18-21, F Dec 27, 2012

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    And It Hurts Like Hell...

    He's my boyfriend's best mate and I love him... I don't want to love him anymore, it gives me to much stress. Yesterday I had a dinner party and he was invited. Since he lives relatively far away he spent the night at my place, I had to fight every urge of crawling in bed with...
    crazygothicfreak crazygothicfreak 22-25, F Sep 12, 2010

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    Cute.

    He's so cute. He texts me every day during the weekend telling me to wake up, since I always sleep in every day. And he is constantly wanting to hang out. We were watching movies and the characters started holding hands, so he grabbed mine. I always playfully pull my hand away...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Jan 22, 2013

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    My Thoughts 4 Him

    i am going to tell u how i feel for josh an cj because i could never tell them to their face... josh u r so amazing.....everytime u r around me i cant help but smile u are always on my mind i think about u all the time.....u been my friend 4 two years and also u are the one i...
    missheaven missheaven 13-15, F Oct 3, 2012

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    A Friend

    but what I need is for that friend to go now. I kept thinking in the back of my mind that we had equal feelings for each other. It doesn't help me to have a friend around who doesn't feel the same as me. It just drives the nail in a little deeper, and embarrasses me even more...
    errantmind errantmind 41-45, F Mar 21, 2013

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    :)

    We were watching a movie the other day and he was pretty close to me. He randomly holds his hand out so I can give him a high five. He was leaning on me for a good while, and then he jokingly asked if he could put his head in my lap. I laughed but he rested his head on my...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Feb 4, 2013

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    Still Hesitant Even After This.

    So from a few of my other stories that you may or may not have read, this is once again, that same guy. I'll just call him Shawn to make it easier. So a few of my friends and I went to Shawn's house for a small party. Well, we were sitting down to watch a movie, and two of my...
    PinkButterfly841 PinkButterfly841 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    This isn't actually an experience,

    it's actually a question. I have a girlfriend, and we've only seen each other for 10 days total, though. But it's a long distance relationship. I haven't seen her in 2 and a half years. But where I am, there's this girl that I have a crush on, and I love her more than my...
    Samcoyou Samcoyou 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    I Think.... Im Crazy

    OK... Here i go.     There is this guy in my class named A.J(or Austin Macintire) who I NEVER liked. HE NEVER SHUTS UP! But now its hard for me to even LOOK at him without totally crushing on him! The other day(yesterday lol) I was having...
    sunshine96001 sunshine96001 16-17, F Oct 29, 2009

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    I'm Not Sure...

    Well, um, there's this guy in my class..We've known each other for about five years now and we're really good friends. I don't know why, but lately I think an attraction for him has started to grow..Now, I have liked him before, it was a few years ago and he found out. He did NOT...
    PinkButterfly841 PinkButterfly841 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    i have a crush on my guyfriend

    the awkwardness of love love works in mysterious ways doesn't it? one minute you like some one and the next minute you want to strangle them :P in my case i have a guy i like whos a player :P im trying to get his attention lol I know what your thinking " don't fall for it it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    New School, New Love

    This September I started a new school. I've just gone into year 10 so I'm doing my GCSE's. Anyway. My first day was bad coz I was on a trip :-/ My second day was better. I met a cute guy named lee. I became friends with him and now I really really love him!!!!! I'd honestly do...
    GothicArtist GothicArtist 13-15, F Sep 30, 2012

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    It's Deveopling!! =o

    I met this guy about a month ago, but we became instant friends because we were both loners, with common interests, & well, we just felt so surprisingly comfortable being with each other!So, anyways, I...I think I'm developing a crush on him! *eeep!*But, I'm not so sure though...
    RemnantAngel RemnantAngel 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    its not like i dont have any friends, well only if i use the world's criteria of friend. a lot of people claim to be my friend. but for me they are just acquiantances. and i dont...
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I have no friends. No fake friends. No kind of friends. No best friends. No "lets go shopping" friends. No one to console me when I cant talk to my husband about something... I...
    veeshybi veeshybi 18-21, F 14 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    We moved three times when I was in high school so I kind of lost touch with everyone that I was friends with and just stopped calling. I'm not sure why I did that. I have one...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I mainly have guy friends. We had a school dance on Friday and he slow danced with me. It was really sweet. He just kept pulling me closer. Then when I got home he texted me and...
    Kenzie5567 Kenzie5567 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Well not that I don't have any, i do have a number of friends I'm close to. It's just that it's really hard for me to get close to someone. I try to be sincerely nice all the time...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I don't understand why I literally have zero friends. I'm chill, not a snitch, nice, funny, love music, and I'm really easy to get along with. Yet I am still friendless.
    klewis09 klewis09 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm a high school freshman and I don't have any friends at all in school. I'm anti-social and I'm really shy. When I'm in school, I always skip lunch because I have no one to sit...
    SuperKitty99 SuperKitty99 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I don't have any friends. I used to. I actually had quite a lot when I was in high school. But that was 5 years ago, and I'm in college, have a boyfriend and a busy job. They all...
    RunningFree32 RunningFree32 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    It's fun and entertaining! :) i have a friend who's lesbian and i've known her for 7 years and two little cute freshmen that are gay also. First and foremost, the freshman have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Mar 27

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    I have no friends but I have a couple but we never hangout I'm always alone n **** n it sucks I stay in my room alone away from my parents I hardly leave the house bc I never get...
    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am able to accept that I don't have any friends. I have acquaintances. Sometimes I do wish I had people to go out with on my off days but other than that I am content. I am not...
    PinkDolphins PinkDolphins 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I have lost all my friends. I only have two friends and they are co workers. I only hang out with them once a month. I feel so alone I miss having a bestfriend :(
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't understand why i have no friend i know i'm ugly but is that the reason??
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm almost 51 and have no friends. I'm not involved in any activities, don't go to the bar anymore and have chronic pain so I don't work. I do crafts and household things. This is...
    natjk natjk 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    When I first came to EP almost a year ago, I never expected anything besides a little moral support and an avenue to vent about my frustrations as it relates to my situation. What...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    i know how people say they don't have friends and their all alone and no one cares. but they're just saying that so their 10+ friends will give them attention. well its like that...
    stupendouscat stupendouscat 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I had a crush on many girls at obe moment 😝
    Rocko989 Rocko989 18-21, M Apr 14

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    I'm reverting back to my 14-15-year-old self. I've been crushing pretty hard on Hibari Kyoya from Katekyo Hitman REBORN!
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Haha this is kind of strange but I have a crush on Atticus finch of 'To Kill A Mockingbird' the role he plays in the book as an excellent father is really inspiring and I feel that...
    doublechin94 doublechin94 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Sebastian Michaelis - Kuroshitsuji Pluto - Kuroshitsuji (I have a crush on a dog that turns to a naked human, yes) Undertaker - Kuroshitsuji (again) Haruka Nanase - Free! Iwatobi...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 26

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    I just love them. Everyone with their own personalities. It is nice to have a common space and the occasional inbox. Everyone in my circle is a LOVER in the sense of caring for...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 10 hrs ago

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    Besides getting cheated on ...there's always been this other boy who's always trying to grab my attention He's a football, baseball& basketball player for my school he's very...
    elitedancer14 elitedancer14 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Can someone help me understand what a manic episode can be like? I understand manic episodes can vary widely depending on the person. I have a great friend in high school who I met...
    LovesWarrior LovesWarrior 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I remember my first best friend in 4th grade. He introduced me to one of my favorite animes and at the end of the school year he moved away. I've met people growing up and at some...
    RadicalEd4 RadicalEd4 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I feel like I suck at socializing sometimes, like I'm a really cool and nice person, really easy to talk to and a good friend, but I can't seem to make friends or keep them around...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm not exactly antisocial, but I like having just one best friend. I don't really have any at this point, but I'm selfish. I like having one best friend that we can talk about...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 16-17, F Mar 30

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    Got no friends no best friends no wants to be friends with me it's depressing I act like I'm okay with it in front of my family and at work but deep down I'm not
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 31

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