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I Have a Crush On a Friend

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    he's not on ep, and even if he was i wouldnt like him anymore. because likeing someone on the internet is stupid, unless you know for SURE taht the guy that insists he loves you isn't some 50 year old pervdert.the guy i like and i are friends. we hang out together and we talk a...
    JJJeWWWy JJJeWWWy 16-17, F Jan 5, 2010

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    I Wonder If...

    I never should have told him. Because this whole year or at least a greater part of it has been a war because of it. A hated war... Spiteful hate and insults on both sides. No lie... I know he loves me even if he doesn't... And I love him too even if I can never say it. I tried...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 29, 2012

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    If I Only Had a Brain

    Three years ago I met this girl and became very good friends with her.  I did not go after her romantically because I was in a relationship, a very steamy relationship.  There was lots of sex, excitement, a crazy family to hang out with, and lots of road trips and great...
    scottea84 scottea84 21-25, M 1 Response Jun 8, 2009

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    Love Hem Like Crazy

    All right here it gose so there is this guy that is 4 years older then me n i just found out how i really feel about hem Crazy right well i think he likes me too but im not sure the really funny thing is he is like my best friend so its kind of strange but we have been texting...
    Daretodance7741 Daretodance7741 13-15 Jun 11, 2011

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    God this is soo hard I swear.

    He's like, 2 years younger than me and we just became close this year and I swear it just started out as a daily greeting and fistbump from him and his other friend and I don't understand how I started to like him. And the worst part is, he's moving to America and I don't know...
    odeybelle odeybelle 13-15, F Nov 30

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    Cute.

    He's so cute. He texts me every day during the weekend telling me to wake up, since I always sleep in every day. And he is constantly wanting to hang out. We were watching movies and the characters started holding hands, so he grabbed mine. I always playfully pull my hand away...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Jan 22, 2013

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    What I've Been Thinking About.

    I met a guy at my college. His name is Jared. He was in a class with my sister (who goes to the same college as I), and she introduced us. We started doing stuff with Jared occasionally, getting lunch and playing pool and other small activities. We all had fun together. At this...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2012

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    I Like My Guy Friend After He Got A Haircut

    He looked so different after his haircut! It made a huge difference to the previous bob looking hair he had. Yesterday when he talked to me, I had this weird, happy kind of feeling. I told his friend and now he knows that I think he's hot. What should I do. I am so embarrassed
    berrydana7 berrydana7 18-21, F Sep 20, 2013

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    I really like one of my best friends.

    Even though he has a girlfriend, I still want to tell him how I feel... But. Ya know, I don't want to mess up our friendship & his relationship. 😕 but, he should understand... Right? lol.
    niasimmy niasimmy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I NEED HELP!!!! I have a crush on a 'friend'.

    I get constant mixed messages from him and I need to know what's going on. Asking him is not an option so please don't suggest it. I found out he watched me undress,(unbeknownst to me) he flirts like a little kid throws things at me etc. then on the opposite end of the spectrum...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Not only is he one of my crushes,

    he's my close friend. We have been there for each other through everything. From his eyes, his smile, to the way he talks everything about him is perfect. I can't help to smile when he sings and plays guitar. He's just a farm boy, even though he has the worst past. I can't even...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 26

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    It's Deveopling!! =o

    I met this guy about a month ago, but we became instant friends because we were both loners, with common interests, & well, we just felt so surprisingly comfortable being with each other!So, anyways, I...I think I'm developing a crush on him! *eeep!*But, I'm not so sure though...
    RemnantAngel RemnantAngel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    I Find It Hard to Get Over Her

    I love this girl so much. Ive known her for about half a year, and from the beginning Ive had a big crush on her, and during this time we've spent massive amounts of time together, talking, doing things, living and learning. So she really grew on me, and my crush turned to love...
    villejokiranta villejokiranta 18-21 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    Ummmm. Plural. Yep.

    Plural. Friends. Sigh.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Still Hesitant Even After This.

    So from a few of my other stories that you may or may not have read, this is once again, that same guy. I'll just call him Shawn to make it easier. So a few of my friends and I went to Shawn's house for a small party. Well, we were sitting down to watch a movie, and two of my...
    PinkButterfly841 PinkButterfly841 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    This certain friend crush thing is weird.

    I knew I liked him as a friend but but took me half a year to figure out that I had an insanely huge crush on him. He was just walking by one day, he said hey and we talked and then suddenly I had these weird feelings of nervousness and butterflies in my tummy. And that is how I...
    fivesaucewhoop fivesaucewhoop 13-15, F Nov 21

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    A month ago I was at a concert

    and met this amazing girl. She's attractive, fun to be around, and really sweet. We exchanged numbers and kept in fairly good contact. We even hung out a few times in person after the concert. Stupidly, I told her that I liked her a lot. Although she told me, she does find me...
    Hobbiteering92 Hobbiteering92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Him Again

    Last night I was hanging with Jared and another friend. She had to leave the room for a while and we were by ourselves just playing a game. I was telling him about a friend of mine that is having some girl problems. He started saying he was having girl problems too and my heart...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Confusing And Twitterpating

    I recently became friends with a college theater classmate. We started working on a romantic scene together (our choosing) and we have flirted and so forth. Unfortunately we are both in relationships and do not want an affair. I am still working with him and want to stay...
    summer5456 summer5456 18-21 May 6, 2010

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    It kinda sucksssss because I always stare at

    him at forget what I'm saying
    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Dont Know How to Tell My Story So I'll Just Start Writing

    About two weeks ago I went to sleepaway camp for the trird time. I had never had a crush on anybody there before and the guy had been there the year before but on the first day of camp I met his eyes and my heart started going crazy. I can remember lying in bed that night just...
    PercyJacksonAnnabethChase PercyJacksonAnnabethChase 13-15 Jul 13, 2009

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    New School, New Love

    This September I started a new school. I've just gone into year 10 so I'm doing my GCSE's. Anyway. My first day was bad coz I was on a trip :-/ My second day was better. I met a cute guy named lee. I became friends with him and now I really really love him!!!!! I'd honestly do...
    GothicArtist GothicArtist 13-15, F Sep 30, 2012

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    i have a crush on my bestfriend .

    i knew him since we were babies LITERALLY. ive heard people saying he felt the same way but i was too afraid of confessing (is that how u spell it) because i was afraid it was just a rumor. but now i cant even bear to be next to him or like look at him or talk to him because its...
    natashamae25 natashamae25 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i have a crush on my guyfriend

    the awkwardness of love love works in mysterious ways doesn't it? one minute you like some one and the next minute you want to strangle them :P in my case i have a guy i like whos a player :P im trying to get his attention lol I know what your thinking " don't fall for it it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    This Is What I Want To Tell Him :)

    To my first, closest, guy friend in college, I want you to know that right now... "I miss how we used to hang out after our classes. I mean, yes. I really, really, really miss those times. It's like now -- we've drifted apart. Or was it that, during those times, we were doing a...
    ErinValcourt ErinValcourt 18-21, F Dec 27, 2012

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    My Thoughts 4 Him

    i am going to tell u how i feel for josh an cj because i could never tell them to their face... josh u r so amazing.....everytime u r around me i cant help but smile u are always on my mind i think about u all the time.....u been my friend 4 two years and also u are the one i...
    missheaven missheaven 13-15, F Oct 3, 2012

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    I have a crush on one of my friends.

    I've had one for most of this year, but I haven't told her. ugh xC
    greywolf9678 greywolf9678 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I'm Not Sure...

    Well, um, there's this guy in my class..We've known each other for about five years now and we're really good friends. I don't know why, but lately I think an attraction for him has started to grow..Now, I have liked him before, it was a few years ago and he found out. He did NOT...
    PinkButterfly841 PinkButterfly841 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    Ok, I'll admit it, I have a massive crush on a

    realy good friend since I was seven and we were paired together in a World War Two dancing event. I think he might like me back. The only issue is I can't wait to see if he likes me because I'm moving school soon and will probably never see him again. Any ideas? Comment below.
    mejustbeingme123 mejustbeingme123 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And It Hurts Like Hell...

    He's my boyfriend's best mate and I love him... I don't want to love him anymore, it gives me to much stress. Yesterday I had a dinner party and he was invited. Since he lives relatively far away he spent the night at my place, I had to fight every urge of crawling in bed with...
    crazygothicfreak crazygothicfreak 22-25, F Sep 12, 2010

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    :)

    We were watching a movie the other day and he was pretty close to me. He randomly holds his hand out so I can give him a high five. He was leaning on me for a good while, and then he jokingly asked if he could put his head in my lap. I laughed but he rested his head on my...
    pauserewind pauserewind 18-21, F Feb 4, 2013

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    I love her and I don't know what to do.

    She fake married to this girl Lydia because they're like besties and I just hate that. She always says 'love ya' but she means in like this sister-like way. I'm drowning. I need someone to help me.
    SummerTimeStars SummerTimeStars 13-15, F May 10

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    I Think I Love Her

    We talk and my heart pounds. We fight and I feel depressed. I have had relationships in the past with people I KNOW I love. But with her i am unsure,I have felt very dearly of her since age 16, I love talking to her and I just want her to leave her abusive relationship and fall...
    Kristen123456789 Kristen123456789 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I Think.... Im Crazy

    OK... Here i go.     There is this guy in my class named A.J(or Austin Macintire) who I NEVER liked. HE NEVER SHUTS UP! But now its hard for me to even LOOK at him without totally crushing on him! The other day(yesterday lol) I was having...
    sunshine96001 sunshine96001 16-17, F Oct 29, 2009

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    A Friend

    but what I need is for that friend to go now. I kept thinking in the back of my mind that we had equal feelings for each other. It doesn't help me to have a friend around who doesn't feel the same as me. It just drives the nail in a little deeper, and embarrasses me even more...
    errantmind errantmind 41-45, F Mar 21, 2013

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    I recently started to like one of my friends

    but I don't know how to let him know that I like him without actually telling him. Plus, I think he likes someone else and that makes me feel awful 'cause he won't like me back :(
    marialaura99 marialaura99 16-17, F Feb 9

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    I really like my bestfriend

    and he likes me. people are always saying that we would be a cute couple. also they think we have a "thing" we always deny it. but we want to date but he is worried that it would be weird if we dated because we have been bestfriends for 5 years. please help.
    gowens13 gowens13 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    This isn't actually an experience,

    it's actually a question. I have a girlfriend, and we've only seen each other for 10 days total, though. But it's a long distance relationship. I haven't seen her in 2 and a half years. But where I am, there's this girl that I have a crush on, and I love her more than my...
    Samcoyou Samcoyou 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    there is this boy I really like

    and he always looks at me and we like never talk but know each other and like u mean he always stares at me when we see each other.!!!!!!!!......!!?!!!!?!!????!?...... But like today my freind told me he was on our hall because we were switching class and she was like omg guess...
    Hateal Hateal 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F Dec 18

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    2,941 people & counting who feel friendless. Here's my story. I've had childhood friends, we'd go to & from each other's homes, at times sleep over. Some I went to school with. I...
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    I am a "normal" guy. Was outgoing, enjoyed golfing, stopping at the bar for a couple. I do normal things, bike, read, cheer on my sports teams, etc. I don't live in the middle...
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    i don't have true friends in real life. i used to hang out with same friend. driving,shopping,many chats,we have done stupid and fun things... but she always made fun of me,looked...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F Dec 15

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    I don't know if this is really true. It is a bit absolute. Depending on how I feel and what I need, ....friendship is a word that can have many meanings. Like the untrue story that...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 19

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    I have a friend but not the kind i want, she is selfish arrogant and sometimes a b***h. and because of that i really feel like i have no friends. Before, i was prefere to be alone...
    manel2504 manel2504 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 19

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    I've never particularly got close to people in general for various reasons and as I look around me now, at age 21, I literally have no friends. The only person I could loosely...
    poodahpop poodahpop 18-21, T 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    They hug and kiss you....almost as if they care....only to betray you first chance they get....just for the sake of good gossip....never caring about your feelings and your pain...
    Sjenka Sjenka 36-40, F Nov 29

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