I Have a Crush On a Straight Girl

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    I just experienced my first straight girl crush

    heartbreak. She's a little younger than me but I think she's beautiful. Her smile makes my heart race and I get a weird fluttering sensation in my stomach like I'm about to throw up whenever I think about her. She probably doesn't know I'm alive beyond fact that I work at the...
    brianna24 brianna24
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2014

    It First Was A Save Idea, But Now It´S Ripping My Mind Apart

    Hi there, first I think I need to tell some things about me, so my story makes sense. First, I´ve not come out to anyone. Second, I only realized that I´m a lesbian about a year ago, and that really explained a lot of things. Like, third, I did have crushes on straight girls...
    6MoonMusic 6MoonMusic
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 6, 2013

    Straight Girl Crush

    So I have feelings for this girl and of course she is straight. But no matter how much I want to, I just can’t get her out of my mind. I met her through mutual friends about 18 months ago and we hit it off; she knew I was gay but she had a boyfriend. Regardless, we had fun...
    TerminalSlade TerminalSlade
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    Crushing On a Straight Girl...

    I've had quite a few crushes on straight girl and totally HATE the feeling. What's worse than knowing that they don't like you back is knowing that the girl might even be disgusted by the fact you like her! Most girls in my age group feel that way, not because I'm particulary...
    ANT432 ANT432
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2009

    This is the worst feeling,

    knowing the girl you've fallen for won't ever love you back.
    novaftmpride novaftmpride
    16-17, T
    Jun 10, 2015

    I finally figured out how my gaydar works!

    !! When I'm attracted to a girl that means that she's totally straight.... Story of my life);
    IamaKhaleesi IamaKhaleesi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2014

    I've done it again. Well,

    in my defense she's so beautiful, has a lovely personality and has a wonderful taste when it comes to music and she's really nice to me
    zeezee931 zeezee931
    22-25, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    So Ive already started with my new job

    for 3 weeks now and Ive started having crushes on my work mates. One of them is bisexual I think and she has a girlfriend. I would like to be close friends with her but we dont really get to hang out a lot. Anyway, I have a crush on another girl. Well she's very pretty and fun...
    reiko93 reiko93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2013

    I have two othe store about other girl this one

    different i been working for a year she work in a different part where i work at but i see her sometimes. Look at me she looks very long time she have a boyfriend my friend told me she does but she still look at me
    quitegirlshy quitegirlshy
    26-30, F
    Jun 8, 2015

    Not At The Moment, Luckily

    I don't have a crush on a straight girl at the moment, luckily, but I certainly have had them in the past. They're absolutely terrible. I think most of the people I've had feelings for have been straight, unfortunately for me. The last one was around this time last year in my...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2010

    yes I do I really like her

    so much she's amazing but she is straight and has a boyfriend she doesn't like me like that I don't have much only personality so obviously I am not good enough for her she has way more to offer me than I have to offer her so am not good enough for her eny ways
    susangoga susangoga
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    I'm currently on this Christian project

    for a month with 32 other people. I wasn't really close to anyone at the start but the plane ride was so long so now we're like glue (stuck together). Nobody knows I am gay on the project, the only reason I am on it is because my family made me. Anyway, there's this girl and she...
    milkybars milkybars
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    So Scared.

    I go to an all girls summer camp every summer and for 2 years now I've had the biggest crush on a 20 year old counselor. This year I finnaly told her by typing out this long letter saying that I really liked her and I had to tell her because it's been bugging me and all sorts of...
    lyriclover lyriclover
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2012

    so, unfortunately, I fell

    for my best friend. We've been friends for almost 4 years. At first I wasn't sure if she was gay or not because of the way she acted around one of our coworkers that was openly bi and crushing on her, but she told a friend of ours that she was definitely straight. It's extremely...
    milo1890 milo1890
    22-25, F
    Feb 4, 2015

    My god! she's so gorgeous.

    I love it when she catch me looking at her and then she smile at me. I like when she let me use her glasses and how comfortable she is with me. She's so smart and beautiful. but she have a boyfriend :(
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 12, 2014

    One More Time!

    I was riding in a bus yesterday back from work! Oops, I left the car at home. I was chatting with a friend on my phone…. and I was listening to "This Love" by Maroon 5 and I was relaxing in the seat as good as I can. This girl sat next to me.. and there was a guy next to her...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2012

    Im actually not sure

    if she's straight or not... We're still in high school so she could be gay and simply not out, like me
    infb infb
    16-17, F
    Jun 10, 2015
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets
    16-17, T
    Dec 8, 2013

    She's one of my best friends.

    She's so funny, really pretty and super nice. She's just one of the cutest things I've ever seen! Everytime I hangout with her, i'm like Wow... But she has got a boyfriend. She really loves him, and he loves her. (It's even a long distance relationship, but they made it for a...
    blueskybutterfly blueskybutterfly
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    Crushing On Mars

    Well I am a fifteen year old femme lesbian. Going into my sophomore year. I'm out to a teacher, cousin, five friends, my parents, and sister. It took a while, and a lot of time spent in my room crying, but I've learned to accept myself and my gayness. Really the only reason that...
    mypurplecloset mypurplecloset
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 30, 2012

    Having a hard time keeping this crush from

    coming back. She lead me on and broke my heart, and I thought I had been able to move on while still having to see her at work every day. I was doing good. Suddenly she's back on my radar, back to her old tricks and it's driving me crazy. I know better than to go there again...
    twr86 twr86
    26-30, F
    Jan 2, 2015

    I'm Not Sure Which Is Worse....

    ...The fact that I get my first ever big  "crush" at the age of 20, or the fact that its a huge crush on a painfully straight, straight girl. All of this is happening at the same moment that I realize, that despite what I've been telling my self over these past 20 years, I...
    MuchaLovesMe MuchaLovesMe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2011

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