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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the

    usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women Older Men Dating . Are you a man looking for a younger woman, or a woman seeking an older man? Everyone has their preferences in relationships...
    celinecc11 celinecc11 26-30, F Feb 2

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    Omg. Never take a fitness class your crush

    teaches. I could even look at him if I wanted to focus on my workout instead of banging him. BAD LIFE CHOICE OF THE DAY.
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Sigh. I always pick the best ones.

    I have no idea why I like him so much - he's MUCH older than I am. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about him, and I look foreword to when he comes into work. I don't know. Maybe I just like men who would be a chaotic and messy relationship and is almost sure to...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    I've been getting to know a guy

    that I think is totally amazing! He's atractive, smart, funny,successful, &...17th older than me! I'm absolutely crazy about him. When I read text from him I have that goofy smile on my face, & when I hear his voice my heart beats faster. I've got it bad for an older guy...
    squirt254 squirt254 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    I think he likes me back.

    :3 I can't be sure, of course, but I'm almost sure. He might ~ ^.^
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Mar 8

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I wasn't expecting to see him today,

    and when he walked in I was speechless. I was so stupid - I couldn't get any words out of my mouth. I just stood there like an idiot. BLARG.
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Feb 3

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    They Talk

    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    Pseudo Relationship

    I like this guy who is 29 and I am almost 19. well the thing is, i've been talking to this one guy fr three years now. We've been in a pseudo relationship for a year now and he is already been taken. I always like him ever since we started talking. I know that what im doing is...
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    I know it's bad but I crush on guys

    that r too old for me I shouldn't crush on any1 really but guys older is bad right
    dancedance8 dancedance8 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want an older man anyone want to chat. ;)
    Rebecca214 Rebecca214 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Virgin looking for a hot older guy (35-50) to take control, fulfil my desires and take my virginity.
    AudrinaM AudrinaM 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    Hes in the shower and im here in his bed... Ive never made so much noise in my life. If you can die from ecstasy - this man is going to be the death of me ☺️..
    FAIRYboobs FAIRYboobs 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    to many loser older guys on here they mosty all pay stupid and play games to bad they never grow up
    tiffanyclark13 tiffanyclark13 13-15, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I am 27 years old and Im dating a man who is 42. Not only is he much older than me but he is also white.I did not introduce him to my family until this past February. We were...
    auntwinnie auntwinnie 26-30, F 1 Response May 17

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    Friends. Proven pals. Did heart attacks do this. Or poverty. Or how awesome they are. Looked at my phone last night. The time was my birthday. But not the date...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    My boyfriend is a brilliant, handsome, kind gentleman who is 40 years older than me. I feel like I can't talk to my friends about him or our relationship. I'm so madly in love and...
    kaym89 kaym89 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Older men the young girls love you. Just saying.
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 9 Responses May 14

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    so hard find older guy everyone from turkey or some place its dumb
    tiffanyclark13 tiffanyclark13 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    sorin markov from magic: the gathering. (i know, i'm pathetic.) it's not even a crush anymore so much as an all-consuming obsession. had tons of fictional crushes and loves before...
    blacksunzenith blacksunzenith 22-25 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Always they be married. Or monogamous. Or straight. Lol. Or needing a worker bee. Not a sloppy taz who loves many. Sigh.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 29

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    My boyfriend and I are 12 years apart, I am 18 and he is 30, I am perfectly fine with the age and so is he, he has no children and has never been married (neither have I), we have...
    crystal1830 crystal1830 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    I this weird crush on Crowley from Supernatural.
    KistuneBlood KistuneBlood 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Cat women, biggest women's crush Wednesday ever 👌🏻😷
    Atom4815 Atom4815 18-21, M 1 Response May 17

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    Sooooooo this is my top five crushes on fictitious characters: 5. Augustus Waters (TFIOS) 4. Jace Herondale (TMI) 3. Ron Wesley (HP) 2. Jasper Cullen (TWL) 1. Alex Rider (AR)
    Stormbreaker101 Stormbreaker101 13-15, F 3 Responses May 17

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    Superman from superman the animated series lolI thought he was hot :D That body,tan skin and gorgeous face lol and his demeanor how he was kind and helping people that was my dream...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I have a crush on Castiel and Sam and Dean Winchester. yes. they may not be English but I'll make an exception
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F May 18

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    also Tim Curry as Frank N. Furter is one of my huge fictional crushes. He is such a sweet transvestite
    therearenostringsonme therearenostringsonme 13-15, F 1 Response May 18

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    I have a major crush on Nightowl from the Watchmen movie. Sexxxxy. Rescue me any time. Geeky, smart, unsure of himself, yet a complete bada** and very good looking. Mmmmm wish we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 18

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