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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    Pseudo Relationship

    I like this guy who is 29 and I am almost 19. well the thing is, i've been talking to this one guy fr three years now. We've been in a pseudo relationship for a year now and he is already been taken. I always like him ever since we started talking. I know that what im doing is...
    Jan 22, 2013

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    Ode To Banana

    It’s been too long since I’ve had a crush on anyone. You forget those obnoxious feelings -- the inability to focus, random butterflies, and that damn longing to be near them. He doesn’t have my phone number, but I check it as if he did. He still won’t tell me his name...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F Aug 22, 2011

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    I'Ve Never Stopped Loving Him...

    I graduated high school 2 years ago. I've loved this man for the past 7 years. It started out as a silly crush when he was my teacher and I was his student. But I'm an adult now and he is still the last thing I think about when I go to bed at night and he is still the first thing...
    MysteriousChick92 MysteriousChick92 18-21, F Jun 14, 2013

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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    They Talk

    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Well, I was in a very bad place in my life, and I was always curious about dating an older man. Previously I had only been dating men my own age or a few months older. So, I was 18...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I have feelings for my neighborhood who's a teacher and I have always liked older men. I know people thinks it's gross, he has a daughter only 3 years younger than me. I want to...
    BeatriceSeekingOlder BeatriceSeekingOlder 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I had a crush on many girls at obe moment 😝
    Rocko989 Rocko989 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I want to be disrespected and face fu*!ed hard by an older man.. Anything goes I'd like to share this experience with a man who wants to get me off Am I the only one that likes...
    Cravingcock Cravingcock 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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    I never planned to date an older man, but at first he lied to me about his age and he looks good also very fit, so I believed. I have not started to date him seriously jet, but it...
    ElusiveLady ElusiveLady 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 24

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    You really like the idea of mothering an older man? I guess it's just where I am coming from that makes the idea seem a little odd to me. Am curious though, what makes you feel...
    crazynam321 crazynam321 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Actually, I have four older brothers. I don't see two of them very often. Sometimes the other two can get annoying but whatever
    kittensjpg kittensjpg 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I first met him in the local downtown in a section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend...
    killyourhero killyourhero 16-17, F Apr 3

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    Best Older Men Looking For Younger Women - AgeFriends.com is a new dating site for Older Men Looking For Younger Women. Older men dating younger women has been the norm for years...
    agefriends agefriends 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I'm a 26 year young woman in a relationship with a 38 year old man. I'm starting to fall in love,which is VERY hard for me considering I'm not that trusting of a person anyway...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I found a man But he is much older than I am We have a 16 year age gap 20 and 36 But it doesn’t matter What I care about is I think he can’t move on from his past love of 8...
    IShallGoMad IShallGoMad 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I still can't believe I found him. My husband, beloved,Sir. My amazing man who somehow can handle me. He's 20 years older and I don't regret it one bit. All the worries we both...
    Retronatrix Retronatrix 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am 21 years of age and I am seen as being very mature. I have pulled the interest of many older men,but this recent one has really pulled at my attention. He is 40 something and...
    LoveHard2014 LoveHard2014 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    When I was sixteen I embarked on a 15 year fling with a man 20 years older. He took me home on the first night and just gave me oral. It rocked my world. A lot to be said for...
    36EGirl 36EGirl 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 3

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    Hey to whoever took the time to read :) So I met my boyfriend online over a year ago. He's 19 years older then me. The first couple of months where amazing, then things got a bit...
    lovelyle0 lovelyle0 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I'm reverting back to my 14-15-year-old self. I've been crushing pretty hard on Hibari Kyoya from Katekyo Hitman REBORN!
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Haha this is kind of strange but I have a crush on Atticus finch of 'To Kill A Mockingbird' the role he plays in the book as an excellent father is really inspiring and I feel that...
    doublechin94 doublechin94 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Sebastian Michaelis - Kuroshitsuji Pluto - Kuroshitsuji (I have a crush on a dog that turns to a naked human, yes) Undertaker - Kuroshitsuji (again) Haruka Nanase - Free! Iwatobi...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 26

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    Jessie Ward from the This Man trilogy......yes please!!
    angiebaby78 angiebaby78 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I am going to be 18 in a few months. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. It's a long distance relationship. When we met, we were honest about our ages and had no...
    grizzlybeards grizzlybeards 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I'm falling so deep, just deeper and deeper in love, somebody stop me! If only every circumstance were different then we could be together, I picture it and I dream about it but...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    My brother is 3 years older than I am and he's great he's always there for me and he is one of the reasons why I'm still alive
    Ayeitsanaya Ayeitsanaya 13-15, F Apr 8

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    His name is Drake. He is 2 years older and he is a good brother. he loves to pull pranks on me which is sorta annoying at times but oh well :P He always will do things like taking...
    lynetteTheChic lynetteTheChic 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Besides getting cheated on ...there's always been this other boy who's always trying to grab my attention He's a football, baseball& basketball player for my school he's very...
    elitedancer14 elitedancer14 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    His name is Jeremy and he's 35 years old. He acts more like my dad than he does a brother since according to him "your father does not do enough to keep those teenage boys afraid...
    killyourhero killyourhero 16-17, F Apr 2