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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    I've been getting to know a guy

    that I think is totally amazing! He's atractive, smart, funny,successful, &...17th older than me! I'm absolutely crazy about him. When I read text from him I have that goofy smile on my face, & when I hear his voice my heart beats faster. I've got it bad for an older guy...
    SouthernBelle254 SouthernBelle254 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    I'Ve Never Stopped Loving Him...

    I graduated high school 2 years ago. I've loved this man for the past 7 years. It started out as a silly crush when he was my teacher and I was his student. But I'm an adult now and he is still the last thing I think about when I go to bed at night and he is still the first thing...
    MysteriousChick92 MysteriousChick92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Pseudo Relationship

    I like this guy who is 29 and I am almost 19. well the thing is, i've been talking to this one guy fr three years now. We've been in a pseudo relationship for a year now and he is already been taken. I always like him ever since we started talking. I know that what im doing is...
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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    Ode To Banana

    It’s been too long since I’ve had a crush on anyone. You forget those obnoxious feelings -- the inability to focus, random butterflies, and that damn longing to be near them. He doesn’t have my phone number, but I check it as if he did. He still won’t tell me his name...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F Aug 22, 2011

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    Most guy I have a crush on are always older

    for some reason even though I try not to its very hard and their always good men I have a crush on they always have great personalities .
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    They Talk

    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Honestly, it's too early to tell, but I feel like an obsessed teenager talking to this guy who is way older than me. I don't know why I fell for him as we hardly have anything in...
    UltraaViolencee UltraaViolencee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I'm so fascinated with older man. Especially if they try to pick up younger females. I am not in love with an older male, as I said I'm just fascinated with how they act.
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    i want an older man to call daddy and i want him to call me baby or princess. i am very submissive love being spoiled. would love if he was older then 27
    juanitac juanitac 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was nineteen when I kissed an older man in his late forties.Well actually he kissed me.Honestly, that was the best kiss I ever had.We were sitting in his car, warming up, while I...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I will miss him when he is gone.... It's been 2 years since I wrote my first post. My husband and I are still together, still making our way through life. I'm now 38 and he is 8...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000 36-40, F Aug 30

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    and I am an older man looking for a younger girl
    therapyguy therapyguy 56-60, M Sep 4

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    I Am A Young Girl Looking For An Older Man!What should I do?
    QearlLee QearlLee 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so horny and want to have s e x with older man like 40's-60's. ;)
    Elizabeth214444 Elizabeth214444 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so horny and want to have s e x with older man like 40's-60's. ;)
    Elizabeth214444 Elizabeth214444 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have 2 older brothers Matthias hes 28 and Alexander hes 21. I don't know what life would be like without these guys. Matt is pretty laid back he pretty much raised me and Alex! I...
    Gabbysthename Gabbysthename 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice. I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    He's 22 years older than me.. I just wanna say, age ain't nothin but a number. He doesn't even look his age. When we're standing next to each other and he's not in his business...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M Aug 28

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    I am looking for a young woman who is very open minded and wants to do some very kinky things with an older guy, maybe I should say old guy! I don't care what you are looking for...
    RunAwayToMe RunAwayToMe 51-55, M Aug 28

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    The older I get the more I enjoy staying in shape working out feeling good looking good & hitting my goal of having a six pack for my 50th next yeah had one through my 20''s lost...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 11

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    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet 😕
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Great. New school and already crushing on a straight girl who seemed surprised that I've never had a boyfriend. I'm more into girls especially YOU.
    lovelyloner143 lovelyloner143 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Or cyber with :) the older the Better come and get me
    Happiness412 Happiness412 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    I have a major crush on my female boss and it's driving me so crazy!! I've been working at my job for a little over a month now, and I can't help but to think about her all day...
    Lynnie21 Lynnie21 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm 16 and I love older men and women 😋
    jhopegirl jhopegirl 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My father being the manipulator... He was divorced from mum and jailed for a short term when I was 7 but I only found out why at 17. Before that, I was always 'daddy's little girl...
    TheBratPrince TheBratPrince 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Talking to a wonderful woman earlier, made me realize, how many celebrity look a likes I have dated in the past...rather insane and kinda Freudian like ...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M Aug 30

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I am 21 years old and I'm in a relationship with a 48 year old man. Before anyone asks "are you with him because you don't have a father/father figure?" This is NOT the case. I...
    sugarrmagnolia sugarrmagnolia 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    In April I met a man 14years my senior. He makes me feel beautiful and sexy that I'm the only woman in the world. We have got intimate over and over and I have never felt so...
    MsAphrodite MsAphrodite 36-40, F Sep 8

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    I turned 13 on April 18, and my boyfriends birthday was today.. And he is now 15. 2 years older than me... Two years.... Big ******* whoop... Four is older than tris by 2 years c...
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'll do anything for my older brother and I love him more then anything but when he TELL ME WHAT I'M GOING TO DO it's an absolute HELL NO! So to my brothers friend please stop...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25 and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I have a weakness for teens. I admit it.
    Justfantasies Justfantasies 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a deal for yu if yu willing to listen go read my experiences plz and inbox me serious ppl onli!!!
    ih8beingyung ih8beingyung 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I also have to recognize Liz Carlyle in Dame Stella Rimington's books.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Aug 23

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    Fred Weasley, Oliver Wood, Draco Malfoy, Tobias Eaton, Peeta Mellark, Finnick Odair, Mercutio (from Romeo and Juliet), Odysseus, Augustus Waters, Batman...... I have a problem
    wannabeweightless wannabeweightless 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    My brother is 32, lives with his gf and run their own business while working other jobs. She's a beautician and he is a web designer or graphic designer. He's actually really good...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F Aug 21