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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    They Talk

    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    I'Ve Never Stopped Loving Him...

    I graduated high school 2 years ago. I've loved this man for the past 7 years. It started out as a silly crush when he was my teacher and I was his student. But I'm an adult now and he is still the last thing I think about when I go to bed at night and he is still the first thing...
    MysteriousChick92 MysteriousChick92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    Pseudo Relationship

    I like this guy who is 29 and I am almost 19. well the thing is, i've been talking to this one guy fr three years now. We've been in a pseudo relationship for a year now and he is already been taken. I always like him ever since we started talking. I know that what im doing is...
    Jan 22, 2013

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    Most guy I have a crush on are always older

    for some reason even though I try not to its very hard and their always good men I have a crush on they always have great personalities .
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    I've been getting to know a guy

    that I think is totally amazing! He's atractive, smart, funny,successful, &...17th older than me! I'm absolutely crazy about him. When I read text from him I have that goofy smile on my face, & when I hear his voice my heart beats faster. I've got it bad for an older guy...
    SouthernBelle254 SouthernBelle254 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    Ode To Banana

    It’s been too long since I’ve had a crush on anyone. You forget those obnoxious feelings -- the inability to focus, random butterflies, and that damn longing to be near them. He doesn’t have my phone number, but I check it as if he did. He still won’t tell me his name...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F Aug 22, 2011

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    Since i already read a lot of stories in here maybe its time for me to share my story. So i have a secret crush to my girl best friend. We've been friends since we were in...
    stupid26 stupid26 18-21, M Jul 2

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Best Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com a website specifically designed for older man and younger woman relationships and older woman and younger man...
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    Best Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com a website specifically designed for older man and younger woman relationships and older woman and younger man...
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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN? "Datingayounerwoman.com is a newly launched unique dating service, which helps young girls looking for older men or vice-versa...
    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I am in love with an older man. He's 20 years older than I am. We are both single but have dated secretly for almost a year because we work together. Recently he has talked about...
    winelover1 winelover1 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have An older sister she's 21 . The oldest oF us . We'll how can I say it . That she is sharp tongue & have a big mouth . & I tend to get in a fights with her . I mean really big...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Jun 26

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    I have nearly died many times because of my asthma. When the BP Oil Spill happened, I couldn't even go outside without having trouble with my asthma. During the oil spill, I nearly...
    Katalynn17 Katalynn17 13-15, F Jul 11

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    Sometimes you can't help it really...They have traits that you wish you had or wish you didn't have but they overcome it. Or they're insanely gorgeous and you're half in love with...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T 1 Response Jun 30

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    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older. He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Oh, there are so many, but currently Jamie Fraser from the Outlander series. It is so easy to get attached to the characters in a well written story. I have had crushes on...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F a week ago

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    I was in middle school so everyone is either straight or in a steel closet so...my options were pretty narrow. I guess I was most likely crushing on how they exuded femininity...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jun 29

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    When I first saw Raphael from the game Rhythm Thief & the Emperor's Treasure back in 2012 or so, I absolutely despised him for some reason. I think it was because of how the game...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F Jul 7

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    Anyone have those moments where you really wish you were a celebrity so you can date your celebrity crush?
    xsecretsx xsecretsx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Anyone's crushing on Kanin from the Blood of Eden's trilogy by Julie Kagawa?
    QueenBookworm QueenBookworm 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm 3rd oldest or second youngest of 4 siblings, 2 older brothers the oldest being George who is 5 years older then Nicholas 3 years older than me then me and the youngest my...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    Captain Kirk. The new one. (Chris Pine.) AGH. And Wesley Crusher from ST:NG. UGHH. (is it worse that the real-life guy I like has the last name of kirk?)
    jasenamigala jasenamigala 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I'm 16 and love older men!
    primadonna1 primadonna1 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    Lately I've been wanting to tell my mother about my relationship with my boyfriend. He's 28 years older then me. I was close to telling her until last night she told me about...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    6 years ago when I was 10 my father died.... my brother didn't know how to deal with it properly he had just finished primary school and was moving onto high school, when he...
    ajafueko ajafueko 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    If I was able to marry ever fictional character I have a crush on, I'd have so my husband that if I had 1 - 2 kids with each I'd end up with almost a hundred kids.
    StringedPuppeteer StringedPuppeteer 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    he is 27 and im 17, his perfect. everything i ever imagined about that special someone (i love him so much, i can honestly sayy that i didnt think that it was possible to feel...
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I am looking for a married man to talk with on this ?
    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 5

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    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So its been nearly 22 years since i lost my older brother and his son who was only a year old and was burnt alive in a fire. I never even met him but i still miss him and my...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    My boyfriend is 20 years older than me . Im a mature 19 year old he's 38 .iv met his mom and she likes me . its like it doesn't even phase them . I think about sometimes but he's...
    breezyxxxo breezyxxxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16