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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I've been getting to know a guy

    that I think is totally amazing! He's atractive, smart, funny,successful, &...17th older than me! I'm absolutely crazy about him. When I read text from him I have that goofy smile on my face, & when I hear his voice my heart beats faster. I've got it bad for an older guy...
    SouthernBelle254 SouthernBelle254 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    I wasn't expecting to see him today,

    and when he walked in I was speechless. I was so stupid - I couldn't get any words out of my mouth. I just stood there like an idiot. BLARG.
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Feb 3

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    Sigh. I always pick the best ones.

    I have no idea why I like him so much - he's MUCH older than I am. But for some reason I can't stop thinking about him, and I look foreword to when he comes into work. I don't know. Maybe I just like men who would be a chaotic and messy relationship and is almost sure to...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the

    usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women Older Men Dating . Are you a man looking for a younger woman, or a woman seeking an older man? Everyone has their preferences in relationships...
    celinecc11 celinecc11 26-30, F Feb 2

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger...
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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    As long as your of legal age and know what you're getting into than by all means enjoy who you seek. Now a woman in her thirties desiring a man in his fifties is still a young girl...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    I love being the older man that younger women are attracted to. I've had a couple encounters lately that have really blown my mind, among other things.
    papajon papajon 46-50, M Feb 1

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    I'd love to talk to a nicer older man! Preferably not sexually right away! :) I want someone who knows how to hold a conversation.
    slavegirlshelbs slavegirlshelbs 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    There are just some characters you fall for and wish that they'd come to life in the middle of your book, appear in front of you laying there in their glory that is them.. the...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I'm 44 and he is 70 but he is experienced and successful and we share the same interests but I'm afraid of what other people will think especially the future he is older but he is...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 7 hrs ago

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    Yea I really am and I want to hear peoples opinions on the matter. Also this isn't some stupid fantasy sex story that ends up with me bedding him in some 50 shades way (not that I...
    JustAnotherDay04 JustAnotherDay04 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Doriatong Doriatong 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    So I posted about this before but never full disclosure. I'm in a relationship with my moms boyfriend (he's 27, I'm 20 and she's 52). Horrible I know, but basically this "thing...
    mysteros mysteros 18-21, F Feb 16

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    I really think I'm getting feelings for this boy, matter of fact he isn't a boy. He's a grown man. He's in his 20's and I'm 16 years old :( I don't know what wrong with me but my...
    kimcabreraa7 kimcabreraa7 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I forgot what it feels like to date a boy around my age. It feels uncomfortable to me, I'm always dating older men in there 30s and up but never 19, 20, 21 LOL
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I want a nice older friend
    ArtsyBitch ArtsyBitch 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 7

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    I feel I live in the wrong part of the world. Certainly in this country. Have talked with lots of younger girls who are very naughty and, at least say, want to get together...
    woodyone1 woodyone1 56-60, M Feb 19

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    How does your family deal with your relationship? I need advice on how to deal with my family. My mother, father, brother and sister all know about my relationship (we live...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I'm 18 I like talking with older gentlemen they're so interesting.
    silverfoot silverfoot 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a crush on Bucky from Captain america...lol
    SarahChevalier SarahChevalier 16-17, F Jan 31

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    I'd love to ask out my crush but he's kind of married...and gay...and fictional. :P
    churchdadatnight churchdadatnight 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    My crushes/loves would be Aaron Warner, Ashallyn'darkmyr Tallyn, Aiden St. Delphi, Maxon Schreave, Percy Jackson, James Carstairs, Will Herondale, Daemon Black (do any of these...
    ashlyn110 ashlyn110 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    He is the best today since I was learning how to close he called me at 12:41 and four minutes later I noticed it so I called him back but then I heard my manager say Brenda is fine...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am deeply in love with a man 27 years my senior (I'm 18). He loves me and we've been together for almost a year now. My family doesn't know about him. I am about to graduate from...
    shades4myfuture shades4myfuture 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Once upon a time, not that many years ago, I was out clubbing with some clients and colleagues from work. Out of the blue I accidentally ran into one of my son's former classmates...
    Domineer Domineer 51-55, M Feb 7

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    I fell in love with my manager at work, who's 25. I'm only 16, but age doesn't matter too much to me. The real problem is the fact that he's married, & he has a kid.. another issue...
    mikaelarosee mikaelarosee 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    There is 18 years between our ages. We have been married 25 years and I love everything about our life together except I want to be on the road in our camper van. He is happy...
    Cheat83ham Cheat83ham 66-70, F Feb 12

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    Today we started talking about getting married soon. Well, we have mentioned it here and there for years but TODAY he said the word "soon"! Ah I could jump for joy! I am 23, he's...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Feb 20