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I Have a Crush On An Older Man

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    See what you did, World's Dumbest?!

    Not a completely straight example, but counts 'cuz he's a celebrity. Well, here goes. I'm quite embarrassed about it. >//////< I have a thing for Leif Garrett. This guy just strikes me as really sexy for some reason (mind you, he was GORGEOUS back when he was a teenager). The...
    ShizukaFlame ShizukaFlame 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    I'Ve Never Stopped Loving Him...

    I graduated high school 2 years ago. I've loved this man for the past 7 years. It started out as a silly crush when he was my teacher and I was his student. But I'm an adult now and he is still the last thing I think about when I go to bed at night and he is still the first thing...
    MysteriousChick92 MysteriousChick92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2013

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    Timithy

    timothy is my best friends brother and i like him a lot hes 20 and im 16 sometimes i fantasize about usmaking love or just hanging out as a couple
    passion4life1995 passion4life1995 16-17, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Most guy I have a crush on are always older

    for some reason even though I try not to its very hard and their always good men I have a crush on they always have great personalities .
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    This Is Beyond A Crush.

    Ok here's the thing, he's much older than me, old enough to be my father and it's beyond a crush, I'm dating him.  I've always had crushes and a strong attraction to older men and he's the first I've ever dated.  I didn't see it coming, I never thought it would happen, but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 13, 2011

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    Pseudo Relationship

    I like this guy who is 29 and I am almost 19. well the thing is, i've been talking to this one guy fr three years now. We've been in a pseudo relationship for a year now and he is already been taken. I always like him ever since we started talking. I know that what im doing is...
    Jan 22, 2013

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    Ode To Banana

    It’s been too long since I’ve had a crush on anyone. You forget those obnoxious feelings -- the inability to focus, random butterflies, and that damn longing to be near them. He doesn’t have my phone number, but I check it as if he did. He still won’t tell me his name...
    LonelyKite LonelyKite 22-25, F Aug 22, 2011

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    "Old"

    First off: This is nothing that usually happens to me. It's not that I always look around for older men or something. This is really just to do with him. I spent some time thinking about how it comes that I'm crushing on this man who is 40 years older than me. And I came to the...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2008

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    A Handle?

    I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 5 months. Hes 34 and im 20. When I first met him I didnt think age was a problem because I automatically fell for him. He has a certain charm that I couldent seem to resist. I have always been into older guys. I didnt start having my...
    marbear marbear 18-21 4 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I've been getting to know a guy

    that I think is totally amazing! He's atractive, smart, funny,successful, &...17th older than me! I'm absolutely crazy about him. When I read text from him I have that goofy smile on my face, & when I hear his voice my heart beats faster. I've got it bad for an older guy...
    SouthernBelle254 SouthernBelle254 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    Pure Admiration

    I always do especially to a man who almost know everything. I learn a lot from them that help me to develop my personality. I love interrogating them to know how they have overcome their greatest problems in life. It's pure friendship and admiration. I'm not expecting to...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F May 14, 2010

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    Cherrymadness

    I have come to realize love truly is inevitable. A year ago I wouldn't have expected to fall for my teacher but I did. It wasn't the "love at first sight" but he slowly grew onto me. I have always had a soft spot for older man, maybe because of their intelligence? Or it can also...
    LoveStruck95 LoveStruck95 18-21, F Jun 17, 2012

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    Crush Gone To Far For Me To Handle?

    I had a crush on my best friends relation... Never thought anything would actually happen between us but i used the **** it option to quickly and felt things.so deep for a man when really my expectations where higher than him. It all get out of my deph resulting in me having to...
    dreaming1233 dreaming1233 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    No, The Fact That I've Joined This Group Does Not Mean That I Am Looking Specifically For Older Men.

    Now, I know that posting in this particular group makes me a target for guys who are on the hunt for younger girls, but please guys try that crap on somebody else. Now that I got the disclaimer out of the way, I'll tell you why I joined this group. I joined because I've had a...
    Veryrandomgirl8 Veryrandomgirl8 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2013

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    He Is A Cat Guy And I Am A Must Love Dogs Kind Of Woman

    He is old enough to be my father and has in and out of my life since my divorce, calls himself my oldest friend and spoils me rotten. His latest job will have him in Germany until November. Its a fairytale better in the retelling kind of thing. We both try way to hard so friends...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jun 14, 2013

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    They Talk

    I have a crush on this guy and I no he likes me too we could go together well I no it but I'm 18 and he's 31 I'm worryed what people will say an think so I haven't sead yes to being with him yet ...
    Beeatrixx Beeatrixx 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Actually, i am the older man looking for a young girl. A girl that wants to be dominated online and needs regurlar punishing.
    DomPie DomPie 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know that on this group only 9 people are active, but i dont care. It makes us rare and unique, doesnt it? Well how can i start? I became obsessed with fashion models exactly 4...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Aug 10

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    i have a crush on a manga charter named Nea walker in d gray man
    gowerewolfs gowerewolfs 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am in love with my man who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older. He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    i keep getting older physically but i don't feel any older
    7ftstud 7ftstud 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    my boyfriend is 12 years older than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful...
    shortay413 shortay413 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I am loving a man and he is 15 years older than me. He is my relative. I love him so dearly and I want to marry him. My age is 19. Is this fine to decide my life partner at this...
    uthayashree uthayashree 18-21 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I don't know if I should regret my decision but the other day my friend and I went out to a bar full of people in their 40s and 50s and lots of guys were hitting on me but I knew...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Would love to talk to an older guys who wants to be with a younger girl (;
    PrincessKelly28 PrincessKelly28 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Lately I've been wanting to tell my mother about my relationship with my boyfriend. He's 28 years older then me. I was close to telling her until last night she told me about...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    When I was a little girl, I crushed on Batman and Robin. I wanted them both.
    livingasme livingasme 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I just like them more. The experience the understanding the compassion and passion. Older men are sexy. And they have awesome skills. And I love the way they dress and smell!
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I've never had sex with a man, but lately I think about it all the time. I want to find another man my age also eager to have sex with a man for the first time.
    padraig412 padraig412 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    i wanna marry 51 years old man, and I'm 26 now. he has 0 in his bank account. he has financial problem, he has 2 kids from his ex wife, and his kids don't want me to marry their...
    ajenkk ajenkk 26-30 3 Responses a week ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    So, so many that I can barely name all of them... The 10th Doctor, Link, Rory Williams, Romano Vargas, Feliciano Vargas, Ludwig and Gilbert Beilschmidt... That's not to say I...
    ledarkknightess ledarkknightess 13-15, F Aug 1

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    I just turned 19 & I think it would be so sexy to be with a guy like 30-40. Experience is such a turn on and I bet someone that age would have a lot. That's like my biggest fantasy...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 26

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    HELP!!! So this guy had started messaging me over FB and our conversations would twice a week and before we would never talk and now I know when he's going to message me and he is...
    JLH3DWT JLH3DWT 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Who is tired all the time and does not want to have sex like I want to. :(
    shortandstacked shortandstacked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    Im dating a guy whos 27 im 19 but we are both as mature as each other and have a great relationship.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Niall Horan, Luke Hemmings, Elyar Fox and Ross Lynch. I have a thing for blonde hair and blue eyes or blonde hair and brown hair. Idk they're all so attractive it's unbelievable
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Every time we talk, whether its a normal conversation or an argument she always has to make a comment about my intelligence. She always says stuff like "how do you expect to go to...
    neveur91 neveur91 22-25, F Aug 6

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    1) If something has to exist first before it can "ask" for anything, then does that mean nothing whatsoever asked to exist? 2) If we didn't choose to be born or choose our body...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    my mom orders way to many for me to count
    rruser27 rruser27 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    There's a guy who just texted me for about the fifth time this summer. He just went to college this year and I am in my underclassman years in high school (point is, there is a...
    TechnaGirl13 TechnaGirl13 22-25, F 3 days ago