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I Have a Crush On My Best Friend

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    It is currently April 2014, and I have been texting her since September. She is the person I could turn to when no one else was there for me. The person I could speak to about...
    AwesomeGardevoir AwesomeGardevoir 16-17, M Apr 9

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    It Finally Hits Me - I've been knowing this guy for all my life basically, we go to the same church and thats how we met. We were really close to the point we viewed each other...
    Midorilee Midorilee 16-17, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Hanging Out - So I'm hanging out with him now and all I want is a hug and for him to ask me out! How hard is that... Why can't i just figure out is he likes me?
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    One of my friends posted this thing on instagram and it said this....... "Hi. I'm a boy. Here's how it goes.....I'm gonna flirt with you, then diss you. I'll send you mixed...
    alwaysgonnabethatgirl alwaysgonnabethatgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    It's Always Been You - You found me over three years ago. Actually, God found you for me. We were just friends, and that was enough. A year and a half ago, we started talking every...
    BrinaButtercup BrinaButtercup 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    He Got Really Jealous - My lunch table at school has all of my close friends at it. Including my best guy friend who i also really like. Monday one of the guys that I got really...
    alwaysgonnabethatgirl alwaysgonnabethatgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    So I've been hanging out with my friend Kasin lately and I just recently came out of the closet so to speak to him. He didn't judge me and he was actually pretty cool with it but...
    jacobz16 jacobz16 16-17, M Mar 24

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    4th Grade - My best friend and I have been best friends since 4th grade we "dated" in 6th but it was nothing... Ever since 7-8th grade I have REALLY started to like him... I think...
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 13-15, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Known him for almost 4 years since I moved here. I've liked him for 2. I'd rather keep my mouth shut to keep him around forever than to confess and lose him then.
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My Gay Puppy Love - Well I met him while I was in Montana. I was going to live with my mom for a year (my parents are divorced and I haven't seen my mom in four years) so my second...
    Altarin777 Altarin777 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    Even After 4 Years - Even after 4 years I still find myself as in love with her as the day I first fell. During these 4 years she's had crushes and relationships with almost 20...
    linkni777 linkni777 18-21, M Nov 19, 2013

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    What Now ...? - So last time ive come here ,, i was just wondering if it was the right moment to tell my crush that i like her,i wasnt scared to tell her or anything . Then i...
    Anonymous6849684 Anonymous6849684 18-21 Jul 3, 2013

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    I Am 100% In Love With My Best Friend. - So, it all started out when we were 12. My best friend and I met in 7th grade. We immediatly hit it off, seeing as we are both big film...
    LGMC LGMC 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I'Ve Been In Love With My Best Friend For Two Years - I've been good friends with girl for three years (met in sophomore year of college). We met when she started dating my...
    hopelesslve hopelesslve 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    I Don't Want To Like Her The Way I Do. - first of all, I'm 17 and my best friend is 14. for years i have considered us basically brother and sister. but completely out of the blue...
    porkipine19 porkipine19 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Can You Help Me Here? - My best friend and I are special, we just fit each other perfectly. We think the same but i like him. like..a lot. and he liked me before and he told me( I...
    iwishyouamerrychristmas iwishyouamerrychristmas 16-17 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    My Definition Of Beauty Is Her.. - My friend, she like my best friend. Shes my only real true friend because i hate absolutly everyone and she totally understands my hate...
    letmebreathe letmebreathe 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    Birthday - Tomorrow is his birthday and I don't know what to get him he wants to hang out on Friday so u have till then all he told me is he likes giraffes :/ what should I do?!
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I'M Not Sure - Okay. So my childhood best friend had moved away in second grade. We recently got back in touch. (We're freshman) He's so nice and we've become kinda close. We haven...
    taylorjanet taylorjanet 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    My Best Guy Friend, I like him. - Me and my best guy friend are firends for a little bit more then 3 yrs now. And when we became friends, he was just a friend to me, but after 1...
    littlewolf1 littlewolf1 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    He Is A Great Guy. - We spend a lot of time together. We have a similar sense of humor, we're both open-minded and mature people. I feel like there is a lot that we could...
    LovingLeila LovingLeila 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    My Awkward Crush - I have a crush on my friend, and have had for 6 months now. After 6 months, I found out that having a crush on my friend wasn't awkward enough, my crush had a...
    Emotions3114 Emotions3114 22-25, M Sep 20, 2013

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    I Love Him! - He's my best friend in the whole wide world. We've only been friends for a year, we met last year at school while he was dating this ex-friend of mine. I was always...
    VioolntKat15 VioolntKat15 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Why Did It Have To Be Him ? - So it all started in seventh grade.....i was the girl stuck in the corner reading the percy jackson book when the boy across from me notice the book...
    1 Response Feb 9, 2013

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    Butterflies - I just cant get him out of my mind. Hes my bestfriend and he literally so adorable and so sweet to me. I just think its weird for me to have a crush on him. I always...
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    My Best Friend <3 - Well I'm going to make this as short as possible. So, I've liked this boy for about three years and I've known him since kindergarden. We became best...
    Crunchy20 Crunchy20 13-15, F Dec 21, 2012

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    My Not-boyfriend Friend - So, for about 2 months, I have been friends with a boy named Cody. I really like him. He is SO funny and SO cute. I have told him he is my best friend and...
    MiddleSchoolChick MiddleSchoolChick 13-15 Oct 20, 2013

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    He knows I do and he knows how I feel about him but he doesn't care
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 4

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    I Would Marry Him - So, me and my little sister went over to her friends house. We got there & got on her trampoline. After jumping for a while, we sat on the trampoline and talked...
    VioolntKat15 VioolntKat15 13-15, F Jan 20, 2013

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    Why? - There are many people that I refer to as my "best friend." The one I was talking about has been my friend for the longest. I know every bit of his face and I haven't seen it...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F Jan 7, 2013

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    What Does It Mean!?! - One day in class, my best girl friend grabbed my phone, like she usually does, and went through some messages from my best guy friend. She looked at me and...
    VioolntKat15 VioolntKat15 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    My Revilation - So I found one of my best friends from 5th grade right, well he seemed happy and so was I. But just today we got to talking about what we think of modern society...
    Altarin777 Altarin777 13-15, M Apr 13, 2012

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    Crushing On A Best Friend And Obsessing About It!! - I've registered on this website just now, after I got it in search results about crushing on your best friend. So, I thought...
    xtonaZ xtonaZ 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Crushed - I have never kissed anyone. I have had really strong feelings for this guy since primary school... And always thought i was straight until the age of 12. It was then i...
    luckystar085 luckystar085 16-17, F Jan 19, 2013

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    We Like Each Other - So, one night my best guy friend and I were texting and then my other friend texted him saying he should ask me out. He was like, here's the thing, I like you...
    VioolntKat15 VioolntKat15 13-15, F Nov 20, 2012

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    Ever since the first day I saw him I knew I liked him. When I saw him first all that went through my mind is that I know I can't have him but if he's at least my friend I'll be...
    fredlez2306 fredlez2306 13-15, M Mar 18

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    I Have A Damn F-Ucking Crush On My Friend. - I'll make it extremely simple . I (dude) have a damn crush on my friend( girl). I hate this damn feeling. It transform me into a...
    Anonymous6849684 Anonymous6849684 18-21 2 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    My Best Friend - I have a crush on my best friend. I don't know what to do. He has been my best friend for 2 years. I like really like him. He know s that i like him. Well we have...
    ashleigh5 ashleigh5 16-17, F Mar 21, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Do - Me and my best friend have known each other since the 5th grade, almost 4 years now. I am totally into guys but with her i feel differently like we should...
    FallingHard7777 FallingHard7777 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2012

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    We got in this huge fight and he has been treating me like **** ever since then! Ugh! I just want my old best friend back!!!!!!
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 13-15, F Jan 13

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