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I Have a Crush On My Best Friend

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    Dear Vc,

    Hey Daniel, it's me. You know, that random girl from math class? That random girl who you asked to marry you in kindergarten? Well I have a question; can I say yes now? I didn't know you in kindergarten; I didn't know how amazing you were; and how that smile of yours would get me...
    iAmTheNewGirl iAmTheNewGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    My Gay Puppy Love

    Well I met him while I was in Montana. I was going to live with my mom for a year (my parents are divorced and I haven't seen my mom in four years) so my second day at school I met this cute guy who seemed really nice. Well, we became great friends in like three days, and I could...
    Altarin777 Altarin777 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    Is this wrong? I hope not.

    Hes really sweet and appreciates everything i tell him. He makes me laugh a lot and always wants to be around me. He makes me so happy. And i dont know if he might have a thing for me too. He always hugs me and rests his head on my shoulder in class. And he sometimes makes this...
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I've been in love with her

    for more then six years , what is odd on my age but i loved her for i dont know what reason it was then , she is amazing and now we're even togheter but its a long story .
    jackxd5 jackxd5 13-15, M Aug 23

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    It is currently April 2014,

    and I have been texting her since September. She is the person I could turn to when no one else was there for me. The person I could speak to about anything. Dreams or just how i am feeling or past events. Despite this I have only seen her a couple of times in person. She is...
    AwesomeGardevoir AwesomeGardevoir 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    Butterflies

    I just cant get him out of my mind. Hes my bestfriend and he literally so adorable and so sweet to me. I just think its weird for me to have a crush on him. I always smile when hes around and we usually text when we both get home from school and sometimes he sits next to me on...
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    My Best Guy Friend, I like him.

    Me and my best guy friend are firends for a little bit more then 3 yrs now. And when we became friends, he was just a friend to me, but after 1 and a half year. I started to got feelings for him. I really like him. He is funny, and really smart, we both do A-levels (atheneum in...
    littlewolf1 littlewolf1 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I am in love with him.

    He is so sweet and kind. He makes me happy. He always is there for me. No matter how many times I tock him off or make him mad he makes me smile every time we talk. I giggle so much and make annoying noises and he just laughs. He's mad at me right now but hopefully he will get...
    Cupcakalicious15 Cupcakalicious15 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I need someone to talk to

    and be able to say anything to
    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I have a crush on my best friend.

    ..he is strait...I thought I was bit then I realized I really like him....I actually love him but....I can't loose him....what should i do?? Please help me :(
    jaylynnfox jaylynnfox 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    We got in this huge fight

    and he has been treating me like **** ever since then! Ugh! I just want my old best friend back!!!!!!
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 16-17, F Jan 13

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    One of my friends posted this thing on instagram

    and it said this....... "Hi. I'm a boy. Here's how it goes.....I'm gonna flirt with you, then diss you. I'll send you mixed messages, hit on your friends, lie to you. Then i will lead you on so you fall for me. I'll make you happy for a night, but tomorrow, I'll completely...
    alwaysgonnabethatgirl alwaysgonnabethatgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    So I'm so confused my "friend" says he only

    likes me as a friend then in the car he was holding my hand (he's done it before) he always sings love songs to me he even picked me up and swung me around and put me down but he says I'm just his friend ?
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I think I do. You see,

    I hadn't seen her in two years and we met up last weekend. It was great fun and it turned out we both liked similar things. We would discuss all kinds of things, TV shows, youtubers. Anything. Even slightly rude stuff. And now I haven't seen her for a day and I feel really sad...
    Angel1509 Angel1509 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    Ever since the first day I saw him I knew I

    liked him. When I saw him first all that went through my mind is that I know I can't have him but if he's at least my friend I'll be happy. Now I'm thinking he has a little crush on me
    fredlez2306 fredlez2306 13-15, M Mar 18

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    My Definition Of Beauty Is Her..

    My friend, she like my best friend. Shes my only real true friend because i hate absolutly everyone and she totally understands my hate twards people. She doesnt judge me, even if i do some crazy get sent to a mental house ****. And i love her. I truly love her. Shes...
    letmebreathe letmebreathe 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    I have a crush in my friend he is

    so cute but idk if he likes me he acts like it sometimes and then he doesn't and I'm afraid that he's gonna find someone else we've been talkin about our future about getting an apartment together but idk what to say to him idk how to tell him I like him :/ and I'm kind if...
    Boobear420 Boobear420 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    I have a crush on my best friend

    if you read my posts you know him as jake
    Cosplaygirl Cosplaygirl 18-21, F May 3

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    I'm sorry ok... I'm sorry I'm messed up,

    I'm sorry I'm not skinny, or pretty, I'm sorry I'm not the girl you fell in love with, I'm sorry I fell in love with you, I'm sorry we became friends 7 years ago, I'm sorry i said hi that today, I'm sorry I'm still here, I'm sorry I'm still trying to be friends, I'm sorry I...
    Maddyslife Maddyslife 16-17, F Jun 9

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    Story of my life . He's there

    for me through everything . I tell him all my secrets and he shares his . We tease and wrestle each other and laugh about the silliest things . I've had a few dreams about him . Not dirty and some opposite of that . And he's the first one I tell . Idc how embarassing it is. He...
    lilmisslouhoo lilmisslouhoo 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    He's gay, but looks like he stepped out of a

    magazine. So super hot! Anyway, he doesn't date or has he ever dated a girl. What drives me nuts is he will walk around barely dressed or want to cuddle with me while watching movies! Even let's me share a bed with him if I stay over. He's blind to the fact that I'm crushing on...
    mollybean123 mollybean123 22-25, F Jun 14

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    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Feb 4

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    I Am 100% In Love With My Best Friend.

    So, it all started out when we were 12. My best friend and I met in 7th grade. We immediatly hit it off, seeing as we are both big film fanatics, and we both want to be in the film industry. I am bisexual, and I started having a thing for him when we were 14. 2 years into our...
    LGMC LGMC 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I'm Not Sure If I Like Him Or Not....i Think I Do Though, No Matter How Much I Deny It!

    me and this guy have been good friends for almost 7 yrs. (since he was 7 and I was 8) he is 14 and I am 15. We are pretty close and are families are close as well (my mom is best friends with his mom) we used to play together and he used to tease me (make fun of me tease) now...
    katieharkemarules katieharkemarules 18-21 Mar 25, 2010

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    I'Ve Been In Love With My Best Friend For Two Years

    I've been good friends with girl for three years (met in sophomore year of college). We met when she started dating my suitemate in the dorms, and in a matter of months, she became one of my best friends. We'd crack inside jokes with each other, and we'd tease each other...
    hopelesslve hopelesslve 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    There is this girl I really like.

    She's my best friend. I told her I like her, but she said she just saw me as a friend. I think it was okay so I lived on. While I was on vacation a few weeks later, I thought; I should get over her, I don't want to be let down again. So I met an English girl (I'm dutch) on...
    xFredje xFredje 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    So I like my best friends

    who is a guy, but he is really awkward and I don't know how to act around him. See he is really adorably and socially awkward, so when me and a group of friends try and get him to go somewhere he said their is too many people. And I cant hang out with him more. Also I don't know...
    toomanyproblem58 toomanyproblem58 13-15, F May 6

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    ragnarcc ragnarcc 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I have been best friends with this boy

    for almost 10 years now. But 3 years ago, I knew he was "the one". I haven't been attracted to him, though. Until now. I want to express to him how I feel, but I'm scared up the consequences. If we end up dating and things don't work out, I don't want that to be the end. A world...
    lleexxii lleexxii 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    my best friend who i smoke with all the time,

    i think im falling for him. I really do not want to screw up our friendship though......
    AphroditeM AphroditeM 18-21, F Jul 22

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    So I've been hanging out with my friend Kasin

    lately and I just recently came out of the closet so to speak to him. He didn't judge me and he was actually pretty cool with it but now that I've done that I realized that I have a major crush on him like everytime I look into his eyes I get lost thinking of what it would be...
    jacobz16 jacobz16 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    My Best Friend <3

    Well I'm going to make this as short as possible. So, I've liked this boy for about three years and I've known him since kindergarden. We became best friends pretty fast after we started talking more. I sit by all of my close friends at lunch including him. We ended up...
    Crunchy20 Crunchy20 13-15, F Dec 21, 2012

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    It'S Awkward

    My best friend has been the best best friend I could wish for. She gets my sense of humour, she likes the same tv shows and books. We're both kinda geeky too. She's also the only person (apart from you guys) who knows I'm bi and she's ok with it. She even points out cute girls...
    curiousgeekyme curiousgeekyme 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Crushing On A Best Friend And Obsessing About It!!

    I've registered on this website just now, after I got it in search results about crushing on your best friend. So, I thought maybe it I shared my story too I'll feel better about it. Well, first of all, I'm Muslim and I'm living in Egypt. It's kinda hard here for a girl to...
    xtonaZ xtonaZ 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    I have developed feelings

    for my best friend. We have gotten really close we talk like everyday, and we share secrets. We are both 14 and I've never had a bf and he has never had a gf. Should I tell him how I feel? And do you think he likes me back? We play fight, and we bicker at each other when we get...
    FunkyStrunky FunkyStrunky 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    He Is A Great Guy.

    We spend a lot of time together. We have a similar sense of humor, we're both open-minded and mature people. I feel like there is a lot that we could learn from each other. Most importantly, I feel so comfortable around him. He brings out the best in me and I bring out the...
    LovingLeila LovingLeila 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    Known him for almost 4 years

    since I moved here. I've liked him for 2. I'd rather keep my mouth shut to keep him around forever than to confess and lose him then.
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I have a crush on my friend /coworker named

    Matthew. He is in national guard and also writes on the side. He sends me his writings and we can text eachother all day until the conversation finally comes to a halt. I know he knows I like him and sometimes I feel like he's playing with my emotions by sending me those oh so...
    mustardstarr mustardstarr 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    Today is my birthday

    and all I want is for my crush to say "well now that you are 17 and I feel less awkward about dating a 17 year old. How about we go out on a date?!"
    mustardstarr mustardstarr 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Yeah. Yes I do. She's pretty amazing.

    She has that "it". Confidant. Funny. Honest. Attractive. And when she's nervous, she tends to bite her lip.......and she looks so cute when she does it. :).
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 4

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    Even After 4 Years

    Even after 4 years I still find myself as in love with her as the day I first fell. During these 4 years she's had crushes and relationships with almost 20 people, I'd be a liar if I didn't say it bothered me...but I'm more than happen being everything I can be for her. I know...
    linkni777 linkni777 18-21, M Nov 19, 2013

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    I don't have a best friend. Plain and simple. I have plenty of friends, and don't have problems making them. But I think I've been making all the wrong types of friends. The ones...
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    I have 2 best friends. I am glad that they're my best friends because they are awesome,funny,amazing, they give really good advice lol. I'm also glad they're my best friends...
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    Maybe it is a generational thing, or maybe it is a male thing, but I do not have a best friend. I have a wife, kids, lots of work friends, friends from long ago who are my...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 10

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    In the past I used to have a really good set of people/social skills so much so that I was popular in primary school. I had a best friend then after a year at the same school they...
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    We had been best friends, inseparable since, kindergarden, but then we had to go and fall for each other and then break up and get dramatized. We would have been a perfect couples...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Sep 20

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 12

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    When u find a best friend, enjoy the friendship, don't take each others for granted and always be good to each others. I have no best mate, a male or a female. I'm 43. I know I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Sep 12

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    I don't understand why boys and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    My best friend; his name is Skyler, a few years ago he was the first person I came out to and he came out to me first too, since then we've been the best of friends.
    Distancexx Distancexx 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    We're the three musketeers.We even have a little singing group. I'm the Beyoncé of the group.We'll be friends forever.We'll go to each other's wedding, have babies at the same...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F Sep 5