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I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    It's only been 2 days without seeing him,

    but I miss him so much. It's driving me crazy.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I have a crush on my female boss

    and she's 20 years older than me and I love her so much and when she's around me I wanna hold her close and kiss her and I have this tingly feeling when she around and sometimes when we are alone I feel like I want to kiss her? Help
    beckslou beckslou 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    I just talked to my boss on the phone

    and asked him if he needs me on Labor Day. He said no and told me to enjoy my day off. Sad that I won't see him, but talking to him on a Saturday just made my day.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    This is insane. Seriously.

    We're the same age and I don't know his relationship status, but he knows mine. Single as single gets. I was dating a MM and I was an OW but it got too risky. We're still friends. But besides that recently I've had some personal issues to include my ex husband attempting suicide...
    ballroommarine ballroommarine 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Our team went out to dinner the other day,

    and I got to sit next to my boss. We talked a lot. We started talking about ages, and he said, "You're only as old as you feel," and squeezed his arm with his other hand. So I lightly punched his arm to see how hard it was. Then suddenly he said, shockingly, "ARE YOU HITTING ON...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I am a female and my boss is female.

    I think she is so cute! I am a new hire and I've been on the job for less than a month. She approached me on my second day and said she had been watching me and that I was such a hard worker. It came time for my first review and she said I had been doing a great job and she also...
    sumsang sumsang 31-35 2 Responses Sep 13

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    This feels very wrong

    but good at the same time. I'm his assistant I'm 25 I have a boyfriend He's a project manager He's 49 He's single He could come across as someone who's not very nice, but he's actually very nice. He's also a workaholic, so it's not surprising that he is single. I want to be...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    I can't say the details,

    but I have a feeling that he likes me. But he's trying not to show it or have anything happen. It could just be me thinking that, but it makes me so happy. I can't control my smile when he stares at me. I get so excited when he teases me. I hope he feels the same.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I have the wildest feelings

    for her. She's 100% crazy in a good way. But sometimes I feel like we totally get each other and I laugh too hard or she laughs too hard or we both laugh too hard or we touch briefly or we look deep in each others eyes but it's all just great. I love it.
    elanordee elanordee 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Actually one of my boss's had a crush on me

    and would get very very weird if it was just us two. I'm glad she quit because it was too weird but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to have that shallow hate and awkwardness taunting over me. I made sure to tell my girlfriend every but of it.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    From Mean To Lovely (I add to this story frequently)

    I'm 17 and I have a huge crush on my 30 year old, recently married, female store manager. She used to be quite mean to me, probably because she focuses SO hard on her job and I was ditsy and didn't really care about the work. She'd always be hostile and unhappy with me, but...
    witcheslair witcheslair 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    So my boss has been flirting wih me ALOT lately

    I feel. My friend aty job says that he looks at me a lot and watches me if I walk by. And recently last shift I was putting up plates and I'm kind if short so I couldn't reach so I had to stretch and so my but was poking out a little and he just stood right behind me waiting...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Ever since I started working at my job,

    about a year and a half ago, I thought that one of my bosses was very attractive. I believe he's in his mid thirties and he's married with one kid. Him and I seem to have the same personality, so I just thought that he was really attractive and nothing more...until about two...
    XxMarie09xX XxMarie09xX 18-21, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I Am Ridiculous....

    I am a mom and a wife and despite those things, I have a Hot Mess of a Raging Schoolgirl Crush on my Boss!!!! I don't want to leave my husband - and I seriously doubt that he would want to leave his wife - we both have children - BUT - there is so much CHEMISTRY between us that...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 32 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Silly

    I have three bosses you could say, there is one that is the manager and two assistant managers. One of the assistant managers is probably in his 40's or 50's, and I have a serious crush on him. I don't know how to act or think on this. I clearly have no shot with him, and I feel...
    lightsaboveus89 lightsaboveus89 18-21, F 7 Responses May 24, 2011

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    One & Only

    I am obsessed with him. He radiates light and warmth when he walks into a room. He makes my days a joy. At the end of each day, my heart grieves because I have to leave him. I pour all this passion into my work. He has never had a PA like me, and he never will. I am his one and...
    LadyMagma LadyMagma 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Bad Idea On So Many Levels

        I have a deadly hard crush on my boss.  He's 22 years older than me.  We work very closely, and he drives me crazy... scattered, unorganized... but so hot it's distracting.  When he walks into the room, I can feel my hormones light up.  And...
    libertyblue libertyblue 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I don't know but.. I like him.

    CU's I like guys like him.. high sense of humour.. quite smart.. as if I can rely on him on anything. :) actually, even though I know how to do a certain task, I still seek for his help. :) it makes me really happy when he helps me and we are having a fun chat Convo.. I just...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F Oct 31

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    He has been my boss for 3 years now.

    We are both gay men which I think makes this all a bit trickier. We have been through similar life experiences and we spend a lot of time (on the clock) talking About different things I'm going through (personally) He does special favors for me at work, favors I know he wouldn...
    ItalianEnzo ItalianEnzo 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    So about May i got hired

    as a temp for my new job. i instantly thought my Supervisor was attractive. but i let the though go because one he was my Boss and two my Boyfriend (now ex) works there too. i became friends with alot of the workers there and my boyfriend and i were trying to rekindle an...
    Wolfey777 Wolfey777 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    how do I get to know

    that my boss likes me or he is just being nice?
    problemchapter problemchapter 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's totally inappropriate

    and wrong, but I can't help it. I just went through a divorce. He is old enough to be my father, and he even joked around about it, saying I could be his daughter. He had a big grin on his face. He has pushed boundaries in the past, which is why I feel I'm always drawn to the...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I've been working at my job

    for a little over a year and about three months ago I realized I'm extremely attracted to my older married female boss. I told a couple of my coworkers which resulted in everyone I work with knowing. The problem is my boss recently confided in a couple of us that she has just...
    ryinkelsin ryinkelsin 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I feel like I've lost myself in my thoughts.

    No matter who I talk to, it's always the same answer...get over it! I'm stubborn, that's no question. But, getting over it...has not happened. I started a new position in a new store. I was excited and thrilled! After a few weeks the store calmed down and I started to really...
    misslc333 misslc333 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Intellectual Attraction

    I have no intention of doing anything and the weird thing about my story is that the attraction isn't physical. It's intellectual. He is very good at reading people, and he doesn't try to hide how analytical he is. He is always questioning things and trying to figure things out...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    I Told My Supervisor I Have A Crush On Him

    I'm so impulsive sometimes I just have to sit back and laugh at myself LOL. I've had a crush on my supervisor for a few months now but have never told him but I have been flirting with him every chance that I get so I'm pretty sure that he knew beforehand that I have the hots for...
    funnyceecee29 funnyceecee29 26-30, F 3 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Damn sexual tension. We can't think straight

    around each other! There is NO way known that we would ever do anything about it. He's married with three kids. I am in a long term relationship. I just can't get him out of my head.
    clareak clareak 36-40, F Nov 30

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    I've heard that a lot

    if people misunderstand my boss. He doesn't open up to people and can be pretty mean at times. But I think he's starting to open up to me. He tells me about how he feels about other people, his cat (who he dearly loves), and he teases my a lot. Even though our ages difference is...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Just A Harmless Crush, A Victimless Crime Really

    First let me say that I believe the crush is mutual and that neither of us will ever disclose or act on it.  It may not even be mutual, but that doesn't matter.  This delightful crush does not affect work, except to make the mundane a bit more exciting.  It gives me extra...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    He's a professional photographer

    and im his assitant. Im with him a lot and we have intamate conversations sometimes. But man oh man do i fantasize about him. I dont think that he even knows how hard im crushing maybe because hes so busy.
    wellthathappenes wellthathappenes 22-25, T Oct 2

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    bored87 bored87 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Hope He Doesn't Read

     It is so uncanny! I got this job in the middle of Nov. and I remember thinking at the interview that he sure is cute. He told me he had never had such a long interview with anyone, and that no one had said what I did. Even at the interview we both noticed things we have in...
    Katiedid9508 Katiedid9508 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    I Escaped Her.

    Well, I did it.  The pretty blonde boss is no longer my boss.  I was able to transfer to another boss (male).  The problem is that this new boss is more of a stricter hardass than my previous boss.  So I'm wondering if avoiding this new boss crush was worth it...
    kyleco kyleco 46-50 Feb 9, 2009

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    I Had A Crush On My Boss.

    I worked at a Boy Scout camp this summer. The program director was really funny, and he had a cool beard and these awesome boots. He's 28, so that makes him 10 years older than me. Anyways I just thought he was super ******* awesome and I had a crush on him. He had everything I...
    superkendra superkendra 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    Stupid Thanksgiving Holiday Means 6 Days Of No Cute Boss. Anyone Else.....

    feel this way? I used to LOVE the holidays, but now I hate them because they are so unproductive in my irrational plan to have a hot, torrid affair with my boss. I don't want to leave my husband, and I don't want him to leave his wife - but I do want to jump his bones in the...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    I Can't Get Him Off My Mind...going On 2 Years.

    My supervisor is a 35 year old man. Never been married, never had kids. I can tellhe's lonley but he dosen't really let it show. He's a rule follower and is one of the good guys. He dosen't drink and dosen't like to break the rules. Im 20 years old and I have admired him from...
    shelbiperry shelbiperry 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    I'm a female in my late twenties (nearly 30 :)

    and I'm gay. I've dated many women but am now single. I just interviewed for a new job where I could pick between 2 different roles. A little over a week into the job I'm realizing that I may have picked this role because of the boss and the fact that I'm starting to crush on...
    powerof2 powerof2 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Today, my boss joked about me being flirty.

    .. To this random guy. Obviously, I was not because I have a crush on my boss, not this other guy. I felt myself flushing red as I frantically denied it, and I was worried that it gave the wrong message. Then he started giving me advices on how to be that guy's girlfriend, even...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I Have A Crush On My Boss

    I work for a law firm.  During the past 3 years I have been assistant to one of the associates.  He is not the kind of guy I would usually go out with, however I feel soooooo attracted to him. I have no problem talking or working with him.  In fact, we make a great team.  We...
    dreamer1609 dreamer1609 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    I'm a Sucker For Kindness

      I’ve been having a crush on my boss for a few months now, since I started working there half a year ago. When I first started working there, I was really stressed and felt very incompetent. Many of my co-workers didn’t like me because I didn’t know much...
    daimntawv daimntawv 22-25 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Omg, I am really a hot mess right now

    and don't know how to deal with this situation. I have the best boss now. He is soooo kind! I have never been so attracted to a man because of his kindness. He is preppy, and I don't even like that type. The problem is I shouldn't even be entertaining these thoughts...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    A brief background explanation: I'm a college

    intern working over the summer at a medical facility, and I have a boyfriend of two years. These details will obviously explain why my crush on my boss seems short-lived and pointless. (But I can't help how I feel). He's in his 30s and he's professional and intelligent. He's...
    skylarwhite skylarwhite 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Her and I have been working together

    for only a few weeks. I had brought her flowers and a card, but it wasn't until later that I found out she had a boyfriend. I feel that I have a connection with her because she and I have the same health problems. I can't stop thinking about her and I wish I could be with her...
    marques30s marques30s 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    Crush On My Older Boss....

    So i worked for him when I was 18. Its a small business and he has about 7 workers. All family plus me. We are pretty close, I would go over to his place for fires and bbqs in the summer. I know most of his family. I moved and stoped working for him after about 2 years. We never...
    sarahfc sarahfc 22-25 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24 26-30, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Yesterday, everyone on our team went out to

    lunch except for my boss and I. A while after they left, we went out to get food. We've been gone out to lunch together before, so it wasn't anything out of the ordinary... Except he paid for my lunch. Today, we were talking with a random guy who saw us getting out of the car...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 16

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