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I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    One & Only

    I am obsessed with him. He radiates light and warmth when he walks into a room. He makes my days a joy. At the end of each day, my heart grieves because I have to leave him. I pour all this passion into my work. He has never had a PA like me, and he never will. I am his one and...
    LadyMagma LadyMagma 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    A little confused by this.

    I'm thirty and recently married to a man my age, my boss is 62. But I have been having weird feelings about my boss. Like I respect him a lot. He is very funny and clever. And kind of a bit dirty but not really but kind of a bit and kind of I want him to be a bit more... Ah! It...
    sorcha46 sorcha46 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Lately it's been really hard to concentrate at

    my job. My boss is too handsome and nice. Of course this makes me feel awful especially since I love my husband and we have a great life together. Why ruin that? My imagination has certainly taken over with thoughts of my boss though. I know my feelings are one sided and I don...
    Headygoodness Headygoodness 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    He owns the company I've been working

    for for the past 2 months. He thinks I'm shy so I think that's the reason why he gives me attention. And I think he's just the touchy feely type. Like he would squeeze my shoulder while he walks beside me. Or he sits skin to skin close me when we're eating together. I like...
    psychocharlie psychocharlie 31-35 Jan 19

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    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well It'S The Other Way Around

    Well at first I thought nothin of it but appears my boss pays more attention to me than any other of my co workers. My co workers are really starting to notice too. She'll just call my name for NO REASON!!! She told everyone she likes how to sounds. I was kinda shocked and...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Former Boss

    So I have the biggest crush on my former boss. Last year, we did pretty much everything together and have the same interests and such. He is finishing up his doctorate at Bowling Green, and I miss him a lot. I want to have the long conversations we used to have - I miss him so...
    witttiger86 witttiger86 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    cold cold man.. Driving me crazy with his

    moods.. His lips his eyes and his tone of voice His moods.. Ugly moods.. And how I feel inferior.. Because I feel I have nothing special.. He's so perfect and so pretty.. Why would he notice me? But I want him to notice me! Not only as an exceptional employee.. But also as a...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Lgbt I Have A Crush On My Female Boss

    I started working at my job a month ago. When I got hired by an assistant manager he warned me that my boss is mean! A month into the job her and I have gotten cool, she has not been mean to me directly but she could be very mean and I think her being so mean made me somewhat...
    Shakur2551 Shakur2551 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    So I kinda need advice

    if anyone cares to read this. So I recently started working at my new job a month ago(retail) anyways everyone there is cool we all get along have good laughs and joke around with each other. If I was older I would probably go out with everyone for some drinks (I'm 19) I have...
    Jamesfrancolovaa Jamesfrancolovaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I have a crush on my boss.

    Yeah, it's the first time I've admitted this to anyone, but I feel quite intense about it. He's pretty much my physical ideal: tall, dark hair, icy blue eyes (actually there's a running joke of his likeness to Robin Thicke). We share a similar sense of humor and it drives me...
    notthatgrl85 notthatgrl85 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Well Actually.. My Boss's Son. Do I Stay Or Bail?

    I'm so confused. A year ago I barely knew he existed. Some kind of completely neutral being floating around in space that I was cordial and platonic with. When I woke up in his arms again this morning though.. it felt perfectly natural. We'll call him Jason, partially because he...
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Got A Boyfriend But Got A Crush...

    I truly enjoys my career. I love it. I have three bosses. One of them is young looking. He's handsome. I have a man in my life who I appreciates but I believe there's nothing wrong with finding somebody else attractive. My boyfriend and my boss are two totally different person...
    esistmia esistmia 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    I Had A Crush On My Boss.

    I worked at a Boy Scout camp this summer. The program director was really funny, and he had a cool beard and these awesome boots. He's 28, so that makes him 10 years older than me. Anyways I just thought he was super ******* awesome and I had a crush on him. He had everything I...
    superkendra superkendra 18-21, F Jul 22, 2012

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    Since day 1! i just looked at a question I

    posted here 3 months ago! Ihve had a crush on him since the very first day! Its just silly.. It makes the day exciting! He's married with kids..he's in his early forties and definitely looks a lot younger! His eyes...his face his hands.. His shoulders.. I never enjoyed looking...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    Help !!! I cant get over my crush

    and obsession of my boss! Im married, he's married, (not happily either one of us) ... We have been talking, chatting, texting for a year now. He calls me wonderful, dear, baby, darling, etc!!!! He gives me rides to my car so I don't have to walk in the cold, He smiles at me and...
    lovethefish lovethefish 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Intellectual Attraction

    I have no intention of doing anything and the weird thing about my story is that the attraction isn't physical. It's intellectual. He is very good at reading people, and he doesn't try to hide how analytical he is. He is always questioning things and trying to figure things out...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    Just A Harmless Crush, A Victimless Crime Really

    First let me say that I believe the crush is mutual and that neither of us will ever disclose or act on it.  It may not even be mutual, but that doesn't matter.  This delightful crush does not affect work, except to make the mundane a bit more exciting.  It gives me extra...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 5 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    I'm his receptionist

    and he is a board member of various real estate firms all over the US. he is tall, pretty average looking but his eyes... they are the definition of happiness. it's like they never aged. he looks at everything like he's experiencing it for the first time. when he smiles, his...
    ClarityZedd11 ClarityZedd11 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I'm a Sucker For Kindness

      I’ve been having a crush on my boss for a few months now, since I started working there half a year ago. When I first started working there, I was really stressed and felt very incompetent. Many of my co-workers didn’t like me because I didn’t know much...
    daimntawv daimntawv 22-25 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    I Am Ridiculous....

    I am a mom and a wife and despite those things, I have a Hot Mess of a Raging Schoolgirl Crush on my Boss!!!! I don't want to leave my husband - and I seriously doubt that he would want to leave his wife - we both have children - BUT - there is so much CHEMISTRY between us that...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 34 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    OMG! 😱😍 i recently got a part time job,

    im a full time firefighter so i work on my days off. Man oh man! Since the first moment i saw her i was like "Woooowerz! Shes amazingly beautiful!" I didnt think she'd be my boss just a co-worker! Lucky me shes the one that trains the new-comers! 😉 she just simply beautiful...
    rescueme27 rescueme27 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Okay so I've been working at a restaurant

    for a little over a month now. I have three bosses, one is in his mid forties, and the other two are in their twenties. Within the first week of work, I developed a crush on one of the younger bosses. He's really cute, funny, and nice to me. I'm soo attracted to him! I can't...
    girlwithacrush08 girlwithacrush08 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    The Helpers Crush Random Thoughts

    Those eyes your smile that chest o my. Why do you have to be so nice. The flirty playful touches you know I'm going to get even one day. One day you will give me that little arm punch and I'm going to turn around and jump you. Ohh just how I'm not sure. How do I play back with...
    Annbryan Annbryan 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    My nerds...I miss them.

    Having dinner with them next week. I have had many hot bosses but no crushes. We work so hard at the time we had no time too crush. lol.
    totsy50 totsy50 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    bored87 bored87 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I Escaped Her.

    Well, I did it.  The pretty blonde boss is no longer my boss.  I was able to transfer to another boss (male).  The problem is that this new boss is more of a stricter hardass than my previous boss.  So I'm wondering if avoiding this new boss crush was worth it...
    kyleco kyleco 46-50 Feb 9, 2009

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    i'm very mad at him..

    i say i hate him.. but i don't... i just want to punch him.. to shout at him.. he's so cold.. it's like i do not exist at all.. i don't want him to like me because he's married... but at the same time i can't believe he doesn't like me... it seems he just doesn't.. it's like...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Don't Know What To Do

    I've only known him 3 months, almost 4, and when I say know, that's not quite true. I barely know this guy. I know he lives about 20 minutes from me, he's 34, he plays street hockey and he is a LBG for a local battlefield. I also know that he makes me laugh all the time, he's...
    sab01 sab01 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    She's Driving Me Crazy!!! I Want To Kiss Her So Badly

    I'm totally in love with my female boss... First it was a bit fun, the happy feeling and everything but now I'm simply not able to do my job properly. I work in this company for 2 years now, and I really like it. My job is satisfying, my colleagues are fun, I finally found a...
    jannyjillian jannyjillian 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Told My Supervisor I Have A Crush On Him

    I'm so impulsive sometimes I just have to sit back and laugh at myself LOL. I've had a crush on my supervisor for a few months now but have never told him but I have been flirting with him every chance that I get so I'm pretty sure that he knew beforehand that I have the hots for...
    funnyceecee29 funnyceecee29 26-30, F 3 Responses May 20, 2013

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    I Have A Crush On My Ex-Boss

    I want to get this out of my chest so I want to share my story... I started a new job two years ago where I met my boss. she was extremely pretty. The moment I met her I knew she was gonna be trouble. I am still struggling with my sexuality and even though I consider myself bi I...
    hajimemshita hajimemshita 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Story/Question: I work Grill at a fast food

    joint and have been thinking more and more about the Assistant Manager at my job. She is only two years older then me, we make small talk and have our usual workplace play banter and try to help her whenever I get the chance to. Despite all this, I'm still really nervous to...
    Royal412 Royal412 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    DJC23 DJC23 36-40, F 17 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I had previous encounters with women

    but ultimately decided that I wanted to be with a man and a woman could never make me fully happy. Until she came into the picture. I started working for this Doctor, she is only 36 years old. We instantly connected and I quickly became her favorite person in the office, the one...
    pallagim pallagim 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Confused :(

    Here goes, I made it common knowledge that i fancied my boss, the flirting was going on for 6 months. So the day he goes on holiday with his g/f he asks to meet me for the 1st time ever and we kissed, on the day of his return we met again. We both have loads in common and are now...
    confusedliloldme confusedliloldme 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I Have A Crush On My Boss

    I work for a law firm.  During the past 3 years I have been assistant to one of the associates.  He is not the kind of guy I would usually go out with, however I feel soooooo attracted to him. I have no problem talking or working with him.  In fact, we make a great team.  We...
    dreamer1609 dreamer1609 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    Crush On My Older Boss....

    So i worked for him when I was 18. Its a small business and he has about 7 workers. All family plus me. We are pretty close, I would go over to his place for fires and bbqs in the summer. I know most of his family. I moved and stoped working for him after about 2 years. We never...
    sarahfc sarahfc 22-25 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    I'm a female in my late twenties (nearly 30 :)

    and I'm gay. I've dated many women but am now single. I just interviewed for a new job where I could pick between 2 different roles. A little over a week into the job I'm realizing that I may have picked this role because of the boss and the fact that I'm starting to crush on...
    powerof2 powerof2 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Bad Idea On So Many Levels

        I have a deadly hard crush on my boss.  He's 22 years older than me.  We work very closely, and he drives me crazy... scattered, unorganized... but so hot it's distracting.  When he walks into the room, I can feel my hormones light up.  And...
    libertyblue libertyblue 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Have A Crush On My Boss

    I did not mean for this to happen but it did. I started working for a place about a month ago and i did not think anything of this person at first but i noticed him looking at me from a far and i was kind of freaked out at first but i thought well he is very nice looking. . I...
    pumkin99 pumkin99 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    From Mean To Lovely (I add to this story frequently)

    I'm 17 and I have a huge crush on my 30 year old, recently married, female store manager. She used to be quite mean to me, probably because she focuses SO hard on her job and I was ditsy and didn't really care about the work. She'd always be hostile and unhappy with me, but...
    witcheslair witcheslair 16-17, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I Can't Get Him Off My Mind...going On 2 Years.

    My supervisor is a 35 year old man. Never been married, never had kids. I can tellhe's lonley but he dosen't really let it show. He's a rule follower and is one of the good guys. He dosen't drink and dosen't like to break the rules. Im 20 years old and I have admired him from...
    shelbiperry shelbiperry 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    Hope He Doesn't Read

     It is so uncanny! I got this job in the middle of Nov. and I remember thinking at the interview that he sure is cute. He told me he had never had such a long interview with anyone, and that no one had said what I did. Even at the interview we both noticed things we have in...
    Katiedid9508 Katiedid9508 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    Silly

    I have three bosses you could say, there is one that is the manager and two assistant managers. One of the assistant managers is probably in his 40's or 50's, and I have a serious crush on him. I don't know how to act or think on this. I clearly have no shot with him, and I feel...
    lightsaboveus89 lightsaboveus89 18-21, F 8 Responses May 24, 2011

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    Besides getting cheated on ...there's always been this other boy who's always trying to grab my attention He's a football, baseball& basketball player for my school he's very...
    elitedancer14 elitedancer14 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    I had a crush on many girls at obe moment 😝
    Rocko989 Rocko989 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I'm reverting back to my 14-15-year-old self. I've been crushing pretty hard on Hibari Kyoya from Katekyo Hitman REBORN!
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Haha this is kind of strange but I have a crush on Atticus finch of 'To Kill A Mockingbird' the role he plays in the book as an excellent father is really inspiring and I feel that...
    doublechin94 doublechin94 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Sebastian Michaelis - Kuroshitsuji Pluto - Kuroshitsuji (I have a crush on a dog that turns to a naked human, yes) Undertaker - Kuroshitsuji (again) Haruka Nanase - Free! Iwatobi...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 26

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    Jessie Ward from the This Man trilogy......yes please!!
    angiebaby78 angiebaby78 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    What is wrong with me? It's like my brain focuses in on all the straight girls and leads me straight for them. For once, I'd like to be interested in a girl who actually likes...
    Maelia816 Maelia816 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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