I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2013
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2014

    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

    I work for a woman who is in her mid 50's,

    but she doesn't look her age. Most days she wears tops that show a lot of cleavage. Sometimes when I'm in her office I can see the edge of her bra cups. There are other days when the tops are also loose at the shoulders and the shoulder straps of her bra are always visible...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    A brief background explanation: I'm a college

    intern working over the summer at a medical facility, and I have a boyfriend of two years. These details will obviously explain why my crush on my boss seems short-lived and pointless. (But I can't help how I feel). He's in his 30s and he's professional and intelligent. He's...
    skylarwhite skylarwhite
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    He's my supervisor. I thought he was pretty

    cool from the beginning. Very easy to talk to, never made me feel like he was over me. About a month in, I knew I was starting to have feelings for him and was attracted to him. We're both married so of course I wasn't going to say anything or try anything. We were talking one...
    azich93 azich93
    22-25
    2 Responses Jan 24

    Holy **** guys. I went to his apartment.

    He was trying to get rid of stuff for his move. Nothing happened besides me getting bunch of stuff (like laundry detergent) and playing with his cat, but I couldn't believe I was there. Does this mean something? I don't know how to react.
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    this is going back to

    when I was an apprentice comms officer I was 17 just starting out serving on an american cargo ship under a very handsome young captain. my post was on the bridge so I got to know him pretty well. he used to call little miss sally which always made me blush and we started...
    TheShipscat22 TheShipscat22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2015

      he told Me he thought all these physical

    things I did to my hair and nails and even makeup were things I rocked well, and even the word beautiful snuck --no --barged in there once. right in front of everyone in the break room, mind y'all. always catching his eye wandering to my legs as we spoke alone at times about...
    bellaFigura bellaFigura
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    Yep he is the boss i go every morning.

    ... I'm going to look at my new friend everyday ....because I do what the fk I want I want Bye ladies
    lied5152 lied5152
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2014

    Okay so its been a few weeks now

    and even though there were sparks in the beginning I think there may be more now... I used to be at the boardroom table which overlooked his desk but now he stationed me at my I own desk and somehow he managed to situate it right in his line of sight... somehow this didn't sit...
    Tigercass Tigercass
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    I'm glad there's some place I can talk about

    this. He's 30+ years older than me. Honestly he's kind of an ******* sometimes but I still like him.I wish I had more time to talk to him but work is always so busy.
    mypinknailpolish mypinknailpolish
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    I got a job a few months back,

    the moment I saw my boss(before I knew she was my boss) I thought she was pretty cool. Before I know it I'm over here falling for her. However she's 10 years older than me and is my boss. I'm not even completely sure if she's into girls because one time she told me an incident...
    MN53 MN53
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    Maybe it's because I'm 19 years old

    or I haven't had an actual relationship with a guy ( including daddy)but I'm obsessed with what he thinks about me. I'm always trying to make his job easier and make him like me more. he loves me as an employee, he said I was cute, and I'm pretty sure I have earned a place in...
    Dreana12 Dreana12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    It's totally inappropriate

    and wrong, but I can't help it. I just went through a divorce. He is old enough to be my father, and he even joked around about it, saying I could be his daughter. He had a big grin on his face. He has pushed boundaries in the past, which is why I feel I'm always drawn to the...
    stargirl84 stargirl84
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    I am a female and my boss is a female,

    she's so hot. she compliments me a lot on my looks and a lot of the other lesbian girls flirt with her she just blushes and laugh. but she has a boyfriend! whom she rarely see! we text each other every now and then. but she is amazing! I can't keep my mind off of her. but I'm...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2015

    My boss is only 2 years older

    than me (his dad owns the company) and we are both married but i have this crazy crush on him! I guess its not just that he is very good looking but its that I'm unhappy in my marriage and so is he. I see how his wife treats him and he even tells me things about their...
    lonelyinms lonelyinms
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    Just an update: so many little things have

    happened between us that I just builds on the electricity and vibe I feel we have. I remember my friend asked him if there was a future Mrs in his life and he turned super bright red and said no it doesn't look like it and I thought to myself sweet game on! I'm currently...
    Tigercass Tigercass
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    I'm a female in my late twenties (nearly 30 :)

    and I'm gay. I've dated many women but am now single. I just interviewed for a new job where I could pick between 2 different roles. A little over a week into the job I'm realizing that I may have picked this role because of the boss and the fact that I'm starting to crush on...
    powerof2 powerof2
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2014

    I thought I'd actually add an experience

    for once... This happened recently. Okay, so I have a huge crush on my boss who's wayy older then me but there's just something about her, she's really assertive and kinda intimidating. At first I didn't like her at all, she was a total *****, but I was determined to be her...
    secretanji secretanji
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    I have a wild crush on my oriental female boss.

    Not sure how it happened. One day I felt nothing and the next day couldn't stop looking at her. She has certain skirts or revealing tops that at times make it incredible impossible to focus on anything else but her. At times I think she knows this and purposely positions...
    dannykincade dannykincade
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2015
    bored87 bored87
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    I have to write this

    because I'm going to go crazy if I don't tell someone. I am just enamored with my boss. He became my boss at 19 and he's almost 21 now. I've cooked so much for him. I find reasons for him to work on my car. But I really just want a hot steamy night with him. Everyone knows I...
    ramdomslut ramdomslut
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 15

    Ever since I started working at my job,

    about a year and a half ago, I thought that one of my bosses was very attractive. I believe he's in his mid thirties and he's married with one kid. Him and I seem to have the same personality, so I just thought that he was really attractive and nothing more...until about two...
    XxMarie09xX XxMarie09xX
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 18, 2014

    Just A Harmless Crush, A Victimless Crime Really

    First let me say that I believe the crush is mutual and that neither of us will ever disclose or act on it.  It may not even be mutual, but that doesn't matter.  This delightful crush does not affect work, except to make the mundane a bit more exciting.  It gives me extra...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2011

    There has been an ongoing joke between my

    boss/crush and this other lady in the office that they're secretly in a relationship. This has been going on since before I started this job last June. My boss recently moved, and the lady said that she helped him move. I said, "really? I didn't know that..." (Turns out she was...
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    Okay so I'm only working there nearly two months

    and he already has me thinking of him... From the moment I had the interview with him I could feel the tension in the air... We met at a coffee shop and asked me about myself and why I want the job. For experience and to build my career as a graphic designer... Then one day I...
    Tigercass Tigercass
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    I recently got a cat.

    I came to work today, and there was a bag on my desk. It had a bunch of cat toys, specifically the ones my boss told me it was his cat's favorites. Excuse me while I go melt over there in the corner.
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2015

    mi cayente! she has a short no nonsense Dew

    and she is is latina .. muy bien!... MUY BiEN! plus she is pretty sweet .. she must do cardio of some sort ..this I believe
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 6

    I feel like my other manager knows about my

    little crush and schedules me work with her instead. I can't stand it. For one thing,my crush is so much better at the job than she is. He teaches me so much and he's so knowledgeable. I'm sick of being stuck with her listening to her cat stories.
    mypinknailpolish mypinknailpolish
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    Here is my story, I know this is an older post

    yet I'm still hoping for some feedback. I believe that I am madly in love with my female boss. I teach at a preschool that she owns, and am actually her smallest child's teacher. I've only been there for 4 months, but i have been attracted to her since the day I met her...
    Thelesbian Thelesbian
    26-30
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    I'm a 30ish woman. My boss--also a woman-- is

    50ish... I'm single as a dollar bill. She's married, with grandchildren! ...and I am so attracted to her it's ridiculous. I've never been into anyone so much older than me, but there is just something about this woman! When she's close to me, I flutter and tingle in all sorts...
    hotinthiscloset hotinthiscloset
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    I'm a Sucker For Kindness

      I’ve been having a crush on my boss for a few months now, since I started working there half a year ago. When I first started working there, I was really stressed and felt very incompetent. Many of my co-workers didn’t like me because I didn’t know much...
    daimntawv daimntawv
    22-25
    4 Responses May 26, 2008

    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    26 Responses Jan 20, 2012

    I have a massive crush on my boss.

    My married, 20 years older than me, friend of my husbands family, boss. It's purley sexual and because I know that he is the ultimate forbidden fruit, but he drives me wild... And doesn't even know. How do I stop these stirring feelings?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    I'm already dating his 16 year old daughter.

    And no, I haven't crossed the line. . .yet. He has that kind of charm that puts you under his spell. He has a younger daughter that I babysit for. I know I can have him be with me. Since I was barely a teenager people called me a tease or a seductress. I always try my best to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    We were at a company dinner,

    and I was telling him I like desserts. Me "I love sweet things." Boss "I know you do. You like me." Of course he said that as a joke, but I started giggling and couldn't say anything. Boss "WHAT ARE YOU BLUSHING FOR?!" Me "I'M NOT BLUSHING!" Boss "YES YOU ARE! I'VE NEVER SEEN...
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2015

    How can I find if my boss likes me too?

    Last Friday we kissed passionately after work drinks. And when I met him on Monday, he was trying to keep himself away from me. He was either too occupied with work, or he was genuinely feeling guilty of what transpired btw us. This is the 2nd time he kissed me. He has always...
    jdcoke1979 jdcoke1979
    36-40, F
    Feb 6, 2015

    I have a crush on my boss.

    Yeah, it's the first time I've admitted this to anyone, but I feel quite intense about it. He's pretty much my physical ideal: tall, dark hair, icy blue eyes (actually there's a running joke of his likeness to Robin Thicke). We share a similar sense of humor and it drives me...
    notthatgrl85 notthatgrl85
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    I've heard that a lot

    if people misunderstand my boss. He doesn't open up to people and can be pretty mean at times. But I think he's starting to open up to me. He tells me about how he feels about other people, his cat (who he dearly loves), and he teases my a lot. Even though our ages difference is...
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    I know I can't date him

    because his my boss. I'm not trying to date him; I just want to be close to him. But oh the agonyyyyy
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    I feel like I've lost myself in my thoughts.

    No matter who I talk to, it's always the same answer...get over it! I'm stubborn, that's no question. But, getting over it...has not happened. I started a new position in a new store. I was excited and thrilled! After a few weeks the store calmed down and I started to really...
    misslc333 misslc333
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2013

    I've love intelligent men,

    and on top of that, I love masculine men. My boss is just like that. I never noticed it before, but one day there was a tennis game on a nearby court as the company was holding a charity event, and I saw his arms. So big, so muscly. I wanted to grab them, corress those awesome...
    HannahB1903 HannahB1903
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    Lgbt I Have A Crush On My Female Boss

    I started working at my job a month ago. When I got hired by an assistant manager he warned me that my boss is mean! A month into the job her and I have gotten cool, she has not been mean to me directly but she could be very mean and I think her being so mean made me somewhat...
    Shakur2551 Shakur2551
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2012

    The other day, I showed my boss a picture of

    myself and my roommate's cat. His reaction was, "you took a selfie with your cat?" To be honest, I was a little surprised that he knew what selfie was because he's definitely not the type who would take a selfie or even be on any social media. This morning, he showed me a...
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Today, my boss and I were talking about how

    short I am (I'm 4'11", he's like 6'2"). He said, "It's hell being short and cute, ain't it?" I just brushed it off and said, "Yes, it is." I felt my face flushing red, my heart was beating so fast, and I couldn't focus for the rest of the day. I asked him out for a super...
    littlequints littlequints
    26-30, F
    May 19, 2015

    So my boss has been flirting wih me ALOT lately

    I feel. My friend aty job says that he looks at me a lot and watches me if I walk by. And recently last shift I was putting up plates and I'm kind if short so I couldn't reach so I had to stretch and so my but was poking out a little and he just stood right behind me waiting...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2014
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