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I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    How can I find if my boss likes me too?

    Last Friday we kissed passionately after work drinks. And when I met him on Monday, he was trying to keep himself away from me. He was either too occupied with work, or he was genuinely feeling guilty of what transpired btw us. This is the 2nd time he kissed me. He has always...
    jdcoke1979 jdcoke1979 36-40, F Feb 6

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    Hope He Doesn't Read

     It is so uncanny! I got this job in the middle of Nov. and I remember thinking at the interview that he sure is cute. He told me he had never had such a long interview with anyone, and that no one had said what I did. Even at the interview we both noticed things we have in...
    Katiedid9508 Katiedid9508 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    So my boss has been flirting wih me ALOT lately

    I feel. My friend aty job says that he looks at me a lot and watches me if I walk by. And recently last shift I was putting up plates and I'm kind if short so I couldn't reach so I had to stretch and so my but was poking out a little and he just stood right behind me waiting...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA 18-21, F Dec 14, 2014

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    So about May i got hired

    as a temp for my new job. i instantly thought my Supervisor was attractive. but i let the though go because one he was my Boss and two my Boyfriend (now ex) works there too. i became friends with alot of the workers there and my boyfriend and i were trying to rekindle an...
    Wolfey777 Wolfey777 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Our team went out to dinner the other day,

    and I got to sit next to my boss. We talked a lot. We started talking about ages, and he said, "You're only as old as you feel," and squeezed his arm with his other hand. So I lightly punched his arm to see how hard it was. Then suddenly he said, shockingly, "ARE YOU HITTING ON...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Okay so I'm only working there nearly two months

    and he already has me thinking of him... From the moment I had the interview with him I could feel the tension in the air... We met at a coffee shop and asked me about myself and why I want the job. For experience and to build my career as a graphic designer... Then one day I...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I know I can't date him

    because his my boss. I'm not trying to date him; I just want to be close to him. But oh the agonyyyyy
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24 26-30, F Jul 31, 2013

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    He has been my boss for 3 years now.

    We are both gay men which I think makes this all a bit trickier. We have been through similar life experiences and we spend a lot of time (on the clock) talking About different things I'm going through (personally) He does special favors for me at work, favors I know he wouldn...
    Riprovo Riprovo 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    Just an update: so many little things have

    happened between us that I just builds on the electricity and vibe I feel we have. I remember my friend asked him if there was a future Mrs in his life and he turned super bright red and said no it doesn't look like it and I thought to myself sweet game on! I'm currently...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Holy **** guys. I went to his apartment.

    He was trying to get rid of stuff for his move. Nothing happened besides me getting bunch of stuff (like laundry detergent) and playing with his cat, but I couldn't believe I was there. Does this mean something? I don't know how to react.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Okay so its been a few weeks now

    and even though there were sparks in the beginning I think there may be more now... I used to be at the boardroom table which overlooked his desk but now he stationed me at my I own desk and somehow he managed to situate it right in his line of sight... somehow this didn't sit...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I have the wildest feelings

    for her. She's 100% crazy in a good way. But sometimes I feel like we totally get each other and I laugh too hard or she laughs too hard or we both laugh too hard or we touch briefly or we look deep in each others eyes but it's all just great. I love it.
    elanordee elanordee 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    bored87 bored87 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    He's a professional photographer

    and im his assitant. Im with him a lot and we have intamate conversations sometimes. But man oh man do i fantasize about him. I dont think that he even knows how hard im crushing maybe because hes so busy.
    wellthathappenes wellthathappenes 22-25, T Oct 2, 2014

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    Intellectual Attraction

    I have no intention of doing anything and the weird thing about my story is that the attraction isn't physical. It's intellectual. He is very good at reading people, and he doesn't try to hide how analytical he is. He is always questioning things and trying to figure things out...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    how do I get to know

    that my boss likes me or he is just being nice?
    problemchapter problemchapter 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Crush On My Older Boss....

    So i worked for him when I was 18. Its a small business and he has about 7 workers. All family plus me. We are pretty close, I would go over to his place for fires and bbqs in the summer. I know most of his family. I moved and stoped working for him after about 2 years. We never...
    sarahfc sarahfc 22-25 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    It's totally inappropriate

    and wrong, but I can't help it. I just went through a divorce. He is old enough to be my father, and he even joked around about it, saying I could be his daughter. He had a big grin on his face. He has pushed boundaries in the past, which is why I feel I'm always drawn to the...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Bad Idea On So Many Levels

        I have a deadly hard crush on my boss.  He's 22 years older than me.  We work very closely, and he drives me crazy... scattered, unorganized... but so hot it's distracting.  When he walks into the room, I can feel my hormones light up.  And...
    libertyblue libertyblue 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I recently got a cat.

    I came to work today, and there was a bag on my desk. It had a bunch of cat toys, specifically the ones my boss told me it was his cat's favorites. Excuse me while I go melt over there in the corner.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I feel like I've lost myself in my thoughts.

    No matter who I talk to, it's always the same answer...get over it! I'm stubborn, that's no question. But, getting over it...has not happened. I started a new position in a new store. I was excited and thrilled! After a few weeks the store calmed down and I started to really...
    misslc333 misslc333 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    It's been going on for over two years.

    She's married but I'm not. I finally had to tell her so I could get it off of my chest. She hasn't really acknowledged what I said so I'm in the dark. One of my friends who knows her is convinced that she feels the same way but she's never admitted to it outright. We just got...
    flailure flailure 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

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    I am a female and my boss is a female,

    she's so hot. she compliments me a lot on my looks and a lot of the other lesbian girls flirt with her she just blushes and laugh. but she has a boyfriend! whom she rarely see! we text each other every now and then. but she is amazing! I can't keep my mind off of her. but I'm...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Ever since I started working at my job,

    about a year and a half ago, I thought that one of my bosses was very attractive. I believe he's in his mid thirties and he's married with one kid. Him and I seem to have the same personality, so I just thought that he was really attractive and nothing more...until about two...
    XxMarie09xX XxMarie09xX 18-21, F 4 Responses May 18, 2014

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    this is going back to

    when I was an apprentice comms officer I was 17 just starting out serving on an american cargo ship under a very handsome young captain. my post was on the bridge so I got to know him pretty well. he used to call little miss sally which always made me blush and we started...
    TheShipscat22 TheShipscat22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I Am Ridiculous....

    I am a mom and a wife and despite those things, I have a Hot Mess of a Raging Schoolgirl Crush on my Boss!!!! I don't want to leave my husband - and I seriously doubt that he would want to leave his wife - we both have children - BUT - there is so much CHEMISTRY between us that...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 37 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    I Can't Get Him Off My Mind...going On 2 Years.

    My supervisor is a 35 year old man. Never been married, never had kids. I can tellhe's lonley but he dosen't really let it show. He's a rule follower and is one of the good guys. He dosen't drink and dosen't like to break the rules. Im 20 years old and I have admired him from...
    shelbiperry shelbiperry 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    Yesterday, everyone on our team went out to

    lunch except for my boss and I. A while after they left, we went out to get food. We've been gone out to lunch together before, so it wasn't anything out of the ordinary... Except he paid for my lunch. Today, we were talking with a random guy who saw us getting out of the car...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    From Mean To Lovely (I add to this story frequently)

    I'm 17 and I have a huge crush on my 30 year old, recently married, female store manager. She used to be quite mean to me, probably because she focuses SO hard on her job and I was ditsy and didn't really care about the work. She'd always be hostile and unhappy with me, but...
    witcheslair witcheslair 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2014

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    Damn sexual tension. We can't think straight

    around each other! There is NO way known that we would ever do anything about it. He's married with three kids. I am in a long term relationship. I just can't get him out of my head.
    clareak clareak 36-40, F Nov 30, 2014

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    I can't say the details,

    but I have a feeling that he likes me. But he's trying not to show it or have anything happen. It could just be me thinking that, but it makes me so happy. I can't control my smile when he stares at me. I get so excited when he teases me. I hope he feels the same.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Told My Supervisor I Have A Crush On Him

    I'm so impulsive sometimes I just have to sit back and laugh at myself LOL. I've had a crush on my supervisor for a few months now but have never told him but I have been flirting with him every chance that I get so I'm pretty sure that he knew beforehand that I have the hots for...
    funnyceecee29 funnyceecee29 26-30, F 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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      he told Me he thought all these physical

    things I did to my hair and nails and even makeup were things I rocked well, and even the word beautiful snuck --no --barged in there once. right in front of everyone in the break room, mind y'all. always catching his eye wandering to my legs as we spoke alone at times about...
    bellaFigura bellaFigura 26-30 6 Responses Jan 24

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    I am a female and my boss is female.

    I think she is so cute! I am a new hire and I've been on the job for less than a month. She approached me on my second day and said she had been watching me and that I was such a hard worker. It came time for my first review and she said I had been doing a great job and she also...
    sumsang sumsang 31-35 2 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    I'm a female in my late twenties (nearly 30 :)

    and I'm gay. I've dated many women but am now single. I just interviewed for a new job where I could pick between 2 different roles. A little over a week into the job I'm realizing that I may have picked this role because of the boss and the fact that I'm starting to crush on...
    powerof2 powerof2 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2014

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    I don't know but.. I like him.

    CU's I like guys like him.. high sense of humour.. quite smart.. as if I can rely on him on anything. :) actually, even though I know how to do a certain task, I still seek for his help. :) it makes me really happy when he helps me and we are having a fun chat Convo.. I just...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2014

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    Lgbt I Have A Crush On My Female Boss

    I started working at my job a month ago. When I got hired by an assistant manager he warned me that my boss is mean! A month into the job her and I have gotten cool, she has not been mean to me directly but she could be very mean and I think her being so mean made me somewhat...
    Shakur2551 Shakur2551 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    There has been an ongoing joke between my

    boss/crush and this other lady in the office that they're secretly in a relationship. This has been going on since before I started this job last June. My boss recently moved, and the lady said that she helped him move. I said, "really? I didn't know that..." (Turns out she was...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    Former Boss

    So I have the biggest crush on my former boss. Last year, we did pretty much everything together and have the same interests and such. He is finishing up his doctorate at Bowling Green, and I miss him a lot. I want to have the long conversations we used to have - I miss him so...
    witttiger86 witttiger86 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    I'm already dating his 16 year old daughter.

    And no, I haven't crossed the line. . .yet. He has that kind of charm that puts you under his spell. He has a younger daughter that I babysit for. I know I can have him be with me. Since I was barely a teenager people called me a tease or a seductress. I always try my best to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24

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