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I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    Tonight, two other co-workers (women)

    and I were talking about our new boss and they were making some comments about how cute they thought he was. I was shocked to hear that because I thought I was the only one who was attracted to him, lol. It'll be nice, now, to be able to talk about him with others who feel the...
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    There has been an ongoing joke between my

    boss/crush and this other lady in the office that they're secretly in a relationship. This has been going on since before I started this job last June. My boss recently moved, and the lady said that she helped him move. I said, "really? I didn't know that..." (Turns out she was...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    Her and I have been working together

    for only a few weeks. I had brought her flowers and a card, but it wasn't until later that I found out she had a boyfriend. I feel that I have a connection with her because she and I have the same health problems. I can't stop thinking about her and I wish I could be with her...
    marques30s marques30s 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    How can I find if my boss likes me too?

    Last Friday we kissed passionately after work drinks. And when I met him on Monday, he was trying to keep himself away from me. He was either too occupied with work, or he was genuinely feeling guilty of what transpired btw us. This is the 2nd time he kissed me. He has always...
    jdcoke1979 jdcoke1979 36-40, F Feb 6

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    He has been my boss for 3 years now.

    We are both gay men which I think makes this all a bit trickier. We have been through similar life experiences and we spend a lot of time (on the clock) talking About different things I'm going through (personally) He does special favors for me at work, favors I know he wouldn...
    Riprovo Riprovo 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    So my boss has been flirting wih me ALOT lately

    I feel. My friend aty job says that he looks at me a lot and watches me if I walk by. And recently last shift I was putting up plates and I'm kind if short so I couldn't reach so I had to stretch and so my but was poking out a little and he just stood right behind me waiting...
    futureCRNA futureCRNA 18-21, F Dec 14, 2014

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    It's totally inappropriate

    and wrong, but I can't help it. I just went through a divorce. He is old enough to be my father, and he even joked around about it, saying I could be his daughter. He had a big grin on his face. He has pushed boundaries in the past, which is why I feel I'm always drawn to the...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    I have a wild crush on my oriental female boss.

    Not sure how it happened. One day I felt nothing and the next day couldn't stop looking at her. She has certain skirts or revealing tops that at times make it incredible impossible to focus on anything else but her. At times I think she knows this and purposely positions...
    dannykincade dannykincade 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    We were at a company dinner,

    and I was telling him I like desserts. Me "I love sweet things." Boss "I know you do. You like me." Of course he said that as a joke, but I started giggling and couldn't say anything. Boss "WHAT ARE YOU BLUSHING FOR?!" Me "I'M NOT BLUSHING!" Boss "YES YOU ARE! I'VE NEVER SEEN...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Here is my story, I know this is an older post

    yet I'm still hoping for some feedback. I believe that I am madly in love with my female boss. I teach at a preschool that she owns, and am actually her smallest child's teacher. I've only been there for 4 months, but i have been attracted to her since the day I met her...
    Thelesbian Thelesbian 22-25 1 Response May 30

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    I feel like I've lost myself in my thoughts.

    No matter who I talk to, it's always the same answer...get over it! I'm stubborn, that's no question. But, getting over it...has not happened. I started a new position in a new store. I was excited and thrilled! After a few weeks the store calmed down and I started to really...
    misslc333 misslc333 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    I'm a 30ish woman. My boss--also a woman-- is

    50ish... I'm single as a dollar bill. She's married, with grandchildren! ...and I am so attracted to her it's ridiculous. I've never been into anyone so much older than me, but there is just something about this woman! When she's close to me, I flutter and tingle in all sorts...
    hotinthiscloset hotinthiscloset 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I've heard that a lot

    if people misunderstand my boss. He doesn't open up to people and can be pretty mean at times. But I think he's starting to open up to me. He tells me about how he feels about other people, his cat (who he dearly loves), and he teases my a lot. Even though our ages difference is...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    I'm a Sucker For Kindness

      I’ve been having a crush on my boss for a few months now, since I started working there half a year ago. When I first started working there, I was really stressed and felt very incompetent. Many of my co-workers didn’t like me because I didn’t know much...
    daimntawv daimntawv 22-25 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    this is going back to

    when I was an apprentice comms officer I was 17 just starting out serving on an american cargo ship under a very handsome young captain. my post was on the bridge so I got to know him pretty well. he used to call little miss sally which always made me blush and we started...
    TheShipscat22 TheShipscat22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I have a massive crush on my boss.

    My married, 20 years older than me, friend of my husbands family, boss. It's purley sexual and because I know that he is the ultimate forbidden fruit, but he drives me wild... And doesn't even know. How do I stop these stirring feelings?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Bad Idea On So Many Levels

        I have a deadly hard crush on my boss.  He's 22 years older than me.  We work very closely, and he drives me crazy... scattered, unorganized... but so hot it's distracting.  When he walks into the room, I can feel my hormones light up.  And...
    libertyblue libertyblue 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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      he told Me he thought all these physical

    things I did to my hair and nails and even makeup were things I rocked well, and even the word beautiful snuck --no --barged in there once. right in front of everyone in the break room, mind y'all. always catching his eye wandering to my legs as we spoke alone at times about...
    bellaFigura bellaFigura 26-30 6 Responses Jan 24

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    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2014

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    Holy **** guys. I went to his apartment.

    He was trying to get rid of stuff for his move. Nothing happened besides me getting bunch of stuff (like laundry detergent) and playing with his cat, but I couldn't believe I was there. Does this mean something? I don't know how to react.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    how do I get to know

    that my boss likes me or he is just being nice?
    problemchapter problemchapter 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I can't say the details,

    but I have a feeling that he likes me. But he's trying not to show it or have anything happen. It could just be me thinking that, but it makes me so happy. I can't control my smile when he stares at me. I get so excited when he teases me. I hope he feels the same.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    Lgbt I Have A Crush On My Female Boss

    I started working at my job a month ago. When I got hired by an assistant manager he warned me that my boss is mean! A month into the job her and I have gotten cool, she has not been mean to me directly but she could be very mean and I think her being so mean made me somewhat...
    Shakur2551 Shakur2551 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    A brief background explanation: I'm a college

    intern working over the summer at a medical facility, and I have a boyfriend of two years. These details will obviously explain why my crush on my boss seems short-lived and pointless. (But I can't help how I feel). He's in his 30s and he's professional and intelligent. He's...
    skylarwhite skylarwhite 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    Okay so I'm only working there nearly two months

    and he already has me thinking of him... From the moment I had the interview with him I could feel the tension in the air... We met at a coffee shop and asked me about myself and why I want the job. For experience and to build my career as a graphic designer... Then one day I...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Okay so its been a few weeks now

    and even though there were sparks in the beginning I think there may be more now... I used to be at the boardroom table which overlooked his desk but now he stationed me at my I own desk and somehow he managed to situate it right in his line of sight... somehow this didn't sit...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Stupid Thanksgiving Holiday Means 6 Days Of No Cute Boss. Anyone Else.....

    feel this way? I used to LOVE the holidays, but now I hate them because they are so unproductive in my irrational plan to have a hot, torrid affair with my boss. I don't want to leave my husband, and I don't want him to leave his wife - but I do want to jump his bones in the...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    I thought I'd actually add an experience

    for once... This happened recently. Okay, so I have a huge crush on my boss who's wayy older then me but there's just something about her, she's really assertive and kinda intimidating. At first I didn't like her at all, she was a total *****, but I was determined to be her...
    secretanji secretanji 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Intellectual Attraction

    I have no intention of doing anything and the weird thing about my story is that the attraction isn't physical. It's intellectual. He is very good at reading people, and he doesn't try to hide how analytical he is. He is always questioning things and trying to figure things out...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    I'm already dating his 16 year old daughter.

    And no, I haven't crossed the line. . .yet. He has that kind of charm that puts you under his spell. He has a younger daughter that I babysit for. I know I can have him be with me. Since I was barely a teenager people called me a tease or a seductress. I always try my best to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Ever since I started working at my job,

    about a year and a half ago, I thought that one of my bosses was very attractive. I believe he's in his mid thirties and he's married with one kid. Him and I seem to have the same personality, so I just thought that he was really attractive and nothing more...until about two...
    XxMarie09xX XxMarie09xX 18-21, F 4 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I am a female and my boss is a female,

    she's so hot. she compliments me a lot on my looks and a lot of the other lesbian girls flirt with her she just blushes and laugh. but she has a boyfriend! whom she rarely see! we text each other every now and then. but she is amazing! I can't keep my mind off of her. but I'm...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Just an update: so many little things have

    happened between us that I just builds on the electricity and vibe I feel we have. I remember my friend asked him if there was a future Mrs in his life and he turned super bright red and said no it doesn't look like it and I thought to myself sweet game on! I'm currently...
    Tigercass Tigercass 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    Just A Harmless Crush, A Victimless Crime Really

    First let me say that I believe the crush is mutual and that neither of us will ever disclose or act on it.  It may not even be mutual, but that doesn't matter.  This delightful crush does not affect work, except to make the mundane a bit more exciting.  It gives me extra...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    Yep he is the boss i go every morning.

    ... I'm going to look at my new friend everyday ....because I do what the fk I want I want Bye ladies
    lied5152 lied5152 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I don't know but.. I like him.

    CU's I like guys like him.. high sense of humour.. quite smart.. as if I can rely on him on anything. :) actually, even though I know how to do a certain task, I still seek for his help. :) it makes me really happy when he helps me and we are having a fun chat Convo.. I just...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2014

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    I work for a woman who is in her mid 50's,

    but she doesn't look her age. Most days she wears tops that show a lot of cleavage. Sometimes when I'm in her office I can see the edge of her bra cups. There are other days when the tops are also loose at the shoulders and the shoulder straps of her bra are always visible...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    bored87 bored87 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I recently got a cat.

    I came to work today, and there was a bag on my desk. It had a bunch of cat toys, specifically the ones my boss told me it was his cat's favorites. Excuse me while I go melt over there in the corner.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Today, my boss and I were talking about how

    short I am (I'm 4'11", he's like 6'2"). He said, "It's hell being short and cute, ain't it?" I just brushed it off and said, "Yes, it is." I felt my face flushing red, my heart was beating so fast, and I couldn't focus for the rest of the day. I asked him out for a super...
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F May 19

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    It's only been 2 days without seeing him,

    but I miss him so much. It's driving me crazy.
    littlequints littlequints 26-30, F 3 Responses