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I Have a Crush On My Boss

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    I'm a Sucker For Kindness

      I’ve been having a crush on my boss for a few months now, since I started working there half a year ago. When I first started working there, I was really stressed and felt very incompetent. Many of my co-workers didn’t like me because I didn’t know much...
    daimntawv daimntawv 22-25 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    I Had A Crush On My Boss.

    I worked at a Boy Scout camp this summer. The program director was really funny, and he had a cool beard and these awesome boots. He's 28, so that makes him 10 years older than me. Anyways I just thought he was super ******* awesome and I had a crush on him. He had everything I...
    superkendra superkendra 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    I Escaped Her.

    Well, I did it.  The pretty blonde boss is no longer my boss.  I was able to transfer to another boss (male).  The problem is that this new boss is more of a stricter hardass than my previous boss.  So I'm wondering if avoiding this new boss crush was worth it...
    kyleco kyleco 46-50 Feb 9, 2009

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    #1 Him: Sigh. So, (my name),

    let me ask you. Do you think I'm doing the right thing, giving out this letter? Me: You really wanna know what I think on this matter? Him: Yeah. I may be in a higher authority, but hey, we are colleagues. And I wanna know what you think. Me: Oh I have only been there for one...
    littlemisslight littlemisslight 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I feel sooo terrible to admit

    that I'm crushing on my boss. I'm 24, he's about 25. I don't know if he's in a relationship but I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. First of all, this is probably all lust. My boss is hot as ****. But what I also like is that he stands up for me. I work in a pretty male...
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F Jun 14

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    Lgbt I Have A Crush On My Female Boss

    I started working at my job a month ago. When I got hired by an assistant manager he warned me that my boss is mean! A month into the job her and I have gotten cool, she has not been mean to me directly but she could be very mean and I think her being so mean made me somewhat...
    Shakur2551 Shakur2551 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    Did I mention he looks just like Paul walker?

    ? I don't know what's happening to me.. I just like him.. And whenever I see his wife I feel very jealous! This guy can't be mine for endless reasons.. Yet I still like him! And I crave his attention! I'm not the typical attractive girl.. And I'm a little naive when it comes...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    It's totally inappropriate

    and wrong, but I can't help it. I just went through a divorce. He is old enough to be my father, and he even joked around about it, saying I could be his daughter. He had a big grin on his face. He has pushed boundaries in the past, which is why I feel I'm always drawn to the...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Stupid Thanksgiving Holiday Means 6 Days Of No Cute Boss. Anyone Else.....

    feel this way? I used to LOVE the holidays, but now I hate them because they are so unproductive in my irrational plan to have a hot, torrid affair with my boss. I don't want to leave my husband, and I don't want him to leave his wife - but I do want to jump his bones in the...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Help !!! I cant get over my crush

    and obsession of my boss! Im married, he's married, (not happily either one of us) ... We have been talking, chatting, texting for a year now. He calls me wonderful, dear, baby, darling, etc!!!! He gives me rides to my car so I don't have to walk in the cold, He smiles at me and...
    lovethefish lovethefish 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Crush A Contract Director

    The company I worked for was a contractor for another company. The director of the other company was the one I had a huge attraction too. So we all worked in the same buliding with the contractor. The director was 6 foot 6 blond, blue eyed and just so beautiful. He was very much...
    Holii35 Holii35 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Well It'S The Other Way Around

    Well at first I thought nothin of it but appears my boss pays more attention to me than any other of my co workers. My co workers are really starting to notice too. She'll just call my name for NO REASON!!! She told everyone she likes how to sounds. I was kinda shocked and...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Story/Question: I work Grill at a fast food

    joint and have been thinking more and more about the Assistant Manager at my job. She is only two years older then me, we make small talk and have our usual workplace play banter and try to help her whenever I get the chance to. Despite all this, I'm still really nervous to...
    Royal412 Royal412 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I've heard that a lot

    if people misunderstand my boss. He doesn't open up to people and can be pretty mean at times. But I think he's starting to open up to me. He tells me about how he feels about other people, his cat (who he dearly loves), and he teases my a lot. Even though our ages difference is...
    littlequints littlequints 22-25, F 36 mins ago

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    The Helpers Crush Random Thoughts

    Those eyes your smile that chest o my. Why do you have to be so nice. The flirty playful touches you know I'm going to get even one day. One day you will give me that little arm punch and I'm going to turn around and jump you. Ohh just how I'm not sure. How do I play back with...
    Annbryan Annbryan 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Love At First Sight

    Ever since I laid eyes on my boss I was crushing hard. I find myself thinking of her all day! When I c her I lose all concentration. She's beautiful. I love hugging her an touching her. I find ways to text her. She does flirt back some an I once told her out of random that I...
    Tlove24 Tlove24 26-30, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Former Boss

    So I have the biggest crush on my former boss. Last year, we did pretty much everything together and have the same interests and such. He is finishing up his doctorate at Bowling Green, and I miss him a lot. I want to have the long conversations we used to have - I miss him so...
    witttiger86 witttiger86 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Lately it's been really hard to concentrate at

    my job. My boss is too handsome and nice. Of course this makes me feel awful especially since I love my husband and we have a great life together. Why ruin that? My imagination has certainly taken over with thoughts of my boss though. I know my feelings are one sided and I don...
    Headygoodness Headygoodness 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    Ever since I started working at my job,

    about a year and a half ago, I thought that one of my bosses was very attractive. I believe he's in his mid thirties and he's married with one kid. Him and I seem to have the same personality, so I just thought that he was really attractive and nothing more...until about two...
    XxMarie09xX XxMarie09xX 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18

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    littlequints littlequints 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Silly

    I have three bosses you could say, there is one that is the manager and two assistant managers. One of the assistant managers is probably in his 40's or 50's, and I have a serious crush on him. I don't know how to act or think on this. I clearly have no shot with him, and I feel...
    lightsaboveus89 lightsaboveus89 18-21, F 8 Responses May 24, 2011

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    Recovering from this crush.

    .. Seeing him for his true self.. His sneaky actions as a manager.. He says a lot of things that he doesn't stick to.. I'm very mad at him.. He said something that indirectly offended me at a meeting yesterday.. I stood up to it.. But it revealed a lot to me.. Today I couldn't...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Bad Idea On So Many Levels

        I have a deadly hard crush on my boss.  He's 22 years older than me.  We work very closely, and he drives me crazy... scattered, unorganized... but so hot it's distracting.  When he walks into the room, I can feel my hormones light up.  And...
    libertyblue libertyblue 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I have a crush on my female boss

    and she's 20 years older than me and I love her so much and when she's around me I wanna hold her close and kiss her and I have this tingly feeling when she around and sometimes when we are alone I feel like I want to kiss her? Help
    beckslou beckslou 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    Woman With A Crush On Her Female Boss

     Just wondering if there are many people like me (only encountered one so far) who have a crush on their boss BUT their boss is the same sex as they are! I am in my late 30's and am happily married with 3 kids and have been in my current job now for 2 years now. However i have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Told My Supervisor I Have A Crush On Him

    I'm so impulsive sometimes I just have to sit back and laugh at myself LOL. I've had a crush on my supervisor for a few months now but have never told him but I have been flirting with him every chance that I get so I'm pretty sure that he knew beforehand that I have the hots for...
    funnyceecee29 funnyceecee29 26-30, F 3 Responses May 20, 2013

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    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    cold cold man.. Driving me crazy with his

    moods.. His lips his eyes and his tone of voice His moods.. Ugly moods.. And how I feel inferior.. Because I feel I have nothing special.. He's so perfect and so pretty.. Why would he notice me? But I want him to notice me! Not only as an exceptional employee.. But also as a...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I think I will be leaving this group soon.

    . His weird and sneaky actions as a manager are repelling me.. Which is somehow good.. Right now I'm really angry with him, last week we had a work meeting and I left tearful because I was so furious! (Yes I cry if I was very angry) Why was I mad? Because I realized that he...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    One & Only

    I am obsessed with him. He radiates light and warmth when he walks into a room. He makes my days a joy. At the end of each day, my heart grieves because I have to leave him. I pour all this passion into my work. He has never had a PA like me, and he never will. I am his one and...
    LadyMagma LadyMagma 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    bored87 bored87 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Crush On My Older Boss....

    So i worked for him when I was 18. Its a small business and he has about 7 workers. All family plus me. We are pretty close, I would go over to his place for fires and bbqs in the summer. I know most of his family. I moved and stoped working for him after about 2 years. We never...
    sarahfc sarahfc 22-25 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    OMG! 😱😍 i recently got a part time job,

    im a full time firefighter so i work on my days off. Man oh man! Since the first moment i saw her i was like "Woooowerz! Shes amazingly beautiful!" I didnt think she'd be my boss just a co-worker! Lucky me shes the one that trains the new-comers! 😉 she just simply beautiful...
    rescueme27 rescueme27 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I Have A Crush On My Boss

    I work for a law firm.  During the past 3 years I have been assistant to one of the associates.  He is not the kind of guy I would usually go out with, however I feel soooooo attracted to him. I have no problem talking or working with him.  In fact, we make a great team.  We...
    dreamer1609 dreamer1609 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    Just A Harmless Crush, A Victimless Crime Really

    First let me say that I believe the crush is mutual and that neither of us will ever disclose or act on it.  It may not even be mutual, but that doesn't matter.  This delightful crush does not affect work, except to make the mundane a bit more exciting.  It gives me extra...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 4 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    From Mean To Lovely (I add to this story frequently)

    I'm 17 and I have a huge crush on my 30 year old, recently married, female store manager. She used to be quite mean to me, probably because she focuses SO hard on her job and I was ditsy and didn't really care about the work. She'd always be hostile and unhappy with me, but...
    witcheslair witcheslair 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I Am Ridiculous....

    I am a mom and a wife and despite those things, I have a Hot Mess of a Raging Schoolgirl Crush on my Boss!!!! I don't want to leave my husband - and I seriously doubt that he would want to leave his wife - we both have children - BUT - there is so much CHEMISTRY between us that...
    Laurietwins Laurietwins 36-40, F 32 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    I'm his receptionist

    and he is a board member of various real estate firms all over the US. he is tall, pretty average looking but his eyes... they are the definition of happiness. it's like they never aged. he looks at everything like he's experiencing it for the first time. when he smiles, his...
    ClarityZedd11 ClarityZedd11 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I have a major crush on my boss.

    He actually calls me the wife he never wanted considering he is single never been married and no kids. We have worked together for 3.5 yrs. Recently I got sick soon he has been my rock through it all. I'm not sure if I should tell him. What do you think?
    honey2423 honey2423 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    He owns the company I've been working

    for for the past 2 months. He thinks I'm shy so I think that's the reason why he gives me attention. And I think he's just the touchy feely type. Like he would squeeze my shoulder while he walks beside me. Or he sits skin to skin close me when we're eating together. I like...
    psychocharlie psychocharlie 31-35 Jan 19

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    I have a crush on my boss.

    Yeah, it's the first time I've admitted this to anyone, but I feel quite intense about it. He's pretty much my physical ideal: tall, dark hair, icy blue eyes (actually there's a running joke of his likeness to Robin Thicke). We share a similar sense of humor and it drives me...
    notthatgrl85 notthatgrl85 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    he demands my attention!

    i gave him my attention a couple of times.. then held back.. now he demands it! he does things that just says: hey i'm here! notice me and spoil me with your attention like you did the other day! he'd just sit right in front of me.. to talk with someone else.. then ask me...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Omg, I am really a hot mess right now

    and don't know how to deal with this situation. I have the best boss now. He is soooo kind! I have never been so attracted to a man because of his kindness. He is preppy, and I don't even like that type. The problem is I shouldn't even be entertaining these thoughts...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Intellectual Attraction

    I have no intention of doing anything and the weird thing about my story is that the attraction isn't physical. It's intellectual. He is very good at reading people, and he doesn't try to hide how analytical he is. He is always questioning things and trying to figure things out...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    A little confused by this.

    I'm thirty and recently married to a man my age, my boss is 62. But I have been having weird feelings about my boss. Like I respect him a lot. He is very funny and clever. And kind of a bit dirty but not really but kind of a bit and kind of I want him to be a bit more... Ah! It...
    sorcha46 sorcha46 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Hope He Doesn't Read

     It is so uncanny! I got this job in the middle of Nov. and I remember thinking at the interview that he sure is cute. He told me he had never had such a long interview with anyone, and that no one had said what I did. Even at the interview we both noticed things we have in...
    Katiedid9508 Katiedid9508 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 16, 2009

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    I Can't Get Him Off My Mind...going On 2 Years.

    My supervisor is a 35 year old man. Never been married, never had kids. I can tellhe's lonley but he dosen't really let it show. He's a rule follower and is one of the good guys. He dosen't drink and dosen't like to break the rules. Im 20 years old and I have admired him from...
    shelbiperry shelbiperry 18-21 5 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    happy like a fool... i'm floating between earth

    and sky.. not sure what i'm really happy about.. i was able to spend sometime with you today.. although not alone.. in your very home.. i saw you well.. and i think you saw me too.. i do not want to ruin your family .. your kids are really beautiful.. but a selfish scream...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 3 Responses May 11

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    i'm very mad at him..

    i say i hate him.. but i don't... i just want to punch him.. to shout at him.. he's so cold.. it's like i do not exist at all.. i don't want him to like me because he's married... but at the same time i can't believe he doesn't like me... it seems he just doesn't.. it's like...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Although he's not so much a boss

    as he is "management", whatever the **** that means. It's a very unstructured environment: not an office, everyone pretty much works on their own, hours are strange, and the "bosses" are super-casual I-only-own-the-company-I-don't-have-subordinates. There are 3, and yes, they...
    Neired82 Neired82 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    This feels very wrong

    but good at the same time. I'm his assistant I'm 25 I have a boyfriend He's a project manager He's 49 He's single He could come across as someone who's not very nice, but he's actually very nice. He's also a workaholic, so it's not surprising that he is single. I want to be...
    littlequints littlequints 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I've been working at my job

    for a little over a year and about three months ago I realized I'm extremely attracted to my older married female boss. I told a couple of my coworkers which resulted in everyone I work with knowing. The problem is my boss recently confided in a couple of us that she has just...
    ryinkelsin ryinkelsin 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a female in my late twenties (nearly 30 :)

    and I'm gay. I've dated many women but am now single. I just interviewed for a new job where I could pick between 2 different roles. A little over a week into the job I'm realizing that I may have picked this role because of the boss and the fact that I'm starting to crush on...
    powerof2 powerof2 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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