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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    He is completely honest with me. A lot of people assume we're dating because we're really close and playful but that is hilarious because we started our friendship thinking that...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 28

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    So I've been thinking about the summer and my best friend houston. I'm in love with our friendship and I wish I could have a boyfriend like him. He and I cuddle and kiss and go on...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Well it's been 4 years today since you were taken away from Mr Jamie my best friend my gay soul mate you made me laugh always you made me smile when I was sad you had ny back like...
    leahlovesyou leahlovesyou 18-21, F Sep 6

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    She never thinks nor talks bad of me. Is that truly wonderful or what?! How many of you on here have that type of friend?
    BeckBeck65 BeckBeck65 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    Her name is Stacey and I met her in college in Colorado. It doesn't matter how long has gone by between talks, it's like no time has gone by at all when we get on the phone. She...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Courtney I met a year ago! She never listens to a word I say, but she's the most beautiful girl i know! Not only in body, but in Spirit. I almost lost her a few times, and with her...
    Dsrutherford Dsrutherford 16-17, M Aug 23

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    She will soon be my wife. This amazingly beautiful woman who brightens every moment of my life. She is not just a physical beauty.Her beauty comes from within her. Her outlook,her...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes 41-45 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    You Ever See Someone Online & The Things They Post... And You're Like,"Damn We Could Be Best Friends" Lol, I Have Like 3 Best Friends That Don't Even Know About Me.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm a 14 yr old girl and I wish to have a gay best friend cos every girl deserves one. :) message me if u wanna be my gay bestie lol
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Reasons to have a guy best friend: -Guys don't start lame rumors -They don't tell your secrets -They don't PMS and be rude -They don't try and steal the guy you like -They aren't...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    People always tall about girls can't have a boy best friend yada yada and I believed it until mine came along about a year ago. He's my #1 supporter and helps me through all my...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F Aug 31

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    My best friends are my second-half, they're the only people that I act 100% myself around. We don't judge each other, we laugh at our imperfections. It's nice to have friends who...
    channy205 channy205 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I am in love with my best friend - it all started in junior year when I met my best friend, I met her thanks to her sister that I had met the previous year, my best friend's sister...
    Silverfang40 Silverfang40 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    There is this girl I really like. She's my best friend. I told her I like her, but she said she just saw me as a friend. I think it was okay so I lived on. While I was on vacation...
    xFredje xFredje 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I think I'm developing a crush for a friend (if I can call him that) even if we aren't that crush. But I get discouraged since he's older, we are both male and a female best friend...
    alchnyr alchnyr 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I guess it was during the party when I fell in love with Alice. She was my best friend since Kindergarten, so I never really had a crush on her. But last week, a friend invited our...
    cosmicdragon cosmicdragon 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    She has been my friend since first grade. We been super close for so many years. I only found out after I had gave up on her and now with my current boyfriend. She told me, I told...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I was dating this guy for a little over a year; due to recent circumstances we decided to just be friends. Lately we've been try a work on things to get back to where we used to be...
    gigi1993 gigi1993 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Fall in love with your best friend is something relative. It can be the best or the worst thing in your life. You can get really worried about your firendship or the thing will...
    journeyrainbow journeyrainbow 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I have gone through a lot because of my best friend and I just think that she just doesn't understand. She thinks her problems are so much worse than mine. I've been beaten by one...
    Fullcan Fullcan 18-21, F Sep 10

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    My friend and I have been best friends for 5 years now. Back in January, he asked me to go out with him & I said "Yes!". We dated for a few months then one day after school, while...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I had this good friend who we were best friends for 5 years. About a 2 years ago, we stopped being friends because of some boy, but after a couple weeks of not speaking we were...
    limaha7 limaha7 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I don't necessarily hate her. I just hate what she's been acting like lately. 1. This is going to sound like a dumb reason to dislike someone, but she copies everything I say. I...
    bridget1234567 bridget1234567 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    We are only 3 years apart. He's been my partner of crime since 1996, and we've been into shenanigans you wouldn't even believe. we talked in code words (still do), we had inside...
    NicoleNotsoRichie NicoleNotsoRichie 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    When I was younger, I was bullied and made fun of--even by teachers! My mom took me out of school in fourth grade and started to home school me. It was during this year that we...
    HatersGonnaHateMe HatersGonnaHateMe 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have a huge crush on my straight best friend. We have such a good time. He got naked for me the other night, out on his back porch after his gf went to bed. I gave him a blow job...
    RomanNZolanski16 RomanNZolanski16 26-30, M Aug 21

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