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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    FieldHockey57 FieldHockey57 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have met my best friend on here. We have common experiences. Although they are tough we have each other to lean on. She gives me hope to know everything will be alright I'm so...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    For the last 6 months I've had a guy best friend who is like a brother to me. We talk about everything. His other best friend is my crush. My crush likes me back. Since my crush...
    hana771 hana771 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I have such beautiful friend here on EP! well I have some nice and kind heart friends in my circle here and I appreciate all of them even that we don`t chat together but I follow...
    lonelytone lonelytone 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    My friends are literally the best people in my life right now and I couldn't ask for anything better! A few years ago I basically had no friends and I was too nervous to go and mix...
    DannyTheManny DannyTheManny 16-17, M Jul 16

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    We have been friends now for 3/4 years, I think I have feelings for him, he means the world to me, he cares about me, he worries, he makes me happy, his texts make me smile, he is...
    delalsagh delalsagh 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I want to see myself like in the movies; With a gay best friend, a guy friend and a girl friend. :p lmao but I think that is too much to ask. I haven't found a best friend that is...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I always had one, but we always became obsessive, possessive with each other. So I ended the friendships. I experienced 2 like that. I haven't had that ONE best friend since I was...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F Jul 3

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    Ok so I'm not gonna sit here and brag about how awesome my friends are for the most part, but I just want to say for those of you who feel alone...there is someone out there who...
    dyingalittleinside97 dyingalittleinside97 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I have always seen best friend do everything together, even after high school they are still together. I had friend in high school but know of them really stayed with me, we talk...
    ashleyd10117 ashleyd10117 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'd rather have a few best friends that i can rely on, confide in, and depend on.... Overall, i prefer a few close friends than many acquaintances.
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    My two ex boyfriends are my best friends. After breaking up with them and after a few months I can act more like myself around them. But with my current I cannot.
    I4Nkammie I4Nkammie 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    its been awhile since i logged into my ep account..bad thoughts are lingering inside my head again..and maybe thru writing in ep i can tune out these unhealthy thoughts im having...
    redchic4 redchic4 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    Most days I love him to pieces, he's incredible and I feel so lucky to be his friend. He makes time for me over his boy friends and other girl friends (all of which fancy him like...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    We were roommates and best friends. She moved out and stopped talking to me after I started dating my BF. She said we are sisters and we'd always be best friends. She doesn't reach...
    Roxvox Roxvox 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have an awesome guy best friend. He is super smart and cute. I would like to date him, but a while back he told me he didn't like me. This was after I broke up with my boyfriend...
    Strawbearies Strawbearies 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    Since i already read a lot of stories in here maybe its time for me to share my story. So i have a secret crush to my girl best friend. We've been friends since we were in...
    stupid26 stupid26 18-21, M Jul 2

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    I'm at the beach with my best friend and his family for the week but the thing is I have a crush on him and he dated my twin sister even thought she knew I had a crush on him and...
    Invisblesuperhero Invisblesuperhero 13-15, T Jun 30

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    Over the past month or so, I've been getting stronger feelings for him. He's smart, funny, kind and caring. Today we had to work together shortly in English, and when I looked in...
    EmmaLL1999 EmmaLL1999 13-15, F Jul 10

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    Kelvin...it seems like you never even existed. You were my best friend. And then all of a sudden you hate me? Why? You said you cared. You promised...
    JustBeingMe572 JustBeingMe572 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I remember her and I went to the fabric store to buy some fabric to make clothes and that's the first time I noticed feelings for her. She was kneeling down looking at what she...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I have a crush on my best friend...he is strait...I thought I was bit then I realized I really like him....I actually love him but....I can't loose him....what should i do...
    jaylynnfox jaylynnfox 13-15, M 21 hrs ago

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    I think I've finally found my true love. His name is Paul and we first met in 8th grade which was about 8 years ago. When we first met he was a real jerk, he constantly teased me...
    unexplainedfeelings unexplainedfeelings 18-21, F Jul 1

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    So I have this guy friend I have been friends with for 4 years, I mean I always thought he was cute and stuff and he thought the same of me but I just never wanted to go further...
    Jic195 Jic195 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a huge crush on my best friend. We talk everyday. Whenever we see each other we bicker, play fight, and call each other names. Do you think he likes me back? We are both 14...
    FunkyStrunky FunkyStrunky 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Sometimes you can't help it really...They have traits that you wish you had or wish you didn't have but they overcome it. Or they're insanely gorgeous and you're half in love with...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T 1 Response Jun 30

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    I'm in love with him, we just Started getting close, but I had a crush on him for months now. I finally decided to become best friends before anything. Now we are best friends. I...
    violetviolence256 violetviolence256 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    He's not my best friend, my best friends were some other people.... he's just a 20 days old friend. But still a good friend. I am jealous of him, Well, I would say it frankly, He...
    EpKarl EpKarl 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Not exactly brother, his my best friend's cousin... And my best friend was pretty shock when I told him that I had a crush on his cousin😁✌️
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a best friend who loves me and It's very confusing. She's been my best friend for 7 years and I don't want to ruin this friendship. I have a huge crush on her but I just don...
    Nessuray Nessuray 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My best friend whom I will call Jake has had a crush on me on and off for the past year and I've known about it for about as long. People have always told us we'd be a great couple...
    liaelizabeth liaelizabeth 16-17, F Jul 17

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    I just told my best friend that I have a crush on a girl over facebook, then had to explain that I'm not gay but bi. She's now totally confused but I did it today cos I won't see...
    straylii straylii 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago