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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17, 2015

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I want a boyfriend who is my best friend. Someone who is easy to talk to and I can be myself around. Someone I can have fun with.
    skyebrookson skyebrookson 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    When he knows I've been depressed about a guy so he texts me "Hey If you'll go to my prom with me, I'll go to yours with you." He's always been there for me, and has always had my...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Use to,not ever again unless he's my bf.I don't think it's a good idea in the long run.Because eventually some one gets hurt.So now i just see guy friends as just that friends at...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm sorry to say this but all girl friends I have met in life ways took advantage of me they only came to.me when they needed me and they were gone when I needed them. rn I need a...
    Anna1198 Anna1198 16-17, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I would love to have a guy best friend :3 (preferably someone around my age; I'm 17)
    hardestofhearts hardestofhearts 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The fact he knows he can have any women he wants (if you ever met him you would understand why.) but yet he waits on a girl for 6 months now to date her and still waiting for her...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Losing my best friend is definitely harder to go through than any breakup I've been. We were attached at the hip.. Then she ditched me and found a new best friend. (She pulled the...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Idk.. But Ill tell you My story. I met her once after school, on the bus. I sat down beside her in the lack of other places to sit. And she apparently were the kinda person that...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    All my life I've been friends with girls. My best friend is a girl, we're really different but we get along pretty well. But I miss a guy's company. A few years back I were friends...
    lonelyrider11 lonelyrider11 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I have had my best friend since I was four or five, me coming out was no surprise to him, he is used to my family anyway. He did ask if I had feelings other than friendship for him...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    She has his heart in a way that I don't I see him in a way that she can't She hold his hand And I own his smile She gives him butterflies I give him laughter We each have a...
    Villainess4life Villainess4life 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Look!! I really don't have an idea that u r still being jealous. ?? We have that issue since November and we talked , and I think that were ok. I thought that u'll never gonna get...
    lyca17 lyca17 16-17, F 2 days ago

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     ... but of course I'd never tell him that. I met Luke junior year of high school. He and my friend Haley went to homecoming together and I was head-over-heels the moment I...
    spark97 spark97 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I was 12/13 I met this boy who would turn out to be my best friend. Funny thing is, for the first 10 months we met all he did was beat me up. I didn't know why, but I laughed...
    Plouton3600 Plouton3600 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I miss having my best friend around. Best Friends since we were 7 and we were inseparable. I was her rock and she was the wings. She was the wild child who brought me out of my...
    DaisyKaine DaisyKaine 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    m Leaving This Site..There Are Boys Entering As Girls And Big Lies Allover This Site..If Anyone Is Looking For A Friend To Talk To Or A Best Friend And Has Any Social Media Account...
    Leadslotru Leadslotru 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    "He's not my boyfriend, but I do love his smile, his laugh, his hugs, his texts, and just being with him. I guess I'm not in love with him, I'm in love with us."
    Villainess4life Villainess4life 31-35, F a week ago

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    I was betrayed by my best friend. She was my first friend in high school and we were best friends with each other. It has been 5 years since we have known each other. However, we...
    sxyylove sxyylove 16-17, F a week ago

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    I've never actually known a girl that's just been my best friend. I've always just hung out with my guy friends and it was hard to make new friends of any kind because I've been...
    ApparentOrb9045 ApparentOrb9045 18-21, M a week ago

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    I had a best friend once, way back..before I become isolated lol.. first real best friend I guess.. he turned into a twofaced b*tch...let some fat girl led him astray. and a bunch...
    Cocrispy Cocrispy 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 31

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    “Be certain you are living YOUR life and not someone else’s” These are the dying words of my best friend’s sister. This wise admonition became my best friend’s catalyst...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    i used to have a best friend but he is married so now im all alone in this universe everyone of my friends walked away from me, no childhood friend anymore here i am, walking the...
    tenkoji tenkoji 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    If I could have one best friend, I would love to be best friends with a Muslim! A nice Muslim. Even though I'm not a Muslim, I'm not religious at all. Most Muslims are just really...
    ScienceOfSouls15 ScienceOfSouls15 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 31

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