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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    I mean, As long as nothing is happening,

    it is completely normal, right? This is harmless as long as I know where I stand with my bf. they are just like the same person. They are so much alike, like brothers, and that is provably why I have a crush on him. But of course I would prefer my guy, my bf, my love.
    LittlePointeShoes LittlePointeShoes 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    So me and my ex-bff are now back together. The problem before was that he was jealous of my other best friends. He would let me do anything with my other friends. But also we had a...
    KingWetter KingWetter 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Yes, she is really an amazing friend . What is better than a good friend?! who cares about you and who talks with all heart to you . I'm not alone when she is here . I hope to see...
    Sia17 Sia17 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Done with their drama! God they put me in the middle of their fight, and they are the best two guy friends I have. I'm not choosing between them to. It's been a year, they need to...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Sep 29

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    It's supposed to be "an" but whatever. :p
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F Oct 11

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    I think it would be great to have a guy best friend I don't really care how he look I just want one with a protective about his friends and mysterious but it doesn't have to be...
    nimy29 nimy29 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I actually have a guy best friend and we met in highschool we become such good friends for the rest of highschool we have the same exact birthday we have the same favorite movie...
    nayjackcity nayjackcity 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    Hey guys, I'm 19 years old, 2nd year of college and it's been kinda lonesome lately. It's funny how when everyone graduated high school, they all promised to skype and keep in...
    ClassicCarole ClassicCarole 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    Actually I have like 4 best friends. One of them I lost earlier this year and later on in the summer I got him back. He's like a lil bro to me. And then one my other best friends...
    KingWetter KingWetter 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I'd love to have a guy best friend that doesn't want anything more from me! too many guys take things too far and I just want a totally platonic friendship with someone
    vyctoriaa vyctoriaa 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I have a guy best friend We been friends for 4 years
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    It all started my final semester of my senior year in High School. I had just gone through a major breakup with my boyfriend of 5 years after he cheated on me while I was gone on...
    jdbenz1976 jdbenz1976 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I had a best friend who was the closest person to me in the world. We'd talk all the time, even when we weren't together, we'd text each other from "good morning" till "good night...
    xmasquirade xmasquirade 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    Okay so about last year i started having feelings towards other girls like I guess I always have but didn't take notice in it until last year, anyways I started crushing on one of...
    babii244 babii244 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I have a crush on my best friend "Amy". (I am a girl) I've had a crush in her for two months and she knows, but she doesn't really take it seriously. She has a crush on Jane. So...
    Kaylee000 Kaylee000 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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    I want girl best friend someone who's nice caring Funny has a great personality and loves music and Is a gamer
    JoeThePro11 JoeThePro11 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    I want a girl best friend 18-21someone who's nice funny has a great personality loves music and Is a Gamer message me
    JoeThePro11 JoeThePro11 18-21, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    The feeling in your stomach... Dude it's hard not liking my best friend he's so.. Idk how to put it it words..
    KenzieKenzBoo KenzieKenzBoo 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    if u a girl u can be my best friend
    Jeniyah1 Jeniyah1 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Its not something I asked for...it just happened. As a junior at high school I started idolising this girl in my class. I couldn't quite understand why I had such a great need to...
    smits15 smits15 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Well here's the story. So me and my best friend have been bffs for six years, since we were in seventh grade and now we are juniors in high school. We tell each other everything...
    FairyTailGM FairyTailGM 16-17, F Oct 6

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    This is not the way it was supposed to go. I'm Rosalind (21 years old) and I have been with my boyfriend Benvolio (22 years old) for 6 months. Not incredibly long of a...
    ReservedRosalind ReservedRosalind 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I have a crush on a guy, but he likes my best friend im not sure if he still does but bestfriend is dating a guy so theres no chance btw them..I really like him, but I am starting...
    heatherella heatherella 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 5

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    I like my best friends brother. I mean even our families ship us. It's just he is himself since, I've known him so long I know he is a huge nerd, a clarinet player ( band geek...
    booimfake123 booimfake123 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    This is bad and what makes it worse is my other best friend noticed before me >~< its weird and hard to explain but when im away from her its like my whole body heats up and wont...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F Oct 3

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    I met Belle two years ago wen I first moved from a new school. I didn't like her at first, at least not that way. We were more of friends of a friend that first year. The year...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Oct 8

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    My boyfriend is actually my ex-husband. We got divorced about five months ago, his choice, not mine, although the four-year marriage was stressful for both of us. About two...
    moonkitty3 moonkitty3 41-45, F Sep 23

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    A year ago, my best friend, we've known each other for years, I had a little crush on him and one day he came out to me as gay and asked me to be his boyfriend, I said yes and we...