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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    He's been one of my best friends for years, and I feel very affectionate towards him whenever we're together. I also think he's very handsome. Sadly, I am sure we will never be...
    bluejay749 bluejay749 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I really do miss my best friend.. Everyone says that it gets better, but as each day passed I find myself the same every night.. Crying, thinking about him, wishing he was still...
    averageteengirl7515 averageteengirl7515 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'd really like a guy best friend. I bond more with men than girls and finding a girl best friend is a chore. Most girls are two faced these days :/ I like gaming a lot, I love...
    badluck3imi badluck3imi 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I lost my previous best friend whom I knew since 7th grade when we were juniors in high school. She became friends with some sophomore and she didn't like me and got her against me...
    badluck3imi badluck3imi 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I don't know....reading all the stories here...makes me feel I was never really even friends with my best friend. I mean we never actually met. Except for once. Never before or...
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I had a best friend for 9 years. It was crazy. We started out in the first grade through freshman year. It's now almost the beginning of sophomore year. I always talked about my...
    alexazevola alexazevola 13-15 2 days ago

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    Yes I do, she understands me and listens to me, even if what I have to say is completely insane. She's the only person who will actually take what I say seriously and I love her...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Me and my boyfriend were inseparable. We truly were best friends for 4 years. He had a lot going on in his head though. Alot of things nagging at him from his brother and his aunts...
    hungryforchange hungryforchange 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    my best guy friend isn't talking to me anymore and I don't feel so comfortable talking to my girl friends. I just need a best friend to talk to, I really do.
    anonymous1anonymous7 anonymous1anonymous7 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I moved in with my best friend and her boyfriend we have been living together for a year now and I have realized that I am smitten over her. I'm trying to move on but I can't get...
    Landrew83 Landrew83 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I have a guy best friend named Josh and now I have developed a crush on him... what should I do
    2Dishot 2Dishot 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    He cheers me up when i'm down. No matter what happens he can make me laugh. I love him to death and I can't imagine life without him! Oh, how much I wish he was here with me right...
    RatchetGurl101 RatchetGurl101 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    He is gone he left me for even better people he knows who he his and he needs to know I don't care he meant nothing
    Girlgamer11 Girlgamer11 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    In fifth grade a new boy came into my class and one day I asked him for help on my homework. He said that he would and then we started talking to each other everyday. We always...
    kattom kattom 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I want a girl best friend again. I have had a few in my life and they where always the best friendships I have ever had. I can open up and truly just be the real me with a girl...
    Casper000 Casper000 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    not only is she an amazing best friend she is amazing in every other way :3 I love my bestie even if she is a ***** sometimes xD
    s3xyPsyc0 s3xyPsyc0 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I consider my best friend my lesbian lover, were just that close we not lesbians though
    HeCallsMeMami HeCallsMeMami 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    These guys have been my best friends it feels like forever!!
    shaun33 shaun33 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Me and my best friend are so close we say were an inseparable lesbian couple
    HeCallsMeMami HeCallsMeMami 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My best friend and I re-enacted "Romeo and Juliet" with tater-tots and chicken nuggets because we are mature and sophisticated people. Trust me, I couldn't ask for a better best...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    were more than friends but we are good friends aren't we Chris : ) I love you
    loneleyboy loneleyboy 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    She's soo sweet and kind. She's just the best friend I've ever had ^.^
    boggbinny boggbinny 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think I lost my best friend. we used to do everything together. And in the last week she has disappeared from my life. I only get texts from her saying she's hanging out with...
    Smurfette1 Smurfette1 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So I'm a lesbian and before I was bi I had a crush on my best friend before I admitted I was bi so a loooonnggg time I liked my friend so i didn't want to admit I liked girls (this...
    icantstandme icantstandme 13-15, F Jul 22

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