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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17

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    My friend is one of the sweetest people I know, and even though we're still in high school and academic rivals, she's always honest and wants the best for me. Her mom is the...
    emotionalrobot1 emotionalrobot1 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    she was my bestie.when we cant talk for week i used to miss her alot.we used to share everything.she was sweettest girl on the planet. idk what happned last week, maybe that was my...
    sidmon sidmon 18-21, M 1 Response May 1

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    He is like my brother I can tell him almost anything.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 May 4

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    He is the sweetest person in the entire f****** world, and the way he cares for people is extraordinary. No one knows what goes through his head and how much s*** he's endured...
    24wildroses 24wildroses 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    She is a private person so I wont say her name. I wish she wasn't in a different country :(. But I am happy for EP and that I met her.
    LatinJustice LatinJustice 16-17 2 days ago

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    Yes yes yes I'm sure most of us has had this experience but unlike me I've had this experience many times but I would like to talk about an experience I had today, If you've read...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    This is the way to go not having one person as your best friend only. I find (have just learnt) that having one best friend could ruin your friendship later on and you can loose...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    I love him so much. He was my dog for 11.5 years. Yesterday I rushed him to the vet because I knew something serious has been very wrong. Anyways he had cancer and I had to say...
    torijoy torijoy 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I have two male best friends, and I love them and have found myself very attracted to them at several times. Although I would not say "in love with them". One of them I couldn't...
    Delphineidunna Delphineidunna 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Her name is Reem, she's actually here on EP. She have been my best friend for 4 years now, when I realise that she's leaving for university I wonder what will happen to both of us...
    Dinaa18 Dinaa18 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Wish I could have a guy best friend that would stick around
    Waiting4Wings Waiting4Wings 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I've moved around way too much in my life and never was able to have that childhood "best friend". I've always wanted one though.
    GayManInTexas GayManInTexas 26-30, M 1 Response May 4

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    I have a gay best friend! ^.^
    WhyAmISoDifferent WhyAmISoDifferent 13-15, F May 10

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    His birthday was on the first of this month. He left us seven years ago in March. I don't know why he took his life, but he said goodnight to me that night. What struck me as odd...
    grindhound grindhound 22-25, T May 12

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    I have a best friend who I am extremely grateful for and have been friends with for around four years. But, he is a guy, and we hang out allllll the time, which makes everyone...
    bradfordbadboi1 bradfordbadboi1 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I have, and myself cannot believe it. Yes I was the type that would have looked at this experience and laughed. Why, for one. Because I can't grasp the aspect of having any type of...
    ambull1 ambull1 36-40, M 4 hrs ago

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    Let's refer to my best friend as "Rose" Rose has been is a relationship with her boyfriend for three years and they are inseparable. I really think they are in it for the long haul...
    brieftimetravelinfluencer brieftimetravelinfluencer 13-15, F 55 mins ago

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    The other night I overheard my boyfriend of almost a year discussing getting an engagement ring with a friend. We've been best friends for five years now and our relationship has...
    Lotusalise Lotusalise 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    Where do I even begin, I have a massive crush on one of my closest friends I'd probably consider her one of my best friends, anyway I've been struggling with my sexuality for years...
    teedora teedora 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    My ex-best friend is my crush. I loved him more than anything else, willing to die for him. He's the funniest, most caring, best person in the world. One day, he started ignoring...
    MysteryGirl450 MysteryGirl450 13-15, F 1 Response May 1

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    My entire life I have been friends with girls. I just get along better with them than with guys. Inevitably though, the flirting begins, and I usually end up with a crush on them...
    open2anything1976 open2anything1976 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    So lately my best friend is being really annoying she always judges me . She always says my crush is really ugly. And she always has to say rude comments about what I wear and...
    anaaaa188 anaaaa188 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Kyle and I had known each other since we were little kids, we were neighbours but never really got along. He would call and sing for me but I rejected him every time, I didn't like...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with my very best friend. She's basically family I guess. She stays the night a lot and says she thinks she's likes girls also. She used to have a crush on me a while...
    Stargirl345 Stargirl345 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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