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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    She is not really my best friend but i feel got close over the couple two days she is nice, fun, and speaks spanish lol maybe one day we'll be best friends without noticing
    roodline roodline 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I asked him out ..This was a total joke . Actually it was a dare but that doesn't matter . He basically said no and I'm not really offended or surprised but I think he feels weird...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Mar 21

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    "Under My Thumb" Under my thumb The girl who once had me down Under my thumb The girl who once pushed me around It's down to me The difference in the clothes she wears Down to me...
    yahooabcd yahooabcd 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Today is the birthday of my major college crush, and last night he had invited his friends, including me, to a bar for his birthday party. I couldn't go because my dad is here and...
    RH17 RH17 18-21, F Mar 8

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    My best friend and I have been friends for six years. I told her that I used to have a crush on him, but that I don't anymore. I lied to her because she thinks it would be weird...
    catlover425 catlover425 13-15, F a week ago

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    I have a best friend. Me and him been friends for about 3 years. He is my other half. We share the same brain. We both have crushes on the same guy lol. He a really funny dude. We...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Mar 15

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    yeah, 2nd year of university. however, it wasn't a crippling type of being in love, because I just as equally loved being her best friend. it starts with the painful...
    pleasedontkillme pleasedontkillme 18-21, F Mar 17

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    "Maria...I' just kissed a girl named Maria..." okay, so my life isn't exactly like West Side Story, but here it is. My best friend and I, we've been friends for about 4 years...
    sblp2017 sblp2017 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I have never really had a best friend in my life. I know it sucks. I do have friends, but I don't have a best friend to share much of everything with no matter what and will be...
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I need a new best friend. Someone who will always be there with me, who I can text all day, who will travel the world with me. I need a best friend who I can tell everything to and...
    courtneyyy13 courtneyyy13 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just found out two days ago , it was out of the blue for such a happy and cheerful girl to see 3 scars on her thigh it was so unexpected . At dinner in my school we were eating...
    secret687 secret687 13-15, F Mar 10

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    once upon a time i fell in love with a girl who i never really talked to but became best friends with in a matter of weeks. after a month passed, i made a move and we dated. that...
    ThatOtherGuy17 ThatOtherGuy17 16-17, M 6 Responses Mar 11

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    I see stories on here telling about couples falling in love. That in itself is always a great thing. What I want to know is how many of those consider your lover your best friend...
    srfchopper srfchopper 56-60, M Mar 14

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    Hey guys! iam sorry if my english isnt that good becouse its not my first language. So like a month I feel depressed, sad, usless, lonely,... I dont want to go in school anymore...
    evica123 evica123 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I used to have best friends during my school days. Not anymore. When I was in my 20s I went three 3 besties, only to find out they weren't my best mate cuz they said so. Only one...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I'm so Confused! PART 1 So I changed schools. I finished my tenth grade and left to another school and stayed there my junior and senior year. In my junior year I met a boy named...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M Mar 5

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    My best friend was my highschool sweetheart whom after years apart I reunited with in 2007 ..he was so good to me.He loved me for me and stood up for me always even if I was wrong...
    tennmelann tennmelann 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    This song describes how I feel about the best friend I lost Hey ole Friend, thanks for callin' It's good to know somebody cares Yeah she's gone, but I don't feel like talkin' It...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M Mar 8

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    it's hard . loosing your best friend . You think there there for you right ? Yea . I felt that way . Well my best friend is a guy . It started in 6th grade ... We had classes...
    charmainebowan71102 charmainebowan71102 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    The person that was going to be my life long best friend slowly began to severely dislike me. I'd known him for 13 years, knew all the family ect. I was in love with him and it was...
    Christina916 Christina916 22-25, F Mar 19

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    I am looking for a best friend who could be my life long friend , i have got many friends and a very nice girl friend and now i m looking for a best friend.
    dieseldrumm dieseldrumm 22-25, M Mar 19

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    my best friend is gone. I'll never forget the times shared the laughing and smiles and joy.no one knew me like u did we used to hang out every day I told u everything. one day we...
    brookebam brookebam 13-15, F Mar 19

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    Back in January, I found out my best friend had sex with my ex boyfriend I had dated for 3 years. Yeah, we were broken up, but still... he was my first love and that's just NOT...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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