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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I don't even know how you would describe his & I relationship.... seriously one second end are hugging each other flirting then the next we are cussing each other out. Exactly the...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I have a girl best friend were gunna call her k (she's not the one I'm in love with) we'll we were best friends for like 3 years over all and I knew my guy best friend since 4th...
    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Nov 13

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    Yeah I wish I can have a guy best friend. Someone who can ACCEPT, UNDERSTAND, and RESPECT ME. Someone I can trust and share stories of my life. :)
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wish i was like her! she's outgoing, sociable, bubbly, open and she is never shy. she gets so much guys and she gets asked out a lot, she will literally go up to anyone and say...
    juliac123 juliac123 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    High school BFF: We were friends for four years. We met when we were 14, almost exactly a month apart in age. She was quiet, shy, and nervous. I was letting my hair out after years...
    Nairamata Nairamata 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Truth be told we once made out. But it's never been awkward cause of that and we're still best friends and dating other people.
    holograms holograms 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    ...and I don't know what I should do. I know I'm not her *best* friend but I am one of many - she has many she considers true best friends and her BFF is her sister - but in my...
    themissmoxie themissmoxie 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    This certain friend crush thing is weird. I knew I liked him as a friend but but took me half a year to figure out that I had an insanely huge crush on him. He was just walking by...
    fivesaucewhoop fivesaucewhoop 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I visited my bestie, who lives across the country. It wasn't expected at all, as we've been best friends for 5, nearly 6 years. Better yet, I also have a boyfriend. My bestie...
    Yeahnah445 Yeahnah445 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's always that one friend, the friend no one will ever be able to replace. I love and miss her every day, but she's not the person she once was and she doesn't want me in her...
    MissListless MissListless 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I have been friends with my best friend for about 2 years now. I've liked him for about 1 1/2 years of our friendship. Exactly four months ago from today, he told me that he likes...
    annejuhlenuh annejuhlenuh 13-15, F Nov 4

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I suppose it all started the night of hallowe'en when i was walking back from a party, drunk, having already purchsed my kebab, and wanting to devour it in peace. My memories are...
    lologreeno lologreeno 16-17, F Oct 23

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for over half a year now. We knew each other in middle school, and I had a huge crush on him. Unfortunately because of that I was too nervous to...
    MyDearDiary MyDearDiary 18-21, F Oct 30

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    Recently I hurt my boyfriends feelings, he said that I've hurt something inside but he don't know what, I said I think it your pride. He said maybe.. We didn't talk for few days...
    missree missree 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    Soooo this so cliche and kind of a movie stereotype I have a best friend (a girl) how has another friend (a boy) and I really like him like really I have a crush on him for like a...
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was 17. He went to another school but we had gone to the same middle school and remained friends throughout high school. I never knew why people described love the way they did...
    annikadane annikadane 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    me and this guy have been best friends since 5th grade. I have had a crush on him forever. now were9th graders and dating. seriously sometimes things just need time to work out
    babyitskassie babyitskassie 13-15 1 Response Nov 9

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    So I just started my 9th grade year and high school change people lately I've been crushing on my best friend India . I recently turn bi but she recently turned bi to but we go to...
    zeph518 zeph518 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I am very worried I am never going to love another person as much as I love my best friend. As she is getting closer to being ready for marriage to her boyfriend of 8 years, it is...
    EileenDover EileenDover 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ex best friend. Moved away after knowing each other from 1-7
    Conspiracys Conspiracys 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    This was early 2012 and I met my lost best friend at a party where we talked about personal things and exchanged things. We became best friends after that. I don't think she...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    HHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPP!!!!!! Should I keep her or dump her? So it's been months since I talked to her. Long story short, not going to bore you with the details, but she came over...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So, this girl, she is my best friend. She is also my cousin, so we've known each other since we were born and stuff. She used to be kinda mean, so didn't like her. But then she...
    AvaRawr AvaRawr 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    My best friend is actually a guy, girls that I have considered best friends have always stabbed me in the back and now I don't really trust them anymore and I don't let people get...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I used to have a best friend. We met in primary school at the age of 10. There were a few of us in a group but she was always my closest friend. We didn't live that far from each...
    EmmaXP EmmaXP 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    First thing, I am a male. So, let's get going... I met this girl in 9th grade and we got along really well from the beginning (I'm pretty sure she liked be back then for a couple...
    ghioagabou ghioagabou 16-17, M Nov 4

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