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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 2 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    FieldHockey57 FieldHockey57 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I lost my best friend Kayla when we were in 8th grade. Kayla moved here in 6th grade, but we didn't really get close until the summer after our 7th grade year. We did everything...
    harperm97 harperm97 16-17, F Mar 24

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    he is the one in my profile picture we are great friends never dated or anything we have been friends since the 7th grade
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20

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    You know who you are. we have shared quite a lot already, and I would like to share again, or share some more, anyway.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    can you imagine meeting someone who figures out why you are so guarded? can you imagine finding someone who stays? no matter what you put them through they will always remain on...
    NefelibataAggression NefelibataAggression 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Hi, i'm Sara, i'm 14 years old, and i'd like to have a guy best friend 14-18 years old, i have a lot of female-friends and i don't have a problem on making female-friends but i've...
    SaraKh286 SaraKh286 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I literally am the worst best friend. EVER. I have liked my best friends ex even when he wasn't her ex.....like at first I didn't know they were dating but when I found out I...
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    My best friend is a guy and we've known each other for almost 9 years already. We constantly get into stupid arguments but they are serious that's just us. I stopped talking to him...
    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    My best friend is not only a guy but he is 30 years younger than me. I can tell him anything and he does not judge me. I am a relationship runner. I run if I start feeling to close...
    Angel1958 Angel1958 51-55, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M Apr 10

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I had a crush on my best friend and she found out. I'm a girl... Now she and her friends bully me so badly I contemplate suicide.
    promisemeandiwill promisemeandiwill 22-25 4 Responses Mar 31

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    It is currently April 2014, and I have been texting her since September. She is the person I could turn to when no one else was there for me. The person I could speak to about...
    AwesomeGardevoir AwesomeGardevoir 16-17, M Apr 9

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    I'm in love with my best friend and it crushes me when she finds another guy that's not me
    peachicus peachicus 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Here's to the best friend who... Can pep-talk away my tears. Here's to the best friend who... Is there for me when life turns its back. Here's to the best friend who... Assures me...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F Apr 11

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and hanging with his friends pretty much the whole time. I haven't really got comfortable with them until recently. See, what...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I've known my girl best friend, Francine, for 8 years now. She is very bright, very funny, very nice, and the best friend anyone could ask for. I am the luckiest guy in the world...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    I have been grieving over my best friend since we both grew apart. She turned into a mean spirited person and started just being awful to me and my family who had always treated...
    SubmissiveArtist SubmissiveArtist 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I want a best friend that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Apr 11

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    Okay yesterday I went to my best friend's volleyball game. We've been friends since 6th grade and were at the end of 8th. (We both transferred schools so we don't see each other...
    lonelybleu lonelybleu 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I have many friends but i just want that one best friend. Like i want to be a best friend to someone and be their best friend only. Someone to connect very easily with....
    dawntaker020 dawntaker020 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My best friend is AWESOME. (No, it's not myself, he really does exist). :D We've been best friends for a few years, and he's cheered me up when I felt sad. He has been there for...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Mar 23

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    It has always been my fantisies that i have sex with my best friend my current best friend is so sexy he is my dream guy and according to his ex girlfriend has a big one she was my...
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Guys make the best friends to girls, I just don't have that one guy best friend. Just looking for someone that will talk to me and just be a good friend haha
    xojules xojules 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    You know what I think , I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Friendship especially Best Friends for men is probably the greatest and most intimate relationship for the male species. As a guy we would love to have that level of intimacy and...
    robertv1976 robertv1976 36-40, M Mar 28

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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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