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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Anyone interested in a best friend? I can keep secrets and give advice :)
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I was watching videos of kylie Jenner and her best friend stas together and I love them so much they are such cute best friends I wish I could have a best friend like that where we...
    Babygirl3799 Babygirl3799 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    Yeah I do, she always knows how to cheer me up! I've been friends with her ever since Nursery! Just over 14 years, yeah we've had our ups and downs but that's what some best...
    SarahDotCom SarahDotCom 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    I have a crush on my friend who i've know for 4 years and i didn't know about my feeling untill this year! And honestly, i don't want those feelings because love isn't my thing and...
    justeunefille justeunefille 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    I probably wasn't your best friend, though you were mine. Brady, I have no idea what's happened to you. If you're out there, please let me know.
    LifeOnMars15 LifeOnMars15 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    Since I was young, I usually played outside on my own in the country. Then moved to the city. I made some friends but I was always the tag along. Then in teen years, I had...
    willowofthewoods willowofthewoods 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not that kind of 'LOVE' actually. I am just love him because he always there for me when i need motivation and support. We never declared that we are best friend, but what we had...
    DolceeVita DolceeVita 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    We had been best friends for 5 years when he confessed he has feelings for me.i didn't love him back so i told him that i only think of him as a friend and we can't be more than...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My best friend wote this for me💖 I'm just cold I was told again after I ask her What's with the hoodie? I don't fully understand How much pain she's in She feels like she's...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well I can say that having your lover as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I had this one really good friend since the very beginning of freshman year in high school (Maia), eventually we got closer and I got to meet her family, she had a sister which was...
    Himmydimmy Himmydimmy 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I had a best friend. I have close friends now, friends that I consider best friends but that aren't really. She was my best friend for seven years and then she grew distant. My...
    Jewels10022 Jewels10022 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There was Martinique, Shaynece, Adrianna, Tanisha, My preschool besty who's name I can't remember. My kindergarten besty who's name started with a J. The last time I had a best...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Oh! I just had to make this story as a way for showing my appreciation to a lady, who been into much of abuse and just glad i was there to help her out to feel much loved and see...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's not my best friend, it's one of my best friends close friends, who we go to school. We made a booster for him please help! http://www.booster.com/helpusfightbonecancer
    cayla921 cayla921 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Okay, in the past I told me crush how I feel and she didn't exactly feel the same (Note above is her response to me giving her a note confessing my feelings). However, now things...
    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M Jun 23

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    Well I went over to one of my best friends house and we were hanging out in her kitchen and her brother came in and we talked for a little bit and then we went down to her basement...
    lauren2500 lauren2500 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I havent had a best friend since early age. I've had some friends since then but I've never felt that I've come first with anyone. I really wish I had someone who wanted to be with...
    norwegianluna norwegianluna 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    My best friend is also my crush who i think i love, but that doesn't matter at the moment. What matters is that i want to hang out with her. Any suggestions of what to do? It can...
    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M Jun 22

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    Dear "best" friend, The past few days have been nothing but tense conversation and I don't know why. Yesterday, your sister messaged me on Facebook to tell me what a ****** friend...
    stayingstrongtoday stayingstrongtoday 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I met my best friend ironically through an ex 8 years ago.we started talking more and more. then we stopped for a couple years only to reunite again later and hit it off better...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    there was this girl I fell in love with when I was 15 but she turned me down every single time... she's now my best friend. but this was just me trying to get close to her any way...
    SanFransokyo SanFransokyo 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I lost my best friend to cancer in grade 7 and I was in emotional trauma for quite a while. We have been friends since grade 1 and I still miss her so much. She meant so much to me...
    Venessab Venessab 18-21, F Jun 18

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    I was just after being severely bullied by my best friends. My self esteem was non existent, I had no friends and I had no hope. She sat next to me one day in art class - not out...
    buto1 buto1 18-21, F Jun 18