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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 17

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I know mine seems a lot better since I found her. I have to confess, I never really saw myself having a female best friend....kind of a sex fiend, so that always seemed a little...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    My best friend, more importantly an honest, down to earth guy was in my dream last night. I left India in Dec2013 for pursuing studies in Canada. The huge list of things, persons...
    amoonlitbarn amoonlitbarn 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Things are complicated... To say the least. I have a crush on my best friend, as the title says...at least I think I do. I don't know, I've never really liked someone like this...
    AllieKat17 AllieKat17 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've only been friends with my best friend for a little over 4 years now. And we dated once before but only for a month because i ended it because i didn't wanna mess up the...
    springguo springguo 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Yeah i always had a crush with my best friend (a girl) i just cant pretend that feeling, the feeling when you love someone because you feel comfortable with her. That made my bf...
    recovery420 recovery420 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Why am I so jealous of my best friend? She is currently studying and have befriended with a lot of people in her new school. She had hardships in her life, and I was there for her...
    Erivalentino Erivalentino 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i honestly just want a boyfriend. a lover who is also my best friend. being in college i realize now how cool a boyfriend would be... it would make my life a little more complete...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My best friend and I have known each other for 10 years. Lol it's going to sound lame but he is also my only friend. My only friend back in Texas. The first thing that entered my...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM TO SEE MY MAIN QUESTION I NEED SOME ADVICE PLEASE. I have been best friends with this girl who lives really near me, for about 3YEARS which felt like more...
    Abay18 Abay18 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think I need to explain my whole situation. I'm a part of a group of three. Me, another guy, and a girl. I've known the guy for a few years but we were never very close before...
    pkmncq pkmncq 22-25, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I was drawn to her because she desperately needed someone. She was shutting everyone out, but she opened up to me. I had that giving nature, wanting to help someone. Feeling like i...
    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat 18-21, F Aug 26

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    In seventh grade, I came to a private Christian school. I had been homeschooled for five years before that and was to enter a new school. I knew what to expect in some ways, but in...
    xoxosweetsierra xoxosweetsierra 13-15, F Aug 26

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    I have lost; My best guy friend cause my girlfriend isn't allowing us to talk. And consequences may be serious if we do. (So basically a stranger now) My other best guy Friend...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh 16-17, T 1 Response Aug 26

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    From STRANGERS turned to SIMPLE FRIENDS, then to BEST FRIENDS and to LOVERS . . . . and back to STRANGERS!!!
    Aikomitsu Aikomitsu 16-17, F Aug 26

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    On July 14th, 2015 my life has changed completely. My best friend, motivation, love of my life, my angel got his life taken from him on his new street bike. I will never be able to...
    jaaadeee jaaadeee 18-21, F Aug 24

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    My best friend is so supportive, so understanding and amazing. I'm so proud to be his friend and glad that I can tell him everything. I hope we'll stay friends forever!
    Cessydesu Cessydesu 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Went to my best friend Aury's birthday party today. Even though her real birthday passed a few weeks ago lol it was still fun! I love this girl so much, she's the best!!! And her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 23

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    My best friend and I had drunken sex about a year ago and his current girlfriend found out so she didn't want us talking. He completely dropped me for her & I absolutely miss him...
    Mariag123 Mariag123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    My best friend ever was killed in a car accident in college. My next best friend, who I thought was the love of my life, left me for another. My best friends now are my team at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 22

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    I lose my best friend yesterday she said she don't want a friend like me. I remember I use to promise her that if we were not friend anymore I would fight to get her back I can do...
    lookket lookket 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Being in love with my best friend is the best thing that ever happened to me. In 15 years of my existence, I've spent 2 years loving him. And now, my love goes on. So does his. We...
    geeeeeeeesica08 geeeeeeeesica08 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    My boyfriend is my best friend in the entire world but then other times I really wanna screw my lesbian friend >.> shut up girls. Every girl no matter her s/o atleast ONCE in her...
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo 13-15, F Aug 21

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    A best friend can make a good lover.because friend's know about us everything..we told them all.they understand us...
    Najdia Najdia 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    This is quite a long story, but I'm gonna try to summarize it the best I can. So, I have this best friend called Chris, and another one called Polly. At the start of this new year...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20