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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    My best friend is a guy. He has red hair, 6'4, blue eyes and perhaps even dorkier than I am. The day we met our first conversation was about science fiction movies and shows we...
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F Nov 30

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    My best friends name is David he is Irish and 6 foot with brown hair we always hung out together until he moved to California we still talk though. he is really funny and sweet and...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I have the best real and Ep friend ever! Can't wait to go Black Friday shopping with you Steph! :D
    BornInTheWrongEra72 BornInTheWrongEra72 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    my guy friend may come over tomorrow i need something fun to do (not sex) to cheer him up some things happened so we're both really down. we're already gonna have starbucks,froyo...
    majahi majahi 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I get to see my friend david this week :) he moved to California so I came to visit him
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    AgentSickler :D you're almost always there for me and always make an effort to talk to me...even though I don't respond at times x) it's fun talking about whatever with you and tbh...
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    And everyone THINKS we're dating,
    Creelluka Creelluka 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I have made a best friend in u Ur my lova hata backbone n my ride or die I love you so much ur the best Thank you for not leaving me when I left for a year Thank u for...
    Lex2420 Lex2420 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I don't have a best friend and I'm in high school. I look like a loner and all my friends have their own best friends. I don't know what to do.😐
    naknaway naknaway 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    It will be nice if i will have a guy best friend. Because our friendship will be cool at all. I mean there's less drama and more adventure and fun every moment that we will have. I...
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    My friends all have their own best friends. I'm just that friend that people turn to when they need someone around. That spare friend.
    Donchueven Donchueven 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    its hard to have a person best friend... a best is someone you fully trust and you know that whatever problem you have, he will be there for you, cause he knows that you will be...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M Dec 1

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    I'm 19 and use to have a gay best friend and idk y but he just stopped talking to me one day and it was sad and I really miss having a gay best friend I could really use one :(
    Arielestridge Arielestridge 18-21, F Dec 11

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    That would be nice :) but now I'd like to have a boy best friend first :3 if any of you want to be my friend message me :D
    ninasumarlie ninasumarlie 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I'm Hilde and I'm 15 y/o. I would like to have a guy best friend in my life.
    queeenbey queeenbey 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I feel like this post is out of place, but the reason that we're no longer best friends is because we just so happen to be dating now.
    throughthedoorway throughthedoorway 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    There's always that one friend, the friend no one will ever be able to replace. I love and miss her every day, but she's not the person she once was and she doesn't want me in her...
    MissListless MissListless 26-30, F Nov 22

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    When I was a Freshman back in High school, I did a crazy thing, that costed a friendship to crash and shatter. I did in deed kiss my best friend right on his lips. Thinking back...
    LaviJaki LaviJaki 18-21, F Dec 5

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    Slapping your best friend when you get excited about something :D
    secret7148 secret7148 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I have to write this because my mind is shouting all these feelings I have but I can't physically tell anyone, especially you. Dear S, Since that first day we met in...
    SuperMagicMuffin SuperMagicMuffin 22-25, F Nov 24

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    I have had a huge crush on my best friend for a long time. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever met in my entire life. I was going to ask her out last year but then I moved...
    batman1104 batman1104 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Me and my (straight) girl best friend had a nuts night and sleepover with her family last night and it was so funny and we were hyper (we weren't drunk though) at bedtime we were...
    innocenttween innocenttween 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    Today I told my best friend that I have feelings for her twin brother. I was absolutely terrified that she would hate me for it but it turns out she had already figured it out. And...
    Mariahhh153 Mariahhh153 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I have a friend who's been my best friend for like 9 years and I know basically everything about her and we've been through soo much. We had huge fights before and there's an...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    So far all my so called "best friends" aren't like best friends at all. I remember all of their birthdays every year and get them presents but no one seemed to remember my birthday...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I dated this guy that was a little older than me and apparently my 'best friend' liked him before we dated. She never told me that she liked him, ever, and I even asked her for her...
    mouthyrage mouthyrage 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Note that this.... is an entirely different story and not the same or a repeat of the story i wrote about my racist best friend who i lost. She came after the couple of girls i'm...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Freshman year of high school, I was awkward and quiet, but my choir teacher made it his goal to bring me out of my shell. It was his first year as a teacher, and we instantly...
    MeAndMySkinnyLove MeAndMySkinnyLove 16-17, F Nov 23

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    I so hate my ex best friend so bad, here is the reason why.....we would of been best friends for 10 years this year and things has gone wrong, my best friend kept coming up my flat...
    westlife213 westlife213 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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