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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    my bestfriend wants to have sex with my older brother and I'm pretty sure this is what brought us to be bestfriends in the first place & it just kinda started out as her using me...
    pgtg13 pgtg13 13-15, F Jan 3

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    I think my best friend is amazing!!! He helps me with my problems when I need them fixed, he's funny,he can be a Baka sometimes but I still love him!!!!! He is a wonderful person...
    blueskyblu blueskyblu 13-15, F Jan 15

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    We are such losers really XD. She's literally the one person that knows more than my parents know about me. The amount of inside jokes we have is Insane. Not to mention we talk...
    Mattsdragons Mattsdragons 13-15, M Jan 17

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    Michael is the sweetest guy I've ever met , I can't imagine my life without him haha :D!
    XxxxMemoriesXxxx XxxxMemoriesXxxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I used to be. I used to be best friends with her. We'd tell each other anything and everything. She'd tell me about her day, what she did, and she'd tell me about anything that had...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    My best friend Tyler is one of the best friends i ever had she has been there for me through thick and thin. I was at a point in my life where all my friends were just fake and i...
    mslexibae mslexibae 13-15, F 1 Response 57 mins ago

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    He's my best friend and he will be forever,we are friends from past 11 years,he helped me a lot during my bad times so how can i forget this,and i dont wont to hide this also i...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    When I started high school (I live in Australia by the way) I met this girl who is one year higher than me. It wasn't until the mid of the year where our friendship grew massively...
    MrFluFFYL0rd MrFluFFYL0rd 13-15, M Jan 5

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    I've been friends with her the longest time. I called her every day, and loved every minute of it. We share a lot of the same interests, but just enough difference to keep things...
    BadCatholic BadCatholic 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I've lost many a best friend, but today one of my ex boyfriends messaged me. He sent me some things he wrote for a class about our relationship. We have no harsh feelings towards...
    StrawBracelet StrawBracelet 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Im talking to my best friend, who is a girl, and she and my other friend friend, a boy, just recently dump her. Im glad that im helping her with her feeling and making her feel...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Dec 28, 2014

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    Fell and falling in deeper. I recently discovered an interest in my best friend and the flame for him is growing larger and brighter by the day. We met during the 8th grade and he...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I don't know why I got the idea of this app but I found it online and it sounds interesting. Anyway to the topic. I don't believe that somebody can be your lover as well as your...
    2bingo 2bingo 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Well probably no one will read this to be honest but might aswell give it a go; So when I was 6 years old I met this boy in my primary school and we weren't "best friend" but I had...
    ashaibrahim ashaibrahim 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I am in love with my best friend to stupendous and ludicrous levels, but I have no idea nor the confidence to find out whether he likes me or not. Im trying to apply basic...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 12

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    Best friends are always there to comfort us and make us happy whenever we are sad. Then, you'll just realize that you are already in love with them.Well, that's totally normal if...
    AngelsBroughtMeHere AngelsBroughtMeHere 22-25, F Jan 2

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    When I was 13, I fell in love with my best friend, Joshua...its been almost four years now and i still have the same feelings for him. It peculiar, how we met...he stepped on my...
    liz1999 liz1999 31-35 Jan 2

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    Its funny how i remember days of us just laughing and pulling jokes and now it really sad to experience silence. Wow where do I begin so me and best friend met back in 7th grade we...
    scott2009 scott2009 18-21, M Jan 5

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    I truly don't see the point of having a lover who isn't best friend quality. I believe it should be just more than a physical activity; why not make it fun? Intimate? Playful...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I met my now best friend when I was in preschool. But at that time, we HATED each other because we had a mutual friend who we fought over (the mutual friend was also a boy so my...
    awesomefallenangel13 awesomefallenangel13 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    About two years ago I met a most wonderful guy at school who everyone avoided. No one would talk to him, maybe because during the summer he went to a mental hospital. I was new to...
    jasperbites jasperbites 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I was very close to one of my friends. She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin 22-25, F Jan 7

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    Okay so my story might be a complicated one, or maybe someone has been through the same exact thing. I really don't know, but I need some form of explanation and answers. Okay so...
    LadyDi95 LadyDi95 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I thought that my best friend will be there for me when I her friend is mouthing of at me, but really and truly she isn't. I thought my best friend will back me up when her friend...
    KiaraTequila12 KiaraTequila12 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I haven't been on this site in over 6 years and I'm back because my confidence and self worth are faltering and I can't control my thoughts. I'm 29 years old and I don't know what...
    andyx181x andyx181x 26-30, M Dec 28, 2014

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    My best friend, Kobe, moved to California last week. He meant everything to me. He even saved my life more than once. Now that he's gone, I feel lost. My problem is that I am...
    gay4ever gay4ever 16-17, M Dec 28, 2014

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    My father has a twin. They moved to the same town and were fathers at almost the same time. Those little baby girls were more than cousins. That was me and my best friend...
    Emilyleahywho Emilyleahywho 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I didn't know that people can change so fast.. may be their priorities have changed.. whatever.. I lost my best friend.. I had a best friend who was THE BEST.. every time I was...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    So I'm in 8th grade and basically in 6th grade this girl, (Lets call her Shelby) Shelby and (Lets call her Makayla) Shelby and Makayla were best friends. As well as in 7th grade...
    PastelOreos447 PastelOreos447 13-15, F Jan 2

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