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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend

    super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    michellerozsa michellerozsa 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    My bestie Sierra has always been there for me to make me laugh and smile and and both, and she has always been that person with the shoulder to lie on and I would to her. She's my...
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    I think it's a combination of working out of my home in sales for the last 23 years and not having any "office buddies". I think it's moving to a "small" town where it's literally...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I asked him out ..This was a total joke . Actually it was a dare but that doesn't matter . He basically said no and I'm not really offended or surprised but I think he feels weird...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Mar 21

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    "Under My Thumb" Under my thumb The girl who once had me down Under my thumb The girl who once pushed me around It's down to me The difference in the clothes she wears Down to me...
    yahooabcd yahooabcd 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    This question for me is rather ironic, considering the fact that I myself am gay. But even so, I would really love to have a gay best friend. Honestly, I would rather it be a be a...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I've always had best friends who are girls but I've always wondered what it would be like to have a guy best friend...
    YesterdayTomorrow YesterdayTomorrow 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I miss my closest friend I've ever had. He didn't deserve what he got at all. We were in 8th grade, and we used to play together and hang out and such. One day, he we were at the...
    Tranquil5 Tranquil5 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I have a few great friends that I have never met. Best friends* each message from them reminds me that I am not alone, but it hurts when all I need is a hug and no one is here...
    Harper101 Harper101 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I have a guy best friend, and he's married, but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the head and back. He...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Apr 11

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    Poo ;[ I have so many best friends in so many time zones, why can't I just stay up forever and not get tired, I want to give everyone my attention ^x^ I love all of you~ Even when...
    RawrrrrItsAIexa RawrrrrItsAIexa 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I used to have best friends in secondary school but as life goes on you drift apart in your own directions. I don't know why it is harder to find meaningful friendships when your...
    PinkMacaroon PinkMacaroon 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I've done so many crazy and stupid things with my best friends haha. Like once in 7th grade my girlfriend and I took alcohol to school and got drunk before PE class it was so...
    ice00 ice00 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Me and an old best friend of mine use to do some crazy stuff in high school, web cam chats where we'd kiss just to see the boys go crazy, faygo parties, and more. However there is...
    curious1988 curious1988 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My best friend and I have been friends for six years. I told her that I used to have a crush on him, but that I don't anymore. I lied to her because she thinks it would be weird...
    catlover425 catlover425 13-15, F Mar 22

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    "Maria...I' just kissed a girl named Maria..." okay, so my life isn't exactly like West Side Story, but here it is. My best friend and I, we've been friends for about 4 years...
    sblp2017 sblp2017 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I'm in year 9, I met this guy in September, he was the new kid but he fit in so well with my group of friends. He and I had over half of our classes together. Now, he and I became...
    heartbreakersarebad heartbreakersarebad 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    He all popular But the thing is Nobody see his true self Nobody know want behind the fake smile What he goes home to else and everyday But I do I'm the only one he will truly...
    mac9621 mac9621 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    my closest friend, my best friend...my crush. She found other people to hang around with, they the me. She judges me now, I don't even think she takes any time to realize that I am...
    HeyHay15 HeyHay15 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    One of my best friends name is Josh and he is just so perfect and his smile omg his smile it's perfect and when he hugs me I can smell his cologne he's so cute and tough he was...
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 2 Responses Apr 3

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