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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 18-21, F Dec 16, 2012

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    His name is Christan. lol.. he has a very interesting personality. He's super funny, and very nice. He makes inappropriate jokes, not super inappropriate, obviously appropriate...
    Ladybugprincess Ladybugprincess 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Never ask him what happened at his first experience at a ***** club... OMG XD He's embarrassed as can be and now I feel bad. He got tricked into going and was ind folded and didn't...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Feb 16

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    I have had my best friend since 6th grade, now we are on our las year of high school, we had fought before but always talk to each other again in less than a day. Now there are...
    paoviga paoviga 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    i have never had best friend. That's so lonely and bored when i need to share nobody here for me to share
    Susando Susando 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm so Confused! PART 1 So I changed schools. I finished my tenth grade and left to another school and stayed there my junior and senior year. In my junior year I met a boy named...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    My best friend got married and moved away a few years we still talk almost everyday but its not the same. we can't do any of the things we used to do or even have the conversations...
    bw32 bw32 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    I love my best friend her user is purpleisyummy76 and i am NOT givng out her name or nothing so shushy about that -.- but yea we were born the same month day year time and we...
    YellowMeMellow YellowMeMellow 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Ever since 1st grade I met a guy who's been my bestest friend all my life. A few years after we've never been closer than before and I started to have a crush on him. I soon told...
    Greywolf205 Greywolf205 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I had a crush on my class mate. I thought he liked me because he called me beautiful in awkward situations and be always goof around with me. Then I found out he liked my best...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Hallo.. Like been ages i dont post anything on this apps. Well i just want tell a story.. I think i fall with my best frend. My best friend have a girl friend but shes in coma like...
    arkhamel arkhamel 26-30, F Feb 12

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    Picture of crush, Luis. I don't care if he's in the heavy side he's the best dude in class. My four close friends Andy(girl) , Jackie, Carol, and Dill know I have a crush on our...
    CindyisBored CindyisBored 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    though I had no idea that this would happen but still, me and my best friend started talking in August 2014, she used to and still studies with me in my class in my coaching centre...
    SyedMohammadAsjad SyedMohammadAsjad 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Well not my best friend but my best friend's boyfriend :/ it's all just a big complicated mess right now ...
    QueenRianH QueenRianH 13-15, F Feb 15

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    My one and only best friend accuses me of telling everyone her crush when I never did. She has been ignoring me for a couple months and I miss talking to her.
    greyybear greyybear 16-17, F Feb 9

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    So Ive been in love with my best friend for almost 2 years now. She doesn't know this of course. (We are both girls) anyways I want to find out if she is interested in girls or me...
    rayray1027 rayray1027 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I would... although l have many acquaintances and enjoy chatting with them, like others l have a few close friends, whom l can discuss anything with, no holds barred...you know who...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Quite recently my best friend of 11 years betrayed me and now I am finding it very hard to move on and forget about her. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and it was...
    bexx5 bexx5 22-25 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I have a lover who was also my best friend. Introducing love into our friendship really changed the dynamics. My boyfriend claims that I'm still one of his best friends (overlook...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've had a couple of, I thought, very close best friends that I met online, here on EP. Both are men and they meant the world to me for about a year. With the loss of my best...
    chrissy1961 chrissy1961 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Last month I realized I had strong feelings for my best friend, and some weeks ago her and I had a talk about it. We understood that despite that we are good friends, we are too...
    Alphie123 Alphie123 22-25, M Feb 15

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    Last month I realized I had strong feelings for my best friend, and some weeks ago her and I had a talk about it. We understood that despite that we are good friends, we are too...
    Alphie123 Alphie123 22-25, M Feb 15

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    It's not only difficult. It's impossible. I recently came to this conclusion. However I'm talking about men/ women besties combinations. Once I accepted a guy as close as my own...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    A - ex best friend B - current best friend C - girl who hates my guts but acts nice to my face D - 2 friends that don't like A Okay, so, A and I were best friends from the middle...
    321send 321send 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    My best friend and have been friends forever. It's been going on lately these days and feel depressed. I love her as a sister but I don't think she loves me like that anymore...
    kikilo1234 kikilo1234 41-45, F Feb 5

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    Its taken me a long time but Ive finally made steps towards leaving my unhappy relationship and then confessing my feelings to my best friend. Since I stole him to come live with...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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