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I Have a Crush On My Boyfriends Best Friend

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    Hate, Acceptance, Friendship, Love.

    Everyday I told this boy my problems, and he would respond harshly, ignore it, or listen until he got bored. He hurt my self esteem, he hurt me emotionally, he hurt me until I wanted to go as far as to kill him, and he honestly couldn't have cared if I died myself. Well that's...
    GypsyDemon GypsyDemon 18-21, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Since around September,

    I've been really caught up in this storm of sexual frustration, experimentation, and confusion. Unfortunately for my boyfriend of almost 4 years, I chose to take out this frustration on one of his best friends. His friend is so naive, so immature, obnoxious, but when it is...
    rudycantfail rudycantfail 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I know exactly what is happening to me I want

    what I can't have. And everytime I'm around him I want him more and more. I had a dream that I kissed him and now I can't get it out of my head. I know he's attracted to me too which doesn't help!! My boyfriend is an amazing, kind guy- how do I get rid of these thoughts and...
    Sinead432 Sinead432 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Boyfriends Bf Is Cute

    ok so a couple years ago my live-in boyfriend(of 4 years) best friend (lets call him Eric*not real name) had troubles with his wife and needed someone to talk to. It didn't help that he was soooo cute. He would come over and stop by just to talk and then it escalated to him...
    babiifishbone696 babiifishbone696 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    Well This Has Advice As Well As a Story

    This situation seems to be more common than I thought. The psychology behind falling for your boyfriend's best friend is because they are probably similar people and what originally attracted you to your boyfriend also attracts you now to his best friend. In addition, your...
    mildred93 mildred93 16-17 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    My Crush's Best Friend Proposes Me..and All That Follows!

    I generally do not have crush easily on any random guy.period.Not at least until i know the guy very well.So myself and this guy got to know each other because of a common club we both belong to in college.He was like everything I had been looking for ! I am active in various...
    vibgyor vibgyor 18-21 Apr 17, 2011

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    My Secret

    I can't believe I found this site, it makes me feel so much better to know that I'm not alone. Well, I had been with my exboyfriend for almost 2 years, and we have a child together. Throughout the years I've learned everything about my exboyfriend, inside and out. And it really...
    bumblebeee bumblebeee 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    Driving Me Crazy

    Hello I'm just your regular schoolgirl. I'm 18 years old and I'm currently living on my own.  Guess it started two years ago, when I first met K and J (K = my current boyfriend, J = His friend). I actually already liked J back then, I found him "mysteriously" interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

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    I Feel Horrible, Yet Extremely Lucky To Know These People

    Before my boyfriend and I started dating, we were friends for years. We became friends in high school and continued to talk throughout college. We eventually reconnected and he invited me to meet his other friends (because I can be such a shut in). It was at this meeting that I...
    gr33nb34n gr33nb34n 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2010

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    Is Just A Crush

    So i met this group of best friends called "the bros" they are junior and Seniors. For awhile i was like Ohhh let's flirt y'know? and then it got a bit complicated. I  started to like two of them. Out of the 10 of them only ONE liked me and let's be honest, i wasn't...
    odeseuss96 odeseuss96 13-15 Sep 4, 2011

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    I'm So Fustrated !

    He's cute, funny, witty, caring, a sweetheart, a charmer and all around amazing, and that amazing guy would happen to be my "boyfriends" good friend J.P. Why can't I stop thinking about those warm hugs and the feelings they gave me when he held me the way he did ?! I know it's...
    SingMeASong SingMeASong 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Crushing On My Boyfriends' Best Friend..

    Okay, so we will start from the beginning (2 years ago at the end of freshmen year) I was dating this guy named Billy. He was a senior and much older then I. But let's save that for a different time. We were together for 7 months until I broke it off he did some crazy things that...
    JessieClare JessieClare 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Jonas

    I am still in high school, so I know that in the long run this doesn't really matter. But I just recently started dating my boyfriend, James, before I really got the chance to get to know him. It all happened really fast; he kissed me one night then after that he just kind of...
    Rapunzel Rapunzel 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2008

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    I Feel Terrible!

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and well he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He loves me unconditionally, supports me through anything, and puts up with the regular girl bull s*** of our everyday lives. There's one problem, I have a crush on his best...
    jshanay jshanay 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    But I Can't, This Is Not Right :/

    My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly 6 months. We were friends before anything happened between us. I'm going to call my boyfriend Sam in this story. I became friends with Sam in our first year in highschool as freshmen. I have also been friends with Sam's friend, Adam...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F Dec 16, 2012

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    This Can'T Happen Anymore

    I have been going out with this great guy for nearly four months. He really is special but I just don't feel the same spark I did with him before. Recently, I have spent a lot of time with his best friend Trevor. I haven't meant to spend so much time with him but we run into each...
    Phoenixs Phoenixs 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    I Have A Crush On My Boyfriend's Best Friend.

    Okay, so I spent a week down in Tennessee and I met this boy there and we started dating. We've been dating ever since. And we lived together because it was a mission trip for my church and his best friend is someone I had a crush on also. I still have a crush on him ! The only...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F Jul 5, 2013

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    He is completely honest with me. A lot of people assume we're dating because we're really close and playful but that is hilarious because we started our friendship thinking that...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    So I've been thinking about the summer and my best friend houston. I'm in love with our friendship and I wish I could have a boyfriend like him. He and I cuddle and kiss and go on...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My friend is great.. he's always had my back, never failed to show how much the friendship is important to him, and honestly we have a friendship that gives this feeling where...
    rruser27 rruser27 13-15, M Aug 16

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    Is it weird when a lesbian holds your hand and hugs you too much? ._. I'm confused 👐
    mollybaee mollybaee 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Her name is Stacey and I met her in college in Colorado. It doesn't matter how long has gone by between talks, it's like no time has gone by at all when we get on the phone. She...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Courtney I met a year ago! She never listens to a word I say, but she's the most beautiful girl i know! Not only in body, but in Spirit. I almost lost her a few times, and with her...
    Dsrutherford Dsrutherford 16-17, M Aug 23

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    I should say that I am a little peculiar because adults like the way I am but I am little weak with social life. It has been from when I was little that I never used to go out of...
    VasanthMSV VasanthMSV 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I would love to be in a relationship with my guy best friend. It'd just make being in a relationship a lot easier. Because he's seen me at my best & worst. I wouldn't have to try...
    neliza neliza 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    You Ever See Someone Online & The Things They Post... And You're Like,"Damn We Could Be Best Friends" Lol, I Have Like 3 Best Friends That Don't Even Know About Me.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I'm a 14 yr old girl and I wish to have a gay best friend cos every girl deserves one. :) message me if u wanna be my gay bestie lol
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I found him and I plan on being with him for as long as we have together!! My best friend no matter what he always will be!
    elizabeth757 elizabeth757 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Reasons to have a guy best friend: -Guys don't start lame rumors -They don't tell your secrets -They don't PMS and be rude -They don't try and steal the guy you like -They aren't...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    People always tall about girls can't have a boy best friend yada yada and I believed it until mine came along about a year ago. He's my #1 supporter and helps me through all my...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    There is this girl I really like. She's my best friend. I told her I like her, but she said she just saw me as a friend. I think it was okay so I lived on. While I was on vacation...
    xFredje xFredje 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I think I'm developing a crush for a friend (if I can call him that) even if we aren't that crush. But I get discouraged since he's older, we are both male and a female best friend...
    alchnyr alchnyr 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I've focused a lot on my fetish, but let me add a little depth to my personality. This is about the greatest friendship I ever had and lost. I'm an army brat, so I moved around a...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M Aug 6

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    She has been my friend since first grade. We been super close for so many years. I only found out after I had gave up on her and now with my current boyfriend. She told me, I told...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I was dating this guy for a little over a year; due to recent circumstances we decided to just be friends. Lately we've been try a work on things to get back to where we used to be...
    gigi1993 gigi1993 18-21, F Aug 25

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    So I had a huge crush on my best friend for years and I've asked for advise from my other friends. All of them told me to tell him so I did. Turn out he didn't like me back and now...
    Lonelygirl396 Lonelygirl396 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Fall in love with your best friend is something relative. It can be the best or the worst thing in your life. You can get really worried about your firendship or the thing will...
    journeyrainbow journeyrainbow 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I had this good friend who we were best friends for 5 years. About a 2 years ago, we stopped being friends because of some boy, but after a couple weeks of not speaking we were...
    limaha7 limaha7 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I may be wrong, but I think my best friend was sexually attracted to me at the beginning of our friendship. - He told me his turn ons. - He asked me if I wanted to play the...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 18

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    When I was younger, I was bullied and made fun of--even by teachers! My mom took me out of school in fourth grade and started to home school me. It was during this year that we...
    HatersGonnaHateMe HatersGonnaHateMe 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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