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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    I recently developed a crush on an old school

    friend and it's so frustrating, I mean she admitted she would date me, but she has a boyfriend, so that's a drag.
    TheHippieBitch TheHippieBitch 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I think I'm finally over her.

    Almost. But apparently things between her and her bf are rough right now, that they may break up. What used to be my dream is now just kinda sad. It hurts to see her so upset. I'd rather her be happy with him than sad without.
    sassycastiel sassycastiel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    i have a huge crush on my teacher.

    .dont know wat to do
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm married with 2 children

    and I've developed a crush on a good friend of mine. I've recently come to terms with my sexuality and she's been there to talk to me about it. She has two kids and a partner that treats her horribly. We get along so well and can talk for hours without a moment of silence. She...
    mel1229 mel1229 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I have a crush on my brothers bestfriend.

    The thing is my brother would kill me if I dated him. But I really want to know if he likes me as well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 1

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    panda2323 panda2323 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Ur both so hot. One of u society says we should

    never even touch each other, but that's all I want. The other society says its wrong but idc. UGH.
    barelyteenjock13 barelyteenjock13 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    It's wrong considering I'm engaged

    but he's so hot.He's name is Scott and he's my sisinlaw boss.Those blue eyes,that blond hair,he's 6'3 whoo lmao
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23

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    I've never realized what love is

    and how it feel until I met this girl... whose my manager.. and is out of my league... and is in her mid 20s, while im 17. I can't get her out of my head....
    lostandlonelyforever lostandlonelyforever 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    My situation is just getting worse.

    .. I'm trying to find things in my crush that I don't like and I have but none of it stops me from crushing. We get along too well. I've decided to start going out and hopefully I'll meet someone else to distract me.
    C3rtainly C3rtainly 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Well since I keep this to myself,

    I have a crush on someone who is almost 10 years older than me. I really love his personality & he's so beautiful. Like I know he's been hurt before & there's still hurt in him which makes me even more crazy. I don't know why, weird huh? He's also kinda mysterious which makes...
    taekwoonie taekwoonie 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    i have a crush on my best friend ex.

    ... and she loves him but he doesnt love her anymore.... should i feel bad that i like him when she does too . .would be betraying her ?
    Rosmery003613 Rosmery003613 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Simple as this he has a Girlfriend

    and she is very pretty and nice but he is currently staying with my brother for a couple of years in his room but me and him have become closer as friends. A little to close for me. He sees me as a sister and I do at times. And today is my fathers birthday. And he is going to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18

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    You're married and we talk.

    Your wife finds out and it all ends up on me. That's nice.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    He's absolutely amazing

    and lives far away. Everything between us seems like a dream.
    SayuriYamazaki SayuriYamazaki 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    dcollins56 dcollins56 18-21, F 6 Responses May 10

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    My ex bf got married

    and he wants me to be his second wife and wants children from me. I still love him, its hard to say no.
    snowgracefulbunny snowgracefulbunny 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I work with this guy

    and he's a lot older than be like more than 10 years but he's really nice and is always flirting with me and I don't know what to do
    alihausmann alihausmann 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm just gonna share an experience with a

    teacher, this was years ago. I just want others to know if you are a teacher or student and felt humiliated or embarrassed or ashamed don't be. But I'm a different human being, I'm respectful, understanding, and I was mature to handle people's emotions of having a crush, deep...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F Jul 17

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    Okay, I am madly in love with my best friend's

    brother. I've had a crush on him for five years. My best friend knows i love him ,but she loathes the idea of me and him together. I think about him everyday. Sometimes i find myself going over to my best friend's house just to see him.
    PanicattheDicso PanicattheDicso 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Janeccaa Janeccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I adore you, even if I'm just a childhood

    friend to you. I know this is the closest I'll ever get to you, and I'm okay with it. Being a small part of your life is better than not being a part of it all.
    Daemonia Daemonia 18-21, F Jun 30

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    So update the guy I like

    who is way older than me he is starting to call me babe an love an stuff an every time he calls me that my heart skips a beat an Idk what's happening an I feel like he likes me too but I'll never know any advice ??
    alihausmann alihausmann 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    yeah i got crush on my Friend

    which i shouldnt coz hes straight and i still fantasy about him :(
    Dreck007 Dreck007 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    I have a huge crush on someone I shouldn't.

    He is my first cousin. We became close friends after my mom was sent to prison for crimes she committed. He helped me mentally to adjust to life without my mother. We dated 2 or 3 times a week then. I was so attracted to him and wanted to spend a lot of time with him. For...
    femaleredheadpianist femaleredheadpianist 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Why is it I can't seem to control my hormones

    when the father of one of my sons friends comes to our house? Tonight sitting around our kitchen table during dinner, I couldn't stay focused. I could smell his cologne lingering in the air and my mind was wandering to forbidden places.
    BadlyBent BadlyBent 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I know I shouldn't, but I have a major crush on

    my boss. We talk all the time at work, and have started talking online till late most nights too. I know nothing will happen - he's my supervisor, he has a kid, and I'm pretty damn sure he doesn't feel anything like that for me, but I just can't stop myself. He's cute, and funny...
    Toni47 Toni47 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 19 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    I have a crush on my manager.

    . but she's way out of my league.. and even if she doesn't.. if she found out what type of relationship I'm into, I fear it would cause her to leave and .make it awkward at work...
    lostandlonelyforever lostandlonelyforever 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    He's amazing, he's kind,

    he's loving, and sweet. He is perfect in my eyes, and his looks are a huge bonus. I just met him and I have fallen for him. He accepts me for who I am and my child, which is always a problem in my relationships, they judge me for having a baby. He doesn't. He accepts me and all...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 6

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    last summer I came out to my best friend

    as bisexual... and she also told me about her having slight feelings for girls... anyway... I was staying at her house and we were in her room at the night time watching a film... and out of nowhere. ... we kissed a couple of times... even though I had a boyfriend... after a...
    chloebirchall chloebirchall 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    So true so true lmfao

    👅😂😃😀😄😛😍😘😜😞😋😌😆😇
    trentwitherspoon01 trentwitherspoon01 18-21, M Jun 28

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    Crushes are funny things.

    I always end up having a crush on someone I shouldn't. It's a case of always 'wanting what you can't have'. Luckily, however, I'm at a point where I can recognise whether I have a crush on someone and do my best to deal with it instead of hating myself for it. I've been...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F Jul 15

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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