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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 22 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I had a crush on my college mate but truely she

    maynot be the one i want and she is in love with my friend i dono how to express my feeling to her tat i had crush on her
    Sridhargk Sridhargk 18-21, M Dec 29, 2014

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    oh oh how sexy he is!

    how gooood he is...but **** he is married with two daughters..**** **** **** i just can't stop imagining me & him together in a sensual theme..even how dirty i would be
    yasmineyousef yasmineyousef 22-25, F Jan 5

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 18 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    When your crush has a girlfriend

    and everyone but him sees that y'all are perfect for each other.I guess it just isn't meant to be.
    Alisha39 Alisha39 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I know I shouldn't for several reasons.

    However you can't control how you like. I really do like her though.
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm falling for a married woman

    and I'm trying my best not to. First of all I'm a lesbian so I know the feeling won't ever be mutual and I really don't want it to be. Secondly she's almost twice my age but very good looking for her age. And lastly I see her almost everyday. It makes things hard on me because I...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    So there is this guy

    who is a roommate in the house I'm in. We'll call him Jordan, he's 22 and when I first met him, I thought he was dreamily handsome and exactly my ideal type of guy - look wise and he's from Pierre South Dakota, I was like - wow a plus! I've always loved South Dakota and so I...
    caligula2015 caligula2015 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    I was at camp and this attractive guy around my

    age left his underwear out and if I got a chance I'd sniff it and get so turned on.
    thatjacobguy thatjacobguy 18-21, M Jan 6

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    So I have a crush on this girl.

    She works at the same place as me. She also tells me alot of how attracted to me she is. But she is 4 years younger than me (I'm 20) and has a boyfriend. It feels wrong to talk with her (we text alot). I guess I really don't want to be the one to break up a couple. How do I go...
    Derfthequantumpotato Derfthequantumpotato 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I feel like a dirt bag.

    I have been talking to this girl for a few months now. She is really attracted to me but has a boyfriend. She flirts alot and loves chatting with me. We get along quite well. She complains a lot about how her boyfriend treats her badly and how she should break up with him. Then...
    Derfthequantumpotato Derfthequantumpotato 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    It's never happened to me before,

    but talking to a friend here on EP has made me realise that in fact, it is happening to me. I have a crush on someone I never should have feelings for. Never, ever. She's my best friend, my "bestie", if you like. We have been in the same school since 2010, but due to the school...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    So yea... It started a few days ago.

    .. Soooooo someone I shouldn't have a crush on!!! But he's just so irresistible!!! ;) totally taboo!!!
    Sexyhousewife69 Sexyhousewife69 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Trying not to think of your crush is pretty

    much impossible I've discovered. Sigh.
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    Okay, so there is this guy

    who lives 4 houses down from my house. He and his wife moved there about 2 years ago. I don't really know how old he is, so I'm guessing 30 something. When I first met him, I was walking past his house and he was working on his driveway. When he looked at me, he smiled and that...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    It was rather beautiful: The way he put her

    insecurities to sleep. The way he dove into her eyes and starved all the fears and tasted all the dreams she kept coiled beneath her bones. -Christopher Poindexter
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F Jun 16, 2014

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    panda2323 panda2323 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    It's like a weird relationship between me

    and him. We hate each other but why the **** do I like him? Makes no entire sense. I mean, we practically fight every time we see each other but I still like him. He usually stays away from girls but we still talk. My friend says he might be a bad influence on me and my other...
    plasticnarwhals plasticnarwhals 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I have a crush on my neighbor Steve

    and I really wish I didn't! We don't really talk much in person because I'm always trying to avoid bumping into him but whenever he does see me he smiles and waves to me and I get these butterfly's in my stomach every time. He started living next door at the start of this year...
    Innocentgirl333 Innocentgirl333 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Mojopins Mojopins 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    i love my moms friend she ate my p.

    u.s.s.y allowing me to o.r.g.a.s.m in her mouth # loved it
    sexyloveles sexyloveles 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    he has a girlfrend who is using him i am thear

    more then her i was thear bt she is preetyer then me help :( (in tears as writing this)
    jadedod jadedod 13-15 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Once I had a date with a girl I met on FB.

    We drank some beers at my house and then went to a small party. At the end she was a little drunk and horny so we had sex in my car (pretty awesome) then I left her at her house and texting she confessed me she is 16 (she looks like 18 :( ) I actually would like to date her...
    RaulSalas9 RaulSalas9 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a huge crush on my teacher!

    I not really in a sexual way, I just really want to be with them.
    nosrak nosrak 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Liking other dudes because idk

    if I'm bi or gay just yet .....
    thatjacobguy thatjacobguy 18-21, M Jan 6

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    blink3Times blink3Times 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I have a crush on my boss,

    he likes me too. a lot. it feels so natural and there's so much happiness and tension and oh gosh. however, we are both married . I am so confused and frustrated.
    MirandaElizabeth MirandaElizabeth 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I liked you. I honestly really did.

    But we stopped talking. Why? I don't know. Why would you ignore me like that? Did I do something wrong? But it's whatever it's cool. ✌️✌️
    TParrish TParrish 16-17, F 1 Response May 8, 2014

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    He is married. I am too.

    I see him looking at me. Usually he is very shy when I say hi. He turns red and just smiles and goes away. When I started working here 7 years ago I had the biggest crush on him. I was told he was married and he was expecting his second child. So I completely kicked him out...
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I have a crush on someone

    and I should not its my little sister (by love not blood) Amber Nicole she's my sunshine and keeps my dark clouds at bay. She means everything to me she's my life my soulmate. She doesn't know I like her like that. I want to tell her but I know she doesn't like me like that. She...
    BabyAmber BabyAmber 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    I currently have a crush on my best friend's

    sister. She is three years younger, but she acts older than her age. She makes me smile and laugh like I haven't in quite some time. It just sucks knowing that I can't take the risk to date her because she is my best friend's sister and my best friend's family is like my second...
    blink3Times blink3Times 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I'm in this weight loss program

    so I can get gastric bypass surgery and one of the trainers is around my age and he's probably one of the most attractive and the most genuine guy I've met. I mean he is five years older than me, he's really nice and fun to be around...and I genuinely look forward to the days...
    asherbug32 asherbug32 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    kaining kaining 13-15, M 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I'm very attracted to girls in panties.

    Am I really bad for this? Also I like to be seen and send pictures. Maybe I'm sick :(
    RaulSalas9 RaulSalas9 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I have a crush on my cousin.

    The weirdness doesn't stop there; she's only 13 too. I'm not really regretting liking her because honestly, in my situation it's not that odd. We've been friends since she could walk, and she's very beautiful, and we want to learn similar subjects in college. I just feel like...
    lordbuttfucker lordbuttfucker 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Hes 20 and im only 16.

    I usually dont think about romantic things but something struck me when I saw him on my first day working as a waitress. He isnt even that attractive and is only 5"6. Its been 6 months and were friends now but I still cant shake the feeling off and I hate it. Im not in a good...
    wxvx wxvx 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm sorry. I want to be straight

    if I don't want someone. Not to hurt him, but feels more right that way. No feeling like you have to play around on either side.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 12

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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