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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    last summer I came out to my best friend

    as bisexual... and she also told me about her having slight feelings for girls... anyway... I was staying at her house and we were in her room at the night time watching a film... and out of nowhere. ... we kissed a couple of times... even though I had a boyfriend... after a...
    chloebirchall chloebirchall 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    without lenceove with truth crush is nothing,

    i tried to love truely in my life but all are cheater in dis world, none can understand the true love. so to crush or have sexual enjoy in a few moments is made by the animals only. so such people and animals has no difference. One should understand the human love. sex is...
    sanjushiva sanjushiva 36-40, M Jun 15

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Nothing's hurts more

    than loving someone you can't be with.
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    So true so true lmfao

    👅😂😃😀😄😛😍😘😜😞😋😌😆😇
    trentwitherspoon01 trentwitherspoon01 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    i have a huge crush on my teacher.

    .dont know wat to do
    pinkpetalss pinkpetalss 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    It's wrong considering I'm engaged

    but he's so hot.He's name is Scott and he's my sisinlaw boss.Those blue eyes,that blond hair,he's 6'3 whoo lmao
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23

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    We grew up together. I have never really

    thought of him as anything more than best friends. But the other day one of my friends mentioned him and said that we would be a great couple, after all we know practically everything about each other. Now that she has said that all my thoughts are about him. He is driving my...
    tinytinyone tinytinyone 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    dcollins56 dcollins56 18-21, F 5 Responses May 10

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    bgirl24 bgirl24 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    He's absolutely amazing

    and lives far away. Everything between us seems like a dream.
    scatratie scatratie 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I'm gay n my best friend is hot a jock n just

    amazing n everytime he's with me I go all funny n nervous I've got a crush on my friend but can never love him
    gay13uk gay13uk 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    Why is it I can't seem to control my hormones

    when the father of one of my sons friends comes to our house? Tonight sitting around our kitchen table during dinner, I couldn't stay focused. I could smell his cologne lingering in the air and my mind was wandering to forbidden places.
    BadlyBent BadlyBent 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    rebacc11 rebacc11 26-30, F Jun 7

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    I started my job as a teenager looking

    for summer work. He's a year older than me, just graduated. He's tall, handsome, funny..he's beautiful. To me. But everyone at work tells me he's bad, he'll just want you for sex, but I see something else in him. It's almost a childlike beauty. An innocence. A yearn for real...
    allyburgess allyburgess 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    It's nerve wrecking and the whole situation is

    crazy and I might just make it worse or better I have no idea
    Bicuriousteen15 Bicuriousteen15 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    panda2323 panda2323 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    I'm married with 2 children

    and I've developed a crush on a good friend of mine. I've recently come to terms with my sexuality and she's been there to talk to me about it. She has two kids and a partner that treats her horribly. We get along so well and can talk for hours without a moment of silence. She...
    mel1229 mel1229 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I recently developed a crush on an old school

    friend and it's so frustrating, I mean she admitted she would date me, but she has a boyfriend, so that's a drag.
    TheHippieBitch TheHippieBitch 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    texting on of my mates from school

    and he's a bit pissed off xx he was with a girl a while ago.. but they split up because of exams x she messaged him saying that they would get back together afterwards... but then today.. she's said she never wants to get with him... what should he do x
    chloebirchall chloebirchall 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 19 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I adore you, even if I'm just a childhood

    friend to you. I know this is the closest I'll ever get to you, and I'm okay with it. Being a small part of your life is better than not being a part of it all.
    Daemonia Daemonia 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    My best friend always asks me to help him find

    a girlfriend or to set him up on dates. He doesn't see how much it breaks me.
    kyleej kyleej 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    She's my best friend

    and I have the hots for her. Crap.
    sassycastiel sassycastiel 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    also, to go along with my other post about my

    history teacher (well call him mr t), on Monday my school was on a field trip to 'Holiday Hill' (it's this big place with like a pool and a bunch of activities) and mr t was there. that day I had gone paddle boating twice with a couple of friends and it was raining all day so I...
    dlnk dlnk 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    Smh. sigh. I have a lovely boyfriend.

    He is everything I have ever wanted in a male. Mostly. I have a crush on some random guy and I just can't help myself. It's using up all of my energy. If anyone cares, just message me and I'll explain in greater detail.
    hidetheperoxide hidetheperoxide 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    I know I shouldn't, but I have a major crush on

    my boss. We talk all the time at work, and have started talking online till late most nights too. I know nothing will happen - he's my supervisor, he has a kid, and I'm pretty damn sure he doesn't feel anything like that for me, but I just can't stop myself. He's cute, and funny...
    Toni47 Toni47 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    So I am in Highschool

    and I sorta have a crush on one of my teachers. What should I do? I can't get over it!
    Annam07 Annam07 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    yep my nephews gfs dad he is married n ive only

    met him twice. we havent even spoken that much ... but ev time i see him i get these strange feelings ok he is verry hot
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 16 Responses Jun 14

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I have a crush on someone a year younger

    than me. I can actually feel my heartbeat through my fingers every time I think of him. He is shorter than me .I think he only thinks of me as a friend. I can't confess because I'm don't want to break our friendship.
    cooolcatt cooolcatt 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    It's sad, I've been stalking a guy

    for ages and he's becoming more present recently but sadly his personality is not what was it was when I first met him. He was more vibrant and spoke to me, even made a fuss out of me. It's all gone.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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