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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    it sucks when you fall

    for a friend or a best friend and their in a relationship its like one of the worst feelings ever
    nightmare06 nightmare06 13-15, F 2 Responses May 1

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    I have a crush on my neighbor Steve

    and I really wish I didn't! We don't really talk much in person because I'm always trying to avoid bumping into him but whenever he does see me he smiles and waves to me and I get these butterfly's in my stomach every time. He started living next door at the start of this year...
    Innocentgirl333 Innocentgirl333 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    To my crush, I am in awe of you.

    You make me smile and laugh everyday, and even though we run different courses and follow different paths in life, I wish our paths would cross one day. You light up my world in every way imaginable and I love you with all my heart and soul. My crush is a secret I might be...
    Hiddenmaven Hiddenmaven 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I am currently talking to this guy.

    And I found out that he has a girl friend. How should I confront him?
    babbygirl19 babbygirl19 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I see him twice a week.

    We've never actually spoken, but I find him looking at me often, without shame. Doesn't even look away when I've caught him. He's good looking, and I've noticed that he's funny. I just feel over all attracted to him. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. And that tends to mess...
    IAAS IAAS 18-21, F May 4

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    magentamagic magentamagic 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    My best friend. :) He's

    so sweet and encouraging. He even likes me too. But there's a 4 1/2 years age difference... I shouldn't like someone so young...
    Opalite Opalite 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    I can't go into much detail,

    because I don't want the individual in question to know. Hello I let you into this, well crush. I am 20 years old and I haven't never had a crush on anyone before, I don't know what to actually do, should I ask her out or what?
    AngelsinDevon AngelsinDevon 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I'm engaged and I have a crush on someone in my

    class. I don't even know if she is gay. I am getting married in a year and I am crushing on a classmate and I am trying to find ways to get closer to her. She is so perfect for me though. I would know that her intentions are true, unlike my fiance.
    smilemovie smilemovie 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    I know I shouldn't, but I have a major crush on

    my boss. We talk all the time at work, and have started talking online till late most nights too. I know nothing will happen - he's my supervisor, he has a kid, and I'm pretty damn sure he doesn't feel anything like that for me, but I just can't stop myself. He's cute, and funny...
    Toni47 Toni47 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    Listen you guys, I'm in love with this girl at

    my school. Everytime I see her it's like the whole world tilts on its axis. The only problem is that she's "straight", (or seems to be) and I'm still in the closet. Please give me some advice you guys I've never felt this way about anyone before...
    Catchacase Catchacase 16-17, F May 12

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    He's funny and sweet

    and just totally cool but, I've never felt like this toward anyone beside my current 3 year relationship.
    KassiMarie KassiMarie 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    I used to be friends with this guy back in

    middle school and I got this vibe that he liked me or at least i think he did.Anyways we're in high school now and i have the hugest freaking crush on him.We rarely see each other but when we do it's like awkward and like we can't break eye contact.But he has a serious...
    shellbells69 shellbells69 18-21, F Apr 29

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    There's this girl that I like.

    I enjoy making her laugh and even teasing her a bit, but it always feels like I'm about to overstep certain boundaries. I'm 90% sure there's another person she's interested in. Whenever the three of us are in the same room, I can't help but try to pull away. Even when its just...
    tfsQuack tfsQuack 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    Why i shouldnt? i crush on

    who else i want! It is my head!
    tokyo60s tokyo60s 31-35, F May 7

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    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    dcollins56 dcollins56 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10

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    panda2323 panda2323 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Ok, so I have a serious crush on my roommate.

    It's pretty bad. I'm talking pulse quickening, temperature rising, butterflies when we are physically close type of crush. I think she has a crush on me too, she makes excuses to hang out with me, wears increasingly skimpy clothing around the house, and the way she looks at me...
    dissapointinglife dissapointinglife 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    I have a huge crush on my manager at work

    but he's nearly twice my age and has three children! I think it's more a fantasy thing
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I have a crush on someone

    that comes to me for advice and counsel. I am already very messed up and vulnerable with another affair and lots of issues, as it were, but I look at this person and I cannot help but think "Oh my god you are beautiful, I would give anything to kiss you, even a kiss--that would...
    Directionless450 Directionless450 41-45, M Apr 28

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    He's amazing, he's kind,

    he's loving, and sweet. He is perfect in my eyes, and his looks are a huge bonus. I just met him and I have fallen for him. He accepts me for who I am and my child, which is always a problem in my relationships, they judge me for having a baby. He doesn't. He accepts me and all...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 6

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    I have a crush on someone

    and I should not its my little sister (by love not blood) Amber Nicole she's my sunshine and keeps my dark clouds at bay. She means everything to me she's my life my soulmate. She doesn't know I like her like that. I want to tell her but I know she doesn't like me like that. She...
    BabyAmber BabyAmber 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    im hugely attracted to my boyfriends best

    friend, the attraction is so powerful, and considering weve done stuff before i just want him
    seductivesub69 seductivesub69 18-21, F 7 Responses May 7

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    She is one of my colleagues,

    she works at the reception of the company I'm working for.. She is a beauty, young with perfect 10 figure. Blue eyes, black hair, nice boobs, and even nicer booty... So she is hot as hell. She is that kind of girl, who looks much better in bikini. It happened at a team building...
    Atko79 Atko79 31-35, M May 4

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    I like this boy at my school.

    His in the same grade as me and age. He's very smart. His not dating anyone and his in the football team and baseball. I have like him since 6th grade. I finally talk to him this year and even as him out. He said not right now, because of football season. So I never got back to...
    atmtatum atmtatum 16-17, F May 7

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    He is older, of a different race

    and a complete manwhore. Father would never approve. But I can't help it. I don't like anyone from my race. He is everything I can't have and I don't think he likes black because of all the girls I've seen him with now of them were black :/
    kikimyst kikimyst 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    2spiffy2care 2spiffy2care 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Nothing's hurts more

    than loving someone you can't be with.
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Toffeegirl1976 Toffeegirl1976 36-40, F 7 Responses May 12

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    I have a instant crush on a boy in my class

    and we have been in the same class for three year . But , he seem like didn't notice me and I don't know if he likes me or not so I was afraid to tell my feeling to him . He's very popular at school as a captain of football team and a good guitar player which make many girls...
    Samnesiaa Samnesiaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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