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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    I have a crush on a guy in one of my classes.

    I noticed a couple weeks ago that he kept staring at me during class. It's been a very long time since a guy has stared at me like that. Anyway, I thought he was really cute so I started looking back at him. We've been doing this for a few weeks now, along with talking a little...
    geogirl28 geogirl28 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    I'm 18 and he's 24. he knows my dad

    and my dad knows he used to do a bunch of drugs. but he's one of the kindest people I know and gives me reason to trust him, which most people never have....
    footfungusfairy footfungusfairy 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    On anyone really. On anyone

    who cared enough to talk with me and reply. But then the crush fades, no more topics to talk about, and then soon distance, they give excuses and then no more words exchanged. I don't really know how to start a conversation. But when I do know how, I always am afraid that I am...
    YesIAmACat YesIAmACat 18-21 Oct 16

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    I met this guy online.

    At first i was wary of meeting people online so i gave him a fake name and age. After i was sure that he wasn't some old guy that was pretending to be the same age, i finally gave him my real name. He didnt immediately ask for my number and i appreciated that. When we started...
    calixx calixx 18-21, F Oct 5

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    My heart hurts every time I see pictures of him

    with someone else on Facebook. He isn't mine...so I can't feel this way, but I do. I know a girl has a crush on him and he has one on her. I don't blame him, she is so pretty. I just wish I didn't feel this way...but I have to let him be happy....
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    My whole life I been picking fights There ain't

    no way to win Got a hundred scars I should have run away Now tattooed on my skin There's a side of me that just won't stop Dancin' in the flame Maybe I just get off on the pain Cause I love the long shot And the left out lost causes Hanging out in the back of the pack with the...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F Nov 4

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    I know he likes her and she likes him.

    But they haven't been on a date since she is frustrated with how he is so clueless. I don't think they are suited for another; she is very experienced, likes hopeless romantic moves and I though outgoing party guys. This boy with amazing blue eyes I a virgin, never dated...
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Monster

    Consider my consciousness completely hijacked.I should know better, in fact I do know better. Doesn't stop me though. That is the problem with this thing...it doesn't feel stoppable.It has a life of its own.I am infatuated like a school girl. Stupid with it. I would quite...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 23 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    He is married. I am too.

    I see him looking at me. Usually he is very shy when I say hi. He turns red and just smiles and goes away. When I started working here 7 years ago I had the biggest crush on him. I was told he was married and he was expecting his second child. So I completely kicked him out...
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25

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    I still have a crush on my sis in law thought

    it might went a way but I hasn't. Still not going react to it.. few weeks ago she came 2 mine with her mam in her pj's her pants were a bit on the baggy side. She sat down beside me on couch after about 30 to 40 Mins they where going. She stood up and her bum fell out. OMG she...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M Oct 15

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Hi Guys..ok i really need your help.

    . It's a very long story but I will try to shorten it..i think that's why I'm in EP, I was trying to tell my story..because I needed advices even though I have besties and so.. I have a boyfriend since more than 4years and things are so serious between us <3 i really love him...
    Wildyoungfree Wildyoungfree 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I remember one time telling him I love him in

    his turtleneck and the next day he wore it! When I asked if it is because I said that he denied it.. I knew the truth though!
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    XXburnttoastXX XXburnttoastXX 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 30

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    I don't know what the hell happened to me

    and I feel SO stupid about it now but I called my crush (read my previous story, I know it's long though) because I don't know, I wanted to know probably if it would have been awkard or not or I don't know..I thought about some 2 weeks ago when he mailed me on FB and told me...
    Wildyoungfree Wildyoungfree 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    ........

    i have this crush on this guy, but i could never be with him, it wouldnt be right, i cant say why cuz it was give it away conpletly lol but its starting to really get to me, but i cant tell him how i feel, ive recently broken up with my ex and it would be nice to be with someone...
    RebbieShane RebbieShane 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    I have absolutely fallen head over heels with a

    girl that has been my best friend since i was young and i cant say anything as i know if i do it will ruin 12yrs of friendship and memories.
    SickMofo18 SickMofo18 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    panda2323 panda2323 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    He called me the "devil" today,

    hence the new profile pic. What once was a spark has started burning out of control. Trying to keep my distance so that we don't get burned.....but what a beautiful "death" it would be! I met him today for a showing of a home, he's a real estate agent. It was all we could do to...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    My highschool teachers!

    college professors! Ahhhh what is wrong with me?
    kpweant1 kpweant1 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 25

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    I have a crush on a girl

    who is a little younger, maybe 2-3 years younger but she is so nice. She plans on having sex when she's married and I think that's awesome cause so many young women are pushed into sex but she can control her urges. She likes music and plays drums like me :) so we could jam out...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    It was rather beautiful: The way he put her

    insecurities to sleep. The way he dove into her eyes and starved all the fears and tasted all the dreams she kept coiled beneath her bones. -Christopher Poindexter
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F Jun 16

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    He's a friend, I've known him

    for two years. It's only been in the past two months that I've developed a crush on him and he gave me plenty of signals that he liked me back (holding my hand, over the top compliments etc) and whenever we spent time alone together, his face lit up. I promised myself I wouldn't...
    waterechoes waterechoes 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    He's my close friend,

    and I have the only crush on him. We talk all the time about his current relationship, and I cant help but to wish that he was mine. Those blue eyes of his got me. But a friend is all I can be. He has a gf and I respect that.
    Driann Driann 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ive been seeing an old friend to help her get

    over a breakup. I dont know if im doing this because i care or because i used to have a crush on her. Id like to think its the former but i really dont know and im worried i might complicate things if i still have feelings for her
    Jothic Jothic 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 18 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Seriously...

    How can I NOT be smitten with a man who tweets pics like that?My cat has got the exact same eyes. I <3 black cats.*sighs and shakes head at self*Twitter is a bad invention for girls with crushes.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    I'm dating his best friend.

    Every time I'm around him my heart races and I just want to be with him. He just makes me feel so... I can't explain.
    Taradactyl123 Taradactyl123 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    But hey, if you can like another it means the

    first is not someone you like fully right?
    YesIAmACat YesIAmACat 18-21 1 Response Oct 16

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    My ex-coworker is much older

    than I am (20+ years) and he is so hot and cute and cool and fun! I liked him before I "like liked" him!!!
    CollegeStudent94 CollegeStudent94 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    So, there is this girl

    who I've met like a month ago. At first, I didn't get very interested in her because I was very high and I didn't pay too much attention to the girl. Then, like a week later, I've found her in a party of a schoolmate (then I realize that we had friends in common), but idk why...
    juanig juanig 18-21, M Oct 22

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    About 8 month ago got talking 2 a lass in here.

    Then we got talking on Fb talked 4 ages got no her lot better. I start 2 fall for her and I've neva met her.. she younger than me she is a Muslim girl.. I cut contact with her for about 2 months so I didn't fall for 2 much.. now am talking 2 her again... she don't no about the...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M Oct 23

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    I Still Do

    I still dream about you. I still daydream about you. I still Facebook stalk you. (How was Ibiza btw?) I still download pictures of you. Yeah, I'm crazy. See, it's just like the song says: A falling star fell from your heart and landed in my eyes.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    How long before it passes it needs to stop.

    I am married. He is married. 95% sure he isn't interested in me in anyway or in hurting his marriage either. I do love my husband I KNOW this is just some crush or infatuation. I wish I could just turn this switch in my mind off. I KNOW also this has to do with me not having sex...
    WaitsforSleep WaitsforSleep 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    My best friend. He's amazing

    but we're both socially awkward. I don't even know if he likes me, but I know I like him. It's so awkward because he's in all of my classes but one, and we have a limited group of friends so I see him a lot. He acts weird around me sometime and my best girl friend is starting to...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I liked you. I honestly really did.

    But we stopped talking. Why? I don't know. Why would you ignore me like that? Did I do something wrong? But it's whatever it's cool. ✌️✌️
    TParrish TParrish 16-17, F 1 Response May 8

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    People tells me nice things about myself.

    But then I always think that his love is out there. Not in here. Not with me. Not mine to keep. Love someone let them go right? Letting go is hard, forgetting is harder, smiling at them together is the hardest when it comes to him. I can fake a smile. I can laugh. I can...
    YesIAmACat YesIAmACat 18-21 1 Response Oct 16

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