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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    2spiffy2care 2spiffy2care 18-21, F May 12

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I've know this guy since we were 5.

    he used to like me but I didn't like him. then last summe we hung out and we were all flirty and cute but then summer ended and I had to stop visiting him due to school.... but during the summer I realized how much I love him. like for real love him.. but then I found out...
    nellybear214 nellybear214 13-15, F 1 Response May 20

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    I have a crush on someone

    and I should not its my little sister (by love not blood) Amber Nicole she's my sunshine and keeps my dark clouds at bay. She means everything to me she's my life my soulmate. She doesn't know I like her like that. I want to tell her but I know she doesn't like me like that. She...
    BabyAmber BabyAmber 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    Nothing's hurts more

    than loving someone you can't be with.
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    magentamagic magentamagic 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I can't go into much detail,

    because I don't want the individual in question to know. Hello I let you into this, well crush. I am 20 years old and I haven't never had a crush on anyone before, I don't know what to actually do, should I ask her out or what?
    AngelsinDevon AngelsinDevon 18-21, M 1 Response May 16

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    okay um so i have a crush on my friend.

    But like, this friend of mine is horrible with relationships and emotions and has already failed with one relationship with one guy. I mean she doesnt even express that much affection either. I feel like if I even got the chance to be in a relationship with her ill be...
    SalBay SalBay 22-25, T 2 Responses May 8

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    I am currently talking to this guy.

    And I found out that he has a girl friend. How should I confront him?
    babbygirl19 babbygirl19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

    We go to the same school, same ccf. I found out the other day that he has liked me for ages, since around the time i started liking him funnily enough. I should have said something ealier, now he has a girlfriend
    kimmi14 kimmi14 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    It's wrong considering I'm engaged

    but he's so hot.He's name is Scott and he's my sisinlaw boss.Those blue eyes,that blond hair,he's 6'3 whoo lmao
    HisChocolateQueen1520 HisChocolateQueen1520 26-30, F 3 Responses May 23

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    There's this girl that I like.

    I enjoy making her laugh and even teasing her a bit, but it always feels like I'm about to overstep certain boundaries. I'm 90% sure there's another person she's interested in. Whenever the three of us are in the same room, I can't help but try to pull away. Even when its just...
    tfsQuack tfsQuack 16-17, M 1 Response May 21

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    I also dated, my basketball coach,

    he was college helper, and I was in my freshman year. we dated, freshman and sophomore year, then we decided to go our ways, but we r still close friends
    meliena meliena 18-21, F May 23

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    It's happened before.

    .. It was someone at school
    Artist156 Artist156 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I have a crush on my best friend,

    but I don't know how to progress our relationship, or if I even should for fear of losing our friendship.
    screeminganvil8 screeminganvil8 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 12

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    im hugely attracted to my boyfriends best

    friend, the attraction is so powerful, and considering weve done stuff before i just want him
    seductivesub69 seductivesub69 18-21, F 8 Responses May 7

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    dcollins56 dcollins56 18-21, F 6 Responses May 10

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    I have a kinda big crush on this kid in my band

    class , 2 years older than me (yikes). I thought nothing of it , just a little crush at first , but then he told me that he liked me and cared for me and started having feelings I guess ? Well , we were practically on the verge of starting a relationship until some chick in...
    Sydney82 Sydney82 18-21, F 1 Response May 25

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    He's funny and sweet

    and just totally cool but, I've never felt like this toward anyone beside my current 3 year relationship.
    KassiMarie KassiMarie 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    Why do I Always become EXTREMELY sexually

    attracted to the friends of my husband?? My husband has forbidden this one to me for 10 years ( I have had.a few of his friends, like in the.next room or in the garage while he is in the house)....now I want him so bad ALL I have done is think about him and EVERY part of him. I...
    curiouslylooking4me curiouslylooking4me 31-35, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I sent him a Facebook request.

    I hope he accepts it. c:
    PapaSun56 PapaSun56 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    what is wrong with me?

    ? it took me 6 years but i think im in love with the man ive bin having an affair with!!
    seductivesub69 seductivesub69 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I am in love with one of my best friends.

    I truly believe we met for a reason. He is the only person I am myself around. When I am with him, I am always laughing and my usual feelings of loneliness and sadness are gone. We met over a year and a half ago, and have been close friends ever since. Soon after becoming...
    samantha10135 samantha10135 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 22 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    I have crush on my ex boyfriend,

    let's just say I still love him. I love him for who he is and not what he have. I love him for his mistakes, imperfections, and everything! That's why you mean a lot to me Asa. If I did treated you wrong too, then please forgive me. I have forgiven you since 2012; its alright...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    well a couple someones.

    always older too but I mean it's just crushes that is normal right?
    mayceewaycee mayceewaycee 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22

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    I have met someone on here

    who I am beginning to really like. She is cute, intelligent, and about half my age. I know she doesn't think of me on that way...and besides there is nothing I could do even if I wanted to, as she is half way across the world and I am a married man. Why I let this happen, I...
    jeffyduke jeffyduke 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Today I was working on some work on my computer

    in the TV control room and he came and sat at a table right behind me to study for an exam. Just being in the same room made my heart race and my hands shake. I really want to talk to him but I just don't think it will happen. I can't get up the courage.
    PapaSun56 PapaSun56 18-21, M 22 hrs ago

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    i have been talking to this guy

    and he wants to kiss me and i want to kiss him. the only problem is i told my friends i didnt like him and they told me to stay away from him because he is a player but i didnt and i talk to him all the time. i want to tell my friend but i feel like they will hate me and judge...
    sara346 sara346 16-17, F 2 Responses May 25

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    I have a gf, for two

    and a half years but lately its been going down and most of it is her fault. Shes cheated and she constantly lies. Theres a girl at work who is going through the same thing and broke up with her bf. i really like her even though i shouldnt and idk what to do. Shes so pretty and...
    quintenpalmer quintenpalmer 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    He's amazing, he's kind,

    he's loving, and sweet. He is perfect in my eyes, and his looks are a huge bonus. I just met him and I have fallen for him. He accepts me for who I am and my child, which is always a problem in my relationships, they judge me for having a baby. He doesn't. He accepts me and all...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 6

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