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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    He's my close friend,

    and I have the only crush on him. We talk all the time about his current relationship, and I cant help but to wish that he was mine. Those blue eyes of his got me. But a friend is all I can be. He has a gf and I respect that.
    Driann Driann 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    So I threw a note at my crush with my number on

    it and we talked for a while. Now, he's not used to social interaction so it was all one sided and he's suicidal so it did get a little awkward at times. Tonight he told me to not bother talking to him since I'm too puerile. Wow.
    littlehorsie littlehorsie 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    He knows. Everyone at work knows.

    It's far from a secret. I'm married. He's a younger guy (22 to my 28). We flirt endlessly. I try to be chill around him, but I can't. We say we're "friends" but honestly? Seems like a lot more. He's easy to talk to. Super sweet. Not to mention, really funny and...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F Dec 9

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    My best friend. He's amazing

    but we're both socially awkward. I don't even know if he likes me, but I know I like him. It's so awkward because he's in all of my classes but one, and we have a limited group of friends so I see him a lot. He acts weird around me sometime and my best girl friend is starting to...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    About 8 month ago got talking 2 a lass in here.

    Then we got talking on Fb talked 4 ages got no her lot better. I start 2 fall for her and I've neva met her.. she younger than me she is a Muslim girl.. I cut contact with her for about 2 months so I didn't fall for 2 much.. now am talking 2 her again... she don't no about the...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M Oct 23

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    I've liked this girl

    for two years and when I tried talking to her we talked for a few weeks then it just ended. This happened on two different occasions. I can't stop thinking about her.
    ncaes ncaes 18-21, M Nov 29

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    I have a crush on someone

    and I should not its my little sister (by love not blood) Amber Nicole she's my sunshine and keeps my dark clouds at bay. She means everything to me she's my life my soulmate. She doesn't know I like her like that. I want to tell her but I know she doesn't like me like that. She...
    BabyAmber BabyAmber 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    My ex-coworker is much older

    than I am (20+ years) and he is so hot and cute and cool and fun! I liked him before I "like liked" him!!!
    CollegeStudent94 CollegeStudent94 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    So, there is this girl

    who I've met like a month ago. At first, I didn't get very interested in her because I was very high and I didn't pay too much attention to the girl. Then, like a week later, I've found her in a party of a schoolmate (then I realize that we had friends in common), but idk why...
    juanig juanig 18-21, M Oct 22

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    My highschool teachers!

    college professors! Ahhhh what is wrong with me?
    kpweant1 kpweant1 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 25

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 18 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I have a crush on my close guy friend,

    I want to be with him and he wants to be with me, but I'm engaged to a great man but he is so controlling
    southernbelle922 southernbelle922 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    He was never my friend's boyfriend

    but her friend with benefit..Now he is crushing on me and I kinda like him too..What to do?
    Alisha39 Alisha39 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    My heart hurts every time I see pictures of him

    with someone else on Facebook. He isn't mine...so I can't feel this way, but I do. I know a girl has a crush on him and he has one on her. I don't blame him, she is so pretty. I just wish I didn't feel this way...but I have to let him be happy....
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Seriously...

    How can I NOT be smitten with a man who tweets pics like that?My cat has got the exact same eyes. I <3 black cats.*sighs and shakes head at self*Twitter is a bad invention for girls with crushes.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    okay so there's this guy in my school

    and he's one of my 2 close friends and i like him so much. like I've never felt this way about a guy before because I've always thought I was gay. like a guy has never interested me before until him. he excites me. he makes me want to try new things and he opens my mind to a...
    cookingaubrey cookingaubrey 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I'm into bands and I've been to a few gigs.

    some of the bands I like are smaller and less well known, so they know majority of their fans by first name basis (me being one of them). we're practically friends. and, as cliche as it sounds, I have a maaaaaad crush on a member of one of these bands (he's the guitarist of an...
    THEmaryam THEmaryam 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    So... I have a crush on this boy at my school

    and I'm not single and I don't think he is either but I keep having dreams about him.
    hellokittyminecraft hellokittyminecraft 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've liked this girl

    for two years and when I tried talking to her we talked for a few weeks then it just ended. This happened on two different occasions. I can't stop thinking about her.
    ncaes ncaes 18-21, M Nov 29

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 21

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    So if you have been following my story at all

    you know that I am kinda odd and keep getting myself into some strange circumstances. My ex husband is one of 5 children. He has 3 older siblings from his mother's first marriage. He wasn't raised with them but they are still half siblings. His older brother lives here in the...
    daughterofapreacherman daughterofapreacherman 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    My whole life I been picking fights There ain't

    no way to win Got a hundred scars I should have run away Now tattooed on my skin There's a side of me that just won't stop Dancin' in the flame Maybe I just get off on the pain Cause I love the long shot And the left out lost causes Hanging out in the back of the pack with the...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F Nov 4

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25

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    I'm dating his best friend.

    Every time I'm around him my heart races and I just want to be with him. He just makes me feel so... I can't explain.
    Taradactyl123 Taradactyl123 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

    We go to the same school, same ccf. I found out the other day that he has liked me for ages, since around the time i started liking him funnily enough. I should have said something ealier, now he has a girlfriend
    kimmi14 kimmi14 16-18, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 24

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    I have a crush on my neighbor Steve

    and I really wish I didn't! We don't really talk much in person because I'm always trying to avoid bumping into him but whenever he does see me he smiles and waves to me and I get these butterfly's in my stomach every time. He started living next door at the start of this year...
    Innocentgirl333 Innocentgirl333 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    We have this program

    after school where we have college students come in as volunteers and/or mentors. It's been 2 months since he started volunteering. It was his last day today on the program this year, but I still don't know if he'll be there next year. I went home earlier and he went out of the...
    Dandywishes Dandywishes 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I know he likes her and she likes him.

    But they haven't been on a date since she is frustrated with how he is so clueless. I don't think they are suited for another; she is very experienced, likes hopeless romantic moves and I though outgoing party guys. This boy with amazing blue eyes I a virgin, never dated...
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I'm starting to have a crush on my best

    friend's boyfriend. Considering she always brings him with her whenever we hang out. Any advice?
    YeverM YeverM 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 7

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    I started spending time with a co worker

    who is amazing; but she's engaged and will soon be married. I never ever ever would do anything to ruin something so sacred; but I'm crushing on her there is no doubt.
    qeust24 qeust24 18-21, M a week ago

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 23 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I'm falling for a married woman

    and I'm trying my best not to. First of all I'm a lesbian so I know the feeling won't ever be mutual and I really don't want it to be. Secondly she's almost twice my age but very good looking for her age. And lastly I see her almost everyday. It makes things hard on me because I...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    He called me the "devil" today,

    hence the new profile pic. What once was a spark has started burning out of control. Trying to keep my distance so that we don't get burned.....but what a beautiful "death" it would be! I met him today for a showing of a home, he's a real estate agent. It was all we could do to...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    I still have a crush on my former coworker.

    He's so much fun! It enhances his hotness.
    CollegeStudent94 CollegeStudent94 18-21, F a week ago

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    If I created a list of the top ten women

    that I actually know and have a big crushes on then the current list would have five women whose names start with K and three beginning with J, I must have a thing for that part of the alphabet! :) Sadly my wife's name doesn't start with either of those! :(
    DefianceUK DefianceUK 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    I have absolutely fallen head over heels with a

    girl that has been my best friend since i was young and i cant say anything as i know if i do it will ruin 12yrs of friendship and memories.
    SickMofo18 SickMofo18 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 15

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    He is married. I am too.

    I see him looking at me. Usually he is very shy when I say hi. He turns red and just smiles and goes away. When I started working here 7 years ago I had the biggest crush on him. I was told he was married and he was expecting his second child. So I completely kicked him out...
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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