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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    He's funny and sweet

    and just totally cool but, I've never felt like this toward anyone beside my current 3 year relationship.
    KassiMarie KassiMarie 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    it sucks when you fall

    for a friend or a best friend and their in a relationship its like one of the worst feelings ever
    nightmare06 nightmare06 13-15, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I have crush on my ex boyfriend,

    let's just say I still love him. I love him for who he is and not what he have. I love him for his mistakes, imperfections, and everything! That's why you mean a lot to me Asa. If I did treated you wrong too, then please forgive me. I have forgiven you since 2012; its alright...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    To my crush, I am in awe of you.

    You make me smile and laugh everyday, and even though we run different courses and follow different paths in life, I wish our paths would cross one day. You light up my world in every way imaginable and I love you with all my heart and soul. My crush is a secret I might be...
    Hiddenmaven Hiddenmaven 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I have a kinda big crush on this kid in my band

    class , 2 years older than me (yikes). I thought nothing of it , just a little crush at first , but then he told me that he liked me and cared for me and started having feelings I guess ? Well , we were practically on the verge of starting a relationship until some chick in...
    Sydney82 Sydney82 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

    We go to the same school, same ccf. I found out the other day that he has liked me for ages, since around the time i started liking him funnily enough. I should have said something ealier, now he has a girlfriend
    kimmi14 kimmi14 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    2spiffy2care 2spiffy2care 18-21, F May 12

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    well a couple someones.

    always older too but I mean it's just crushes that is normal right?
    mayceewaycee mayceewaycee 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22

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    Nothing's hurts more

    than loving someone you can't be with.
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I also dated, my basketball coach,

    he was college helper, and I was in my freshman year. we dated, freshman and sophomore year, then we decided to go our ways, but we r still close friends
    meliena meliena 18-21, F a week ago

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    Markhill111 Markhill111 22-25, M 3 Responses May 1

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    I am in love with one of my best friends.

    I truly believe we met for a reason. He is the only person I am myself around. When I am with him, I am always laughing and my usual feelings of loneliness and sadness are gone. We met over a year and a half ago, and have been close friends ever since. Soon after becoming...
    samantha10135 samantha10135 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I like this boy at my school.

    His in the same grade as me and age. He's very smart. His not dating anyone and his in the football team and baseball. I have like him since 6th grade. I finally talk to him this year and even as him out. He said not right now, because of football season. So I never got back to...
    atmtatum atmtatum 16-17, F May 7

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 12

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    im hugely attracted to my boyfriends best

    friend, the attraction is so powerful, and considering weve done stuff before i just want him
    seductivesub69 seductivesub69 18-21, F 8 Responses May 7

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    magentamagic magentamagic 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    He's amazing, he's kind,

    he's loving, and sweet. He is perfect in my eyes, and his looks are a huge bonus. I just met him and I have fallen for him. He accepts me for who I am and my child, which is always a problem in my relationships, they judge me for having a baby. He doesn't. He accepts me and all...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 6

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    Listen you guys, I'm in love with this girl at

    my school. Everytime I see her it's like the whole world tilts on its axis. The only problem is that she's "straight", (or seems to be) and I'm still in the closet. Please give me some advice you guys I've never felt this way about anyone before...
    Catchacase Catchacase 16-17, F May 12

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    It's wrong considering I'm engaged

    but he's so hot.He's name is Scott and he's my sisinlaw boss.Those blue eyes,that blond hair,he's 6'3 whoo lmao
    HisChocolateQueen1520 HisChocolateQueen1520 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    panda2323 panda2323 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    had a crush on my teacher,

    I dont know, but at some point it felt like he did to. I was 18 in my senior year. he was my favorite teacher, and I his favorite student. he use to have this get together at his house, at the end of the year for juniors and seniors, he pick the people he wanted to come, I...
    meliena meliena 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    I can't go into much detail,

    because I don't want the individual in question to know. Hello I let you into this, well crush. I am 20 years old and I haven't never had a crush on anyone before, I don't know what to actually do, should I ask her out or what?
    AngelsinDevon AngelsinDevon 18-21, M 1 Response May 16

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 19 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    i have been talking to this guy

    and he wants to kiss me and i want to kiss him. the only problem is i told my friends i didnt like him and they told me to stay away from him because he is a player but i didnt and i talk to him all the time. i want to tell my friend but i feel like they will hate me and judge...
    sara346 sara346 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I have a crush on my best friend,

    but I don't know how to progress our relationship, or if I even should for fear of losing our friendship.
    screeminganvil8 screeminganvil8 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Why i shouldnt? i crush on

    who else i want! It is my head!
    tokyo60s tokyo60s 31-35, F May 7

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 22 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I see him twice a week.

    We've never actually spoken, but I find him looking at me often, without shame. Doesn't even look away when I've caught him. He's good looking, and I've noticed that he's funny. I just feel over all attracted to him. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. And that tends to mess...
    IAAS IAAS 18-21, F May 4

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    I am currently talking to this guy.

    And I found out that he has a girl friend. How should I confront him?
    babbygirl19 babbygirl19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Here is a poem that I wrote about finally

    growing a pare and asking out the girl of my dreams...hope you enjoy... How? How do I tell her what I feel inside? My heart is so full, These feelings I can't hide. Telling her would put our friendship on the line. But keeping it inside, will make me loose my mind. What If...
    screeminganvil8 screeminganvil8 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    okay um so i have a crush on my friend.

    But like, this friend of mine is horrible with relationships and emotions and has already failed with one relationship with one guy. I mean she doesnt even express that much affection either. I feel like if I even got the chance to be in a relationship with her ill be...
    SalBay SalBay 22-25, T 2 Responses May 8

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    There's this girl that I like.

    I enjoy making her laugh and even teasing her a bit, but it always feels like I'm about to overstep certain boundaries. I'm 90% sure there's another person she's interested in. Whenever the three of us are in the same room, I can't help but try to pull away. Even when its just...
    tfsQuack tfsQuack 16-17, M 1 Response May 21

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