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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    I'm married with 2 children

    and I've developed a crush on a good friend of mine. I've recently come to terms with my sexuality and she's been there to talk to me about it. She has two kids and a partner that treats her horribly. We get along so well and can talk for hours without a moment of silence. She...
    mel1229 mel1229 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    You have someone and I have a crush on you.

    I thought I was straight then I met you.I respect your relationship. I would never. Whenever I think of you my heart gets heavy. But if you weren't with her I want my first ever date to be with you, and first kiss. My heart is too good and strong and it's painfully overlooking...
    jdisimilar jdisimilar 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    well a couple someones.

    always older too but I mean it's just crushes that is normal right?
    mayceewaycee mayceewaycee 18-21, F 6 Responses May 22, 2015

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 19 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    so I like this girl, she means the world to me,

    shes a year and a half or so older then me anf is beautiful, I would do anything to get into bed with her, she meant to be amazing in bed, oh and one last thing shes my sister
    pierce013 pierce013 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Childhood Trauma: I had a thing

    for "Father Dowling" on that TV show "Father Dowling Mysteries"
    DesiredUserNameandStuff DesiredUserNameandStuff 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    Where to begin? My heart flutters by how he

    looks. He has a much younger Jon Hamm mixed with Adam Levine face with dark eyes, a skinnier nose and a well-trimmed professional beard. He's tall maybe 6'4'', slender but his chest is wide and firm. He also has that ex-marine kind of body but luckily a normal short haircut. I...
    Nessi4u Nessi4u 18-21, F Jan 26

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    My friend's Dad......

    .Omg, he is so hot. I just melt(literally, in certain places) when ever I catch him checking me out, which he does quite a bit. I don't think he realizes how close he has been to having me just taking him out, hitting my knees, and showing him how bad I want him!
    Jennyspreadswide Jennyspreadswide 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 8

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    Alright. So for about a year,

    I've had feelings for my friend of 5 years. I'm a girl, she's a girl, and I'm pretty sure she's straight. I accepted that nothing would ever come out of it the day I realized I like her, but I feel like I should tell her? she has no problem with me liking girls. We're best...
    watertides watertides 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    This was years ago. Had a crush on my husband

    friend. Feeling was mutual (long story ) didn't do nothing bout it cause we didn't want to risk anyone from knowing
    curiouskitty36 curiouskitty36 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    So I met a guy a few days ago at a dance

    rehearsal and I was partnered with him to do a small part of this one dance and he was really cute but also one year younger than me... I think I have a crush on him though but I feel weird idk
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 31

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    Brian from down the street just texted me

    and wants me to come over and hang out with them. I might but don't want to get in trouble!
    MissCurly MissCurly 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm 18 and at uni, not really studying a course

    i like and regret pretty much every decision i made for my future so far... At high school i was pretty shy and not particulary good looking (from what i can tell), a few girls asked me out but they were generally ones who were to put it bluntly too ugly. I had a crush on a girl...
    Th3Notorious Th3Notorious 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    One of my lecturers at my university.

    He's 26 years old, admirably intelligent, kind, gentle and to my mind very handsome. The issue is, he's married. I see him almost every day, and before I realized he was married, I talked to him a lot. It was only after, I presume, I crossed a line at one point where he slipped...
    Lipsinco Lipsinco 18-21, F Feb 2

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    We grew up together. I have never really

    thought of him as anything more than best friends. But the other day one of my friends mentioned him and said that we would be a great couple, after all we know practically everything about each other. Now that she has said that all my thoughts are about him. He is driving my...
    tinytinyone tinytinyone 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2015

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    I can't stop thinking about him.

    He's 20 years older but he's so sexy. His voice is smooth and wonderful, but what's most beautiful is what he says- he is so intelligent, and yet such an enigma. He would take years to figure out, an intelligent puzzle. I see him as a challenge almost. I vie for his attention in...
    Floridagirlfaith Floridagirlfaith 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    I have a crush On my scene partner from acting

    school. But I Think he's gay. I just don't have the guts to ask him. He's a ballet dancer and super cute, so I don't Wanna look like I Think he's gay just because of ballet... I Also don't Want him to know I'm interested because I don't Want the scene and our work together to...
    IzzieO IzzieO 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    Being happily married

    for the last 17 years to the love of my life who would have thought that I would have a crush. My husband is my world and I love him with everything that I am. We have one child, two great jobs, four vehicles and a beautiful house. We have been blessed beyond measure with many...
    GirlGonePostal GirlGonePostal 36-40, F 12 Responses Nov 11, 2015

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    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    DaddysPrincess16 DaddysPrincess16 18-21, F 6 Responses May 10, 2015

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    Not really that I shouldn't

    but this boy at my gym he's around my age I always find myself looking at him :/ but I don't think he sees me that way so I never really talk to him *sigh*
    YogaGirlSouthernCali YogaGirlSouthernCali 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    My friends all think it's kind of weird,

    but I have a huge crush on my principal. He's young, fit, and he wears fitted suits, and speaks so articulately. I stare at him all of the time, and sometimes I catch him looking at me back. :D Of course I would never make a move, he's probably married and maybe like twenty...
    autumneyes autumneyes 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    I have always been interested

    and drawn to older men. Most of my friends think I'm crazy
    pamc13 pamc13 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I am 13 and in love with a guy

    that is almost 30, i know its wrong and everyone says i cant be in love, but i am.
    LoveDoesntKnowAge LoveDoesntKnowAge 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    I have a crush on a trans guy.

    Which isn't bad, I'm down for that, you know, he's super cute and sweet. Two problems. I have a boyfriend. He has a girlfriend. It's hard because we message each other every day, even good mornings and good nights. I see him at school every day and we talk and play games. We...
    Kaoruk100 Kaoruk100 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Don't you just hate it

    when you like someone and you start to associate almost every thing they say or do to you like grab a pencil near you which you take as them wanting to get closer to you. *sigh* I hate these feelings.
    5amsunrise 5amsunrise 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    This is a long story

    so there is this boy and we've been friends since we were freshmen and were sophomores now.Its him,another and I who are our own group of laughing buddies.Anyways when something isn't going his way he just stops talking to me and when I try to speak he cuts me of immediately and...
    lilkid657 lilkid657 13-15, F Jan 21

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I love my older sister

    and she loves me back. We're both bi and are now forced to share a bed. Still, I have a date tomorrow and this girl greatly interests me. It's kind of borderline too. She just turned 16 in December. Every guy I've dated has been a major disappointment so far, but if the new girl...
    LucyCanuck LucyCanuck 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't care who you are

    or what sexuality you claim. I'm just saying, if a nice young-ish mid to late twenties teacher walks in the room smelling awesome, wearing a tight suit, and is basically looking like a sex god, don't tell me you aren't going to fantasize about or develop a small crush on him...
    Edtheirishone Edtheirishone 18-21, M Jan 8

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    We met when he went inside the female comfort

    room because the male comfort room was closed (guess he couldn't hold it haha). We were just staring at each other like wtf. A cute accident worth remembering :)
    geenieinabottle geenieinabottle 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 4

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2015

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I have a crush on someone I shouldn't I know

    it's wrong but it's so hard when you really have a major crush on someone you can't have. she knows I love her but she has no idea that I have the biggest crush on her. so it's got to be left that way because she can't ever find out that I have a crush on her.
    satinlover1958 satinlover1958 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I have a crush on someone i probably shouldn't,

    but I know he doesn't like her. When she kiss him he feels uncomfortable, I can se it on his face. I fell so bad when he looks at me, the only thing I can think of is "if u don't look at him he would not look at u" plus I always blush when he smiles at me. I don't know what to...
    Mariaishappy Mariaishappy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    yep my nephews gfs dad he is married n ive only

    met him twice. we havent even spoken that much ... but ev time i see him i get these strange feelings ok he is verry hot
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 18 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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