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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    I have a crush. I do.

    He's not here, for me to tell in person which is probably a good thing. I smile about him, I think about his voice,curious about what he is doing at the moment and wonder what it would really be like if we were around each other. He is a mystery to me, which is very alluring...
    aprylshowers330 aprylshowers330 26-30, F Mar 28

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    A friend of mine whose friendship id hate to

    lose over a stupid crush...
    yumgrande yumgrande 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. That's always the situation for me. It also seems like I have crushes on chicks that I can never have. It makes me feel so terrible inside, I have had a crush on a girl at our school ever since my sophomore year/her...
    evanjuicebox evanjuicebox 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I have a boyfriend but I really like this guy.

    But he has a girlfriend. I think the other guy is better for me in general but he really likes his girlfriend. I also don't mind his girlfriend she's a really lovely person. I had the choice between him or my boyfriend at the start but I chose my boyfriend and I think I've made...
    LittleMissUnknown LittleMissUnknown 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    He is married. I am too.

    I see him looking at me. Usually he is very shy when I say hi. He turns red and just smiles and goes away. When I started working here 7 years ago I had the biggest crush on him. I was told he was married and he was expecting his second child. So I completely kicked him out...
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I liked him since eighth grade

    until senior year. I have maybe said two or 3 words or sentences to him ever since and they were in the context of academics only. I am always so creepy and shy as he walks by. I have came to the conclusion that we are very different and a lot of times I wish I can change things...
    Shamandora Shamandora 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I have a crush on this older woman.

    She is gorgeous and sweet and I don't know I just want to take her every time I think about her. Bet everything about her sexually is amazing. Just why does she have to be married and my mother in law? We did exchange questions befor and she asked a lot of questions and she...
    Simplyfun1 Simplyfun1 26-30, M Mar 10

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 14 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    I have a crush on someone a lot younger

    than me (16+ tho) wen I see her i can't take my eyes off her. I have 2 be careful so I don’t get caught looking at her off my fiance
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

    We go to the same school, same ccf. I found out the other day that he has liked me for ages, since around the time i started liking him funnily enough. I should have said something ealier, now he has a girlfriend
    kimmi14 kimmi14 16-18, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I saw you today and I swear it was in slow

    motion. I locked myself out and I saw your window was open. I yelled out, and to my astonishment, it was you... It could have been five other people, and it was you. I blushed and quickly said "I'm locked out" and you yelled down "I'll be right there" I know I had to stand there...
    JelloFloor JelloFloor 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I have a crush on this pastor

    even though he is not my pastor. I went to a Christ of god in Christ event he was preaching an my eyes where glued to him. He looked handsome , of coarse he dresses nicely . I love the way he carries hisself . I got to shake his hand boy was his hand soft. I love the fact that...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    it's kinda weird for me to talk about this ,

    you see i am not that kind of girl who has crushes n stuff XD .. but recently ( and for the frist time , i met a guy , he makes my heart ' literally' skips a beat , at first i just thought "oh he is handsome" but later i found myself knowing more about him , what is he like...
    RooDream RooDream 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    I really really like one of my friends

    boyfriend, it sounds really bad on my side but it's complicated. I've liked this guy for so so long and we have always been close but recently I've had class with this girl, we have became close because were together for 75 minutes every day and I learned lots about her as she...
    wonderwall12 wonderwall12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    ........

    i have this crush on this guy, but i could never be with him, it wouldnt be right, i cant say why cuz it was give it away conpletly lol but its starting to really get to me, but i cant tell him how i feel, ive recently broken up with my ex and it would be nice to be with someone...
    RebbieShane RebbieShane 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 21

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    I Still Do

    I still dream about you. I still daydream about you. I still Facebook stalk you. (How was Ibiza btw?) I still download pictures of you. Yeah, I'm crazy. See, it's just like the song says: A falling star fell from your heart and landed in my eyes.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    So I have a crush on my Biochem professor.

    He is so handsome and so "mature" and I like that. Well last week I had stayed after class for some help on a lab. Well we were going over the previous paper, and you know in movies where the girl and the boy touch hands and there is a tingle and blahh... Well I had that tingle...
    Mlove353 Mlove353 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 12

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    Monster

    Consider my consciousness completely hijacked.I should know better, in fact I do know better. Doesn't stop me though. That is the problem with this thing...it doesn't feel stoppable.It has a life of its own.I am infatuated like a school girl. Stupid with it. I would quite...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    I will be straight forward i have a crush on my

    manager. It's really weird mainly because I am 18 and she turns 30 soon. We have a good professional relation ship that's about it. I don't talk to her that much out of work in case it does slip out I have a thing for her
    soxs45 soxs45 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I have a crush on my ex we dated last year then

    I moved schools and then I moved back then we started talking but then I found out she had a bf they were dating for a while so it tried not to interfere then they broke up and she doesn't want to give me a second chance because I act exactly like him :( please help I really...
    LoveToSpare LoveToSpare 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    See, This Is Why I Like You.

    I suppose you wouldn't be tweeting this if you didn't believe it, anyway...<3
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    So I just got a new personal trainer because

    although I'm quite athletic I feel that I need an extra push. The problem with that is that I forgot how hot personal trainers can be. This guy is just so beautiful and gentle and i really do have quite the crush on him. Gaaaa. It's been a while since I've felt this way and I...
    reesespeices reesespeices 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    About five years ago,

    while working at a small "mom & pop" store, I met a great guy. He was not someone that would immediately catch your eye, just an "average joe" if you will... except for his eyes. They are the most beautiful blue I have ever seen, and they mesmerized me every time he would come...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I know him but I never met him

    and I probably never will but I love him and its hard to think that one day I gotta make a choice tell him or let him go as a friend because we both know its not gonna work out.. I need help!!!
    thatGirlyoulike thatGirlyoulike 13-15, F Mar 5

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    I have a crush on my friend Austin.

    He's 18 and I know I shouldn't but I do. He likes me too it's just bad.
    alexahatesyou alexahatesyou 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Sounds About Right!

    Damn you, Norman.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 18 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    It always happens EVERY.

    SINGLE.TIME :(
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Still Stuck

    I've liked the same person for literally ages but never said anything, or made a move at all because I'm just terrified if he said no it'd ruin our friendship. I've hooked up with other guys in that timespan but my heart was never really in it. Honestly I love him so much, he has...
    disneys disneys 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    So I'm a sophomore in high school,

    and social life is confusing enough. Just this semester, my two best girlfriends and I have become friends with a new group of great guys that I really enjoy being around and and we all hang out in the weekends. The problem is this one guy that I'll call Sam. He has so much...
    caroline1398 caroline1398 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    He's almost 16, I'm 21.

    He's my best friend's little brother. Every time we hang out I get really excited. Oh yeah, and I have a boyfriend.
    jazzyphaser jazzyphaser 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Seriously...

    How can I NOT be smitten with a man who tweets pics like that?My cat has got the exact same eyes. I <3 black cats.*sighs and shakes head at self*Twitter is a bad invention for girls with crushes.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    I Have A Crush On My Guy BestFriend.

    And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him!
    BethanyGriffin BethanyGriffin 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I have a friend who I love (and hate).

    He's friendly, fun to be around and annoying. He's one of my best friends. I tell him everything and he doesn't judge. I'm very comfortable with him. We can talk about everything and make silly jokes and high-five on the things we agree on. He makes me happy, mad and annoyed at...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Wish I Could Have Him.

    I have a crush on a driver I see every day. He is hot and sexy. We chat, but I want to tell him how I feel. But scared he might not feel the same.
    PLAY69 PLAY69 51-55, F 9 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Please someone take their time to read this,

    I feel like a lot of people can relate to this. I put a lot of thought into this. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 1

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    Well guess what? I have a crush on a sixth

    grader. A SIXTH GRADER. And I am a senior in high school. I'm helping her out with jazz band so i see her every week. It's a small crush, but it's a crush alright. And it's bugging me...
    theskyisarainbow theskyisarainbow 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    panda2323 panda2323 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I've found myself really liking this guy,

    he's sweet intelligent, caring and he's the kind of person who when having a conversation with,makes it feel like everything you're saying is fascinating in the most genuine way possible.i myself always preferred hazel or brown eyes in a guy, but the kindness in his sometimes...
    rawanabanana rawanabanana 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Queen Bee

    She flies into my home, demanding my attention. Buzing with enthuiasm, captivating the audience. Stories of her adventures, snippets of her day. Dressed to the hilt, casual in her makeup. Hair that flows down her back supported by a well toned body. Commanding respect, she...
    moonshine101 moonshine101 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    I needed someone who would love more

    than he love himself.Drama mode on.
    Irregularactivities Irregularactivities 16-17, F Apr 6

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    So there's a guy that I've liked

    since august , I finally got the gutts to tell him I liked him a day before my birthday , and I thought on my bday if get him as a gift well it didn't work like that , he told me he had a gf :( but she's trash she fool with everyone , but after I told him I liked him we started...
    zahriastar zahriastar 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 26-30, F 23 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I've had a crush on him

    since summer. We're just friends though. I was with his former best friend for a little. and he dated a girl that used to be my friend. And she almost dated his former best friend. (yeah I know complicated mix). In high school we were never really close. But I ran into him a...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ironic that this is the experience of the day.

    Nothing worse than crushing on someone you can't be with. :( He is just so amazing. Why do I have to be his student!?
    jgh16 jgh16 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Ok so I think I have a crush in this guy.

    .. He is really sweet and he is really nice to talk to... He makes me smile and I haven't smiled like this in a long time... I just don't know if he is feeling the same way or not... I Don't know what to do :(
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F Mar 10

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