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I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    I Know This Is Bad

    I met this sweet and beautiful girl at work recently.  I noticed that she had a wedding ring on, so I immediately backed off.  I believe it is wrong to mess with a married woman.  Come to find out, her husband beats her.  He is a psycho and has threatened her...
    GuyWhite GuyWhite 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 23, 2007

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    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 31 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I currently am in love with a woman with huge

    boobs (at least I think I am). This is not the only reason why I have a bit of a crush on her, but it absolutely helps. Don't get me wrong, I am not that superficial. I won't go into too much detail because I am paranoid. I live with her & she often walks around the house in...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    Hahaha! Love this thread,

    story of my life! It's usually my very married boss, best friend, or lover's best friend. Forbidden fruit look like they'll taste sweeter -but are really just a case of food poisoning waiting to happen!
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I have a huge crush on my manager at work

    but he's nearly twice my age and has three children! I think it's more a fantasy thing
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Intern: There's an intern in the office

    that reached out to me because my job was fascinating to her and she wanted to learn more. Heck, that was an ego boost right there, someone actually interested in the work I do. She came by to see me and I spent two hours talking with her, she hung on my every word. It was...
    76starships 76starships 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Fox T-shirt!!!

    OK... this is a sign, surely.
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    I'm falling for a married woman

    and I'm trying my best not to. First of all I'm a lesbian so I know the feeling won't ever be mutual and I really don't want it to be. Secondly she's almost twice my age but very good looking for her age. And lastly I see her almost everyday. It makes things hard on me because I...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    Markhill111 Markhill111 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have crush on my friend

    but I think it's love...and many of my friends said that he likes me back because of the way he treated me..and we always stare at each other...but sometimes he act like he didn't care..I don't like to assume...so uhmm I don't know what to do..should I keep on going..or stop my...
    aubrey016 aubrey016 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a crush on my ex's cousin.

    I liked him first but I didn't think he was interested in me and his cousin was more persistent. I don't plan on acting on it for obvious reasons but I feel like I chose the wrong person. Le sigh.
    1Nanotherlife 1Nanotherlife 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    GUYS, should I wear this

    when I go to the city with my crush? I know she has a girlfriend (if you read my post before about her) but no harm in trying to impress her right? I invited her to go to the city with me and she said 'I'd love to go'! And she already said she loved the shirt so should I? But...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F May 25, 2014

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    Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

    We go to the same school, same ccf. I found out the other day that he has liked me for ages, since around the time i started liking him funnily enough. I should have said something ealier, now he has a girlfriend
    kimmi14 kimmi14 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    He is older, of a different race

    and a complete manwhore. Father would never approve. But I can't help it. I don't like anyone from my race. He is everything I can't have and I don't think he likes black because of all the girls I've seen him with now of them were black :/
    kikimyst kikimyst 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have a crush on my neighbor Steve

    and I really wish I didn't! We don't really talk much in person because I'm always trying to avoid bumping into him but whenever he does see me he smiles and waves to me and I get these butterfly's in my stomach every time. He started living next door at the start of this year...
    Innocentgirl333 Innocentgirl333 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    When you love someone

    that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they would, and yet another...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I used to be friends with this guy back in

    middle school and I got this vibe that he liked me or at least i think he did.Anyways we're in high school now and i have the hugest freaking crush on him.We rarely see each other but when we do it's like awkward and like we can't break eye contact.But he has a serious...
    shellbells69 shellbells69 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    panda2323 panda2323 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83 31-35, F 22 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    What Makes The Heart Skip A Beat?

    ?? I think I may have ruined a great friendship because of a crush. There is a lot of background here, so please bear with me. As most of my friends know, my primary reason for coming to EP a year ago, the reason I found it accidentally that day, the thing that drove me to read...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    After 15 years of marriage

    and 2 kids, I recently fell in love again. Feeling "in love" again is exhilarating yet awful. My crush is a beautiful younger woman, married with 3 kids. Her oldest child is in the same kindergarten class as mine. We became facebook friends and for the past 3 months have shared...
    Ishouldhavebeenahobo Ishouldhavebeenahobo 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    absolutely amazing how someone says they care

    about you, yet your so easily replaced.
    madtickler madtickler 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Apr 2

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    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm engaged and I have a crush on someone in my

    class. I don't even know if she is gay. I am getting married in a year and I am crushing on a classmate and I am trying to find ways to get closer to her. She is so perfect for me though. I would know that her intentions are true, unlike my fiance.
    smilemovie smilemovie 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    SpiritOfIzanagi SpiritOfIzanagi 13-15, M Apr 16

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    I mean like you can't tell me she isn't hot.

    ... But anyways she used to be a girly girl and we were best friends and then she changed but we were still friends until she dated my sister behind my back I know I shouldn't of been mad but ughhh and I've had a crush on her for two years now.... Ughhh I don't know what I should...
    FadingStarrr FadingStarrr 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    kreizichie13 kreizichie13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I have a crush on someone

    that comes to me for advice and counsel. I am already very messed up and vulnerable with another affair and lots of issues, as it were, but I look at this person and I cannot help but think "Oh my god you are beautiful, I would give anything to kiss you, even a kiss--that would...
    Directionless450 Directionless450 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I have a instant crush on a boy in my class

    and we have been in the same class for three year . But , he seem like didn't notice me and I don't know if he likes me or not so I was afraid to tell my feeling to him . He's very popular at school as a captain of football team and a good guitar player which make many girls...
    Samnesiaa Samnesiaa 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have a crush on someone

    and I should not its my little sister (by love not blood) Amber Nicole she's my sunshine and keeps my dark clouds at bay. She means everything to me she's my life my soulmate. She doesn't know I like her like that. I want to tell her but I know she doesn't like me like that. She...
    BabyAmber BabyAmber 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    I have a huge crush on someone

    who 'used' to have a huge crush on me. Like, I feel so stupid of rejecting him in the first place... I thought I would never like him because of his undesirable attitude, like he is so annoying and self centered. But, maybe things don't work that way. How I wish I could bring...
    ajdream ajdream 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I liked you. I honestly really did.

    But we stopped talking. Why? I don't know. Why would you ignore me like that? Did I do something wrong? But it's whatever it's cool. ✌️✌️
    TParrish TParrish 16-17, F 1 Response May 8, 2014

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    hellohowlow hellohowlow 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    There is this guy. He's come over to our

    apartment everyday for the last 2 months. When he's around, I feel like I can let my guard down. He makes me feel safe. He has taken down walls that no one else has been able to since getting to college. He knows my life. He knows me. He can read me so well. There are moments...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    I have a boyfriend, but have a crush on my

    coworker. Who also has a girlfriend who works with us as well.. I can't tell whether he has a crush on me too or whether he's just a flirt.
    Madixi Madixi 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    There's no way that I could ever be with him.

    We never talk, we don't know each other, he has a boyfriend, and I don't believe that we are compatible. Yet I find myself attracted to him. I want to get closer to him somehow but I don't have any classes with him and I think that if I tried to talk to him he would be...
    super563 super563 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Okay, so I have this friend.

    .. I realised it when she confessed me she was bi (but she doesn't want to be anymore!) I've always tought she was attractive, but in a general manner! I never realised I felt attracted to her. Hell, I didn't knew I liked women! When we were coming home from school, a boy (that...
    TheLittleHummingBird TheLittleHummingBird 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I see him twice a week.

    We've never actually spoken, but I find him looking at me often, without shame. Doesn't even look away when I've caught him. He's good looking, and I've noticed that he's funny. I just feel over all attracted to him. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. And that tends to mess...
    IAAS IAAS 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    My best friend. :) He's

    so sweet and encouraging. He even likes me too. But there's a 4 1/2 years age difference... I shouldn't like someone so young...
    Opalite Opalite 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok, so I have a serious crush on my roommate.

    It's pretty bad. I'm talking pulse quickening, temperature rising, butterflies when we are physically close type of crush. I think she has a crush on me too, she makes excuses to hang out with me, wears increasingly skimpy clothing around the house, and the way she looks at me...
    dissapointinglife dissapointinglife 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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