I Have a Crush On Someone I Shouldn't

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    In January I drank too much one night at a

    function. I had invited a friend from high school. I don't remember anything past midnight but she had told me that I had asked her where a mutual friend, someone who I haven't spoken to in 2 years
    LifeVirusx10 LifeVirusx10
    18-21, M
    Apr 1

    A guy half my age... He comes around

    and flirts but nothing ever quite happens. The last time he wanted to come inside (we were on the porch drinking and talking) I chickened out, made excuses because I felt like it was wrong, he has a girlfriend... I think he's afraid of me. And maybe he should be. If I ever got...
    marladurden13 marladurden13
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    I have a mini crush on a: 1) Coworker.

    2) He's a year or two younger than me. 3)The real issue is: he's married. This isn't gonna work. Haha.
    Parrotish89 Parrotish89
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    My private tutor.. ahh how messed up.

    He's married so its like double messed up and I actually kissed him. I'm not someone who does things like that because i'm shy but as soon as his wife went up stairs i had to. evil? uh i know. they are in the middle of divorce right now tho, ive been called, got paragraphs of...
    MissLorii MissLorii
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    I think I have a crush on my Physics teacher.

    ... She's really pretty though... ugh. And that cleavage...Flawless. She teaches us so well :) I sit in the front now, also sitting next to boys that are just ******** and treat me as if I am not a female specimen of the human race. Ugh. However, I didn't sit there for the boys...
    JeSuisAmira JeSuisAmira
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 12

    I don't know why I admire him

    so much. But I think I should stop because that is taboo. Student-teacher connection is illegal. Plus, it is really stressful whenever I fail a test in his subject. But he is throwing clues that he is a bit interested. I just don't know anymore 👊
    Pilosopotasyo2311 Pilosopotasyo2311
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 1

    I have a crush on someone I met in school

    but she's one to two years younger than me. Even though "one to two years" doesn't seem like a problem, being in school and having a crush on them feels like one.
    Chelandi Chelandi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 18

    My friend's Dad......

    .Omg, he is so hot. I just melt(literally, in certain places) when ever I catch him checking me out, which he does quite a bit. I don't think he realizes how close he has been to having me just taking him out, hitting my knees, and showing him how bad I want him!
    Jennyspreadswide Jennyspreadswide
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Jan 8

    This was years ago. Had a crush on my husband

    friend. Feeling was mutual (long story ) didn't do nothing bout it cause we didn't want to risk anyone from knowing
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    He's dangerous but a mystery.

    He's irresponsible but cares when it is important. He is a flame and I am the moth. Although I know my fate, I can only draw closer.
    Blondequestioner Blondequestioner
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 3

    Yeah one shouldn't have a crush on your manager.

    He's damn pretty looking too. Like when I wash something. give it back to him random instance. He shakes the scooper at me and says "See that's why." and sprays water all over my face. "Oh! sorry for getting you wet". Yeah I'm like whatevs. The Back-up cooks like. "I should tell...
    Pride49 Pride49
    22-25, M
    Mar 22

    I am genuinely in love with Anne Frank.

    She was beautiful, witty, and graceful young woman who light was snuffed out far too early. I frequently fantasize about being Peter van Pels hiding with her. Oh god, just imagine deflowering that sweet girl on a lazy Amsterdam afternoon, lying and learn what each other‘s...
    jasonBK1 jasonBK1
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 19

    A teacher at a different school

    but would sometimes fill in for other teachers at my highschool, I never had him to myself but i would visit him in-between classes so i got his number and one day he texted me and told me that he would be in the building and while he was still teaching a class, I sent him racy...
    DaddysPrincess16 DaddysPrincess16
    18-21, F
    6 Responses May 10, 2015

    My crush ignores my snapchat stories.

    I know this for sure because she is very active on snapchat and she even posts stories every other day. I dated her once like a year ago but nothing happened and then we lost contact. I heard recently that she had a crush on me back then too (by a rumour). I think she has a...
    Goku1900 Goku1900
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 25

    usually when I have a crush on someone they're

    usually a character or someone super far away. -_-
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    I could give up drinking in a heartbeat.

    ......but I'd still want to get drunk off you.
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    carinaccaa carinaccaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 1
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    I want him.... I know I shouldn't

    but I can't help it. I don't know why but he intrigues me so. I am a serial crusher but there is something about him leaves me in awe. I look forward to those couple of minutes each week that I get to be near him. I know that he likes me. I can tell by how differently he talks...
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2014

    I can't stop thinking about him.

    He's 20 years older but he's so sexy. His voice is smooth and wonderful, but what's most beautiful is what he says- he is so intelligent, and yet such an enigma. He would take years to figure out, an intelligent puzzle. I see him as a challenge almost. I vie for his attention in...
    Floridagirlfaith Floridagirlfaith
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

    In front of friends : Normal mode on ^_^ In

    front of crush : .-. ;-; *asdfgjkl* :P
    ItsOkey ItsOkey
    22-25, M
    Mar 18

    yep my nephews gfs dad he is married n ive only

    met him twice. we havent even spoken that much ... but ev time i see him i get these strange feelings ok he is verry hot
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    I have a crush on a video game char.

    .. Geralt of Rivia... from the witcher 3 series... yeah this is stupid.. but damn...i wanna be his sorceress
    Bblossom Bblossom
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Mar 12

    Ok so I'm in 6TH grade

    and i think I have a crush on our student teacher Eren Meadows (Mr. Meadows) I'm pretty sure he likes me because he flirts with me with his feet and one time I caught him starring at me with his head tilted his head and he was resting his hand on his hand my face got red. He...
    Zombi3chic Zombi3chic
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Mar 21

    Brian from down the street just texted me

    and wants me to come over and hang out with them. I might but don't want to get in trouble!
    MissCurly MissCurly
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 1

    I'm 18. He's 31. He's at my work albeit in a

    different department. It started off that he'd come past and make fun of me in a joking way, and eventually he just started teasing me more and more and making excuses to come talk to me. Eventually he followed me into the back room and kissed me. And then kissed me another...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 31

    I have had a crush on someone

    for nearly 5 years now. I can't really do anything about it at the moment because she is in a relationship with someone else. I have cut her out of my life as much as I can (removed on Facebook, not speaking etc.) due to emotional stress, even pursed other women. However, I...
    yoyojams yoyojams
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 10

    I am unsure if it's a crush

    or just bonding over heart breaking situation but kinda got me worry
    piperjoe124 piperjoe124
    26-30, F
    Mar 5

    So i started working at this brand new store in

    october and unfortunately i am falling for my co-worker,Adam. He is everything i'm looking for in a boyfriend...but after working together for a few weeks i found out he's taken. To be clear i'm not that kind of woman that'd steal him or ruin their relationship,but i don't wanna...
    alex9201 alex9201
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2015

    Just A Friend

    This woman this woman intimidates me, she's shy and refined.. all that intrigues me. I make her giggle and laugh and my spirit is set free She looks me in my eyes And I feel butterflies She makes me stumble on my words I know it sounds so absurd I watch her movements so graceful...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    19 Responses Feb 27, 2011

    I know she's toxic but I can't help

    but drink her in every time she smiles. I'm a bit of a stoic man and not many people get to get close or know me well enough to affect me with their actions....but she did. Her goofy personality and big blue eyes melt my ice cold façade and she knows it. I'm 100% positive she...
    HeroInWaiting HeroInWaiting
    31-35, M
    Mar 13

    So many of you have messaged me about Me

    and Adam,so here is a little update for you guys. Since the first post our store had it's grand opening,so we spend way more time together. It seems like whenever i don't pay attention to him or my voice is bored or annoyed when i talk to him,he gets mad/fustrated - if someone...
    alex9201 alex9201
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 19

    well a couple someones.

    always older too but I mean it's just crushes that is normal right?
    mayceewaycee mayceewaycee
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 22, 2015

    Her

    Everything about her makes me smile. Her hair, her skin, her teeth, her honesty, her caring nature, her hugs, her positive outlook on life, her stubbornness...the list goes on. The biggest problem I have though is that she is my best friend. We can't be together for many reasons...
    MsNicole83 MsNicole83
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Jul 10, 2013

    Why is it I can't seem to control my hormones

    when the father of one of my sons friends comes to our house? Tonight sitting around our kitchen table during dinner, I couldn't stay focused. I could smell his cologne lingering in the air and my mind was wandering to forbidden places.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    I went back to him. after a couple weeks,

    I felt empty. I didn't feel beautiful anymore. no one was lined up behind me to be a back up plan. I have never felt so ugly. it didn't help that my friend only ever talked about her new Bae. every time she mentioned her new guys name, I'd think to myself "where's mine?". I didn...
    cynicalroses cynicalroses
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 1

    I have a crush on someone who's waaaaayy out of

    my league. And here I'm going to call him Quil. I've never even met him before. When I think about him, I picture him out with the words my friend used to describe him. It all started last year, August, I think. My guy friend(I will call him Deer) had me listen to one of his...
    yoonAlexandra yoonAlexandra
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 2
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    Mar 12

    I am 19 years old and I have a crush on a guy

    who is 16. Although three years doesn't seem horrible, I know I cannot tell anyone that I am attracted to a sophomore in high school while I am a college freshman. He doesn't even look much older than he is. The most he could pass for is a high school senior at max. He has...
    chasingsunsets chasingsunsets
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 17

    I have an uncontrollable crush on a man 26

    years older than myself. I am 21 he's 47.
    toddurchmollyxd toddurchmollyxd
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2015

    I have a crush on this guy.

    .. It's been a while but I didn't want to admit. I don't like the idea of someone holding my heart without being aware of it. Still... I can't yell him how I feel. I'm too scared to be rejected. He may have my heart but at least it's not a broken one... Not for now.
    Kahinde Kahinde
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    He makes me smile, he's the highlight of my day,

    I know he loves me because he has said so countless times but can give up the friendship we have built since forth grade? Do I want to ruin our friendship? Or am I hiding behind this excuse because I don't want to get hurt? So many questions yet so many uunanswered.
    taebae22 taebae22
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 19

    Havein a crush sum thing like

    that I'm nt shy but dnt no what way ta say it to this person I no she wants ta ave sex with me to as much as I want with her maybe ill just bite the bullet and say it and c what happens
    kenxsonx kenxsonx
    36-40, M
    Apr 8

    My wife's best friend,

    get so excited every time she comes over, can't help myself, I have let her catch me in compromising situations but want more
    Cleguy216 Cleguy216
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    Girl code 101 : You do not date your

    girlfriends' sloppy seconds. That's fine with me... I want to date my best friend's CURRENT boyfriend. lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 23

    I have a crush on a new girl at work

    but idk if she likes me like that idk but when i see her she makes me so wet
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 14

    I have a crush on my best friend.

    We've been friends for two years now and I just recently realized that I had a crush on her, (about 2 months ago). I promptly told her about my feelings and it didn't affect our friendship, however since then we've gotten closer and we lay in a grey area where we have done...
    beatleslovr beatleslovr
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 26
    Rusty278 Rusty278
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Apr 20

    Don't you just hate it

    when you like someone and you start to associate almost every thing they say or do to you like grab a pencil near you which you take as them wanting to get closer to you. *sigh* I hate these feelings.
    5amsunrise 5amsunrise
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I'm married with 2 children

    and I've developed a crush on a good friend of mine. I've recently come to terms with my sexuality and she's been there to talk to me about it. She has two kids and a partner that treats her horribly. We get along so well and can talk for hours without a moment of silence. She...
    mel1229 mel1229
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Guess I Was Wrong.

    I had that little theory. It went like this: "Being in love with someone I can't have is emotionally safe, because if I can never be with them, they can never hurt me, either." This stemmed from having suffered in relationships; so I indulged myself in my celebrity crush and I...
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Apr 6, 2013

    The first time ever I had tested my gender

    thoughts was at the library when I was 13. Being sort of a recluse without a lot of friends at school I spent weekends and summer days downtown at the library or at the museum. One day another boy my age came up to me and started talking and we became friends and started hanging...
    ChrisLatte ChrisLatte
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Mar 22

    I Do....

    ....but it can never work.... ........he's an LOL guy, and I'm a HAHA kind of girl.....
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Apr 17, 2013

    I had a crush on my 42 year old language arts

    teacher in 8th grade, and maybe still do. I like/d his beard, his voice, his kind eyes, and even the way he walked (gait). I even sent him an anonymous email using an account that if you search up, can lead to another account in which I stated my career goals. I found it quite...
    Odahviin Odahviin
    18-21, F
    Mar 17

    I love my older sister

    and she loves me back. We're both bi and are now forced to share a bed. Still, I have a date tomorrow and this girl greatly interests me. It's kind of borderline too. She just turned 16 in December. Every guy I've dated has been a major disappointment so far, but if the new girl...
    LucyCan LucyCan
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 7

    I didn't think I was capable of having crushes

    anymore. But surprise surprise - I developed feelings for a guy I hadn't met. It was so sudden and so intense that I couldn't eat or sleep. All I did was thinking about him and waiting for his next message. He told me that he had a crush on me too, and that was the best feeling...
    fcksociety fcksociety
    22-25, F
    Mar 22

    Tempt Me

    You're scared of me, scared of what I could make you feel. My.. shy beautiful caged queen. I intrigue you, leave you wondering. You want more, I can see it in your eyes. You imagine me nestled between your thighs. My lips upon your neck and hands upon your breasts.. you...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    30 Responses Mar 3, 2011
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