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I Have a Crush On Someone Who's Not Interested

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    Crushes Cause Pain

    it is hard for true feelings to be expressed because the fear of rejection. even when you arent going to be rejected i always push away before i can find out the truth i guess sometimes it seems so impossible for a guy like him could like a girl like me so i pretend the feelings...
    typicaltypingteen typicaltypingteen 18-21, F Nov 19, 2012

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    Kind Of...?

         It's not that he's not interested it's that we've never said a word to each other. Oh, it's a shame. He's such a lovely person. But I just watch him and think about him and even dream of him. But lately it hasn't been as much of a Taylor Swift music video as it is me...
    anothersilhouette anothersilhouette 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2011

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    I'm Trying To Get Over It.

    I think about talking to him all the time, but I know he doesn't like me.
    Stupiddumbchick Stupiddumbchick 13-15, F Dec 27, 2012

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    On a Universal Basis

    There's someone on one of my IM networks that I kinda have a fairly large crush on right now...but she's not interested in relationships. Like, at all. So...yeah, kinda sucks. Thinking of my prior experiences with long-distance relationships, it probably wouldn't turn out too...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M 10 Responses Jan 18, 2008

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    She Seems Perfect.

    I haven't been able to get her out of my mind ever since I met her. She gorgeous, funny, down to earth, and she is so... just perfect. I dream about her smile, her specific scent, the way her eyes seem to look right into me. When she and I talk on the phone her voice is angelic...
    OverThinker93 OverThinker93 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    Not interested... But acts like they just might

    be. Like when you flirt for a whole year. Then when you both go to a bonfire at your friends and you play truth or dare. Then he gets dared to kiss your best friend and they start dating....... It sucks.
    etraw2A368 etraw2A368 16-17, F Apr 2

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    No Chance

    I feel like the guy I like wants nothing to do with me. It's hard because I don't know why he acts that way. Probably because I use to like his friend and every time we hung out he was there. I think he use to like me freshmen year but I ruined it. He is the only one in my grade...
    typicaltypingteen typicaltypingteen 18-21, F Nov 17, 2013

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    Copot Copot 22-25, M Dec 13, 2013

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    Isn't That The Way It Goes..

    I get crushes on guys like you wouldn't believe. :P I don't even need to know all that much about them :( There are some that I don't know if they're interested or not, I just assume they're not.. :P why is it that the guys with great personality I'm not physically...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Again, Ffs

    There's someone at work whom I have a crush on. I've been trying to ask her out to no avail. I just learned today that she's basically just leading me on. I heard this from a reliable source. The big difference between this one and the last one is that this one ISN'T TELLING ME...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    Not interested? More like doesnt

    even know i exist. Lol:(
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Please somebody out there please read this.

    ..it would mean so much. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Title? What Title?

    Yeah, it kinda sucks. I don't know why he's not interested. Oh, maybe it's because he's gay. That could be it...  
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    Crushed

    I cant help but think, maybe one day he will see me. My heart that aches for his incredible smile, tantalizing blue eyes that mesmorizes me everytime I look at him. The times we spend together, laughing and those deep conversations we have. I realize deep in my heart and soul...
    globugbigbear globugbigbear 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    This doesn't bother me or make me insecure, though. I am more than alright with that.
    wannabevocalist wannabevocalist 18-21, M Aug 7

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    Well unfortunately I love someone who does not care about my feelings at all. We were dating for two years and off and on he would ignore me. I admit I was not an angel, but it...
    vampiragirl vampiragirl 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 24

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
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    My brother. I think this is his 5th time to. When he was 13 he slit his wrists and then developped a nerve condition. When he was 15 he locked himself in his room with a gun but...
    QuinnStew QuinnStew 13-15, F Jul 28

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    It's just what it is. I want to be loved by someone who cares. I'm not asking much, just for someone who really cares about me to love me.
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love someone who no longer is IN love with me. I believe he loves me cause we have been together to long for him not to but I know hes not in love with me any more because he has...
    devilseye1996 devilseye1996 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I've always have this dream of opening a flower shop near my place because there isn't none over here that's good enough. My plan was to do it together with my best friend. She...
    maryjaneb maryjaneb 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    "Girl I know this might seem strange But let me know if I'm out of order For stepping to you this way" I met him at work. He was odd, but he was my kind of odd. He was colorful...
    SleepyHead2123 SleepyHead2123 18-21 Aug 4

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    I wish I could be a better man. Someone that women could take the time to know deeply. I haven't had a serious relationship for 8 years, no one seems to be interested in me.
    sadasusual sadasusual 22-25 Aug 3

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    I am a proud nudist family mom and I have gladly told others that I am a nudist. I have told my neighbors, girlfriends, and a few others. Some are very interested and come over...
    bustywifeinbikini bustywifeinbikini 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    There are a handful of women that I am friends with that I wish I would have asked out back in the day... granted, I probably wouldn't be friends with them now since if they...
    dcisme dcisme 41-45, M Aug 5

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    Body Dysmorphic Disorder - July 30, 2014- I recently heard of this on a television show. I never truly understood this friend's feelings until I learned more of this disorder. To...
    JustaMann JustaMann 41-45, M Jul 30

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    9 months together and then he turned on me...I dated my ex for a year he made me so happy and he was so caring and loving then nine months into our relationship he started hitting...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    So, so many that I can barely name all of them... The 10th Doctor, Link, Rory Williams, Romano Vargas, Feliciano Vargas, Ludwig and Gilbert Beilschmidt... That's not to say I...
    ledarkknightess ledarkknightess 13-15, F Aug 1

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    Niall Horan, Luke Hemmings, Elyar Fox and Ross Lynch. I have a thing for blonde hair and blue eyes or blonde hair and brown hair. Idk they're all so attractive it's unbelievable
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have been in an online relationship for 3 years with this guy who lives in New York (I live in Egypt btw) We used to see each other on a virtual game called YoWorld. We were so...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't have feelings for him, but he'll always have a place in my heart. It kinda kills me because he's been dating someone for the past 7 months and I check on their Facebook...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 17. I love a girl who I work with that is 19. She is engaged. It's sad that I just met her last month and already feel this way. But she doesn't know and will probably never...
    CJHall1234 CJHall1234 16-17, M Jul 23

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    I believe in you! I know sometimes you can feel like all you ever do is support others but when it comes to you, there's a drought in your pool of friends. I have felt the same way...
    YoungPadawan YoungPadawan 16-17, F Aug 1

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    And I am a VERY complicated person, with a lot of troubles. It's difficult to find someone willing to be there for me.
    ElZombie ElZombie 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Someday someone will marry me and and love me with all of him. Give me a baby and a ring. Someday I will be happy he will listen to my problems and needs. I will love him and be...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    there's this guy who broke my heart and I still have feelings for him. can anyone give me advice on how to forget about him completely?
    meguare meguare 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I know a few but today when I got home after a somehow emotional day. I was taking a break from studying and talking to a friend of mine in Australia then I could see,call waiting...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Jul 28

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    You might think that people may hate you but deep in someone's heart is a secret lock that one day you will open it up
    luvanimals4ever luvanimals4ever 13-15, F Jul 29

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    Today I found out that a boy killed himself. I did not know the boy very much as we only chatted one time. Last time I spoke to him he was going through a real rough time but he...
    hurlyboy hurlyboy 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    this happened last year... I didn't mean to didn't want to.. I loved him. I was 15... it happened on march 10th. I went over to my boyfriends house and we were sitting in his room...
    spinning661310 spinning661310 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I dated this boy about my freshman year in high school. So, last year. At first I thought "Alright I'll give him a shot" oh lordy was I ever wrong!!!!! Now, most guys at my school...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I hate this heavy grief of mine. Why can't I be happy with who I am? Nobody should ever feel the need to be loved. Still can't find what's so wrong with me.
    sadasusual sadasusual 22-25 4 days ago

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    Like relationship wise. But nobody cares for me at all. I'm just a waste of everybody's space..
    Imdestroyed Imdestroyed 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    he was my colleague. Normally you always tend to compete when at work and hardly a colleague can become a good friend but we striked well with each other and usually had good...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M Jul 31

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    So around the middle of June I met a girl at the gym I go to. We clicked instantly to the point that we sat in the gym and just talked for hours. As the weeks gone by we have been...
    saix217 saix217 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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