I Have a Crush On Someone Who's Not Interested

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    Not interested... But acts like they just might

    be. Like when you flirt for a whole year. Then when you both go to a bonfire at your friends and you play truth or dare. Then he gets dared to kiss your best friend and they start dating....... It sucks.
    etraw2A368 etraw2A368
    18-21, F
    Apr 2, 2014

    I'm pretty crazy for this girl who's scared of

    commitment. We were never "official" but we would date. when things would get serious, she'd withdraw. a few days after valentine's day when I made a relatively ballsy move. I painted her a picture, which I had never done for anyone before, it was too sentimental for her and...
    Joeyschnepel Joeyschnepel
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2015

    Again, Ffs

    There's someone at work whom I have a crush on. I've been trying to ask her out to no avail. I just learned today that she's basically just leading me on. I heard this from a reliable source. The big difference between this one and the last one is that this one ISN'T TELLING ME...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    There are times like these

    where I'm just waiting for the storm to pass and I don't feel like trying. I don't want to do anything but cry. This emptiness in my heart is getting bigger and travels to my throat from holding in my screams for so long. I could go on and on about why I'm feeling this way...
    torr62 torr62
    16-17, F
    Feb 10, 2015

    I have crushes on guys

    who have no interest in me what so ever. I even had pushed up my girls (breast) and weared tight shirts just for them to speak to me. That wasn't working so I can gave up. Now I just stare at them. It's not a guy. It's all guys who come to cvs. I work at cvs. The costumers there...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2015

    No Chance

    I feel like the guy I like wants nothing to do with me. It's hard because I don't know why he acts that way. Probably because I use to like his friend and every time we hung out he was there. I think he use to like me freshmen year but I ruined it. He is the only one in my grade...
    typicaltypingteen typicaltypingteen
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2013

    I'm Trying To Get Over It.

    I think about talking to him all the time, but I know he doesn't like me.
    Stupiddumbchick Stupiddumbchick
    13-15, F
    Dec 27, 2012
    Copot Copot
    26-30, M
    Dec 13, 2013

    Crushes Cause Pain

    it is hard for true feelings to be expressed because the fear of rejection. even when you arent going to be rejected i always push away before i can find out the truth i guess sometimes it seems so impossible for a guy like him could like a girl like me so i pretend the feelings...
    typicaltypingteen typicaltypingteen
    18-21, F
    Nov 19, 2012

    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Im-Having-A-Bad-Day/5256932
    torr62 torr62
    16-17, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    Please somebody out there please read this.

    ..it would mean so much. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

    On a Universal Basis

    There's someone on one of my IM networks that I kinda have a fairly large crush on right now...but she's not interested in relationships. Like, at all. So...yeah, kinda sucks. Thinking of my prior experiences with long-distance relationships, it probably wouldn't turn out too...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX
    26-30, M
    10 Responses Jan 18, 2008

    Isn't That The Way It Goes..

    I get crushes on guys like you wouldn't believe. :P I don't even need to know all that much about them :( There are some that I don't know if they're interested or not, I just assume they're not.. :P why is it that the guys with great personality I'm not physically...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2010
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2014

    Kind Of...?

         It's not that he's not interested it's that we've never said a word to each other. Oh, it's a shame. He's such a lovely person. But I just watch him and think about him and even dream of him. But lately it hasn't been as much of a Taylor Swift music video as it is me...
    anothersilhouette anothersilhouette
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2011

    me and this girl were hitting it off

    for a month perfectly up until Friday where she completely disappeared. I don't know what to do ):
    Joeyschnepel Joeyschnepel
    22-25, M
    Feb 16, 2015

    Title? What Title?

    Yeah, it kinda sucks. I don't know why he's not interested. Oh, maybe it's because he's gay. That could be it...  
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    He likes someone else.

    (No other words needed)
    torr62 torr62
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2015

    She Seems Perfect.

    I haven't been able to get her out of my mind ever since I met her. She gorgeous, funny, down to earth, and she is so... just perfect. I dream about her smile, her specific scent, the way her eyes seem to look right into me. When she and I talk on the phone her voice is angelic...
    OverThinker93 OverThinker93
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    Crushed

    I cant help but think, maybe one day he will see me. My heart that aches for his incredible smile, tantalizing blue eyes that mesmorizes me everytime I look at him. The times we spend together, laughing and those deep conversations we have. I realize deep in my heart and soul...
    globugbigbear globugbigbear
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    Last night at a birthday party I saw my

    childhood crush. Oh my gosh! He was just as cute as ever. At first I didn't recognize him but I thought that's a nice looking man as I walked past him in the room. Later they said you walked right past Marcus. I greeted him...and gave him a hug. As he was saying goodbye to my...
    toniyl toniyl
    36-40, F
    Oct 4, 2015

    Interested.....that's being nice I don't

    even think he has noticed me lol like anyone would lol
    CurvyFrance CurvyFrance
    13-15, F
    Dec 27, 2014

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