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I Have a Daddy Complex

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    more of an uncle complex maybe?

    my dad has always been there for me, even if he is emotionally distant. my uncle has lived with us on and off my whole life. when i was 4 i told my mom i wanted to marry him. i thought he was the most amazing man ever. he told me i was beautiful, his favorite girl. when i was...
    katiekaykay katiekaykay 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    So I don't know if this is normal

    or not, but sometimes I fantasize about having sex with my dad. I have heard of the Electra complex before and I believe I do have it. I am into bdsm and I do call my doms "daddy". I have always felt this way about my father since I was a little girl. I don't know if other...
    emmmxoxo emmmxoxo 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    Twice My Age?

    After my mom went through a bad divorce with my dad, I found I never saw him much. Its now been close to 3 years since I've really known my father. I lack a strong male lead in my life. Lately I've found I'm only attracted to men that are old than me. I like older men with broad...
    abn0rmal abn0rmal 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    Its bedtime daddy and my bed is soo cold.

    ... where are you to keep me warm? Snuggle up next to because I promise ive been good... or very very bad ;) <3 xx
    katiekaykay katiekaykay 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 12

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    When I get into a relationship,

    no doubt it will be with a masculine dominant daddy. I need somebody to give me direction and make sure that I am doing the right things. I love to make somebody like that happy, and of they're happy, I am happy. I don't know why but I have always had a thing for older...
    KY2LAX KY2LAX 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    It's amazing to think about how different my

    life would have gone if my dad actually would have been a dad to me. All I've ever wanted was a man to protect me from this awful world. I love him for his good days, but there's just no kind of bond there, at all. I crave it so much. Doesn't matter if it's family or a friend...
    KaylaNicole93 KaylaNicole93 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 16

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    Oh I Totally Do

    my daddy died when i was 8 and other than my grandfather i never had a father-figure in my life. i'd latch on to my friends' dads, date older men, etc. but i was uncomfortable calling a man "daddy" in bed. that is until i met my husband. he helped me explore these feelings and...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    Brought To My Attention

    I had a guy tell me I had a daddy complex... He only said this after he realized that all my partners have been about 10 years older than I. I've never considered it, but since being brought to my attention, maybe it's a thing for me....? My father left at my turning 2 and never...
    ElvishArmyWife ElvishArmyWife 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    I Like Older Men

    I am 16 and i never have been with a guy but i think that i am attracted to 50+ men. I am not even that interested in guys my own age. I think i have a daddy complex
    wolflord196 wolflord196 18-21, M 16 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Daddy Seeking His 'little Treasure'!

    <3 Hi there. Like so many here, I’m searching for that “little princess” in my life - that person I can ultimately connect with in every way. I guess I should mention a little about myself; I’m a 20-year-old, tall, attractive, professional and intelligent Dominant...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jan 4

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10

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    Longing For A Daddy

    Since I was 11 years old I have always been attracted to older men; whether it be a doctor, teacher,or relative. I was molested as a little girl by a female not much older than me and later on as a pre-teen by a man in his late 20's. However, I am not sure if these events played...
    daddyslittlelover daddyslittlelover 18-21, F 18 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Had it for the longest time immature boys don't

    turn me on. I like attention and being taken care of by an older man.
    musicloverxx musicloverxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Girl Next Door

    Kind of a continuation. The neighbor girl has been washing my car regularly now.. After each time I get an email. She shows me alittle bit more each time and thanks me for the tip. I don't think there is much left to show me..she is quite an exhibitionist. Her mother made a...
    rdkbrew rdkbrew 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 22, 2013

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    Hey daddy complex girl.

    I know you crave a caring daddy and it turns you on sexually. I am just the daddy for you. I need a good daughter. Bring your mommy also, if you wish.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M Aug 22

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    Do I Have Daddy Complex?

    im 14 dating a guy thats 17. i know thats not all that bad. but i find myself attracted to men 50+ with grey hair. i have a big crush on mark harmon from NCIS and Charles Gray  (google him). men 4 times my age. i always liked men with grey hair. when i turn 18 im gonna start...
    spockck spockck 13-15, F 31 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T Apr 19

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    I wonder if my bad behaviour in relationships

    is related to the fact that my father wasn't a part of my life.
    melonladyy melonladyy 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm in love with my MM

    and one of the reasons Im so in love is because he is such an amazing father to his daughter. He is the man I wanted my father to be. He is the man I wanted my children's father to be. He makes me feel safe in his arms. I love how it feels to be loved by him..
    Rightlovereallovewrongtime Rightlovereallovewrongtime 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I love the idea of being in a daddy daughter

    situation but no body else gets it
    niomi8 niomi8 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 23

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    emmmxoxo emmmxoxo 18-21, F 9 Responses May 11

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    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    I Ain't Had No Daddy Growing Up..........that's Why I'm Wild And Don't Give A Huh

    I was raised in a single parent home and for as long as I can remember I have always gone after older men. When I was in kindergarten I went after the teachers college aged son. In 3rd grade it was the high school son of the teacher. I'm looking for someone to fill the void my...
    EnchantingMinx EnchantingMinx 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Guilty

    I have sooo many fantasies! I feel like I must be perverted with how many different ones there are. But there is definitely one that includes an older man (50+), who meets up with me a mile from my parents house, and instead of taking me to school, he takes me to a motel. And...
    ForYourDesign ForYourDesign 18-21, F 18 Responses May 17, 2012

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    daddysprincess1111111 daddysprincess1111111 13-15, F 15 Responses Mar 7

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    I think i like daddy daughter roleplay

    because of the loving and caring + inocence and trust in me
    rightwaydown rightwaydown 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I crave attention from older male figures

    although I don't ever show It in real life.I always get crushes on my dads friends and enjoy learning from them. I would never try to pursue a relationship with them for obvious reasons but I do enjoy the company of older intelligent guys..
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 7

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    Please?

    Is there an older man i can talk to or who just wants to chat? :c
    ShatteredRadiance ShatteredRadiance 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    I'd love to be a young girl's daddy.

    ..i'd love to be there, support them, and protect them...weird the fantasy works both ways..
    imalreadylaughing imalreadylaughing 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    What if my father didn't left me

    and my mother alone? What if he was there for me when I was younger? What if he listened and cared for me? Would my life be different? Would I be the same person I am right now? Would I be stronger, better, secure and independent person? Is this why I always feel that there is...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 8

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    I don't know if it's a daddy complex,

    since all the complex' I've heard of is people lacking a father figure growing up. I've always known my dad, and we have always been really tight, I have always been a "Daddy's Girl" - but not in any sexual way, I would just always go to him with every problem I've had, always...
    leejoonnieoppa leejoonnieoppa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I don't know if I'd call it a complex

    but I have found it arousing to be called "Daddy." :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    It'S True.

    Everyone always jokes around about watching out for the girls with daddy issues, but no one ever really knows how true it is unless you have them. My father is still married to my mother and I grew up living in the same household, but he was never there for anything. He was...
    katie5929 katie5929 22-25, F 13 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Daddy dom here, looking

    for a baby girl who doesn't mind being slowly seduced in detailed conversations, using play, dress-up, etc. Just drop me a line if interested.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    Daddy Complex Movies!!

    Hi, I'm new on this site. My name is Amanda and I'm 25, and I have a question for all of you. So I recently just discovered the film Leon (aka "The Professional" in the states) which is the ultimate daddy complex movie. Quick synopsis, 12 year old Mathilda's family is gunned...
    LeonsMathilda LeonsMathilda 22-25, F 20 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    Empty Viod

    today i just discovered why i like older men. its called a daddy complex- a younger girl likeing older men because the empty void her father has left. my dad divorced my mom when i was just four years old, and moved to another state. i would visit him about once every three...
    kitten93 kitten93 16-17, F 16 Responses May 3, 2010

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    My Daddy

    I'm lucky I have found somebody to be my daddy, I was so lonely and never had the courage to admit what I really wanted and liked in a relationship. One day my urge to call him daddy got the better of me! He asked me more about it and questioned me .. I had never really...
    Missbell95 Missbell95 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13, 2013

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    iamtaylor iamtaylor 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    My Friends Think So...

    I don't know, I have always been attracted to older men.  I guess I just need to go on and admit it.  I probably do have a bit of a daddy complex. I was the one who was always attracted to my friend's dads and since my early 20s I've not been with anyone my age.  I crave older...
    CuuteePie CuuteePie 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    daddysprincess1111111 daddysprincess1111111 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 7

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    I love attention from older guys

    and find it hot the thought of someone being my daddy!!
    blueberrygirlxox blueberrygirlxox 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    I want to talk to a real daddy

    and tell him all about my experiences as a young girl... :P
    pinkclover pinkclover 22-25, F 13 Responses Jun 22

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    Ok so I have been talking to this guy online

    for a year now and I really like him a lot we have became close like best friends. But once I found out he was like 40 I just naturally started calling him daddy. It's silly and makes me happy. I have my real dad in my life every day we have a great normal relationship. So I...
    chynarosee chynarosee 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    My 1st love was an older man.

    Ever since I've had a thing for older men.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 30

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    I woke up one morning to all the screaming and fighting y'all said words like lightning I'm crying on the door step mom said she ganna take me out of school to put me in...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    By daddy issues, I mean my dad and I do not get along, and that we have a complicated relationship. Not that I have no morals and sleep around to **** him off. Just so the creeps...
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I am sorry i didn't get into uni. I'm sorry that I wasn't an A* student. I'm sorry. I will always be a failure in your eyes. instead of being positive and helping me get through...
    Ghostpage Ghostpage 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    My dad used to do drugs and was abusive to my mom and my little brother and I. We used to run away from him growing up. Never been stable. Have mental issues. When he drinks...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    As someone who grew up without a father, I can undertand the tremendous void in can leave in one's life, as well as the pain and disappointment it can cause. For that reason, I...
    FollowMyLead FollowMyLead 31-35, M Aug 23

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    I just want that comfort feeling of having a father. Someone to help me and catch my back when I fall and guide me. I feel as if I'll never have that feeling again.
    whidel6 whidel6 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My dad is a addict I'm tired of telling to quit and I can't watch him kill himself everyday with Booz and smoking I don't know what to do ? He's all I got but he doesn't...
    chiragvijay chiragvijay 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    So my dad was NEVER. There for me and my big brother. And so I got a request from him now. I'm 18. And now you ******* show up?
    LifeBeingCereal LifeBeingCereal 18-21, F Sep 4

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