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I Have a Daughter In Law That Hates Me

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    Treats Me Like Dirt - My daughter in law treats me like I have the plague. She and my son asked me to quit my job to take care of my granddaughters while they are at work. Yes...
    jamandjelly jamandjelly 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    My Daughter In Law Hates Me... - This website is a great place to vent. I hope after reading what I write, I can sort thru this whole sordid affair. Right now I feel like I am...
    jwmom7172 jwmom7172 56-60, F 25 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Need Someone Who Is Like Me To Be Friend. - I am a 50 year old married(sometimes not happily) woman. My life experiences have been with drawing men who have monogamy and alcohol...
    ttracy1961 ttracy1961 46-50, F Nov 12, 2011

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    No Reason - Ok, so my son is marrying a girl that hates me.  My son and I have always been close and she has started fights between the two of us and thinks nothing of it...
    hurtingmom08 hurtingmom08 41-45 19 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Daily Pain - When my son started dating my daughter in law the only time I heard from him was when they were fighting...then he would end up spending a bunch of money on her and...
    bow2009 bow2009 46-50 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    Very Hurt - My daughter in law, and son were suppose to come have supper with us. I spoke with my son on phone and said, "call before ya'll come". He said, "Ok". My husband was out...
    hippieathart hippieathart 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    Don't Know What I Did To Deserve This - Five years ago I left my husband. We had been married over 20 years. We started as equal partners when we wed, but he became disabled...
    nowinsituation nowinsituation 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    A Family Soap Opera - Since he met and started living with his now wife we have seen our youngest son two or three times a year usually when looking after the...
    granval granval 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Have A Future Daughter In Law That Is Hateful And Rude - My son informed me by text message he was getting married. I was shocked I did not even know he had a girlfriend until 2...
    kshafer kshafer 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Daughter In Law - Doesnot Accept Me - My daughter in law just doesnot accept me. Her mother passed away several years before I met her father. She doesnot like that we have...
    WhyM301 WhyM301 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Celebration! - My husband planned an overnight camping trip with our sons, so they can keep caught up with each other. Life gets so busy and its difficult to stay in touch. I'm...
    Junnifer Junnifer 41-45 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Lost And Deppressed - My son was living with his girlfriend for 5 years. One year of being engaged. Her dad passed away and set the wedding date off a few months. I adored this...
    hazelnut1 hazelnut1 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Spurned In Sc - The first time I met my future daughter-in-law she said that she had an older brother and an older sister and that they were "very selfish". I though to myself...
    Taxmom Taxmom 56-60 4 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Heartbroken Mom......my Son Abandoned Me - I am a single mom who moved from one state to another so I could be with my son while he was pursuing a relationship with a girl who was...
    mbloveya mbloveya 61-65, F 6 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    My Future Daughter In Law - My son and his fiance have been together since Jr high. They just presently got engage and her mother and I went with. them to look at a couple of...
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    It was music to my ears that I found this website today and have read the problems other have. I have a daughter in law from hell currently. Nice as pie to your face and i am...
    hadenogh hadenogh 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Have Been Patient, Kind .... Still Hung Out To Dry By The Bully Paranoid Wife - my son married a girl in a secret wedding, with just her brothers standing up with her, and her...
    ajay821 ajay821 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    I Have A Daughter In Law That Hates Me - Sometimes I wonder if we just try too hard. I was determined to be friends with my daughter in law. My son is in the Army and she lived...
    dhart1966 dhart1966 41-45 6 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    My Daugher In Law Hates Me, And My Grandson... - I’ve never met a manipulative person, but I believe that is what my daughter in law is. I believe it was her goal to pull my son...
    SadMadMom SadMadMom 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    My Daughter-in-law Has Turned My Son Against Me - My son and I use to be so close and then he met his wife and now we are like strangers. I haven't been able to do anything right...
    zimbamzoom zimbamzoom 56-60, F 8 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    We think we know right from wrong but we don't. We have our laws and our regulations and our expectations, social or otherwise and they change all the time. Laws are added and...
    T4RD15 T4RD15 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I have been married to my husband for 10 years and together for 13. Before we married, I thought my MIL was like the mother I never had. (My mother past away when I was a young...
    adreanasmom adreanasmom 31-35, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Let me tell you about my sister. She is 3 years older than me, was very jealous of me as a child, was a bully to me until I left home before her and has always been a broody type...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 1 Response Mar 22

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    Update on my sister in law from hell Even after recently my fiancé loosing his mum, the sister is saying she isn't going to our wedding Mmmm reasons she hasn't given one, I...
    bertiewednesday bertiewednesday 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Im getting so sick of it. Just wish the three years would come by already it just drives me nuts. I dont even want to do anything law related when I get out. Im really hoping...
    folkishedpagan folkishedpagan 22-25 4 hrs ago

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    She has to be the most evil woman alive ! After 15 years you would think she would stop acting so crazy. She still calls me "Sue" his x-wife and blames me for the things she did...
    lauren0325 lauren0325 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I'd like to rp Daddy/daughter being a very young daughter. Molestation/rough welcomed. :)
    LauraLeaa LauraLeaa 31-35, F 13 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So sister in law and her family just arrived from Jamaica and our house is already a mess! Our daughter will be sleeping with us . Two of sister in law's kid are staying at my son...
    Curlyhairsheila Curlyhairsheila 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married for 10 years to my deceased husband's brother. It's been pretty rocky but we manage to make it work. Lately my husband and I have been experiencing some major...
    keycee keycee 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I do, I hate my mother in law. The feelings are mutual. She hates me ofcourse has from the get go. I could dismiss the fact that she hates me as I do return the gesture and frankly...
    Happiegurl Happiegurl 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    My little girl is now a woman. She is 20 years old and engaged to be married. I'm so happy for her. My little girl is getting married. I'm leaving the house to her and her...
    betweenthe10andthequeen betweenthe10andthequeen 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I hate my sister in law because as long as I've been with my boyfriend, she is sick and sits at home. At first, she had some rare tropical disease and for 2 years she sat at home...
    PancakesLover PancakesLover 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    They never beat me in the face so that no one can see but my whole family hates me. They call me names and punish me. Like hitting me on my bum or giving me their leftovers cold as...
    SabrinaInTears SabrinaInTears 13-15, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Lets see it started about five years ago I lived with a cousin and my wife- daughter and mother in law stayed at her grandmothers. Me and my wife aren't married at that time but...
    Whodidimarry Whodidimarry 26-30, M Mar 19

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    My boyfriend's mother "thinks" she hates me. I write "thinks" because I suspect it is not me she hates. She has hated every women her son has been with. She has been the cause of...
    pipadm pipadm 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have been divorced for 10 years with two kids my eldest daughter turned on me this week and blamed her psychological issues on me. Since the divorce my ex has denied access on...
    gnj10k gnj10k 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    my wife is divorcing me, she wanted to get part of my disability. federal law protects veterans disability, but the judge granted her 20% of my disability for spousal support. i...
    caer caer 31-35, M Mar 24

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    Hmmm, where to start. According to my husbands mother. Everything is my fault. And she says I am taking away all her happiness. How did I do that? I really don't know. According...
    MacieLynn MacieLynn 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I detest my daughter. I love her dearly but I can't stand the way she treats me. she's a bi-polar, alcoholic, selfish user who has been beating me since she was 12 years old and...
    R2RS R2RS 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I grew up the youngest in a family of all boys. My family was very religious but secretly abusive. My parents divorced at 12 and I was given to my mother due to me being abused by...
    spiffyjodzilla spiffyjodzilla 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Dear 'Mom' , I'm sorry that I am not the perfect daughter you expected me to be. I know you say that if maybe if I were skinnier and looked better that maybe my dad wouldn't have...
    bulimicbixtch49 bulimicbixtch49 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I have 13 and 18 year old daughter and a 19 year old son. I gave up my career to raise them. I feel like I have wasted my life! My oldest dropped out of college after only a few...
    lnrdale lnrdale 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My first impression of her was a when she dropped my step daughter off at our apartment and asked me whether he and I share a room , she stated that my step daughter said she doesn...
    HisAngelof222 HisAngelof222 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    So my husbands parents have always been weird to me. One because they are not happy together and didn't even really raise my husband and they are rude and clingy. So even before we...
    mad4maddie mad4maddie 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My mother in law is something serious. I cannot tell if she is truly nuts or .. just crazy jealous, clingy, selfish, and extremely rude... Well first of all before I met her my...
    dayrinp dayrinp 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I stole his two daughters panties and swimwear and the oldest one vibrator
    Subsissy42 Subsissy42 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    So a short school holiday is coming up and my wife will be visiting my in laws for two days next week. My older daughter will be at her mom's for the holiday so that leaves me home...
    G1One G1One 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I am here to vent. If you read this, I thank you. I will get right down to it. I hate my mil. I have been married for 5 years. I have a son by someone else. A ex boyfriend from...
    jammin02 jammin02 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
    ashoryb ashoryb 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I need to rant or I'm going to beat the s**t out of this women!! It's a complete and total mystery to me how someone can be so fake and two faced. Honestly, she knows I hate her...
    Karinamichele Karinamichele 18-21, F a week ago