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I Have a Daughter In Law That Hates Me

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    Lost And Deppressed

    My son was living with his girlfriend for 5 years. One year of being engaged. Her dad passed away and set the wedding date off a few months. I adored this girl I could not be happier. They were married in febuary of 2010. Now in july I find out from my son she is thinking of...
    hazelnut1 hazelnut1 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    My Daugher In Law Hates Me, And My Grandson...

    I’ve never met a manipulative person, but I believe that is what my daughter in law is. I believe it was her goal to pull my son from his family and cut HIS son from his life. I have four children.  My youngest son was always a kind and loving person.  His father and I...
    SadMadMom SadMadMom 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    Treats Me Like Dirt

    My daughter in law treats me like I have the plague. She and my son asked me to quit my job to take care of my granddaughters while they are at work. Yes, they pay me, but less than they pay their housekeeper. I don't mind because I get to see the girls almost every day and...
    jamandjelly jamandjelly 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    Heartbroken Mom......my Son Abandoned Me

    I am a single mom who moved from one state to another so I could be with my son while he was pursuing a relationship with a girl who was separated and had one child. I son is adopted and has mild CP. I raised him from the age of 3 alone and made him my entire life. I didn't...
    mbloveya mbloveya 61-65, F 11 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Celebration!

    My husband planned an overnight camping trip with our sons, so they can keep caught up with each other. Life gets so busy and its difficult to stay in touch. I'm spending the first night, before everyone comes up, but I was really excited when my son (with whom there have been...
    Junnifer Junnifer 41-45 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Very Hurt

    My daughter in law, and son were suppose to come have supper with us. I spoke with my son on phone and said, "call before ya'll come". He said, "Ok". My husband was out running errands, and when he got back told me that he spoke with Kiefer (my son)while he was out. I said oh...
    hippieathart hippieathart 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    I Have A Future Daughter In Law That Is Hateful And Rude

    My son informed me by text message he was getting married. I was shocked I did not even know he had a girlfriend until 2 weeks prior to this shock. I texted him back that I was disappointed and disapproved of this. I was mad at him. I felt left out of the loop because his dad...
    kshafer kshafer 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    I am utterly heartbroken!

    I pretty much raised my son's alone and now they are adults. My oldest son moved his girlfriend in with us when she was 18 because her mom kicked her out and now 7 years later they are on there own with a child. Great...right? I barely talk to my son unless they need money...
    clthompson40 clthompson40 46-50, F 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    I Have A Daughter In Law That Hates Me

    Sometimes I wonder if we just try too hard. I was determined to be friends with my daughter in law. My son is in the Army and she lived with us for a year and a half before they got married. She was with us through his boot camp and MIT training all the way up to the wedding. I...
    dhart1966 dhart1966 41-45 6 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Spurned In Sc

    The first time I met my future daughter-in-law she said that she had an older brother and an older sister and that they were "very selfish". I though to myself, "Hmmm, isn't it a miracle that her parents raised two selfish children and one selfless one?"  Alas, only too true...
    Taxmom Taxmom 56-60 4 Responses May 25, 2012

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    I am not sure what to do.

    I have always had excellent relationships with my three sons girlfriends, I even meet up for coffee with a couple of the existing,they say I am like a Mom to them. My new daughter in law has always had difficulty in making friends and she tells me she overthinks things. They...
    caringmom333 caringmom333 56-60, F 3 Responses Jun 1

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    Have Been Patient, Kind .... Still Hung Out To Dry By The Bully Paranoid Wife

    my son married a girl in a secret wedding, with just her brothers standing up with her, and her mother. I was told about this 2 weeks later when they and I went to dinner "surprise". they had a baby & I rec'd emails of the sonagrams, but when the big day came they went to West...
    ajay821 ajay821 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    Need Someone Who Is Like Me To Be Friend.

    I am a 50 year old married(sometimes not happily) woman. My life experiences have been with drawing men who have monogamy and alcohol problems. I am disabled due to neuological back and neck problems. But I love music(the oldies), funny sories and funny animal pics. I would like...
    ttracy1961 ttracy1961 46-50, F Nov 12, 2011

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    Daily Pain

    When my son started dating my daughter in law the only time I heard from him was when they were fighting...then he would end up spending a bunch of money on her and she would be happy...even on his important day when he graduated from college the lime lite was on her with a...
    bow2009 bow2009 46-50 5 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    It was music to my ears

    that I found this website today and have read the problems other have. I have a daughter in law from hell currently. Nice as pie to your face and i am the worst thing since sliced bread. Abandoned by her mother or so i am told and kicked out as a teenager it seems i am the...
    hadenogh hadenogh 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

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    My Future Daughter In Law

    My son and his fiance have been together since Jr high. They just presently got engage and her mother and I went with. them to look at a couple of venues. One the way, her mother mention that she was going to soon be Mrs. Blabla (not using our last name) and. She turned around...
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Don't Know What I Did To Deserve This

    Five years ago I left my husband. We had been married over 20 years. We started as equal partners when we wed, but he became disabled (legally blind); and I became the primary bread-winner.... He never adjusted to his disability, and used alcohol to ease his pain. Must have...
    nowinsituation nowinsituation 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    A Family Soap Opera

    Since he met and started living with his now wife we have seen our youngest son two or three times a year usually when looking after the grandchildren whilst the parents got a break. We enjoyed being with the two grandchildren.     ...
    granval granval 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    My Daughter In Law Hates Me...

    This website is a great place to vent. I hope after reading what I write, I can sort thru this whole sordid affair. Right now I feel like I am having a nervous breakdown. It is day 7 since the wedding from Christendom's hell. I am still in a state of grief. Not because my...
    jwmom7172 jwmom7172 56-60, F 28 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    No Reason

    Ok, so my son is marrying a girl that hates me.  My son and I have always been close and she has started fights between the two of us and thinks nothing of it.  They have been dating for quite a while.  We got along at first but for the las few years we haven't.  Now all of...
    hurtingmom08 hurtingmom08 41-45 19 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    My Daughter-in-law Has Turned My Son Against Me

    My son and I use to be so close and then he met his wife and now we are like strangers. I haven't been able to do anything right since they got togather. When they got married, I finished off their 16 place setting dishware. I think they needed about 8 more and I also bought a...
    zimbamzoom zimbamzoom 56-60, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    Daughter In Law - Doesnot Accept Me

    My daughter in law just doesnot accept me. Her mother passed away several years before I met her father. She doesnot like that we have gotten married, and fights with her siblings as they are happy their dad is not sad anymore. Also refuses to accept me as a grandparent and...
    WhyM301 WhyM301 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Actually I have two... My mum and my beautiful baby daughter. My mum is my best friend and I don't know what I'd do without her.
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    My family was going on vacation. We all packed and left. My brother was acting really insensitive the whole time, like oblivious. For example he set his phone down on a suitcase I...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Up early for my daughter's first day of school. I'm proud of her my little firs grader. I'm a little nervous about her going on the bus alone but I know she will be ok.
    SubmissiveThoughts SubmissiveThoughts 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    OK, sometimes it’s easier to give advice that to take it, but I could use your input if you have any experience in dealing with DUI’s and/or violating the terms of your...
    craigp572 craigp572 51-55, M 10 hrs ago

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    OK, sometimes it’s easier to give advice that to take it, but I could use your input if you have any experience in dealing with DUI’s and/or violating the terms of your...
    craigp572 craigp572 51-55, M 10 hrs ago

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    okay so ive written like 4 stories in this group concerning my mother in law Linda Maxwell and the things she likes to do, used to do to me, and what she is currently trying to do...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    My MIL took her evil actions to another level. I hate to say this but she's such a fake and negative person. She is unhappy about the fact that my husband and I are happy together...
    eezah eezah 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm an interracial adoptee from Africa, adopted by a white family. These last few years I've been thinking about the stories my adoptive parents have told me about what happened...
    Tearystar1027 Tearystar1027 18-21 2 days ago

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    I do not like my mother-in-law. I don't. And I know exactly why. She's raised three sons to be respectful of not just women, but everyone. She's taught them to look beyond a woman...
    BabyRottie BabyRottie 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    What I am about to tell/write is not right in my opinion and I simply look forward to the "second opinion". I have mentioned before that my mil has a mysterious rash (connected...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just get the dreadful feeling that everyone hates me, I feel like they all are ignoring me or if they listen to me it's just them taking pity on me. I don't know why I feel this...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think the only reason I'm on here right now is because I've never talked about this out loud to anyone, and being in this type of family dynamic is isolating. I only have to...
    Summer26061997 Summer26061997 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    ****VERY LONG DEscriptION****I've never told anyone about this before and it's one of my darkest secrets. But I have 3 alters that make up "me." They don't have names so I gave...
    Ikebanna69 Ikebanna69 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel so sad. One minute we are happy then the next he is shutting me out and yelling at me. I have no family and no one to talk to. When I try to talk to him, he gets angry and...
    ConfusedWife318 ConfusedWife318 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    He told me about an hour ago to go f$&@ myself. Every day he tells me how useless I am too. The other day he called me the "c" word. Yep. How disgusting to say to your own...
    cjkenton cjkenton 36-40 6 days ago

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    Don't feel bad every one hates me too. I don't think everyone hate you. At first I thought people was my friend they are not I am shy and alone all the time my family is not fun of...
    youwokeme99 youwokeme99 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My grandma is also saying **** about my grandpa so he gets very angry and starts beating her. My grandma hates my grandpa's guts and says he will have a terrible life after he is...
    AnAnonymousAnon AnAnonymousAnon 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    When i saw this group, i was torn between feeling this way and yet at the same time not. I had a fairly decent childhood as far as anyone could see. My parents were good at hiding...
    sherbear182 sherbear182 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I currently live with my fiancee, his parents and his sixteen year old sister Now I know being sixteen sucks and no one really appreciates the fact when they get older but I'm...
    KalindaAudrey94 KalindaAudrey94 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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