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I Have a Daughter In Law That Hates Me

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    Very Hurt

    My daughter in law, and son were suppose to come have supper with us. I spoke with my son on phone and said, "call before ya'll come". He said, "Ok". My husband was out running errands, and when he got back told me that he spoke with Kiefer (my son)while he was out. I said oh...
    hippieathart hippieathart 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    My Daugher In Law Hates Me, And My Grandson...

    I’ve never met a manipulative person, but I believe that is what my daughter in law is. I believe it was her goal to pull my son from his family and cut HIS son from his life. I have four children.  My youngest son was always a kind and loving person.  His father and I...
    SadMadMom SadMadMom 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    Need Someone Who Is Like Me To Be Friend.

    I am a 50 year old married(sometimes not happily) woman. My life experiences have been with drawing men who have monogamy and alcohol problems. I am disabled due to neuological back and neck problems. But I love music(the oldies), funny sories and funny animal pics. I would like...
    ttracy1961 ttracy1961 46-50, F Nov 12, 2011

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    Treats Me Like Dirt

    My daughter in law treats me like I have the plague. She and my son asked me to quit my job to take care of my granddaughters while they are at work. Yes, they pay me, but less than they pay their housekeeper. I don't mind because I get to see the girls almost every day and...
    jamandjelly jamandjelly 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    My Daughter-in-law Has Turned My Son Against Me

    My son and I use to be so close and then he met his wife and now we are like strangers. I haven't been able to do anything right since they got togather. When they got married, I finished off their 16 place setting dishware. I think they needed about 8 more and I also bought a...
    zimbamzoom zimbamzoom 56-60, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    I Have A Future Daughter In Law That Is Hateful And Rude

    My son informed me by text message he was getting married. I was shocked I did not even know he had a girlfriend until 2 weeks prior to this shock. I texted him back that I was disappointed and disapproved of this. I was mad at him. I felt left out of the loop because his dad...
    kshafer kshafer 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    It was music to my ears

    that I found this website today and have read the problems other have. I have a daughter in law from hell currently. Nice as pie to your face and i am the worst thing since sliced bread. Abandoned by her mother or so i am told and kicked out as a teenager it seems i am the...
    hadenogh hadenogh 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Don't Know What I Did To Deserve This

    Five years ago I left my husband. We had been married over 20 years. We started as equal partners when we wed, but he became disabled (legally blind); and I became the primary bread-winner.... He never adjusted to his disability, and used alcohol to ease his pain. Must have...
    nowinsituation nowinsituation 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I am utterly heartbroken!

    I pretty much raised my son's alone and now they are adults. My oldest son moved his girlfriend in with us when she was 18 because her mom kicked her out and now 7 years later they are on there own with a child. Great...right? I barely talk to my son unless they need money...
    clthompson40 clthompson40 46-50, F 1 Response May 27

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    Lost And Deppressed

    My son was living with his girlfriend for 5 years. One year of being engaged. Her dad passed away and set the wedding date off a few months. I adored this girl I could not be happier. They were married in febuary of 2010. Now in july I find out from my son she is thinking of...
    hazelnut1 hazelnut1 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    My Daughter In Law Hates Me...

    This website is a great place to vent. I hope after reading what I write, I can sort thru this whole sordid affair. Right now I feel like I am having a nervous breakdown. It is day 7 since the wedding from Christendom's hell. I am still in a state of grief. Not because my...
    jwmom7172 jwmom7172 56-60, F 26 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Daily Pain

    When my son started dating my daughter in law the only time I heard from him was when they were fighting...then he would end up spending a bunch of money on her and she would be happy...even on his important day when he graduated from college the lime lite was on her with a...
    bow2009 bow2009 46-50 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    A Family Soap Opera

    Since he met and started living with his now wife we have seen our youngest son two or three times a year usually when looking after the grandchildren whilst the parents got a break. We enjoyed being with the two grandchildren.     ...
    granval granval 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Daughter In Law - Doesnot Accept Me

    My daughter in law just doesnot accept me. Her mother passed away several years before I met her father. She doesnot like that we have gotten married, and fights with her siblings as they are happy their dad is not sad anymore. Also refuses to accept me as a grandparent and...
    WhyM301 WhyM301 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Have Been Patient, Kind .... Still Hung Out To Dry By The Bully Paranoid Wife

    my son married a girl in a secret wedding, with just her brothers standing up with her, and her mother. I was told about this 2 weeks later when they and I went to dinner "surprise". they had a baby & I rec'd emails of the sonagrams, but when the big day came they went to West...
    ajay821 ajay821 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    I Have A Daughter In Law That Hates Me

    Sometimes I wonder if we just try too hard. I was determined to be friends with my daughter in law. My son is in the Army and she lived with us for a year and a half before they got married. She was with us through his boot camp and MIT training all the way up to the wedding. I...
    dhart1966 dhart1966 41-45 6 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Heartbroken Mom......my Son Abandoned Me

    I am a single mom who moved from one state to another so I could be with my son while he was pursuing a relationship with a girl who was separated and had one child. I son is adopted and has mild CP. I raised him from the age of 3 alone and made him my entire life. I didn't...
    mbloveya mbloveya 61-65, F 8 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    No Reason

    Ok, so my son is marrying a girl that hates me.  My son and I have always been close and she has started fights between the two of us and thinks nothing of it.  They have been dating for quite a while.  We got along at first but for the las few years we haven't.  Now all of...
    hurtingmom08 hurtingmom08 41-45 19 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Spurned In Sc

    The first time I met my future daughter-in-law she said that she had an older brother and an older sister and that they were "very selfish". I though to myself, "Hmmm, isn't it a miracle that her parents raised two selfish children and one selfless one?"  Alas, only too true...
    Taxmom Taxmom 56-60 4 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Celebration!

    My husband planned an overnight camping trip with our sons, so they can keep caught up with each other. Life gets so busy and its difficult to stay in touch. I'm spending the first night, before everyone comes up, but I was really excited when my son (with whom there have been...
    Junnifer Junnifer 41-45 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I've been told this many times but I don't even have a lawn mower?
    TheCoitalQueen TheCoitalQueen 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Have a law question if by chance someone of that profession wouldn't mind sparing five minutes. I'm in Mississippi,arrived close to seven years, and have been a stay at home mom...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    i think my mother hates me.. she's so mean with me and i feel like she dont want me and hates my existence ... cuz she's always happy until she see me , and nothing i do pleases...
    Rwnn Rwnn 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Just need to vent... We do not talk to my MIL for obvious reasons like how she said that my son was a mistake and told my step daughter about how I am not her mother and what...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    My mother is phenomenal. She amazes me with the heart she has. It's where I get it from. She raised me since I was a baby. ( my birth mother left) she took me in as her own and...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hate is too strong of a word.. I really dislike my sister in law's behavior. I have not seen her for years. Right from the first meeting I felt this hiss of anger. Her dog was...
    Sophiame Sophiame 61-65, F Nov 19

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    I have always felt like I want to die but can't kill myself because of what it would do to my family but mainly my daughter who I am so close to, I just don't want to face the hell...
    tealc2961 tealc2961 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hate is too strong of a word.. I really dislike my sister in law's behavior. I have not seen her for years. Right from the first meeting I felt this hiss of anger. Her dog was...
    Sophiame Sophiame 61-65, F Nov 19

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    This story begins more than two decades before I met my future husband. My MIL and FIL received an inheritance of a sort early. They used the money to buy my future husband's...
    NoNameUSA NoNameUSA 41-45 5 days ago

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    I love my daughter sooooo much.
    Bpack Bpack 31-35 15 hrs ago

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    Recently my mother in law moved in with me. It was not a planned move. She has mental problems, and other health issues, and my husband and I knew that she could not live alone...
    CCM13 CCM13 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i hate her so much. she is a 27 year old narcissist, obnoxious, self absorbed brat! she disappeared when she was 18 for 3 years and later popped up and stayed within the family for...
    motherofnarcissism motherofnarcissism 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    My Mother In Law I remember the first I met my mother in law. The first thing I said was are you two sisters because you look more like sisters than mother & daughter. She looks...
    IVMBLVCKBEVRD IVMBLVCKBEVRD 22-25, M Dec 6

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    After almost 2 and a ½ years, I have learned a lot over the last couple of weeks…..I am so struggling…. I believe that most of what I’ve ever been told negative about my...
    Spec208 Spec208 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I honestly think my mom hates me. I'm the third of seven kids so we're always together. I'm the only extrovert in my family and where I'm out going and loud, everyone else is quiet...
    XharrynConan XharrynConan 18-21, F Dec 9

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    My sister-in-law and I used to be very close for many, many years. About 4 years ago, she became distant and our relationship is non-existent now. We all live in the same town, but...
    Lifeis2short007 Lifeis2short007 31-35 1 hr ago

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    While it's comforting to know I'm not alone, I still feel as though I need to be validated with how I feel towards my MIL. I've confided in girlfriends about my MIL issues, but...
    lolasmama lolasmama 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 20

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    I love her enough to care and constantly worry about her but at the same time I cannot stand her inability to feel empathy for anyone. Even her brother who constantly gives up his...
    booboofuck booboofuck 22-25 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I was 6 months pregnant when I found out he was cheating. He accidentally butt dialed me at 4 in the morning when he was with her...I can still remember the pain building up in my...
    cnk2015 cnk2015 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    "Merry Christmas hoe's"? This is made by my nieces and daughters. At the end they wrote merry Christmas hoes. They're 18 so whatever. Made me laugh. http://youtu.be/Y7w_WiXhxFk
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    She hates me because she thinks I'm stealing her son away from her. But the truth is he doesn't like spending time with her because all she does is abuse him and call his father...
    Lasey94 Lasey94 18-21, F 1 Response