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I Have a Daughter In Law That Hates Me

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    No Reason

    Ok, so my son is marrying a girl that hates me.  My son and I have always been close and she has started fights between the two of us and thinks nothing of it.  They have been dating for quite a while.  We got along at first but for the las few years we haven't.  Now all of...
    hurtingmom08 hurtingmom08 41-45 19 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    My Daugher In Law Hates Me, And My Grandson...

    I’ve never met a manipulative person, but I believe that is what my daughter in law is. I believe it was her goal to pull my son from his family and cut HIS son from his life. I have four children.  My youngest son was always a kind and loving person.  His father and I...
    SadMadMom SadMadMom 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    Don't Know What I Did To Deserve This

    Five years ago I left my husband. We had been married over 20 years. We started as equal partners when we wed, but he became disabled (legally blind); and I became the primary bread-winner.... He never adjusted to his disability, and used alcohol to ease his pain. Must have...
    nowinsituation nowinsituation 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    My Future Daughter In Law

    My son and his fiance have been together since Jr high. They just presently got engage and her mother and I went with. them to look at a couple of venues. One the way, her mother mention that she was going to soon be Mrs. Blabla (not using our last name) and. She turned around...
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I am utterly heartbroken!

    I pretty much raised my son's alone and now they are adults. My oldest son moved his girlfriend in with us when she was 18 because her mom kicked her out and now 7 years later they are on there own with a child. Great...right? I barely talk to my son unless they need money...
    clthompson40 clthompson40 46-50, F 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Treats Me Like Dirt

    My daughter in law treats me like I have the plague. She and my son asked me to quit my job to take care of my granddaughters while they are at work. Yes, they pay me, but less than they pay their housekeeper. I don't mind because I get to see the girls almost every day and...
    jamandjelly jamandjelly 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    Daughter In Law - Doesnot Accept Me

    My daughter in law just doesnot accept me. Her mother passed away several years before I met her father. She doesnot like that we have gotten married, and fights with her siblings as they are happy their dad is not sad anymore. Also refuses to accept me as a grandparent and...
    WhyM301 WhyM301 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    My Daughter-in-law Has Turned My Son Against Me

    My son and I use to be so close and then he met his wife and now we are like strangers. I haven't been able to do anything right since they got togather. When they got married, I finished off their 16 place setting dishware. I think they needed about 8 more and I also bought a...
    zimbamzoom zimbamzoom 56-60, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    Spurned In Sc

    The first time I met my future daughter-in-law she said that she had an older brother and an older sister and that they were "very selfish". I though to myself, "Hmmm, isn't it a miracle that her parents raised two selfish children and one selfless one?"  Alas, only too true...
    Taxmom Taxmom 56-60 4 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Lost And Deppressed

    My son was living with his girlfriend for 5 years. One year of being engaged. Her dad passed away and set the wedding date off a few months. I adored this girl I could not be happier. They were married in febuary of 2010. Now in july I find out from my son she is thinking of...
    hazelnut1 hazelnut1 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    I am not sure what to do.

    I have always had excellent relationships with my three sons girlfriends, I even meet up for coffee with a couple of the existing,they say I am like a Mom to them. My new daughter in law has always had difficulty in making friends and she tells me she overthinks things. They...
    caringmom333 caringmom333 56-60, F 3 Responses Jun 1

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    Very Hurt

    My daughter in law, and son were suppose to come have supper with us. I spoke with my son on phone and said, "call before ya'll come". He said, "Ok". My husband was out running errands, and when he got back told me that he spoke with Kiefer (my son)while he was out. I said oh...
    hippieathart hippieathart 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2010

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    A Family Soap Opera

    Since he met and started living with his now wife we have seen our youngest son two or three times a year usually when looking after the grandchildren whilst the parents got a break. We enjoyed being with the two grandchildren.     ...
    granval granval 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    It was music to my ears

    that I found this website today and have read the problems other have. I have a daughter in law from hell currently. Nice as pie to your face and i am the worst thing since sliced bread. Abandoned by her mother or so i am told and kicked out as a teenager it seems i am the...
    hadenogh hadenogh 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

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    Daily Pain

    When my son started dating my daughter in law the only time I heard from him was when they were fighting...then he would end up spending a bunch of money on her and she would be happy...even on his important day when he graduated from college the lime lite was on her with a...
    bow2009 bow2009 46-50 5 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    Celebration!

    My husband planned an overnight camping trip with our sons, so they can keep caught up with each other. Life gets so busy and its difficult to stay in touch. I'm spending the first night, before everyone comes up, but I was really excited when my son (with whom there have been...
    Junnifer Junnifer 41-45 2 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    My Daughter In Law Hates Me...

    This website is a great place to vent. I hope after reading what I write, I can sort thru this whole sordid affair. Right now I feel like I am having a nervous breakdown. It is day 7 since the wedding from Christendom's hell. I am still in a state of grief. Not because my...
    jwmom7172 jwmom7172 56-60, F 28 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    I Have A Future Daughter In Law That Is Hateful And Rude

    My son informed me by text message he was getting married. I was shocked I did not even know he had a girlfriend until 2 weeks prior to this shock. I texted him back that I was disappointed and disapproved of this. I was mad at him. I felt left out of the loop because his dad...
    kshafer kshafer 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Heartbroken Mom......my Son Abandoned Me

    I am a single mom who moved from one state to another so I could be with my son while he was pursuing a relationship with a girl who was separated and had one child. I son is adopted and has mild CP. I raised him from the age of 3 alone and made him my entire life. I didn't...
    mbloveya mbloveya 61-65, F 11 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Have Been Patient, Kind .... Still Hung Out To Dry By The Bully Paranoid Wife

    my son married a girl in a secret wedding, with just her brothers standing up with her, and her mother. I was told about this 2 weeks later when they and I went to dinner "surprise". they had a baby & I rec'd emails of the sonagrams, but when the big day came they went to West...
    ajay821 ajay821 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    I Have A Daughter In Law That Hates Me

    Sometimes I wonder if we just try too hard. I was determined to be friends with my daughter in law. My son is in the Army and she lived with us for a year and a half before they got married. She was with us through his boot camp and MIT training all the way up to the wedding. I...
    dhart1966 dhart1966 41-45 6 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Need Someone Who Is Like Me To Be Friend.

    I am a 50 year old married(sometimes not happily) woman. My life experiences have been with drawing men who have monogamy and alcohol problems. I am disabled due to neuological back and neck problems. But I love music(the oldies), funny sories and funny animal pics. I would like...
    ttracy1961 ttracy1961 46-50, F Nov 12, 2011

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    I've never liked to use the word hate. Not many people have made this list until now! Technically she is not my mother in law, she is my boyfriend's mother, and she makes me...
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    Hello there, I've posted on this group because it best fits what's been happening though the word hate seems harsh to me. Though fitting. My son moved abroad to marry someone he...
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    NOTE: I already wrote this and posted it a while ago but I wanted to edit it, and EP's edit feature is bunk right now, so I deleted and posted againOk, y'all ready for another rant...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    FAT LESBIAN C*UNT....this is was my husbands sister called me.... I don't even want to call her my sister in law... because at this point I want nothing to do with her.... I do...
    ihatehermost ihatehermost 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I feel like my stepmom hates me, her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never...
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    Hello I am new to this site. I'm nervous and anxious and I cry nearly every day. I've been feeling this way for 2 years. I'm here today to ask mother in laws to read my story, and...
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    Hi there. Sorry for my English .I never thought I could ever bring myself in such a difficult situation. I'm living with my boyfriend for a year now. He is divorced from his ex...
    Itsmelaa Itsmelaa 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Depends on how you define adult. Sometimes I feel as if my 14 year old daughter is more adult than my 20 year old daughter. She was paying the utilities, so I pretty much stayed...
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