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I Have a Dead Beat Dad

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    Dead Beat Navy Dad

    Senior Chief Chester Joseph Nicolas and I had an affair in April 2009 I was in a rocky relationship with my ex and Chester asked that if I could give him a chance he could treat me better and that he truly cared for me he told me that he was also going to be separating from his...
    carol1978 carol1978 36-40 Jul 24, 2013

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    Not Really A Deadbeat But He Can't Take Care Of Himself...

    My father wasn't a deadbeat in the traditional sense - like many good dads, he worked hard and brought home the money to support my family. After my mother passed, which happened when I was very young, he became a 'functioning alcoholic'. He'd go to work, come home and drink one...
    MsBennett MsBennett 22-25, F Dec 7, 2011

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    Ugh

    I hate calling him 'my dad', I guess he kind of is, but only by DNA. I'm 20 years old and my father is the absolute WORST. He sleeps all day, he doesn't have a job and the worst part is, he thinks he's doing a good job at being a dad. Even when he had a job, he would never spend...
    Hulajuice Hulajuice 18-21 1 Response Jun 29, 2013

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    My Father... Where Do I Begin?

    When I was 12 years old my father decided to walk out on us. Not that it came as a suprise by tha time he had cheated on my mom more than once... When I think back at it, the signs that he was a deatbeat was always there. He never really seemed to care about anyone other than...
    missan1990 missan1990 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    My biological father is never been there

    for me. He would come in and out of our lives. When he was in prison we would mail us letters saying he wanted to change. He would come out and we never heard from him. And recently he is trying to build a relationship with us. But the relationship I feel from his is me...
    theunkown6 theunkown6 18-21 2 Responses Jan 6

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    He Doesn't Even Know My Name

    Well Im going to make this brief...my dad "wasn't ready to be a father", so he offered my mom money for a abortion, she refused, he left the state before i was born..never contacted my mom. His family dsidnt even know i existed till last year when i found my aunt.
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 3 Responses May 26, 2010

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    My dad is addicted to drugs

    and is extremely verbally abusive.
    starvingforana starvingforana 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    This Is Steve Poloncak And I Am A Deadbeat Father.

    I was dating a lady back 20+ years ago and i ran away when she said she was pregnant. I was a coward and i never looked back nor did i pay any kind of support. I would lie and say that i was responsible by not having kids but i lied to everyone and even my current wife. I refuse...
    kc9geu kc9geu 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    My Dad, the Invert Turned Alcoholic

    Ever since I was a kid my dad has been hard to talk to. He never liked to go anywhere, and was always sitting on the couch watching T.V. Nobody blamed him because he also worked really hard, and manged to support us all in a middle class house in the city. I never did anything...
    justbelieve justbelieve 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    He Is Just Bad

    Ok so first off, when I was like 7-9 yrs old he lived god knows where (I think with his mom and dad but he always moved, he went to state of Washington when all his family and friends are in Ohio to be a WAITER AT A BOB EVANS!!!) than my grandma and aunt(his mom And sister) make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    My Worse Father Ever

    he always says things behind my back and i just get soo mad he is the worse
    karisue1 karisue1 18-21 Oct 29, 2012

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    Through Glass

    The sixth entry to my memoir "A Child Born From Sin" I'm looking at you through the glass... Praying that one day you'll come inside... You'll stand infront of me.... And call me your son.... A father, what is a father? Is a father someone who is loving and kind? Is a father...
    Cerorizo Cerorizo 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2013

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    Hahahahahhaha. Yes!!!!

    I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN NOTHING TO HIM.I THINK I WILL REMAIN NOTHING TO HIM.HE HAS NEVER PROVEN HE CARED.OH ****, HE TOOK ME TO MCDONALDS ONCE WHEN I WAS 5, THE ONLY, AND I REPEAT, ONLY TIME WE EVER SAW EACH OTHER.OH.THAT'S SO CARING.I shouldn't complain, at least I got to see him...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    Haven't Seen Him In Years

    I haven't seen my dad in years, in fact I was so young that I barely remember it. He only calls me every now and then and only talks for a little bit. Haven't made any effort to come see me or send my mom any child support. I recently came across a situation where I couldn't...
    Drake2013 Drake2013 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2012

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    My Dad

    My dad has is the kind of person who would take me and my sibling out to dinner one night and then the next day disappear for six months. He's done everything from threatening to lock us in our apartment and burn it down to bring the woman he cheated on my stepmom (who we all...
    alexmorgan18 alexmorgan18 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Going to College

    On my father I can type forever and forever about the crazy things that he do. I have always known who my father was, and growing up I use to go over his house every weekend. Matter fact my parents are still legally married, but they have been separated since I was 3 years old...
    vermel134 vermel134 21-25 2 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    My dad is gone now, but I've made peace with

    myself, & stopped wasting energy on him. For years I blamed me for him. It wasn't my fault he was a looser. He beat my mom for just breathing, and once almost killed her. For a long time I picked guys that were like him, & didn't even realize it. I read a lot of your...
    nevadiva4u nevadiva4u 41-45 1 day ago

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    I Want To Love Him

    I want to love my dad just like any other daughter loves her father. I want to be able to look up to him without any fear of being disappointed in him. But after seventeen years of disappointment I don't have the courage to try and love him anymore to only get hurt. My mother...
    unknownuser2663 unknownuser2663 18-21 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    A Child Born From Sin, Part III

    This is the continuation of my memoir "A Child Born From Sin" For so long I've been treated like nothing, for so long I've been neglected, for so long I've been battered; all I want is to be loved by someone, but how can I when the people who are supposed to love me the most...
    Cerorizo Cerorizo 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    Before I was born my father used to be a drug

    addict and alcoholic my sister sadly had to see it all I'm sad she had to go through all that at such a young age of three. But when I five years after I was born on a gloomy day for my family my father finally had it with the fighting that had been going on a couple weeks...
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    I'm grown now but my dad always pulls I'm

    struggling and need help conversations. Instead of child support for 4 kids he gave my mom a gallon of milk a week or worse TANG! Wtf?! I think back and get mad. He use to make us feel bad for him. He cheated and abused my mom all the time until she left. Now she's got a great...
    KittyMcPuffin KittyMcPuffin 31-35, F Apr 20

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    My father was around

    and when I was younger he was active in my life. When I got to high school, things changed he was barely home my mom basically raised me working 20 hours a week. So he essentially was around but never there for me.
    Kaseirae14 Kaseirae14 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I Have An Abusive Dead Beat Dad

    My dad is not my bio dad. He adopted me because he said he chose me, because our family was special. My dad was in the Navy when he married my mom, he was really fun and I was so excited to have a dad. But after he married my mom and moved us far away from home, my dad changed...
    Scoobydoo9 Scoobydoo9 13-15 2 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Deadbeat Dad

    Our father left Brooklyn and went to California about 1967 and got away with paying child support
    siera4 siera4 41-45, F Dec 20, 2012

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    So, I have posted some stories on here about my

    stepfather. But, not one yet about my biological father. My daddy. That's what I've always called him, but is he really a dad. Does he deserve to be called "daddy", by three little girls who now see the real him? Today, March 16, 2014 my dad was put into jail. When I think about...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    Fatherless

    What can I say? My father told me he loved me but never stuck around to see me grow up. He left and never looked back and I will never understand why. Yet, I have never used him as an excuse and I have striven to make myself better than him, I will not allow his terrible...
    Tinawheat3 Tinawheat3 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2010

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    My Kids Need A Father

    2004 will be a year I will never forget. For one reason I graduated HS but for 2 I was so in love with a guy named Keith. My mom and dad both agreed he wasnt the man for me.. I should of listened its not often they both agree on anything. I defied them and went with my heart...
    miyahrimom12 miyahrimom12 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    I Like To Make Up Stories Of Who My Dad Should Have Been

    I don't see the resemblance.Not in the visual sense or in the personality.We haven't talked in over a year now, and just writing that down makes it seem so much longer (over a year now, really?)I started to notice the change last winter, when high school graduation was coming up...
    lovelybird22 lovelybird22 18-21, F Feb 25, 2012

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    Please Help

    I just want my father back. Up until 4th grade he was my role model. We would do everything together while my mom and sister would bond. We had an infinite amount of money (at least I was mislead) and I had no obstacles in my future. In the beginning of 4th grade, he frequently...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2012

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    When I was born I wasn't aloud to live with my

    parents, both were druggies. I met my mom once but she lives in New Mexico with my half brother. Anyways my dad always lives a block away from me and my grandparents and siblings. He was a drugged up drunk and I cod never be around him that much. I think not having your own...
    hopecatcher hopecatcher 16-17, F Apr 8

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    My mother had me when she was 18,

    to a guy she loved. He used to beat her, and she would always fight back. They both always had bruises, although here were worse. I don't know much about my father, considering my mother left him when I was 3. but what I do remember, was the fighting, and my moms screams, and...
    PaintedOn PaintedOn 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    My Shameful Father Who I Call "ron"

    Skip the college support, let alone be there for anyone.... Or for that matter  a shameful dead beat father who takes advantage of the family. A man who doesn't have a job and who was a crappy parent. I can relate to all of you on this forum and everything that I have read...
    dutarus dutarus 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    So my step dad is getting remarried so now I will have a step dad and a step mom. My step dads fianc├ęs 16 and 17 year old sons are moving in with us-_-
    Lexikay99 Lexikay99 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    My kids deadbeat dad just got served with paperwork. In 30 days my kid and I can have some peace of mind when it comes to finances
    larisahhh larisahhh 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    After I got pregnant at 18 I told my parents and dad said he never wanted to see me again and I had ruined my life. That was fine by me. At that point I hated dad for how he...
    Renee305 Renee305 26-30, F Aug 28

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    My childhood was hell. No family and no friends. Just bullies who had nothing beater to do than steal my clothes or knock me off my bike. When I was 12 got beaten up really badly I...
    Skye1997 Skye1997 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    My life is pretty much over. I was getting bullied at school this morning by a couple of girls. What do guys do in order to deal with them. They drove me insane until I lost it and...
    iamsodead iamsodead 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My Dad passed last week and we buried him yesterday, right at his grave site there is a small tree, we chose his place because they said that the tree would not be removed, this...
    Shamrock40 Shamrock40 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i think we should understand the meaning of our dad and mom before we have lost them :(
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I miss you every day , you were my everything , you were my heart , I love you daddy .
    MalaChica MalaChica 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    They Both Are In ******* Situations
    ADukes15 ADukes15 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I Sont Get along With My Dad At All . He Causes My Mom Too Much Pain . I Don't Like Him Nor Do I Want To Love Him . **** Him . I Hate To Have To Look Aht Him Everyday . It Makes My...
    DeeplyLoved43 DeeplyLoved43 13-15, F Aug 20

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    My biggest fear is becoming like my parents. My dad is a dead beat who still lives with his mom. And my mom works everyday until she's absolutely exhausted and takes her anger out...
    lilbum97 lilbum97 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My whole life i have always had a close relationship with ALL of my family members. But ever since my dad has passed away my family doesn't seem close anymore. Like when we have...
    armchairlama9 armchairlama9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I lost my Dad when I was four so yea....I have a had a lot of time to think about his death, fathers, him and well, everything. I was four and although I was in the room right...
    qwer45 qwer45 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Okay so basically I've never met my dad..But what makes it harder is that I know him but I don't think he's even aware of my existence..In my country he used to be quite famous so...
    Arianne0519 Arianne0519 13-15, F Aug 15

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    My dad tries to act like a religious man but he is a evil man to his children. All my siblings run away from home on a bad note, there's only two of us left and I am on the verge...
    Anon5931 Anon5931 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Yes I have been beaten, abused, and punched.......but you know what? I'm not going to let that affect my way of life......in fact in the end I will hug and thank them because I...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I have been broken so many times in my life. And each time been left to struggle and nearly die. I turned to my master at the time to keep me sane. To keep me breathing. But in the...
    NothingSpecialJustMe421 NothingSpecialJustMe421 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    I have a hoarder dad. And sadly I am picking up his tendencies. I try so hard to not be like him. It fails so badly. After reading some info online I heard that having a hoarder...
    Sacryfice Sacryfice 26-30, F Aug 25

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