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I Have a Deadbeat Baby Daddy

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    DeadBeat For Life !!!! - Ok, Me and my baby daddy meet in 11 grade high school. We for 2 and a half years during this time he cheated on me over 20 times. I was stupid and in love...
    rhondap rhondap 18-21 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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    Terry Watson Boston - my kids father dont help pay for **** he thinks that 75.00 a month will help two teenagers 15&16 dont pay phone bills he live in boston he seen my kids four...
    tinke tinke 36-40 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    The Baby Daddy! - Okay so it's been over 2weeks since the baby daddy found out and not once had he text me or rang to see what i was doing with the baby.....untill today!! the...
    IrishAndConfussed IrishAndConfussed 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    Does Anyone Suspect Their Ex Of Drugs? - I caught my ex husband strung out on drugs several times during our marriage. At first, he denied it so strongly, I started to think I was...
    TeacherReacher TeacherReacher 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    How Do You Deal With It? - My ex husband is also a deadbeat. His visitation is extremely inconsistent and often cancels, no shows, or asks to rearrange his weekends. "Often...
    TeacherReacher TeacherReacher 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Time to Move On! - I am so sick of gettting into relationships based on lies.The sad truth about this is I knew what type of person he was and still is.Who was I fooling like I was...
    kimmie351 kimmie351 31-35 Jun 8, 2009

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    Yeah, I Was Naive Enough To Think This Time Would Be Different - My son just turned three years old, and like one of his older brothers, his ***** donor couldn't care less about...
    ModgePodge ModgePodge 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    My Dbbd! - My dbbd (deadbeat baby daddy) uset to hit me b4 I had my daughter! When I was 3months pregnant he went to jail for 3months for pushing me. He wrote me letters while he...
    brittany62510 brittany62510 18-21 1 Response Dec 28, 2010

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    Not A Dime - My toxic ex never pays, he is so terribly selfish.Its like a game for him. He acts like there are winners and losers and he does not see how he looses the most.I have...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    Mr. I Want A Baby With U And Then Backin Off - Hi there My name is Bri i am 19 years old and i am almost 3 months pregnant. I met my baby daddy through myspace yes what away to...
    mami101 mami101 18-21 5 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Sorry Loser! - I have a soon to be 3 yr old and this is his ***** donor and my first born. Seems like he is jealous does something every 8 months and he ask to see his son. I...
    Art4184 Art4184 26-30 Jan 8, 2011

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    Thanks For The Text! - This man really texted me like 4 days after the hurricane to ask if we are ok, that he just got cell service. I have not heard from him in months I honestly...
    EmpressLya EmpressLya 26-30, F Nov 5, 2012

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    Missing Deadbeat Father (leslie C. Youngblood) - Leslie Charles Youngblood, of Ft. Lauderdale Florida has avoided child support fot the past 8 years. The state is unable to find...
    babymama82 babymama82 26-30 4 Responses May 7, 2008

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    I Have A Dbd! (deadbeat Baby Daddy) - I am 19 years old and am 10 weeks pregnant. my ex of just over a year who was my boyfriend for 2 years and i starting hanging out again back...
    firefightergirl22 firefightergirl22 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    Here Goes Nothing.... - My name is Melissa...im 19 i have two children a daughter that is 22 months and a son that is 10 months yea i kno i didnt waste any time but anyways their...
    missay1808 missay1808 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2011

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    Deadbeat daddy alert. My son is three and the most his dad has given me is $10. And that was only so his dad wouldn't have to go out shopping for a birthday gift for him when he...
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    My 'Baby' Is 24yo And If I Ask Who She Looks Up To As A Dad, It Isn'T Her Bio One! - At eleven, my daughter had a new daddy. Her deadbeat one left when she was four. I guess he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 3, 2013

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    "BABY DADDY" REALLY? - I would have figured by now that women and men/boys would know by now how babies are made and take the correct steps to insure you both dontr end...
    subtrainer subtrainer 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2013

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    He's a Drunken Abuser - My name is Jillian and I am currently pregnant and due in November of 2009. I had known my baby daddy for many years in school and such; never even thinking...
    LuvyBlkCherry LuvyBlkCherry 18-21 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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    Ill Fight For My Son - So bug got to meet his dad for the first time. Bug appeared apprehensive beings that this man was a stranger. He kept reaching for me saying "mama, mama" it...
    theycallmethemaddhatterbaby theycallmethemaddhatterbaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    Stephan Ramon Robinson - He lives in Montgomery, Illinois and is 34 years old. He works at Starbucks in Aurora, Illinois. He is an Agg sex offender. He is the biggest deadbeat baby...
    deadbeat4life deadbeat4life 22-25 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Tragic But True... - ok well we worked 2gether for about 2mths. thn we started to tlk thn date all n the course of 4mths. we were so close nd spent every waking moment together...
    chinafacedoll chinafacedoll 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2012

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    A Father Who Wants Nothing To Do With His Daughter - My daughter was born back in 2005 and she is now 6yrs old..her father has not seen her since she was 7 months old and hasnt...
    shorty171 shorty171 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    If U Run Into Are Bump Into Michael Kimble Sr. Runaway - i was 6months when my babydaddy started cheating. the female made it clear that she don't give a flying **** about my baby...
    choppa1 choppa1 31-35 Jul 19, 2011

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    My Sons Father Thinks That $6.25 Per Week Is Enough Child Support For Our Son! - I received an email from my sons father telling me that he "doesn't part with his money easily...
    BrokenChairBrokenSpirit BrokenChairBrokenSpirit 26-30, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Deadbeat Baby Daddy Drama - I was 17 when i got pregnant. we was together for 6 years when he decided to cheat on me but he did not do it then i just found that out in year 6 he...
    aquaedenpaige2 aquaedenpaige2 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    Its Kinda Complicated - My sisters boyfriend is the dead beat dad in question... My son Brantley isnt biologically mine, but ive had him since birth.. My sister is his bio mom but...
    theycallmethemaddhatterbaby theycallmethemaddhatterbaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    There's Really No Good Excuse - My exhusband owes over 32,000 dollars in childsupport. He has stayed behind on his childsupport all along, but now he has not paid at all for 3.5...
    LoriAZ LoriAZ 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    He's a Drunken Abuser - My name is Jillian and I am currently pregnant and due in November of 2009. I had known my baby daddy for many years in school and such; never even thinking...
    LuvyBlkCherry LuvyBlkCherry 18-21 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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    Shawki Ramon Moore - Also Known As Shaun Mack -   This man  is has 4 children to 3 different women ! Children he refuses to help take care of. He owes approx. $500,00...
    shawki shawki 31-35 3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    How Could You? - This is so true. I met this guy that made me feel good inside. I didn't get to finish school because I was ashamed and embarrassed to be walking across the stage...
    lookingforloveinwrongplaces lookingforloveinwrongplaces 18-21 6 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    My Dead Beat B Babydad - My babydad name is Darryl D. Patterson. Ladies if you come across him please keep going. He got me pregnant may 2011 and left me saying this isn't his kid...
    katora22 katora22 22-25 1 Response Aug 26, 2011

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    Baby Daddies (sorry Need To Vent) - how can someone say they r a loving father and that thats daddys boy and a whole bunch of nonsense wen they have only seen him 5x out of the two...
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Not Fair - My son's father was a coworker. That was my first mistake. When He started at the company I was in a long term relationship and he was married. We became friends. I...
    fatescandle fatescandle 26-30, F Dec 20, 2011

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    My Story. - My son's father use to be a pretty good guy. I'm Kara and I'm 18 yrs old.Josh was pretty much my high school sweetheart, only he wasn't always a sweetheart. During...
    karahii karahii 18-21 4 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    Deadbeat Husband/dad! - My name is Casey and I am 20 years old, I have a son who is 7 months old today. When I was 19 I met my husband, he was 22 and he lived a few hours away. I...
    casanderson1 casanderson1 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    We Just Call Him The Donor - My baby's daddy and I were not dating, just friends when I got pregnant. We were too drunk and we were attracted enough to have sex but not much else...
    Larisah9101 Larisah9101 26-30 Nov 15, 2013

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    Bitter - I was with my db for 4 yrs, at 1 year we decided to have a baby. By the time I was 3 months pregnant he had choked me. After that it was on and off for the remainder. May...
    nightv nightv 31-35, F Oct 31, 2013

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    No Matter What I Do, He Doesn't Want To See His Daughter - Four years ago, I thought I was marrying the man of my dreams. I loved him with all of my heart, and I could not WAIT to...
    candace38253 candace38253 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    You Don't Know - Oh yes, I am angry. I want to scream but what good would that do. It won't change a thing. It is done. Deep down, I resent you. Your so called "precious" words you...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Jan 8, 2013

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