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I Have a Deadbeat Baby Daddy

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    "BABY DADDY" REALLY?

    I would have figured by now that women and men/boys would know by now how babies are made and take the correct steps to insure you both dontr end up with baby Woops. I am not talking about rape or and other form of sex without concent but I am speaking to those women who are...
    subtrainer subtrainer 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2013

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    Tragic But True...

    ok well we worked 2gether for about 2mths. thn we started to tlk thn date all n the course of 4mths. we were so close nd spent every waking moment together just whirlwind. i found out i was expecting. this is where it all started... the day I told him i was n shock this would b...
    chinafacedoll chinafacedoll 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2012

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    Ill Fight For My Son

    So bug got to meet his dad for the first time. Bug appeared apprehensive beings that this man was a stranger. He kept reaching for me saying "mama, mama" it about broke my heart.. but he needs his dad. The visited lasted a few hours, followed with a zoo trip and dinner and as...
    theycallmethemaddhatterbaby theycallmethemaddhatterbaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    The Baby Daddy!

    Okay so it's been over 2weeks since the baby daddy found out and not once had he text me or rang to see what i was doing with the baby.....untill today!! the baby daddy shows up at my front door!! i was and probly still am in shock!! baby daddys name is Gary and very good...
    IrishAndConfussed IrishAndConfussed 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    He's a Drunken Abuser

    My name is Jillian and I am currently pregnant and due in November of 2009. I had known my baby daddy for many years in school and such; never even thinking about ever "hooking up" with him. In October 2008 after he Dated one of my good friends for almost 9 months, he...
    LuvyBlkCherry LuvyBlkCherry 18-21 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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    Does Anyone Suspect Their Ex Of Drugs?

    I caught my ex husband strung out on drugs several times during our marriage. At first, he denied it so strongly, I started to think I was actually nuts. Eventually, it all came out....and I realized he had been doing drugs from the very start and throughout most of the marriage...
    TeacherReacher TeacherReacher 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Its Kinda Complicated

    My sisters boyfriend is the dead beat dad in question... My son Brantley isnt biologically mine, but ive had him since birth.. My sister is his bio mom but she died giving birth on janurary 25,2013... Anyways brantleys dad ryan skipped town and wanted nothing to do with him...
    theycallmethemaddhatterbaby theycallmethemaddhatterbaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    Here Goes Nothing....

    My name is Melissa...im 19 i have two children a daughter that is 22 months and a son that is 10 months yea i kno i didnt waste any time but anyways their father Anthony i have stood by for 5 years he has my two and 2 (the same age as mine) with another woman..he has been going...
    missay1808 missay1808 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2011

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    Thanks For The Text!

    This man really texted me like 4 days after the hurricane to ask if we are ok, that he just got cell service. I have not heard from him in months I honestly don't even remember the last conversation he had with his child. Like really, you were not concerned when school rolled...
    EmpressLya EmpressLya 26-30, F Nov 5, 2012

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    Yeah, I Was Naive Enough To Think This Time Would Be Different

    My son just turned three years old, and like one of his older brothers, his ***** donor couldn't care less about him, because I was smart enough to take him to court, establish custody, and request support immediately after my sons birth. In my sons entire life, he has seen his...
    ModgePodge ModgePodge 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    I Have A Dbd! (deadbeat Baby Daddy)

    I am 19 years old and am 10 weeks pregnant. my ex of just over a year who was my boyfriend for 2 years and i starting hanging out again back in may! we were having so much fun just chilling and talking. we had sex a few times and all the feelings i once had for him were all...
    firefightergirl22 firefightergirl22 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    Time to Move On!

    I am so sick of gettting into relationships based on lies.The sad truth about this is I knew what type of person he was and still is.Who was I fooling like I was going to change him.I hurt myself then I went through feeling sorry for myself like that was going to work.It didnt.I...
    kimmie351 kimmie351 31-35 Jun 8, 2009

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    Not Fair

    My son's father was a coworker. That was my first mistake. When He started at the company I was in a long term relationship and he was married. We became friends. I loved my boyfriend. We were together for 4 years.  I left him because he wasan  addict and had no interest in...
    fatescandle fatescandle 26-30, F Dec 20, 2011

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    Mr. I Want A Baby With U And Then Backin Off

    Hi there My name is Bri i am 19 years old and i am almost 3 months pregnant. I met my baby daddy through myspace yes what away to meet people huh??? well he lived an hour away from me and i would u usually go out there to see him since he was on probation and couldnt drive. He is...
    mami101 mami101 18-21 5 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    How Could You?

    This is so true. I met this guy that made me feel good inside. I didn't get to finish school because I was ashamed and embarrassed to be walking across the stage. During my pregnancy I found out he was married. He has a little girl he not sure of if its his or not cause he slept...
    lookingforloveinwrongplaces lookingforloveinwrongplaces 18-21 6 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    My Dead Beat B Babydad

    My babydad name is Darryl D. Patterson. Ladies if you come across him please keep going. He got me pregnant may 2011 and left me saying this isn't his kid and he was the only one i slept with when i concieved. Now i'm definetly going for child support the minute my baby arrives...
    katora22 katora22 22-25 2 Responses Aug 26, 2011

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    DeadBeat For Life !!!!

    Ok, Me and my baby daddy meet in 11 grade high school. We for 2 and a half years during this time he cheated on me over 20 times. I was stupid and in love so i forgave him. He started hitting me and treating me like ****. Everyday we would argue cause all he wanted to do was...
    rhondap rhondap 18-21 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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    If U Run Into Are Bump Into Michael Kimble Sr. Runaway

    i was 6months when my babydaddy started cheating. the female made it clear that she don't give a flying **** about my baby and he shouldn't either and he took her advice. he call ever now and then 2 get sex. MICHAEL LORENZO KIMBLE SR. is one of the most dummest deadbeat daddys...
    choppa1 choppa1 31-35 Jul 19, 2011

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    My Story.

    My son's father use to be a pretty good guy. I'm Kara and I'm 18 yrs old.Josh was pretty much my high school sweetheart, only he wasn't always a sweetheart. During highschool my parents weren't very strict as long as I went to school and had my own money for the things I wanted...
    karahii karahii 18-21 4 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    Shawki Ramon Moore - Also Known As Shaun Mack

      This man  is has 4 children to 3 different women ! Children he refuses to help take care of. He owes approx. $500,000 for child support payments. He will have an excuse for EVERYTHING. Nothing is ever his fault, it's always someone else's. He doesn't like to work...
    shawki shawki 31-35 3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Missing Deadbeat Father (leslie C. Youngblood)

    Leslie Charles Youngblood, of Ft. Lauderdale Florida has avoided child support fot the past 8 years. The state is unable to find him, even with his social security number. PLease help me in the fight to stop deadbeat parents. If you have any info on this man, please contact me...
    babymama82 babymama82 26-30 4 Responses May 7, 2008

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    You Don't Know

    Oh yes, I am angry. I want to scream but what good would that do. It won't change a thing. It is done. Deep down, I resent you. Your so called "precious" words you speak of, only lies and deception. You've cheated over and over, because you're not getting your way. You're like a...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Jan 8, 2013

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    Terry Watson Boston

    my kids father dont help pay for **** he thinks that 75.00 a month will help two teenagers 15&16 dont pay phone bills he live in boston he seen my kids four times he they life!!!!!!!
    tinke tinke 36-40 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Deadbeat daddy alert.

    My son is three and the most his dad has given me is $10. And that was only so his dad wouldn't have to go out shopping for a birthday gift for him when he turned two.
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    We Just Call Him The Donor

    My baby's daddy and I were not dating, just friends when I got pregnant. We were too drunk and we were attracted enough to have sex but not much else. He is a few years younger than me so when I decided to keep my baby I cut him lose. I told him I was pregnant and that if he...
    Larisah9101 Larisah9101 26-30 Nov 15, 2013

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    He's a Drunken Abuser

    My name is Jillian and I am currently pregnant and due in November of 2009. I had known my baby daddy for many years in school and such; never even thinking about ever "hooking up" with him. In October 2008 after he Dated one of my good friends for almost 9 months, he...
    LuvyBlkCherry LuvyBlkCherry 18-21 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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    Lies, Lies And More Lies.

    This story is so long but I will try my best to shorten it up. Me and my daughters dad met and had an instant connection. We spent hours and hours on the phone and a few weeks later I was on a plane headed to see him (we lived in 2 different states.) After a few more visits I got...
    ZakiaLacey ZakiaLacey 26-30, F Jun 4, 2012

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    My Sons Father Thinks That $6.25 Per Week Is Enough Child Support For Our Son!

    I received an email from my sons father telling me that he "doesn't part with his money easily especially to someone like me who is an alcoholic who only works part time." Let me explain...out of sixteen years of my sons life the only child support I've ever received was what was...
    BrokenChairBrokenSpirit BrokenChairBrokenSpirit 26-30, F Sep 30, 2012

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    Baby Daddies (sorry Need To Vent)

    how can someone say they r a loving father and that thats daddys boy and a whole bunch of nonsense wen they have only seen him 5x out of the two and a half months they have been alive. i dont understand how someone can say they r a concerned parent wen they dont call or come over...
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    A Father Who Wants Nothing To Do With His Daughter

    My daughter was born back in 2005 and she is now 6yrs old..her father has not seen her since she was 7 months old and hasnt called since she was 1yrs old..i left him cuz he tried to rape me..the only reason he says he doesnt call or see her is cuz i had a retraining order against...
    shorty171 shorty171 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Stephan Ramon Robinson

    He lives in Montgomery, Illinois and is 34 years old. He works at Starbucks in Aurora, Illinois. He is an Agg sex offender. He is the biggest deadbeat baby daddy ever. Not only does he not see my son and does not support him financially. He has threatened to kill him multiple...
    deadbeat4life deadbeat4life 22-25 2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    My Dbbd!

    My dbbd (deadbeat baby daddy) uset to hit me b4 I had my daughter! When I was 3months pregnant he went to jail for 3months for pushing me. He wrote me letters while he was there. Telling me that he was sorry, that he'd never do it again, and that he wanted to be there for me and...
    brittany62510 brittany62510 18-21 1 Response Dec 28, 2010

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    Not A Dime

    My toxic ex never pays, he is so terribly selfish.Its like a game for him. He acts like there are winners and losers and he does not see how he looses the most.I have no idea when I will collect the money he dully owes me.He is the worst kind of deadbeat there is he does not even...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    Sorry Loser!

    I have a soon to be 3 yr old and this is his ***** donor and my first born. Seems like he is jealous does something every 8 months and he ask to see his son. I refuse to b/c 1 he doesn't provide for him and 2 he is seriously abusive and I'm afraid for him to be around. 3 because...
    Art4184 Art4184 26-30 Jan 8, 2011

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    Deadbeat Baby Daddy Drama

    I was 17 when i got pregnant. we was together for 6 years when he decided to cheat on me but he did not do it then i just found that out in year 6 he started cheating in 3year we was together. we live behind his mommy an daddy .  it was just so crazy i think if you was me you...
    aquaedenpaige2 aquaedenpaige2 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    My 'Baby' Is 24yo And If I Ask Who She Looks Up To As A Dad, It Isn'T Her Bio One!

    At eleven, my daughter had a new daddy. Her deadbeat one left when she was four. I guess he stayed longer than most, but he wasn't really there. I was 22, in university, struggling with a baby and a degree. He had a good job. For a few weeks. So I worked all the time I wasn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 3, 2013

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    How Do You Deal With It?

    My ex husband is also a deadbeat. His visitation is extremely inconsistent and often cancels, no shows, or asks to rearrange his weekends. "Often" meaning almost every single time he has visitation. He is constantly behind on child support payments as well as the payments on the...
    TeacherReacher TeacherReacher 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Bitter

    I was with my db for 4 yrs, at 1 year we decided to have a baby. By the time I was 3 months pregnant he had choked me. After that it was on and off for the remainder. May 2012 it was over for good. Since that time he has never consistently made an effort to see his son. He has...
    nightv nightv 31-35, F Oct 31, 2013

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    Deadbeat Husband/dad!

    My name is Casey and I am 20 years old, I have a son who is 7 months old today. When I was 19 I met my husband, he was 22 and he lived a few hours away. I went to visit him for a week and we fell in love fast! He came to live with me at my parents house after only a few weeks. 3...
    casanderson1 casanderson1 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    There's Really No Good Excuse

    My exhusband owes over 32,000 dollars in childsupport. He has stayed behind on his childsupport all along, but now he has not paid at all for 3.5 years. If the state catches up with him he quits working and hides. He does not call to check on the kids' well being, nor does he...
    LoriAZ LoriAZ 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    No Matter What I Do, He Doesn't Want To See His Daughter

    Four years ago, I thought I was marrying the man of my dreams. I loved him with all of my heart, and I could not WAIT to start my life with him. Shortly after our marriage began, we became with pregnant with our son, and we were completely ecstatic about it. In August of 2011, he...
    candace38253 candace38253 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am 25 and my husband and I have been together for almost 5 years and about to be married for 1. For as long as I can remember I've been wanting to have a baby but my husband just...
    amorgan89 amorgan89 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    all my life i have wanted to raise a child the way they should be, loving them unconditionally and cradling them when they are sick i want to be there for them as they will be...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    There are a lot of people that tell me not to rush my life. I am 21 years old, and I and I am terrified of leaving my family to fend for themselves, as well as being on my own. I...
    BrightStarKali BrightStarKali 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Many people tell me that I look so cute since I was a little baby and it's a little strange that people still telling me that... People say it particularly now when I'm wearing...
    eph01 eph01 13-15, F Aug 15

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    I really want a baby no joke if anyone interested to have a baby with message me and we will talk I live in the uk x
    anthonytp1993 anthonytp1993 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I want to have a baby right away .asap . Soon as possible . Like yesterday. I want a baby girl . I already have her name picked and everything. I even have a mini diaper bag.
    DajahCarter DajahCarter 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I started having a sitter again only in April when I moved to my Grandparents house. I am 16 and I find it pretty embarrassing, like I would never tell people at my new school when...
    kanadiankitty kanadiankitty 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 4

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    I really, really want one but my husband said we can't take care of one right now and I know he's right so I have to wait to have a baby.
    SilverXJzargo SilverXJzargo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I find it quite funny how I post that I plan to have a baby in the not so distant future and males respond thinking I'd jump into bed with them. Please leave me alone. I am not...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So I met this wonderful daddy online and he's all mine! He's very handsome and smart and oh! I tried once to get bratty with him and that didn't work...daddy doesn't like sassiness...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I have a daddy and I am to do as he says and obey him and listen to his rules :3 if I don't, I get punished :$ <3 I was going to the movies yesterday and daddy told me whilst I...
    daddysgirl525 daddysgirl525 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8