I Have a Deadbeat Baby Daddy Forum & Chat Board | I need advice

Hey everyone! I am a 17 yr old female. I am 7weeks pregnant. and im already having doubts that i dont want it. So why should I bring a child in this world whos not going to be wanted? I think that i dont want it because my baby daddy- too-be is worthless already and i dont feel that he's ghoing to be there when I need him to. Or should I just say **** him and do like every other good single mother does and love and care 4 my child. But I juast dont feel ready and I really havent lived life yet.

I can totally understand where you're coming from. But at the same time, you need to own up to your responsibility, and realize that you're carry a baby, and that's not going to go away. I'm a 22 year old single mother of 2. I have a 2 year old little girl, and a 6 month old little boy. Right now, I'm living on my own, have my own car, have a job, and I'll be starting nursing school in the fall. So, if you think you can't do it. Trust me, it can be done. You just have to have the right attitude, and want to do it. I didn't really think that I got to live my life either, but now, they are my life. I don't know where I would be without the two of them. I can honestly say that they saved me from myself. At the end of the day, it's your decision, but if you decide that you don't want it, adoption is the best way to go. There are people out there who can't have kids, that would take it in, and love it as their own. I hope that everything works out for you.

I'm going to be as honest with you as possable, which might not be what you want to hear. Having a baby is not easy, it will be the hardest job you have ever had to do no matter if you think you are ready or not. You have options and the first thing you should do is seek some parenting education and some theropy to talk this out with someone that is not going to tell you what to do but instead help you make up your mind. About that baby daddy, not even a child can turn a man into a daddy if he does not want to be one. I wish you the best and hope that you make the best for you and the belly. God bless hun