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I Have a Depressed Boyfriend

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    This Is Hard.

    My long distance boyfriend of 2 1/2 years is depressed, I guess he always was but it got bad on aug 18th. We hardly talk or skype and when we do it's never long. He says it's hard and stressful and he feels stressed thinking about what I expect from him or some bullshit. I just...
    HurtingInTx HurtingInTx 26-30 2 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I'm the type of person

    that can always find a reason to be happy, and don't even need a reason in the first place. My boyfriend always seems depressed and I think my bubbly happy talking can frustrate him. I'm not trying to be insensitive and I know he can't help it but I don't relate to that so I...
    Aeriebear Aeriebear 22-25, F 2 Responses May 11

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    He's Getting Better, But I'm Getting Worse....

    I have a depressed boyfriend.  He used to be really bad and never wanted to leave the house.  Now he is feeling much better and will actually go out with me and socialize.  I am a pretty social person.  I consider myself to be very slightly depressed but but not severely, it...
    purple613 purple613 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    I Just Want To Help

    I've suffered from depression before. It wasn't very severe, and I was able to get myself out of it before it got too bad. My boyfriend is currently suffering with it though. You wouldn't know it from looking at him. He's very attractive, in shape, has friends, talks plenty, has...
    mjbobcat1 mjbobcat1 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Has Been Having A Rough Month

    first off, my boyfriend lives in canada and i live in the US so it is difficult for us to see each other often because of money issues and schooling. anyways, last month, he found out that his uncle got into a car accident and passed away. he didn't know how to react or how to...
    bostongirl101 bostongirl101 18-21, F Jul 28, 2012

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    I Don't Know What To Do...

     I have been dating my current boyfriend for about nine months now and I love him dearly. He is very energetic and outgoing and can make friends easily, and always seems to be out of his house doing something with either his friends or me.  However, about a month ago...
    Sioraf Sioraf 18-21, F Nov 15, 2009

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    Sad And Sick Of This

    First off, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He lives in Canada and I live in the states, so yes, we have a long distance relationship and up until now, it has been no problem for us. We don't get to see each other often but we usually skype every...
    bostongirl101 bostongirl101 18-21, F Nov 17, 2012

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    He Got a Job!!!!! This Should Be a Good Thing, Right?

    I am now feeling really optimistic about it, and he has gone deeper into feeling depressed!  I tired to take him out to eat and have some beers to celebrate his getting a job after I got off work, and he wouldn't answer the phone.  I couldn't come home because I knew it...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2008

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    Trying to Be Supportive

    My boyfriend lost his business a year ago and for the most part has spent the time sleeping all day, or going days without sleeping.  He got a job briefly last summer, but left because his boss was an a-hole and he wasn't used to even having a boss.  I approved because...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Please Help With My Depressed Spouse

    can anyone help.i dont know what to do anymore. i am constantly feeling ignored and like dirt in his shoe. i am blamed for everything that is worong in his life. he can be really mean to me.is this normal.he also does not shower and it repulses me. i hang in there for what we had...
    jlh103 jlh103 41-45 2 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    I Have A Depressed Boyfriend

    I have a depressed boyfriend..i love he so much...& i dont mind that...it can happened to any one...i just dont know what to do!
    amy143 amy143 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Have a Depressed Husband

    Having a depressed partner isn't fun.  You can't make them get help for it.  I made my husband take an online quiz about depression by himself and he scored Depressed! He went to the doctor and was put on some medication which I could see such a big and Improved change...
    PJonmeds PJonmeds 41-45, F Mar 25, 2008

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    I'm Lost With And Without Him.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for going on three years, we got pregnant and lost the baby at six months. He was seemingly getting better until recently and I don't know what to do. I have thought of leaving him, but I don't feel right doing so, he is the only thing I know...
    NikkiAuger NikkiAuger 16-17, F Jan 21, 2013

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    Depressed Boyfriend, I Don't Know What To Say...

    I started going out with my current boyfriends 8 months ago. From the beginning I could tell that he had mood swings, but as I learned more about him I realized it was much more than that. He is on Anti-depressants and another medication. One day he will be happy and...
    Breizz Breizz 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2010

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    Not Sure How To Deal With It

    Well, my situation is rather long and complicated. I am in a relationship with a man that I met 7 years ago but didn't last at that time because he joined the military and long distance love did not work out at 18 yrs old. Fast forward 7 yrs, we reconnected thru FB, I was super...
    pennys1085 pennys1085 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Thank You!!!

    As a "depressed boyfriend" i would like to say THANK YOU on behalf of all depressed boyfriends... Even if we dont all say it!Thank you for staying with us!Thank you for putting up with our disorder!Thank you for your support!Thank you for being there when we need you!Thank you...
    JustKeepFighting JustKeepFighting 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2012

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    I Have a Depressed Husband

    Having a depressed partner isn't fun.  You can't make them get help for it.  I made my husband take an online quiz about depression by himself and he scored Depressed! He went to the doctor and was put on some medication which I could see such a big and Improved change...
    PJonmeds PJonmeds 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Need Some Support And Advice

    First off, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He lives in Canada and I live in the states, so yes, we have a long distance relationship and up until now, it has been no problem for us. We don't get to see each other often but we usually skype every...
    bostongirl101 bostongirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    My Depressed Boyfriend

    I've been with my boyfriend for exactly a year and 8 months and we love each other to death. He has been depressed ever since he was a child, for his father and mother had "issues", his childhood wasn't a very happy one and they got a divorce. He moved to live with a...
    lilylights lilylights 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2009

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    Depressed Boyfriend Wants to Break Up

    Hi All' About a year ago i started seeing my boyfriend , i was going through divorce and he did too.  He was married and his wife left him for another guy after a month.  he hates her for that and is very angry about it.  He is very loving with me, he loves me...
    jdiaz jdiaz 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Need Some Support!

    Let me summarize this the best that i can. I met my boyfriend online about a year ago, we've been together practically since we first spoke. At first everything was going beyond belief, i had never connected with someone so well and felt so good. I had ended a truly bad...
    prettylady21 prettylady21 22-25, F Oct 30, 2012

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    So Confused, Every Day!

    Ok, so I guess the only way to tell this story is to start at the beginning. I left my husband, who was a decent enough guy. He just wanted to sit at home all of the time and never see friends or do new things. So, I decided I wanted more for myself and I wanted him to find...
    insanity31 insanity31 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Lol I would have a boyfriend if I wasn't so picky. XD I'm an all or nothing person.
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I'm bisexual hoorrrraaaayyyy!!!! I also have a boyfriend, I am extremely lucky *chuckles* to have him, he knows who he is. Love you Conner *winks*.
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 4 Responses Nov 4

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    So I seriously like just told my dad I have a boyfriend like 5minutes ago and I want him to come over this week and for them to meet. His response "not by y'all selves okay...
    KiayaMae KiayaMae 18-21, F Nov 18

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    For the first time in my life, a guy came into my life making me the happiest person I could ever be. So I'm gladly to say that yes I have a boyfriend and I'm so happy to be with...
    Brogann Brogann 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a boyfriend and girlfriend I love them both so much I wish that we could all live together 💕 Hopefully one day 😊
    SuicideMascara SuicideMascara 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Um I have had boyfriend for like 3 weeks. He is very sweet. I really like him. But this is what I set up for my friends and enemies. Because I get jealous !!
    username9889 username9889 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 7 months and really is the best ever he's caring , perfect , trust worthy , wears heart on sleeve , thoughtful , handsome . He gives me...
    Shorthairgirl97 Shorthairgirl97 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I moved in with my boyfriend who had twins at the age of 19 (boy and girl). Their mother and him dated but broke up once the kids were born. He didn't love her and did not want to...
    pinapie pinapie 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I need some advice and would like to hear from people who have some experience with this topic.Its quite a long story so bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He...
    PeppermintLove21 PeppermintLove21 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I am having a huge problem!!!!!! This is how the story begins! I have been dating my recent boyfriend Tevin for almost 10 months and it all started when I was need of a prom date...
    MoMo2018 MoMo2018 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    So tonight I tired going out with some of my friends to get my mind off missing my boyfriend but just seeing them with guys or with their boyfriends honestly was the worst. All I...
    gabriellajoy gabriellajoy 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My boyfriend lies to me I've caught him in lies and he's told me the truth, because his Mom told him to. Sometimes he acts like he doesn't even care about me. My Dad doesn't like...
    platypanda platypanda 18-21, F Nov 16

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    I just got a boyfriend! I just got a boyfriend! His name is Bryce and he's cute! I love him so much! I hope our relationship will last longer than the last one (6 days sits at...
    Jordan4Bryce Jordan4Bryce 13-15, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    So just yesterday my boyfriend left for army basic training, for 7 weeks, and has just arrived to base camp which is where we had to say good bye in text till the next time we get...
    tayrichx tayrichx 18-21, F Oct 28

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    Hi my name is Sophiee and i would like to tell you about my boyfriend Ben when i met him i had given up on myself on life on everything and i had tried to commit suicide in the...
    SophieeChapman SophieeChapman 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    a couple months ago in the early weeks of our relationship, my boyfriend told me that i'm not like the usual girls he dated. he told me that he always preferred white girls, that...
    moonfamily moonfamily 18-21 3 Responses Oct 28

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    A faithful and respectful boyfriend a honest and loving one that won't cheat and will always be there for me
    MeganDawnn MeganDawnn 16-17, F Oct 29

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    I've never had a boyfriend, been on a date or felt what it was like to be loved in return. And at 25, I haven't lost any hope and I feel it's a curse. Always wanting but never...
    JustSomeGay JustSomeGay 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 30

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    Hey, I’m Austin. 15mMD (USA), gay. If you are 13-15, and you are looking for a boyfriend, leave your K-i-k below. Thanks :D
    corncakes11 corncakes11 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 31

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    Hey guys, I'm 14, gay, and looking for a boyfriend. About me: I'm a little chubby, have red hair, I live in FL, and I'm looking for somebody who's honest, kind, an likes me for me...
    AidenPierce5584 AidenPierce5584 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 1

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    Really wanting a boyfriend
    trej222 trej222 13-15, M 6 Responses Nov 1

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    Hi guys. I am a newbie and yeah I want a boyfriend who could be very loyal to me. I am not a picky type of guy. All you have to do is to be loyal and supportive. By the way, I don...
    notsohappyman notsohappyman 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    I'm a gay 16 year old looking for a boyfriend (from the USA)
    jdntsg98 jdntsg98 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Just went through a break up and wouldn't mind having a boyfriend
    Kristopher16 Kristopher16 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 4

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    New account. Somehow I forgot the email and the password. Anyway, I'm Austin, 15mMD. I'm gay. If you want a boyfriend or just wanna be friends, comment your K-i-k username. Thanks...
    austinmcdonald austinmcdonald 13-15, M 4 Responses Nov 8

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    if you are 13-15, please give me your k-i-k so we can talk :D I'm 15m from MD. Okay look, this is much harder than it looks. I've been looking for an online boyfriend for months...
    austinmcdonald austinmcdonald 13-15, M 7 Responses Nov 9

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