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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

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    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    No.

    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57 13-15 Apr 13, 2011

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    I have to willingly agree to take mandatory

    medication. Both decisions come with consequences. How would you decide?
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 1 Response May 16

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    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe 16-17, F Feb 2

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    So glad to have found this. The only other POTS groups I am a part of are on Facebook and I don't really want my friends knowing how much I struggle. Feeling comfort in the...
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    Ever since I was young, I never fit in. I was always larger and teased for it. I often wonder what is my purpose for being placed on this earth was. Was I just sent here to be...
    blaqbbwkween blaqbbwkween 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Randomly felt like typing. Here's a bit of random thinking One of the greatest losses mankind has ever suffered has been the loss of our imagination and the will to express it. A...
    jeffafa0516 jeffafa0516 18-21, M a week ago

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    I was part of this program that allowed us to watch school plays and critique them( write reviews) I honestly just signed up for it because it would mean another good thing on my...
    neptunechild neptunechild 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    When someone asks you to explain what autism feels like -_- if I didn't have a hard time explaining it I wouldn't have it.... Autism makes me feel like you should ask google if...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well i found out i had scoliosis when i was 17? Yeah 16 or 17. Im now 18. Its minor from what the doctors have told me and also what i have seen compared to many persons who i see...
    legzydawly legzydawly 16-17 7 hrs ago

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    A firm grasp on the concept of infinity is difficult, but it becomes much easier when you think about parallel universes. I’m not a believer of the multiverse theory, but I do...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M Jul 1

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    People simply grow a part, which is perfectly normal. You realize you want different things, no longer share the same interests, no longer understand and no longer connect...
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    I have random thoughts and some not so random. Relationships: Relationships are difficult at best. It couldn’t be any other way. You take two unique sovereign individuals...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 6 days ago

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    Uuuuggghhhh 😫 I hate making difficult important life decisions!!
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    The truth hurts... but dishonesty hurts more. I know many will disagree with that statement, but I am sure that just as many will agree. The choice between a painful truth and...
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I am so indecisive. I hate picking a line at the grocery store or at the bank drive through. I ALWAYS pick the wrong one! I am guaranteed to pick the line where the person in...
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M Jul 1

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    So this is about the last woman I cared for. This all started almost two years ago now, I want to say Oct or Nov of '12. So I was working at a hardware store then and a co worker...
    thedude5600 thedude5600 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Super unhappy with my life. I've been lacking motivation to make any good changes. It feels like every decision I've ever made was a bad one. I obviously lack the ability to make...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Recently my sister came out as a trans to the whole family. This has been very tough on us. I'm not against it, but I am having a hard time calling her a "he". I still cannot see...
    Thundrcrackr Thundrcrackr 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Still a novice, still learning but these days I think I'm better than I was say..last year. Eyeliner still scares the $hit outta me, but I find patience and a bent liner brush...
    MissusBrightside MissusBrightside 31-35, F 18 mins ago

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    Still a novice, still learning but these days I think I'm better than I was say..last year. Eyeliner still scares the $hit outta me, but I find patience and a bent liner brush...
    MissusBrightside MissusBrightside 31-35, F 18 mins ago

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    I have a few to make right now and they are the hardest ones! I feel so lost sometimes. So much pressure to make the right decision, it can take ages to make it and then it can...
    snugglepie snugglepie 31-35, F Jul 5

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    Why does splitting up hurt so much when it was my decision to end it? Around February this year my ex-girlfriend persuaded me to try giving our relationship another go. We had...
    Rafamac Rafamac 41-45, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've a essay due later...and I am afraid that again I find myself agitated by its format. We are being forced to draw 6 goddamned lengthy quotes from incredibly biased articles in...
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