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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57 13-15 Apr 13, 2011

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    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    No.

    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I met someone and the butterflies are gone.

    I'm a little shocked how I lost interest so quickly. Although I am not a picky person, I don't think I should have to settle either. I realize now that I like some elements of this guy but not the whole package. I just can't see myself being more than friends with this guy and...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2

    years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me...
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2014

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    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    So, I want to leave the state I was born and raised in. This decision is not hard. But where do I want to go? I have absolutely no clue. Then, after thinking about that for a...
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    It's so hard making female friends. I only have one friend. That's a gay guy. I realize I can't make female friends because... Girls always want to f-uck your boyfriend. Treat...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    IDK why, but I do. And since I have dated women, Idk how to behave to make clear I am not interested in THAT WAY and just go out as friends. No fucki*** what to do, where to go...
    Nyah27 Nyah27 26-30 12 Responses Feb 6

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    My parents make me feel guilty for being a busy mom, trying to take care of my son, instead of coming to visit them. They feel they should be able to see their grandson every week...
    MissQuickDraw MissQuickDraw 26-30, F Feb 23

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    FOR ME. I've written a book, it's about my experiences both ill and well. It also explains the fundamentals of the illness, what schizophrenia is and what it isn't. I intend on...
    cavedweller2 cavedweller2 36-40, F a week ago

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    I haven't read every story on this subject, so I might be repeating the type of experience someone else has had - sorry, if so. I woke up from a really intense dream the details...
    alanbt alanbt 61-65, M Feb 9

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    I read online about 7 common wounds of daughters with unloving mothers. A few of them really stood out to me. 1. Lack of confidence This has always been an issue and I believe is...
    imagine524 imagine524 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    what a very simple idea... feeling alive while living. it seems like it would be very difficult to avoid. instead though, its very difficult to manage. I blame it on money. can't...
    atiekay atiekay 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I wish my family was more supportive of my decisions. I wish my family understood that I have things that make me happy, despite how they feel. I wish my family wasn't so negative...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    So many people stay stuck in a horrible or unloving relationship for the sad sake they are afraid of change and afraid of being alone. It takes courage to stand alone; it takes...
    throwawaychild throwawaychild 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 21

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    Bad decisions make good stories.
    cutsy cutsy 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 21

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    Hey everyone! My name is Raelyn, and I'm a sixteen year-old girl from South Texas. I, like all of you, have Pectus Carinatum. I know the adversity that this deformity presents, and...
    therealme24 therealme24 13-15, F Feb 25

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    I don't think people really need a reason for this. We're in a world where media shows standards for males and females that are impossible. It's not even one person- it's multiple...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I have difficulty completing work, paying attention to class discussions and sitting still and not doing anything. The work I do complete is when I reach an in-between state of...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Feb 13

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    I always find it hard to have confidence in something. I envy some people. They don't seem to have difficulty about confidence. They seem to be always trusting themselves. No...
    phoebechan phoebechan 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    However, for a beginner, it can be a bit intimidating.How does a novice learn to use these tools?Allow your hair to air dry naturally as much as you can in order to protect it from...
    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I hate trichotillomania. I wish I didn't have it. I'd like to not have to wear make-up and false lashes all the time. I hate having draw on my brows and eyeliner just to go to...
    justme973 justme973 18-21, F Feb 11

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    I never have been one of those girls who wear make up. It's probably because I was tomboy growing up. I was always the girl who was running around outside with her guy best friend...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F Feb 13

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    So I'd really like to begin this post by letting you all know that I haven't actually had an actual nightmare for the last 3 years of my life. Yes, that is highly unusual but I...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F Feb 22

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    I hardly have ever worn makeup. there are occasional days I do it but it is a little bit of eye shadow, maybe, and mascara.
    MyCrookedSmile MyCrookedSmile 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been watching on YouTube, about a woman who made a video diary about her Reglan induced movement disorder. I have decided to make a video book. When a movement disorder...
    Boshie Boshie 61-65, F Feb 6

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    Sweat. I felt actual sweat roll down my back the last time I had to be social in a place where I knew no-one. I had hovered on the edge of two conversations, wondered if I'd...
    GenevieveH GenevieveH 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I am beginning to hate it. I like to have fun and make other people optimistic but I would also like to be taken serious when I show my darker side. I don't want to have to smile...
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M Feb 26

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    So for about 2 weeks ago it started A new girl in My class, she seemed very Nice so me and My friends talked to her, and after 20 minutes it feelt like we were really good friends...
    HappyDepression HappyDepression 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's been difficult. I have racked my brain about the decisions I have recently made. I questioned my own sanity. See, My life with my ex was not bad at all. I was content...
    irishstone irishstone 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    i need his strength so that i can say, "No" because i can't otherwise. i'm very happy with asking my Dom about who i can add, who i can talk to, and about any interaction i'm not...
    shimmeringrose shimmeringrose 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Please read: It's kind of sad to me when someone needs a partner to have meaning or worth or reason to live. It's nice to have someone but why make them your everything? To me...
    dashuria dashuria 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have been reading about others making good friends on here and it makes me want to also, any one wanna be friends with me?I have been reading about others making good friends on...
    james00012 james00012 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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