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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

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    What to Do - In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration - It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go? - Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    Shud I Leve?? - Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Staying Or Going? - I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it...
    Doveangel Doveangel 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Decision Made! - I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Decision Help - Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right? - My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Where to Go, Where to Go... - Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    No. - Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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