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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 91 People

    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57 13-15 Apr 13, 2011

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2

    years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me...
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    I met someone and the butterflies are gone.

    I'm a little shocked how I lost interest so quickly. Although I am not a picky person, I don't think I should have to settle either. I realize now that I like some elements of this guy but not the whole package. I just can't see myself being more than friends with this guy and...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    I have to willingly agree to take mandatory

    medication. Both decisions come with consequences. How would you decide?
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 2 Responses May 16

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    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    No.

    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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