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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

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    9 months ago I joined the navy,

    7 months ago I met the love of my life. I'm supposed to leave for basic training in 12 days. I still technically have the option to back out. my boyfriend says that if I stay, he will marry me. if I go our relationship will stay the same, it will just be very difficult because...
    millerandm1 millerandm1 18-21, F 1 Response May 28

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    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I are madly in love

    and plan on spending the rest of our lives together. I graduate college in December. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Maryland. I'm in the ideal area for my career path, but he wants to live in North Carolina. I love the idea of getting a nice big apartment down there...
    FierceAsFire05 FierceAsFire05 18-21, F Jun 7

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    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57 13-15 Apr 13, 2011

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    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I met someone and the butterflies are gone.

    I'm a little shocked how I lost interest so quickly. Although I am not a picky person, I don't think I should have to settle either. I realize now that I like some elements of this guy but not the whole package. I just can't see myself being more than friends with this guy and...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2

    years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me...
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2014

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    No.

    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Just under a decade has passed

    since my family and I escaped from domestic abuse. The man perpetrating said abuse manages to track us down shortly after we left which prompted us to move further afield. Many years passed and we eventually received word that this man is reportedly deceased. Needless to say we...
    tmalachi tmalachi 18-21, M Apr 28

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    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    I need people's opinions.

    So I currently live in AZ, USA: The life I am living here is extremely difficult. I have to worry about things 16 year olds don't usually have to worry about, such as facing eviction, supplying food for myself, not having health insurance, ect. My father isn't a parent to me, he...
    xorhiaaxo xorhiaaxo 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm tired of life. As far as I can remember, negative emotions have been the ones controlling my actions/decisions. I mentioned before that I've tried to kill myself using my gun...
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    In this case, it's actually a huge crush that I have on this girl and it's been going on for some time now 😩 I'm currently 18 and she's 17. Her names Leslie and I know her...
    Gabe1997 Gabe1997 18-21, T 8 hrs ago

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    Last Kiss by Pearl Jam. I lost the love of my life vaguely similar to the song.... Can't make it past the first chorus without breaking down...
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    I think it helps to draw what I'm feeling to the surface. Like sucking out a poisonous bite.
    Batteriesnotincluded9 Batteriesnotincluded9 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    18 years later and things finally start falling into place.... but as i expected before, there were reasons as to why I did not remember sooner, and reasons why i should never...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm not going to sugar coat this .....it's freaking hard ! If you are a parent that cares about your child , wants to do right by them ...then it's hard ....... I see many people...
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    I always felt from a young age that I may not be able to have children. I don't know why, it was just always something that seemed right to me. I love babies and children, but...
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    ****VERY LONG DEscriptION****I've never told anyone about this before and it's one of my darkest secrets. But I have 3 alters that make up "me." They don't have names so I gave...
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    Life feels very foreign to me these days. I go through the motions, count my blessings, do the best I can (I think)...but it's like I'm on a path I have never walked before and...
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    I have difficult in recording a task-operation video for trymyapp but as the screen changes from horizontal to erect direction which makes the video into two parts after the screen...
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