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I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

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    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    No.

    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57 13-15 Apr 13, 2011

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    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath 26-30 1 Response Mar 27, 2011

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    My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2

    years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me...
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I met someone and the butterflies are gone.

    I'm a little shocked how I lost interest so quickly. Although I am not a picky person, I don't think I should have to settle either. I realize now that I like some elements of this guy but not the whole package. I just can't see myself being more than friends with this guy and...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2010

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    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I cling, but I realize its all meaningless ****. relics of a past that I thought meant something but means nothing to anyone else. when I am no more these items will be nothing...
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    This just in: "Commingle" is apparently a word. Autocorrect is full of surprises. It means to come together with, blend. I will be doing a lot of commingling with my peeps in...
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    There is always someone...even if you're not sure at the time.
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    I am not close to my blood relatives at all. My parents had trouble encouraging me as a child, and the restrictions they put on me due to their fear makes me believe that they don...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 22-25 1 Response Oct 27

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    Sometimes difficult decisions have to be made, they will bring pain and discomfort, but I have to believe its for the better..
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    Finding it difficult to make sure I keep my lover completely satisfied and happy while doing the same for my husband.
    moonmaiden69 moonmaiden69 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    I Have Thought About Suicde I lay here in the dark with my insomnia, waiting for the pill to kick in... Can't sleep and always tired... It takes a toll on my day to day tasks...
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    I seldom have difficulty dealing with my own feelings, negative or otherwise. Only on the rare occasion I'm having trouble identifying emotion or source does this give me pause...
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    I can't. I like to to speak in public, I want to read aloud and be an actress. I love doing these things, but I can't. I feel lightheaded, I can't breathe, I get nauseous and...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F Nov 18

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    I'll admit.. I tend to just go with the flow of things.. even though I have much to say. Often times I have so many thoughts floating around that I have difficulty gathering my...
    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    There's one thing I also hate, is how teenage magazines promote makeup, or giveaway free makeup with the magazine! Being a young girl at 13-15 with teenage magazines, you feel as...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When I was younger I would pill on the makeup thinking it made me beautiful, but now I haven't worn makeup in about a year and my skin feels amazing, I have fallen in love with my...
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    Okay so I don't actually have acne anymore, but I thought I would share how I got rid of it in this section :) I was always very fortunate in regards to my skin until I moved to...
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    Got taken from school to the hospital the other night. The night before I felt like I was dying so I was glad to go to get it checked out even if it was just a stomach cramp...
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    There is a girl in my family about one and a half years younger. We can have fun and make jokes together 'cause we know each other and we're used to each other. When it comes to...
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    I dropped out of high school, then I lost my only friend. I babysit Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays so I don't have time to make any not that I'd be able to anyway. I really just...
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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    So, it's taken me several years to build up the courage to even think about this story. My only wish is to purge myself and to hopefully inspire, inform, and encourage guys like me...
    JamesMcC93 JamesMcC93 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 6

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    We met here on EP April 2014..I was trying to recover from an emotional affair, and she took it upon herself (BOF) to help and encourage me, to tell me that I could get through it...
    Alan493 Alan493 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I've not been well. I wish I could explain to my boyfriend to get him to understand. Sometimes he makes things worse but I know I am hurting him so bad. When I SI it hurts him and...
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    I've not been well. I wish I could explain to my boyfriend to get him to understand. Sometimes he makes things worse but I know I am hurting him so bad. When I SI it hurts him and...
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    GID = Gender Identity Disorder. I was born with this condition. This condition is when someone feels as tho they were born into the wrong body. Their mind is one sex but their body...
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    I believe if people knew who I really am, they wouldn't like me. If you look at everything I've written on this site a lot of it has been cathartic: I wrote it because I was...
    Nyxii Nyxii 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    After nearly thirty years in the workforce, there are two career decisions of which I am most proud. The first is when my wife and I decided to go from a two-income household to...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I almost can't believe that I'm writing this here, but I feel a need to tell my story and this is not something that I think my friends would understand. So I'm writing it here and...
    Gwendoline111 Gwendoline111 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I feel like my problems are minuscule after reading some of the posts on here, it makes me feel bad for being sad...I can't help it though, I feel so stupid. I'm 20 and I am...
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    I was 13 when I started showing signs of UC, however wasn't diagnosed until I was 15. The endoscopy and colonoscopy was very scary at the time! It was a really hard time for me as...
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