I Have a Difficult Decision to Make

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    11 days until my wedding anniversary.

    .. 11 days until I have to confirm to my solicitor that I definitely want to go ahead with divorce proceedings. Do I go ahead with things and risk being alone or do I agree to try and fix this wreck of a marriage for the sake of our daughter? If I try fixing things will he change...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Shud I Leve??

    Ironically i feel today am literally out on the streets...homeless..no where to go.. I feel that am thrown out, into the streets...But am the one who decided on leaving home as i could stand this no more. As usual he dint give a ****. But as always i do not want to rush things...
    Meowerstruluv Meowerstruluv
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2013

    My boyfriend and I are madly in love

    and plan on spending the rest of our lives together. I graduate college in December. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Maryland. I'm in the ideal area for my career path, but he wants to live in North Carolina. I love the idea of getting a nice big apartment down there...
    FierceAsFire05 FierceAsFire05
    22-25, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2

    years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me...
    Ag0405 Ag0405
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    You won't find the decision here,

    just a summary of the events of the past week. I won't bother with much as this is for me...my posts don't draw much and that's fine. Just words of a few friends who I won't bother. I made the trip to visit family in the place I went to high school. Usually I feel down after...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    So last monday, i decline a job offer cause i

    felt like its not the right job for me. After a few hours of sending them a reject letter, they gave me another offer to reconsider it. :( The problem is... I really dont want the job unless they are willing to compromise with my offer and change the contract, then i will accept...
    Doveangel Doveangel
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2014

    This'll Take Some Serious Consideration

    It's nearly lunchtime - and my dilemma is this... Toasted panini with mozzarella and chorizo or toasted cheddar and tomato chutney on wholemeal? I'll switch on the sandwich press while I consider...
    EnglishMuffin EnglishMuffin
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Nov 2, 2009

    What to Do

    In 2003 I started my college degree. It took me 5 years to get my B.A. as I had personal struggles that caused me to have to go to school part-time for a couple of years. But I did it and my GPA was high and I got excellent letters of recommendation. I ...
    MidnightOasis MidnightOasis
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 31, 2008

    Staying Or Going?

    I think I am going to delete this account.  I don't know what to do about this.  It's like one side of me wants Bella, another side of me doesn't want to be on EP ever again.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 25, 2009


    Libra= Indecisive. Yeah, that about sums me up.  Even the smallest decisions can take me all damn day.  But it's the big ones, they really have me frightened.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Apr 1, 2009

    I need people's opinions.

    So I currently live in AZ, USA: The life I am living here is extremely difficult. I have to worry about things 16 year olds don't usually have to worry about, such as facing eviction, supplying food for myself, not having health insurance, ect. My father isn't a parent to me, he...
    xorhiaaxo xorhiaaxo
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I met someone and the butterflies are gone.

    I'm a little shocked how I lost interest so quickly. Although I am not a picky person, I don't think I should have to settle either. I realize now that I like some elements of this guy but not the whole package. I just can't see myself being more than friends with this guy and...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    I'm Engaged... Is It Right?

    My boyfriend of 8 months proposed on February 5th. Awesome, right? Well, I met this man who lifted me off of my feet. I'm starting to fall for him... I'm in love with my fiance, but I'm falling for another guy... Please help me! I don't know what to do!   Okay... Here's...
    bkeller2490 bkeller2490
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

    So I have to choice to leave the baby

    and move (for a better future for me and my parents) or to stay behind and living like we are now. Moving means living the life of my dreams, living him means continue everything I do now. If we move my grandma will have the baby which he is her pride and joy. He's not my baby...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2015

    My mom and dad don't want to pay $500 a month

    for rent for an apartment, instead they would rather get me a newer car, and stay at home, driving an hour to college, then an hour back home. I'm not sure I really want to deal with any of their BS more than I have to, I want to be independent and make my own decisions, and not...
    The1AndOnlyMe The1AndOnlyMe
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    Decision Made!

    I recently posted a story about whether my husband and I should stay in our home town or move, very complicated situation which I'm not in the mood to type again ;-) Well, the decision has been made, and we'll be moving asap! Things with my husbands family degenerated quickly...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2010

    Decision Help

    Hi , I have a very important decision to make can some body please help me , I am not able to do it on my own . I came to Malaysia to work 6 months back , pretty much the money is good for me . I screwed up on my job and my boss want me out for sure . Now I am not at all...
    ganeshkashinath ganeshkashinath
    1 Response Mar 27, 2011

    9 months ago I joined the navy,

    7 months ago I met the love of my life. I'm supposed to leave for basic training in 12 days. I still technically have the option to back out. my boyfriend says that if I stay, he will marry me. if I go our relationship will stay the same, it will just be very difficult because...
    millerandm1 millerandm1
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 28, 2015

    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    Last week my mother-in-law came to our house and told my husband that we weren't to come to her house again. You see my husband is from her first marriage and in her own words his step-father "never really liked him anyway, and now he hates him." The reason? My husband is ill...
    highlandtiger highlandtiger
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2010

    This Will Take A Lot Of Consideration

    My parents are divorced, and I am thinking about not seeing my dad anymore. But, I am hesitating. I know that I have to do it, but I just can't. I decide, then I back out. I don't know why. I may be unsure of what to do, or how this will affect my future. Any help is appreciated...
    jmackay57 jmackay57
    Apr 13, 2011

    Just under a decade has passed

    since my family and I escaped from domestic abuse. The man perpetrating said abuse manages to track us down shortly after we left which prompted us to move further afield. Many years passed and we eventually received word that this man is reportedly deceased. Needless to say we...
    tmalachi tmalachi
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    Where to Go, Where to Go...

    Cape Town, Berlin, Panama City, Vancouver, Portland, Olympia, or Evansville...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2009
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