I Have a Difficult Stepdaughter

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    I do love my step daughter,

    I've been married to her dad for 21 years, she's 27 so most of her life I've been there. BUT she is spoiled rotten by her mom & grandma!! She has 2 kids, which she doesn't raise, her mom does. She quit school at 16 & got mad because we wouldn't buy her a car...the rule for all...
    Newlife48 Newlife48
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2014

    So the Short opening of this story starts with

    my step daughter has accused me of Choking her, Right now she is 9 years old and because of her biological father she has had her fair share of dealings with child protection. After a 2 day temper fit revolving around her not going to bed on time I'd finally had enough, I...
    tiredofstress tiredofstress
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    My Stepdaughter Hates Me For Taking Away Her Daddy

    My name is Nicole. I have a (mostly) wonderful boyfriend, whom I plan to marry and I'm 5 months pregnant with our child. He has a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship that recently moved in with us and she is, to say the very least, making my life very difficult. She...
    ohionicole ohionicole
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    My Step Daughter Hates Me

    hey,to make a long story short i have a 16 year old step daughter who used to be nice and sweet to me but all of a sudden she just does not want to talk to me she was raised by her grandmother so me and her father  got her when she was 13 ... so i am just baffled at how much...
    joy112 joy112
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    She told the little neighbor boy to go home

    because when he threw her basketball it accidentally went into a puddle and she doesn't like her ball to get wet. He walked home crying. She sees nothing wrong with this.
    Morrgin Morrgin
    31-35, F
    Mar 22, 2015

    I am in a state of horror

    and deep sadness as my stepdaughter wants to move back in to my home with me, my two boys and her dad. I never know how to start talking about her as I always like to be balanced. But when I met her 4 years ago at 15, my heart went out to her as a child also from divorce. She...
    happymom1973 happymom1973
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    I have difficult step kids.

    Mainly the 13 year old boy. He lives with us and he's just so horrible. He lies and steels all the time. Steels money and Jewellery of his nan. Then Buys drugs with the money (canabis) and comes in when he wants. He's been thrown out of school and even been thrown out of the...
    lisawkd lisawkd
    36-40, F
    Jul 15, 2014

    I love my stepdaughter very much,

    she is a 13 year old girl who is full of potential, however she has dishonest and manipulative tendencies. I have treated her like my own, as her bio mom struggles with addiction and mental illness and has been in and out of her life. Her mother is also a world class liar. You...
    ironelf06830 ironelf06830
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2016

    Step Daughter Is Now Pregnant

     I have a 19 year old stepdaughter.  My DH was a single parent for 6 or so years before we began dating.  Looking back in those dating years, there was advice that I should just walk away because SD would make my life a living hell.  I thought I'd be strong...
    thefrozentundra thefrozentundra
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2009


    Well SD14 is a mini wife who constantly asks my husband about his job, finances and is a pain in my butt. She is beyond entitled and asks for rides to school ( bus stop is 2 blocks away). She steals my clothes and puts them back with her awful foundation (orange) on them and...
    Westcoastgurl Westcoastgurl
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2012

    I just need a place to vent.

    I can't share with my husband. My stepdaughter reacts to everything I say or do. I'm walking on egg shells around her. They never include me in their discussions. It's always papa papa papa, even when I'm right there. She is on the aspergers spectrum. She doesn't know...
    frecks6 frecks6
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    My Little Girl Hates Me...

    A very long time ago, there was a girl I was blessed to be involved with as a mentor. I watched her develope, and was, as I assume, not a perfect mentor, but never stopped advising and helping. Over the years as I watched her grow and become a person able to make her own choices...
    saltyjet saltyjet
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2011

    My Stepdaughter Is So Stressful!

    First of all I just want to say that I have read a lot of posts about some people "hating" their stepdaughter. I do not "hate" mine, I just dislike her most of the time. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 4 years and he has a 10year old daughter and I have a 6 year...
    crystal51906 crystal51906
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2012

    My husband and I have been married 7 years.

    We both have children from previous marriages and we were aware of the fact we'd both have baggage. My husband's daughter whom is 14 has turned my house upside down! She comes from a home which is emotionally withdrawn and strict. She has lived with her mother for the past 4...
    skaredakmom skaredakmom
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015
More Stories