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I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Wonder if anyone can help. Ive been in a relationship with a Romanian man for just over 7 months now. I myself am british and although at first there were language barriers its...
    beckalem beckalem 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm at such a dilemma... I want to distance myself from u, but yet, I don't want to lose you...
    paupaw paupaw 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    I often sit here, wondering.. when is it gonna happen. When is the day I am going to stand up and say "I need a change!" All of us have needs: Love, Comfort, intimacy, sex and...
    ChefBri3030 ChefBri3030 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 3

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    My wife was supportive but rather lost as to my intent when I told her. My teeth were fine enough weren't they? This desire though, was not going away, it only came back stronger...
    Ledertal1933 Ledertal1933 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    The Dilemma To laugh is to risk appearing a fool To weep is to risk appearing sentimental To reach out for another is to risk involvement To expose feelings is to risk rejection...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I couldn't stand the pain of my brokenheart anymore. i was married to this man for almost 9 years and we have a son. my dilemma? we were living apart from each other for that whole...
    kiryll kiryll 26-30, F Nov 11

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    I feel like screaming somebody save me. Anybody? Save me! Please save me from myself. Or am I actually the one that needs saving? Am I really in the wrong here or does the blame...
    SimplicityJai SimplicityJai 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    The biggest dilemma in dealing with 2 faced people, is deciding which one to slap first...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a Demyelinating Disease. MS is also one of these diseases but mine is a new type. I have lesions scattered through out my brain and on the underside of my Corpus Collosum...
    BCulp38 BCulp38 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    It's true. I'm 30 years old and I've politely declined every opportunity thus far to get drunk, smoke a joint, or light a cigarette ... and believe me, there have been several...
    sls84 sls84 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    It's true. I'm 30 years old and I've politely declined every opportunity thus far to get drunk, smoke a joint, or light a cigarette ... and believe me, there have been several...
    sls84 sls84 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I have experience with many things. I have knowledge of many things. I have time to do the things that are important. This is one of the things I choose to do with this experience...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 47 mins ago

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    I have had a socialphobia and I don't have any friends last year I got one and she just changed this year she is always so negative and hatefull and this is making my Depression...
    yoyo526 yoyo526 16-17, F 32 mins ago

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    "Hmm...let me see...I'll take one of those, and one of those and, oh, I'll have 2 of them at least...(them being a blonde, brunette and 2 redheads...'just won't let them know...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have been sober from alcohol abuse for almost 3 years not and drugs a year and a half which I am very content with and proud of myself for such effort and accomplishment into...
    Angelanorexic Angelanorexic 18-21, F 2 Responses 26 mins ago

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    Interracial relationships rock! My two strongest crushes have been on the gorgeous results of an interracial relationship! :P
    Starrkya Starrkya 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Hi anyone else have a tumblr, or two, or three, or a blog? If so, share it as long at it IS AN APPROPRIATE BLOG, if I wanted **** I'd do that on my own time. http...
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    You can't hear your own accent! So how do we really know we have one?
    MrTibbles2014 MrTibbles2014 26-30, M 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    It is just so unfair, but I know that the hereafter has better in store. I cannot help but cry and hurt so much. I feel so suicidal. I really have been through so much. From birth...
    SadAbdul SadAbdul 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    Just feel like today will not be great... I don't have the energy for it.
    AaliyahLove AaliyahLove 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    She is a moaning *****. But she does have great jugs.
    dirtyteenguy dirtyteenguy 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    Your worst enemy is your own mind. My mind likes to have my good side fight the bad constantly. Kinda like the angel and devil on my shoulder but they are in my head.
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    He contacted me thru facebook. I knew I shouldn't have met him. I am married with a kid, and faithfull for 8 years. I got drunk and ended up in bed with him. Very guilty now but...
    annehas annehas 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm always unhappy, it really is like living in the dark. I have times where I can put up a front but yea..
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I find EP a good place to share my thoughts. It has taken me years to figure out how to do this. I use Facebook for those subjects I feel that are safe, however, EP is good for...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 54 mins ago

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    Hi there, this post is for the once who need some extra cash or just plainly need more money to live. I made a website that can help you. Just some short information about me and...
    Kayidan Kayidan 22-25, F 42 mins ago

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    i have had epilepsy since i was a young kid at school. thankfully i've not had any epileptic fits since i was a kid as it's been under control with my medication.
    GirlyAndrea1987 GirlyAndrea1987 26-30, M 37 mins ago

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    I just turned 30. Ive spent the last few years ruining my life on gambling. I make good money,yet have no money. I have built a huge debt, have beyond bad credit, and not sure how...
    ebrown84 ebrown84 26-30, M Oct 23

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