I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 171 People

    Plural realities, so plural

    as constituting complete unity.
    yeyoil yeyoil
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    The Ambien has kicked in

    and I'm seeing double lol
    timj05015 timj05015
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2013

    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014
    yeyoil yeyoil
    26-30, M
    Jan 26, 2015

    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2014

    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

    Well you see here... My dilemma is "awful" ;)

    Not really boo :* it's wonderful So me and my perfect Leslie talk every day all day every night all night, but it's not enough. :P idk how, it just isn't. And I'm constantly missing him even when we are talking :P Love you boo <3
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973
    41-45, M
    Nov 18, 2013

    It's too early to go to bed

    and too late to take a nap... I don't know what to do... :(
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015
    yeyoil yeyoil
    26-30, M
    Jan 3, 2015

    My wife and I have been planning on visiting

    her home town in Colombia for more than 2 years now. She has wanted to go for Christmas, but we didn't have the money or time before. So we are finally going at the end of this week. Her cousin is very excited to see her and had to choose between seeing us when we are in...
    Bill78Z Bill78Z
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    Its long time since I last bought something to

    satisfy my feminine needs and I'm fantasizing about many things I've found on the net lately. I just had birthday so I also think I'm entitled for some gifts once in a while. It would be very exciting to get all those staff and It will be tremendously fun trying them on etc. But...
    Danairis Danairis
    46-50, T
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    O my friend, there is no [-] friend.

    (as attributed to Aristotle, tradition says he recited that quite often)
    yeyoil yeyoil
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    There's someone on here

    that goes against everything I believe in. He/she is "Satanic" but I think she claims this because she is afraid and has been cast aside by people. I don't know if I can be friends with someone like this because I can't put someone about God, someone who is against him. But am I...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39
    22-25, M
    Mar 8, 2015

    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9
    70+, F
    4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973
    41-45, M
    Nov 20, 2013

    Is a "bad" father better

    than no father? My children don't want to see their father. They say he is mean, shouts all the time, tells them they need a diet (they aren't over weight), says they are disgusting for their behaviour at school (they are good at school and always have good reports). Maybe...
    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Feb 9

    Well it's not really a dilemma.

    .. I know what I should do and honestly all my excuses not to are not valid enough. This morning I asked him if he'd c-m inside me if I used spermicide (I'm not on any other kind of birth control).... He normally has a hard time getting off and when he told me to get on top I...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

    When my parents ask me do I want to.

    .. (and then they give me a long bill of things that mostly don't interest me, then)... and go to supper with us? So I have to either endure a long car ride and several boring errands to get a good, oftentimes a very good meal, or I can stay home and do what I want and eat...
    GreatWhiteBird GreatWhiteBird
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 14

    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2012

    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy
    51-55, M
    Mar 15, 2013

    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    Aren't I always in a dilemma?

    Go do my homework and avoid getting scolded or have fun and play? (Play as in be antisocial and go on the Internet lol) well, I don't think I'll ever be rid of that dilemma really. 😶
    XxFirepawsxX XxFirepawsxX
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    Life is a constant oscillation between the

    sharp horns of dilemmas. H. L. Mencken
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    I'm thinking about writing an ex to get some

    things off my chest and to clear some things up. I need someone to review it and tell me if what i wrote even makes sense :/
    Mofassa Mofassa
    18-21
    Sep 29, 2015

    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge
    31-35
    1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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