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    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 36-40, M Nov 20, 2013

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    my dilemma for thinking today is.... I am with a man who says he loves me but acts another way... hes out golfing today... but I need to talk to him about our relationship... I...
    VictoriaRRose VictoriaRRose 26-30, F Jul 2

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    next year, i will go to uni. i will go abroad definitely, bcs i hate my country, but the only country that i can go is china or any other country in asia. the least country that i...
    dasosleefi dasosleefi 16-17, F Jul 7

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    What if you're dating a guy, and you find out ,he has a T W I N ? :o And that twin happens to be more interesting ... :o Could you imagine such a dilemma ? (This was all...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Going along with the fact that I am a virgin by choice, I have never had a girlfriend. In high school my mind was on my future, and now? I don't know really... Honestly I've gotten...
    badgerman42 badgerman42 22-25, M Jul 13

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    The Human Chain I entered the Neuro Dept, checked in, then do what I always do- go to then restroom. On my way back to the waiting room I passed a lady in a wheelchair kind of...
    mrsbuzzkill mrsbuzzkill 51-55 Jul 18

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    Sometimes I respond to ppls Experiences with totally random stream of thought answers. I don't know why I do it, except that I am forever exercising my funny bone and likely do it...
    Tasha15Girl Tasha15Girl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 6

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    My life has been roller coaster in every sense. Coming from middle class family in India, I was diagnosed for Acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL) at 14 yrs which took me 5 months of...
    smilealllife smilealllife 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    Since I'm the only person in this category thus far, I suppose I'll explain what this means for me. For as long as I can remember, I have subconsciously assigned personalities to...
    Visola Visola 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Hi guys, I'm back and I've got a question. Do any of you lift weights? I am looking for some input. I have been lifting lately and so far the gains have been slow. I have lost a...
    Medic8or Medic8or 22-25 11 hrs ago

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    1. Read a book intermittently and finished it in a decade. Yes! That tough! 2. Set (probably) 1k sqm of field on fire. 3. Had a minor accident last Saturday. 4. I played with...
    EruIluvatar EruIluvatar 70+, F 7 hrs ago

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    I woke up this morning feeling worse than I did yesterday. I haven't talked to my fiance about any of this and I really want too. I worry that he will dismiss my feelings and tell...
    Bekka311 Bekka311 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have always dreamed about having a Vagina, I desperately want to be the woman I know I am full time. I have a long road ahead but I know one day I will have a full sex change and...
    LisaTG LisaTG 26-30, T 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    dear my EP associates, if you have added me to your circle, the only reason I havent added back is because we have not talked. if you wish to have me add you back, please talk. i...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    [Note: Most of this was posted as a comment on someone else's story.] I think jealousy comes from fear. You've met a person who rocks your world, but because he/she is attractive...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    It's been a while since I have been truly active in EP. I have used this site as a place to vent out for years and it has helped me a lot in my journey for my personal growth and...
    LackofabetterName LackofabetterName 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    This is for Michael. I’m not the kind of person who usually tells anyone but the closest of friends very intimate details of my life. I have a few stories now about a new side...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 32 mins ago

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    Well I don't really but I know what it is like to have one, I used to have one till I mastered how to talk English. But it's sexy to have an accent makes you stand more IMO
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    My family has a history of diseases, especially cancer. These diseases were what left my mother and her siblings orphans at young ages. I knew that one of my grandparents was...
    JumpingTomatoes JumpingTomatoes 16-17 3 hrs ago

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    When I was 18 years old I got my 1st DUI, following that when I was 19 I came across my 2nd. I served My time, completed counseling, outpatient therapy, group classes, had an...
    BarteringJoe BarteringJoe 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm very uncomfortable about announcing this in public, although it's kind of anonymous. For the last days every time I tend to be overeating I find myself purging in the bathroom...
    truestory101 truestory101 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I was always taught to fear and hate people opposite of my race. I could never understand why I would want to hate another fellow human being when some of our living conditions...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    I just have to say thank you to my mum for backing into my car this afternoon. Now I have to call the repair guy. Thanks Mom!!!! * these aren't our cars, just a photo I found...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I have spoken to a lot of people this Very early morning! 🌘 I have gotten great compliments💁, great advice 😇and met many wonderful people👫👭👫👭👫👭
    Fashionlover03 Fashionlover03 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    Recently my sister came out as a trans to the whole family. This has been very tough on us. I'm not against it, but I am having a hard time calling her a "he". I still cannot see...
    Thundrcrackr Thundrcrackr 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I always have had drama, and always will have drama. The relationship between my dad and me has gotten a lot worse, I don't feel like talking to him ever after remembering all the...
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I've managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 6 hrs ago

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    Hi :) Does anyone have any advice on how to getting over the fear of flying? Background Story When I was young, I didn't have any fear of flying at all. I was fine with it, and I...
    LonelyKaty LonelyKaty 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Its been about 45 days since u suddenly shattered my world by telling me u were tired of waiting, that there was some one else, that u thought it was best for me if we were just...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I think my parents are starting to get used to my nudity around bed time. I like sleeping nude and have been more open about it recently, so I often lounge about in my room nude...
    redinkblue redinkblue 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    That everything here is like real life.Sometime back ,a new member had joined but he left soon after saying E.p. was not the place for him.For him ,it was not a place to have fun...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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