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I Have a Dilemma

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 29

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Last night my 15 year old daughter ran away after spending the night at a friend of mine. While my friend slept my daughter sneaked out. My friend found out at 2 am and then I got...
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    I like wearing skirts...but I also like sitting like a man... dilemma.
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    Friend: (over txt) describes the dilemma of his crush to me whom he used to like. (We r just friends now.) he is telling me how he is scared of rejection and how he is scared that...
    andrew24601 andrew24601 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I began the first day of school, woke up more excited then ever. I picked out the clothes I'd wear the night before, I could barely sleep, constantly visualizing my friends and...
    looking4chances looking4chances 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a newlywed (married 11 months) and have a beautiful one month old daughter with my husband. While I was a little overwhelmed with all the huge changes in my life (getting...
    aubz88 aubz88 26-30, F Sep 20

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    I am in my mid twenties and just got married. My husband is the most supportive, loving, and loyal person who accepts all my flaws. I couldn't ask for a better partner. However, I...
    xl2368 xl2368 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am an almost 21 year old female. 5'7" and 115 pounds. I have struggled with severe self esteem issues for years, basically my whole adolescent and teenage life and since I was...
    Iambekah Iambekah 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well it's been 6 months with 10.5 to go. It hasn't been easy but we are becoming stronger together everyday. I miss him so much. I'm lucky to have him close by. We talk almost...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 17 hrs ago

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    China will take over the world with electric people. So, ok, they have cheaper products and everything, yes, but I don´t mean commercially. What if, WHAT IF they were making...
    Ankokushin Ankokushin 26-30, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have gone through lots of disappointments lately ( out of job, failed exam, long waiting for pertinent program, being away from my aging parents ). For a very long time my...
    sexysandra sexysandra 26-30 11 hrs ago

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    I would like to give some positive advice with the ones dealing with Herpes! YOUR life is not over! This is not the end! This is actually the beginning! The beginning of a new...
    iCas92 iCas92 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I have had near death experiences and I have allowed myself to be used as a conduit for another's soul. I have had O.B.E's and lots of spiritual experiences. These and others I...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I have what I like to term as a 'gift'. My gift is the ability to commune with the 'others', I have had it for as long as I can remember. I used to think that these visions...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I was Seeing my girlfriend for over 3years, she was my first love and I always have her what ever she wanted, she fell out with her family and moved into my house, for 5months we...
    nathanunited94 nathanunited94 18-21, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    True Tales for Halloween By: Deanna Jaxine Stinson, Paranormal Researcher Halo Paranormal Investigations - HPI International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/HPIinternational...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    On those days when I am in need of perspective and I might feel stressed beyond endurance, I have to take out some quality time even just for five minutes. I have to change my oil...
    teabookbliss teabookbliss 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    Two years ago today I never thought my life would change forever. October 20, 2012. I got pregnant at 16. All of these emotions are flooding in. I never thought I would actually...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Come from a family of idiots who are currently trying to destroy each other, and am caught in the crossroads. The guy who stayed with me through it all cheated and left, and then...
    roza96 roza96 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I really think I've given up. I've literally thrown my hands in the air and said to HE LL with it. I begged, I pleaded , I've worried myself sick, and I've cried enough to fill an...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 15 hrs ago

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    Political systems through out the world are just an updated version of old religions. They had sun gods earth gods water gods wind gods. Gods of the dead and beautiful among...
    thefisch thefisch 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    I have a little Boston Terrier called 'Stuart'. He is a rescue as have all my dogs been. I have had him for two weeks now and already he is part of the family. I would urge...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My dad's an ***, simple as that, but I'm the only one in my family of four that wants him out of the picture. He's been a nightmare for years and I only realized that he is what...
    Jules725 Jules725 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have never and would never. Why in this day and age would you not protect yourself? I have never not, for my own protection and for hers. I was never easy and would never...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I cannot count the amount of ghostly experiences I have had. I have seen/felt both good and bad spirits. I have seen not only full but partial apparitions. Disembodied voices...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I have thought about it many times and tried it 4! I have been touched by it personally and now I am glad it was the only thing I have failed at! Now I love life and look at it...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I have two teenage boys with Pectus Excavatum. Both are cosmetic. My younger son is o.k. with the deformity and is 6'2" and 14 yrs old. Very confident and outgoing. My oldest son15...
    sotellme sotellme 41-45, F 7 hrs ago

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    I need help. I was married for 16 years dated my husband for 10 years prior. I am 43 He cheated on me twice, hit me and always verbally abusive. I have two children. I didn't want...
    Butterbug10 Butterbug10 41-45, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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