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I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Wonder if anyone can help. Ive been in a relationship with a Romanian man for just over 7 months now. I myself am british and although at first there were language barriers its...
    beckalem beckalem 36-40, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I often sit here, wondering.. when is it gonna happen. When is the day I am going to stand up and say "I need a change!" All of us have needs: Love, Comfort, intimacy, sex and...
    ChefBri3030 ChefBri3030 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 3

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    My wife was supportive but rather lost as to my intent when I told her. My teeth were fine enough weren't they? This desire though, was not going away, it only came back stronger...
    Ledertal1933 Ledertal1933 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    The Dilemma To laugh is to risk appearing a fool To weep is to risk appearing sentimental To reach out for another is to risk involvement To expose feelings is to risk rejection...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I couldn't stand the pain of my brokenheart anymore. i was married to this man for almost 9 years and we have a son. my dilemma? we were living apart from each other for that whole...
    kiryll kiryll 26-30, F Nov 11

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    I feel like screaming somebody save me. Anybody? Save me! Please save me from myself. Or am I actually the one that needs saving? Am I really in the wrong here or does the blame...
    SimplicityJai SimplicityJai 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 13

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    The biggest dilemma in dealing with 2 faced people, is deciding which one to slap first...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    At a certain age we all begin to wonder who we really are. I remember the first time I found myself alone, lost and completely forgotten. My best friends had decided I was no...
    Helenabby Helenabby 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what to do... My mom is pushing for university right away, which I was totally on board with until I realized it would be another 4+ years of writing essays and...
    twilimajora twilimajora 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Let me start with I have a problem. I'm only 19 and I have always been drawn to older women that have a strong personality. I went to job corps and Miss Maria was my 3rd shift...
    patriotslover21 patriotslover21 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    For the most part, if someone insults me, I can rise above it. I'm usually calm and collective, and realise that the problem is not with me, but with the person hurling the abuse...
    shellofaboy shellofaboy 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    ...and I'm still recovering. I used to wonder about my father... how little things could send him into a rage. How his words and actions always mismatched the perceived offense...
    DubstepEnderFox DubstepEnderFox 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    sometimes I feel lame whenever I talk to or hang out with my friends. Yes I drink, but only with a group of people, so I'm only a social drinker. yet other than that, I don't smoke...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Twice in the recent past, as my relationship with my male BFF has continued to develop, I have had disturbing dreams about him. Both of the dreams were similar in that my BFF's...
    lc1967 lc1967 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    I haven't really written anything on EP in about 4 days. Just posted a few little blurb-y things. It's frustrating when I have ideas for something I want to write but am missing...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone I need advice I have gone low contact with my NM & mostly I'm managing it very well & I am a lot happier . I'm on crutches at the moment for an injury & she has...
    blueberry36 blueberry36 36-40, F 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    I am so sick and tired of hearing parents trying to get certain TV shows off the air, because they don't want their children watching it... IT'S CALLED PARENTAL CONTROLS - YOU...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 1 Response 29 mins ago

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    I do not have Pluto conjuncting my Sun, but boy have I met some interesting characters who do.
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 18-21, F 27 mins ago

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    This was a couple days ago~ This was around 9 PM I went to the restroom to brush my teeth I was looking at the wall and I notice something strange about my shadow? I moved so to...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So I'm just up thinking and writing away everything I'm feeling. I'm gonna have to get up and a few hours because I'm going to the mountains. I can't wait.
    Itsnotareligion Itsnotareligion 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I suppose I could call it insomnia. It has been both productive and destructive in my life. I can remember as a child having great difficulty sleeping. When I discovered books I...
    TunnelofTrees TunnelofTrees 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    This past summer I encountered NOT ONE mosquito. What does this mean? Our area, the Canadian Niagara region, has a Carolinian climate, hot and very humid in summer. While it is...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I just accidently sucked all the co2 out of a whipcream can and i still have half a pie left, everythings closed....the struggle is real...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Look within you. The questions are all there. But look without and encounter a world that needs no answers. If you choose to question it you will be led astray, not by the natural...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 5 hrs ago

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    My so-called "Random Thoughts" really are random. Most of them appear to me in the middle of the night. They might occur after I've smoked a nice fat joint, or be inspired by what...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 5 hrs ago

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    iwant that someone to talk to again. someone that’ll listen & not judge cause I get more than enough of that already. nothing is ever rainbows & butterflies. a modern fairy tale...
    alrightco alrightco 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    If you have brown hair and brown eyes message me because I will love you ❤️
    littleflowerx littleflowerx 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have earned masters degree in forensic psychology after I earned my bachelors degree in behavioral science. I am a graduate from major research universities in America.
    oldernudistwifeandmom oldernudistwifeandmom 51-55, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I have attended many concerts in my short little life but my groupie experience was pretty fun. It was with