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I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 155 People

    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    Well you see here... My dilemma is "awful" ;)

    Not really boo :* it's wonderful So me and my perfect Leslie talk every day all day every night all night, but it's not enough. :P idk how, it just isn't. And I'm constantly missing him even when we are talking :P Love you boo <3
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I'm trying to weigh the pros

    and cons...EP: Free or $60.00 per year to use the site as an online journal and continue friendships I have developed...with the knowledge that my personal thoughts, words, and visuals are subject to removal because someone has had their feelings hurt or is offended.ORPenzu...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    O my friend, there is no [-] friend.

    (as attributed to Aristotle, tradition says he recited that quite often)
    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Its long time since I last bought something to

    satisfy my feminine needs and I'm fantasizing about many things I've found on the net lately. I just had birthday so I also think I'm entitled for some gifts once in a while. It would be very exciting to get all those staff and It will be tremendously fun trying them on etc. But...
    Danairis Danairis 46-50, T 1 Response May 7

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 66-70, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    I have accomplished more

    than I ever thought I could this summer. I went back to a place that I never dreamed I would or could. I worked, pushed and strived to be my very best. I have finished out in the top this summer with two local associations on my horses. But... It's never enough, I want to keep...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 25 Responses 6 days ago

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    Aren't I always in a dilemma?

    Go do my homework and avoid getting scolded or have fun and play? (Play as in be antisocial and go on the Internet lol) well, I don't think I'll ever be rid of that dilemma really. 😶
    XxFirepawsxX XxFirepawsxX 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    This morning, hubs said he wants to install a

    wench on the front of my truck. I'm not sure if he is critiquing my offensive or defensive driving skills??????? Anyway, I asked him if we could paint it pink!!!
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    There's someone on here

    that goes against everything I believe in. He/she is "Satanic" but I think she claims this because she is afraid and has been cast aside by people. I don't know if I can be friends with someone like this because I can't put someone about God, someone who is against him. But am I...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 8

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2014

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M Jan 3

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    My very first journal entry on Penzu.

    ..I'm not sure why I'm having such a difficult time with all this. ``` My decision to leave EP is still up in the air. I need to continue writing...I know it helps me tremendously. But do I stay there and struggle with rudeness, judgement, and just complete bitterness toward...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    My wife and I have been planning on visiting

    her home town in Colombia for more than 2 years now. She has wanted to go for Christmas, but we didn't have the money or time before. So we are finally going at the end of this week. Her cousin is very excited to see her and had to choose between seeing us when we are in...
    Bill78Z Bill78Z 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M Jan 26

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    It's too early to go to bed

    and too late to take a nap... I don't know what to do... :(
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer 18-21, F Aug 3

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    Life is a constant oscillation between the

    sharp horns of dilemmas. H. L. Mencken
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 4

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    Plural realities, so plural

    as constituting complete unity.
    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    I've just made four dozen chocolate chip cookies

    and have enough dough for about five or six more cookies. Do I bake them or do I just grab a spoon?!?!?! Major life decision going on here folks!
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Clean floors, bathroom,

    kitchen...laundry and dust OR Summer comfies, iced tea, new book, shade trees and hammock
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 12

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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