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I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Last night my 15 year old daughter ran away after spending the night at a friend of mine. While my friend slept my daughter sneaked out. My friend found out at 2 am and then I got...
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    I like wearing skirts...but I also like sitting like a man... dilemma.
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    Friend: (over txt) describes the dilemma of his crush to me whom he used to like. (We r just friends now.) he is telling me how he is scared of rejection and how he is scared that...
    andrew24601 andrew24601 18-21, M Oct 16

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    I began the first day of school, woke up more excited then ever. I picked out the clothes I'd wear the night before, I could barely sleep, constantly visualizing my friends and...
    looking4chances looking4chances 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My first boyfriend was an Indian and I'm a Filipino. I'm also his first girlfriend. We've met in an online game. He messaged me first. Then, we talked all day and night. Don't...
    MissRMR MissRMR 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). I've always had a very sensitive digestive system, but it became really bad in 2010-2011. It was triggered because I had severe depression...
    spacepixie spacepixie 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    i have a crush who works on another location but we have the same company. lets call her vina. shes the kind of girl who almost got my ideal one. shes simple, smart, caring, sweet...
    KeeyCharming KeeyCharming 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    We have a major terrorist threat building, we have a pretty open border on the south end and extremist who know how to use it. The US, contrary to what some people try to teach is...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    It's undiagnosed, as my other issues have taken precedence. The healthier I become, the more prominent my lesser problems become. And so it has come to this: I need to control my...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Yes I'm still alive, if it wasn't for my bf (now ex) and sister and her bf Doug I would have killed myself last night. I am checking myself in to a mental institution today to see...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    So you may have seen my previous story of sleep paralysis, if not you may want to check it out. But to make a long story short, I am a long term sufferer and have experienced and...
    shellofaboy shellofaboy 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Everybody has been on both sides of bullying. The bully and the victim, everybody, except maybe Gandhi. Throughout my career as a student in middle and high school, what I have...
    francake16 francake16 16-17, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    When I look back into my childhood, I could say that I was a happy-go-lucky child. I was one of those kids who played outside in clutters, with bikes, toys, and imagination. I didn...
    JumpingTomatoes JumpingTomatoes 16-17 16 hrs ago

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    I understand she is my mother and I am supposed to respect her yet I can't respect anyone who treats me the way she does. If we have a disagreement and we try to talk it out she...
    Saphic33 Saphic33 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Within the last year, I have developed an overwhelming urge to experience another man. To date I have been with 3 different guys. I have had oral, given oral, and bottomed. I have...
    dad3on26 dad3on26 51-55, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Have snapchat but don't have many friends on it -.- anyone under 18 want to add me? My snapchat is patrick6cfc . Just want to have a nice chat with some people :)
    patrick6cfc patrick6cfc 16-17, M 10 hrs ago

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    Just recently found out I have PLS. I knew something was wrong and like many of you were looking in other medical directions for answers. I do feel fortunate that somehow (I'm sure...
    PGMasters PGMasters 51-55, F 8 hrs ago

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    I broke down yesterday. Between school, work, and him, I've been under too much stress. I was managing it to an extent, but the break up really pushed me over the edge. In a day I...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have a friend who I will call Marie for privacy's sake. We have known each other for 15 years. I met Marie through her boyfriend at the time who happened to be my billiards...
    AnAutumnWind AnAutumnWind 36-40, M 7 hrs ago

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    Most of the time, it's fine that I don't have friends. But not too long ago, I went through a period where I wished I had some. My last girlfriend had been my best friend, and I...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    Would it make any difference if I said I loved you? Because I do, and no physical distance or social barriers are going to change that. The only thing that matters is what...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have severe anxiety, when I was younger I would hide from everyone around me I wouldn't even eat the front of other people, i wouldn't walk up the street without fear. I have...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Sometimes, chaos comes into life catching you by surprise....The equilibrium you worked so hard to maintain is tipped off-balance....The ball of the pendulum is swayed from one...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Nudity isn't necessarily erotic; Children prove this to us everyday. In American society, however, we have been taught to believe that if someone is nude, we have to think of them...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Happy Friday...I would have been happier if I had a result. I'm just going to sit here and have a little cry. I'm too tired to be able to resist.
    cheekyhannah cheekyhannah 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I will have to wait for the positive people's story endings. One can't change their life until one wants to. Maybe, the love I have is only in my imagination? There were days of...
    redribbonbook redribbonbook 46-50 14 hrs ago

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    I have scars, which came after from some kind of infection. Its facial scars, on both sides of my cheeks. Its over 5 years ago now, and I still struggle with them. The worst part...
    melikebacon melikebacon 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    I used to be bulimic. It all started becasue of a guy I was dating. He thought I should lose a few pounds. I only weighed 125 pounds at the time. I thought I was in love so I...
    karidenley karidenley 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
    Shirousa Shirousa 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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