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I Have a Dilemma

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    Help!! So, I've been dating my boyfriend

    for 7 years, it hasn't been great. He is an alcoholic and a drug addict and is numb to me and everything else in the world. He has put me through hell and I have stood by his side through all of it while I get nothing emotional or physical from him. This relationship has slowly...
    Beth0888 Beth0888 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Eh, what a dilemma I've found myself in.
    SimplyAtheist SimplyAtheist 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well people may think I'm cold , mean , some who don't know me may think I am crap - but loyal, good in bed , supportive , fun , dedicated - a big teddy bear , not cheap , was all...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Whether you are searhing for Family Lawyers or Lawyers, Hotfrog would be the location to drop by. Search the companies under in PERTH, WA or extend your search to close by suburbs...
    Newtonys505 Newtonys505 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I use to value the truth and be proud I held up to telling the truth no matter how hurtful but I have slowly built a web of lies. I am so shameful. I am married to a man and have...
    lilMsOakTree lilMsOakTree 46-50, F Aug 29

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    Need some honest advice... My older sister has been disrespectful to my mother, my older brother and my little sister and her new born baby... Now here is the dilemma it's my son...
    needtofindmyself77 needtofindmyself77 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    My friend wants me to go up there for his birthday (an hour away) But, I have a dilemma... well two actually 1. My boyfriend is super jealous of this friend of mine 2. I can't...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    PART 1 My best friend/"girlfriend" is abusive verbally, emotionally, and sometimes sexually. Everybody only knows about the first two. In a bad mood she yells at me and snubs me...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    LONG story. I just need to tell someone what I'm going through. My MCS was in remission since the 1990's until I moved into a building where the manager had air fresheners...
    SadDrama SadDrama 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    When I met her, I was hurled suddenly into paradise; ineffable joy penetrated my life. She came into my world and lit it up, abruptly terminating the darkness that preceded her...
    PhiliaSophia PhiliaSophia 18-21, M 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I have talked about this on another post...but I AM grateful for what I DO have. I know that sometimes it doesn't seem like it, but I am. My family, my friends (I don't have many...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 hrs ago

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    I recently found out i was exposed to HSV 2 and it was the worse news i have ever gotten. I've always been careful, can count all my bodies on one and this happened to me.. Go...
    HopefulSurviver HopefulSurviver 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I used to bite them as a child, and teenager, and into my early twenties. Then I got a job where, the stuff that I got under my nails, even though they were nibbled back to nothing...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 14 hrs ago

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    Maybe it's my fault that we have problems. Since the beginning of our relationship I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with him. I was always trying to break up with him and I cheated...
    weeniegirl weeniegirl 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Like this: http://www.theonion.com/articles/more-cities-using-textbased-alert-system-to-warn-a,36946/ WASHINGTON—In an effort to provide the general public with critical safety...
    Spanishintuition Spanishintuition 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    Online and in real life and on the advertisements, people are sad about cancer. While I was at first depressed from having breast cancer from simply fenugreek hormones, I soon...
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 9 hrs ago

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    Ok so in my room I have a shelf with the things on it that I don't want anyone to touch. My sister knows that but she's so annoying. She went over to my shelf and started going...
    Fifidog Fifidog 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have commitment phobia, it hurts so much I don't really want to talk about it. Probably the thing I want most in life is a relationship. It hurts so much, everyday pain :( . I'm...
    Xoxogossipgirlx Xoxogossipgirlx 18-21 8 hrs ago

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    Just a Friend by Jamie Grace I saw you in the hallway, With all of your friends, And everything around you moved in slow motion, The girls think I'm crazy, I kinda agree, But it's...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Hey, last night I got a dream... In school, I hang out with one of my close friend.. We literally are close and basically tell each other everything. She has girlfriend. I am...
    awolfgirl9 awolfgirl9 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    So, my boyfriend is in jail and has been since August 3rd. He does not get out until December 2nd. Waiting for him is the hardest thing I have ever done. 15 minute phone calls...
    kayycole kayycole 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I love my brother, but I get so damn frustrated with him at times I want to loose it. At 34 years of age he just has refused to do anything with himself. I realize my mother blames...
    Frozenh2o Frozenh2o 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just moved in with my dad, he is very strict (im an army brat) Ive had some issues with him and his wife and two teachers from my school because I talk too much... when I moved...
    fmbr21 fmbr21 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Bells Palsy day #656. Facial paralysis is still about 90% however I still have numbness on the entire left side of my face. I went the entire summer without experiencing headaches...
    jrosskc jrosskc 46-50 1 hr ago

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    Have you ever met a person that...bear with me...their presence acts and feels like a conduit for all the hurt pain and pressure you felt before... make some sense? I have.
    pappharry pappharry 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    I don't know if I would call it a birthmark but I do have a dimple on my right butt cheek...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm a puppet on a string Tracy Island, time-traveling diamond Could have shaped heartaches That come to find you foreign, some velvet morning Years too late She's a silver...
    AlfieEscandellDerosa AlfieEscandellDerosa 13-15, M 15 hrs ago

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    Just about the only dreams that I used to remember were these precognative dreams. In them I literally experience something 6 months to a year before it happens and they uually...
    sirwilliam86 sirwilliam86 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    Why do we listen to those who have "authority" when they are the same as the rest of us? Why do we let the screw up the world and we do nothing about it?
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Being a death metal bassist and writer and a very sarcastic person can give you a morbid sense of humor but it also helps not take things seriously. And for the benefit, I don't...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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