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I Have a Dilemma

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 118 People

    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    So, I got me a dilemma here guys.

    One of my high school best friends is going to have a debut party this October 25 and I am invited. The problem is she also invited her classmates from 4th year high school. Which means my ex-crush is going to be there. I am hesitant to go to the party knowing he and my...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2014

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Plural realities, so plural

    as constituting complete unity.
    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M Jan 3

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    Well you see here... My dilemma is "awful" ;)

    Not really boo :* it's wonderful So me and my perfect Leslie talk every day all day every night all night, but it's not enough. :P idk how, it just isn't. And I'm constantly missing him even when we are talking :P Love you boo <3
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    My lawn guy had to retire do to illness.

    I placed and add and the only response I got was from a girl just out of HS. I am not sure this is an appropriate business setup. I am I just being silly?
    shyandwild99 shyandwild99 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Aren't I always in a dilemma?

    Go do my homework and avoid getting scolded or have fun and play? (Play as in be antisocial and go on the Internet lol) well, I don't think I'll ever be rid of that dilemma really. 😶
    XxFirepawsxX XxFirepawsxX 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    O my friend, there is no [-] friend.

    (as attributed to Aristotle, tradition says he recited that quite often)
    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Life is a constant oscillation between the

    sharp horns of dilemmas. H. L. Mencken
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    My wife and I have been planning on visiting

    her home town in Colombia for more than 2 years now. She has wanted to go for Christmas, but we didn't have the money or time before. So we are finally going at the end of this week. Her cousin is very excited to see her and had to choose between seeing us when we are in...
    Bill78Z Bill78Z 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    yeyoil yeyoil 26-30, M Jan 26

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Which is true... I had lunch with a dear friend yesterday, who brought up the topic about me continuing my education. I think about it a lot, but time goes by and by so fast. I...
    NaomisJourneyToTheSun NaomisJourneyToTheSun 31-35, F Feb 8

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    because I want so badly to breakup with my boyfriend completely and totally, but at the same time I don't want to hurt his feelings... anymore than I already have......
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    This is just a bit of an update from the past three months since I've last written about what's happened. As predicted my parents were so upset with the fact that I was taking...
    kozmiccbluez kozmiccbluez 22-25, F Feb 3

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    0215015 – Some Random thoughts on friendship There are people you click with, there are people you like, there are people you don’t like, and there are people you can’t...
    jjoe01 jjoe01 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I haven't had it yet, I have been on a waiting list for the Last year and it could take another 1 to 2 years before I have the operation. I was hesitant to register myself but I...
    Mykerinos1 Mykerinos1 46-50, M Feb 22

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    I guess you could argue that I brought it on myself, that it's a choice. Then again, I still don't think there's anything wrong with being an idealist. Back in the day when I was...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My Twitter account is @flytink1 Follow me!!! I just made it and have only 21 followers lol lameeee #stupid? Jk lol
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 22-25, F 57 mins ago

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    Nice is a beautiful place, warm most of the year, and still so very Italian in feel and flavour whilst being French. My best friends, the majority of them, are not Jewish, they are...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    For the first time since I was nine years old (i'm 20 now), I have let a significant amount of eye lashes grow in. They are almost fully grown, just gotta give it another few weeks...
    Ginap94 Ginap94 18-21, F Feb 3

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    I just got back from the hospital 2 weeks ago. Dec 5th my car was totaled. I've been dealing with a lot of issues legal wise, adding this was what broke me. When I got home, I...
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I have to admit, I always have lil mini crushes on people that appeal to me, the crush only gets bigger however If I talk to said person and get to know them, the only thing that...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I want to see pictures of all y'all big beautiful doe eyed women! I love the eyes! Hands down they are my favorite feature on women. Everyone in my family has blue, hazel or grey...
    MrTibbles2014 MrTibbles2014 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    You took took my breath away and I can't have you. You make me feel things I've never felt before and I can't have you. I'm losing sleep over you and I can't have you. I wish...
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Over the past few years I have overcome many life threatening addictions. Only by God's will and mercy am I still here today.
    Bubblyme Bubblyme 18-21, F Feb 3

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    I am a new member. Way too much to share, but currently I'm dealing with her telling me how to improve things I try to share with her that I'm actually proud of... "That's good but...
    happier23 happier23 26-30, F Feb 3

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    I have a brother who has aspergers. It is very challenging as he had an atypical childhood and was unfortunately abused. I love him so much and wish for him to feel in control of...
    zen001 zen001 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    N=R*×fp×ne×fl×fi×fc×L Drake equation, formulated in 1961. Estimates the number of alien civilizations we could detect. Recent discoveries of numerous planets in the milky way...
    Kassandra85 Kassandra85 26-30, F Feb 3

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