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I Have a Dilemma

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    I Don't Know How To Be Happy Without Being Selfish.

    I was born to be a writer and a mother. I feel with all that is in me that that is my sole purpose. I've discovered who am and what I truly want out of life and  I am aware that I don't have to have a high income to be happy. The point isn't to obtain the biggest house, or...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    I Don'T Know Where To Go

    I really need help on this problem. It will be quite long winded, but I would appreciate your help. I recently dropped out of university. I hated my course, didn't make any friends and felt really isolated and lonely. I hated living in the city and felt really out of my depth...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    I was in the ER at the VA with my husband.

    He had a problem with his foot. He needs to stay off of it for at least 4 days. He is worried about his job. He thinks he will lose it if absent too long. It is a small business run by his friend. He tried to call his so called friend to let him know what is going on. The dimwit...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Do I Make First Move

    Dillema this is a good one.  There is this guy (my dance partner) he is really sweet and lovely. But the signals i'm getting from him i'm not sure what to make of them.  He has never asked for my number or out on a date.  After class we stand and chat in the car...
    sabby17 sabby17 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Stay Or Go

    i was a victim of child abuse ...the first beating i remember was around the age of 4 or five..this went on untill i could stand up for myself at the age of sixteen or so..i will spare you the details...the problem is the after effects that have come back years later..ive...
    starlitz starlitz 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Re: A Dilemma In My Mind.

    I'd very much like to apologise to anyone who had the misfortune to read my previous drivel. After giving myself a good talking to, I realise that my feelings are just that - mine. As for the lady in question, it's long overdue for her to have some fun and live life like she...
    markp1973 markp1973 36-40, M Nov 20, 2013

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    My Problem! (losing a Male Friend That I Now Think I Love)...advice Needed!!

    Okay, so i have a problem. Well...its more likely that i have to face up to the situation and realise that its all unfixable! damn! I hate that sometimes you have no control over the outcome of things. Basically last year i met and fell in love with my first love. We met, dated...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    The Dilemma Posed By A Dog

    A few years ago, my mother died and my dad was very robust and bounced back from it. Their kids (of which I am one) had left home a decade prior, and one of the things that helped him get on with it was their dog, which he had to get up to walk each day. The dog is very game, and...
    beedge beedge 31-35 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    My emotional issues..

    . I've been in a pretty serious relationship for almost 3 years now. We've never actually had any kinds of fights, things are kind of good between us... Few weeks ago my problem occurred. Well, actually few months ago i was visiting a doctor and at that time we were talking about...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Lunch

    I'm in a dilemma right now... The girls in my class set up this whole thing to have lunch at one of the girl´s house to have lunch. I´ve never been asked this before! So why the heck should I say no? Maybe it´s fun! But when I said yes, trying to keep my voice down I thought...
    CanIBeForgotten CanIBeForgotten 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    The Interesting Case Of The Disemodied Mummy's Hand.

    Hi all... I have been an independent woman for quite a number of years, and although I have a modest income I have saved a little bit for treats for myself. About 5 months back I started dating a man who, it turned out, was on benefit. I have since lived pretty much within my...
    speshalkay speshalkay 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Well Sorta

    LOL... Okay so all the boys are out and I know where they hide their goodies. I'm still mad that they ate the entire container of my "I can't believe it's not butter" and I so must me PMS'ing because when I close my eyes I see mini chocolates floating down. I go...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    What To Do?

    One friend said to the other, “What is a dilemma, actually?” He replied, “Well, there's nothing better than an example to illustrate that. Imagine that you are naked laying in a big bed with a beautiful naked young woman on one side  and a naked gay man on the other. Who...
    Gyummy Gyummy 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Seeking Happiness

    I have a decision to make, and not much time in which to make it. I am currently working in a job I hate, in a city I don't feel safe in, doing unsociable hours that is messing up my whole system (sleeping, eating, social life etc). Tomorrow, I have a telephone interview for...
    KCfromKC KCfromKC 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    My Dom Surprised Me

    I am a submissive-in-training and very new to the life.  No, my Dom/Master does not know me under this name and I am not looking for a new one.  HE is sufficient!We have been together physically once.  It was a mutually satisfying experience.  As I feared/hoped I am a...
    windsweep windsweep 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Here's The Deal...

    You know how, when you interact with people, you have the ones that, you care about how you make an impression on them, and then you have other people, who you could display your worst habits in front of, and you wouldn't care less about what they thought. Now.... my problem is...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    A Dilemma In My Mind

    I've known a wonderful lady for around 7 years now. We are very good friends but now I have a problem. When I first met her, she was married, which was fine. I met her husband and we also got along well. However, now they are splitting up and this is where my dilemma comes in...
    markp1973 markp1973 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Moving Out

    Hey, So iv'e decided to go online and see what responses i will get. I am currently renting a 3 bedroom apartment with another flatmate. My old flatmate had to leave, We were all supposed to leave, however at the last minute my current flatmate decides he wants to stay. So as a...
    kske kske 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I feel the need to post this to ensure other EP members know a little about me before judgement is passed. I am not here to harass, bully, take charge or spam/troll. I am merely...
    Ifilayhere Ifilayhere 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 31

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    There is a solution to this dilemma. Build a new family! Most would call this just making friends, but I'm suggesting an organization to help. Twelve Step groups can be a...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Whether you are searhing for Family Lawyers or Lawyers, Hotfrog would be the location to drop by. Search the companies under in PERTH, WA or extend your search to close by suburbs...
    Newtonys505 Newtonys505 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    "What do I deserve?" - Have you, reader, ever asked yourself the question? How about just asking yourself, 'How much would I be worth to the world? 45 grand a year? How about...
    LysanderFremont LysanderFremont 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am a 46 yr young female who was diagnosed initially with ET during a random blood test - platelets 1mill ++ then with MF a few weeks later through a bone marrow biopsy. I took...
    jamieh3 jamieh3 46-50, F Jul 22

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    I want to have a boy first. They can be a big brother and protect their sisters.
    MakaylaCorlisa MakaylaCorlisa 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Help! Haha I have a long haired German shepherd male. His name is Grizzly and he's a little over a year old. But he has really bad separation anxiety. He is attached at the hip to...
    Bop2012 Bop2012 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Almost a year ago I was raped. At the time I had moved out of my Mom's house and started living with my at the time boyfriend. At the hospital when I was able to see everyone and...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    This is a follow up for my story "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" My name is grace. I am now 16 years old and I just got my correction surgery last week! I had a muscle...
    marinagrace marinagrace 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Hello my names Julia and I am 19 years old. I was diagnosed with hsv 1 last week. A week or two prior to my out break and diagnosis my boyfriend brought up that he had a "heat rash...
    jujubear47 jujubear47 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I get really angry so easily... I'd be laughing and someone would say something I didn't like and I'll get so angry! If I debate something with someone, I get so mad i have to...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I have been writing on this site a lot lately and tonight he asks who the hell do you keep texting?! I told him I'm just responding to posts which is partly true. But now I feel...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 22

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    Like today i do t know why i have so much on my mind that i cant sleep even though i am tired i cant
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    I'm starting my Senior Year soon. I still don't know where I'm going to attend college. I have not even done my SAT. I'm so scared about the future. I'm not even sure what I want...
    Gabs96 Gabs96 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    hi everyone i have a crew on gta online (Xbox) and i would like to have more members , so if anybody wants to join plz leave a message
    jojo12380 jojo12380 18-21, M Jul 22

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    This is a group to help people with sadness in their lives, if you wanna become part of this group guys, message heartless2, the creator of this group, for info. We don't judge at...
    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I want to be a actress so I am looking up schools to get more experience but I have no luck so yeah but I act all the time I will so a couple lines off of my favorite shows and...
    LonleyWolf99 LonleyWolf99 13-15, F Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    Yeah and thats killing me inside. I have many friends online but not even a single one in personal. I just always feel jealous when i see a large group of guys going out on...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Let's see if I can write my random without getting in trouble tonight. I woke and ., you know .. ;-) .., but that that did not really solve my issue, My mind stayed where it had no...
    Sunshine0615 Sunshine0615 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I have to say, never thought an animal would actually feel like companion but he does. I encourage anyone feeling down or alone to get a pet. Hard work to maintain one but well...
    jag08 jag08 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Sadly though I have like no friends at all right now. :(
    EFairy EFairy 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 22

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    Every night since I was 5 i believe. I remember more nightmares than nice random dreams. Lots of flying when i was younger until recently last month. Lots of shadows and places I...
    xHI5x xHI5x 22-25 3 Responses Jul 22

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