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I Have a Drunk For a Father

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    I Think Ive Forgiven Him, Not Sure

    when i think back at all the things he put my family through i feel like killing him, but when i see him now i dont, having an alcoholic parent can mess you up big time in ways you cant explain just for people reading this if you have any worries about this subject please message...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2008

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    My Dad Drinks a Lot.

    He drinks a lot. I don't like it. But he's never done anything too crazy. He can be a really cruel and mean person when he's drunk. I feel sorry for my mum. She tells me everyday "Make sure you don't marry a drinker"
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    Drunk

    He doesn't always make the best decision. but he makes his own bed no matter what.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Mar 22, 2010

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    I Am Ashamed For Him...

    As long as I can remember my father has had drunkin stupiers! Now being 24 yrs old, I look back and think of all the abuse. He never hit my little sister, but I was always in the middle of my parents arguments. I still remember the feeling of hearing my dads truck pull in the...
    nichole05 nichole05 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    My Father: Idk What Else To Say

    So my dad has been an alcoholic as long as i can remember. Along with other drug use he was the perfect model of what not to be. He started young with mostly beer and gradually graduated to hard liqueur. When i was young he was the cool dad, the life of the party if you will...
    justanotherface22 justanotherface22 26-30, F Dec 12, 2012

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    Not Surprised

    So as usual not very surprised by his behavior but this time he has gone to far and I am very hurt. We were looking at old pics with his girlfriend And he shows her two pics of my brothers And tells her see I can make some good looking kids well atleast my boys are handsome...
    justanotherface22 justanotherface22 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    I Had a Drunk For a Father

    He died a few years back. really did crazy and abusive things. I am not glad that he died nor was I sad,I just wished he would have gotten better. That is easy to say now,
    kwinith kwinith 36-40 2 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    I Have A Drunk As A Father.

    I know I'm still young but Im hopeing that some people who have lived or are living with the same thing can help me get through this, and understand. I just need people who understand what it's like. My father is really stepfather but he's been around since I was 9 months old and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    Hello I may new guy. like in my topic I have a bad father Very bad guy. he was a better more than now but now he was a drunken and the moron. He was blame everyone in family is...
    apicha3893 apicha3893 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a step-father four years ago, and I don't like my step-father. First, I thought I don't like him because he's the one that my mom had affaire with and he's the one that...
    Fearlessheart13 Fearlessheart13 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    You shattered my heart into tiny pieces, but yet I still have feelings for you... I don't get it.
    Thatbrokengirl1 Thatbrokengirl1 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I feel like crying, screaming, swearing, punching, thrashing, sprinting to the other side of the world and back again, I feel hot, I feel desperate.... I feel like I don't know...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    He's been in my life for 12 years. He has been more of a father to me then my own dad is. My own dad thought being a great father was just handing my brother & I money every time...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    My father has not been around much throughout my entire life. I am currently 24 years old and almost turning 25 in less then a week. He over criticizes me and compares me to my...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    This picture is me at a bar with an Elvis guy and doll. 3 days after my fathers death...
    xxemopikachuxx xxemopikachuxx 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Yeah, I hate to say it. My father is ate up with alcohol, drugs, women, and crime. That's why my mother don't have anything to do with him and it's sad but true my mother and I had...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    She texts me every single time she's drunk. And it's so ******* hard to pretend that I don't care. I miss her so ******* much, and I love her to death.
    Amidala97 Amidala97 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my friends. There is enough room in my heart for every single person who wants to come on in and join the party.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    He broke my heart the worst possible way yet here I am, still loving him with everything I have.
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have both!!! :D celestron 90gt computerised refract telescope and a "fender stratocoaster" remake under the name cruiser
    michaelnutty25 michaelnutty25 16-17, M Apr 6

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    Since joining this site, I have noticed what I feel are a lot of relationship faux pas' that are obvious, especially when it comes to how a lot of younger people are relating to...
    Silenthawk Silenthawk 46-50, M Apr 11

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    What would happen if there was a powerful god, who only advocated for dudes!
    youguyssuck69 youguyssuck69 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    You are instantly attractive to me if you have full limb tattoos and lots of ear and facial piercings, especially gauges. Mmm… I plan on getting my back, neck, arm and thighs...
    GrimAndInUtterDismay GrimAndInUtterDismay 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    When people do not know something they like to fill the gaps. It gets to the point where you no longer know what to believe because different people that are saying different...
    thespectacularnow thespectacularnow 22-25, M Mar 24

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    I never thought I could love someone as much I loved him. He have me 6 months of happiness, we argued and fought. But he Actually loved me. He was my first, and I was his. We told...
    sewellerica07 sewellerica07 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I was with the same woman for 22 years we have three kids together and I am divorced as of last week she has had three affairs in our 21 year marriage I still love her I am deeply...
    ichael70 ichael70 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    You see, I fell in love with a girl.. We've been having on and off fights for 3 years since we've met. It's mostly because I'm selfish and all I ever cared for was myself. Now we...
    IzzyTheGreat IzzyTheGreat 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I have been in love with a guy for such a long time and we had an on and off relationship which was long distance. Every time we broke up it hurt me and he would constantly tell me...
    DomoNagron DomoNagron 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    35 years ago, I fell in love for the first time. I had no idea he wouldn't love me back. He was, for after all the least popular of the many boys who crushed on me at that time. He...
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme 41-45, F Mar 31

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    I sometimes think that karma has come to bite me in the ***! Why? Maybe because i took feelings for granted but i always tried not to hurt anyone. Yet im left hurting now...
    essjay26 essjay26 26-30, F Apr 7

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    I know it's over...I do. I know that whatever we had, that connection, is now gone. I know that it will never be like that again. I'm trying not to contact you for silly reasons...
    Arcavala Arcavala 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    As much as I try not to have it happens my ex-crush keeps appearing in my dreams. The latest one is weird because I was shaving his chin...I won't get that close to him again. Even...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F a week ago

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    I know with some people I worked with in my life might think I have autism. What I do know and what I have documented that I have a language based learning disability. The talk...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Let me first say that I'm not here to judge. I use to be the other women, so I know exactly how you all are feeling. I just thought that maybe I would share my experience. Maybe...
    tamstaub tamstaub 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Love my dog, He is weird yet amazing to me, He is who I tell everything, as I know he will keep my secret
    lifecansuckmydick lifecansuckmydick 13-15, F Mar 31

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    I worked at "Dollywood" one summer soo yeah dolly parton was my boss lol
    Wizrazz09 Wizrazz09 26-30, M Apr 4

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    "You can love someone and not want to spend time with them" I love her so much, but I know she is better of without me, and I am without her.
    Amidala97 Amidala97 16-17, F Apr 7

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    No words needed...
    GoldStreak GoldStreak 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I think I secretly still do but I don't want to admit it to myself and I just mask it but trying to hate him.
    tamingthefox tamingthefox 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Why aren't 11 and 12 called oneteen and twoteen? Why are all the the teens called backwards from the rest of the 10 number sets that follow the teens. If teens were like the rest...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    i am feeling broken.. just can anybody help me out on concentrating on my life & not think what my ex is doing? i am always thinking what she is doing, she might be messging that...
    raoudupi raoudupi 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mother suddenly died two years ago at age 57 and my father started dating again shortly after. It was understandably an incredibly horrific time for my father and it was...
    SisyphusGirl SisyphusGirl 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    It's easy to point at my mother as the "bad guy" out of my parents. After all, she was the one who was constantly yelling, cussing at us, saying she hated us and wanted to leave us...
    mindofmaster mindofmaster 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    The way I came to have two men vying to be Daddy isn't complicated although it is backwards. Most people have a biological father first then a stepfather after remarriage. My...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 2

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    My Long Overdue Escape From An Undeserving ***** Donor- "Querida nina Araceli!" I was almost 12 and had been sent to answer the door by my stepmother. A tallish Italian looking...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 a week ago

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    If you've ever seen the movie Mermaids, then you can see pretty much the type of mother I had growing up. She was a bit promiscuous and neither I nor my two brothers have the same...
    canelabunz canelabunz 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am a 15 year old Jewish, Orthodox girl. I was born 3 months early in Manchester, England. From the time i was a baby i have had a very hard life. I lived in fear every day of my...
    phobia1998 phobia1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I think all to often men feel it's hard to be involved with their kids after the family falls apart. I just put my three to bed and my baby is sleeping next to me now as I type...
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Last year I was told my father of 25yrs wasn't my biological father! I've since done DNA to confirm and my parents some family and friends have known my whole life! This stirred up...
    Flower88 Flower88 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I grew up with my grandparents. My mother had a relationship with my father. He was abusive time to time, he had come issues with his life, I have heard that he robbed some close...
    melodie9 melodie9 18-21, F Mar 28

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