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I Have a Drunk For a Father

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    My Father: Idk What Else To Say

    So my dad has been an alcoholic as long as i can remember. Along with other drug use he was the perfect model of what not to be. He started young with mostly beer and gradually graduated to hard liqueur. When i was young he was the cool dad, the life of the party if you will...
    justanotherface22 justanotherface22 26-30, F Dec 12, 2012

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    I Have A Drunk As A Father.

    I know I'm still young but Im hopeing that some people who have lived or are living with the same thing can help me get through this, and understand. I just need people who understand what it's like. My father is really stepfather but he's been around since I was 9 months old and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    Not Surprised

    So as usual not very surprised by his behavior but this time he has gone to far and I am very hurt. We were looking at old pics with his girlfriend And he shows her two pics of my brothers And tells her see I can make some good looking kids well atleast my boys are handsome...
    justanotherface22 justanotherface22 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    I Had a Drunk For a Father

    He died a few years back. really did crazy and abusive things. I am not glad that he died nor was I sad,I just wished he would have gotten better. That is easy to say now,
    kwinith kwinith 36-40 2 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    I Think Ive Forgiven Him, Not Sure

    when i think back at all the things he put my family through i feel like killing him, but when i see him now i dont, having an alcoholic parent can mess you up big time in ways you cant explain just for people reading this if you have any worries about this subject please message...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2008

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    My Dad Drinks a Lot.

    He drinks a lot. I don't like it. But he's never done anything too crazy. He can be a really cruel and mean person when he's drunk. I feel sorry for my mum. She tells me everyday "Make sure you don't marry a drinker"
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    I Am Ashamed For Him...

    As long as I can remember my father has had drunkin stupiers! Now being 24 yrs old, I look back and think of all the abuse. He never hit my little sister, but I was always in the middle of my parents arguments. I still remember the feeling of hearing my dads truck pull in the...
    nichole05 nichole05 22-25, F Dec 16, 2008

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    Drunk

    He doesn't always make the best decision. but he makes his own bed no matter what.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Mar 22, 2010

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    I love you trav more than you will ever know
    pelapink pelapink 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I do. My heart goes out to every single person who is in an abusive relationship. I urge you to get help and get out of your relationship. You deserve to be free from that, and to...
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    I miss the old us but **** it. 😔
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    It's such a simple yet intimate gesture. Little things like this mean a lot to me in a relationship. Whether it's a friendship or a romance.
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    Well, of course I still love her... I always will.
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    I have respect for fathers who devote their lives to third kids❤️
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