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I Have a Dysfunctional Family

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    I've dealt with my dad's crap

    for years. Ignored me, called me a stupid *****, we never really talked. He seemed to put in a lot of effort into making me feel bad. It got to the point that I didn't know if it was just me. He threatened to batter me a lot. He hardly ever did. But then there was my brother...
    Oaza Oaza 13-15, F Feb 15

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    Can't believe they wouldn't support me

    when grandpa was dying and they won't support me now. Even after he is gone. What can one expect from those who would accuse someone of stealing even after they stood by and watched someone they live so dearly take their last breaths? So disappointed but resolute to wash my...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    Sprry I won't be on here

    for a long time I'm not leaving plz understand its family crap
    Botdf1shutup Botdf1shutup 16-17, F Jan 30

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    Why does my family have to fight they fight all

    the damn time. I wish I really wish that they'd stop for today at least for Christmas. Can't they do that? Can't we sit together have a meal and be a happy family for once? Is it something so so simple that they can't do it?
    AngelWithASecret2 AngelWithASecret2 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Something about the cold winter makes me feel

    more vulnerable and more alone. I called my mom today to ask her for a favor and of course she guilt tripped me and then I retorted back condescending remarks about the role that she still has yet to fulfill. As I mocked her parenting abilities I was waiting for her to...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F Nov 15, 2014

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    Whoever says they don't have a dysfunctional

    family is just lying to themselves.
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 27, 2014

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    Anti-family

    I've had depression and low self esteem for most of my life. Family members capitalized on this during a hard time in my life and as I trusted them they worked to erode my remaining self-esteem. Criticisms, jabs at my skills, lots of gossip and rumor spreading, and actual...
    xp4td xp4td 26-30 3 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I know no one is perfect- there's really no

    such thing as perfect, but I hate that my family is so dysfunctional. My father is an angry drunk that uses coke, never was really there for us growing up. He treated us like ****, constantly putting us down and beating us. I blame him for me not knowing how to love and be...
    blissfulreverie blissfulreverie 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    You Are Not Alone, Take My Advice And Just Walk Away.

    My mother is the definition of pure evil. She let me know at an early age that she hated me. She beat me mercilessly for no reason, has knocked teeth out of my mouth when I was 12, refusing to replace it. Denied me basic necessities, that heaven that I have an aunt who has...
    Amnestic Amnestic 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    My dad was very abusive of my mother.

    .. and he beat her in front of me when I was very young and yelled at me when I cried. So when I was 7 years old, he abused me too until I was 14 and he committed suicide. I was not there to see it. My mother now is alcoholic and drug addict. She disowned me for no reason because...
    tristful tristful 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    My dad is an alcoholic.

    My mom has a boyfriend who is an ******* and won't leave him. She's also very greedy. She also cheated on my dad with him along with a few other men. My brother is greedy and spoiled he won't help mom out financially, even though that's what my sister and him agreed to. My...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17

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    My dad is very disrespectful towards my mom

    and he believes he's superior to her because he had a college education and not my mom. He always starts arguments about the most ridiculous things and he yells and disrespects my mom and he doesnt allow her to say anything. I've asked my mom why don't they divorce, but they...
    danaehrmantraut danaehrmantraut 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    I am getting married soon

    because it is my only "ticket out" to live away from my family. In my culture girls can't live by their own , except few. So I planned for this, a 1-3 years marriage until i become financially stable and then move out after getting a divorce. Do any of you have slimier...
    keiyee keiyee 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's just what it is.

    A family you can never bind together cuz of pride, hate, envy and so much things going on. Just like that.
    DarkSoul07 DarkSoul07 22-25, F Apr 11, 2014

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    I am in the midst of writing a book about my

    dysfunctional family and I have a strong feeling it could be a best seller simply because of all that it encompasses. It's like an entire season of Jerry Springer which is a comical way to look at it but it's also painfully trivializing to say those two things are analogous. I...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Weird thing has been happening.

    I believe when I leave my laundry in the bathroom, my stepson is ************ on my pants! I try to get my laundry out of there every day, but sometimes I'm in too much of hurry. What should I do!!!! Gross!! He's also been caught previously hoarding clothing from me and my...
    ikissedafrog ikissedafrog 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    My "old" family, which consisted of my real

    mother, father and myself was highly dysfunctional. Nothing but unhappiness and hate. They would beat each other and when they felt like it.. Me too. Not only did they abuse each other and me, but they abused drugs and alcohol. My "new" family which consists of my real father...
    Owymonster Owymonster 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I'm Scared of My Mother

    That sounds lame, maybe, but my mother can be scary. She has extreme mood swings, and even to this day I don't know how to deal with her. She will want to go out for mother daughter time, when maybe the night before she called me full of hate, anger, resentment, etc. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    I Wounder why I was born into my family,

    can they never get together without me having to break up fights at 4am every day? can we never just have a nice family holiday together, if that's too much then don't come I am sick and tired of all this ****. thank you dear family for ruining Christmas for the 5th year in a...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    My mom and I were homeless.

    Mom was basically dying and I had dropped out of high school. And I was at my aunt's "house." My aunt told her boyfriend that I was a "gift" for him. So my mom called my dad and begged him to let me stay with him so that I could finish high school and not be homeless and...
    Acebo Acebo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    I am 25 years old and have recently moved back

    home to live with my parents for a few months. I always knew my family was extremely dysfunctional growing up, but I always thought that was just part of the 'teenage angst' experience. Now that I am an adult, it is increasingly apparent that the problem was not all in my head...
    Thristic Thristic 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    My sister and I have been close pretty much all

    our lives with the exception of a few times we had differences and didn't talk to each other. I was responsible for her and my brother from a young age due to my mothers mental incapacity. I set the bar very high be expected maybe the impossible from both of them. All of form...
    FeelingCrazy FeelingCrazy 46-50 Feb 9

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    InfiniteTearDrops InfiniteTearDrops 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Yes, my family is dysfunctional.

    Now what? Where do I go from here. I find myself asking these things because I'm trying to fix myself. Sitting around looking at how I'm broken, and even the reasons why is not helping me. I went to a therapist. He made me pay him even though all he did was make me tell him...
    krrimarte krrimarte 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Here is the thing....

    i realy dont know whats going on with my family but anytime i have an encounter with them its never for the better, it has come to a point that the mere thought of spending time with them gives me the most depressing feeling. my dad currently has this mindset that my siblings and...
    Emmanuelo Emmanuelo 26-30, M Feb 24

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    If there's one thing I'm always jealous about

    other people is them having a happy family.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Here it goes ... I never got the love I really

    needed from my mom or dad. Yes they provided food on the table clothes on my back a shelter . But my home doesn't feel home I have a 10 year old brother who my mom had later in life . I'm the oldest sibling I have a middle brother age 18 . My parents have a horrible marriage...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    I hate how i still live with them.

    I'm scared i always am that ill be 30 and still stuck here with them..Ive written about my fam issues before here and there lol..so maybe i wont be so detailed with this,but i was drawn to write here.i wish i did have a stable fam..A nice emotionally stable mother a dad with a...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Highly dysfunctional.

    I can't stand it sometimes. It's so hard living here most of the time. Everyone is so nosey. No one knows how to mind their business. No one knows how to leave me alone, ever. Everyone has something to say about what I do, what I say, what I think, what I wear, who I talk to...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    An Isolated Childhood

    Please don't fall asleep, this is the short version. It is a story that I hope explains why you should never hold someone you love to tightly for you may cause permanent irreparable damage. Okay, deep sigh, here is my story. I am the youngest of 3 siblings and thinking about it...
    angelgenie angelgenie 26-30 22 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    My both of my parents are deceased.

    They had a horrible marriage. My father married my mother because she was pretty and my mother married my father because he had a nice job. They had a bitter divorce and the whole kid thing was sorta confusing. They both passed away in the last 18 months ---I knew more...
    robertsnj robertsnj 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    My brother never had a father figure

    even though our father lives in the same house with us. The weird thing is, even though he's physically there.... mentally he isn't. My father lives in his own fantasy world where he is seeking attention from his own father who really doesn't care for him. So while my brother...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    'Growing up in narcissistic (strict) parents'

    I was born as ‘THE ONLY CHILD’ in the city of Bangkok, Thailand in under well-educated, warm, but imperfect family. (My parents of ethnic in both THAI AYUDHAYA vs. SUKHOTHAI CHINESE) They both were family-oriented people, but the truth was they become ‘narcissistic family...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 6, 2014

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    Hello. I am a 23 year old male,

    and this is my story that I want people to know. It all began back in my old home. My parents were great and wonderful parents to the eyes of the outside world. For example, church, school, friends, public settings. Everybody loved them and everybody wished to be like my...
    familymaynotbeforever91 familymaynotbeforever91 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 25

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    My das is fighting with my step mom again.

    ... He Left the house 5 years ago, And they keep fighting... I try to not lisent to them, but is hard....
    Mysorrow Mysorrow 18-21, M Mar 18

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    I Have A Dysfunctional Family

    So here's my story. I grew up in a very emotionally abusive home. My dad who was a former alcoholic had rage and anger issues that would constantly spill out onto us, he would blame us for everything under the sun all the time. I just remembered being scared that I was going to...
    z4e71 z4e71 31-35, F Nov 19, 2013

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    My mother suffers from mental health issues

    and spends all day playing video games. She can't work anymore because she damaged her arm too badly and it'll take almost a year to fully heal. But even when she was working, she would work 3-12 in the morning and wouldn't get back until around 1. Then she would play video...
    whisperedthing whisperedthing 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    So I have an older brother.

    He is six years my senior. I've always been more mature and let's say "well off" than him. We lost our mother Very young and have always been close as a result. Yesterday out of nowhere he tells me he's been having sex dreams about me and can't stop thinking about it. Any advice...
    HopefullRomantic HopefullRomantic 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    TellySR TellySR 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2014

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    GlitzandGlamber GlitzandGlamber 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    If I Have An Evil Step Mother, Where'S My Prince?

    Two years ago, I moved out from my house. Not by choice but because my step mom kicked me out and what hurts most is that my dad proceeded to allow her to do this. I lived with my mom for about a month afterward but that didn't last long before we started fighting as well. I now...
    bug14 bug14 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    My mother is illogical

    and irrational. She is beyond nosy and loves to eavesdrop on everyone else's private conversations. She is an authoritarian type who enjoys criticizing and belittling others, and constantly jumps to conclusions that have absolutely no basis in reality. For her, the only...
    justsharing justsharing 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    I Am Tired Of The Hell That My Family Has Bestowed On Me!!!

    Growing up I had no idea what a normal family was like. I wasn't even aware that mine was abnormal as we were sheltered and I didn't have a frame of reference.  All I knew was that I was unhappy and that it seemed no one got along.  I also knew that my parents argued, nagged...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 7 Responses May 27, 2013

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    This past August, my dad had major surgery,

    was really sick and is lucky to be alive. I posted awhile ago that I heard this rumor ::: that I'm upset and mad that he didn't die"":::: My husband confronted my father about the nasty rumor. Because I'm so hurt that I want nothing to do with them any more... *please keep...
    mudflap73 mudflap73 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I Am Not...

    I am not your punching bag, your inferior, or your animal. I am not made of stone, I have feelings and I don't forget. Things could have been so much more, If you only would have let it. You were my role model, my friend, and my everything. Well you had to go and **** that up...
    Canadian45 Canadian45 22-25 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    I'm slightly worried,

    yesterday I got out of the shower without a towel because there wasn't one in the bathroom. So I had to walk across the landing nude, but my sister came out of her room and saw me. She just stood there without saying anything. I think she was shocked. But since it happened she...