I Have A Friend Determined To Suffer Pain

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    They Are Determined To Go The Most Painful Route

    I am kind of at a loss for what to do. I have a friend who has always told me how important it is to love yourself. Making good decisions was key to that, and so is avoiding situations that will do me harm.He has warned me about people he thought might not be straight forward...
    34Einnor 34Einnor
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    1 Response Feb 25, 2010

    They Were Called Girls

    I used to have a lot more friends determined to suffer pain.  They were called girls.  The ones who were wrecking their bodys by eating only sugar and by purging I can count on one hand, but the number who just had to have a boyfriend, even if he was dangerously crazy...
    TheSquirrel TheSquirrel
    51-55, M
    Mar 10, 2010

    It's Like Have My Own Personal Eeyore

    I have a friend who is really good at what he does.  He went on vacation last week and was back today.  It is like having my own personal Eeyore, complete with little black rain cloud.  I think he takes life a bit too seriously.  Is this a midwestern thing...
    TheSquirrel TheSquirrel
    51-55, M
    Mar 1, 2010

    A New Chapter

    That friend, the one who prompted me to start this group, is still at it.  Rather than bore you with all the sorry details of the last couple of years, I will give you the short and simple update and my guess as to why she is that way.I think she grew up this way.  The anti...
    TheSquirrel TheSquirrel
    51-55, M
    Mar 24, 2012
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