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I Have a Friend That Wants Me

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    I met her 3 years ago, and she has wanted me from almost the very beginning. I'm not attracted to her at all, and I have since stopped speaking to her because despite my declining her, she wouldn't let it go. It's always so hard when you have to reject someone.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    Sorta?

    I won't name the friend I have in mind. But I'm sure she wants me around. Hopefully.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Mar 20, 2013

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    Love Or Lust

    I moved to a different school parish and made tons of new friend the following year we all moved to Jr. high and mixxed with diff. schools and hung out with new people. My then best friend fell for a guy but the guy was cruching on me i had a lil b.f at the time and was happy. i...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89 18-21, F Oct 9, 2008

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    And It Is Awkward...

    ... because I do not want him. At all. He is a wonderful friend, yes. But I've tried to make it clear over the past three years that I am not interested in anything beyond a close friendship. He says it's alright. He claims he's completely over me. But there are times I'll hear...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    My Bff and Xbf

    We became friends in the first grde, we went out when we were younger for 8 months and then broke up, then went out again, and again, and again. But he is really clingy and anytime I do anything with another guy he freaks out and gets all deppressed. And the worst part is, hes my...
    AmiceTheBard AmiceTheBard 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2008

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    Okay, so probably a lot of people have some problems with friends. but maybe you can give me advice if you take the time out and read all this because it's gonna be a lot but i don...
    sarahellie9088 sarahellie9088 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Growing up, I was surrounded by a steady group of friends that loved each other and loved me for who I was. I never felt excluded or judged, or that I had to act as someone I wasn...
    snowflake11114 snowflake11114 22-25, F Aug 15

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    So I hooked up with a guy I met at a Korean spa. We texted about what we were looking for. We both said friends with benefits. We got together and it was good. Yesterday i took a...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have had many women I have dated and especially two that became friends with benefits. I was more serious on my end with these two and was contemplating initiating the "L" &"M...
    xmannos xmannos 36-40, M Aug 29

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    Working on being friends. I grew up lonely and bullied. Recently I have some new FWB. I really enjoy the benefits but I want to work on the friends part and learn to be a good...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 19

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    I have 0 real friends and i don't have any problem with having no friends, cause i have internet :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 15

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    Hehehehehe, I have 4 right now! One is super close and treats me like a girlfriend for all intents and purposes. He knows about the others, and is fine. We just don't talk about...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I have had the same fwb for two years now. We grew up together, our mothers were bestfriends, now we see each other every time we both come in from college. I love what we are, but...
    smalltowngirl12 smalltowngirl12 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Another experience i have had was fingering a girl in a movie theatre! It was so much fun!
    smallguy18 smallguy18 16-17, M Sep 3

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    This topic really interests me. I have had a couple but unfortunately they have fallen for me. At the moment I have a potential two, it's difficult to find someone who does all...
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 13 Responses Aug 16

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    I really don't. I don't get called or texted, for so long that it now feels awkward otherwise.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Everyone hates me. People would rather tell me to just die than say nothing
    tonightsthenight tonightsthenight 18-21, F Aug 15

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    Went out with Pete (My FWB) and his two roommates. grabbed pizza. Ryan commented on my nail polish again.
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 20

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've lived by this my whole live (close friends over many acquaintances), but I'm starting to wonder if I'd be happier with many fake friends? I mean, don't they seem happier? I've...
    Tory102 Tory102 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Hi everyone, This is the first time I write about my feelings, but I found so many people in the same situation. I'm 28 years old, been married for less than a year and a half...
    soul1986 soul1986 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My friend wants me to go up there for his birthday (an hour away) But, I have a dilemma... well two actually 1. My boyfriend is super jealous of this friend of mine 2. I can't...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    made me feel so alone everyday. I gave up my faith and belief. To save him from death and from going to jail because he is innocent. I pushed myself to witchcraft to save him. Even...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Aug 18

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    My friend wants to open a fried chicken club at school xD I'm definitely joining....
    OutOfTheOrdinary OutOfTheOrdinary 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay, I haven’t written much lately but I have to air my views about how I see our headlines in the world these days. I sometimes feel we are in the end times of humanity. Every...
    HikingGuy HikingGuy 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Best friends are people you know you don’t need to talk to every single day. You don’t even need to talk to each other for weeks, but when you do, it’s like you never stopped...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm incredibly blessed with a great life: Happily married. Amazing kid. A job I love (most days.) People see me everyday and see the mask I put on to face the world. I smile and...
    lachrymose3 lachrymose3 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have friends, but I want new friends! Friends who are up for anything, but still be responsible at the same time I want friends who like experiencing new stuff. Not friends who...
    emilytello emilytello 16-17, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    I feel so bad for my husband and my family that I have left. I have been a little on edge lately and have had a rough time in my marriage. This all makes me think about what if I...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I first met my best friend/soul sis in first grade. We studied together in nursery and KG but I would usually stay at home so I didn't really have friends. I have a lot of cousins...
    qwer45 qwer45 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have friends but none of them are dear and near to me.They are more like college colleagues who study with me.It really sucks not having any close friends. I am bad at making...
    rockfordseagull rockfordseagull 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I just want to make friends I don't want girlfriend or boyfriend I'm good single and I love my all friends they're so cool it cool to have friends :* if your good be my friend
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm so so so blessed. Like I never thought that I would be so lucky to have the people that I have. I have never had any good friends. I did think I had a best friend but when she...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Finding good friends is extremely hard! Sure, I have "friends" and people I know I can rely on and I am forever grateful to them. I just wish I could have more and hopefully make...
    Mang0Tree Mang0Tree 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I just wanna have friends here in EP. Just A good friend but not to entertain pervert people no offense meant please. I like many friends, the more the merrier. lol I hope I...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I had friends I didn't feel like I was alone. But I felt like they were never with me or on my side cuz they were always chilling with other people. Now that I have no friends...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I want to make new friends online. I have friends in my real life, but I know their stories, where they came from, and have learned all about them. I want to make new friends that...
    nursingstudentxo nursingstudentxo 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 18

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    Well I have friends who are on EP... Not EP friends who are near... XD....
    caithmac caithmac 16-17, M Aug 21

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    When I was younger, friends took advantage of things I had. Wether it was my snacks, or my intelligence. Now, I have friends, but... I don't feel that we are close. That I can tell...
    DashedStars DashedStars 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I want to make friends but I am very shy I used to have friends but now they don't even talk to me any of them
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    The past couple of days has been an emotional roller coaster ride. Not quite in a bad sense, but it has left me feeling really confused. Met a girl and it seems like we are getting...
    freestyler605 freestyler605 22-25, M Aug 31

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    I live 2 hours from any of my friends and I am a complete hermit. I don't even know HOW to have friends lately. I'm married with dogs. I am afraid of the phone. I'm socially...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    I dont really have that many friends. When I do have friends its mostly girls. I would like more straight or gay friends my age or near it.
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M Sep 5

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    I'm a sophomore in college and I'm about a week in so far. Honestly, it's feeling a lot like last year with me being alone at the worst times (going out for food and going to...
    ryanrabs ryanrabs 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I used to be the person who can turn the tables around, to be the sun in the party, and to turn anyone into a friend. I used to enjoy everything "extrovert" but one day I don't...
    anon152 anon152 13-15, F Sep 6

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