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I Have a Friend With Benefits

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 152 People

    So There Is This Lady At Work...

    ive been in my current city (actually small town) for almost 12 years and have been at my current factory job for almost as long. there is a woman i have worked with all this time and we never had much to say to each other. i always thought she was attractive but she was very...
    erikreilly erikreilly
    Apr 3, 2012

    I Guess It Was A Friends With Benefits

    I met a younger man about 9 months ago.  He is 5 years younger.  We became friends and casually met for a walk or drink, a few times and then about 4 months later ended up sleeping together. I just came out of a 14 year marriage and probably was not quite recovered...
    Okeedokey Okeedokey
    3 Responses Jan 15, 2010

    The Way to Go

    I've had a friend with benefits (off and on) for several years now; same guy. I enjoy dating and being single and some times am involved romantically with a particular person. My friend and I don't hook up when either of us are involved with someone but if we aren't, its...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2008

    It's Not Love..but It's Good

    I have little use for the past, but feel it may be necessary for you to understand how I got to this point. You see I was in a very very long loveless and sexless marriage and I became clinically depressed as a result. I finally worked up the courage to leave, and was helped by a...
    FunBiUs FunBiUs
    Sep 30, 2011
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    I Am a Friend With Benefits

    Its not always easy, but its worth every second of it. He's the best lover I've ever had.   Is anyone else here a friend with benefits? I'd be happy to chat about it.
    Bluegrass Bluegrass
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Jul 26, 2008

    Is This All Wrong?!

    I have a friend named Sean. He's my friend with benefits and we've been benefitting from each other for about 4 months now. Read my blog for more infor on our relationship. And things obviously are complicated between us. Doe he want more, does he not, do I? So many...
    Danyush Danyush
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2009

    Met her today at lunch hour

    since I haven't seen her in a few weeks. She looked stunning as we talked to catch up and my mind couldn't get off the fact that I wanted her so bad. We enjoy each other's company and conversation but there is something about my lover that sends me into a wanton rage and have...
    Erotic2 Erotic2
    Feb 19, 2014

    Secret Friend

    Along the trail of life, I found myself in a sexless marriage, Many years together but without a baby carriage. Free advice abounds…“Get out”, Most would say, but I would stay, During working hours, searching for something day after day. Unsure of what to do, feeling...
    readyforit readyforit
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2011

    Yes I have a fwb, we met on Facebook in one of

    those secret group's. It started off with sxting then phone sex skyping together before finally meeting in secluded places and getting in my car to enjoy our self's. That was over 12 month ago and we still meet when ever we can some times it might be a month before we see each...
    tomisgod tomisgod
    46-50, M
    Jun 28, 2015

    Not sure what I'm actually in.

    My ex and father of my (12 yr old son ) has remarried. We caught up approx 14 months ago and in that time we have been to dinner a few times the two of us and have acted on things. Kisses and cuddles, caressing etc..but never actually s*x or any kind. We sexted each other...
    boggley76 boggley76
    36-40, F
    Feb 6, 2016

    I have had a friend with benefits

    for about almost a year now. His name is Liam and he's 20, I'm 19. But when we first got together I was 18 and he was 19. Liam is the guy I lost my virginity to and I ain't ashamed of it. Most of my friends lost theirs at a drinking party or a guy that pretended to like them to...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411
    22-25, F
    Jul 8, 2014

    Feeling Guilty

    i have 2 fwb, or f-buddies, but really down to 1 now. one is my ex from college, the other is a guy that i've had a lot of fun with. i've been going through a dry spell recently. the ex lives almost 100 miles away, is on vacation anyway, and before going on vacation was spending...
    swimmingtrish swimmingtrish
    26-30, F
    Jul 4, 2009

    Does My Friend Want More Benefits?

    A few months ago, I was introduced to this guy by a mutual friend. We connected on FaceBook and I really needed some friend in the area. I had just moved there. I didn;t even think we would actually meet. But then we did. The night before we firt met, we spent the...
    Danyush Danyush
    Jun 8, 2009

    Having a Friend With Benefits...and More?

    I've had a friend with benefits for about 6 months now.  We are ex-bf/gf and have known each other since high school.  The sex is great, of course...otherwise what's the point of continuing the FWB thing, right?  My best friend's husband swears my FWB likes me...
    tinythesp tinythesp
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

    Not Sure What to Think

    I've been having what seems like an FWB "relationship" with one of my best friends for over a year now. He is much more than just a sex partner to me--he really is my best friend.  My own emotions and his are becoming problematic, though. He tells me that he...
    sexfiend88 sexfiend88
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 22, 2009

    All Signs Pointed To A Bad Ending

    we worked together and became good friends. we hung out, talked..normal friend stuff. one night, we were at a going-away party for a mutual friend and coworker. i bought her a drink and she quickly kissed me. i said that wasn't much of a kiss, so she did it again. i was so...
    fordogzsake fordogzsake
    36-40, F
    Dec 4, 2011

    I have a friend with benefits

    for 4 months now. It's amazing! We've known each other for a real long time now. 7 years now. I feel so relaxed to share my sexuality with him. Each time we see each other the sex gets better and better. It's strange because I've been taught to believe that you should only share...
    trianglesx2 trianglesx2
    22-25, F
    Oct 1, 2014

    Actually It Is Three...

    ...Three of my Best Friend's are guys and we have had the "Benefits" thing going for a while now. It started off with my friend Troy. He is really into computers and well kind of a geek. We talk about everything, including my boyfriends, sex, etc. He confessed he was a...
    brandiSE brandiSE
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

    Not sure what I'm actually in.

    My ex and father of my (12 yr old son ) has remarried. We caught up approx 14 months ago and in that time we have been to dinner a few times the two of us and have acted on things. Kisses and cuddles, caressing etc..but never actually s*x or any kind. We sexted each other...
    boggley76 boggley76
    36-40, F
    Feb 6, 2016

    So yesterday bella and mindie went back to

    school. Bella was all excited. She got out of bed right away and got dress for school. I think mindie was a bit nervous. She didn't get out of bed as quick. But I got them ready for school and I got ready for work. I drove them to school and dropped them off. I also had Samantha...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    I'm Pretty Sure All I'll Ever Be To Him Is A Friend With Benefits..

    I knew from the start that he wasn't looking for a relationship because he was going to be moving interstate in the coming months but I had hoped that he may have changed his mind once we got to know each other a bit... I met him at a rodeo and spent the night with him (no sex...
    LibranGirl LibranGirl
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2011

    I Have a Friend With Benefits

    I have a friend with benefits and have for a year and a half. The problem here is that we have feelings for each other but we can't seem to be on the same page at the same time. When I want more he doesn't and when he wants more I do too but I can't make it happen.
    leettah leettah
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 20, 2008


    I'm in a FWB relationship with my housemate. I don't want a relationship with him for various reasons and he doesn't want one with anyone. The problem is its not just sex. He's on of my closest friends and I am emotionally attached to him because of that. I liked him and cared...
    Jypzyrose Jypzyrose
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    I became single about 3 months ago.

    Out of a 4yr abusive relationship. I have this male friend that I have been friends with for a long time. He has always taken an affectionate interest in me. I asked him one time what interest he has in me and he said that he likes me as a friend but he is interested in sleeping...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014
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