I Have a Gay Brother

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    My mother called me this morning, all franticking and told me to come over right away, but my husband was already gone for work so he coulnt escort me over there. She was crying and hyperventillating and could hardly talk. She ended up sending my brother Linden over to walk me...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    My brother is 10 years older

    than me. Growing up my brother was always my hero. It seemed there was/is nothing he couldn't do. One day mom told me my brother was gay. I was so young I had no clue what it was. So I just said ok and went played. Then when I was about 14 my father came into my room sat down...
    Bedmonster Bedmonster
    70+, M
    Jul 22, 2014

    My Brother...My Best Friend

    My older brother is gay. He's known he's gay since he was 15, so 18 years now. He is my best friend and has been through thick and thin with me. He was my "gay of honor" at my second wedding. Him and his partner of seven years will be my newborn daughter's godparents. Love them...
    ProudWoman3 ProudWoman3
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

    The Best Brother Ever

    I love my step-brother so much, we have been through really hard times together, and I guess all along I kind of knew. There were signs, whenever we talked about dating he would change the subject, he had a feminine air about him, he just liked playing with dolls and wearing...
    Awesomemyself Awesomemyself
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2013

    He's a ******* drunk!

    When I came out to my family, he probably wants me to ask HIK for help... It like no! "You are drunk all the time and when I ever talk to you, you forget like in an hour to what we were talking abou!! You really think I'm goin to ask you for help with this..? NO." My dad says...
    DG952 DG952
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014

    The Most Courageous Person I Know.

    I live in a white, christian, conservative, homophobic town in the middle of nowhere. My dad came over from England before either I or my brother were born, and had very strong left wing, atheist views, which I share, and as such we were probably the least popular...
    Nerdbuster Nerdbuster
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2009

    I Have a Gay Brother

    My brother is 6 years younger than me and we've become really close sine he got into his teenage years.  About 4 years ago my mother found some of his private poetry about a guy he liked and forced my brother right out of the closet.  My parents are both very...
    OUsoonergirl80 OUsoonergirl80
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 14, 2008

    They Give A Gal Hope!

    My brother texted me a few years ago when I was in college to tell me that he was gay and that he'd been dating a guy we went to school with - he is only 2 years younger than me. I was not surprised, and now a few years later, I get to hang out with the two of them and they are...
    RubyLemon RubyLemon
    1 Response Feb 15, 2013

    I think I have "cured" my brother with his

    heartache! I feel so proud and happy for myself and him :)))
    CatLikeCub CatLikeCub
    16-17, F
    Apr 24, 2014

    My 12 year old brother just told me today,

    I think I broke his skull with my hug. He told me his best who he hangs out a lot with is too
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 26, 2015

    My Brother Is Gay And He Appears Miserable

    I am not really comfortable with the fact that my brother is gay. However, I do love him and am supportive of him as a person. He seemed to be on the fence about his sexual preference for years; going back and forth about being with men and women. He only has the discussions with...
    Srhana Srhana
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2013


    My brother's name is Arien but I call him James and I love him with all my heart. He's been my support through all these years and I was one of the first he came out to because he said he trusted me. I met his future husband, Joseph, and I just think he is adorable...
    XantaraUrielArda XantaraUrielArda
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    I Love My Brother

    I really do love my brother, which is why I am so embarrassed to admit that I am not yet entirely okay with him being gay. We were both raised in such a homophobic, strict baptist environment. He has not yet even "come out of the closet" publicly, so I am happy that he feels...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 26, 2010

    Yeah, I Always Thought So...

    I have read some of the stories on here, some feelings are the same some aren't. I have a twin brother, growing up we have always been so close, he was my best friend, we always talked about our families and how our kids would play together etc. However about 2 months ago he...
    confusedtwin confusedtwin
    2 Responses May 8, 2011

    Our Little Gay Circle

    I have a gay brother could say it run's in the jeans, my brother is 28 he's been openly gay ever since he was 15, it's like having another sister really but i love him to bits, I think it's great having a gay brother i can talk to him about anything and trust him, even if he...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 1, 2012

    Gay Brother

    i was 16 my broter 14 we played around we had sex after the years i am now 30 he is 28 we both are married with kids but secretly have sex together. is it wrong
    149sfs 149sfs
    5 Responses Sep 6, 2012

    I Always Knew, I Was Just Waiting For Him To "confirm"

    On New Year's  my younger brother "came out" to myself and three other family members via text message. I actually thought it was a joke until I saw a stat on facebook saying that he felt so much better. Like my title says, I always knew, I was just waiting on my brother to...
    selflesslyME selflesslyME
    31-35, F
    Jan 11, 2012

    so my mom and I got into a fight,

    because family friends asked me yesterday "Now who is coming to visit with your brother?" and i told them my brother's boyfriend and he is out and proud......... and my mother yelled at me telling me "HOW COULD YOU DO THAT, see that is why we cannot tell you anything, you tell...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    Apr 18, 2014
    Snake56 Snake56
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    so tomorrow my gay brother

    and his boyfriend is coming to visit us, my father is freaking out.............and asking my mother how can she allow them to sleep in the same bed under her ROOF..............WHICH IS STUPID when they have slept together for like ever...........and my father apparently told my...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2014

    My Step-brother

    My gay brother is technically my step-brother, but we grew up together even before our parents were together. He's known me literally since I was ten months old. He came out when we were younger, but I can't remember exactly when. He sent my mom an e-mail and asked her not to...
    emilytx92 emilytx92
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2013

    My Younger Brother Is Gay...... So Am I

    so... in January i found out my younger brother is gay too, at first i thought it would be awkward, since it is not the norm for both brothers to be gay. but its actually been good t be honest, lol we have such a good time with each other, and i really think its brought us closer...
    FagGuy21 FagGuy21
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 6, 2013

    Love Him Like a Brother

    I have a younger brother who's gay and I'm ok with it. It's his life, his choice. When he first admitted to me he was gay we were at a country club soiree talking in my car in the parking lot where I needed to get a fix . He said " Did you know I'm gay?" to which...
    zillaron zillaron
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2009


    I actually don't really know him that well. A couple adopted him from my mom when he was a baby, things weren't safe for him. He seems happy where he's at. He's a gymnast, a really good one, and he's got a lot of friends. I see his pictures, they're all really fun looking. I'm...
    SpaceDetective SpaceDetective
    18-21, F
    Sep 30, 2013

    How Do I Get Him To Come Out

    i need help so my little brother is gay but he hasn't come out and he denies it. i know he's gay, i found conversations of him and some guys on his phone. he has apps on his phone where he chats with other guys and once i let him borrow my laptop and when i found there was gay...
    omg242 omg242
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2012

    I Am The Only One Who Knows.

    Five years ago my brother told me he was gay. Hesaid, he had a secret, but I was the only one he trusted to tell, his big sister. He refuses to tell our parents, or anyone else in the family. Recently he started working as a plumbers apprentice. On the job sites he is...
    chelseaba chelseaba
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2012

    he came out after him

    and his first boyfriend broke up - ever since coming out, he's been so different. he's become completely extroverted, and loves people, because he can finally be himself. I'm proud of him, he's a great role model, and he will always be my best friend. he's off to college next...
    jesscole jesscole
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    I found out a couple of months ago

    that my brother is gay. He doesn't know that I know, but I'm wondering should I tell him that I know. I have also been wanting to tell our mother what I know because I don't know how she will take it when he comes out, and I think if she knows beforehand then I can try to help...
    ASoUtherngemini ASoUtherngemini
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    I Have a Gay Brother

    And he is fabulous I love him to bits
    NiRiada NiRiada
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2008

    Although I've known for years

    that my brother was gay he is just starting to come out to my family. I am all for gay rights and am so inspired that my brother is finally comfortable with who is to start his journey on telling everyone he loves who he truly is. It is going to be a long hard journey for my...
    alyssat1297 alyssat1297
    18-21, F
    Oct 17, 2014

    maybe if my brother was bi-sexual would i have

    understood where my father is coming from, fearing that my brother and his friend is going to molest my little sister if they come near her.............. but my brother has sworn off women for his entire life...........he apparently tried it with a girl, and he was completely...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2014

    My Danny! Dan is my twin brother

    and absolutely my best friend. He told me when we were fifteen that he was gay. Growing up with very conservative and republican parents he worried how they would take him coming out. He finally told them he was gay on our 21st birthday. Boy what a party that was...they were so...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014
    iluvmyduckie iluvmyduckie
    26-30, F
    May 3, 2014

    so it is becoming a reality,

    that my brother is finally coming home with a guy, my dad is totally freaking out, because it was fine while he lived miles away, with all his boyfriends, while my father gave him money and a roof over his head, to do with whatever OUT OF MY DADDY'S SIGHT, but now that HE IS...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I Have A Brother - 3 Actually

    I have three brothers and one is gay.  He is my younger brother who was adopted out at birth and we didnt get to meet him until about 10 years ago.  At the time he was married with 2 children and was a great father as I know the kids love him very much. Not long...
    lynonline lynonline
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2010


    My younger brother is gay and I am too. We didn't experience coming out because they (parents and relatives) knew our sexuality when we were kids. I was the tomboy who played his brother's cars, played with the boys in our little neighborhood and even fight with them while my...
    monotonouslife monotonouslife
    22-25, F
    Jul 3, 2013


    Last year, in May of my junior year of high school, my twin brother told me and my siblings that he was gay. I had not even contemplated the notion, and it was a complete shock. Sure, looking back, there were times when I probably should have noticed something was off. But...
    qwerty159753 qwerty159753
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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