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I Have a Gay Father

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    My Son

    my son is gay. and i love him so much it does not matter who he is or what he is my son. now his stepfather loves him as much as i do . but his real dad wont talk to him or anything . so i tell my son as long as  god and me and your granny and your step dad loves you thats...
    yagure yagure 51-55 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    Just Found Out, So Confused

    I have no idea what to do. My head is totally ****** up right now.I don't care that my father is gay. But there is so much that doesn't make sense right now.As background, I didn't know my father until this year. My mother was from another country and didn't contact him when she...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I found out my father was gay

    when I was 18 at his funeral. I really never had a relationship with him and I am saddened by the emptiness I feel because he felt he had to hide his sexuality from me. I understand why he did, but I also wish he would have respected me enough to know I would have accepted him...
    blandie blandie 41-45, F Feb 6

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    Daddy I Miss You

    When I was 10 my father bought a computer, he loved to go into AOL chatrooms, and send pictures back and fourth among other people. My father would go into my log in and use my account, so no one would know it was him. I remember going online after school, to play games and go on...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    In the Closet For 35 Years

    My father was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and taught that homosexuality was wrong.  When I found out that he was gay, he told me that he had felt this since he was a young boy.  He married my mother because he was trying to be normal and do what he was told was the...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Daddy

    Daddy was in the closet for almost 18 years of marriage to my mother. I was about 13 when he came out. Hit me like a rock. I was completely sheltered. Honestly thought gay meant happy. Took me a while to get over the shock. My mom didn't help, telling me he was going to burn in...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    My Daddy Is Gay, And I Love Him

    My parents met in high school, and dated on and off until their twenties. After just a few years, they had me, an accidental birth. They had planned to finish college before having children, but both claim that it was "A happy accident". In three years time, my dad had both...
    wolflover721 wolflover721 13-15, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Closets Are For Clothes

    Looking back we should have known..we all laugh about it now But in all seriousness it's sad that he couldn't be himself for over 45 yrs. Like when my Dad would say...I know what a guy wants..... so No you can't go to that all night party .. I know he really did know...
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    He left us right after my younger sister was born, and my younger sister was born when I wasn't even a year old yet. Which means that I grew up without a father, without knowing a...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F Aug 22

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    My name is CJ, short for Christopher John. I'm a 15 year old football player from Alabama. I have a girlfriend. We've done everything together, except copulation. I really want to...
    cjfrombama cjfrombama 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So One of my best friends seems and act totally gay like he has a feminine side and I feel like he's gay, I don't know but I'm pretty sure he is, we don't really go to the 'are you...
    Keyyuhn Keyyuhn 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    One of my best friends is gay, he told me some time ago. I am completely accepting in every way of this, and it changes nothing between me and him, the only thing that made me sad...
    Axelerator3000 Axelerator3000 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I have some Gay friends as well :) I love their sense of humour . But then I'm Gay myself LOL :) but we all keep it a secret and have a good laugh . We know what we are and why we...
    interlink2 interlink2 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I have a few gay friend, and to be completely honest, I think that's pretty cool. They are some of the funniest awesomest people I've ever met and I'm glad that I can call them my...
    musicislife15 musicislife15 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I have two moms. I was made in a lab with a ***** donor, and I also have younger triplet siblings, who were made with the same ***** donor. As a child, I didn't know how different...
    livyroro livyroro 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Anyone down in Brighton or Sussex (England) that wanna meet up and ****?
    xperience2 xperience2 13-15, M Aug 17

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    Live in Sussex (west and east(England) an im 13
    xperience2 xperience2 13-15, M Aug 19

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    I can't stop thinking about sucking ****. I going to dream about it again tonight!!
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My friend got a woman pregnant after dating for about a year. She was so nice and I was happy for him. When she got pregnant he was looking forward to raising the baby, but she...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know how people can be so ignorant. I really don't get it. If its because of religion, what is the point of calling it a sin? I told my friend who called homosexuality an...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok iv had a friend who thought was gay for about a year now. So recently he told me he had a gay friend and i got all excited and tryed to find this gay friend when I finally do...
    stricker1997 stricker1997 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Im not gay but i would love to have gay friends to talk too.
    jazzyphay2 jazzyphay2 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Does anyone else find those people (usually girls) that want to have gay friends just to say they have gay friends kinda annoying? I don't mean to be rude but I can't help but...
    Disqualify Disqualify 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    To be honest I think we should have gay marriages because they're jut like us just more awesome
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I want to have gay boyfriends :)
    MaggieBlack MaggieBlack 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I am lucky to have a father who knows how to be a father. He worked all his life to provide for us. He paid for our education, food and needs. My father made everything to make...
    pinklipstick pinklipstick 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    A few years ago my dad celebrated his 80th birthday. It was a very moving experience and it has made a lasting memory, a cherished memory. Beyond meeting relatives, that I havent...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    I literally am reading all these stories and my heart aches. I have been in two mental hospitals and been batteling depression for six years. I have cutt every place there is skin...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm a 14 year old gay Mormon, living in the moral prison that is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I'm stuck in a repressive religion that demonizes homosexuals. My...
    blondynamo blondynamo 13-15, M 8 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm a 14 year old gay Mormon, living in the moral prison that is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I'm stuck in a repressive religion that demonizes homosexuals. My...
    blondynamo blondynamo 13-15, M 7 Responses Sep 7

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    I have a friend, who I will call Melissa (not her real name) who has more than her share of challenges in life. I have known her most of my life as we attended the same grade...
    ginger1979 ginger1979 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The phone convocation that has just changed my life! I decided I couldn't put up with hiding anymore so I called my parents from my boarding house. *ring ring* Housekeeper...
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    I dislike how "gay" has become an adjective. "Gay marriage, gay rights, gay couple".Soon I'll be driving my gay car, with my gay friends going to watch a gay movie with a gay cast...
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    There are different people in the world, but I especially like gay people. I'll explain why. Gay people are versatile, masculine or feminine. Some look so good that we would never...
    DaQueenB92 DaQueenB92 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I am gay myself but I hate a lot of the gay people around me Gay people have the positive stereotype of being really nice people......NOT ALWAYS! Most gay people in my area are...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Yesterday, I was in Cleveland, Ohio. To my disgust, there were gay flags everywhere and gay pride crap that made me want to vomit. (Lecture time) People just don't get it, do...
    PopcornLadder PopcornLadder 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    people. gay is not an adjective, it's the definition of a man who is attracted to the same gender. okay, it used to be an adjective, but surely people aren't saying "this is so...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Soooo I'm 17,I'm a male, and I'm gay. I have one problem though . I am Madly in love with my "straight" male bestfriend . I met him last year Around November/Thanksgiving and from...
    smdwamfc69 smdwamfc69 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    About 7 months ago I was watching a movie ( nothing bad but it was gay based ) and my dad walked in on me, and basically asked what it was (in the mean dad voice). So I told him I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I'm a gay 13 year old gay Still in the closet Need advice about coming out I'm also looking for a gay 13-20 year old gay who loves me for who I am No matter what Loves my...
    jgarcia75 jgarcia75 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I've known my now-boyfriend for a year and a half, and we've been seriously dating for five months now. He is a wonderful, super talented guy who is crazy in love with me and...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Figuring out I was gay answered a lot of questions that were inside of me, but they also brought with them great pains. Trust me I love being gay but when I hear the people I love...
    fredlez2306 fredlez2306 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I just need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 3 years. It's been a crazy *** ride. A lot of hurdles to overcome, between abuse on my part...
    kavlynn99 kavlynn99 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    Every time I see him I can't stop smiling. He's the firrst guy I feel this way about and I'm more into girls so that's rare for me I mean why does he have to be gay? he told me he...
    lela201465 lela201465 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, I might as well say it. My name is Cody I'm 13, 14 in December, I live just outside Huston in Texas and I'm gay, not bi, trans, demisexual or anything like that I'm just...
    xcodyxx xcodyxx 13-15, M 11 Responses Aug 21

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    Hi everyone. My name is Drew. I'm 14. I start high school this fall in Northern Virginia, the same high school as Jay, the top half of everyone's favorite couple, Jay and Corey. I...
    alliwantismyjay alliwantismyjay 13-15, M 12 Responses Aug 22

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    When a gay person says "you're gay, you just won't accept it yet" to a bi person, it's just as bad as a straight person saying "you're straight, you're just going through a phase...
    Wynnieskye Wynnieskye 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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