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I Have a Gay Father

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    I found out my father was gay

    when I was 18 at his funeral. I really never had a relationship with him and I am saddened by the emptiness I feel because he felt he had to hide his sexuality from me. I understand why he did, but I also wish he would have respected me enough to know I would have accepted him...
    blandie blandie 41-45, F Feb 6, 2014

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    Just Found Out, So Confused

    I have no idea what to do. My head is totally ****** up right now.I don't care that my father is gay. But there is so much that doesn't make sense right now.As background, I didn't know my father until this year. My mother was from another country and didn't contact him when she...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Daddy

    Daddy was in the closet for almost 18 years of marriage to my mother. I was about 13 when he came out. Hit me like a rock. I was completely sheltered. Honestly thought gay meant happy. Took me a while to get over the shock. My mom didn't help, telling me he was going to burn in...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    Closets Are For Clothes

    Looking back we should have known..we all laugh about it now But in all seriousness it's sad that he couldn't be himself for over 45 yrs. Like when my Dad would say...I know what a guy wants..... so No you can't go to that all night party .. I know he really did know...
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    In the Closet For 35 Years

    My father was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and taught that homosexuality was wrong.  When I found out that he was gay, he told me that he had felt this since he was a young boy.  He married my mother because he was trying to be normal and do what he was told was the...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Daddy I Miss You

    When I was 10 my father bought a computer, he loved to go into AOL chatrooms, and send pictures back and fourth among other people. My father would go into my log in and use my account, so no one would know it was him. I remember going online after school, to play games and go on...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    My Son

    my son is gay. and i love him so much it does not matter who he is or what he is my son. now his stepfather loves him as much as i do . but his real dad wont talk to him or anything . so i tell my son as long as  god and me and your granny and your step dad loves you thats...
    yagure yagure 51-55 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    My Daddy Is Gay, And I Love Him

    My parents met in high school, and dated on and off until their twenties. After just a few years, they had me, an accidental birth. They had planned to finish college before having children, but both claim that it was "A happy accident". In three years time, my dad had both...
    wolflover721 wolflover721 13-15, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Idk if I'm gay really I just want to experiment so any one that cool with that should message me
    mattgotstackss mattgotstackss 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I LOVE BEING OUTED AND EXPOSED FOR THE TOTALLY OUT GAY SISSY I AM TODAY!So check out the CRAIGSLIST post below and " OUT" ME PLEASE !http://myrtlebeach.craigslist.org/m4m...
    sissyboy843 sissyboy843 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    I lost my virginity at 21. I have contracted Herpes & HPV (HumanPapillomaVirus) at my current age of 23. I feel like i've ruined my life before it has even started from being...
    AFriend1nDeed AFriend1nDeed 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone, I'm Heiry (pronounced Haiti) like the country but spelled differently. I know some ppl have a difficult time understanding my name and that's okay! But anyway..so I...
    heirytoni heirytoni 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    Yesterday on FB I made my profile picture a picture of me kissing my niece on the cheek, and it had the celebrate pride thing over it... Just an hour ago, my step sister freaked...
    Vysyn Vysyn 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Ok some if y probably saw my earlier rent if you didn't heres the link EP Link Well heres the side if your an atheist homophobe In the beginning there was the big bang which...
    trentwitherspoon01 trentwitherspoon01 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm gay with a father that is openly anti-gay. It's makes me feel so miserable.
    jacobtanner1995 jacobtanner1995 18-21, M 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I know my purpose is to write my story, to express how I survived the hell I survived, to help motivate people, I know I am meant b to write books, and speak on TED about the power...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    For all u religious people who don't support gays not saying everyone just around 98.99999999999999999% of u homophobes think of it like this 1. God created adam and eve the only...
    trentwitherspoon01 trentwitherspoon01 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    So I'm a 15 years old boy? and I live in a non religious family, and I'm still in the closet. The issue about coming out isn't that religion coincides with my sexuality but rather...
    ymmas777 ymmas777 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    with my school mates, there was not much sleeping going on!!
    usedpantieslove usedpantieslove 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It took me a long time and lots of heartache before I was able to admit to myself that I was gay, but looking back the signs were there from the start, I just didn't see or refused...
    Sarah2910 Sarah2910 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just want someone to talk to about stuff... Not just gay stuff but like the world and a friend who understands what it's like to be gay. All my friends make off-color jokes (and...
    jasonthesnowflake jasonthesnowflake 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have a gay friend and he is one of my closest friends and that's ok to me once he happy.😎😎 his boyfriend is older than him but that's cuz I met him.
    mrduncombe mrduncombe 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Married 15 years to my wife and we have 2 kids. I feel so lost. I don't want to give up my marriage as she is my best friend, but I can't help the attraction to other guys and...
    Brenjaminbarker Brenjaminbarker 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been confused and gay for quite some time now. I'm now 17; I started attaining a sexual attraction for males during the 6th grade (around 12-13 years old?). Although my...
    Wep777 Wep777 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Surprisingly I've dated so many gay guys and I'm a girl. Like they would date me and then once we broke up or stopped "talking" they would come out of the closet and be like "I'm...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    I'm tired of people saying they were born gay or straight. The very concept of being gay or straight is completely societal. If anybody has pets like cats, they all do stuff to...
    EllaBella9999 EllaBella9999 18-21, F Jul 24

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    enough of it! i'm so sick of over hearing my parents saying stuff like "gays are gross" and "gays aren't people" if they simply knew i supported gays, they would make me live with...
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I do, and one of them is in the closet, he has a girlfriend. I'm not proud of it but I can't do anything about it. I feel bad for his girlfriend though
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I don't want I be gay. However, my feelings insist on me being gay. A gay **** pop-up appeared one time when I was watching a show on an apparently unprotected website, and it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23

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    Just one... And he's partially gay...
    wazzup97 wazzup97 18-21, F Jul 22

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F Jul 21

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    One thing i love is when a guy finishes in my a**hole
    sexymanx sexymanx 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I see all of these people posting about how they hate their fathers. Honestly, I could never comprehend what its like to even have a father. Most of my life has been without that...
    Mightyzaxor Mightyzaxor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    any gay man from califoria i want to have gay sex for the 1st day anyone want to ne my 1st
    lucky81813 lucky81813 46-50, M Jul 21

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    Im trying to hide my depression for it a year now, because people keep telling me "gays go to hell" and also those homophobic stuff. It makes me want to stand up, but it also makes...
    azurevanilla azurevanilla 13-15 Jul 19

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    I'm confused... Lol. I'm a female, and I'll be 15 in a few weeks. I've never fallen in love nor do I want to. However, I'm not asexual because I do get aroused from things. I don't...
    SparkleSwirl SparkleSwirl 18-21, F Jul 19

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    I'm confused... Lol. I'm a female, and I'll be 15 in a few weeks. I've never fallen in love nor do I want to. However, I'm not asexual because I do get aroused from things. I don't...
    SparkleSwirl SparkleSwirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    This is somewhat comforting knowing that there are so many other women out there that are having the same problems with their father in laws. I have been in my relationship for 10...
    Katiemiss Katiemiss 26-30, F Jul 19

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    I support gay people. A lot of people I know are gay and I don't have anything against gays. Gay people should be treated like anybody else, if you think about they really are not...
    kelseypalmer08 kelseypalmer08 13-15, F Jul 19

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    I have thought I was gay for a while but due to friends around me I never acted on it or let them know. When I was in college I had a relationship with my room mate and when he...
    Kamryn83 Kamryn83 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I teach my 4 year old to love others. Yes, I have gay friends and family members. And my child treats them like she does everyone else. My kid doesn't see gay, straight, black or...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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