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I Have a Gay Father

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    My Father Is Gay

    My parents split up when I was 11 and I never understood why, they never argued. After they split my dad went to hospital several times for what I was told an allergy. About a year later just before my 12th birthday I asked my father why him and my mam split up, he replied I...
    CarysAnn CarysAnn 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Closets Are For Clothes

    Looking back we should have known..we all laugh about it now But in all seriousness it's sad that he couldn't be himself for over 45 yrs. Like when my Dad would say...I know what a guy wants..... so No you can't go to that all night party .. I know he really did know...
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    Just Found Out, So Confused

    I have no idea what to do. My head is totally ****** up right now.I don't care that my father is gay. But there is so much that doesn't make sense right now.As background, I didn't know my father until this year. My mother was from another country and didn't contact him when she...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    In the Closet For 35 Years

    My father was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and taught that homosexuality was wrong.  When I found out that he was gay, he told me that he had felt this since he was a young boy.  He married my mother because he was trying to be normal and do what he was told was the...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    My Daddy Is Gay, And I Love Him

    My parents met in high school, and dated on and off until their twenties. After just a few years, they had me, an accidental birth. They had planned to finish college before having children, but both claim that it was "A happy accident". In three years time, my dad had both...
    wolflover721 wolflover721 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    My Son

    my son is gay. and i love him so much it does not matter who he is or what he is my son. now his stepfather loves him as much as i do . but his real dad wont talk to him or anything . so i tell my son as long as  god and me and your granny and your step dad loves you thats...
    yagure yagure 51-55 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    Daddy I Miss You

    When I was 10 my father bought a computer, he loved to go into AOL chatrooms, and send pictures back and fourth among other people. My father would go into my log in and use my account, so no one would know it was him. I remember going online after school, to play games and go on...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Daddy

    Daddy was in the closet for almost 18 years of marriage to my mother. I was about 13 when he came out. Hit me like a rock. I was completely sheltered. Honestly thought gay meant happy. Took me a while to get over the shock. My mom didn't help, telling me he was going to burn in...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    I found out my father was gay

    when I was 18 at his funeral. I really never had a relationship with him and I am saddened by the emptiness I feel because he felt he had to hide his sexuality from me. I understand why he did, but I also wish he would have respected me enough to know I would have accepted him...
    blandie blandie 41-45, F Feb 6

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    Related Experiences

    gay/bi people are so fun and cute and nice some people think gay/bi people is weird or watever but i like to be friends with them they're sooo funny . so yeah i'd love to have gay...
    questioner16 questioner16 13-15, F Apr 6

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    I used to have a gay friend and enjoyed confiding in him and would support him, then i found out he was telling people my business so the friendship ended Other times If Ive...
    Paulchanning Paulchanning 41-45, M Apr 5

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    I have to be the only gay person without a 2014 Gaydar. Mine is still stuck on the 2002 version. I can't pick up hot guys as quickly as everyone else with an outdated Gaydar!
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 26

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    It's fun and entertaining! :) i have a friend who's lesbian and i've known her for 7 years and two little cute freshmen that are gay also. First and foremost, the freshman have...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F Mar 27

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    My instincts are usually correct, but wow, I have definitely been very surprised in certain instances! I try to steer clear of stereotypes and generalizations; they feed the hate...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My father left one week after I was born, he called once when I was in third grade but it was meant for my uncle about money. My grandparents hated him and always said things about...
    osnitrapzi osnitrapzi 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I need more gay friends, I mean like I need a lot more, an entire Brady bunch amount more!!!!!!!!!!! Message me I'm constantly living the life of boredom lol so hmu!
    PowerHour4 PowerHour4 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Just wanted to share this video  
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 28

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    I want some!! Where can I meet any? Dies anyone know even!?
    Hotblondey Hotblondey 13-15, M 6 Responses Apr 4

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    LUCASSSSSSS!!!!!!!! Labeast
    SpiritualMe SpiritualMe 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I could not think of a more perfect father than mine. Born as the oldest child of 8 sisters, my dad and his family grew up as a lower-class arabic family, at one point even...
    bassamelali bassamelali 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 14

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    I've noticed majority of criminals came from a single parent household . The kids at my school lots of them have no father they act up at school. They come from single parent...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    He was always a crazy guy but truly crazy. I mean he was hitting me and my little sis for eating, playing or watching TV. He was hitting my mom in front of my eyes. He did never...
    lizablack lizablack 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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      my step-brother committed suicide a few years ago, and last night and several other nights i have dreamed (nightmares truly) because he was so abusive to me and my...
    jdn86 jdn86 26-30, M Mar 26

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    Theres nothing wrong with being Gay or Bi and the next person that says there is I swear I will go off at. If you have a problem with it get over it, grow up and move on. Theres...
    jayspiller1 jayspiller1 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I SUPPORT GAY RIGHTS!!!!! So what if someone wants to be transgender, bi, gay or whatever. LOVE IS LOVE. PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE! Get the hell over it! What are they doing to you...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Guys stop sending me e-mails if you're gay I'm not and I'm not bisexual
    Eddy0925 Eddy0925 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    http://news.yahoo.com/two-moms-baby-legal-first-u-gay-marriage-124540293--finance.html Are fathers going the way of the dinosaur...
    Bonnie1934 Bonnie1934 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    The first time I knew I was gay was the age of 11. The second I realised it I ran to my room and started crying until my eyes hurt, I remember this day so clearly because it was...
    Takino Takino 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm more gay than bi. I'm not opened (well some people know) I'm not opened because I'm afraid of what my family would think bullys in school etcetera. But I'm angry at me because...
    JAOBL15 JAOBL15 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Hi I'm 23 hairy and kinda chubby. I'd love to talk, have fun, be friends or in a relationship with younger skinny or smooth guys.
    jass162 jass162 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    My mother lied to me my whole youth about who my father was. I was told my father was my mother’s first husband. Meanwhile my mother married my step father when I was just 20...
    dwc294 dwc294 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Learning to love my body has got to be the hardest task I have ever tried! Years of been told you are fat, years of been told you are horrible have taken their toll! I've cried a...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I know a lot of people bring on most their problems and troubles on themselves, they want you to feel sorry for them, and don't want to fix or make things right. They want everyone...
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    THIS IS A REAL AND LEGITMATE FORM OF ABUSE. I struggle with the fact that not only was my ex emotionally abusive, but so was my own father. I can legitimately say that I am...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I want to be a father within the next year!
    kindredlife kindredlife 36-40, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My FWB came over the other night. As we were starting to get intimate, he told me "don't let me hurt you". But it was amazing as usual, he kept trying to just please me, and was...
    leayce9 leayce9 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    To the Indians out here,I am an 18 year old crossdresser. Height 5 feet 7 inch and 47 kg weight. I have a slim body and femaleish curves. I am now living away from my family which...
    AparnaRoy AparnaRoy 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I am proud to say that I am gay. Yea I used to put myself down but I was just blind to my own opinions of others reactions. I came out to my parents first because i thought it...
    Joelb8545 Joelb8545 16-17, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been dating my husband 11 yrs before our marriage in 2011. I always knew he was different than most men, a great listener, sensitive, eager to please and extremely nice...
    carmen2014 carmen2014 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I was a teenager in the early to mid 1980's the time when it felt like HIV was going to be a world wide epidemics you'd see in one of those zombie films. I'm not a perfectly...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    My life is probably one big non-event. Still, I’d like to get my story out there. As Francois Rabelais once said, “I go to seek a great perhaps”. And maybe this is mine...
    doodledude doodledude 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Where do I begin. This whole story being my life is quite a long loopy one, and if anybody has the energy to read this and respond, I thank you - in return I will just cut to the...
    spiderchris spiderchris 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    This is the aftermath of me coming out to mother. I sent this to a friend who is helping me, however I would like to have more opinions. Coming out to my mother hasn't changed our...
    walkmonkey walkmonkey 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    America is going down majorly gay should be married once I have started this movement, I will not stop until gays everywhere can be married it's bull **** the American people deny...
    SeaBassStein SeaBassStein 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am Christian. I don't support gay rights. I am not a horrible person. I love gays and straights equally. Gays are human beings and deserve to be treated as such. Just because I...
    preachersdaughter98 preachersdaughter98 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I have had many gay experiences but I still doubt I am gay. My featured gay experience was in the summer after 6th grade. I was going to a summer camp that we went swimming in...
    1kk347 1kk347 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    All people are people. And here in America, the issue is quite illogical. I don't know if it's the largest of an issue here, but when I hear about states legalizing gay marriage it...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a gay teen in Alabama. Being a southern kid ain't easy when you know your gay.. I grew up in a small town in Tennessee and moved when my mom got married. People act so shocked...
    sweetsouthernboy sweetsouthernboy 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    MY GRINDR EXPERIENCE (PART 1) Grindr found me when I was desperate. It gave me hope. FALSE HOPE... Before I had encountered...
    Hubbahubba1 Hubbahubba1 16-17 4 Responses Mar 27

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