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I Have a Gay Father

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    I found out my father was gay

    when I was 18 at his funeral. I really never had a relationship with him and I am saddened by the emptiness I feel because he felt he had to hide his sexuality from me. I understand why he did, but I also wish he would have respected me enough to know I would have accepted him...
    blandie blandie 41-45, F Feb 6, 2014

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    Daddy

    Daddy was in the closet for almost 18 years of marriage to my mother. I was about 13 when he came out. Hit me like a rock. I was completely sheltered. Honestly thought gay meant happy. Took me a while to get over the shock. My mom didn't help, telling me he was going to burn in...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Just Found Out, So Confused

    I have no idea what to do. My head is totally ****** up right now.I don't care that my father is gay. But there is so much that doesn't make sense right now.As background, I didn't know my father until this year. My mother was from another country and didn't contact him when she...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    Daddy I Miss You

    When I was 10 my father bought a computer, he loved to go into AOL chatrooms, and send pictures back and fourth among other people. My father would go into my log in and use my account, so no one would know it was him. I remember going online after school, to play games and go on...
    Shawnnas Shawnnas 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    In the Closet For 35 Years

    My father was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and taught that homosexuality was wrong.  When I found out that he was gay, he told me that he had felt this since he was a young boy.  He married my mother because he was trying to be normal and do what he was told was the...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    My Son

    my son is gay. and i love him so much it does not matter who he is or what he is my son. now his stepfather loves him as much as i do . but his real dad wont talk to him or anything . so i tell my son as long as  god and me and your granny and your step dad loves you thats...
    yagure yagure 51-55 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    My Daddy Is Gay, And I Love Him

    My parents met in high school, and dated on and off until their twenties. After just a few years, they had me, an accidental birth. They had planned to finish college before having children, but both claim that it was "A happy accident". In three years time, my dad had both...
    wolflover721 wolflover721 13-15, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Closets Are For Clothes

    Looking back we should have known..we all laugh about it now But in all seriousness it's sad that he couldn't be himself for over 45 yrs. Like when my Dad would say...I know what a guy wants..... so No you can't go to that all night party .. I know he really did know...
    caroli9 caroli9 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    jacepilatz. Snap me :) yes in gay
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    I can't stop feeling like I missed out on my opportunity to be in a relationship, being that I live in a small town and ****** up with the only two guys in town, the one was...
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    Tonight is one of those nights where I stay up and relive those heartbreaking moments. My son will not have his father by him in years to come. My husband will live with regret...
    majesticsea majesticsea 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    is it just me or do other people hate the stereotype that all gay people act the same and that your weird just because your gay. just had someone tell me that they know all about...
    gayanallover gayanallover 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My dad in particular... That sick, sick man ruined my life, I became so desperate to have a father I would pay him my own money that I made working to keep him happy. I bought him...
    xXverlorenXx xXverlorenXx 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yes, both of mine are gay, and we are a happy trio, so either we are all equally maladjusted or we are doing something right. Love you Baba and Papa (even though you wont read this...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Soooo I need to say this.... This, is a gay person, me. LGBT+ (gay people in specific) don't always wear ******* rainbows and tight pink jeans and have died hair. We don't all...
    apWeiss12 apWeiss12 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well... since this is an experience-sharing group I would like to tell my story of how is being gay in my life ^~^ maybe will be a lot to write... so if dont like to read skip this...
    Dominii Dominii 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    Shaved my boy hole for my first time coming soon 😉😉
    houseofcards39 houseofcards39 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I have many friends and some are gay they are just as great friends as my straight friends are plus we have many more things in common..
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T Jan 30

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    i always had that feeling when i saw other children happy with there fathers...coming to take them from school, going places together...it was an emtyness i felt...but then i...
    nevergiveupyourdreams nevergiveupyourdreams 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    my sister is transitioning into a man. she has changed her name , removed her breasts and on hormones . I don't know what to call her .. she's not my brother ... my brother passed...
    challengerway challengerway 41-45, F Jan 26

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    I wanna meet people who are dtf, i live in washington state so pls leave snapchat user
    pelupeya pelupeya 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    My father took his life when I was 9. I get severely depressed around this time of year and I never know why until I remember. I feel like crying but I am trying to be the strong...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 24

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    Anyone in Delaware? I'm 14, bottom and dtf.
    biboyhoe14 biboyhoe14 13-15, M Jan 24

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    i am gay i knew i was gay at 12 years old and i came out as gay at 21 my friends and family are cool with it and that is all that i wanted
    jamal1986 jamal1986 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I Am A Gay Muslim Man Looking For Lesbian Muslim Woman to be a father.Am a middle eastern Muslim And Looking For Muslim Lez Fro Moc in Australia only , am decent , handsome and...
    montaser1 montaser1 41-45, M Jan 22

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M Jan 21

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M Jan 21

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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    Hi, hope you are all well and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation...
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