I Have a Guy Best Friend

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    My best friend is a guy.

    And it sucks that every time we hang out its a big deal. Honestly he's like a big brother to me. He has a girl he talks to, I have a boy I talk to. Yet, every time we hang out its "ohhh going on a date?" "Going out with your boyfriend?" It irritates me to no end. Is there a...
    xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx
    18-21, F
    Jan 18, 2014

    I get to see my friend david this week :) he

    moved to California so I came to visit him
    brenda4696 brenda4696
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    Well, two out of three of my best friends are

    guys. xD I required a female after I came to the point where I needed someone to talk to about guys and go shopping with. ( ._.)
    JessieTheGreekGoddess JessieTheGreekGoddess
    18-21, F
    May 21, 2014

    What do you do when he comes to your modeling

    event and you can tell he's been crying so on you're lunch break you talk to him and he's going through a really bad touch break-up because of my girl best friend. It's tough seeing a guy cry, and he hugged me and told me "I love you" which he NEVER did before. So I could...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Feb 13

    he is the one in my profile picture we are

    great friends never dated or anything we have been friends since the 7th grade
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 20, 2014

    She has his heart in a way

    that I don't I see him in a way that she can't She hold his hand And I own his smile She gives him butterflies I give him laughter We each have a piece of him That the other just can't touch The fast paced beating in his heart is hers The slow, sweet rhythm in his heart is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 6

    So I've been thinking about the summer

    and my best friend houston. I'm in love with our friendship and I wish I could have a boyfriend like him. He and I cuddle and kiss and go on adventures together. He was deployed for 11 months and had a gf at the time which they broke up a little bit after he got back. My bf...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2014

    Done with their drama!

    God they put me in the middle of their fight, and they are the best two guy friends I have. I'm not choosing between them to. It's been a year, they need to get over it. I'm tired of it and I'm tired of being in the middle of it.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2014

    my guy friend may come over tomorrow i need

    something fun to do (not sex) to cheer him up some things happened so we're both really down. we're already gonna have starbucks,froyo, watch a movie, & play games but what else should we do? he'll be over all day. its his first time over
    majahi majahi
    13-15, F
    Dec 19, 2014

    Lucky

    At my old school, group mates were dictated by alphabetical order of last name. By chance, mine and his were in close proximity. At that time, I didn't know how big an impact he would have on my life. I just saw him as this easy-going, friendly guy who was dedicated to...
    browneyedkitty browneyedkitty
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

    Ok so...my best guy friend has a crush on me in

    fact he broke up with his girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) because of me and i'm not gonna lie he turns me on, on so many levels but I can't because I declared I had a crush on somebody else and I told my crush to their face truthfully that I had a crush on them and I knew it...
    BackToBiege BackToBiege
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 10
    dva05 dva05
    18-21
    Jan 18, 2014

    My best friends name is David he is Irish

    and 6 foot with brown hair we always hung out together until he moved to California we still talk though. he is really funny and sweet and easy to talk to.
    brenda4696 brenda4696
    18-21, F
    Dec 11, 2014

    I don't even know how you would describe his &

    I relationship.... seriously one second end are hugging each other flirting then the next we are cussing each other out. Exactly the reason I rarely see him anymore. Plus being firefighters at the same station, we argue about who's right a lot... and being a firefighters niece...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Nov 21, 2014

    I asked him out ..This was a total joke .

    Actually it was a dare but that doesn't matter . He basically said no and I'm not really offended or surprised but I think he feels weird . I don't know what to do
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Mar 21, 2015

    When he knows I've been depressed about a guy

    so he texts me "Hey If you'll go to my prom with me, I'll go to yours with you." He's always been there for me, and has always had my back. I'm so greatful for him.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 8

    He got me a black by popular demand sweatshirt

    lol He knows me foreal . I wanted to buy one for myself but i am tres poor . I got him a Blessed sweatshirt from expressions so this is a total copycat gift but it took actual thought because I tagged him in a post with one of the sweatshirts like months ago . We literally...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Jan 11

    So in 2009 I met a guy

    who changed my life, Houston. (My nickname for him cuz I go to him for everything) I knew as soon as I saw his dark hair and green eyes, I had to get to know him. We met through a mutual friend (at the time) however he said he liked me not her. We started hangin out at the local...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    He's not my best friend

    but he and I are close. I love him so much
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    Apr 13

    Girls as friends are too much I can't handle it

    majority of them are shady and it's too hard trying to find a gal friend.Most males are so freakin chill sometimes they end up having crushes on you but thats not always the case but still they're less full of drama. Sometimes I don't know whats up with my gender.
    BackToBiege BackToBiege
    18-21, F
    Jan 10

    This is how my guy friend is,

    and no one in this world could replace him! He's simply an amazing friend.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014

    When he finds out I'm sick

    and asks me if I need anything and offers to bring it to me... You know you got a true friend. Honestly I've known him for 4 years and honestly any women is lucky to date him :)
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Sep 5, 2015

    Actually two, I've known him

    and his little brother since I was 5, he was four, and his brother was two. I had a crush on him for four years, but its been gone for a long time :)
    directionergirl5087 directionergirl5087
    18-21, F
    Dec 24, 2013

    My best friend is a guy.

    He has red hair, 6'4, blue eyes and perhaps even dorkier than I am. The day we met our first conversation was about science fiction movies and shows we watched as kids and we even argued about star trek vs. star wars. We've had fights and even went for months without talking to...
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2014

    Wanted "A Guy Best Friend

    i want a guy best friend :/ somebody close to my age cause i miss my eX-bestie if there's anyone out here who knows how it feels to lose one of the most important guy of your life, please message me thanks
    mel15 mel15
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

    There's this guy I met earlier this year in my

    Economics class. (we'll just call him Skitz). Skitz and I sat next to each other on the first day and pretty much clicked over our hatred for the beginning of every semester. They're such a drag! Anyways, here's how our convo went me: what kinda music do you listen to? him: I...
    Ro5e Ro5e
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2015

    The fact he knows he can have any women he

    wants (if you ever met him you would understand why.) but yet he waits on a girl for 6 months now to date her and still waiting for her. Hes in love and she doesn't care. it's breaking my heart having to hear every single detail about how he feels.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Feb 7

    I get to shoot his engagement photos this

    weekend ;) who knew I would get hired as a photographer to.. I also have two more families I'm talking photos of. Firefighter/fishing engagement photos are my FAVORITE!!! Can... NOT... Wait!!!! I'm so honored. I also get to shoot his wedding photos!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    "He's not my boyfriend,

    but I do love his smile, his laugh, his hugs, his texts, and just being with him. I guess I'm not in love with him, I'm in love with us."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 1

    For the last 6 months I've had a guy best friend

    who is like a brother to me. We talk about everything. His other best friend is my crush. My crush likes me back. Since my crush and I don't talk very often, my bff is always the messenger.
    hana771 hana771
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    I had a guy best friend

    but now he's more of a normal friend now that he has a girlfriend we don't hang out as much and I need another guy best friend girls are fine I just dont get along as well with them
    Elfreya Elfreya
    16-17, F
    Jan 19, 2014

    Chiiii..... Sooo... I dunno what to do about

    this... My friend Anthony and I went to a movie two days ago, it was fun, we laughed and had a good time.. I told him he was a good friend because He payed for me, and picked me up and dropped me off.he put his arm around me while we watched the movie, which I figured it was a...
    xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx xXxLoveLikeTheNymphsxXx
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2013

    He is completely honest with me.

    A lot of people assume we're dating because we're really close and playful but that is hilarious because we started our friendship thinking that one another were gay. That's family We are total opposites . He's athletic. I'm artistic. He's emotional and quiet. I'm kind of numb...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Aug 28, 2014

    Never ask him what happened at his first

    experience at a ***** club... OMG XD He's embarrassed as can be and now I feel bad. He got tricked into going and was ind folded and didn't know where he was. Yep... I've had my laugh for the night
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    He gives me hope, and I love talking to him!

    I hurt when he's sad a lot I want to do I make him happy. He's my best guy friend
    lostinsocietyexpectations lostinsocietyexpectations
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2014

    Lets call him....Kyle?

    (not even close to his name haha) He and I have known each other since birth, literally! He was adopted at the age of 1 and shortly after I was born. Our parents had known each other for years and so of course we saw a lot of each other growing up but now that our parents only...
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18
    18-21, F
    Apr 30, 2014
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