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I Have a Half-sibling I've Never Met

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    Shocked

    Up until this afternoon I always had just one older sister until my mom told me the big family secret she had been keeping about my dad. I always knew that my dad did have girlfriends before he met my mom but I always believed my mom was his first and only wife, turns out my dad...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 4 Responses May 22, 2011

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    A Brother On My Dads Side

    and the reason why we havent met yet was because my mom dident let it happen,it used to be a big deal when we would go to my aunts house and they would talk about it lol and my mom would just get mad and say "i married a man with no kids" lol but yea supposdly he lives in houston...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F Feb 23, 2011

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    I Don't Know How To Find Him

    When I was nine years old, my little brother and I got into a fight. "Your real mother sold you for drug money!" he screamed at me. "She did not! She's upstairs!" I shouted back. He grinned maliciously at me. "No, she's not. You're adopted," he shot back. That was how I found out...
    Breizh Breizh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2013

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    Can'T Help But Wonder...

    21 years ago when I was 18 I was informed by my mother that she needed to tell me something,and it would be the last time she discussed it. I never dreamed in a million years that 'something' would be the fact that I had a half sister. I am the youngest of four and born later in...
    Aimless2374 Aimless2374 36-40, F Apr 22, 2013

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    She's Half German!!!

    I have 3 half sisters, one of which my other two sisters and I have never met. The only thing we know about her is that she was born in Germany about 23-25 years ago. My father was in the military and was stationed in Germany from 1985-1988. He passed away in 1994 and  learned...
    nlcarter05 nlcarter05 31-35 2 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I Do

    i have half siblings that i have never  meet in my life and probilly won't ever meet them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2010

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    Sooo my family is weird,

    I was adopted. Apparently my birth mom and dad were ******! My birth dad has a bunch of kids with different women and my birth mom has a bunch of kids with other dudes. Thanks to Facebook I've met 4 siblings thru the site, & I bet there are more. But I have at least 16 siblings...
    SweetLuvvv SweetLuvvv 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Want To Meet My Sister

    My names are Yuki Ouchi.I come from Kenya.In the 80's, my father Yasuo Ouchi came to Africa to work with Mikono.He met my mother Esther Wambui and they married.A year later they were blessed with a son, Ken Ouchi and two years after that a daughter which is me.Just before I was...
    nishayuki nishayuki 18-21 Mar 4, 2011

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    Can someone help me?!

    I live in Northern Ireland, thanks to the religious divide I have no idea who most of my siblings are. My dad was a bit of a ho, I have 2 half sisters that I know. One refuses to speak to us because she hates our dad (me too) and the other has become real distant with me after...
    Betyboop989 Betyboop989 22-25, F Jan 16

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    Nice Mom . . .

    I always use to think it was just my younger sister (13), little sister (6) and little brother (5). That's already a lot.. I was in 3rd grade I think, that I was looking through an old album of my mom's when she was younger. I saw a picture of a chubby, maybe around 11 year's old...
    Diddy20 Diddy20 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    At Least Two

    I know I have at least two half sisters that I have never met on my birthfather's side.  I saw a picture of his family once, his wife and himself with their 2 little girls.  That was at least 8 years ago, so its definitely possible there could be more kids in the...
    worriedforbro worriedforbro 21-25, F Oct 30, 2007

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    I Just Want To Meet You, That's All.

    Before my 20 year old brother was born, before I was born, before my little sister was born, and before my parents marriage was even a thought, my half brother was born. I don't know his name, or his birthday. I don't know where he was born. All I know is he is an Anderson, could...
    Anderson95 Anderson95 18-21, F Jul 28, 2013

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    I Have 5 Half-siblings On My Mom's Side That I Have Never Met

    I know that at least 2 of them know about me, im pretty sure all of them do. I have never been interested in getting to know them before today. I wonder if they have no interest in getting to know me? My mom and dad split when I was like 6-8 months, and my older brother was 2...
    D0llskin D0llskin 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    Searching For My Half Siblings

    So my genetic makeup comes from my biological mother and a donor since I was raised by two women and it isn't physically possible for two women to conceive a baby. I am 19 now and would like to meet the donor and some of the siblings I might have. The thought of having other...
    Dman150 Dman150 18-21, M Sep 12, 2013

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    Searching

    Hey, I'm Kassie. I am searching for my brother. About 5 years ago, I found out that I had more siblings than I thought I did. I grew up with my brother and Sister, but my sophomore year of high school I was told that I had a few more siblings. One is only 2 years older than I am...
    sondrasmiles1427 sondrasmiles1427 18-21 Nov 18, 2012

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    Do It Now!

    For most of my childhood I was brought up in a Childrens home, only when I left the care system and got back in touch with my Mother did I learn through hours of talking with her that I had a half Brother. Mum told me that my Father had been married before they had met, and had...
    Woodwose Woodwose 46-50, M Apr 8, 2012

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    Half-Brother I've Never Met

    looking for a half brother i've never met-from MA. born approx. 1975-1977. First Name Christopher - last name begins with B?  Biological father's last name starts with S & from south eastern MA.
    mybysrmydrm mybysrmydrm 31-35, M Oct 5, 2013

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    I have three brothers

    that I have never met, two are older and one is a year or so younger than me. My younger brother would be 22/23 as I will be 24 this year. I have no help from my dad with finding them, my mum doesnt know more than a name. Im trying so hard to find them. Its frustrating.
    DanikaAnne DanikaAnne 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    My Half Brothers Know About Me, But Won't Talk To Me

    The fact that I don't know him is not the result of blatant abandonment. My mom originally lied to him about my parentage, but came clean to me 15 years ago. I searched for him for 10 years, yielding no results. Finally, my mom told me that she had friended my father on...
    vcyoung vcyoung 26-30 2 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Missing Her Grow Up...

    When my mom was struggling with drugs she didn't just give me away, she also gave up my baby sister :'( ive never met her and that kills me...I was lucky to be given to my dad and i still have contact with both sides of the family, my bio mom has my little brother but my sister...
    AwkwardSadie AwkwardSadie 18-21, F Jan 2, 2013

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    Don't Know Her.

    I'm 15 years old and when I was little I hung out with my half-sister a lot as babies. I don't remember her at all nor do I know anything about her. I've tried for 10 years trying to find her but never did. Her name is Taylor Keele shes about 17 years old now. Her mom's name is...
    ZephanieS219 ZephanieS219 13-15 May 15, 2012

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    Found Out Recently- Don't Know What To Think

    My parents were teenagers when they had me. They had a shotgun wedding, gave up their dreams of an education for me. They split up when I was 6 and shared custody. When I was 7 my father had me for the weekend, and took me to the public pool. He abandoned me there and disappeared...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    I just found my half brother on Facebook,

    he's from my dad's side. I also have never met my dad, I always knew I had other siblings but never had a chance to find him till now, because I never knew what last name they went by. I'm in my dads hometown, I came here with my boyfriend because he's also from here. Which is...
    KailinM KailinM 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    14 And Lost In Life

    Sooo..my name is Charlotte I'm 14 and I have always wanted to meet my sister.She is 19 and in college but her mom has kept me away I have been trying to meet her for two years I look at her facebook I messaged her but she has no idea whom I am or anything I need help can someone...
    TheUnknownEmo TheUnknownEmo 13-15, F Jan 22, 2013

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    I Have A Half Sister

    My biological father has another daughter out there that he had while he was dating my mother . We lived in Cleveland , Ohio for a number of years and I'm sure that's where he met my half sisters mother . I would love to find her and talk to her and eventually meet her . I don't...
    SweetSmilee SweetSmilee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    Half Sister Somewhere From BATH, England

    My father who I don't see no more had a girlfriend when he was in the army as a teenager who had a daughter called (Sarah) his child but he disappeared from them and has never seen her just know her name is Sarah, she would be in her 30s now, my father is called David Crosbee...
    harrycrosbee harrycrosbee 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Need 2 Find U!!

    Only viewed u 1 time. We never prop meet, but viewed u 1 day me n pops were riding n u spotted him n YAL talked for a couple min n that was it. Pops didn't say anything the ride back home. I awake who u were n he replied my daughter. He past a few yrs ago n I never got a chance...
    Yyeerr22 Yyeerr22 31-35, M Jan 11, 2013

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    Where Are You Big Brother?

    So, I just found out today. That I have a older half sibling. He's my big brother. He's 3 years older then me. Which makes him 16 right now. He was born in Haiti, and your mom ( Sonia Hector) didn't contact you Because you lived with your dad's mom. His dad moved to the dominican...
    BellaRayZamora BellaRayZamora 13-15, F Aug 14, 2013

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    I Finally Found My Half Sister, Now What Do I Do?

    Hi, I guess I should start from the beginning. When I was 14 years old my family fell apart when my mother discovered that my dad had been cheating on her for over 25 years with different women. Well, one of his affairs resulted in the birth of my sister Aubrey. My parents got...
    Ladybug71035 Ladybug71035 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    I Wantto Meat Them

    Hi i am 43 yeras old my birth name is Kristina rainbow i was never given my fathers sirnamde of Pierce (first name Maxwell) when my mom got preg with me she asked my biological father to leave us b so he did justy that. At age 23 i found out thefather rasing me was not...
    Kristina210 Kristina210 41-45, F Aug 30, 2012

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    Only Child....?

    I'm 37 years old. I was raised as the only child of my mother and father. My parents divorced when I was 8, due to my father's repeated cheating. In my late teens, my paternal grandmother told me a story about a boy, six or seven years younger than myself....a boy my father...
    pfcpremosgirl pfcpremosgirl 36-40, F Sep 14, 2012

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    I'm 4 days shy of turning 24

    and my mom just told me that I have a half brother from my dad. My dad was previously married and I have 2 half sisters who have always been a part of my life. I find out now that in between my dad's divorce from their mother and him first meeting mine that he had a short...
    acsalbright acsalbright 22-25, F Sep 3

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    He's Half Of Me?

    Okay, so it's crazy late here and I don't really have enough details to go WAY into everything, but here's what I know: When I was still an infant, my mom and dad split up and she took me, he left and I haven't heard anything from him since. I didn't know he even existed until...
    KittyKatKitKat KittyKatKitKat 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    Much Younger

    His name is Alex and he's about 7 yrs old. I've seen pictures of him and heard a lot of stories but that's it. The step-monster would never let him near me. It's a shame, I've love to get to know him and I'm sure he'd blend wonderfully with all my nieces and nephews. Maybe one...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Oct 30, 2007

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    His Name Is Robert and I'll Never Meet Him

    I've known since I was very little I had a half-brother older than me. He's on my father's side and I don't ask about him a lot because I know it bothers him. My father is a great man. He's just made a lot of mistakes in life before. Anyways I have never met him and don't know...
    iCANbeAsweetheartIFiTRY iCANbeAsweetheartIFiTRY 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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