I Have A Hard Time Letting Go Of People

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    my abandonment issues are

    so bad that I would stay with someone even if they beat the **** out of me every day. my mind keeps me stuck on that person to the point where I almost can't even remember what life was like without them . this problem is breaking me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 21, 2015

    Losing The One

    I just lost the woman of my dreams. She knew me better than anyone has ever known me in my life. I told her my deepest secrets, completely opened myself up to her. If she knew the true me and ended up rejecting me, what does that say about me? It has been 2 months since she...
    Maxster87 Maxster87
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 30, 2013

    Cuz My Expectations Are Never Fulfilled

    i HAVE NEVER BEEN LOVED OR LIKED PROPERLY AND i OFTEN HANG ON TO BAD FRIENDS AND FAMILY OUT OF THE WANTING TO BE ACCEPTED BUT i REALLY MUST LEARN TO LET GO MORE OFTEN AND QUICKER i HAVE TO GET USED TO NOT NEEDING PEOPLE AND BEING A LONER!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Mar 13, 2011

    Cant Let Go When I Know I Should...

    I am talking to a guy that i KNOW i can do way better than looks wise, personality wise, and maturity wise. I KNOW he is a loser and it frustrates me. But I cant help it. I cant let go of him. I KNOW i could never be in a relationship with him but I still want him to think I do...
    mandypandi mandypandi
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2013

    Easier Said Then Done.

    What if all your life, what should've been right in front of you, you ignored the fact that it was absent, got older and learned that it should've been there. Now you're holding onto this stupid dream that maybe it can still be there, when you know it can't. How can you let go...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2010

    Can't Quite Let Go When I Should

    it comes to my attention again that i have a problem with this. a friend of mine that i had a romantic friendship with has been getting on my nerves for some time, but i was unable to let go completely recently, he has been less than responsive, and though i am happy with this...
    pumperstiltsken pumperstiltsken
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2009

    lately I've been having friend troubles.

    it bothers me because the last time this childish stuff happened was 8th grade and I thought I'd be done with that. I don't feel appreciated. there are certain friends making me feel this way. all of them, especially one we'll call A, never really make the initiative to reach...
    kristy99 kristy99
    22-25
    Jan 23, 2016

    I am at a cross road now.

    Shall I let go or not? I am potentially going to get into a lot of trouble for targeting this girl. She deserves it. She deserves it for what she did.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 21, 2015

    I've been having much a hard time letting go of

    someone who has broken my heart. I know that he is no good and doesn't really care, because if he did he would not have hurt me in the for place. I just can't seem to get over him, and move on.
    Sahar192 Sahar192
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015
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