I Have A Hard Time Making Decisions

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 356 People

    Big One Was ....

     Figuring out if I should have left my marriage of 19 years. It has been almost six months and I still think of all the pain I had gone through. I marvel every waking moment why I never got any explanations from the EX... I hope there is someone out there for me. Cause...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Jan 4, 2010

    I've never been good at making decisions

    because i like having all the facts and possible outcomes, i don't like leaving room for errors and i know making mistakes are a part of life and you control everything but still...my problem is i am choosing between becoming a nurse or a paralegal. If i decide to become a nurse...
    Yaska03x Yaska03x
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    I sometimes wonder if I have a personality

    disorder because when it comes to decision making I struggle to the point where I cry and become depressed. I always want to do one thing, but then the other thing seems good too so I'm stuck in the middle. I know decision making isn't supposed to be easy, but should it ever...
    kelsey9317 kelsey9317
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2015

    Decisions Decisions Decisions!!!

     i really do have a hard time making decisions, and its because im always such a laid back person, and just kind of agree with everyone else, and then when it comes down to me to have to make a decision or give an opinion or even side with someone in an argument, i struggle...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2010

    I'm 19 years old and I attend college.

    Since I started, I hadn't made many good friends since I started. I had a small group that wasn't very caring of others feelings and tended to have middle school drama. I was one of those kids that just went with the flow, even though on the inside I was pretty unhappy. I couldn...
    bridgeovertroubledwaters bridgeovertroubledwaters
    22-25, F
    Jan 6, 2014

    How do you know what is the right choice to

    make? What if i pick the wrong one? I know it won't be the end of the world but i can not stand knowing what would have happened if i picked the other choice.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

    Terrible

    I Am Terrible with making decisions Regardless if there to do with left or right Head or heart Black Or white Or Stop or go I just cant do it... I Know i cant, And i know im terrible at making them Ive came to terms with it.
    JstAnotherGirl JstAnotherGirl
    18-21, F
    Nov 21, 2009

    Super unhappy with my life.

    I've been lacking motivation to make any good changes. It feels like every decision I've ever made was a bad one. I obviously lack the ability to make good decisions. Fear keeps me stuck, I don't have enough time or money to keep making the wrong decisions.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83
    31-35, F
    Jul 25, 2014

    just today i am faced with a hard decision,

    get kicked out of my house or join the reserves :( Someone i love isn't going to like this :'(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    Him. No... Maybe Not. Okay I Want That. Oh Wait...

    From stupid things like what I want for dinner, to things bigger, like who I like. I'm so indecisive! >.
    SongsFromTheSoul SongsFromTheSoul
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2012

    Its simple enough, I am not sure

    if I should go out to dinner or eat leftovers things like that!
    Musicgirlyy Musicgirlyy
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2014

    A Crossroad In The Career Choice.

    I have currently reached a crossroad in my career choice. I currently work in Aviation on the FBO side of things and I really hate my Job. I was forced into a supervisory position, and I hate every minute of it. The choice I have right now is to contine my Aviation career, or...
    proximacentauri proximacentauri
    22-25, M
    Nov 13, 2012

    Such a struggle right

    now 😒😩
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    You know **** is real

    when you have to choose only one between pizza, bacon and burger
    PierceTheSirensFalling PierceTheSirensFalling
    18-21, F
    Aug 7, 2015

    Let's start out I live with my boyfriend about

    45 mins away from my grandparents, both my parents moved out of state. I don't have friends here nor even want to get to no my boyfriends family because they all always want to drink and do drugs constantly and that's simply not me! I have a great bf he cooks cleans helps out...
    LizD126 LizD126
    22-25, F
    Oct 8, 2014

    Anxiety And How Decisions Affect It

    today im in my room, been here for a while after eating out with my stepfather and my mother. i texted my boss asking her if i could speak to her, i plan on quitting my job and i asked in advance for some days off. I want to avoid working for two weeks, i want to just leave my...
    understand444 understand444
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2012
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