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I Have a Horrible Dad

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    What do you do when your father hates you,

    and doesn't mind saying it? My father abused me and my brother and sisters both physically and verbally. When my Mom finally left him, when us kids would visit him he would treat us even worse then before. It's been a few years since I have seen him and I feel like a terrible...
    GoranMountainMan GoranMountainMan 18-21, M Jul 5

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    My Life

    My Dad has been abusing my mom since before I was born. He's a compulsive liar and he does too many drugs. I know how to grow weed, flavor it, clip it, dry it, clean it, and smoke it because of him. My dad told me I'm his favorite but I find that hard to believe because when I...
    murphyem1997 murphyem1997 13-15 1 Response Jan 18, 2012

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    Help

    hi my dad calls me useless and retarded. nags me constantly about every thing including my room which is clean he  wakes me up early to clean the house while other sister can sleep in  and do nothing all day. can never seem to please him he also calls me lazy and smelly...
    malteser92 malteser92 18-21 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    My Dad

    my dad is a total ******, he and my mom split up before I can remember, so I've never properly lived with him. I don't have the best relationship with him, and after 12 years he finally took me on holiday. to butlins! ******* butlins! in the middle of freezing october, I could'nt...
    ThorGodOfThunder ThorGodOfThunder 16-17, M Jul 10, 2009

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    He Wasn't Always A Bad Person.... Or So I Thought

           So one day my dad calls me and my two brothers into a room and tells us he's leaving my mother. We ask him why, he said he just felt like it.  He keeps in contact with us for about 3 months, and tells us he's going back home to Mexico...
    dreab1029 dreab1029 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    Crushed

    My dad and I have a bad history.  My mom died when I was 13 and my dad spiraled down a path of drug-addled women, booze, and abuse.  I moved out at 17 because of it.  The last 3 years, I've been making an honest attempt at a real relationship with him for the first...
    tasteofink tasteofink 26-30, F Jan 5, 2010

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    Horrible Dad & Step-father Too

    Dad was an alcoholic who beat us kids a lot. So Mom got a divorce and married an alcoholic who just verbally abused us.
    TheGreenGringo TheGreenGringo 18-21, M 1 Response May 5, 2012

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    Too Many Chances

    My father has always been horrible to my family. He has hit me and abandoned us multiple times. For some reason I always give him another chance. My mom is staying in England with her sick father for a few weeks and my dad came to the house to watch my younger siblings. I find...
    Crapfather101 Crapfather101 18-21 1 Response Oct 8, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have horrible allergies and it drives me crazy. I'm allergic to dogs and have seasonal allergies and it keeps me from sleeping.... -_-
    katcard katcard 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    16 years ago. It happened. I was born. By accident. Drugs, alcohol and carelessness made me. And then I was born. 16 years on A man i will never know nor my mother. Just those...
    ronronn ronronn 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Cops got called out a few minutes ago because they were fighting outside in.the front yard. Banging on their cars, drinking , horrible way for my kids to wake up
    plainsong plainsong 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I got out of a four year relationship last year and ever since it ended I have had absolutely horrible luck with women. I've read every book, I've tried every approach and I'm very...
    leocognecetti leocognecetti 18-21, M Jul 2

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    my "dad" is really a dad.. i would like him to be but he's too much of an *******. he has NEVER payed child support, he's not there for me.. oh and here's a big one: i was abused...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Ok so I have been talking to this guy online for a year now and I really like him a lot we have became close like best friends. But once I found out he was like 40 I just naturally...
    chynarosee chynarosee 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    When I get into a relationship, no doubt it will be with a masculine dominant daddy. I need somebody to give me direction and make sure that I am doing the right things. I love to...
    KY2LAX KY2LAX 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Sooo I just found out my dad is dating someone younger than me... 36 years younger than himself, and still lives with her parents... I told him I didn't want anymore siblings. Oy...
    beba555 beba555 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I've never known my Dad. All I know is that he took off when I was little. All I know of him is through photos and back talk from my mother's side of the family. I never really...
    Melodicwhisper Melodicwhisper 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I feel like a single Mom I'm 18 years old out if school at the moment and I have a 5 month old baby girl. I recently moved in with my boyfriend who is also my baby's dad. I...
    QueenJ95 QueenJ95 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So back again. It was great to get so many different and mostly positive comments on how I cant help thinking about my dad in the "wrong way". A few months have passed and I must...
    Dittel Dittel 18-21, F Jul 10

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    Singing is one of most favorite things to do. I just love it. People have said I have an amazing voice and that I should sing in the schools talent show or something. Well, I'd be...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I have eczema, and it's so annoying. Not the typical rash and so, i have it almost all over, and it bleeds, and hurts, and, well, i don't wanna talk about the details. When we go...
    isabel6 isabel6 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm going to really annoy people and be extremely rude in the process - I'm not going to answer your emails and I going to do exactly what I want :) spoilt brat syndrome .. A...
    aspiedavid aspiedavid 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    All ******* year................... Sucks so bad, I ******* hate it!!!!!!
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I need help with this... Badly! I decided to audition for a singing competition but I just get so nervous any tips? Please help me! D:
    LoveMuffincx LoveMuffincx 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    At school in our holiday programs I'm very ready but when I'm on that stage and my mom is there I just get knots in my stomach
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I've been told I sing amazingly but I can't sing in front of more then my very close friends. I've tried to sing with more people I was shaking nearly threw up felt like I was...
    crissy219 crissy219 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When I go on a trip with him, I feel stressed because I'm getting his stressed vibes.How do I gt rid of the vibes? I also get these vibes when I visit him? What do I do to help...
    joesuekiss joesuekiss 31-35 1 Response Jun 23

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    That is exactly what it's like with my parents
    mrbuckets15 mrbuckets15 13-15, M Jul 11

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    I have horrible OCD. It paralyzes me and has affected many aspects of my life for years. I never had any Obsessive Compulsive Disorder-like symptoms til I was about 5. I was a...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jun 27

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    My dad was a renowned scientist. He was always obsessed with his work, it came first to him. One day while messing around with some objects I proposed that you could make some sort...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I hate my dad. I know that most people I say this to will brush it off and just say think this is irrelevant since I'm younger and have no idea what I'm saying or feeling. But the...
    strawberrywonder strawberrywonder 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Am ganesh in india(Chennai) age 20. We left my dad when i was 5. Mom lived for me and mom made me study. Many peoples will ask about my dad,but i wont care about that. Some will...
    ruthra104 ruthra104 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I miss my daddy 😔 I miss waking up really early and seeing him there 💔 I miss taking weird selfies 💔 I miss him always bothering me about my closet (because my closet...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so tired of being told how to feel. People are judging things they don't understand. If I want to be angry at the man who abandoned me, I'm allowed to. No one can tell me...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F Jun 30

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    I want to tell my dad that I miss him I haven't seen him in a really long sometimes I forget I have a dad. I want him to tell him to stop drinking and smoking. I want to tell him...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I was molested and raped by my step grandfather when I was 5 years old to 7 years old. I live with PTSD and have horrible dreams and flashbacks. He never got what he deserved...
    ngutman22 ngutman22 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I don't really have self esteem issues... I'm a very confident person, but I used to have horrible self esteem all through my childhood & now as a young adult I'm very confident...
    ElenaSC ElenaSC 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Home sweet hell.... Still to this day I have horrible nightmares from my childhood my mother was a typical single working mother who went to church and raised us well so everyone...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mom won't let me get my eyebrows done and I have to ask permission for EVERYTHING ugh... (I don't have a dad btw)
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I wish I was fearless and bold and, could put up a fight and stand up for myself but the truth is I am as timid as one could ever be. I shy away from strangers and stress out if I...
    patiencesentience patiencesentience 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I like the idea of having a sugar daddy. Is this so wrong? Is it close to selling yourself? Not sure. Does appeal.
    clareg clareg 26-30, F 2 Responses 55 mins ago

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    Well, as a child I was abused, both physically and mentally. My dad beat me and said horrible things to me, my mom said horrible things and slapped me a lot, my brother choked me...
    hannahgus hannahgus 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My fiance says he feels bad for me and that he would never hurt our daughter like how my father hurts me. My dad doesn't even know he hurts me. When I was a kid, I always assumed...
    aw23 aw23 22-25, F Jul 9

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    My dad is a horrible person. He makes me feel worthless, talksabout me behind my back. He insults me all the time, he says things like 'shame u dont haver nice teeth and ur not...
    Alaynamoretti Alaynamoretti 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I hate my dad so much because he always gets mad at me for no reason and and he always embarrasses me all the time in public and also when I'm hanging out with my friend. I always...
    michelleviktoria michelleviktoria 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I started crying today, thinking about my absent dad. I'm in his country, the whole reason I came was to come find him. The last time I saw him I was 15. He didn't recognize me...
    paolacastillo paolacastillo 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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