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I Have a Horrible Dad

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    I had a horrible father

    when I was young. He never cared about me, he kicked, punched, and slapped me everyday. I remembered he one time broke my arm when I had ask him to play with me. I was only five years old! And another time, he burned my teddy bear that the nurses gave me when I broke my arm. It...
    96Samuel96 96Samuel96 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Horrible Dad & Step-father Too

    Dad was an alcoholic who beat us kids a lot. So Mom got a divorce and married an alcoholic who just verbally abused us.
    TheGreenGringo TheGreenGringo 18-21, M 1 Response May 5, 2012

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    My Dad

    my dad is a total ******, he and my mom split up before I can remember, so I've never properly lived with him. I don't have the best relationship with him, and after 12 years he finally took me on holiday. to butlins! ******* butlins! in the middle of freezing october, I could'nt...
    ThorGodOfThunder ThorGodOfThunder 16-17, M Jul 10, 2009

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    What do you do when your father hates you,

    and doesn't mind saying it? My father abused me and my brother and sisters both physically and verbally. When my Mom finally left him, when us kids would visit him he would treat us even worse then before. It's been a few years since I have seen him and I feel like a terrible...
    GoranMountainMan GoranMountainMan 18-21, M Jul 5

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    Help

    hi my dad calls me useless and retarded. nags me constantly about every thing including my room which is clean he  wakes me up early to clean the house while other sister can sleep in  and do nothing all day. can never seem to please him he also calls me lazy and smelly...
    malteser92 malteser92 18-21 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    My Life

    My Dad has been abusing my mom since before I was born. He's a compulsive liar and he does too many drugs. I know how to grow weed, flavor it, clip it, dry it, clean it, and smoke it because of him. My dad told me I'm his favorite but I find that hard to believe because when I...
    murphyem1997 murphyem1997 13-15 1 Response Jan 18, 2012

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    He Wasn't Always A Bad Person.... Or So I Thought

           So one day my dad calls me and my two brothers into a room and tells us he's leaving my mother. We ask him why, he said he just felt like it.  He keeps in contact with us for about 3 months, and tells us he's going back home to Mexico...
    dreab1029 dreab1029 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    Crushed

    My dad and I have a bad history.  My mom died when I was 13 and my dad spiraled down a path of drug-addled women, booze, and abuse.  I moved out at 17 because of it.  The last 3 years, I've been making an honest attempt at a real relationship with him for the first...
    tasteofink tasteofink 26-30, F Jan 5, 2010

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    Too Many Chances

    My father has always been horrible to my family. He has hit me and abandoned us multiple times. For some reason I always give him another chance. My mom is staying in England with her sick father for a few weeks and my dad came to the house to watch my younger siblings. I find...
    Crapfather101 Crapfather101 18-21 1 Response Oct 8, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have horrible allergies and it drives me crazy. I'm allergic to dogs and have seasonal allergies and it keeps me from sleeping.... -_-
    katcard katcard 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    16 years ago. It happened. I was born. By accident. Drugs, alcohol and carelessness made me. And then I was born. 16 years on A man i will never know nor my mother. Just those...
    ronronn ronronn 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I got out of a four year relationship last year and ever since it ended I have had absolutely horrible luck with women. I've read every book, I've tried every approach and I'm very...
    leocognecetti leocognecetti 18-21, M Jul 2

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    Cops got called out a few minutes ago because they were fighting outside in.the front yard. Banging on their cars, drinking , horrible way for my kids to wake up
    plainsong plainsong 36-40, F Jul 19

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    my "dad" is really a dad.. i would like him to be but he's too much of an *******. he has NEVER payed child support, he's not there for me.. oh and here's a big one: i was abused...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F Jul 21

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    Sooo I just found out my dad is dating someone younger than me... 36 years younger than himself, and still lives with her parents... I told him I didn't want anymore siblings. Oy...
    beba555 beba555 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I've never known my Dad. All I know is that he took off when I was little. All I know of him is through photos and back talk from my mother's side of the family. I never really...
    Melodicwhisper Melodicwhisper 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I feel like a single Mom I'm 18 years old out if school at the moment and I have a 5 month old baby girl. I recently moved in with my boyfriend who is also my baby's dad. I...
    QueenJ95 QueenJ95 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    So back again. It was great to get so many different and mostly positive comments on how I cant help thinking about my dad in the "wrong way". A few months have passed and I must...
    Dittel Dittel 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Singing is one of most favorite things to do. I just love it. People have said I have an amazing voice and that I should sing in the schools talent show or something. Well, I'd be...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F Jul 17

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    I have eczema, and it's so annoying. Not the typical rash and so, i have it almost all over, and it bleeds, and hurts, and, well, i don't wanna talk about the details. When we go...
    isabel6 isabel6 18-21, F Jul 19

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    I'm actually a guy but I really need help learning to deal with my wonderful wife each month. It's bad. Very. Very. Baaaad. I don't know how to say it strongly enough. We have a...
    gman1616 gman1616 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    All ******* year................... Sucks so bad, I ******* hate it!!!!!!
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I need help with this... Badly! I decided to audition for a singing competition but I just get so nervous any tips? Please help me! D:
    LoveMuffincx LoveMuffincx 18-21, F Jul 17

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    At school in our holiday programs I'm very ready but when I'm on that stage and my mom is there I just get knots in my stomach
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F Jul 17

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    I've been told I sing amazingly but I can't sing in front of more then my very close friends. I've tried to sing with more people I was shaking nearly threw up felt like I was...
    crissy219 crissy219 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    That is exactly what it's like with my parents
    mrbuckets15 mrbuckets15 13-15, M Jul 11

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    I don't really know where to begin all I know is I really need to get this off my chest. My Dad a wonderful man and an even better Dad. He was 19 when him and my Mum had me. He...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    My dad was a renowned scientist. He was always obsessed with his work, it came first to him. One day while messing around with some objects I proposed that you could make some sort...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I hate my dad. I know that most people I say this to will brush it off and just say think this is irrelevant since I'm younger and have no idea what I'm saying or feeling. But the...
    strawberrywonder strawberrywonder 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I miss my daddy 😔 I miss waking up really early and seeing him there 💔 I miss taking weird selfies 💔 I miss him always bothering me about my closet (because my closet...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My dad is a dead beat. He always has been and I think he always will. When I was younger I only saw my dad about once or twice a year. Now its less than that. I havent seen him in...
    yoloforsho yoloforsho 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I want to tell my dad that I miss him I haven't seen him in a really long sometimes I forget I have a dad. I want him to tell him to stop drinking and smoking. I want to tell him...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I was molested and raped by my step grandfather when I was 5 years old to 7 years old. I live with PTSD and have horrible dreams and flashbacks. He never got what he deserved...
    ngutman22 ngutman22 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Home sweet hell.... Still to this day I have horrible nightmares from my childhood my mother was a typical single working mother who went to church and raised us well so everyone...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    My mom won't let me get my eyebrows done and I have to ask permission for EVERYTHING ugh... (I don't have a dad btw)
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    i think it will be fun to have a online mom and dad.... i can share things and talk to them about which i cant talk to my real mom n dad If anyone interested to become a mom or...
    kinkprime kinkprime 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    There's bad days, then there's days like this. Today was horrible. Rest in peace sweet angel your sleeping up in heaven as I type this. I hope God or whatever higher power is...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well, as a child I was abused, both physically and mentally. My dad beat me and said horrible things to me, my mom said horrible things and slapped me a lot, my brother choked me...
    hannahgus hannahgus 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My fiance says he feels bad for me and that he would never hurt our daughter like how my father hurts me. My dad doesn't even know he hurts me. When I was a kid, I always assumed...
    aw23 aw23 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Too many mistakes override in my life. Social services. My dad. Trying to cover up bad emotions. But I have achieved something. I have self harmed in a month. I am slowly stopping...
    CuteLittleScrewUp CuteLittleScrewUp 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I started crying today, thinking about my absent dad. I'm in his country, the whole reason I came was to come find him. The last time I saw him I was 15. He didn't recognize me...
    paolacastillo paolacastillo 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    He is dead to me. Been dead a long time. He hasn't been my dad for 5years he's just Troy. Never again will I call him dad. He used to smoke week cheat on my mom with black women...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Hi My Relationship with my Dad been Strained for yrs since by teen yrs tried having relationship with him on phone in letters nothing when we did talk he barely said anything...
    sunnyday55 sunnyday55 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Dear Dad, For 25 years I have refereed your and mom's relationship with the constant on again off again battle. As I have aged your cycle has become so clear to me, making it...
    jhib jhib 22-25, F Jul 11

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    Do you know of any men who psychically abuse ? Or women? I do! This one guy I was with for long while, few years of mental abuse and sexual and also emotionally withholding his own...
    ntgudenuf4chat1 ntgudenuf4chat1 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Dear, Dad - Where were you when everything went wrong? I don't know, but I'm pretty sure you were getting wasted in some bar. I hope you're happy now that you have missed your...
    julie0300 julie0300 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    It's not easy living with my family. A passive aggressive mother with massive expectations, a psychotic brother who often cracks and goes on rampaged, and a father living at...
    SCLegacy SCLegacy 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 8