I Have a Husband In Prison

the ones who love him suffer also. 742 People

    well just got back from my valentine's day

    visit w my husband and I love that man so much ....he had stuff made for me for valentine's day and I was so surprised...it's so hard to go see them as it is because u have to walk away at the end and they stay behind but going on holidays especially days like this are so hard...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 14

    people ask me y do I write ,

    visit and accept calls...why do I hold it down and keep things going at home....because when you love someone unconditionally you are their backbone and their strength when they are down..love knows no boundaries. regardless of the situation, turning my back on him is not an...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 19

    Hello there to all the ladies out there hope

    you are all staying strong and don't give up...things all happen for a reason and soon u will b w your other half and live happily ever after as planned...think of this time apart as a test to your relationship and a test to yourself to become a better and stronger woman... they...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 1

    wishing everyone with incarcerated loved ones

    such as myself the best of luck I know it gets hard ladies but keep pushing through our men will be home before you know it keep your head up :)
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 16

    my boyfriend has been in prison

    for 3 years. it's been the most difficult 3 years of my life! but in June he gets out for work release, and 6 months after that's done I get him back. I've been counting down the days and I'm so excited it's getting closer! as I read all you amazing ladies stories on here, I...
    GentleLunatic GentleLunatic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 9

    I'm thankful for an end to 2013 with it's tests,

    trials, and heartbreak, and looking forward to the promise of a new year. It has been hard without my husband beside me, but I know we are connected, and our love is even stronger. I'm thankful for this group that understands and bears one another's burden. I promise to...
    Steph0415 Steph0415
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2014
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 1

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24

    My Fiance' could possibly be coming home very

    soon, HOPEFULLY!! A couple months ago he was told that he could serve 8 years in prison. The prosecutor decided to go with the 8 years because of his background as a young adult & ended up in jail twice before. So they look at it as he's not learning his lessons at all. I mean...
    Miamichic7 Miamichic7
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2014
    lobitalince lobitalince
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carinaccaa carinaccaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 1

    My husband has been send to craft in Trenton to

    now see where he'll be doing his time at. I'm so happy everything is moving quickly! Can't wait till I'm about to touch him at the visit and text him through Jpay.. God is good
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 24

    I can't wait for the day to come

    where I wrapped in your arms in bed and fall asleep knowing you'll be there when I wake up in there morning. And then to have breakfast either cooked by you or even me. To be able to touch you and kiss where ever I want and when I want and for you to do the same. And also to be...
    Babybf Babybf
    36-40, F
    Nov 20, 2015

    #4th Time In

    So my husband recently was sentenced to 6 years we have been married for 15 years and this is the 4 th time he has done time. I've always staid by his side but this time I think I've had enough our relationship had been pretty rocky right before he went in again. He knew what the...
    Lonlymommi Lonlymommi
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

    to all the ladies out there I know I havnt

    wrote in a while but I hope all is going well for everyone and all u girls r walking w ur heads held high and smiles on your face...remember that just cuz we have a loved one in there doesn't mean that we rnt loved the same or treated the same ... everyone has a life to live and...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 24

    so i havent been on here in a while

    so this is a status update...ever since my husband got moved from county to prison i hadn't been able to see him. Where he's at they only do visitation list twice a year once in may and the other in November. So I went 7 months without seeing him. OMG i wanted to die. But i...
    kianalove3 kianalove3
    18-21, F
    Jan 26

    well ladies the time is counting down till this

    thing is shutting down... I have met some wonderful people on here and heard alot of heart warming stories... I hope that you all stay strong and continue fighting till the end even w out this app..remember that no matter who the person or where they are at we all deserve...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 5

    My boyfriend is in prison.

    I think they are messing with our mail!! I used to work there until about 5 weeks ago, that's how we met! I would get mail every other day if not every day and this is the second week in a row I've gone 2 days straight without a letter!! It's sucks so much! I'm hoping this...
    speshulk speshulk
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 1

    As I sit here and read some of the comments I

    can't help but think why people have to be so damn negative. Last time I checked it was our lives and our choices. Why bash us for choosing to stick by our husbands. Why bash us for trying to be strong and support our husbands. Likes what business is it of yours. We should see...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 16

    this is a lil note to all the girls out there

    that have a man in prison...I know from personal experiences that it's very hard to have ur man in prison or jail and do it on your own...alot of us don't have the support that we need out here to help us get threw this journey in our lives when we need that person to talk to...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 17

    Everyday I notice my husband

    and I bond get stronger and stronger. Even though I have my moments I still remain strong BC I know one day he'll be home in my arms. I know I have a long road a head but I still choose to remain by his side. Ppl judge us all the time about our choices and decisions but they...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 24

    Surprise visit.. Didn't go

    so well.. My husband asked me to visit every 15 days, that way time might go faster and he thinks I might get tired of going every week.. I tried to surprise him yesterday and visited without telling him.. First of all, I waited for an hour for the guys to track him. He was...
    AnelC AnelC
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2015

    well today was not a good day I got a early

    wake up call from my husband that all visits were cancelled today I was so sad to hear that I was ready to see him for the whole weekend but at least got to see him yesterday... my kids would have loved to go both days but after 7 years we have got used to changes in schedule...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 28

    here's to the girls who knows

    that love is greater than distance ....who are able to stand strong and keep it together while he is incarcerated. the girls who won't give up when the going gets tough. the ones that may get talked about by others but doesn't let it get to them . who are willing to cut back on...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 3

    I havent been on here in while

    and just saw that EP is going down!!!! OMG NO the travesty. Where else can we find positive support groups? Well to all the ladies please stay strong and holding on. They're coming home soon enough-xoxo
    kianalove3 kianalove3
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 8

    any one know how I can get my hubby books?

    he is in county still.. in Wisconsin. they do not accept anything from amazon or ebay. it must come straight from a publisher.. and I have no clue how to even start that search. any help would be greatly appreciated!
    lola330 lola330
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 16

    I'm just so sad right now.

    . This **** only getting worst
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19

    I'm so upset that this site is going down.

    I feel like it came into my life right when I needed it. anyways I just wanted to vent a little, somebody stole my boyfriends pin so he hasn't been able to call me for almost 2 weeks. I'm going crazy. we still email on jpay everyday but it's not the same. I NEED to hear his...
    GentleLunatic GentleLunatic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 16

    Our anniversary is Tuesday,

    and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I asked him how he could be smiling, and he said "even when he is leaving this earth, he will have a smile on his face for me". I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    Got to visit my husband yesterday

    and boy did I enjoy every minute of it. Even though I talk to him everyday on the phoneseeing him in person still gives me butterflies and makes my heart melt. From the way he touch's me, looks into my eyes, caress my hand gave me chills all over. I swear these next couple years...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 29

    just lil not to all the girls out there stay

    strong and remember ur never alone heads up u got this
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 23

    girls we all know that long distance

    relationships arnt easy but they are a special kind of relationship.we don't get to be hand in hand, wrapped up in his arms, or body to body. but we get to be mind to mind and heart to heart . I think that's much more special
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 3

    I have been with my fiance

    for 2 years, and we are madly in love. He's recently received a 4 to 10 year prison sentence for a charge that happened years before I even met him... the worst part of it all is that I am 8 months pregnant with his child, and he already has one child from a previous...
    ccc526 ccc526
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2014

    I have been with my man

    for 7+ years.. We have been thru it all... Just when I thought things were going good. He gets in trouble with the law for the first time in his 28years of life.. He was carrying an unregistered gun.. You see, Where we live, in the Bay Area this is nothing.. You will go to jail...
    Willskeeper Willskeeper
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    My husband has been incarcerated

    for three and a half years of a 35 year sentence. It's destroying me.
    Swho Swho
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    I want to say to all the ladies out there

    that I have met on here I hope that you all stay strong and positive in ur journey and lives from this point on .. stay strong for both yourself and ur men and remember what u r all worth and keep your heads high... we r a one of a kind woman for oir men and strong and very...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 24

    So I got some good news today.

    . My boyfriend got 174 credit days. Which means after 2 years and some months he'll be able to go the half way house and come home every weekend😍😍😍😍
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 1

    Where Would We Be Without The Love Of A Woman Standing Behind Her Man Even When He's Wrong

    Well I have known my husband for 6 years. I met him in our local bowling alley. I'm normally a shy girl who didn't really go up to guys and just start up a conversation, but I was playing pool and noticed him standing in the corner with his friends. Something in my head said go...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    I just want to encourage the wives waiting

    during this valentines week. The sacrifice you are making for your family will be rewarded. Stay strong, and keep up the good work! Don't let the teddy bears and chocolate depress you. There will be a celebration one day, if we don't give up!! Some people never find their...
    Steph0415 Steph0415
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

    I haven't posted in a while

    because I have been trying to keep myself busy and not think about my husband. For the past 2weeks they have been on lock down so I have not been able to talk nor see him everyday like I normally do. Lord knows it is killing me because I'm use to talking to my husband for hours...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 14

    My husband is back in jail,

    and things were just starting to be awesome again after 8 months of him being home from doing 3 years. I love him with all of my heart but in the 10 yrs we have been together, he has been away for about 6 years total. I just don't know what to do anymore my heart is broken yet...
    kitsonrayne kitsonrayne
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 12

    I kno its late in the morning

    but I'm so sad right now. I miss my baby
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 25

    well just got to talk to my husband it was

    so heart warming and good to hear his vice...he soothes all my wounds with his voice and everytime we talk I have a huge Kool aid smile the whole time... these years of waiting for my best friend and man on my life r so worth the calls letter and visits and soon we will finally...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 1

    Well it's been 6 months with 10.

    5 to go. It hasn't been easy but we are becoming stronger together everyday. I miss him so much. I'm lucky to have him close by. We talk almost everyday and I try to visit at least once a week. My work hours conflict with visiting,but we make it work. It's still not the same as...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72
    41-45, F
    Oct 20, 2014

    Good evening ladies..

    my journey started almost 2 years ago. My fiance was sentenced to 29 months in prison. I felt like my life was over! I cried all the time, missed him like crazy, and didn't know what to do with myself. I didn't have much family support, and I felt so alone! I was faithful and...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    leaving from visit gets harder n harder each

    time but I know sooner than later he will eventually b leaving from there w me
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 3

    I got to talk to my hubby today almost all day

    man how I love that man so much he's my rock and better half....it's hard having ur significant other locked up but it has made me stronger and us as well as a couple...it's get people feel that men behind bars are low lives and have nothing going for them. but mine has got alot...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    He stole my heart <3

    so I stole his last name! Hey it's me again :) It's been awhile since I've been on here. So I thought I would give everyone an update. I started this journey with my husband in jail with him having 4 years!! I thought I would never make it. Now it's only 6 months and he will be...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

    My love has been down

    for about two years and it got easier to deal with. He calls and we write. I try to stay focused on school and work and things to occupy my time. But I just went through some old pictures of us and I just became stricken with sadness and began to cry. I miss him every day of...
    kianalove3 kianalove3
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 8

    everyone knows that being in a prison

    relationship is very hard ...but there's also those that know nothing about anything that goes on in there or in people's relationship w a prisoner....it takes a true and strong person not only to deal w a prisoner but to b faithful and respectful of the ones in there and I give...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 13

    I just wanted to share an awesome experience to

    encourage others. By chance I met a woman, who hasn't gotten to see her son in a year. She doesn't have a car or the money to make the trip. I am going to visit my husband Sunday, and her son is in the same unit. Out of the hundreds of prisons in our state, they are in the...
    Steph0415 Steph0415
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2014

    One of those days 😪 I'm just

    so sad right now I need him wit me
    Rajonaeh01 Rajonaeh01
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 20

    Faithfully Waiting..

    Dec 1 2005 my husband went to prison- 4 year sentence- and we have a "truth in sentence" law in our state.. no chance for early release.   I had been with my husband for 13 years at the time of his sentencing (married for 6 of them).   I had to put...
    cll9903 cll9903
    31-35
    43 Responses Aug 23, 2008

    God Give Me Strength Always♥

    Hey my name is Tracey Tyler! My life was going so well, until me and my husband decided together that he needed to turn his self to the authorities and get his Jail time behind him! Yes it was a hard decision, but you really can't have a productive life like that looking over...
    angelflower69 angelflower69
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2013
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