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I Have a Husband In Prison

the ones who love him suffer also. 658 People

    its more then the physical things a husband

    and wife do that i miss, its also the sound of his voice, the warmth of his body, waking up next to him, his smile, his laugh, EVERYTHING!! even the things that annoyed me i truly cherish, i'll give anything to have him home again. I pray this time goes by fast.
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    I'm really missing him today :( more

    than usual,if that's even possible. Even our phone calls, which usually bring me comfort and strength, are leaving me missing him so much and wishing he was here just so I could hug him. He is on intake and it could be another 2 or 3 weeks, if not longer, before I can see him...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 1 Response May 8, 2014

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    Well it's been 6 months with 10.

    5 to go. It hasn't been easy but we are becoming stronger together everyday. I miss him so much. I'm lucky to have him close by. We talk almost everyday and I try to visit at least once a week. My work hours conflict with visiting,but we make it work. It's still not the same as...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F Oct 20, 2014

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    I have been with my man

    for 7+ years.. We have been thru it all... Just when I thought things were going good. He gets in trouble with the law for the first time in his 28years of life.. He was carrying an unregistered gun.. You see, Where we live, in the Bay Area this is nothing.. You will go to jail...
    Willskeeper Willskeeper 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    The prison where he is at will not let me see

    him. My visiting application was denied so I even wrote to the warden and he still denied me. So I then wrote to the Director of Adult Institutions hoping they will reconsider. I'm afraid this won't work and that I will have to take legal action. I'm getting so tired of waiting
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    got a letter from him today!

    ! I'm soo happy!!! this is the first time i've heard from him since he got there, it feels so good to know that he's okay. I LOVE HIM FOREVER!
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 1 Response May 29

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    Isolation

    When the person you love most in the world is gone for a long period of time, you miss them. Others might understand the concept of "missing" someone, as they may also have missed someone in their lives. Someone who went away on a trip, or to college, or who moved somewhere...
    jessicaleigh19103 jessicaleigh19103 36-40 4 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Our anniversary is Tuesday,

    and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I asked him how he could be smiling, and he said "even when he is leaving this earth, he will have a smile on his face for me". I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I posted this a while back.

    Hope many of you can read this to understand things and explain to others to avoid such things. Maybe that way less people like us will be suffering EP Link
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Happy 24th to my husband!

    !!! love him so much!!!
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F Jul 26

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    Married 2 Months Then My Husband Is Arrested. And Like A Part Of Me Is Gone Too!

    I have read a few stories on here about some whirlwind romances. My husband and I met online over about an eight day period we text and talked on the phone nonstop. He had a bad past I guess but he never kept any of it a secret. He told me every bad thing he'd ever done, all the...
    itsjustme333 itsjustme333 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    this is a late update but.

    ...HE CALLED ME!!!! I was so happy on friday when i answered the phone and it was him, whew FINALLY!! it was a long 6 weeks :) <3
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    On Thursday I was on the phone with my fiancé

    and he was telling me about how he got in trouble with a cop from a different building for crossing a red line, which I'd see lots of inmates do when I worked there. The cop was saying something to his regular cop then I heard my fiancé say "why the fu** are you saying s**t and...
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Went to see him today.

    It was real nice seeing him. I miss him already
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life 26-30, F May 15

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    Faithfully Waiting..

    Dec 1 2005 my husband went to prison- 4 year sentence- and we have a "truth in sentence" law in our state.. no chance for early release.   I had been with my husband for 13 years at the time of his sentencing (married for 6 of them).   I had to put...
    cll9903 cll9903 31-35 41 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    My husband will be released in September

    and our plan was to start our new life together, but today his parole officer called me and said she's recommending he be sent to a halfway house. I can't believe they wouldn't let him finally have some freedom. I have no criminal record and an established residence. Our plan...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    What do you do if the prison will not

    approve/disapprove you as a visitor? My application has been processing since the last week of February and every time I call the C/O takes down my name & number and says she'll have the Sgt call but the Sgt never calls and this has been the 4th time. Should I just keep calling...
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    MY Convict 2

    I miss my fiancee more than words can describe and I find comfort in knowing im not the only one dealing with this struggle. Some people dont understand how hard it is for us, the ones who love them. We suffer just as much. We may not be the ones behind bars having to do time but...
    JessnBaldy JessnBaldy 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    I have been denied by the visiting department,

    warden, and now the Director. It's been 6 months, I get that I was an employee but I barely worked there and have no criminal record or anything. I just want to see my fiancé already but idk who to go to now, a lawyer? Or should I try talking to the director again?. So much for...
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    My baby is coming home in 96 days.

    .. I can't even breathe when I think about him, I want him so badly.
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 10

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    Our Anniversary

    Today is our 9 year anniversary. It really sucks that he his not here with us! I've tried staying real busy today but as the hours go by it's getting harder to focus. He will be calling in an hour and a half but I just wish I could hug him. His "place" doesn't have visiting today...
    LynScott LynScott 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    My husband has been gone

    since over a year now. Its been a long road and I never imagined Id ever be in this situation. He was sentenced over 7 months go and received 7 years! The sad part was its a self defense case and he was defending himself. Life is hard I have had to move back in with my parents...
    babynesh05 babynesh05 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    So my husband is now there

    and it has been a month. I thought I was prepared in some ways but not much... I have been able to finance myself. My real problem is dealing with loneliness even thou I have my parents and family, I still feel alone because at the end of the day everyone has their own life. It...
    AnelC AnelC 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    maybe 2 more weeks before i can talk to him

    again, I'm so sad because his birthday is sunday and i wont be able to see or talk to him :(. I cant wait for this to be over with!!!
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    I Have A Husband In Prison

    I was that Husband. Not a day goes by that i don't think about the harm I caused. Reading your comments allows me see just how gut wrenching it was for my wife. She left me as a result of my arrest and I can't blame her. At first I was angry, then bitter, then sad, and finally...
    Arrestangel Arrestangel 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    My husband has been incarcerate four years now,

    it's never gotten any easier as time passes by but I've managed some how. Now we're looking forward to his parole next year 2016 and praying he gets to come home!. I think the hardest moments are perhaps holidays and birthday's and sometimes it has made my anxiety ten times...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Well first month down.

    . 14 more to go. I keep telling myself that we're lucky..it could have been more.. I hate that we are in this situation to begin with..he doesn't deserve any of this. I miss him so much. I am honestly surprised that I made it past the first day... But you know what? I still feel...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    I just wanted to share an awesome experience to

    encourage others. By chance I met a woman, who hasn't gotten to see her son in a year. She doesn't have a car or the money to make the trip. I am going to visit my husband Sunday, and her son is in the same unit. Out of the hundreds of prisons in our state, they are in the...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    I'm thankful for an end to 2013 with it's tests,

    trials, and heartbreak, and looking forward to the promise of a new year. It has been hard without my husband beside me, but I know we are connected, and our love is even stronger. I'm thankful for this group that understands and bears one another's burden. I promise to...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    I am picking up my husband next week!

    He has survived all of this and I thank God. I appreciate all who have encouraged me and walked with me through this. It's been a difficult path but so worth it. I understand how it depletes your emotion, finances, and even relationships. Please don't give up. God will...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I just want to encourage the wives waiting

    during this valentines week. The sacrifice you are making for your family will be rewarded. Stay strong, and keep up the good work! Don't let the teddy bears and chocolate depress you. There will be a celebration one day, if we don't give up!! Some people never find their...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    In All The World You'll Never Find A Love That's True As Mine

    So I haven't been on here in a while, but I've decided to do a little update. My husband Kenny was sentenced to 4 years in prison. Now we are finally under a year for him to be released. It's about 11 months now. I know that this time will fly. I need to get so much prepared...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Most people look forward to birthday's!

    I guess I should too but no birthday has been the same without you!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 29

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    Hi my name is Lisa ! I am in love with my

    boyfriend ( not my husband yet ) an I fell in love with him ...I just am looking for a support group so that when I start crying or getting down i can have someone to the simular situation ..Thank you
    llbt llbt 46-50 5 Responses May 12

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    He stole my heart <3

    so I stole his last name! Hey it's me again :) It's been awhile since I've been on here. So I thought I would give everyone an update. I started this journey with my husband in jail with him having 4 years!! I thought I would never make it. Now it's only 6 months and he will be...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    I Need Picked Up...

    I am experiencing so many emotions right now!! We got to visit my husband two days ago and stayed the entire 10hrs :)) it's so great seeing him and holding his hand and seeing our daughter smile ear to ear because Daddy is right in front of her. However it's almost like a death...
    LynScott LynScott 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    my husband is 8 mths into 16 yr sentence of

    which must serve 8 b4 elgible for parole and is now clinically depressed in tdcj. we haven't ever been apart b4 this he's really struggling over me being out here alone does anybody have any advice on how I can help him also we are 170 miles apart in different states. he is a...
    redneckbarby78 redneckbarby78 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    My husband has been incarcerated

    for three and a half years of a 35 year sentence. It's destroying me.
    Swho Swho 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I am recently reconnected with my only real

    love I havent seen him in 15 years but . he is my soul mate and he is in Prison . I am in love with this man and I feel so lost he has 8 months left . How will I make it ?
    MouseMunoz MouseMunoz 41-45, F 1 Response May 31

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    Hi. I'm new to this group.

    But not new to him being. We have been married for 7 yrs. and share 3 children. all toddlers. He got 15 yrs this time. I've cried every day since sentencing two weeks ago. taking care of my kids on auto pilot. I fluctuate between extreme sadness n panic to anger. to hope. I...
    Aaronsgirl12 Aaronsgirl12 41-45, F 4 Responses May 14

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    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F Apr 21

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    Surprise visit.. Didn't go

    so well.. My husband asked me to visit every 15 days, that way time might go faster and he thinks I might get tired of going every week.. I tried to surprise him yesterday and visited without telling him.. First of all, I waited for an hour for the guys to track him. He was...
    AnelC AnelC 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4

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    It's been 3 months since I've seen him

    and I'm getting so impatient. The paperwork is taking forever to get processed. I just wanna see him, I met him while working at the prison he's at as a medical assistant, so I've never even gotten to hug him
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    My husband is in federal prison

    and just went in a few days ago. He is serving 3 1/2 years. I already feel dead inside, with every heart beat it hurts even more. My daughter who is 3 is always asking about him and I tell her he's at work, and will be home soon. How do u stop the pain, the thinking, the crying...
    hurtbadly2018 hurtbadly2018 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    about a week ago my husband was sent from

    county jail to prison to finish the rest of his time. I know for time a won't be able to talk to him, ive read and heard that it can be anywhere between 2-6 weeks before he's able to make a call. Well I'm one week down and today is the first day that ive broke down and cried. I...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25

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    New here but wanted to introduce myself.

    . I'm a mother of 5 children and my husband in currently in prison.. He was sentenced 9 months on May 19th but has an out date of September 30th.. I feel like I'm going crazy.. I'm so miserable without him here..
    greeneyedchic35 greeneyedchic35 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16

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