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I Have a Husband In Prison

the ones who love him suffer also. 489 People

    Where Would We Be Without The Love Of A Woman Standing Behind Her Man Even When He's Wrong

    Well I have known my husband for 6 years. I met him in our local bowling alley. I'm normally a shy girl who didn't really go up to guys and just start up a conversation, but I was playing pool and noticed him standing in the corner with his friends. Something in my head said go...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    He Is In The SHU

    I had a feeling that my husband was in some sort of trouble when I was unable to email him. He had gotten down to his last ten minutes of phone time and told me that he would save them until Wednesday because he knew I was driving up with our babies to visit him on Thursday for...
    MrsGG MrsGG 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    my husband is 8 mths into 16 yr sentence of

    which must serve 8 b4 elgible for parole and is now clinically depressed in tdcj. we haven't ever been apart b4 this he's really struggling over me being out here alone does anybody have any advice on how I can help him also we are 170 miles apart in different states. he is a...
    redneckbarby78 redneckbarby78 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 27

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    MY Convict

    My fiancee has only been away for a month now and we dont know how long yet he will be away. Its been a month since I have been able to feel his touch or touch him myself. Im not worried about him in prison, this isnt his first time doing time but the first time since weve been...
    JessnBaldy JessnBaldy 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2013

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    My husband , so I call him my husband we are

    engaged to be married on Feb 11 he gets incarcerated on the 14 th , I'm wondering if marrying him before he goes will do me good or harm? Or if we should wait till he gets out , we have a son 2yrs old plus my three from previous relationship, can anyone give me some advice...
    Jodynscott09 Jodynscott09 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    In All The World You'll Never Find A Love That's True As Mine

    So I haven't been on here in a while, but I've decided to do a little update. My husband Kenny was sentenced to 4 years in prison. Now we are finally under a year for him to be released. It's about 11 months now. I know that this time will fly. I need to get so much prepared...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Husband In Prison

    My husband has 1year6months left. He is in reseption and i only get one hour visits. How do you find a way to cope with only getting 1-2 hours a week with the person you love?
    mckenryk mckenryk 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Faithfully Waiting..

    Dec 1 2005 my husband went to prison- 4 year sentence- and we have a "truth in sentence" law in our state.. no chance for early release.   I had been with my husband for 13 years at the time of his sentencing (married for 6 of them).   I had to put...
    cll9903 cll9903 31-35 37 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    My Fiance' could possibly be coming home very

    soon, HOPEFULLY!! A couple months ago he was told that he could serve 8 years in prison. The prosecutor decided to go with the 8 years because of his background as a young adult & ended up in jail twice before. So they look at it as he's not learning his lessons at all. I mean...
    Miamichic7 Miamichic7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Being Lesbian And Having Your Girlfriend In Prison

    I was with my gf for 4 years and 2 prison terms as well as 3 county jail sentences. The unique problem that I think that I experienced is that my gf cheated on me with another girl who was in prison with her and was taken to the hole for sexual contact. Her infidelity did not...
    giayesim12 giayesim12 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    I Need Picked Up...

    I am experiencing so many emotions right now!! We got to visit my husband two days ago and stayed the entire 10hrs :)) it's so great seeing him and holding his hand and seeing our daughter smile ear to ear because Daddy is right in front of her. However it's almost like a death...
    LynScott LynScott 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    I just got married on 2/4/14 I married my

    husband in county jail the best move I ever made, hes looking at 2 years and im going crazy....
    daniels2414 daniels2414 22-25 1 Response Mar 5

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    Isolation

    When the person you love most in the world is gone for a long period of time, you miss them. Others might understand the concept of "missing" someone, as they may also have missed someone in their lives. Someone who went away on a trip, or to college, or who moved somewhere...
    jessicaleigh19103 jessicaleigh19103 31-35 4 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    21 And My Husband And I Married 2 Days Before He Went To Prison!

    My husband (Lester) and I have been married for a year and a month now. We married March 27th 2010 and he went in March 29th 2010 to serve a 6 1/2 to 12 year bid. Thats right 2 days as a married couple, i had my husband two days and then he was gone! I am 21 years old and my...
    BrittanyE BrittanyE 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    It Hurts Everytime I Breathe..:(

    It's been 3 weeks since my boyfriend was arrested..but it feels like it's been so much longer :( I wake up in panic attacks, cry everyday, feel like my heart is going to burst out of my chest because it hurts so much eveytime I breathe! I can't believe how quicky my life was...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2013

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    Missing My Husband

    I have been with my husband for two years...I knew he was facing time....he got ten years in federal prison....we got married 6 days before his surrender date....I love him with all my heart n soul....he is my best friend....my soulmate.....
    daynamichelle7379 daynamichelle7379 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    My husband has been incarcerated

    for three and a half years of a 35 year sentence. It's destroying me.
    Swho Swho 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 23

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    My Daughters Miss Their Daddy

    My husband has been acting up lately, he's been asking me to deposit more and more money into his account. This is money that I really don't have, I am barely getting by and he thinks it's easy for him to ask me for more money? It seems as if he's not in prison but more like a...
    MrsGG MrsGG 26-30, F Nov 30, 2013

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    Ok so this is my first time on anything like

    this. My husband was sentenced to 2 years in state prison. He spent a yr in jail so now he only has 8 months left. Its been a tough road we have a 1 and 5 year old daughter. Theres another girl driving me crazy with telling me they are writing him and hes writing her bull crap...
    BrittaniE01226 BrittaniE01226 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    Drugs, Divorce, Addiction, Abuse, Control, Power, God!

    I have a husband in prison.  Our story starts in March 2008.  But before I begin with "our story" I must explain how it came to be.  I was married for 18 years and had 3 children during this marriage, in January 2008 this marriage ended after too much baggage took it's toll on...
    KHBrabham KHBrabham 36-40 2 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    In Love And Waiting

    My fiancé is serving a 7 year sentence,well he have 7more years left. We lost contact in the beginning of his sentence and we just reconnected 3months ago. Did I mention that I love and is truly in love with this man. I haven't told anyone that we are getting married in 2months...
    Lilmama0810 Lilmama0810 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    Our Anniversary

    Today is our 9 year anniversary. It really sucks that he his not here with us! I've tried staying real busy today but as the hours go by it's getting harder to focus. He will be calling in an hour and a half but I just wish I could hug him. His "place" doesn't have visiting today...
    LynScott LynScott 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I just want to encourage the wives waiting

    during this valentines week. The sacrifice you are making for your family will be rewarded. Stay strong, and keep up the good work! Don't let the teddy bears and chocolate depress you. There will be a celebration one day, if we don't give up!! Some people never find their...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I Have A Husband In Prison

    I was that Husband. Not a day goes by that i don't think about the harm I caused. Reading your comments allows me see just how gut wrenching it was for my wife. She left me as a result of my arrest and I can't blame her. At first I was angry, then bitter, then sad, and finally...
    Arrestangel Arrestangel 36-40, M Nov 20, 2013

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    Im 22 years old and my fiance' is 32.

    Its been about 8 months since he went away to prison. I have to say that it has been the hardest & the longest 8 months without him here. He still has not been sentenced & thats what upsets me the most because I just want him to serve his time & come home already. It took for...
    Miamichic7 Miamichic7 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm thankful for an end to 2013 with it's tests,

    trials, and heartbreak, and looking forward to the promise of a new year. It has been hard without my husband beside me, but I know we are connected, and our love is even stronger. I'm thankful for this group that understands and bears one another's burden. I promise to...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    This is my first Xmas without my husband

    and during this holiday he is being transported to a federal facility meaning I can't speak to him which is making this holiday even more lonely. I was fine initially and then I got his two daughters for the weekend (from previous relationship) and it's making me so sad that he...
    believe1120 believe1120 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Our anniversary is Tuesday,

    and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I asked him how he could be smiling, and he said "even when he is leaving this earth, he will have a smile on his face for me". I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    MY Convict 2

    I miss my fiancee more than words can describe and I find comfort in knowing im not the only one dealing with this struggle. Some people dont understand how hard it is for us, the ones who love them. We suffer just as much. We may not be the ones behind bars having to do time but...
    JessnBaldy JessnBaldy 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    #4th Time In

    So my husband recently was sentenced to 6 years we have been married for 15 years and this is the 4 th time he has done time. I've always staid by his side but this time I think I've had enough our relationship had been pretty rocky right before he went in again. He knew what the...
    Lonlymommi Lonlymommi 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    He is actually my fiancee

    but we are getting married as soon as he gets out of prison. He is in prison for 14 months but gets out after 9 months is he behaves himself. It has been about two and a half months so far and it's getting harder, not easier. It's really hard for me to even be away from him for...
    Jennifererikaaa Jennifererikaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    My fiancee, who has been in federal prison

    since the summer of 2012, was recently moved to a county jail to deal with some associated proceedings. They moved him last week, postponed his video-proceedings (they weren't even holding court!) for at least a month. THEN the feds need to come back to pick him up and bring...
    jessicaleigh19103 jessicaleigh19103 31-35 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    "The Worst Is the Waiting..."

    ... waiting to know when it's possible for him to be released. We had just been married about a month before his arrest. I love him and miss him constantly. He made a CD that I listen to frequently - he has an amazing voice. I worry about talking to others about my situation in...
    angelinwaiting angelinwaiting 41-45, F 12 Responses May 25, 2009

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    My husband was taken away from me in court this

    morning on Valentines Day. I will wait for you baby. Please don't let it be as long as they say.... This is already so hard.
    lonlyinohio lonlyinohio 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Married 2 Months Then My Husband Is Arrested. And Like A Part Of Me Is Gone Too!

    I have read a few stories on here about some whirlwind romances. My husband and I met online over about an eight day period we text and talked on the phone nonstop. He had a bad past I guess but he never kept any of it a secret. He told me every bad thing he'd ever done, all the...
    itsjustme333 itsjustme333 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Its never easy but it never was; I've been with

    my man for 14 years he has served 10 years on a 17 year term, hoping for just 5 more with time served. He was my best friend and my everything, he told me to go live my life and I did, I tried to date other men to get over him. There's no point, every man I dated lived in the...
    spadezbam2000 spadezbam2000 26-30 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Scared Of Lonely

     I found the love of my life and he going to have to go to prison for 8yrs.  I love this man with all my heart and i miss him so much it hurts... This all new to me and I'm trying to deal with this alone, to embarrassed to talk to anyone.  I cry and pace,pace and...
    Dariaweaverbrown Dariaweaverbrown 31-35, F 26 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I hear all of these ladies talking bout their

    men in county jails for months and they are about to be released later this yr or next and my baby had been in there for yeeeeaaarrrrrss we still don't know when exactly he is coming home... I'm a lil jealous I can admit ;( missing him
    leilainwaiting leilainwaiting 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    My husband was just sentenced to 10-12 yrs.

    I can't think straight I have horrible panic attacks, I can't sleep, I am embarrassed…. I just don't know how to get threw a day. He left me with such a mess to clean up. My mortgage is 3 mos behind, I am filing bankruptcy, I don't have a job because I am caring for his 100...
    severalpanicattacks severalpanicattacks 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Who Walks In My Shoes?

    My fiance has been in federal prison for 8 months. I won't say he's innocent, but I can tell you that what he's going through is unnecessary; essentially, he's paying for his past mistakes. From over a decade ago. And that he's already served time for. But they wanted to snag...
    jessicaleigh19103 jessicaleigh19103 31-35 6 Responses May 15, 2013

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    So our court date is set,

    Dec.19th at 8 am. It is classified as early resolution which means that the state has a plea offer for him. I don't find out what the state is offering until the day before, but it will be really nice to know what the state is thinking. He has the possibility of 2-5 years so...
    nyckimcbride nyckimcbride 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    Missing Common Law Husband

    Firstly I need to say how ecstatic I am at finding this site. I'm pregnant with my fourth child and my partner's first. He was truthful with me from the beginning and was charged with drug trafficking and was waiting for sentencing. He had completely turned his life around but...
    Expectingandwaiting Expectingandwaiting 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2013

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    My husband and I met

    when I was 14, he was 17. We remained just friends until October 13 and then realized we are meant to be together. Long story short, his demons and drug addiction came back with a vengeance and sadly he ended up back in jail. This has been on and off for years...He is a good guy...
    amarshall27 amarshall27 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    9 1/2 Months Left

    So I was 6 months pregnant when my fiancé got arrested. I received a call from him 8/24/2011 and he said, "I'm getting arrested by the Feds, but I'll get out in a couple months. Needless to say, I've had our baby and she'll be 2 years old next month. His sentencing was 7/30/2012...
    Cdobbi02 Cdobbi02 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    I Miss Him So Much

    I've been with my husband for 9 1/2 years and married for 2 1/2 years. He was given a 13 year sentence for a crime he did not commit! I feel responsible since it is the result of my ex husband's plan for revenge! He was extremely abusive and swore that he would do anything to...
    TLD73 TLD73 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Im 21 Weeks Pregnant

    And this is my third child and jus had court today and my husband gets 2 years in prison.I'm confused and very broken and very scared and lonely and embarrassed to tell anyone..
    thirdpregnancy thirdpregnancy 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    (I am only 21).....Its been 6 days

    for me and I feel like my whole world is over. My fiancé has not been charged ye.. he's awaiting a ID Parade however its not looking good. So far its possibly life in prison.. I don't know how I'm going to cope but I'm taking it day by day..The way I have started to look at it...
    shannahamilton shannahamilton 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He stole my heart <3

    so I stole his last name! Hey it's me again :) It's been awhile since I've been on here. So I thought I would give everyone an update. I started this journey with my husband in jail with him having 4 years!! I thought I would never make it. Now it's only 6 months and he will be...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Holding On To God's Unchanging Hand

    It has been over a year now that my husband been incarcerated and it hasbeen a hard and  lonely road.I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We have five children  from 20 to 12 years old and now i have to raised them by myself. We have a home together inwhch  i am...
    jmanderso jmanderso 41-45 4 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    One Year, Nine Months and 18 Days to Go

    My husband is currently serving the last of a 7 year sentence for assualt. I can hardly believe at times that it's finally under two years until he comes home. It's been a long and difficult road. And lately I've found myself worrying about life AFTER he comes home. I know...
    LeighLeigh LeighLeigh 36-40, F 6 Responses May 22, 2009

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    God Give Me Strength Always♥

    Hey my name is Tracey Tyler! My life was going so well, until me and my husband decided together that he needed to turn his self to the authorities and get his Jail time behind him! Yes it was a hard decision, but you really can't have a productive life like that looking over...
    angelflower69 angelflower69 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    He means the world to me. When I first wrote him I didn't think anything would really come out of it, but I was wrong. Nobody gets it and they all think I'm putting my self in...
    kim95164 kim95164 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I'm 31 years old and have been battling back problems for the last 15 years. It used to come on just once in awhile, a little pain in the lower back, some tingling down my right...
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    About a year ago my husband had an emotional affair saw the woman on a few occasions and texted her frequently until he was caught. My daughter and I frequent a store here usually...
    saltyorsweet saltyorsweet 31-35, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    He is a teenager , and when my husband is away he keeps me satisfied. Should have done it years ago
    wendy1979 wendy1979 31-35, F 1 Response 59 mins ago

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