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I Have a Husband In Prison

the ones who love him suffer also. 712 People

    everyone knows that being in a prison

    relationship is very hard ...but there's also those that know nothing about anything that goes on in there or in people's relationship w a prisoner....it takes a true and strong person not only to deal w a prisoner but to b faithful and respectful of the ones in there and I give...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife 31-35, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Last night was the best night ever.

    I talked to my husband for hours and for the first time he listened... Man so in love with this man?????
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    with less than 20 hours to go till they release

    him, they tell him that due to a clerical error on the day of sentencing (clerk wrote 16th instead of 6th), he wouldn't be released until the ninth. Im beyond f-ing pissed
    shorty71009 shorty71009 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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    My husband has been gone

    since over a year now. Its been a long road and I never imagined Id ever be in this situation. He was sentenced over 7 months go and received 7 years! The sad part was its a self defense case and he was defending himself. Life is hard I have had to move back in with my parents...
    babynesh05 babynesh05 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    My baby has been released!

    Now the real challenge is keeping him out of trouble! Any suggestions or advice? I know it's 99% his decision but if I can prevent him from reoffending I will get to continue to live happily with him in freedom.
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2015

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    He finally got transferred to another prison

    so next week I should be getting a call from him:) and I finally have a chance at seeing him. I love you Endo and I hope I get to see you soon
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    I just wanted to share an awesome experience to

    encourage others. By chance I met a woman, who hasn't gotten to see her son in a year. She doesn't have a car or the money to make the trip. I am going to visit my husband Sunday, and her son is in the same unit. Out of the hundreds of prisons in our state, they are in the...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    What the hell is wrong with the police.

    If I'm sending husband money in prison what is the prison authority and with the police. I was at work in the morning yesterday and the decide to knock on the house door. They ask for me and turn my bedroom inside out. Next they come to my work place and question me about it...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 21, 2015

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    Faithfully Waiting..

    Dec 1 2005 my husband went to prison- 4 year sentence- and we have a "truth in sentence" law in our state.. no chance for early release.   I had been with my husband for 13 years at the time of his sentencing (married for 6 of them).   I had to put...
    cll9903 cll9903 31-35 42 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    My anniversary is next Saturday

    and I'm so excited. I know he's in prison but I still want to do something special. I'm thinking I should make him a card since it's more personal and get creative. But the only thing is I think cursive writing is so pretty if doneby the right person. Im definitely not the right...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Surprise visit.. Didn't go

    so well.. My husband asked me to visit every 15 days, that way time might go faster and he thinks I might get tired of going every week.. I tried to surprise him yesterday and visited without telling him.. First of all, I waited for an hour for the guys to track him. He was...
    AnelC AnelC 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2015

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    Where Would We Be Without The Love Of A Woman Standing Behind Her Man Even When He's Wrong

    Well I have known my husband for 6 years. I met him in our local bowling alley. I'm normally a shy girl who didn't really go up to guys and just start up a conversation, but I was playing pool and noticed him standing in the corner with his friends. Something in my head said go...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    God Give Me Strength Always♥

    Hey my name is Tracey Tyler! My life was going so well, until me and my husband decided together that he needed to turn his self to the authorities and get his Jail time behind him! Yes it was a hard decision, but you really can't have a productive life like that looking over...
    angelflower69 angelflower69 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    My Fiance' could possibly be coming home very

    soon, HOPEFULLY!! A couple months ago he was told that he could serve 8 years in prison. The prosecutor decided to go with the 8 years because of his background as a young adult & ended up in jail twice before. So they look at it as he's not learning his lessons at all. I mean...
    Miamichic7 Miamichic7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2014

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    it doesn't matter if you're a wife,

    fiance, or girlfriend. If you love your man and want to stand by his side during this time then do it! love is love and it is beautiful regardless. There are so many people who don't understand and are so quick to judge. Just because our men have went down the wrong path doesn't...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm madly in love with my husband

    and I am faithful to him but i feel bad because the enemy puts negative thoughts in my mind about a friend. I hate it because I am a Godly women.
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

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    One Phone Call In a blink of an eye your life

    can change. My life changed on a Tuesday evening with one phone call. A life that was everything I ever wanted. We were not rich but we were happy, happy for 7 years until that one phone call. I never in my wildest dreams believed anything like this could have happened, in...
    slkelly59 slkelly59 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    shorty71009 shorty71009 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2015

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    ShannieB ShannieB 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In All The World You'll Never Find A Love That's True As Mine

    So I haven't been on here in a while, but I've decided to do a little update. My husband Kenny was sentenced to 4 years in prison. Now we are finally under a year for him to be released. It's about 11 months now. I know that this time will fly. I need to get so much prepared...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    I Have A Husband In Prison

    I was that Husband. Not a day goes by that i don't think about the harm I caused. Reading your comments allows me see just how gut wrenching it was for my wife. She left me as a result of my arrest and I can't blame her. At first I was angry, then bitter, then sad, and finally...
    Arrestangel Arrestangel 41-45, M Nov 20, 2013

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    In a few hours my husband gets released

    and since we married while he was in prison we'll finally get to have our little honeymoon. How am I going to sleep tonight? It's surreal that finally we'll be able to be together.
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    Isolation

    When the person you love most in the world is gone for a long period of time, you miss them. Others might understand the concept of "missing" someone, as they may also have missed someone in their lives. Someone who went away on a trip, or to college, or who moved somewhere...
    jessicaleigh19103 jessicaleigh19103 36-40 4 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I hate this time of year.

    Especially due to Valentine's Day. Seeing so many things out on, of different types and I can't do anything but send a card. Hate it so much. Yet love my husband more than anything in the world and miss him more and more. Wish I could do something to change this.
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for six wonderful years. He is the other half of my soul and the person who understands me the best out of everyone else I know. He's told me since shortly into our second year together that he wants to get married. The only reason we haven't yet is due to my own self and...
    FairyTaleLover FairyTaleLover 22-25, F Oct 21, 2015

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    He stole my heart <3

    so I stole his last name! Hey it's me again :) It's been awhile since I've been on here. So I thought I would give everyone an update. I started this journey with my husband in jail with him having 4 years!! I thought I would never make it. Now it's only 6 months and he will be...
    chrissygurl4321 chrissygurl4321 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    My husband has been incarcerated

    for three and a half years of a 35 year sentence. It's destroying me.
    Swho Swho 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    My journey started 18 months ago

    when my fiance was sentenced to 29 months in prison. I was devastated, heart broken and I cried almost every day. I thought my life was over, and I couldn't go on without him. Well, 18 months later, I've had a change of heart. I know people make mistakes, but he went to prison...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    I have been with my man

    for 7+ years.. We have been thru it all... Just when I thought things were going good. He gets in trouble with the law for the first time in his 28years of life.. He was carrying an unregistered gun.. You see, Where we live, in the Bay Area this is nothing.. You will go to jail...
    Willskeeper Willskeeper 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I Need Picked Up...

    I am experiencing so many emotions right now!! We got to visit my husband two days ago and stayed the entire 10hrs :)) it's so great seeing him and holding his hand and seeing our daughter smile ear to ear because Daddy is right in front of her. However it's almost like a death...
    LynScott LynScott 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    so i havent been on here in a while

    so this is a status update...ever since my husband got moved from county to prison i hadn't been able to see him. Where he's at they only do visitation list twice a year once in may and the other in November. So I went 7 months without seeing him. OMG i wanted to die. But i...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F Jan 26

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    I'm really missing him today :( more

    than usual,if that's even possible. Even our phone calls, which usually bring me comfort and strength, are leaving me missing him so much and wishing he was here just so I could hug him. He is on intake and it could be another 2 or 3 weeks, if not longer, before I can see him...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 1 Response May 8, 2014

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    Today, I had a picture sent to me of my husband

    on what's app. It was so good to see him. I can't express the feelings. Seeing him after 5 years and the emotions ran high. I felt tears rolling down in happiness. Few hours later I had a phone call from him. He asked if I got my Christmas present. It was the best gift I've had...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    Bae comes home in a week

    and a half. Finally we'll be together, have our honeymoon and start our life together. I've been incredibly excited. In my heart of hearts I also fear things will fall apart as they did a decade ago in my first marriage. This is a completely different man and a completely...
    lobitalince lobitalince 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2015

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    Its been 13months since he was sentenced.

    Glad times moving but still feeling low. I tend to ask myself these questions .. Why do i feel so odd? Why do i feel like i dont fit in with nothing or no one? Why isit that most of my day im sad rather than happy? Why do i feel invisible to everyone? Why cant i live a simple...
    known23 known23 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    ladies i need some support the enemy is really

    messing with me. I'm madly in love like i said before with my hubby but there's a lot of confusion and questioning. What do I do???
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    my husband is 8 mths into 16 yr sentence of

    which must serve 8 b4 elgible for parole and is now clinically depressed in tdcj. we haven't ever been apart b4 this he's really struggling over me being out here alone does anybody have any advice on how I can help him also we are 170 miles apart in different states. he is a...
    redneckbarby78 redneckbarby78 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    shorty71009 shorty71009 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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    Has anyone else had someone in a pretrail center

    for almost 3 years. Would love to hear from you if so? Where, what state? County. Anyone have a husband who in bad health and jailed. Anyone every contacted the Prison Law Office in Berkley and succeeded?
    TLC2 TLC2 61-65, F Oct 8, 2015

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    Our anniversary is Tuesday,

    and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I asked him how he could be smiling, and he said "even when he is leaving this earth, he will have a smile on his face for me". I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    MY Convict 2

    I miss my fiancee more than words can describe and I find comfort in knowing im not the only one dealing with this struggle. Some people dont understand how hard it is for us, the ones who love them. We suffer just as much. We may not be the ones behind bars having to do time but...
    JessnBaldy JessnBaldy 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Hi I'm new to the group.

    I don't even know where to begin or how to even start. My emotions are all over the place. My husband has 8 long years(2024) and I don't know how to cope or deal with it. I really don't have anyone to talk to or help me through this. I'm trying to stay strong but it gets harder...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Married 2 Months Then My Husband Is Arrested. And Like A Part Of Me Is Gone Too!

    I have read a few stories on here about some whirlwind romances. My husband and I met online over about an eight day period we text and talked on the phone nonstop. He had a bad past I guess but he never kept any of it a secret. He told me every bad thing he'd ever done, all the...
    itsjustme333 itsjustme333 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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