I Have A Judgmental Family

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    Trying To Fit Into A Blended Family

    I've been in a committed relationship for a couple years.  We get along great until his daughters spend half the summer with us and the weekends.  I realize they need their father and he needs them so I usually go into the background, work or spend time with...
    life501 life501
    Aug 30, 2010


    About 2 months ago I came out as gay to my family. I couldnt tell them I was straight cause I had feelings for girls. But I still have feelings for some boys. Im pan sexual, I can like anyone just for their personality. My family thinks that people who are Bi are just trying to...
    pangirl pangirl
    18-21, F
    Jan 15, 2012

    Many Stories

    I know that a lot of my stories are about how my mother won't accept me for who I am. It's not as major an issue as it seems, particularly by my stories. I have already come to terms with the fact that I may need to walk away from her.The fact remains that despite my mothers...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    Apr 20, 2013


    my mom judges people based on rlly stuped things like the clothes they wear or their religion or even becuze their friends with people she dont like
    ilovemello ilovemello
    Jun 26, 2011

    My fathers family is very traditional All they

    are concerned with is money, marriage, and looking good, as far as woman are concerned I can't stand it and so I have chosen to stay far away The one person I felt closest to was my grandfather He never gave up on me Always got in contact Would cry the few times I bared going to...
    MNI1982 MNI1982
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2014


    But sometimes it is not the bad "crush your hopes" kind of judgmental; instead it's just the -_- really? kind of judgmental. lol. Allow me to explain!!!Sooooo I am kind of very protective of my music, but when my cousin asked to see my ipod I figured, it's just my cousin-she's...
    complexitykills complexitykills
    18-21, F
    Jun 11, 2011

    My Judgemental Family Ruined My Life ...

    I don't know how to describe my situation except that my statement above says it all.
    tac3004 tac3004
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2012

    Judging Someone?

    They may be judgemental but I still love them despite their shortcomings.It's their view about people which I don't find pleasing.. They would automatically come up with a description of what the person is like the moment they meet them. And most of the time, if their initial...
    pRetentiousLiar pRetentiousLiar
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2011

    In 7th and 8th grade,

    our class wasn't very small so gossip traveled really fast. And I heard from a friend that they thought I was a loner. It really hurt my feelings, I mean I was 12. So I went home and casually told my mom and acted like I didn't care that they said that about me. All she did was...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    Pretty much... Judgmental: "Why the hell you

    got this! ???" *dont want to answer "Answer me f'n gd it !" Why ... Your just gonna judge and criticize every little detail Maybe I'm tired of dealing with your judgmental spirit
    Hey4yu Hey4yu
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    My whole family are such judgmental ******.

    Even though I'm not gay, I support it. The rest of my family hates it and calls me stupid and stuff like that every time I try to defend gay people. I have a freaking gay cousin and they won't even let him inside our house. That is SO wrong! Just because he's gay, it doesn't...
    sarahjade123 sarahjade123
    18-21, F
    Mar 29, 2014

    My marriage ended a several months ago

    and I came out as a lesbian to my family recently. My parents are a lot older and not dealing with it very well. I've been told not to discuss anything 'gay' in their house or mention my girlfriends name. Today my mum was minding my youngest and my child happened to mention...
    femmeme femmeme
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    My mom hates that I tell my boyfriend

    everything. She calls me stupid for letting him in my life. I love my bf I've known him for so many years and I feel so comfortable talking to him. My parents hate that he lives 30 miles away, but we make it work. He comes see me and at times I go to him. And me going to him...
    wtgs16 wtgs16
    22-25, F
    Mar 19, 2014

    Family Respect, There Is None.

    My family judge people all the time n never judge themselves, they backstabe u to everyone around u, then when u confront them they deny everything. That's what I call people who don't like them selves n what to make people miserable with them. That's why I try barely to have...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 23, 2011

    "I Don't Belong Here, I Drive a BMW"

    My family is very judgmental. Despite their wealth and status, they are incredibly ignorant. As I grew up, they constantly displayed their ignorance, were incredibly insensitive, and were also often hypocritical. Much of the time, I believe their racist and homophobic comments...
    PhoenixOnTheRise PhoenixOnTheRise
    41-45, F
    7 Responses May 24, 2010

    Currently I am staying with a family member.

    Who is not only a nosy old maid but a *****! When I am here all she does is complain complain complain recently she put me and my daughter out she said because my daughter ate a piece of cake without asking first she considered this stealing. She's more than a century old she...
    bb1523 bb1523
    41-45, F
    Jan 25, 2014

    Theyre So Not Nice To Me

    like seriously every day i have to face being called fat and **** like that by my own family and it makes me incicure about my body that i wear bigger shirts so that it hides my fat and swaeters all the time i try to stay fit all the time and i miss meals sometimes just to keep...
    canadiangrl37 canadiangrl37
    13-15, F
    Feb 6, 2011

    suffocation. I can't escape the constant remarks

    and glares. the little insults fill my head. madness. I understand I'm not the best daughter. but at least I try to be.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2014

    I do but my bubo is very loving in a brother

    way. Lol he wants me to take pic of him and I get to go on tour this week and now I get to skip school
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47
    16-17, F
    Sep 9, 2014

    Very Judgmental.

    I have a very judgmental, prejudiced, bigoted, racist family. They don't like black people-- assume they are all thieves, don't like gay people because, according to them "it's disgusting," & don't like a lot of other people because they think he or she is "weird." Every time...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2010

    I do and I feel bad for the ppl

    that got judged by them. :(
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47
    16-17, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    Forged By A Racist Moment

    It is ok for some judgements to be in this world. but when it is too much it can hurt someone. I learned this ever since i heard my mom talk bad about black people. Sometimes i feel so ashamed of my family, because i am a loving girl who is friends with everyone, and who will be...
    persuitofhappiness persuitofhappiness
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2011

    Back Asswards: A Story Of Embarrassment And Betrayal

    My boyfriend has had to move in with his grandparents because his grandfather fell ill and needs a caretaker. He and I are a package deal, and even though I wasn't going to be "moving in," I would be there all the time, and was even asked to spend five nights a week there while...
    LittleMissPengi LittleMissPengi
    22-25, F
    Oct 3, 2012

    I have a pretty judgmental family too I dated

    outside my race after a while they got cool with it but at first they wernt
    sirnatural sirnatural
    41-45, M
    Feb 4, 2016

    I Am Unique

    I am a 34 year old successful woman that has cerebral palsy.  I didn't get here by chance, I just arrived.  For as long as I can remember I was never good enough, and to this day the people that told me that (my parents, my family, my surrounding peers).  I wonder...
    Lethie Lethie
    1 Response Nov 23, 2010

    Last Time I Tell How I Feel

    I had a showcase at my school for my drama class as my final, and i invited my mom, sister and friend. Well I did a monologue about my father and how i love him and wish i got to meet him. My mom and sister have been bullying me about this. My mom said my dad was a terrible man...
    pangirl pangirl
    18-21, F
    Jan 20, 2012

    god, they take things to the extreme.

    My dads side knows about me coming back from a mental hospital, and they just give me a look of pity every time I come over -.- I don't need your ******* pity, mind your own business jesus christ :(((
    izzyyxo izzyyxo
    18-21, F
    Dec 30, 2014

    I got home yesterday

    and I walked in my house and my grandma tells me to go kill myself and that she wishes I was never born and also called me a lot of other mean and inappropriate words. So yeah that was my night after a crappy day.
    tkhsbandgeek2017 tkhsbandgeek2017
    18-21, F
    Apr 24, 2015

    The family I grew up with respected

    and loved, was crazy and controlling. I grew up blinded by their good times, I had no father so they kind of took his role. I defended them listen to them. But now I see their true colors, the control my every move even my future. My uncle who I looked up to, is the worst. He's...
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2015

    Our family was just on holidays with my sister

    in law and her family. My sis in law has always thought she's a cut above the rest. Anyway, my nephew told me that my sis in law was talking behind our backs about how much larger our child is compared to hers and how much sugar we give our kid. He's a little bit larger but not...
    suckerfish suckerfish
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    Normal girls' parents: "She's grown into

    such a beautiful young lady!!" Mine: "I don't know you anymore."
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014
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