I Have A Lazy Husband

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    Well he's my fiance .

    and he's incredibly lazy sarcastic and straight up selfish. I do all I can to make him happy put him before myself. And all I ask for is for him to clean up after himself. Or help out around the house. I live with him and 2 other males that are his friends. The lease is in our...
    Indie3 Indie3
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    My husband doesn't want to get me any presents

    for Christmas, my birthday in June or our anniversary. He says he doesn't know what to buy me and it's too stressful for him. He doesn't want me to make a list of suggestions, maybe he would have to do something with the list. I have no family of my own. I didn't get any...
    CurvyDiamond CurvyDiamond
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2013

    It's In The Parenting.

    My husband does work & for the most part is a good father, & for that I'm grateful. However, on his days off, he sleeps all day then gets drunk & plays video games all night. Every time he's getting ready for work, he yells at me or the kids. Every single morning, I have to...
    anonymousSP anonymousSP
    1 Response Mar 20, 2012

      My husband and I have been married 18

    years. We have 3 kids. I am both a full time mom and full time worker (i work from home). My husband is a on call technician who works probably 50 hours per year. Prior to this year, he has been a stay home dad. But I pretty much do all the house work, pay the bills, take kids...
    osangtatak osangtatak
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2014

    Why Am I Surprised?

    My husband has two jobs. He works about 55 hours a week between the two. So, not really excessive in my opinion. Both jobs are within 3 miles of our home, so he has next to no commute. He is a fabulous father to our 3 year old daughter and our 12 old son (his stepson, even...
    JetBlak501 JetBlak501
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    I Have A Lazy Husband

    my husband have almost 2 years without a job before economy go down my husband was already out of job and now is because of the "economy" before he use to work 3-6 months and the rest live from unemployment checks. he don't even try to look for a job his mom help him to pay the...
    juliet8810 juliet8810
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2010
    abbey2015 abbey2015
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    Not sure how much more I can take.

    When I was pregnant he made it sound like he would help with everything. He was always a night owl up until 3am until our son was born, then he would go to bed at 9pm and put the covers over his head when it was time to get up for feeding. Baby wouldn't latch so I would get...
    JessieG13 JessieG13
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

    I don't know what else I can do to get him out

    of this slump. His mom passed away last year n June. I get it. He was a momma'a boy. But I'm sorry baby, your mom is not here anymore to fight your battles. You have to man up now! He hasn't worked since he was laid off in October 2013. I've been covering all of our bills and I...
    Inspirationallady Inspirationallady
    31-35, F
    Mar 1, 2014


    My husband is so ******* lazy. I'm a stay at home mom. I know it is my job to keep the house clean and look after the baby. Is it too much to ask that he puts his dirty clothes in the hamper or puts his dirty dishes in the dishwasher? Or god forbid throw away his trash? I just...
    flamingocrazy flamingocrazy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    My husband sleeps in till the early afternoon,

    helps out around the house maybe once a week. We have a daughter who is almost one and I'm always the one getting her ready for the day, changing her diapers, and feeding her meals. I'm trying to plan her birthday party and put together a photo book and he hasn't shown any...
    saccharinedream saccharinedream
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    We have been married

    for 12 years, 2 kids - 6 and 4. He does have a good paying job, takes care of readying the kids to school monday to friday. BUT!... the rest of the housechore fall on me. He "needs" to relax, I become a nagger if I do tell something that disturbs his relaxation time - playing...
    skyline1975 skyline1975
    41-45, F
    Apr 26, 2014

    Disabled Husband

    My husband and I have four children. We have a 15 year old, a 10 year old, and 3 year old twins. When I was pregnant with the twins, he started having the first symptoms of peripheral neuropathy. It is a very painful and extremely hard to treat disease. By the time the babies...
    Feb 7, 2013
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