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I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

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    I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

    ok gals. here's the deal.  my in laws arrive today for 3.5 weeks. so i get off work at 5. and he got off work today at 10 in the MORNING!! so i said, can you switch the bed sheets and wash the bathroom. mind you, it's just the two of us in a small new york apartment. the...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    My Husband Cant Deal With Life Reality.

    Hello everybody, I just need to let this out somehow, sorry about the bad english, Ill make a few mistakes cause its not my native language. Im married to a Quebecois and Im away from my family, but that its not a big problem to me. We have a baby of 9 months and he is the most...
    beamart beamart 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Feeling Like The Maid In The House

    My husband is so lazy omggggg how this guy could have lived for years as a single i dont understand it. We are married for almost 2 years and from the day we lived together he havent done 1 thing. I really dont ask for a lot but we made it a rule 1 person cooks the other person...
    Mavethe Mavethe 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I Hate The Person He Became

    I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful children  one 7 years and one 3months, if it weren't for them I would walk out of the house and leave him and his mother to it. You see there are three people in my marriage him me and his MOTHER. If I had of...
    junglejill junglejill 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    But Yet I Stay With Him!

    In the four years we have been married, he has had 10 different jobs with only 2 of them lasting a little over 8 months! In the past year and a half he has been doing some odd jobs here and there and claims that it is hard to find a job! Of course its hard to find a job when you...
    depressedmommy depressedmommy 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    My Show Off

    Last Sunday we decided to go to a remote place and do showing off experimentation. I wore a black silk sari with black low cut and back cut blouse which is not very transparent but bit of transparent and sleeveless too. I wore a blue satin color bra and through her blouse her bra...
    sunitak0276 sunitak0276 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I Have House Husband

    Earlier we both are in job & have a child of 4year old. My mother stayed with us & taking care of the child till last year. She expired a year before & the problem arise who will take care of the child as well as home. Since my salary are more than my hubby’s he agreed to be...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 26 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I've been married for 3 years.

    Two years ago my husband quit his job to study a master's degree, at first everything was good. He was getting some money from the school and we were doing fine. Approximately 1 year ago he started becoming really lazy like not getting up in time for his lectures, coming back...
    LenaT4 LenaT4 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2

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    Navel Encounter In Chiffon Sari

     I am a 41 years old attractive lady. Although I like to wear chiffon saris but do not have the courage to expose my delicious navel. I find my navel too sexy to expose. I have sexy abdomen and back and a fair complexioned lovely skin. A colleague of mine who is my admirer...
    iravadi iravadi 41-45 24 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    My Husband Is So Lazy, Its Damaging Our Marriage.

    ONCE I WAKE UP I HAVE A ROUTINE, GET UP CHANGE DIAPERS, MAKE BREAKFAST, CLEAN THE KITCHEN, WASH CLOTHES, CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN, MAKE LUNCH, GIVE THE KIDS A SHOWER, CLEAN, GET READY FOR SCHOOL, GO TO SCHOOL, GO GROCERY SHOPPING, GO HOME, COOK DINNER, CLEAN SOME MORE. I HAVE A JOB ON...
    missevo3 missevo3 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    Can't Get My Husband To Help Me Out

    my husband is so freaking lazy, all he does every single day is lay around, and sit around on the couch. or playing slots on his computer. while i do everything! i have even tried the whole strike thing, thinking that maybe if i do that he will see how messy the house is getting...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Yep

    on top of all the lies and how much he's hurt me,he can't pick up after himself, he expects his meals when he wants them although he'd probably deny that to anyone who asks, he won't spend time with our son unless I give him no choice or our son tells how it is in public (and...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2011

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    I Wear Saree Below The Navel

    I am always wearing the saree below my navel. I feel comfortable when I tie the saree about 2-3 inches below my navel. Most of the boys are looking at my waist & try to see my navel wherever they get the oppurtuinity,  I do enjoy people staring at my navel, & show my navel...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 57 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    I have been married almost 2 years. About a year ago I found out my husband cheated the whole time we dated, were engaged, on our wedding day, the day our son was born, and then...
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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me, we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me, we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    Going trough some experiences posted here. We all feel the same pain. We all know what to be done, but just not strong enough to take the first step. Do what have to be done! Don't...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    Technically, he is now a "dry drunk," because he no longer drinks (he has end stage liver disease), and he refused any help medically or psychologically to dry out. His behavior...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    He's cheated on me numerous times and have discovered he's been doing it to women all his life... I'm positive he's doing it again. I heard him on the phone with this girl he works...
    KateO2014 KateO2014 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 18

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    Toxic negativity describes him perfectly. You probably know someone who's always angry and resentful, suspicious of everything. Negativity destroys relationships, and spending...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm only 20 and I feel I've been through hell in my life when I was younger I was emotionally and physically abused I've never felt loved or cared for until I met my husband in our...
    mzk94 mzk94 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have watched my husband have sex with his bf and loved watching him.He has also watched me with my bf.
    rhondag48 rhondag48 51-55, F Oct 30

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    yes im lazy and i don't know why day by day im getting lazy.I don't know what to do,if you have any good idea's please share with me,because i want to stay fit like all of you,so...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    I'm so lazy & I don't like sports I need to find a hobby that I like that involves extersize.
    ThaQueen2 ThaQueen2 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    i have cheated on my husband multiple times. we have been married for 3 and half year and I started cheating since last year. It was an arranged marriage and I got married really...
    idontknowwhatiwant idontknowwhatiwant 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Okay, so I know internet is full of depressed 9 year old's bullcrapples but that won't stop me from writing this, so if you're gonna criticize me from being bothered by "silly...
    WeirdMoon WeirdMoon 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My experiences growing up haven't been good ones I was befriended a lot and didn't have anyone to take care of me I came from a broken family and didn't care much about myself. My...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 49 mins ago

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    I know it didn't come on suddenly, but my realization that it was true did. It was the moment another lie came spilling out of his mouth as freely as water through a hole. It wasn...
    PoisonedApplePrincess PoisonedApplePrincess 26-30, F Nov 7

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    I have so many plans for today and I can't get up out of bed LOL so comfy... What to do what to do? :)
    vanessanicole247 vanessanicole247 31-35, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I just had a baby, who is now 8 weeks old. It started off with the first big fight when I was under confinement at my mother's house. He tried to take me away from my mother's...
    lilithgarcia lilithgarcia 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I've just come to the realization that I don't believe in chronic depression...? Given my family's alleged history with "chronic depression" it seems odd but... I just don't. Part...
    mlynnikens mlynnikens 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do.....my husband and I have been married 4 years. we have one son together and he has a son from a previous marriage. this woman takes any chance she can to...
    shortness07 shortness07 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    I live my life as a wife to a man who barely knows me anymore and as a mother to the most awesome little girl I've ever known. Every sacrifice I make is worth it for her but I get...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    My Husband recently purchased 2 new dinner-out dresses for me. One is white and the other is black.This dress will be worn for a very special anniversary dinner out. He has chosen...
    LeighSpader LeighSpader 36-40, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I think I want a divorce, my husband acts like a child and constantly puts me down. He won't support me or his daughter. I really don't want her learning his bad behaviors. He's...
    pg1341290 pg1341290 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Please don't send me pics. Your pic won't change my mind. I am hot for my husband's body only, much appreciated : )
    Imtoosexy42 Imtoosexy42 41-45, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Please help. I'm currently experiencing dark thoughts, dark thoughts about just running away. I love all my Children but they have no respect for anything I have ever done for...
    RockingLikeAFetus RockingLikeAFetus 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My cousin who is the same age as me, 31, made a comment that if she could turn back time, she would never had kids. This is the 2nd time she's said this and I got so disgusted. She...
    Hopeless314 Hopeless314 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 27

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    Pshh who cares about lazy mornings in bed, I like lazy days in bed. xD
    rachel335 rachel335 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Almost one year since my divorce from my verbally abusive ex husband has been final. I am so much happier. I feel more like my old self every day. He was so mean to me. Always...
    jameshasmyheart jameshasmyheart 41-45, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house...
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F 12 hrs ago

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    I've been married almost 8 years. In my second year of marriage he cheated and we separated for 2 years. We decided to give it another try and things went well. We have a 1 year...
    Mdavie703 Mdavie703 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    yeah, you may think im lazy but my idea of a fun day is to relax, surf the web, watch some tv, and play video games. Oh and nap
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M Oct 29