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I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

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    I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

    ok gals. here's the deal.  my in laws arrive today for 3.5 weeks. so i get off work at 5. and he got off work today at 10 in the MORNING!! so i said, can you switch the bed sheets and wash the bathroom. mind you, it's just the two of us in a small new york apartment. the...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    But Yet I Stay With Him!

    In the four years we have been married, he has had 10 different jobs with only 2 of them lasting a little over 8 months! In the past year and a half he has been doing some odd jobs here and there and claims that it is hard to find a job! Of course its hard to find a job when you...
    depressedmommy depressedmommy 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    Can't Get My Husband To Help Me Out

    my husband is so freaking lazy, all he does every single day is lay around, and sit around on the couch. or playing slots on his computer. while i do everything! i have even tried the whole strike thing, thinking that maybe if i do that he will see how messy the house is getting...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    I Hate The Person He Became

    I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful children  one 7 years and one 3months, if it weren't for them I would walk out of the house and leave him and his mother to it. You see there are three people in my marriage him me and his MOTHER. If I had of...
    junglejill junglejill 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Feeling Like The Maid In The House

    My husband is so lazy omggggg how this guy could have lived for years as a single i dont understand it. We are married for almost 2 years and from the day we lived together he havent done 1 thing. I really dont ask for a lot but we made it a rule 1 person cooks the other person...
    Mavethe Mavethe 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I've been married for 3 years.

    Two years ago my husband quit his job to study a master's degree, at first everything was good. He was getting some money from the school and we were doing fine. Approximately 1 year ago he started becoming really lazy like not getting up in time for his lectures, coming back...
    LenaT4 LenaT4 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I Have House Husband

    Earlier we both are in job & have a child of 4year old. My mother stayed with us & taking care of the child till last year. She expired a year before & the problem arise who will take care of the child as well as home. Since my salary are more than my hubby’s he agreed to be...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 26 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    Yep

    on top of all the lies and how much he's hurt me,he can't pick up after himself, he expects his meals when he wants them although he'd probably deny that to anyone who asks, he won't spend time with our son unless I give him no choice or our son tells how it is in public (and...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2011

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    Navel Encounter In Chiffon Sari

     I am a 41 years old attractive lady. Although I like to wear chiffon saris but do not have the courage to expose my delicious navel. I find my navel too sexy to expose. I have sexy abdomen and back and a fair complexioned lovely skin. A colleague of mine who is my admirer...
    iravadi iravadi 41-45 24 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    My Show Off

    Last Sunday we decided to go to a remote place and do showing off experimentation. I wore a black silk sari with black low cut and back cut blouse which is not very transparent but bit of transparent and sleeveless too. I wore a blue satin color bra and through her blouse her bra...
    sunitak0276 sunitak0276 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I Wear Saree Below The Navel

    I am always wearing the saree below my navel. I feel comfortable when I tie the saree about 2-3 inches below my navel. Most of the boys are looking at my waist & try to see my navel wherever they get the oppurtuinity,  I do enjoy people staring at my navel, & show my navel...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 56 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    My Husband Is So Lazy, Its Damaging Our Marriage.

    ONCE I WAKE UP I HAVE A ROUTINE, GET UP CHANGE DIAPERS, MAKE BREAKFAST, CLEAN THE KITCHEN, WASH CLOTHES, CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN, MAKE LUNCH, GIVE THE KIDS A SHOWER, CLEAN, GET READY FOR SCHOOL, GO TO SCHOOL, GO GROCERY SHOPPING, GO HOME, COOK DINNER, CLEAN SOME MORE. I HAVE A JOB ON...
    missevo3 missevo3 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    My Husband Cant Deal With Life Reality.

    Hello everybody, I just need to let this out somehow, sorry about the bad english, Ill make a few mistakes cause its not my native language. Im married to a Quebecois and Im away from my family, but that its not a big problem to me. We have a baby of 9 months and he is the most...
    beamart beamart 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I am tired of being this way, constantly comparing my life to others, (she has it better,, ect) i am not gratfull for what i have. i am 26 years old, very attractive, amazing body...
    Gena11 Gena11 22-25, F Feb 15

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    I am tired of being this way, constantly comparing my life to others, (she has it better,, ect) i am not gratfull for what i have. i am 26 years old, very attractive, amazing body...
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    I am tired of being this way, constantly comparing my life to others, (she has it better,, ect) i am not gratfull for what i have. i am 26 years old, very attractive, amazing body...
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    His selfish gets mad and complaints about evereverything. Lousy husband, doesn't help with the kids. says i am ungrateful and should kiss Ground he walks on because he pays The...
    julee04 julee04 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    My husband left me this week. His mom paid for his flight home. I came home And he was gone. Part of me is happy but the other part is devastated. We don't have children which is a...
    flower5490 flower5490 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I was born on the Philippines. As a baby I was adopted by my Swiss parents. I've always been told I've been a foundling and my biological parents probably died in a storm or...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I was diagnosed a little over 3 yrs ago. Was on Synthroid which didn't really work well with me. Been on Desiccated Thyroid for a bit over a year and it's been working much better...
    Agusia Agusia 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    my husband does nothing to improve our financial status nor develop his business, rather he chsts with his friends ,watch tv , spends time doin nothing. also he is not smart...
    nivicin nivicin 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I don't hate my husband but I currently am irritated with him. I woke him up due to bad snowstorm outside and he was all like you woke me up over a damn snow. I was getting ready...
    AngelicInnocence92 AngelicInnocence92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    This should ring serious alarm bells. I found out a month and a half ago that my husband had cheated on me and it all started with him playing an online game and messaging a woman...
    mskarma mskarma 41-45, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Pouring my heart out: a friend told me "life begins to make sense after you have become a mother"...well I'm trying to reason with myself why it hasn't happened at all...all around...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I Hate Lazy People We have an NSTP subject during first year college. In this subject, we visit villages, do a clean-up and feeding the village children. The village (Fortune B...
    diane1996 diane1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I need to step up and tell myself the truth. I need to face reality. My marriage wasn't a marriage and it took an anonymous app, a stranger to open my eyes. Now they're open I...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Well a strange dream really. Sometimes the context changes... Like last night my children were arguing during the dream... Some things are always the same I'm driving It's dark...
    Author1980 Author1980 31-35, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my husband in the past. We been together for 18 years ( since we were 15 ) and he recently asked me one day while we were laying in bed, if I ever cheated on him in...
    wife81 wife81 31-35, F 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Today is our anniversary, it was an amazing day. Started by getting a haircut because he likes my hair short. Then we went for sushi and it was delicious. After that we decided to...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 52 mins ago

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    I am finally admitting it to myself. We've been together for eight years. We met on an online game. He moved countries to be with me. He was the first man I ever kissed. It all...
    paranoidbird paranoidbird 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Hi everyone, I'm so blessed to have found this website and support group for this subject! I suffered from major anxiety this year as a junior in college, I had to leave school and...
    halessss halessss 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    hate to admit it but I am awfully lazy. It has been my problem for as long as I can remember.
    Vi018 Vi018 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    So I'm doing my mom a favor, but it's only so she won't scream at me later for being an ungrateful *****. I hate her so much OMG.
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Jan 30

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    But it's a Monday. And no one's allowed to be lazy on Mondays. Booo!
    itcheru itcheru 22-25, F Feb 1

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    I'm not lazy I get up at 5;00 am every morning for work leave at 5;30am and don't get home till 5;15pm . I am just tired at the end of the day .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Well Hi guys, lately I have noticed that I've been eating like seriously tons of fatty foods and some of my friends are even telling me how unfit I am and well judging by the pic...
    Fatgirlandrea Fatgirlandrea 16-17, F 37 Responses Feb 5

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    It started out fine with a short workout and a short trip to the city hall for my errands. But then after eating my lunch and went back to sleep after reading.. I feel so lazy I...
    itcheru itcheru 22-25, F Feb 7

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    I have given you everything and still it is not good enough. You are so ungrateful , you don't value anyone ,you don't appreciate anything that is done for you . I have done...
    scoobie2412 scoobie2412 41-45 2 Responses Feb 19

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    I am 25 years old and have recently moved back home to live with my parents for a few months. I always knew my family was extremely dysfunctional growing up, but I always thought...
    Thristic Thristic 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    It is very annoying to not have any motivation. I do clean my house every day but, it takes a little while for me to get off my butt and do it. And I feel like I’m just lazy and...
    DrewXLove DrewXLove 22-25, F a week ago