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I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

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    My Husband Cant Deal With Life Reality.

    Hello everybody, I just need to let this out somehow, sorry about the bad english, Ill make a few mistakes cause its not my native language. Im married to a Quebecois and Im away from my family, but that its not a big problem to me. We have a baby of 9 months and he is the most...
    beamart beamart 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Can't Get My Husband To Help Me Out

    my husband is so freaking lazy, all he does every single day is lay around, and sit around on the couch. or playing slots on his computer. while i do everything! i have even tried the whole strike thing, thinking that maybe if i do that he will see how messy the house is getting...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Feeling Like The Maid In The House

    My husband is so lazy omggggg how this guy could have lived for years as a single i dont understand it. We are married for almost 2 years and from the day we lived together he havent done 1 thing. I really dont ask for a lot but we made it a rule 1 person cooks the other person...
    Mavethe Mavethe 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    My Husband Is So Lazy, Its Damaging Our Marriage.

    ONCE I WAKE UP I HAVE A ROUTINE, GET UP CHANGE DIAPERS, MAKE BREAKFAST, CLEAN THE KITCHEN, WASH CLOTHES, CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN, MAKE LUNCH, GIVE THE KIDS A SHOWER, CLEAN, GET READY FOR SCHOOL, GO TO SCHOOL, GO GROCERY SHOPPING, GO HOME, COOK DINNER, CLEAN SOME MORE. I HAVE A JOB ON...
    missevo3 missevo3 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    I've been married for 3 years.

    Two years ago my husband quit his job to study a master's degree, at first everything was good. He was getting some money from the school and we were doing fine. Approximately 1 year ago he started becoming really lazy like not getting up in time for his lectures, coming back...
    LenaT4 LenaT4 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I Hate The Person He Became

    I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful children  one 7 years and one 3months, if it weren't for them I would walk out of the house and leave him and his mother to it. You see there are three people in my marriage him me and his MOTHER. If I had of...
    junglejill junglejill 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    But Yet I Stay With Him!

    In the four years we have been married, he has had 10 different jobs with only 2 of them lasting a little over 8 months! In the past year and a half he has been doing some odd jobs here and there and claims that it is hard to find a job! Of course its hard to find a job when you...
    depressedmommy depressedmommy 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    I Have a Lazy Ungrateful Husband

    ok gals. here's the deal.  my in laws arrive today for 3.5 weeks. so i get off work at 5. and he got off work today at 10 in the MORNING!! so i said, can you switch the bed sheets and wash the bathroom. mind you, it's just the two of us in a small new york apartment. the...
    dogloverapril dogloverapril 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    I Have House Husband

    Earlier we both are in job & have a child of 4year old. My mother stayed with us & taking care of the child till last year. She expired a year before & the problem arise who will take care of the child as well as home. Since my salary are more than my hubby’s he agreed to be...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 26 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I Wear Saree Below The Navel

    I am always wearing the saree below my navel. I feel comfortable when I tie the saree about 2-3 inches below my navel. Most of the boys are looking at my waist & try to see my navel wherever they get the oppurtuinity,  I do enjoy people staring at my navel, & show my navel...
    Raginisharma Raginisharma 31-35, F 56 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    Navel Encounter In Chiffon Sari

     I am a 41 years old attractive lady. Although I like to wear chiffon saris but do not have the courage to expose my delicious navel. I find my navel too sexy to expose. I have sexy abdomen and back and a fair complexioned lovely skin. A colleague of mine who is my admirer...
    iravadi iravadi 41-45 24 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Yep

    on top of all the lies and how much he's hurt me,he can't pick up after himself, he expects his meals when he wants them although he'd probably deny that to anyone who asks, he won't spend time with our son unless I give him no choice or our son tells how it is in public (and...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2011

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    My Show Off

    Last Sunday we decided to go to a remote place and do showing off experimentation. I wore a black silk sari with black low cut and back cut blouse which is not very transparent but bit of transparent and sleeveless too. I wore a blue satin color bra and through her blouse her bra...
    sunitak0276 sunitak0276 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I feel so out of control, and yet... I feel frozen Hearing this voice This unreasonable man The pressured speech The sonic pace The unprovoked anger The flight of ideas ideas...
    IShutMyEyes IShutMyEyes 31-35, F Jan 12

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    4 years ago I found out my husband was a CD. I wasn't ok with it at first but just now got started getting use to it. Probably because he couldn't dress up that much, not because I...
    WoaCD09 WoaCD09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I've been married for 25 long years. Classic narcissist although I've just recently realized this which i thought I was just crazy. He turns your words around on you and asks for...
    Lorismori Lorismori 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    My Husband can be a pain sometimes but he is wonderful. He is hard working and loving and caring. That's all I want.. I couldn't be happier
    debbieeee2014 debbieeee2014 36-40, F Jan 16

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    He tries real hard, though! As long as he is trying I love him so! Such a little kid sometimes though... Can you teach self-awareness? Encourage it?
    maunder maunder 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    This past August, my dad had major surgery, was really sick and is lucky to be alive. I posted awhile ago that I heard this rumor ::: that I'm upset and mad that he didn't die...
    mudflap73 mudflap73 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    When I was a little girl I didn't really care much about my eyes because I didn't know what was going on umm once I got to middle school that was the worst I got picked on everyday...
    clilishad clilishad 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I love my husband and have been with him for 5yrs and married for 3yrs. due to a medical condition a few years back I was told I cant have children. my husband has a daughter from...
    rebeccalouise1987 rebeccalouise1987 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    After numerous attempts to set boundaries, months of not speaking , forgiving and multiple chances, I have to let her go. She still has my brother who she thinks is the best since...
    sgg2013 sgg2013 46-50, F Jan 8

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    So my husband has been lying to me about where money is going. He promised me he was saving it and it was in the bank. But what he didn't know was I could check the bank balance. I...
    Talice88 Talice88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    It's a Saturday and there are so many things that needs to be done in my home. My husband is a carpenter and I am the primary bread winner in our family. I loathe the fact that...
    crystal828 crystal828 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Just the other day my brother called me lazy. He got mad because my mom told him he never helps around the house. Then, as I was bending over to pick the remote off the floor, he...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Does anyone who is normally very active and a hard worker, have a weekend where you have no motivation and lazy beyond lazy? I feel so guilty for it.
    lovnlife5 lovnlife5 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Man this bloated, fat, lazy, Man still laying up in my house. Annoying, tormenting, chain smoking, rude, gluttonous ,with mental issues,snoring all day that sounds horrendous like...
    Lashawnda1 Lashawnda1 36-40, F Dec 30, 2014

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    25th anniversary here today on New Year's eve. Lazy slob has, as usual, zero ideas about what to do or where to go. I have to plan everything. His idea of asking me out on a...
    Sharon6319 Sharon6319 51-55, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Waking up after a night of glorious love making - a bit sore but glowing... Alone in bed - nude - the husband off to work. Stretching blissfully under the warm, soft to the touch...
    LoveOverHatred LoveOverHatred 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I have been married for 14 months to a complete loser. Before we got married, he pretended to be everything thing I wanted in a man. When he returned from the honeymoon, his true...
    MISTEEZBLUEZ MISTEEZBLUEZ 41-45 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love lazy mornings in bed. Too much that I sleep again after waking up and the weird thing is, everytime I sleep... I dream. Haha
    gotawishy gotawishy 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Tired of lazy *** people.. ugg
    prettygirl32 prettygirl32 31-35, F Dec 28, 2014

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    I hate that I am incompetent. Alright, so basically, my mom expects me to be able to do all kinds of things without being taught, because she thinks they're obvious. Well, they...
    sethdots sethdots 18-21, T 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Customers may think we are ungrateful for our job, but they should be grateful that we are acting professional when we deal with their stupidness :) You all know what I mean right...
    pinkballoon23 pinkballoon23 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Just talking to myself... Feeling lonely and confused! Depression came to me after finding out the one I most lived and gave myself in full, cheated on me on the worst way possible...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 7 Responses Jan 1

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    I've been quite lazy lately. All i wanna seem to do is to lie down in bed with my music on. I need to study but my concentration is messed up :/ #studentlife
    lifeiswhatthef lifeiswhatthef 16-17, M Jan 1

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    honesty is the best policy yep I am lazy sometimes nothing more to say
    never0empty never0empty 18-21, M Jan 1

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    My older brother. I don't talk about Jacob much with other people, most don't even know I have an older brother. I don't tell unless asked. It's not that I don't love my...
    Contentio Contentio 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    My dad always makes rude comments when I'm talking with my mom and he always freaks out on me saying I'm an ungrateful *****, nothing I do is ever good enough for them and my mom...
    cantstandwhereilive cantstandwhereilive 18-21, F Jan 4

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    I didn't read the 53 pages assigned to me un my AP class even though I had 2 1/2 weeks to do it. Failed the quiz on the reading with a whooping ZERO. I feel really ****** because...
    shellysea shellysea 18-21, F Jan 7

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    feels damn lazy to wakeup...............
    annjuli1122 annjuli1122 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    The morning is freezing. This is the best time for a movie marathon and or just lazy mornings in bed.
    Jensa16 Jensa16 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Every morning is like this for me :D gotta love a lazy morning in bed.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I don't want to be. I always hate when people compare the Present to "Back In The Day" when "They Were A Kid". It's not my ******* fault today is the way it is. Did we forget who...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F Jan 10

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    *insert title of group here* Okay, so I'm third in my class at a 3A high school. That proves that I am smart - academically at least. However, I am a terrible procrastinator. I...
    JGMeador444 JGMeador444 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 10