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I Have A List Of Turn Offs

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    Not The Obvious

    You'll know one when you meet one. . . Attention getters (one who is the know-it-all type kind of person) Gossipers Spoiled brats One who belongs to the minority but who's actually a racist. One who uses hurtful words to children. Liars = Politicians, Lovers, Salesman and Diet...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F Feb 12, 2012

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    Not Trying To Offend

    I have a small list of turn offs, but please don't take offense. 1. Excessive swearing. Occasional swearing is fine, but I am not a huge fan of women that swear unnecessarily. 2. Baby talk. One of my pet peeves. 3. Noisy eating. Smacking lips etc. 4. Uncleanliness. A bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 20, 2011

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    What I Think Are Turn On's And Turn Off's For Men

     I'm going to try to write what I think men like and don't like,this isn't easy!!  Men don't like: 1.  When you call or come over right after a date. [ Wait three days after] 2.  when you do all the talking. Or talk to much about their relationship. 3.   To be to...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    Here's My List ...

    ... of turn offs in a guy: 1) any kind of bragging and macho posturing 2) dirty talk - big time! 3) bad spelling and bad grammar - I like my men to be articulate 4) a scruffy appearance 5) puppy eyes and other signs of excessive neediness 6) sloppy romanticism 7) heavy smoking...
    shabbytigers shabbytigers 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    Well, Where Do I Start

    -Arrogance-Rudeness-Liars-Dishonesty-Braggarts-Stupid people-Greed-Fakes-Self absorbed people-Control freaks-Jerks-Snobs-Smelly men (not just bad cologne either)-Ill mannered louts-Players
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    1. Someone obsessed with animals 2.

    Violent 3. Pulling my hair hard 4. Being lazy 5. Dry lips 6. Dramatization 7. Nappy or tangly hair 8. Too rough 9.dresses sloppy 10. Racism Jokes 11. Too cheap 12. Really hairy
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    My List Of Turn-offs With Reasons!

    I have turn offs, just like everyone else. 1. blow-outs (a hair-do by Pauly D lol) Hey, I love spiky hair and what not..but damn,please don't wear the "blow-out"..it makes you look like a douche...and it's very unsexy. 2.smoking (well, kinda, I've done got used to it now o.o...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    If I tell you what it is,

    then please don't do it.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Jan 5, 2014

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    And Here It Is

    These are not in any certain order.- bad hygiene (Please bother to wash.)-racism, sexism, and any other kind of belief system that promotes hate or intolerance toward any group (The prospect of unconditional love is very important to me. Even if someone's actions stir the anger...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 25, 2011

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    The Turn Off List!

    Get ready, sit back, and I suggest you grab some food becuase this will be long .Meanness .Closed minded .Judgmental .Over protective .No goals .Can't go with the flow .Stresses way too much .Doesn't play sports .Unhygienic .No manners .No chivalry .Uncreative .Boring .Not funny...
    secrethidding secrethidding 18-21, F Dec 26, 2011

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    First.

    I don't have a long list of turn offs but i have 1 thing i will literally kick *** if i hear... when a guy tells you he loves you after knowing you less than 24 hours...yuck. this won't get you my vagina or my soul so just get a grip! bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

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    How Not To Turn A July On...

    1) Bad breath/Body odour. Obvious. 2) Hairy back. Not my cup of tea, sorry. 3) Long hair. Unless of course it is on a girl.. I generally dont think guys look right with excessive hair. Anywhere! 4) Set in their ways. Afraid to be more adventurous, and stuck in routine. 5...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    I’m sorry but this is going to be a really

    long list, not in any particular order, sorry if I offend anyone! 1) B.O. 2) Bad breath 3) Facial hair 4) Smoking 5) Drugs 6) Self absorbed 7) Talks too much 8) Acne 9) Clingy 10) Racist or sexist jokes 11) Too serious 12) Know it all.
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Languages

    It really ticks me off when someone is standing next to you in a store talking in another language while looking at you. I mean, seriously....if you want to visit or live in a country different than your own, at least take the time to learn the language! It's so RUDE to stand...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F Oct 4, 2010

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    25 Turn On's And Turn Offs

     I think it's a turn on 1.  If he calls after a date.  2.  If he brings you a flower. 3.  If he tells you your pretty 4   If he tells you your smart 5   If he laughs at you jokes 6   If he likes your cooking 7  If he likes your...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 21 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I have a list of turn offs.

    .. I met a guy online a while ago and we text a lot. It went on for a little over a month. He is a cool guy, attractive, sweet and good conversation. He lives in London so I know I have zero chances of ever being with him but I liked the idea of having him as a guy I could chat...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    PTigress PTigress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2014

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    Bad hygiene, self centeredness,

    no self pride, egotistical, etc. but I have one major turn off that is a complete and utter deal breaker, and Im just wondering if Im the only person that feels this way. I don't care if he has the body of an Adonis, the mind line Einstein, and a package like john Holmes, if...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Do You Really Want To Know Them?

    Ok I hate being mean,but I might offened some people cause you may fall into these catergorys,But I can make exceptions :) Ok I dont like bad breath,that can make someone look ugly in seconds I hate crooked teeth,especially the bottom ones,I dont know why I just do(but sometimes...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    One Big Turn Off For Me.

    It's funny that there are things you might not expect to big a big turn-off that are.  At one of my school reunions, I hooked up with this woman who lived in another City.  I really didn't know her well from school.  We exchanged phone numbers, called a bunch of times, and...
    stevegam stevegam 31-35, M Jan 30, 2011

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    - Prideful - disgusting/nasty - little common

    sense - quick to anger - little patience - smoking - clinginess - nosy There's more but, all I can think of now.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2014

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 31

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    bad manners, poor table etiquette,

    bad teeth, b.o, vanity ,3/4length skinny jeans on men, with white canvas slip on shoes, overly styled quiffed hair with too much product, sulking, tactlessness, last to the bar men, fake tans, bum bags, shorts with socks and shoes, ties flipped over the shoulder, comb overs...
    jeanna71 jeanna71 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 12

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    Yellow teeth,piercings ,

    tattoos, and swearing
    smilesarewarm4 smilesarewarm4 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2014

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    My Turn Offs.

    Here's my list :D 1.) Bad hygiene. There is nothing more unappealing to me then a person who has poor hygiene. Nasty odor, bad breath, greasy hair...clean your sh*t up please, it's not attractive. 2.) Constant Immaturity. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty immature myself and I love...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    Every Person You Like Teaches You What You Like...or Don't

    I'm not one of those people who are only about appearance but let's be for real. If I'm going to date you, I need to be able to look at you and be next to you. So, turn offs? Here we go: Physically: I don't care for the anorexic look or excessive weight. I'm not a health nut but...
    NeedADrink NeedADrink 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    1.) Unkempt beard 2.) Dirt under fingernails 3.

    ) Long, thin E.T. looking fingers 4.) Arrogance 5.) Hooked on ESPN and not hooked on phonics.
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    What is it with guys

    and wanting to stick their fingers in a girl's mouth? Like no, I'm not putting your dirty unwashed fingers in my mouth so get them away from me
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2014

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    Smoking

    My number one turn off is smoking. It is so very unattractive to me. I have seen some very hot, attractive women who, while I was admiring their attractiveness, pull out a cigarette and start smoking. It instantly changes the way I see them. They suddenly become very unattractive...
    GaryMorris GaryMorris 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    UGH!!! It is such a turn off

    when guys smoke and that goes for any kind of smoking. Cigarettes, weed, hookah, cigars idgaf **** is nasty and i won't tolerate it. Yuck!
    SincerelyA SincerelyA 22-25, F May 5

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    1, Smoking 2, Can't hold a conversation 3,

    Patronising 4, Bad breath 5, Body odour 6, Checking his phone while I'm talking. So rude! 7, Bad manners. Please and thank you are basics and everyone should know to use them.
    BexBaby84 BexBaby84 31-35, F May 13

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    1) smelling bad around me 2) breath smelling

    bad 3) guys who think they know everything 4) quietness on the phone or in person 5) wearing no poplar anything brand 6) guys who always complain about walking or acting lazy on rainy days 7) being in my business when I'm texting 8) guys who think they're better then others 9...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Apr 11

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    roxanne!!! you don't have to turn on the red light....roxanne!
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    They gray skies correctly illustrates the somber mood I am in. The brief and random thunder describes a sadness within. Light drizzle falls upon me as I take leisurely stroll in...
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    so here lately ive been a complete mess. my words keep getting turned around and replacing r's with w's and adding extra letters to my words. i keep losing my words. sometimes i...
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    Kind of, if you can call it that.I dont listen to music every day or even every week but I find music can have a strong impact on my emotions. It can make me happy and feel like...
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    listen, im already a giant putrid pile of ****, alright. whatever makes people even come to the conclusion that i would ever feel the need to add even more putrid piles of **** to...
    idiotoftheyear37 idiotoftheyear37 18-21, M May 18

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