Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Have A List Of Turn Offs

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 313 People

    How Not To Turn A July On...

    1) Bad breath/Body odour. Obvious. 2) Hairy back. Not my cup of tea, sorry. 3) Long hair. Unless of course it is on a girl.. I generally dont think guys look right with excessive hair. Anywhere! 4) Set in their ways. Afraid to be more adventurous, and stuck in routine. 5...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    - Prideful - disgusting/nasty - little common

    sense - quick to anger - little patience - smoking - clinginess - nosy There's more but, all I can think of now.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not The Obvious

    You'll know one when you meet one. . . Attention getters (one who is the know-it-all type kind of person) Gossipers Spoiled brats One who belongs to the minority but who's actually a racist. One who uses hurtful words to children. Liars = Politicians, Lovers, Salesman and Diet...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F Feb 12, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Here's My List ...

    ... of turn offs in a guy: 1) any kind of bragging and macho posturing 2) dirty talk - big time! 3) bad spelling and bad grammar - I like my men to be articulate 4) a scruffy appearance 5) puppy eyes and other signs of excessive neediness 6) sloppy romanticism 7) heavy smoking...
    shabbytigers shabbytigers 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Do You Really Want To Know Them?

    Ok I hate being mean,but I might offened some people cause you may fall into these catergorys,But I can make exceptions :) Ok I dont like bad breath,that can make someone look ugly in seconds I hate crooked teeth,especially the bottom ones,I dont know why I just do(but sometimes...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My List Of Turn-offs With Reasons!

    I have turn offs, just like everyone else. 1. blow-outs (a hair-do by Pauly D lol) Hey, I love spiky hair and what not..but damn,please don't wear the "blow-out"..it makes you look like a douche...and it's very unsexy. 2.smoking (well, kinda, I've done got used to it now o.o...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    PTigress PTigress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And Here It Is

    These are not in any certain order.- bad hygiene (Please bother to wash.)-racism, sexism, and any other kind of belief system that promotes hate or intolerance toward any group (The prospect of unconditional love is very important to me. Even if someone's actions stir the anger...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 25, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every Person You Like Teaches You What You Like...or Don't

    I'm not one of those people who are only about appearance but let's be for real. If I'm going to date you, I need to be able to look at you and be next to you. So, turn offs? Here we go: Physically: I don't care for the anorexic look or excessive weight. I'm not a health nut but...
    NeedADrink NeedADrink 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Turn Offs.

    Here's my list :D 1.) Bad hygiene. There is nothing more unappealing to me then a person who has poor hygiene. Nasty odor, bad breath, greasy hair...clean your sh*t up please, it's not attractive. 2.) Constant Immaturity. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty immature myself and I love...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    25 Turn On's And Turn Offs

     I think it's a turn on 1.  If he calls after a date.  2.  If he brings you a flower. 3.  If he tells you your pretty 4   If he tells you your smart 5   If he laughs at you jokes 6   If he likes your cooking 7  If he likes your...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 29, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, Where Do I Start

    -Arrogance-Rudeness-Liars-Dishonesty-Braggarts-Stupid people-Greed-Fakes-Self absorbed people-Control freaks-Jerks-Snobs-Smelly men (not just bad cologne either)-Ill mannered louts-Players
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Languages

    It really ticks me off when someone is standing next to you in a store talking in another language while looking at you. I mean, seriously....if you want to visit or live in a country different than your own, at least take the time to learn the language! It's so RUDE to stand...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F Oct 4, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Trying To Offend

    I have a small list of turn offs, but please don't take offense. 1. Excessive swearing. Occasional swearing is fine, but I am not a huge fan of women that swear unnecessarily. 2. Baby talk. One of my pet peeves. 3. Noisy eating. Smacking lips etc. 4. Uncleanliness. A bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have a list of turn offs.

    .. I met a guy online a while ago and we text a lot. It went on for a little over a month. He is a cool guy, attractive, sweet and good conversation. He lives in London so I know I have zero chances of ever being with him but I liked the idea of having him as a guy I could chat...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If I tell you what it is,

    then please don't do it.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Jan 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yellow teeth,piercings ,

    tattoos, and swearing
    smilesarewarm4 smilesarewarm4 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What I Think Are Turn On's And Turn Off's For Men

     I'm going to try to write what I think men like and don't like,this isn't easy!!  Men don't like: 1.  When you call or come over right after a date. [ Wait three days after] 2.  when you do all the talking. Or talk to much about their relationship. 3.   To be to...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    1. Someone obsessed with animals 2.

    Violent 3. Pulling my hair hard 4. Being lazy 5. Dry lips 6. Dramatization 7. Nappy or tangly hair 8. Too rough 9.dresses sloppy 10. Racism Jokes 11. Too cheap 12. Really hairy
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    One Big Turn Off For Me.

    It's funny that there are things you might not expect to big a big turn-off that are.  At one of my school reunions, I hooked up with this woman who lived in another City.  I really didn't know her well from school.  We exchanged phone numbers, called a bunch of times, and...
    stevegam stevegam 31-35, M Jan 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    First.

    I don't have a long list of turn offs but i have 1 thing i will literally kick *** if i hear... when a guy tells you he loves you after knowing you less than 24 hours...yuck. this won't get you my vagina or my soul so just get a grip! bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Turn Off List!

    Get ready, sit back, and I suggest you grab some food becuase this will be long .Meanness .Closed minded .Judgmental .Over protective .No goals .Can't go with the flow .Stresses way too much .Doesn't play sports .Unhygienic .No manners .No chivalry .Uncreative .Boring .Not funny...
    secrethidding secrethidding 18-21, F Dec 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Smoking

    My number one turn off is smoking. It is so very unattractive to me. I have seen some very hot, attractive women who, while I was admiring their attractiveness, pull out a cigarette and start smoking. It instantly changes the way I see them. They suddenly become very unattractive...
    GaryMorris GaryMorris 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Turns out my niece was right after all. Now too many male users are adding me and dominating my circle. I was wrong about giving chance from her policy. Alright boys and men...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Strong men's forearms turn me on for some strange reason.
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes hands also get me turned on high. Lol. I just imagine what I could do with them.
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    a really good friend who saw past my exterior and decided it was wrong. it can't happen, but it's nice to think about.
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love it. I have listened since I was a teenager to Christian rock and I am 37. Many radical Christians feel like that stuff is bad. I can see their point. They feel like since...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Honestly, almost any of Eminem's raps bring a smile to my face because I have listened to some of the things he puts in them. Honestly, they're so hysterical to me that I will...
    GivePeaceAChance3 GivePeaceAChance3 13-15 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love this experience title! Whoever made it, you're hilarious. Good job. About my experience. If you've read my other experiences, you already know that I'm a twenty year old...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly have such mixed emotions about this... Almost 6 years have passed since I met my middle school teacher that I became so very infatuated with. I had never felt this...
    anonymousobsession anonymousobsession 16-17, F Oct 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi, I don't know if this forum is still used, however, I wanna share my story with you guys. I was diagnosed with UP when I was 2. The doctors all said that there is no cure, we...
    RandomUsersSuffering RandomUsersSuffering 16-17, F Oct 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    last night he sent a private message in facebook asking me if i have tried jogging to an elevated area other than the village or park. I said no but maybe when my endurance is high...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    September 2010 It was obvious Ryan and Kaylah were besties for life. Everyone could see that. Summer was almost ending and school was about to start. I actually didn’t made it...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    & it was lame. 😒 like should I have been turned on by that? What in the ****. Never again.
    x0lynn x0lynn 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel so contaminated. I want to tear out my skin, scrub it clean and stitch it back on. I'm shaking and panicking and I can't handle the fact that I can't fix it. I can't...
    nsz45 nsz45 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Obtain this organization profile to entry additional information on executives Export the corporation profileNo matter whether you are into mining or oil and gas, operator...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "To make certain our business enterprise is in a first-rate situation to assistance this future buyer and current market desire with an excellent product and service providing, We...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Coates Offshore, United kingdom-based mostly rental company that rents products to the offshore oil and gas industry around the globe, has secured a “multi-million&rdquo...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so scared my husband will leave me to have children. He wants children, loves them, idolises them. I think kids are cute but I'm much rather enjoying seeing, learning and...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 22-25, F Oct 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    **names in this story are changed** Okay...so I had Mr.Darcy for Creative Writing my junior year of high school, towards the end of the school year he had seen how talented I...
    PrincessAddy PrincessAddy 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Secrets-Volumes-Ice Nine Kills-Being as an Ocean-Neck Deep- Front Porch Step-A Day To Remember-The Offspring-
    MariaAkumbaya MariaAkumbaya 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "You're gonna go far kid" Offspring
    welcometomysociety welcometomysociety 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The kids arnt alright -offspring
    locoladel locoladel 16-17, T Oct 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been told I have a nice voice to listen to. Until I sing. then everyone runs away, haha. Somehow people tell me my voice is very nice to listen to when I talk. I don't know. I...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    http://grooveshark.com/s/Join+Me/3yfCcI?src=5 HIM - Join Me This is the most epic live recording of any song I've ever heard. Skip the first minute (and 30s if you're really...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm currently listening to "Oliver Hendreys - Gecko (Overdrive)"
    Dispense Dispense 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I listen to Marshall tucker, rusted root, and Hanoi rocks too much I think.
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been listening to Drake All Week for my Birthday And This Is How We Do It . It's a tradition
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 hrs ago