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I Have A List Of Turn Offs

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    Yellow teeth,piercings ,

    tattoos, and swearing
    smilesarewarm4 smilesarewarm4 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2014

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    If I tell you what it is,

    then please don't do it.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Jan 5, 2014

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    Languages

    It really ticks me off when someone is standing next to you in a store talking in another language while looking at you. I mean, seriously....if you want to visit or live in a country different than your own, at least take the time to learn the language! It's so RUDE to stand...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F Oct 4, 2010

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    I have a list of turn offs.

    .. I met a guy online a while ago and we text a lot. It went on for a little over a month. He is a cool guy, attractive, sweet and good conversation. He lives in London so I know I have zero chances of ever being with him but I liked the idea of having him as a guy I could chat...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    The Turn Off List!

    Get ready, sit back, and I suggest you grab some food becuase this will be long .Meanness .Closed minded .Judgmental .Over protective .No goals .Can't go with the flow .Stresses way too much .Doesn't play sports .Unhygienic .No manners .No chivalry .Uncreative .Boring .Not funny...
    secrethidding secrethidding 18-21, F Dec 26, 2011

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    Not The Obvious

    You'll know one when you meet one. . . Attention getters (one who is the know-it-all type kind of person) Gossipers Spoiled brats One who belongs to the minority but who's actually a racist. One who uses hurtful words to children. Liars = Politicians, Lovers, Salesman and Diet...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F Feb 12, 2012

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    Do You Really Want To Know Them?

    Ok I hate being mean,but I might offened some people cause you may fall into these catergorys,But I can make exceptions :) Ok I dont like bad breath,that can make someone look ugly in seconds I hate crooked teeth,especially the bottom ones,I dont know why I just do(but sometimes...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    Every Person You Like Teaches You What You Like...or Don't

    I'm not one of those people who are only about appearance but let's be for real. If I'm going to date you, I need to be able to look at you and be next to you. So, turn offs? Here we go: Physically: I don't care for the anorexic look or excessive weight. I'm not a health nut but...
    NeedADrink NeedADrink 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    1.) Unkempt beard 2.) Dirt under fingernails 3.

    ) Long, thin E.T. looking fingers 4.) Arrogance 5.) Hooked on ESPN and not hooked on phonics.
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Here's My List ...

    ... of turn offs in a guy: 1) any kind of bragging and macho posturing 2) dirty talk - big time! 3) bad spelling and bad grammar - I like my men to be articulate 4) a scruffy appearance 5) puppy eyes and other signs of excessive neediness 6) sloppy romanticism 7) heavy smoking...
    shabbytigers shabbytigers 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    And Here It Is

    These are not in any certain order.- bad hygiene (Please bother to wash.)-racism, sexism, and any other kind of belief system that promotes hate or intolerance toward any group (The prospect of unconditional love is very important to me. Even if someone's actions stir the anger...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 25, 2011

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    - Prideful - disgusting/nasty - little common

    sense - quick to anger - little patience - smoking - clinginess - nosy There's more but, all I can think of now.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2014

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    PTigress PTigress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2014

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    What I Think Are Turn On's And Turn Off's For Men

     I'm going to try to write what I think men like and don't like,this isn't easy!!  Men don't like: 1.  When you call or come over right after a date. [ Wait three days after] 2.  when you do all the talking. Or talk to much about their relationship. 3.   To be to...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    One Big Turn Off For Me.

    It's funny that there are things you might not expect to big a big turn-off that are.  At one of my school reunions, I hooked up with this woman who lived in another City.  I really didn't know her well from school.  We exchanged phone numbers, called a bunch of times, and...
    stevegam stevegam 31-35, M Jan 30, 2011

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    1. Someone obsessed with animals 2.

    Violent 3. Pulling my hair hard 4. Being lazy 5. Dry lips 6. Dramatization 7. Nappy or tangly hair 8. Too rough 9.dresses sloppy 10. Racism Jokes 11. Too cheap 12. Really hairy
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Smoking

    My number one turn off is smoking. It is so very unattractive to me. I have seen some very hot, attractive women who, while I was admiring their attractiveness, pull out a cigarette and start smoking. It instantly changes the way I see them. They suddenly become very unattractive...
    GaryMorris GaryMorris 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    Not Trying To Offend

    I have a small list of turn offs, but please don't take offense. 1. Excessive swearing. Occasional swearing is fine, but I am not a huge fan of women that swear unnecessarily. 2. Baby talk. One of my pet peeves. 3. Noisy eating. Smacking lips etc. 4. Uncleanliness. A bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 20, 2011

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    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2014

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    First.

    I don't have a long list of turn offs but i have 1 thing i will literally kick *** if i hear... when a guy tells you he loves you after knowing you less than 24 hours...yuck. this won't get you my vagina or my soul so just get a grip! bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

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    How Not To Turn A July On...

    1) Bad breath/Body odour. Obvious. 2) Hairy back. Not my cup of tea, sorry. 3) Long hair. Unless of course it is on a girl.. I generally dont think guys look right with excessive hair. Anywhere! 4) Set in their ways. Afraid to be more adventurous, and stuck in routine. 5...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    My Turn Offs.

    Here's my list :D 1.) Bad hygiene. There is nothing more unappealing to me then a person who has poor hygiene. Nasty odor, bad breath, greasy hair...clean your sh*t up please, it's not attractive. 2.) Constant Immaturity. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty immature myself and I love...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    Well, Where Do I Start

    -Arrogance-Rudeness-Liars-Dishonesty-Braggarts-Stupid people-Greed-Fakes-Self absorbed people-Control freaks-Jerks-Snobs-Smelly men (not just bad cologne either)-Ill mannered louts-Players
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    My List Of Turn-offs With Reasons!

    I have turn offs, just like everyone else. 1. blow-outs (a hair-do by Pauly D lol) Hey, I love spiky hair and what not..but damn,please don't wear the "blow-out"..it makes you look like a douche...and it's very unsexy. 2.smoking (well, kinda, I've done got used to it now o.o...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    25 Turn On's And Turn Offs

     I think it's a turn on 1.  If he calls after a date.  2.  If he brings you a flower. 3.  If he tells you your pretty 4   If he tells you your smart 5   If he laughs at you jokes 6   If he likes your cooking 7  If he likes your...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Related Experiences

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    Darronbanksso0 Darronbanksso0 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Can you picture school programs being cut - No lunch plan in the schools that are neighborhood, less pay faculties losing backing for staff, buildings and research?Besides...
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    Give you one example. If you're a US citizen or resident, then you might be obliged to report the existence having a balance of $10,000 or more - or the existence of Banks where...
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    1) First, to get a layer of seclusion you'll need a tax-impartial legal entity of some sort, like a trust or a corporation. The result of that is that the Offshore banks Offshore...
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    Along with security, offshoring often offers products and services which aren't accessible in customer's home country to those Offshoreing. Additionally in lots of instances...
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    Along with security, offshoring normally offers those Offshoreing products and services which are unavailable in customer's home country. Also in many cases individuals seek to...
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    After you mention the term Offshore banks Bank to someone, people immediately think of some state that is politically risky which they can not trust. But an off shore Offshore Bank...
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    offshore bank accountss cans easily start. The fees attached to private checking Banks are significantly higher. It is important that Bank holders in foreign destinations find out...
    Georgebankssi1 Georgebankssi1 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    No capital investment is required. The shareholder is simply required to sign up the agreement to declare he will give capital to the business, and no actual capital investment is...
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    Either alternative costs 1000s of dollars. Holders of work permits that are Swiss might possibly not have have a care. Lawyers or friends design others with Swiss Offshores. As...
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    Fast comes the blessing of all that you dreamedBut then comes the curses of diamonds and ringsOnly at first did it have it's appealBut now you can’t tell the false from the...
    Mendmyheart Mendmyheart 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    My favourite music artists* are: 3. Arcade Fire 2. Coldplay 1. Muse * I have to have listened to at least 3 albums of a music artist in order for he/she/them to be on the list.
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M Jan 11

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    My favourite music artists* are: 3. Arcade Fire 2. Coldplay 1. Muse * I have to have listened to at least 3 albums of a music artist in order for he/she/them to be on the list.
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    What is Addiction? It is now one hundred years since drugs were first banned -- and all through this long century of waging war on drugs, we have been told a story about addiction...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Leather clothes have always turned me on. Especially leather skirts I love a woman in a black leather skirt!!! Makes me fall in love with her!
    blackleather85 blackleather85 26-30, M Dec 30, 2014

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    Alcohol always wins. I wish I would have listened/learned as a young man. I learned this some time ago, but I wasn't a young man.
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    i always have to turn my phone on and off until it feels right, same thing with my ds. i plug and unplug devices, and i check things over and over again.. but i havent been...
    gemmed gemmed 13-15, F Jan 1

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    If you put money onto the card the Offshore may charge for the service, even if you does not charge for making a top-up. If this kind of fee uses use an alternate method of loading...
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    Due to these variables, the age-long question of legality has become a priority. States which have supplied Offshore secrecy must rethink their practices to encourage standing that...
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    offshore Banks can frequently be setup for under a thousand dollars, including a Offshore banks corporation to hold the Bank. Actually, personal Banks can frequently be set up at...
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    If the company has keep and to advance in the present day lines, then the facility to accept the revenue on credit cards needs to be produced possible for foreign trades. This also...
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    Should you would like to put cash in trust for your grandchildren consider a Offshore banks trust. Depending upon your tax jurisdiction a considerable tax advantage may be in going...
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    Unfortunately, simply buying foreign stocks by way of a domestic brokerage provides no privacy and virtually no asset protection. Foreign investments made through a financial...
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