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I Have A List Of Turn Offs

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    How Not To Turn A July On...

    1) Bad breath/Body odour. Obvious. 2) Hairy back. Not my cup of tea, sorry. 3) Long hair. Unless of course it is on a girl.. I generally dont think guys look right with excessive hair. Anywhere! 4) Set in their ways. Afraid to be more adventurous, and stuck in routine. 5...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    The Turn Off List!

    Get ready, sit back, and I suggest you grab some food becuase this will be long .Meanness .Closed minded .Judgmental .Over protective .No goals .Can't go with the flow .Stresses way too much .Doesn't play sports .Unhygienic .No manners .No chivalry .Uncreative .Boring .Not funny...
    secrethidding secrethidding 18-21, F Dec 26, 2011

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    Languages

    It really ticks me off when someone is standing next to you in a store talking in another language while looking at you. I mean, seriously....if you want to visit or live in a country different than your own, at least take the time to learn the language! It's so RUDE to stand...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F Oct 4, 2010

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    Every Person You Like Teaches You What You Like...or Don't

    I'm not one of those people who are only about appearance but let's be for real. If I'm going to date you, I need to be able to look at you and be next to you. So, turn offs? Here we go: Physically: I don't care for the anorexic look or excessive weight. I'm not a health nut but...
    NeedADrink NeedADrink 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Do You Really Want To Know Them?

    Ok I hate being mean,but I might offened some people cause you may fall into these catergorys,But I can make exceptions :) Ok I dont like bad breath,that can make someone look ugly in seconds I hate crooked teeth,especially the bottom ones,I dont know why I just do(but sometimes...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    PTigress PTigress 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    First.

    I don't have a long list of turn offs but i have 1 thing i will literally kick *** if i hear... when a guy tells you he loves you after knowing you less than 24 hours...yuck. this won't get you my vagina or my soul so just get a grip! bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Not The Obvious

    You'll know one when you meet one. . . Attention getters (one who is the know-it-all type kind of person) Gossipers Spoiled brats One who belongs to the minority but who's actually a racist. One who uses hurtful words to children. Liars = Politicians, Lovers, Salesman and Diet...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F Feb 12, 2012

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    Here's My List ...

    ... of turn offs in a guy: 1) any kind of bragging and macho posturing 2) dirty talk - big time! 3) bad spelling and bad grammar - I like my men to be articulate 4) a scruffy appearance 5) puppy eyes and other signs of excessive neediness 6) sloppy romanticism 7) heavy smoking...
    shabbytigers shabbytigers 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    What I Think Are Turn On's And Turn Off's For Men

     I'm going to try to write what I think men like and don't like,this isn't easy!!  Men don't like: 1.  When you call or come over right after a date. [ Wait three days after] 2.  when you do all the talking. Or talk to much about their relationship. 3.   To be to...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    - Prideful - disgusting/nasty - little common

    sense - quick to anger - little patience - smoking - clinginess - nosy There's more but, all I can think of now.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One Big Turn Off For Me.

    It's funny that there are things you might not expect to big a big turn-off that are.  At one of my school reunions, I hooked up with this woman who lived in another City.  I really didn't know her well from school.  We exchanged phone numbers, called a bunch of times, and...
    stevegam stevegam 31-35, M Jan 30, 2011

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    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Smoking

    My number one turn off is smoking. It is so very unattractive to me. I have seen some very hot, attractive women who, while I was admiring their attractiveness, pull out a cigarette and start smoking. It instantly changes the way I see them. They suddenly become very unattractive...
    GaryMorris GaryMorris 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    My List Of Turn-offs With Reasons!

    I have turn offs, just like everyone else. 1. blow-outs (a hair-do by Pauly D lol) Hey, I love spiky hair and what not..but damn,please don't wear the "blow-out"..it makes you look like a douche...and it's very unsexy. 2.smoking (well, kinda, I've done got used to it now o.o...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    Not Trying To Offend

    I have a small list of turn offs, but please don't take offense. 1. Excessive swearing. Occasional swearing is fine, but I am not a huge fan of women that swear unnecessarily. 2. Baby talk. One of my pet peeves. 3. Noisy eating. Smacking lips etc. 4. Uncleanliness. A bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 20, 2011

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    Well, Where Do I Start

    -Arrogance-Rudeness-Liars-Dishonesty-Braggarts-Stupid people-Greed-Fakes-Self absorbed people-Control freaks-Jerks-Snobs-Smelly men (not just bad cologne either)-Ill mannered louts-Players
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    And Here It Is

    These are not in any certain order.- bad hygiene (Please bother to wash.)-racism, sexism, and any other kind of belief system that promotes hate or intolerance toward any group (The prospect of unconditional love is very important to me. Even if someone's actions stir the anger...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 25, 2011

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    1. Someone obsessed with animals 2.

    Violent 3. Pulling my hair hard 4. Being lazy 5. Dry lips 6. Dramatization 7. Nappy or tangly hair 8. Too rough 9.dresses sloppy 10. Racism Jokes 11. Too cheap 12. Really hairy
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    If I tell you what it is,

    then please don't do it.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Jan 5

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    25 Turn On's And Turn Offs

     I think it's a turn on 1.  If he calls after a date.  2.  If he brings you a flower. 3.  If he tells you your pretty 4   If he tells you your smart 5   If he laughs at you jokes 6   If he likes your cooking 7  If he likes your...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    My Turn Offs.

    Here's my list :D 1.) Bad hygiene. There is nothing more unappealing to me then a person who has poor hygiene. Nasty odor, bad breath, greasy hair...clean your sh*t up please, it's not attractive. 2.) Constant Immaturity. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty immature myself and I love...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    I have a list of turn offs.

    .. I met a guy online a while ago and we text a lot. It went on for a little over a month. He is a cool guy, attractive, sweet and good conversation. He lives in London so I know I have zero chances of ever being with him but I liked the idea of having him as a guy I could chat...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Yellow teeth,piercings ,

    tattoos, and swearing
    smilesarewarm4 smilesarewarm4 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I never liked interrupting people or trying to take control of the conversation and place my opinion forcefully on them. If someone needs to talk just to have listening friend then...
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