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I Have A List Of Turn Offs

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    Yellow teeth,piercings ,

    tattoos, and swearing
    smilesarewarm4 smilesarewarm4 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Here's My List ...

    ... of turn offs in a guy: 1) any kind of bragging and macho posturing 2) dirty talk - big time! 3) bad spelling and bad grammar - I like my men to be articulate 4) a scruffy appearance 5) puppy eyes and other signs of excessive neediness 6) sloppy romanticism 7) heavy smoking...
    shabbytigers shabbytigers 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    First.

    I don't have a long list of turn offs but i have 1 thing i will literally kick *** if i hear... when a guy tells you he loves you after knowing you less than 24 hours...yuck. this won't get you my vagina or my soul so just get a grip! bf.
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F Mar 21, 2010

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    My List Of Turn-offs With Reasons!

    I have turn offs, just like everyone else. 1. blow-outs (a hair-do by Pauly D lol) Hey, I love spiky hair and what not..but damn,please don't wear the "blow-out"..it makes you look like a douche...and it's very unsexy. 2.smoking (well, kinda, I've done got used to it now o.o...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    Do You Really Want To Know Them?

    Ok I hate being mean,but I might offened some people cause you may fall into these catergorys,But I can make exceptions :) Ok I dont like bad breath,that can make someone look ugly in seconds I hate crooked teeth,especially the bottom ones,I dont know why I just do(but sometimes...
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2011

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    If I tell you what it is,

    then please don't do it.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Jan 5

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    1. Someone obsessed with animals 2.

    Violent 3. Pulling my hair hard 4. Being lazy 5. Dry lips 6. Dramatization 7. Nappy or tangly hair 8. Too rough 9.dresses sloppy 10. Racism Jokes 11. Too cheap 12. Really hairy
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    What I Think Are Turn On's And Turn Off's For Men

     I'm going to try to write what I think men like and don't like,this isn't easy!!  Men don't like: 1.  When you call or come over right after a date. [ Wait three days after] 2.  when you do all the talking. Or talk to much about their relationship. 3.   To be to...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 16 Responses Dec 26, 2009

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    And Here It Is

    These are not in any certain order.- bad hygiene (Please bother to wash.)-racism, sexism, and any other kind of belief system that promotes hate or intolerance toward any group (The prospect of unconditional love is very important to me. Even if someone's actions stir the anger...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 25, 2011

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    25 Turn On's And Turn Offs

     I think it's a turn on 1.  If he calls after a date.  2.  If he brings you a flower. 3.  If he tells you your pretty 4   If he tells you your smart 5   If he laughs at you jokes 6   If he likes your cooking 7  If he likes your...
    kctiger kctiger 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Smoking

    My number one turn off is smoking. It is so very unattractive to me. I have seen some very hot, attractive women who, while I was admiring their attractiveness, pull out a cigarette and start smoking. It instantly changes the way I see them. They suddenly become very unattractive...
    GaryMorris GaryMorris 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    Languages

    It really ticks me off when someone is standing next to you in a store talking in another language while looking at you. I mean, seriously....if you want to visit or live in a country different than your own, at least take the time to learn the language! It's so RUDE to stand...
    leyna2007 leyna2007 46-50, F Oct 4, 2010

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    The Turn Off List!

    Get ready, sit back, and I suggest you grab some food becuase this will be long .Meanness .Closed minded .Judgmental .Over protective .No goals .Can't go with the flow .Stresses way too much .Doesn't play sports .Unhygienic .No manners .No chivalry .Uncreative .Boring .Not funny...
    secrethidding secrethidding 18-21, F Dec 26, 2011

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    Not Trying To Offend

    I have a small list of turn offs, but please don't take offense. 1. Excessive swearing. Occasional swearing is fine, but I am not a huge fan of women that swear unnecessarily. 2. Baby talk. One of my pet peeves. 3. Noisy eating. Smacking lips etc. 4. Uncleanliness. A bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 20, 2011

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    Well, Where Do I Start

    -Arrogance-Rudeness-Liars-Dishonesty-Braggarts-Stupid people-Greed-Fakes-Self absorbed people-Control freaks-Jerks-Snobs-Smelly men (not just bad cologne either)-Ill mannered louts-Players
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    I have a list of turn offs.

    .. I met a guy online a while ago and we text a lot. It went on for a little over a month. He is a cool guy, attractive, sweet and good conversation. He lives in London so I know I have zero chances of ever being with him but I liked the idea of having him as a guy I could chat...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    One Big Turn Off For Me.

    It's funny that there are things you might not expect to big a big turn-off that are.  At one of my school reunions, I hooked up with this woman who lived in another City.  I really didn't know her well from school.  We exchanged phone numbers, called a bunch of times, and...
    stevegam stevegam 31-35, M Jan 30, 2011

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    Every Person You Like Teaches You What You Like...or Don't

    I'm not one of those people who are only about appearance but let's be for real. If I'm going to date you, I need to be able to look at you and be next to you. So, turn offs? Here we go: Physically: I don't care for the anorexic look or excessive weight. I'm not a health nut but...
    NeedADrink NeedADrink 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    How Not To Turn A July On...

    1) Bad breath/Body odour. Obvious. 2) Hairy back. Not my cup of tea, sorry. 3) Long hair. Unless of course it is on a girl.. I generally dont think guys look right with excessive hair. Anywhere! 4) Set in their ways. Afraid to be more adventurous, and stuck in routine. 5...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2011

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    Not The Obvious

    You'll know one when you meet one. . . Attention getters (one who is the know-it-all type kind of person) Gossipers Spoiled brats One who belongs to the minority but who's actually a racist. One who uses hurtful words to children. Liars = Politicians, Lovers, Salesman and Diet...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F Feb 12, 2012

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    My Turn Offs.

    Here's my list :D 1.) Bad hygiene. There is nothing more unappealing to me then a person who has poor hygiene. Nasty odor, bad breath, greasy hair...clean your sh*t up please, it's not attractive. 2.) Constant Immaturity. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty immature myself and I love...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'd like to know what you're turn offs are, I find it interesting how one person's turn on can be another person's turn off.
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Soo a couple days ago I started talking to this guy on this app (3 guess for which one :P ) but anyway after a bit of talking turned it we had a lot in common and it was super...
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    Reoccuring Nightmares Of Russell - Someone should tell Russell Brand to STAY THE HECK OUT OF MY NIGHTMARES! I'm serious, he's always in them, and what makes matters worse is...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Jul 11

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    This is weird, because in normal everyday life I don't stop to think about it - I just get on with things. But when I do stop to think about it, I get a little scared at how bad it...
    CarMechanic CarMechanic 66-70, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Excellent Offspring Article: http://tunesa.co.za/internation-band-review-offspring/
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F Jul 6

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    You plan and dream and think of the perfect day... The day things are supposed to go, well, perfectly. When nothing should be out of place. You wait for that one day you can...
    TheNextSin TheNextSin 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    just had a dream last night...involved a dragon. It began with a dragon sitting on its throne in a large castle. However, this dragon wasn't alone, he allowed people to stay at his...
    jenniferholleran jenniferholleran 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    A lot of people see me as that "girly girl." Nowadays, yes I have changed. But deep down I'm still that band shirt kid that nobody ever talked to. I love old rock, heavy metal...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Turning 50 was not so bad. Age is merely a number , it is how we choose to deal that matters. The bad- you get diagnosed with health issues, the good-you learn to deal and live...
    SlyRinky SlyRinky 46-50, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    And talker I've been told I should do talk therapy but I disagree I already keep what people tell me confidential. I'm a good listener, talker, I'm here to help. If anyone need...
    lucidity91 lucidity91 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I woke up this morning feeling worse than I did yesterday. I haven't talked to my fiance about any of this and I really want too. I worry that he will dismiss my feelings and tell...
    Bekka311 Bekka311 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am really confused with my parents, and sad at the same time. i have 2 siblings, my older sister that just turned 20 and one little brother that is 12 years old. Okay, so my mom...
    davamps davamps 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    The more I talk, the more I say, the less people listen. I can sit perfectly still all day and never make a peep and everyone wants to know what is wrong, (or at least the best...
    Momma1985 Momma1985 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Its been about 45 days since u suddenly shattered my world by telling me u were tired of waiting, that there was some one else, that u thought it was best for me if we were just...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    My grade 9 year I made the mistake of trying to stay friends with my ex. It turned out he just wanted a sexting buddy. I'm not like that usually but he threatened to end our...
    oneandonly24 oneandonly24 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    Always have been. I discovered very early on that there were some in my peer group who were always had a need to be heard. Which kinda put me in the background. You know how there...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Alex turner is just ohh my goshh 😍😍❤️❤️
    ayeejenniferr ayeejenniferr 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    That people need to push their comfort zone once in awhile. Seems people are afraid to talk to one another because of an experience(s) they may list. One never knows what might be...
    Titan766 Titan766 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    Christian. Means what???? Why are sinners more christian??? Why am i ???? And those like me ???? Was listening to a preacher. Gabriel. Maybe swaggert. Heard hate...
    converted converted 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    Oh man people who do are not really therapeutic! I mean how Lazy are ya? I'm happy to spend a good 2-3 hours washing dishes listening to some music and I'm sorted .
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    For the last 4 days my google searches have been “what to do after a break up” , “single at 30″ , “single and happy” and “when to start being a cat lady”. so yeah...
    jjnikki jjnikki 26-30, F Jul 8

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    Yesterday while at work a friend came in for lunch. He sat at the counter We exchanged hellos and while taking his order in walks my ex. i could instantly feel my nerves kick into...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Interview with Nancy Garcia – Psychic, Paranormal Experiencer By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective HPI (Hegelianism Paranormal Intelligence) International https://www...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M Jul 19

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    Haunted David Fulton Winery: St. Helena By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective HPI (Hegelianism Paranormal Intelligence) International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not good with talking about my own feelings and thoughts so I turn to listening. I'm always there if someone needs to vent.
    HiImSarah HiImSarah 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I believe that during my darker than black years of highschool, where I had no friends and no one to talk to when kids were making my life miserable, music saved my life. I wouldn...
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    I Fight Suicide Everyday: Everyday before the electric rooster crows and before I wipe my eyes and scratch my balls I am taunted by the horrors that rage. I see the bodies and...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 5

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    It's getting to my head. But really, I have been listening to them a lot lately. They are very talented musicians and their lyrics are powerful. My sister got me into them and I...
    Anticloud Anticloud 18-21, M Jul 5

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