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I Have A Lot Of Fears

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    What's bothering me the most is fear from

    people. Life experiences screwed me up when it comes to this.. I have a constant fear that I'll lose anyone any minute. I feel that betrayal is just at the corner watching me and it'll affect and overtake anybody who gets too close and makes them just decide to leave. This fear...
    PiecingMeBackTogether PiecingMeBackTogether 18-21 1 Response Jun 12

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    Thanks to meds. And cigs.

    And jerks. And laws. And. Wow. Jerks hurt. Laws protect most. If they dont have pals to do so. Sought help with sad. Got put on meds. Smoked cigs to calm. Had heart attacks. Grew way phobic slowly. Was it smokes. Or meds. Or heart...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    I just realized I'm scared of like a lot.

    .... Lmao it's probably not healthy
    JustKeepSpinning JustKeepSpinning 13-15, F Feb 10

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    Possibly outrageous anxiety

    or fear is helpful. We spend so much money to rid ourselves of depressions, fears and anxiety. But why is it there? Possibly it is an aid to keep you alive. If you do not have the tools to react in the dark to a pouncing mountain lion, yet have intolerable anxiety of the dark...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Alot

    1.) highschool2.) people bigger than me3.) heights4.) death5.) guns6.) choking7.) weight gain8.) drowning9.) dogs10.) knives11.) people judging me12.) love 13.) my dad leaving14.) my brother leaving15.) my uncle never getting out of the hospital16.) getting hurt17.) pills18...
    royalziall royalziall 13-15, F Dec 1, 2012

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    My Fears

    1.) Heights 2.) Small children 3.) Death 4.) Oceans 5.) Living 6.) The dark 7.) Love 8.) Spiders 9.) Butterflies 10.) Moths 11.) Bees 12.) Wasps 13.) Geese 14.) Going insane 15.) Spiderwebs 16.) Cancer 17.) Embarrassment 18.) My thoughts 19.) My mom 20.) Pain 21.) Me 22.) Myself...
    catpissstinks catpissstinks 13-15, F Nov 18, 2012

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    The Cages And Doors Inside My Heart.

    I have fears.enough fears to drive a less tolerable person insane.I have a fear of my own self.I kind of think of my feelings as different versions of me in separated cages.My happy cheerful self rarely comes out.she has a twin, a hologram of her.a mere shadow of the happiness...
    Lorelie1 Lorelie1 13-15, F Jan 12, 2013

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    Ocd

    Its ruining my life. I get a fear of changes the littlest things. A towel not folded right. Moving furniture is not allowed. If anything is not done my way I get some mad until I fix it asap. Its hard to deal with. Really hard with 3 kids messing things up to. I'm also I...
    bridget81 bridget81 31-35, F Dec 2, 2012

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    I want to be fearless in life... But what does one do when often the fears that one has seem to become reality?
    mzwhat mzwhat 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Fears, Fears, Fears #1. Thunderstorms. I dislike thunderstorms with a passion. I'm afraid of them. The lightning doesn't scare me as much as the thunder does. I dislike the noise...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Once I faced my fears...and I got beaten up...the pathetic thing is she is moving back in...:/
    DoItLikeADude DoItLikeADude 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I could so use some help and advice if some of you could take the time to try and help someone who is suffering and needs the help. GUILT IS...
    Altruistrick Altruistrick 56-60, M 5 Responses Aug 29

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    Hey world! Learning to drive and teaching a class of teens. Either might not seem like the biggest deal to most. Learning to drive is as expected a milestone for most American...
    Galatia123 Galatia123 26-30, F Aug 31

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    I just wanted to live one day without fear and that'll be enough... - Pills - Booze - Oblivion (Trying to get into a fight, hopefully someone will knock me out cold) - Cars (I'll...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F Sep 2

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    The component that it might not do the job for many people is that they probably have minimal sensitivity to hypnosis.Hypnosis is a wonderfully all-natural state wherein somebody's...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    Ok, so I haven't been officially diagnosed with DID but this is the most active place for dissociative issues and I need some input. Hope I don't offend anyone. Thanks. Here goes...
    ChantelSurvived ChantelSurvived 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have a fear of working or it may be a fear of being around a lot of people. I have a job at Walmart and panic a lot, I was working at a hospital but same thing happened at quit...
    believe201427 believe201427 26-30, F Aug 17

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    Or so I think. But don't we all? Life has become increasingly difficult by my standards and it's just enough to not make me want to excel at anything fruitful or have the...
    Keldeo Keldeo 22-25 1 Response Aug 18

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    I am silly. I am bright. I am too trusting. I am shy when it comes to men. I blush when I'm nervous. I giggle a lot. I have green eyes. I love to read. I still write in my diary. I...
    Iamthecutegirl Iamthecutegirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    If you are feeling jealous - or someone close to you is - Don't feel ashamed (if you are the jealous person), or try to make them feel ashamed. Two reasons: 1) Feelings walk in...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I'm pretty sure I have phobaphobia (the fear of fears), or at least at some point in my life I have.
    DewDropsontheGrass DewDropsontheGrass 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Hello, I'm 22 years old and I feel like i've wasted alot of my time on unimportant things because of my anxiety and fear. I wish I could go back in time and do things i really...
    ashto1 ashto1 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Aug 24

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    Especially, Adult men who will be if not balanced operate a drastically better chance of heart attack, stroke, and Loss of life. If you are a victim, you'll want to talk to a...
    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I miss my grandmother. I miss the bus rides with her, going to all the fast food places, telling her all my fears and having her comfort me saying things will be alrite. People...
    zanityone zanityone 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Fears: greatest to least Being completely isolated from human contact with no hope of reconnecting, (different planet, last person on Earth) Being in excruciating pain while still...
    CJCA CJCA 18-21, M Aug 26

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    What I've noticed is people dismiss what they are afraid of. I have anxiety and depression, but it took years for me to convince my parents that i needed help. I've been in "the...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I hate the fact that my life is full of fears and anxieties. This is really irritating !!
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 1 Response Aug 28

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I met an amazing woman a few months ago. She has reminded me what life is all about, she respects my boundaries, and helps me overcome my fears. She is everything I have ever hoped...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Today I had my first endoscopy. Being my usual me, with a sever anxiety disorder and irrational fear of vomiting, I was absolutely terrified. Before I went down to the operating...
    anxietygirl99 anxietygirl99 13-15, F Sep 3

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    My top two fears #2 - The Emergency Alert System - Those three sounds at the beginning scare the living daylights out of me! #1 - Spiders - Just... NOPE. Eight hairy little legs...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 3

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    "Old School" Don't believe everything happiness says Nothing feels better than hiding these days We bury our fears in the drinks, in these tears For the days we believed we could...
    SecondStars SecondStars 16-17, F Sep 4

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    My father died two and a half years ago, and to be frank we never had a good relationship. He believed in control with fears and doable threats. One night before i was married i...
    peachfuzzisback peachfuzzisback 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    The Best Exercise is Walking A lot of 'walking away' will do your life good. 'Walk away' from arguments that lead you to anger and nowhere. 'Walk away' from people who...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm a life coach, who has assisted many to discover their strongest life! Through established coaching practices and proven methodologies, I assist people to explore beyond their...
    swatis123 swatis123 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    When everything doesn't seem to add up...after all the running up and down...the tears the regrets...the fears...i find myself going back to the heart of worship...i find myself at...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A lot of the time I am afraid to say anything because I think people don't want to hear anything I have to say, like I am not worth their time. Then someone will get me to speak up...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not something I live with easily, nightmares, sleepless nights, fears, memories
    tornadoalley2 tornadoalley2 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    With the recent news about what is happening in Iraq with the ISIS and the persecution of the Yezidis, it makes me anxious about what would eventually happen over in the Middle...
    jpk29 jpk29 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I have discovered that this is my biggest flaw and challenge in life. Low self-esteem truly affects me and causes me both physical and mental distress that is unbearable much of...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    When I was 5 years I suffered from reoccurring cysts. They where about the size of goose eggs, and one time it gave a very hi fever. The Doc suggested I have it lanced to relieve...
    henryal henryal 41-45, M Aug 27

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    Twin flame or not, whatever happened between us was beyond weird and I'm still over analyzing it after 3 years, in order to figure it out. I've noticed that we have the same voice...
    electrapleiadian electrapleiadian 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I met him four years ago, we never grew up together so I didm;t see him for what he was: my cousin. Yes I know, gross ******. I know. I know. I always knew. But I have accepted the...
    danee012 danee012 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I Have a Broken Heart I met him four years ago, we never grew up together so I didn’t see him for what he was: my cousin. Yes I know, gross. I know. I know. I always knew. But I...
    danee012 danee012 18-21, F Sep 3

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    My mother is a narcissist. My dad is her faithful enabler. They have been married for 52 years and to this day he does what she says. My mother was never home growing up. When...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 6 hrs ago

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    I literally am reading all these stories and my heart aches. I have been in two mental hospitals and been batteling depression for six years. I have cutt every place there is skin...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    i have no problem with interacial any thing but sometimes its not that simple ....like people say love is color blind..maybe love is...but people are not......and it depends on who...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago