I Have a Love Hate Relationship With My Body

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    Its Not the Shell.. Its the Nut Inside...

     I dont understand why people look at the Shell of a person and pass on a internal judgement based on what they see... When its the Nut inside the person that makes the person unique in there own way.. Dont you think that the way the media.. T.v. and opions of others...
    pageshyy pageshyy
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    It's awesome during the cold winter months,

    but not so much during beach season.
    TubbyPlumpton TubbyPlumpton
    22-25, M
    Sep 26, 2014

    Yeah, That's About Right.

    I know that I've been socialized to think that I am ugly unless I am rail-thin. It's stupid and downright damaging. There are more important things to worry about, of course. It's vain and shallow. This knowledge doesn't keep me from obssessing about my body on occasion, albeit...
    DamageCtrl DamageCtrl
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 4, 2009

    I Hate Everythin

    i hate my face, my small booobs, i hate my body , my big hips my ugly face i hate it all but u cant change who u are and it makes me so mad i would do anythign to look like a super model i am so insacure i just hate everything and it makes me upset
    crazyonex13 crazyonex13
    18-21, F
    8 Responses May 14, 2012

    Within Two Seconds...

    I will be admiring my body one second- my hips, chest, shoulders, knees, etc. Then I look at the acne on my face, chest, and back, at my fat thighs and flabby stomach, at my scaly elbows and awkward hands, at my too-sharp elbows and too-thin arms, and I hate it. Sometimes I think...
    venusatmars venusatmars
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Blessed With Perfect Boobs, Buuuuut....

    I would trade my "perfect" boobs for a decent shaped butt! I am tall and slim with large, perfectly shaped breasts. I have always been well known for having these boobs (because they are not proportioned to my slender frame) and females would always joke about wishing they had...
    babyblue202 babyblue202
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2012

    Vent: I'm so ******* tired of my god damn body.

    How hard is it to just take up a little less space? You know, maybe have a little bit of a smaller bone structure? God. I've tried so hard to get into shape but I'm still not what I want to be. I hate it.
    AntiDepressantInTheMaking AntiDepressantInTheMaking
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    I've always been a ''bigger girl'',

    I used to not care about it but now I do. Some days I love my body so much and I am so comfortable with it, but other days, I hate my body so much. I know that I am in control of how healthy I am and how I take care of my body, but no matter what, there's no difference made in...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 13, 2013

    Yeah. It loves me because I feed it!

    I hate it because it never shrinks!!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Sep 26, 2014

    I'm larger at the bottom

    than I am at the top (meaning I barely have boobs but my butt is the size of a Thanksgiving turkey). The rest of my family is the opposite with huge boobs (I'm talking DDs and Es) and no butts. Some days I'm grateful for my body and I look at myself in the mirror and say "Why am...
    deldel22 deldel22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2015

    As I get older, I'm enjoying my body shapes.

    Not with the mechanics though! Got a lot wrong with me and doctors say the same thing. Losing weight will make some things better. Getting diabetes and numbers under control. It's something I always had to deal with. I will probably die with it. What I do like. My breasts...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak
    41-45, F
    Sep 27, 2014

    Sometimes I browse the frozen food section of a

    grocery store just so can check out my own *** :)
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    So much work to maintain 43 inches of booty

    and 36 dd breast ugh I rather just be thin like 115 pounds a lot easier lol
    nana2085 nana2085
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    Hate and Love

    I hate some parts of it Love a few parts of it Sometimes I can concentrate on the latter for the sake of confidence Mainly i focus on the former- I am human
    deleted deleted
    Oct 4, 2008

    This Ishow I Feel

    objects in the mirror     Mirrors, mirrors everywhere, but nothing good to see I thought for the longest time that this was just my destiny Then one day, decided, this ain’t who I want to be So it’s to the gym I go to face the body facing me...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 8, 2009

    Sometimes I feel that I'm too small.

    Sometimes I feel I'm not curvy enough. Some girl called me a stick. I'm not underweight, I think I have curves, I'm so confused.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 11, 2016

    Evey time I pass a mirror in public,

    I can't help but take a glance.
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    Some days I'm like "God damn I'm hot"

    and other days all I wanna do is stay at home in my sweat pants and eat cheesecake with my dog ._.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 5, 2016


    I'm not fat, but I'm not skinny. Like a lot of teens there are parts of my body that I don't like: stomach and legs, but I've learned to accept my body and work for a better one. Some days I look at my stomach and think "Ugh! Why can't I be 105pounds?" But does it...
    BubbleGumBerry BubbleGumBerry
    13-15, F
    Jul 31, 2009

    Sometimes I hate my body

    because my girls are a c cup. I want a d right now. Sometimes I want just my size. I heard women with larger breast get ton of problems which I don't believe. Example people say "girls with larger breast can't run or you have to wear certain shirts. I don't want a double d size...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    This isn't one of the appearance based posts in

    here. Probably because I don't really care much for my appearance. Anyway the love part would be the flexibility and strength that I've always had. Up until puberty gave all my rivals a bunch of muscle mass I've always been ahead or on par with them. I can still keep up but my...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    In these days... Tell me

    who doesn't? It's sort of sad, but we never feel super comfortable I guess.
    Safetysuit96 Safetysuit96
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    Insecure But Gratefull

    I have always hated my body but I am just now starting to look at parts of my body in a good way. I was chubby when i was a kid but when I started taking my ADD medicine (not taking it anymore due to my ability to concentrate better) my weight was dropping like flies. So I became...
    CandystripedleggedSpider CandystripedleggedSpider
    13-15, F
    Jul 7, 2012

    Right Now Were Cool.........

    at this point I'm pretty cool with my body I'm working out and watching what i eat and I'm getting back ,on point,but its days i just hate my body ,usually when it goes against every thing I'm doing and have done all ready..like when it craves cakes and pies and cookies ,when Ive...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl
    70+, F
    Jun 4, 2013
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Sep 26, 2014

    There are a few things I would change

    and others I wouldn't dare to touch
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    I only love my body when I'm thinner.

    I know I'm beautiful, but when I'm overweight, I feel so ugly. I admire women that are overweight who can love their bodies. I hate fat-shamers. But I hate being fat. I want to be healthy, but mostly I just want to be thinner for the sake of being thin.
    misslizziemae misslizziemae
    26-30, F
    Apr 13, 2014


    I love my legs I hate my stomach I love my arms I hate my sides I love my hands I hate my freckles on the arms I love my face in the front I hate my side profile of the face I love my eyes I hate my nose I love my skin on the face I hate my skin on the legs I love my hair at the...
    Naliruns Naliruns
    18-21, F
    Feb 7, 2011

    Love to Hate It Right?

    I don't really like my body much. Its not exactly super attractive to me.  Still, I get through life just fine not liking it. Cm
    chairmanmeow chairmanmeow
    22-25, F
    Feb 28, 2009
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