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I Have a Love-hate Relationship With Myself

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    Make Up My Mind!

    one minuet im like happy with myself the next second i hate myself. i say i did a good job then im like it sucks. With EVERYTHING its like that. even if theres nothing or no everything. ugh! it bugs..
    tomtombear tomtombear 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2008

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    What to hate about me?

    I'm too perfect to live in this world XD jk! Seriously.. Sometimes i love myself like a lover other times like a best friend Sometimes I hate myself but when I think about it i actually hate living in this fukked up world I accept myself as i am as i accept people as they...
    AutoLove0 AutoLove0 22-25, F Aug 3, 2014

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    An Awful Way To Start

    Umm, never done this before... Okay so, I have this weird thing I do were I love myself as in loving your body and your face and hair and all that stuff people say. I love my skin and I think I'm pretty (I don't wanna appear haughty, but just to explain this the right way) and I...
    Freansaviour Freansaviour 18-21 Apr 10, 2013

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    I Hate What I Love

    I love myself, but hate my intensity sometimes. Especially my ability to love without expectation. On the occasion that I do "fall in love", I am rejected. My intelligence is awesome, but my intellect is not. I am too "full-on". I am a professional groupie...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 13 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Reality At Its Finest

    The "Love-hate relationship" with myself is probably like any other teenagers'. I have a wonderful family with married parents and an older brother always by my side. It's hard to be thankful for all the good things in my life. Why? Good question. I am your typical teenage girl...
    BeautifulDreamer97 BeautifulDreamer97 16-17, F Jun 10, 2013

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    I used to hate myself ( people know how to make

    you hate yourself!) I worked hard on myself and I reached the point where I had Love-hate Relationship With Myself now it is mostly love I love me! I'm the one who entertain myself and I'm the one who understand myself and this is enough
    AutoLove0 AutoLove0 22-25, F Sep 29, 2014

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    Dwindled

    I have instances where I am proud of myself but over the years those have dwindled. I feel like crying, but I can't even do that.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2010

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    This Fits Me

    This fit me - this is exactly how I feel. I am a strong, confident and self-assured woman.  I see what I want, I go for it.  Nothing stands in my way, no challenge is to great. On the other hand - I am a weak child, playing on the safe side of...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Love Vs Hate

    Yes it's true people, I have a Love - Hate relationship with one's self. I know, I know, you probably thinking, What?...but I thought he was the most perfect man in the world and beyond. And to be honest, I thought..I was the most perfect guy in the world and beyond as well, But...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Mar 27, 2012

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    I Get to Decide

    I could almost call my Love-Hate Relationship with myself a split personality.  I have good days and I have bad days.  But that's not what I'm talking about.  It's like I have Love on one shoulder and Hate on the other.  I get to choose who I want to listen...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Complex Relationship With...... Myself?

    So I'm an 18year old teenager that has just graduated highschool this past june. I've had this weird insane complex relationship with myself for a long time. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I say: "Damnnnn You lookin fine today!!" and I will love the person that I am and how i...
    iwantlovetoo iwantlovetoo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2010

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    Same Things I Love Are the Things I Hate

    The same things i love about myself are the things i hate. I love that i can be so understanding but i hate that i can be so nieve. I love that i can be so patient but i hate that i can so easily be taken advantage of. I love that i can forgive but i hate that i always forget. I...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2008

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    Hate and Love

    I truly at times hate myself, I detest my physical appearance and I detest my actions a great deal.  However, when I am attacked by others or presumptions are made about me, I suddenly passionately defend myself to extent I can love myself for those brief moments of an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    They say they relationship with yourself is the most important one. Dr. Phill actually said that so it must have some truth behind it.. Oh wait. I remember it being very true. I...
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    I wanna have the best relationship and friendship in this site. I mean real relationship and friendship
    Zinny18 Zinny18 26-30, F Feb 14

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    Sometimes I hate my body because my girls are a c cup. I want a d right now. Sometimes I want just my size. I heard women with larger breast get ton of problems which I don't...
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    I hate life, and life loves hating me.
    HarleyHart HarleyHart 13-15, F Feb 17

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    I mean it's fun to be in relationships but I just like me but when you do find someone who makes you feel special it feels great and all and you want to make them feel like the...
    daniel7268 daniel7268 13-15, M Feb 14

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    You can never run away from your problems. It is time wasted to try. So often we attempt to run away from or suppress that which pains us, humiliates us, depresses us, but the...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    When you feel like you have lost your way, or have forgotten the direction you are going, take the time to think about what your intentions were behind your initial plan before...
    Anonymouscoast Anonymouscoast 22-25 1 Response Feb 13

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    Sometimes I browse the frozen food section of a grocery store just so can check out my own *** :)
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    Somedays I look good and I'll like my body and then some days I'm just what??... I look so fat -.-
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    So I thought I'd write about this because I enjoy reading stories similar and I have one to share to all of you. Winding back four years ago, It was my first day of timetable class...
    rcammur rcammur 22-25, F Feb 8

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    my father has depression but he doesn't want to accept it my mom says that. he spend all his time on surfing the net he is absolutely addicted to it . i think he even hasnt been...
    h4ppyf4ce h4ppyf4ce 18-21, F Feb 9

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    Some days ill be fine other days I will binge then make myself sick and some days ill eat very little or nothing. I don't know what to do!
    JustTilly JustTilly 13-15, F Feb 21

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    The Bane of My Existence-Instead of happy memories of "Daddy Daughter" outings and feelings of adoration I have memories of daily confrontations and feelings of general unease. He...
    MimsatheQuiet MimsatheQuiet 18-21, F Feb 11

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    I love to play with myself. I have a 10 inch toy that I use daily. I can never get enough! Anyone else? Ladies?! Don't be shy!
    numinouseuphoria numinouseuphoria 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Hi there... I need some help from others that have gotten out of a narcissistic marriage, and have kids. Here's the rough sketch of my story: I was in relationship and married to...
    beesknees12 beesknees12 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 16

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    He was my AP European history teacher sophomore year of high school. I immediately developed a crush on him. He was charming, funny, and I thought he was rather attractive as well...
    aa42 aa42 18-21, F Feb 19

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    Finding an inspiration that heals. Shes gone. It hurts but I will be okay. This past year has been phenomenally hard but I believe I'm exactly where I need to be. 2014 I was...
    mmn6134 mmn6134 22-25, F Feb 5

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    my mom had a rough upbringing. rape, abuse, etc with about 13 other brothers and sisters. she had 3 kids. I'm the baby. as kids, we had a horrible childhood as well. she made sure...
    niafiend niafiend 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had oral sex with my best friend for the first time. I gave him head. The only way I could describe it, is that it was... Different. I have not had sex with a guy before, and...
    EmotionalPhilosopher EmotionalPhilosopher 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I am currently in a relationship where I can be happy.. where the other person claims they are happy, but I am an extremely jealous type.. and I know that because of this, it's...
    iwant0beHAPPY iwant0beHAPPY 26-30, F Feb 22

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    So I posted about this before but never full disclosure. I'm in a relationship with my moms boyfriend (he's 27, I'm 20 and she's 52). Horrible I know, but basically this "thing...
    mysteros mysteros 18-21, F Feb 16

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    Mexican men are very attractive. I don't discriminate. I like whites, Indians, Hispanics. I love interracial relationships. I'm not a racist. I like men from different races.
    freckles45 freckles45 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How wonderful it is to see a clean face, no beard, no hair, nothing, just a clean face. I am waiting patiently to find that one guy who actually cares for me, and does not have to...
    DawnSahour DawnSahour 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    This month has been fantastic ! Despite work, a common cold, bad weather and regular stress; I have taken the time to be more with myself and in the moment . I am preparing for a...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Well not a vibrating one, but I have teamed it up with a bullet vibe in the past that has the control on a wire. I would alternate the speed of the vibrations throughout the day...
    wobble73 wobble73 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 20

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    At least I think I was in one. I am not sure if he was someone who was narcissistic or antisocial behavorial disorder but a lot of people tend to agree that he had these tendencies...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I went through a couple of, hmm i dunno lets say.. sadder years, and for the last year and a half i have been so happy. I am studying at the moment so i experience a lot of stress...
    OneOfTwo96 OneOfTwo96 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Never been with any guy as a boyfriend/girlfriend. I hate the seriousness of a relationship. Chances are if you want to date me or be my boyfriend, it will be a no and it wouldn't...
    rubyroo15 rubyroo15 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A while back I started self-harming and became addicted to it, I did it for about a year then have been trying to quit for almost a year now and I can never make it past a month...
    AlphaOmega007 AlphaOmega007 16-17, F Feb 11

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    My mother hurts my feeling a lot. We have a relationship that is too close and not healthy I think. She calls me sometimes 3-4 times a day to talk about stuff. Mostly about how...
    abby3084 abby3084 26-30, F Feb 13

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