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I Have a Lying Cheating Husband and Traitor For a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    Stabbed In the Back

    I've been married now for 5 1/2 years.  I married my high school sweetheart, and the only man I've ever slept with.  About a year ago a new girl started at my work.  Over time we became pretty good friends and when I left that company so did she.  I got a...
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Bits of Evidence

    when I confronted my ex with the knowledge I had acquired...which I lied to get in the first place. I guess you could say I tricked him into being truthful with me. He attempted to turn it all around on me....I slept with her because you have been sleeping around. I admit that in...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    Once again his *** is doing crap.

    ... I can't take it anymore
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F Mar 17, 2014

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    I Caught Him Again....

    I have caught him again...and it's not even that big of a surprise. Really, what bothers me the most about the whole thing is that I am suprisingly calm. I went and locked myself in the bathroom for a half hour or so and I couldn't even MAKE myself cry. The first time I...
    stealingsunshine stealingsunshine 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    My Husband And My Oldest Friend

    I don't know where to begin. Oddly enough, this just happened and it seems so blurry. I think it was a couple months ago. My estranged friend of 30 years, (I am 32, known her my whole life basically) her husband, who was 30, suddenly died. SO sad, I ran to my friend. My husband...
    myhearthasbeenshattered myhearthasbeenshattered 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    His up to it again! Smh!

    ! Erasing messages of conversations on FB. And I'm suppose to be ok with that!?
    KelsiMonroe KelsiMonroe 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    My Husband Cheated With My Best Friend And Now She's Raising My Daughter

    We were married for 13 years. He cheated many times prior to my best friend. I was devastated but not too surprised when my employee told me of my husbands infidelity. We split and he married her a few years later. He told my mom he would see to it that he would end up with our...
    Moufassa65 Moufassa65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    He Cheated But I Stayed

    My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole time together. We have been together for 11 years. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married after college. I thought we would have a great life together. I see him as my best friend. And yes we have different...
    Justified Justified 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Bastard Filled Bastards

    from what I understand it all started when he put up her satellite dish. I guess she offered some services of her own such as bj's it just snowballed from there. for 3 and a half years. I had been with him for 11 years and her friend for 13..now i dont trust a damn thing anyone...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Lying Friend

    Well just a few days ago my one time friend comes up and I confronted her why she told another friend that my husband had said I love you to her.... she did not seem shocked instead without looking at me described an incident that hit me in the face. My hubby had ever since I...
    nk786 nk786 46-50 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    It Never Ends

    It has been over 5 months since I was presented with the info that the 2 closest people in my life were carrying on behind my back, I tried to forgive my mate and give him space in my life and a chance to make good on all his promises. that comletely blew up in my face as he...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Life In Shambles

    It is all really very tragic with it has come to.  My nightmare started a couple of weeksago when my husband and I went on a wine trip with friends.  My best friend was taking care of our cat it was a saturday morning and I was drying my hair and my husbands cell phone...
    bigfattycat bigfattycat 31-35 7 Responses May 3, 2009

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    relationshipTalkShow relationshipTalkShow 41-45, F Nov 17, 2010

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    I Don't Know What To Do Nextwe

    we got married almost two years ago after living together for a couple of years.  a few months after  we got married we bought a house a couple of hours away from where we lived.  i took a job and moved out there whilst he stayed at the old place until things there...
    coldhands123 coldhands123 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    two days ago my best friend and roommate of 4 years caught me masterbateing in my room and finished me off with his mouth. I didn't even know he was bi, but now he's moving out of...
    alox25 alox25 46-50, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    When I was in my teens my best friend at the time initiated me to some boy-boy fun. He was actually 14 years my senior but one night after a few drinks I did allow him to massage...
    Nick13bi Nick13bi 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    my husband and I have been together since I was 17 years old. we have been together for 13 years and have been married for 6 years, we have two beautiful children together. out of...
    eudoreswart eudoreswart 26-30, F 2 Responses May 13

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    Please join "I am not the other woman" For support from other wives.
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    One time my friend and I built a cannon out of a paintball CO2 cartridge. We released the pressure, sawed off one side, put gunpowder and nails in it, taped it to a tree with a...
    heapograss heapograss 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have had many encounters with my friends, now looking for female who wants to do a 3 sum with me and my boyfriend,
    Jessandaaron Jessandaaron 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    One time in college, maybe a little too much to drink, we gave each other bj's. This was my only time, but lately I have been thinking about it more and more.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 11

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    I am a 33 yr old female with a PhD and have been constantly lightheaded for months. My symptoms last all day/every day and include feeling faint, tremors/skakiness, shortness of...
    healthproject healthproject 31-35, F Apr 29

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    Hi, If you are the betrayed spouse, you've been cheated on and yet wouldn't cheat yourself please join "I am not the other woman" My aim to build this group so it can be as much of...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    My former best friend and I were very close, I met him when I was 18 and we were good friends until feelings got involved. In the summer of 2012, he sent me a angry text message...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    My story is very complicated and also very simple. The simple part is I'm in love with my former best friend. Everything else is complicated. We met 10 years ago when she came...
    deedist deedist 41-45, F 3 Responses May 4

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    This is the way to go not having one person as your best friend only. I find (have just learnt) that having one best friend could ruin your friendship later on and you can loose...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    One thing that I really have wanted in life is a best friend. When I was little I had a girl that I was really close with, we were best friends I told her everything then as we got...
    Babygirl3799 Babygirl3799 16-17, F May 10

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    My name is Leenie, I am 20 years old, and I am looking for a guy to be my best friend. I have always wanted a platonic male best friend, for so long I can't remember. I am married...
    summerhillrose summerhillrose 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I don't want a boyfriend that I just have s*x with and cuddle with. Im glad I have a bf that laughs with, have a play fights or wrestling with, play station all night with, and...
    kylaaa kylaaa 13-15, F Apr 26

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    I feel some type a way when I see people posting about their best friend. posting long Paragraphs when its their birthday. Sometimes I feel okay. but when I see such posts or...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 Apr 28

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    Her name is Reem, she's actually here on EP. She have been my best friend for 4 years now, when I realise that she's leaving for university I wonder what will happen to both of us...
    Dinaa18 Dinaa18 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My best friend and I planned to spend the afternoon together. I spent the whole day waiting for her to finish school and then I texted her asking her when she'll get to my house...
    yarazebian yarazebian 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Is my best friend flirting with me?! My guy best friends was acting really strange today in Maths as we sit next to each other. He kept singing that song "I really, really, really...
    TwitterHolix TwitterHolix 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So my ex best friend was dating this guy A cop Things started off really well Before him she had been dating a cheating a$$hole so I was happy that she had moved on Then the...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I want to have a very open and strong connection with a friend. My best friend who I've known for almost 10 years doesn't really feel like a best friend. I'm there for her whenever...
    whitersnow whitersnow 22-25, F Apr 30

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    I am definitely in love with my best friend. He is my high school love, my husband, father of my kids and my absolute best friend!
    chickengirl14 chickengirl14 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband and I used to be best friends. We were very close. In the last few years it feels like he's just my boss. Someone that I report to and constantly disappoint. I really...
    mottkat mottkat 22-25, F 1 Response May 4

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    Yes yes yes I'm sure most of us has had this experience but unlike me I've had this experience many times but I would like to talk about an experience I had today, If you've read...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    I really miss my best friend. We had this stupid fight because she is always chosing to hang out with this girl who hates me over me, I think it is because we both go to a...
    Staziaa Staziaa 16-17, F 1 Response May 14

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    I met my best friend right here on EP in 2008. He and I had a lot in common and we were extremely supportive of each other. At the time, we were both in sexless marriages, but I...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    He was my best friend for almost 50 years.In Jr High my bi-polar disorder started but it wasn't until middle high school that it got really bad. I had always had lots of friends...
    ADF55 ADF55 56-60 2 days ago

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    Everyone on this subject posting your experiences, think about this: You can't call anyone Your best friend. You have to actually know what that is. Don't go call anyone your best...
    AmaniBurton AmaniBurton 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    i want to be your best friend.I will always be with your side.I will listen everything you say.I will never judge you,share everything happiness & sad,i will be as your friend...
    dazzlingheart dazzlingheart 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24