Post

I Have a Lying Cheating Husband and Traitor For a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    It Never Ends

    It has been over 5 months since I was presented with the info that the 2 closest people in my life were carrying on behind my back, I tried to forgive my mate and give him space in my life and a chance to make good on all his promises. that comletely blew up in my face as he...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Bastard Filled Bastards

    from what I understand it all started when he put up her satellite dish. I guess she offered some services of her own such as bj's it just snowballed from there. for 3 and a half years. I had been with him for 11 years and her friend for 13..now i dont trust a damn thing anyone...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Caught Him Again....

    I have caught him again...and it's not even that big of a surprise. Really, what bothers me the most about the whole thing is that I am suprisingly calm. I went and locked myself in the bathroom for a half hour or so and I couldn't even MAKE myself cry. The first time I...
    stealingsunshine stealingsunshine 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Know What To Do Nextwe

    we got married almost two years ago after living together for a couple of years.  a few months after  we got married we bought a house a couple of hours away from where we lived.  i took a job and moved out there whilst he stayed at the old place until things there...
    coldhands123 coldhands123 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Husband And My Oldest Friend

    I don't know where to begin. Oddly enough, this just happened and it seems so blurry. I think it was a couple months ago. My estranged friend of 30 years, (I am 32, known her my whole life basically) her husband, who was 30, suddenly died. SO sad, I ran to my friend. My husband...
    myhearthasbeenshattered myhearthasbeenshattered 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Stabbed In the Back

    I've been married now for 5 1/2 years.  I married my high school sweetheart, and the only man I've ever slept with.  About a year ago a new girl started at my work.  Over time we became pretty good friends and when I left that company so did she.  I got a...
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Want Free Advice From An Expert

    Are you in the NY area and would like to get some free advice from an professional expert? Email us at relationshiptalkshow@gmail.com with the following info: -Full Name -Contact # -Recent Picture -Brief description of your relationship issue/problem
    relationshipTalkShow relationshipTalkShow 41-45, F Nov 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Cheated But I Stayed

    My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole time together. We have been together for 11 years. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married after college. I thought we would have a great life together. I see him as my best friend. And yes we have different...
    Justified Justified 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Bits of Evidence

    when I confronted my ex with the knowledge I had acquired...which I lied to get in the first place. I guess you could say I tricked him into being truthful with me. He attempted to turn it all around on me....I slept with her because you have been sleeping around. I admit that in...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 24, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lying Friend

    Well just a few days ago my one time friend comes up and I confronted her why she told another friend that my husband had said I love you to her.... she did not seem shocked instead without looking at me described an incident that hit me in the face. My hubby had ever since I...
    nk786 nk786 46-50 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Once again his *** is doing crap.

    ... I can't take it anymore
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Life In Shambles

    It is all really very tragic with it has come to.  My nightmare started a couple of weeksago when my husband and I went on a wine trip with friends.  My best friend was taking care of our cat it was a saturday morning and I was drying my hair and my husbands cell phone...
    bigfattycat bigfattycat 31-35 7 Responses May 3, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Husband Cheated With My Best Friend And Now She's Raising My Daughter

    We were married for 13 years. He cheated many times prior to my best friend. I was devastated but not too surprised when my employee told me of my husbands infidelity. We split and he married her a few years later. He told my mom he would see to it that he would end up with our...
    Moufassa65 Moufassa65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Today I was washing his clothes and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My name is Maritza Ramos Maldonado from Clifton Park,N NY and I found out recently my husband Fred is secretly gay and having sex with prostitutes in front of the YMCA where he...
    maritzamaldonado maritzamaldonado 51-55, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Question: How many of you women apart of this experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My whole life ive always had pets and they were always there when unreliable people stabbed u in the back and lied to ur face and etc...i think i would be truly alone and depressed...
    RedBats RedBats 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met my (former) best friend right here on EP six years ago. We connected straight away. In a very short space of time, I felt like I had known him for ever. We spent so many...
    Cleansed Cleansed 22-25, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    January 29th 2014....my best friend who I have known for 12 years...committed suicide. She was only 19. She left behind a 3 year old son, her husband and everyone who loved her...
    kristencameryn kristencameryn 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my husband very much. He is my best friend and soulmate. It's going to be 6 years on July 4th since we have been together. It's going to be 4 years on June 12th since we...
    kdegala77 kdegala77 36-40, F Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is amazing! He had to work to get me to go out on that first date but that's all it took! We met at work, where I currently work although he no longer works here. He...
    highhopes4baby highhopes4baby 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Happened when I was young like really young at the time I didn't understand a single thing going just my friends mum saying to me "honey you won't be seeing Jemma for a long time...
    WhyDoYouThinkYouKnowMe WhyDoYouThinkYouKnowMe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am head over heals in love with my best friend. Scratch that. I have 2 best friends with whom I am in love. First, there is my husband. We have been through more than any 2...
    staystronglivelong29 staystronglivelong29 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My best friend is my teacher. Her name is Jessie, and she is pregnant with her third kid. And I just got a call from her husband saying she was just in a car wreck and someone just...
    ArizonaDrew ArizonaDrew 13-15, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We met 20 years ago in nursing school. She was so funny! We were in the same carpool together. She was from Korea but she was adopted at age 9 by an Italian family, and she had the...
    SanitySister SanitySister 41-45, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I miss my best friend so bady 😭😭😭 Sometimes i just wish i could go back start over. Maybe if I had a second chance, I wouldn't have lost her. She can't possibly know how...
    TaylorNicoleee TaylorNicoleee 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    At school me and my friends have a group, with 5 girls Alex, Adelaide, Brenna, Grace and Me and I am the only one without a best friend. Adelaide has a best-friends called...
    bryannnnaaa bryannnnaaa 13-15, F Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have two people i really consider my best friends. Theres my first best friend, who i've been friends with since i was born and i grew up with. We don't see each other often...
    whitemiddleclassteengirl whitemiddleclassteengirl 16-17, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It has always been my fantisies that i have sex with my best friend my current best friend is so sexy he is my dream guy and according to his ex girlfriend has a big one she was my...
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You know what I think , I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Here's to the best friend who... Can pep-talk away my tears. Here's to the best friend who... Is there for me when life turns its back. Here's to the best friend who... Assures me...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't even know how it happened. But one minute I'm telling people we grabbed lunch and now I'm having to defend it. Sometimes I wonder if it was the input of other people that...
    ellieo5 ellieo5 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a married woman, and my three best friends are male. One has been my bud since high school, another has been my friend since college. My third male best friend always makes...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi, i'm Sara, i'm 14 years old, and i'd like to have a guy best friend 14-18 years old, i have a lot of female-friends and i don't have a problem on making female-friends but i've...
    SaraKh286 SaraKh286 13-15, F Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my best friend, but I don't think it's necessary to have contact everyday just because of that one fact. Simply because we have a stronger bond than most, doesn't mean we...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been grieving over my best friend since we both grew apart. She turned into a mean spirited person and started just being awful to me and my family who had always treated...
    SubmissiveArtist SubmissiveArtist 18-21, F Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want a best friend that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Okay yesterday I went to my best friend's volleyball game. We've been friends since 6th grade and were at the end of 8th. (We both transferred schools so we don't see each other...
    lonelybleu lonelybleu 13-15, F Apr 14