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I Have a Lying Cheating Husband and Traitor For a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    He Cheated But I Stayed

    My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole time together. We have been together for 11 years. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married after college. I thought we would have a great life together. I see him as my best friend. And yes we have different...
    Justified Justified 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do Nextwe

    we got married almost two years ago after living together for a couple of years.  a few months after  we got married we bought a house a couple of hours away from where we lived.  i took a job and moved out there whilst he stayed at the old place until things there...
    coldhands123 coldhands123 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Bits of Evidence

    when I confronted my ex with the knowledge I had acquired...which I lied to get in the first place. I guess you could say I tricked him into being truthful with me. He attempted to turn it all around on me....I slept with her because you have been sleeping around. I admit that in...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    It Never Ends

    It has been over 5 months since I was presented with the info that the 2 closest people in my life were carrying on behind my back, I tried to forgive my mate and give him space in my life and a chance to make good on all his promises. that comletely blew up in my face as he...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    His up to it again! Smh!

    ! Erasing messages of conversations on FB. And I'm suppose to be ok with that!?
    KelsiMonroe KelsiMonroe 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My Husband And My Oldest Friend

    I don't know where to begin. Oddly enough, this just happened and it seems so blurry. I think it was a couple months ago. My estranged friend of 30 years, (I am 32, known her my whole life basically) her husband, who was 30, suddenly died. SO sad, I ran to my friend. My husband...
    myhearthasbeenshattered myhearthasbeenshattered 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    Stabbed In the Back

    I've been married now for 5 1/2 years.  I married my high school sweetheart, and the only man I've ever slept with.  About a year ago a new girl started at my work.  Over time we became pretty good friends and when I left that company so did she.  I got a...
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Lying Friend

    Well just a few days ago my one time friend comes up and I confronted her why she told another friend that my husband had said I love you to her.... she did not seem shocked instead without looking at me described an incident that hit me in the face. My hubby had ever since I...
    nk786 nk786 46-50 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    Once again his *** is doing crap.

    ... I can't take it anymore
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F Mar 17, 2014

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    Bastard Filled Bastards

    from what I understand it all started when he put up her satellite dish. I guess she offered some services of her own such as bj's it just snowballed from there. for 3 and a half years. I had been with him for 11 years and her friend for 13..now i dont trust a damn thing anyone...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    My Husband Cheated With My Best Friend And Now She's Raising My Daughter

    We were married for 13 years. He cheated many times prior to my best friend. I was devastated but not too surprised when my employee told me of my husbands infidelity. We split and he married her a few years later. He told my mom he would see to it that he would end up with our...
    Moufassa65 Moufassa65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    Life In Shambles

    It is all really very tragic with it has come to.  My nightmare started a couple of weeksago when my husband and I went on a wine trip with friends.  My best friend was taking care of our cat it was a saturday morning and I was drying my hair and my husbands cell phone...
    bigfattycat bigfattycat 31-35 7 Responses May 3, 2009

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    relationshipTalkShow relationshipTalkShow 41-45, F Nov 17, 2010

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    I Caught Him Again....

    I have caught him again...and it's not even that big of a surprise. Really, what bothers me the most about the whole thing is that I am suprisingly calm. I went and locked myself in the bathroom for a half hour or so and I couldn't even MAKE myself cry. The first time I...
    stealingsunshine stealingsunshine 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    FerCuellar215 FerCuellar215 13-15, M Apr 8

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    I'm gonna talk about this because I need to tell someone if anyone talks in a dirty way because of this post I will report you! I had sex with my best friend she was questioning...
    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Is it bad that I find my boyfriends best friend super hot every time I see him I just want to jump on him.
    michellerozsa michellerozsa 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    Me and an old best friend of mine use to do some crazy stuff in high school, web cam chats where we'd kiss just to see the boys go crazy, faygo parties, and more. However there is...
    curious1988 curious1988 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 19

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    i need some advice .... my husband and i started to date when i was 16 and he was 18 and well most of our relationship was long distance because he joined the Marines. well when he...
    Karina009 Karina009 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Hi, I may have a husband who is thinking about cheating. I dont know yet. So today we were watching his channel and the subject of STD came up on tv. Then he starts talking about...
    clausy clausy 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    My husband cheated on me two years ago and I can't get over it. It was with a co-worker, I found their messages on his cell. He still works with her, they even went on a business...
    miculuta miculuta 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    So I remember this one time me and my friend were in tutoring and so my teacher was putting work in the grade book cuz report cards were gonna come out the next day and so when she...
    lenchito14 lenchito14 13-15, M Apr 10

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    the other day, my friends and I bought five bags of hard alcohol and partied with about twenty guys and got high too and the police arrived and, it was ******* crazy
    Emenem123 Emenem123 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I am a 33 yr old female with a PhD and have been constantly lightheaded for months. My symptoms last all day/every day and include feeling faint, tremors/skakiness, shortness of...
    healthproject healthproject 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Hi, If you are the betrayed spouse, you've been cheated on and yet wouldn't cheat yourself please join "I am not the other woman" My aim to build this group so it can be as much of...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    I'm just glad we're both still alive. oh wait. we're not. :(
    freetobeme23 freetobeme23 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    My former best friend and I were very close, I met him when I was 18 and we were good friends until feelings got involved. In the summer of 2012, he sent me a angry text message...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    My story is very complicated and also very simple. The simple part is I'm in love with my former best friend. Everything else is complicated. We met 10 years ago when she came...
    deedist deedist 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 20 years old, married, and I just have always wanted a platonic best friend that is also a guy. Yes, my husband is my best friend too, but I've always just wanted a male best...
    rosylittleangel rosylittleangel 18-21, F Apr 9

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    This is the way to go not having one person as your best friend only. I find (have just learnt) that having one best friend could ruin your friendship later on and you can loose...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    I don't want a boyfriend that I just have s*x with and cuddle with. Im glad I have a bf that laughs with, have a play fights or wrestling with, play station all night with, and...
    kylaaa kylaaa 13-15, F Apr 26

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    I feel some type a way when I see people posting about their best friend. posting long Paragraphs when its their birthday. Sometimes I feel okay. but when I see such posts or...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 a week ago

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    I lost my best Friend because I was to careless to know something is wrong, now that he gone I miss him so much.
    Owlslovetea Owlslovetea 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    i have a new best Friend His name is TC i found him here on EP Yes i said "He" and no im not cheating on my husband. hes really nice and sweet a perfect gentleman just for me. i...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    So my ex best friend was dating this guy A cop Things started off really well Before him she had been dating a cheating a$$hole so I was happy that she had moved on Then the...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Michael is my best friend his amazing kind sweet and always makes me smile.His an Ep friend too.His great he helps me a lot his now helping me with a problem I'm having with a...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    I want to have a very open and strong connection with a friend. My best friend who I've known for almost 10 years doesn't really feel like a best friend. I'm there for her whenever...
    whitersnow whitersnow 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    My husband and I used to be best friends. We were very close. In the last few years it feels like he's just my boss. Someone that I report to and constantly disappoint. I really...
    mottkat mottkat 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Yes yes yes I'm sure most of us has had this experience but unlike me I've had this experience many times but I would like to talk about an experience I had today, If you've read...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F Apr 28

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    My best friend was killed in a car accident in January of 2013. She was the one who actually made my formative high school years somewhat tolerable. I didn't have many friends in...
    Missdrakerss Missdrakerss 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Ever since maybe 4 weeks into the school year I've being continuously third-wheeled by my 2 best friends. One of the girls *Alison, I was really close with, like people would...
    prismaticsarah prismaticsarah 13-15, F Apr 21

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    I met my best friend right here on EP in 2008. He and I had a lot in common and we were extremely supportive of each other. At the time, we were both in sexless marriages, but I...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    It's crazy to think that I even being friends for about 8 years+, time doesn't change anything. My best friend had been gone for 4 years in another country and I had not seen him...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F Apr 6