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I Have a Lying Cheating Husband and Traitor For a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    Life In Shambles

    It is all really very tragic with it has come to.  My nightmare started a couple of weeksago when my husband and I went on a wine trip with friends.  My best friend was taking care of our cat it was a saturday morning and I was drying my hair and my husbands cell phone...
    bigfattycat bigfattycat 31-35 7 Responses May 3, 2009

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    He Cheated But I Stayed

    My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole time together. We have been together for 11 years. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married after college. I thought we would have a great life together. I see him as my best friend. And yes we have different...
    Justified Justified 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    relationshipTalkShow relationshipTalkShow 41-45, F Nov 17, 2010

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    Once again his *** is doing crap.

    ... I can't take it anymore
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F Mar 17, 2014

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    I Don't Know What To Do Nextwe

    we got married almost two years ago after living together for a couple of years.  a few months after  we got married we bought a house a couple of hours away from where we lived.  i took a job and moved out there whilst he stayed at the old place until things there...
    coldhands123 coldhands123 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    My Husband Cheated With My Best Friend And Now She's Raising My Daughter

    We were married for 13 years. He cheated many times prior to my best friend. I was devastated but not too surprised when my employee told me of my husbands infidelity. We split and he married her a few years later. He told my mom he would see to it that he would end up with our...
    Moufassa65 Moufassa65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    Bastard Filled Bastards

    from what I understand it all started when he put up her satellite dish. I guess she offered some services of her own such as bj's it just snowballed from there. for 3 and a half years. I had been with him for 11 years and her friend for 13..now i dont trust a damn thing anyone...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    I Caught Him Again....

    I have caught him again...and it's not even that big of a surprise. Really, what bothers me the most about the whole thing is that I am suprisingly calm. I went and locked myself in the bathroom for a half hour or so and I couldn't even MAKE myself cry. The first time I...
    stealingsunshine stealingsunshine 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    Bits of Evidence

    when I confronted my ex with the knowledge I had acquired...which I lied to get in the first place. I guess you could say I tricked him into being truthful with me. He attempted to turn it all around on me....I slept with her because you have been sleeping around. I admit that in...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    Stabbed In the Back

    I've been married now for 5 1/2 years.  I married my high school sweetheart, and the only man I've ever slept with.  About a year ago a new girl started at my work.  Over time we became pretty good friends and when I left that company so did she.  I got a...
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Lying Friend

    Well just a few days ago my one time friend comes up and I confronted her why she told another friend that my husband had said I love you to her.... she did not seem shocked instead without looking at me described an incident that hit me in the face. My hubby had ever since I...
    nk786 nk786 46-50 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    It Never Ends

    It has been over 5 months since I was presented with the info that the 2 closest people in my life were carrying on behind my back, I tried to forgive my mate and give him space in my life and a chance to make good on all his promises. that comletely blew up in my face as he...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    My Husband And My Oldest Friend

    I don't know where to begin. Oddly enough, this just happened and it seems so blurry. I think it was a couple months ago. My estranged friend of 30 years, (I am 32, known her my whole life basically) her husband, who was 30, suddenly died. SO sad, I ran to my friend. My husband...
    myhearthasbeenshattered myhearthasbeenshattered 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I had sex with my guy best friend. We still have sex sometimes. And we're still best friends. No, nothing more. I absolutely love the way we are.
    intherightlight intherightlight 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    My best friends are four guys. We've been togther since 8th grade.. there is adair who is like the dare devil of the group, he always does things to the extreme.. there is willaim...
    angelwyn angelwyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Me and my best friend Caleb went and got drunk out of my parents fridge and then had sex I was 17 at the time and he was 18
    Roleplayergirl Roleplayergirl 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I had four best friends in high school (I still talk to two of them regularly) their names were Jessica D.,Jessica W., Shelby H., and Shelby F. And we used to stay at Jessica D's...
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    One time me and friend went to our local park. She wanted to try and be a sloff on a fence. She climbed on the fence and ended up getting stuck. I was filming it when this was...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    A few years back when I was 14/15 my two friends, let's call them K and N, and I snuck out of my window one night and went to a party at this par
    zaphas zaphas 18-21, T a week ago

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    Derrick is my rock, my light, my go to guy. always will be. but man is he crazy!!! we are walking in 9 degree weather at the moment because "he has a surprise for me" I'm scared...
    alexxvaunlennon101 alexxvaunlennon101 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    its entirely truthful when they say you don't know what you have until its gone.. but in my honest opinion, I don't think anyone should be stopping to smell the roses while they're...
    brrso brrso 18-21, M Jan 4

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    You have no idea. I've rolled in a giant, rusted barrel in the middle of a field. I've climbed a cliff at a dinosaur valley and potentially rolled down it on accident. You name it...
    Lollipop948 Lollipop948 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    Okay so my story might be a complicated one, or maybe someone has been through the same exact thing. I really don't know, but I need some form of explanation and answers. Okay so...
    LadyDi95 LadyDi95 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    For some reason I dont have a best friend,i dont know what it is about me but im always stabbed in the back by so called "best friends" right now i dont have anyone to talk to no...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F a week ago

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    I didn't know that people can change so fast.. may be their priorities have changed.. whatever.. I lost my best friend.. I had a best friend who was THE BEST.. every time I was...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    I have been in love with my best friend sence the day i met her 12 years ago. we talk everyday and it gets hard sometimes. i know she doesn't feel the same way for me as i do for...
    bw32 bw32 31-35, M Jan 13

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    I thought that my best friend will be there for me when I her friend is mouthing of at me, but really and truly she isn't. I thought my best friend will back me up when her friend...
    KiaraTequila12 KiaraTequila12 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    We were 13 when we first met; and although I thought that I didn't love him then, I realize now that all those moments of thinking, "Oh, he'd love this", or times that I saw...
    EmmaWhite101 EmmaWhite101 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I truly don't see the point of having a lover who isn't best friend quality. I believe it should be just more than a physical activity; why not make it fun? Intimate? Playful...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I REALLY need advice :((( My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few months. We have the same tastes, enjoy the same things, and hang out a lot. Honest we just...
    TrappedAbs TrappedAbs 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 16

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    She is going back to be with a man who is emotionally and verbally abusive, manipulative and controlling. She was with him for about a year, living in his house from a month after...
    rainbowgirlx rainbowgirlx 22-25, F Jan 17

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    me and Jenna are best friends we have been since Kindergarten 30 years ago after college she moved away and got married and had 2 girls Katie and Jordan then in October 2013 when...
    soccerdude143 soccerdude143 36-40, M Jan 10

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    He and I have been best friends since the first grade, but back then we had crushes on each other and no one really seemed to forget it. In the third grade I moved and I didn't see...
    lisa365 lisa365 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Best friends are always there to comfort us and make us happy whenever we are sad. Then, you'll just realize that you are already in love with them.Well, that's totally normal if...
    AngelsBroughtMeHere AngelsBroughtMeHere 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Its funny how i remember days of us just laughing and pulling jokes and now it really sad to experience silence. Wow where do I begin so me and best friend met back in 7th grade we...
    scott2009 scott2009 18-21, M Jan 5

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    I don't hate his best friend. I am actually good friends with his best friend. He's the only friend that I don't mind at all. It's his other 5 friends that irritate me. I act like...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Where would I be without my best friend? We met freshman year of high school and lets just say, I didn't like her very much. I thought she was annoying and always gave her a quiet...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F Dec 26, 2014

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    Im talking to my best friend, who is a girl, and she and my other friend friend, a boy, just recently dump her. Im glad that im helping her with her feeling and making her feel...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Dec 28, 2014

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    I haven't been on this site in over 6 years and I'm back because my confidence and self worth are faltering and I can't control my thoughts. I'm 29 years old and I don't know what...
    andyx181x andyx181x 26-30, M Dec 28, 2014

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    I met my now best friend when I was in preschool. But at that time, we HATED each other because we had a mutual friend who we fought over (the mutual friend was also a boy so my...
    awesomefallenangel13 awesomefallenangel13 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    My father has a twin. They moved to the same town and were fathers at almost the same time. Those little baby girls were more than cousins. That was me and my best friend...
    Emilyleahywho Emilyleahywho 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    When I was 13, I fell in love with my best friend, Joshua...its been almost four years now and i still have the same feelings for him. It peculiar, how we met...he stepped on my...
    liz1999 liz1999 31-35 Jan 2

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    So I'm in 8th grade and basically in 6th grade this girl, (Lets call her Shelby) Shelby and (Lets call her Makayla) Shelby and Makayla were best friends. As well as in 7th grade...
    PastelOreos447 PastelOreos447 13-15, F Jan 2

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    About two years ago I met a most wonderful guy at school who everyone avoided. No one would talk to him, maybe because during the summer he went to a mental hospital. I was new to...
    jasperbites jasperbites 16-17, F Jan 2

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    When I started high school (I live in Australia by the way) I met this girl who is one year higher than me. It wasn't until the mid of the year where our friendship grew massively...
    MrFluFFYL0rd MrFluFFYL0rd 13-15, M Jan 5

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    I was very close to one of my friends. She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I've dated my share of girls and I've never met one quite the same, but the one I have always wanted to meet is the one that can not only be my one and only but be my best friend...
    NickO28 NickO28 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 9