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I Have a Lying Cheating Husband and Traitor For a Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    Life In Shambles

    It is all really very tragic with it has come to.  My nightmare started a couple of weeksago when my husband and I went on a wine trip with friends.  My best friend was taking care of our cat it was a saturday morning and I was drying my hair and my husbands cell phone...
    bigfattycat bigfattycat 31-35 7 Responses May 3, 2009

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    My Husband And My Oldest Friend

    I don't know where to begin. Oddly enough, this just happened and it seems so blurry. I think it was a couple months ago. My estranged friend of 30 years, (I am 32, known her my whole life basically) her husband, who was 30, suddenly died. SO sad, I ran to my friend. My husband...
    myhearthasbeenshattered myhearthasbeenshattered 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    His up to it again! Smh!

    ! Erasing messages of conversations on FB. And I'm suppose to be ok with that!?
    KelsiMonroe KelsiMonroe 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Bastard Filled Bastards

    from what I understand it all started when he put up her satellite dish. I guess she offered some services of her own such as bj's it just snowballed from there. for 3 and a half years. I had been with him for 11 years and her friend for 13..now i dont trust a damn thing anyone...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    It Never Ends

    It has been over 5 months since I was presented with the info that the 2 closest people in my life were carrying on behind my back, I tried to forgive my mate and give him space in my life and a chance to make good on all his promises. that comletely blew up in my face as he...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    relationshipTalkShow relationshipTalkShow 41-45, F Nov 17, 2010

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    I Don't Know What To Do Nextwe

    we got married almost two years ago after living together for a couple of years.  a few months after  we got married we bought a house a couple of hours away from where we lived.  i took a job and moved out there whilst he stayed at the old place until things there...
    coldhands123 coldhands123 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Lying Friend

    Well just a few days ago my one time friend comes up and I confronted her why she told another friend that my husband had said I love you to her.... she did not seem shocked instead without looking at me described an incident that hit me in the face. My hubby had ever since I...
    nk786 nk786 46-50 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    I Caught Him Again....

    I have caught him again...and it's not even that big of a surprise. Really, what bothers me the most about the whole thing is that I am suprisingly calm. I went and locked myself in the bathroom for a half hour or so and I couldn't even MAKE myself cry. The first time I...
    stealingsunshine stealingsunshine 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    He Cheated But I Stayed

    My husband has cheated on me throughout our whole time together. We have been together for 11 years. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married after college. I thought we would have a great life together. I see him as my best friend. And yes we have different...
    Justified Justified 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Bits of Evidence

    when I confronted my ex with the knowledge I had acquired...which I lied to get in the first place. I guess you could say I tricked him into being truthful with me. He attempted to turn it all around on me....I slept with her because you have been sleeping around. I admit that in...
    Rainwall Rainwall 26-30 3 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    My Husband Cheated With My Best Friend And Now She's Raising My Daughter

    We were married for 13 years. He cheated many times prior to my best friend. I was devastated but not too surprised when my employee told me of my husbands infidelity. We split and he married her a few years later. He told my mom he would see to it that he would end up with our...
    Moufassa65 Moufassa65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    Once again his *** is doing crap.

    ... I can't take it anymore
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F Mar 17, 2014

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    Stabbed In the Back

    I've been married now for 5 1/2 years.  I married my high school sweetheart, and the only man I've ever slept with.  About a year ago a new girl started at my work.  Over time we became pretty good friends and when I left that company so did she.  I got a...
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    I sucked my straight friends **** and I do every time I go over there. he has a 8 incher
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    We helped each other. The wealthy hate that. Yet they help each other. So why is it crazy. Oh. Right. We are helping each other survive them.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 16 hrs ago

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    We had been best friends for 5 years when he confessed he has feelings for me.i didn't love him back so i told him that i only think of him as a friend and we can't be more than...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was so lucky he came into my life. He is so solid, trustworthy and he is the person you would turn to in a crisis. He is kind and loving and I can always turn to him with no fear...
    rushdoggie rushdoggie 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My best friend wote this for me💖 I'm just cold I was told again after I ask her What's with the hoodie? I don't fully understand How much pain she's in She feels like she's...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well I can say that having your lover as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have had a feeling for a few weeks now I couldn't ignore it anymore and this morning I found all these emails and account to dating and affair sites on my husband's computer I'm...
    cassieschulze cassieschulze 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had this one really good friend since the very beginning of freshman year in high school (Maia), eventually we got closer and I got to meet her family, she had a sister which was...
    Himmydimmy Himmydimmy 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I had a best friend. I have close friends now, friends that I consider best friends but that aren't really. She was my best friend for seven years and then she grew distant. My...
    Jewels10022 Jewels10022 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There was Martinique, Shaynece, Adrianna, Tanisha, My preschool besty who's name I can't remember. My kindergarten besty who's name started with a J. The last time I had a best...
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need advice. ..I want to message my friend that I have feelings for to try and just reconnect. I know we can't be together which is ok but I just want his friendship again...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not my best friend, it's one of my best friends close friends, who we go to school. We made a booster for him please help! http://www.booster.com/helpusfightbonecancer
    cayla921 cayla921 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    My lover is my best friend, but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I first met him at a street crossing, we were both on bikes going to the same direction to work. At the time he worked with my little sister at McDonald's while I worked as an...
    LeeWalker06 LeeWalker06 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Well I went over to one of my best friends house and we were hanging out in her kitchen and her brother came in and we talked for a little bit and then we went down to her basement...
    lauren2500 lauren2500 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I *********** in front of my best friend. It was a dare. We never speak of it. It's not awkward though
    unsociable unsociable 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    very crazy things! we are both single and both straight but we have slept together several times and we both enjoyed it! it first started when where drunk and then it just carried...
    bigboobs93 bigboobs93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    I like to surf and have given up many things in my professional life for the pursuit of high quality surf. I chose to attend UCSB in CA after bring accepted to various other more...
    Cr8N Cr8N 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    Dear "best" friend, The past few days have been nothing but tense conversation and I don't know why. Yesterday, your sister messaged me on Facebook to tell me what a ****** friend...
    stayingstrongtoday stayingstrongtoday 18-21, F Jun 19

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    I met my best friend ironically through an ex 8 years ago.we started talking more and more. then we stopped for a couple years only to reunite again later and hit it off better...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    there was this girl I fell in love with when I was 15 but she turned me down every single time... she's now my best friend. but this was just me trying to get close to her any way...
    SanFransokyo SanFransokyo 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I was just after being severely bullied by my best friends. My self esteem was non existent, I had no friends and I had no hope. She sat next to me one day in art class - not out...
    buto1 buto1 18-21, F Jun 18

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    I recently finished my first year of college, I attend college in a different state from were I grew up. I loved my time away and had some great times. Unfortunately my two best...
    Greengurl22 Greengurl22 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 18

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    So, basically, my two best friends have fallen out big time. I should add that, recently, me and my best friend (Tash) fell out too. The other one is called Megan. Anyway, me and...
    TwitterHolix TwitterHolix 13-15, F Jun 17

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    I'm in high school & I started off with 2 of my best friends . It was always us all together smiling & laughing . Then we all kind of grew up definitely me because I'm 16 & I work...
    Callmequasha Callmequasha 18-21, F Jun 17

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    I feel like I am looking for a best friend. I use to have a best friend when I was a kid who I met during soccer. His name was Kyle and we were like brothers. We liked to be at...
    DylanGraham66 DylanGraham66 18-21, M Jun 16

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    My best friend is my children's father, he gets on my nerves sometimes and I feel like I hate him but then I think what would I do without him. I'm thankful I have a best friend...
    bmorev bmorev 22-25, F Jun 16

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    In middle school my friend and I were throwing snowballs at car tires and at apartment windows.. We went up to this giant white van and.. The dude was asleep and he got out and...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 16

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