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I Have a Male Best Friend

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    He's Great

    One of my best friends is a guy, and people always assume we're in a relationship. (or, think we should be in one) The thought of that kind of grosses me out, since he's like a brother to me, and that would just be weird. XD I don't even understand why someone would think we...
    deletedd deletedd 16-17, F Jun 8, 2009

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    I have a great male Bestfriend.

    He is so easy to talk to and he really cares for me. Our bond is amazing and I never thought that I could really confined in the opposite sex so much but I love him
    SweetestLovee SweetestLovee 18-21, F Feb 24, 2014

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    Eh.

    I decided a while back that I wasn't going to have "best friends" anymore. However, I do still have some friends who are closer than others. And it just so happens that all of my close friends are male. I just enjoy the company of boys more. Growing up, I always hung...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F Jul 17, 2008

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    Since Forever

    Ive had a male best friend since the first day i started school...back about 17 years ago! He still remains one of my closest friends and feels like a brother at this stage.Life would be odd without him.
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Sep 17, 2008

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    I Have A Feeling For My Friend

    I don't know what to do with my feeling. I have a male friend; we are pretty close. Both of us are single. I told him I don't want to have any sexual interaction with him. But now I feel we might be a good match. I don't know what he'll think if I say my feeling to him. Many...
    cancersh cancersh 18-21 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    And I Love Em to Death!

    I have known my friend for almost 11 years now! We stopped really hanging out for about 4 years, but we always said hello, and caught up with each other every once in a while. Five and a half years ago we started hanging out again, until we were hanging out every day, I...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    His name is Christan.

    lol.. he has a very interesting personality. He's super funny, and very nice. He makes inappropriate jokes, not super inappropriate, obviously appropriate enough to be funny, but that's just part of his personality. haha Another funny thing he does is, he starts singing out of...
    Icrossmyheart Icrossmyheart 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    My best friend is a male!

    He's the best ever! We talk about anything! One min were talking about food than boys than our relationship to making out with each other!we offer and support each other in every way! And there is no way we could every be with each other we have both been friend zoned by each...
    sarahjayne16 sarahjayne16 18-21, F Mar 4, 2014

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    I have a great male friend.

    I do have a boyfriend who knows about my close male friend. My male friend and I have gone to dinner, I visit him at his billiards hall he owns. It's always been platonic, never anything more than a hug. My friends have told me they think he may be interested in more than a...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F Jan 28, 2014

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    He's The Best!

    I can telll him anything, he doesn't judge, he's sweet and understanding, he never complains about my craziness or my constant bitching lolol. I love him dearly and he has had acrush on me since 3rd grade, bu he understands how I feel and I never lead him on. He's the best...
    Veronica4 Veronica4 18-21, F Aug 19, 2011

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    So its like this. I have a male friend.

    He is dating my best friend. I helped them get together. Thats how i became friends with the guy. Now we are close and we talk alot. The problem is that i think that am too close to him. I can tell him everything and am open with than almost everyone. I think about him alot. I...
    maryam1135 maryam1135 18-21, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Always Have

    My best friend, through most of my life, has been male. My friends are 98% male, atleast. I don't know why; I relate to females just fine. I think my sense of humor and mindframe just fits better with the male population. But I love my best friend! Penis or no penis!!
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    ... But He Is a Very Feminine Male

    .... actually my male best friend is almost more of a girlfriend. we like alot of the same stuff. love to talk about guys and what we think  is sexy. Its awesome he is a really great person.
    browneyedgirl23 browneyedgirl23 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2008

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    I have a male best friend,

    he lives in Texas and I live in California we met over 6 years ago. I go to him for everything, not once has he made a move on me nor have I made one on him. I feel so good when I talk to him I'm glad I met him
    GothGirl1389 GothGirl1389 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2014

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    So its like this. I have a male friend.

    He is dating my best friend. I helped them get together. Thats how i became friends with the guy. Now we are close and we talk alot. The problem is that i think that am too close to him. I can tell him everything and am open with than almost everyone. I think about him alot. I...
    maryam1135 maryam1135 18-21, F Dec 25, 2013

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    He Is Awesome

    When my big brother left for the Navy, his best friend kind of acted as big brother to me and my little brother. We started hanging out a lot and realized that we had quite a bit in common. Soon after we played a prank on my big brother (telling him I was pregnant with his best...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2007

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    Ronnie

    My male best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years. I’d do anything for him and he would do anything for me. Since he’s into a very committed relationship and his fiancé gets nervous so we aren’t ourselves when all three of us are hanging out...
    AuntTammy AuntTammy 26-30, F 1 Response May 11, 2008

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    My Second Love

    my BEST friend is a guy, but it isn't my boyfriend.  Actually he is my boyfriend's best friend's brother... I've known him for a lot longer than i've known my boyfriend, but my boyfriend isn't very open to my relationship with my bestfr.  I love my best...
    zeeham zeeham 18-21, F Mar 25, 2008

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    And He Is My Husband

    I got lucky.  I got to marry my best friend.  He tells me also that I am his best friend.  I feel I can talk to him about almost anything and he tells me most of the time what is bothering him. We get along really great for the most part.  We have such a fun...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F Feb 4, 2009

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    We have been friends now

    for 3/4 years, I think I have feelings for him, he means the world to me, he cares about me, he worries, he makes me happy, his texts make me smile, he is a nice guy, I can talk to him about anything, I think I might have feelings for him, my whole life I have never felt loved...
    delalsagh delalsagh 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2014

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    I have a best friend who is like a sister to me! She is 7 years younger than me but she is so mature for her age I can't even tell her real age sometimes. We think so much alike...
    doodlebob424 doodlebob424 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I have a best friend who I am extremely grateful for and have been friends with for around four years. But, he is a guy, and we hang out allllll the time, which makes everyone...
    bradfordbadboi1 bradfordbadboi1 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My bestfriend is my step cousin and we have been best friends for 7years now. It feels like much longer than that though.
    Anastie Anastie 18-21, F May 12

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    I... i really don't know what to expect here. i am 33 years old and i want to have a best friend. and i don't even know if at this age i can still have one.
    rmbmh7 rmbmh7 31-35, M 2 Responses May 19

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    Everyone on this subject posting your experiences, think about this: You can't call anyone Your best friend. You have to actually know what that is. Don't go call anyone your best...
    AmaniBurton AmaniBurton 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is quite funny but most of my opposite gender best friends' names contain 'Steve' in it; a lot of Stevens and Stephens and one Stefanus some Steves some Stephan one Stefano. I...
    ariettaxsydney ariettaxsydney 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    Her name is Reem, she's actually here on EP. She have been my best friend for 4 years now, when I realise that she's leaving for university I wonder what will happen to both of us...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21

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    Noahhhhh.. I wouldn't call you a best friend.. But I do talk to you a lot. I'll wake up and message you lmao. Your ma bîtćh 😂😏
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3 13-15, F 4 Responses May 12

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    Is it possible to make a best friend online? I miss having someone I could share all of my feelings with because we've been through similar circumstances in our individual lives.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19

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    i had a best friend who was like a sister. we took it to relationship level twice but both times she broke my heart so we're not close anymore
    LGBTeen LGBTeen 16-17, F 1 Response May 20

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    My best friend is a guy. He is also my boyfriend and he is the sweetest, most caring person I know. He goes out of his way to make sure I'm happy and I absolutely love spending...
    PrincessAlora97 PrincessAlora97 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    I have many female friends that are very close, but nothing more than just friends.
    aderth60 aderth60 31-35, M May 12

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    I have actually known him since he was born (he is three months younger than me) and we have been friends since I have known him since he was born and we literally tell each other...
    alexlovesfashion alexlovesfashion 13-15, F May 12

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    9 years of friendship and still counting. Our friendship is exactly what I imagine friendships should be like. It's the simplest things that make me realize how much I love her n...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    My friends are all equal. From a kid down the street to my senior class friends
    pardax pardax 13-15, M 1 Response May 8

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    We've been friends for about five years now and I can confide in him without any judgment (I hope he knows he can do the same with me). He's like a brother and is very protective...
    harhailija harhailija 18-21, F May 11

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    It might be because Im very over protective and dont like to see my friends hurt over stupid mistakes. But they just wont ever take my advice and end up hurt anyway. I just end up...
    92krosado 92krosado 22-25, F May 16

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    I have 2, I've known them for 5 years now and they've been supporting me in every way possible. We gossip, talk about meaningless things, watch movies, fantasise over characters...
    ReemNoctis ReemNoctis 16-17, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I was greeted by a set of wings with no body. The wings knew who I was. I seem to know them too. They gave me a hug, it was warm and peaceful. This was real. I don't even know why...
    antoinette74 antoinette74 31-35 May 3

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    Well it can be wonderful, Til she tells u about her depression/eatingdissorder problem, she tells about her suicide thoughts. And u realise, how much u need her...
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 16-17, F 1 Response May 7

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    He genuinely believes that I'm a guy. Whenever someone is talking about girls or women and say my name he'll tell them "oh, but she's not a girl, she's a dude!"
    RH17 RH17 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    My name is Leenie, I am 20 years old, and I am looking for a guy to be my best friend. I have always wanted a platonic male best friend, for so long I can't remember. I am married...
    summerhillrose summerhillrose 18-21, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I have two male best friends, and I love them and have found myself very attracted to them at several times. Although I would not say "in love with them". One of them I couldn't...
    Delphineidunna Delphineidunna 26-30, F May 20

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