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I Have A Money Hungry Mother

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    My Mother Doesn't Love Me, She Just Loves What I Can Do For Her

    when i was little i remember my mother being a good mom. nice and sweet. but as i got older she changed. she no longer saw me as her daughter but her competition. she never wanted me to succeed in anything. she would tell me not to go to college because i would never finish...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    This Women Is So Selfish

    i am a big time daydreamer. sometimes i like to look at fancy condos and just day dream about one day living there. being on my own. my mother has never respected my privacy so every time i leave the computer for a bit like to go to the bathroom she runs to see what i was...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    My mother has this rude joke she makes if I don't show her something i am doing when she asks, I'm looking at "****" and "willies" and goes and tells my stepfather. She tells him...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 21 hrs ago

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    GRANDMOTHER. My grandmother obviously had some issues. I'm going to start with the mild things first. Normally you spill something, you clean it up that's the end of it, right...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    There is a special place in hell for narcissistic mothers. Narcissistic mothers do not have children for the same reasons the rest of us do. They do not look forward to the birth...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 4 Responses Apr 15

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    I'm 15 years old now and I have been aware that my mom is an alcoholic since I was 9-10. so I'll start from the beginning I remember the first time I realized something was wrong...
    anonymous347 anonymous347 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I am so upset. Few hours ago she switched to "worship mode". I went to bed I couldn't take her constantly ignoring me. Wake up hours later and she hasn't checked on me. Say hello...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Mar 27

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    She convinced me she was broke and couldn't afford her blood pressure medicine, so I gave her money for it (nothing less, nothing more). She has been buying fast food and other...
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I have been reading a lot that narcissistic mothers give bad/ cheap gifts. This wasn't my experience at all. My mom would spend $500-$1000 each on my brother and I for Christmas...
    kougar4791 kougar4791 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I turn 20 in about 4 months. I go to college and live on campus (but the school is close enough to home that I can go back on the weekends). I do just fine on my own and I am...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F Apr 17

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    She gets worse and worse every single day. I'm so tired of rolling my eyes. She comes home and I'm out of sight and then he is no longer he one she was verbally abusing when I was...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    At lunch today our 4 year old daughter confessed something to my husband and I. Her grandma (my mother/the narcissist) told her to ask how much money we have in the bank. Such a...
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    In the years since I researched and wrote Mean Mothers, I’ve talked to women about our shared experiences. Every woman’s story is different, of course; perhaps the greatest...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I am just coming to the realization that I am the adult daughter of a narcissistic mother. It is only now that I have found an interest in psychology and have done some reading...
    n2385 n2385 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    What Are the Signs of a Narcissistic Mother? Extreme preoccupation with her and self-image are the most distinctive features of narcissistic mothers. They fail to fulfill the basic...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Apr 1

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    I miss who she used to be before she met my stepfather. I believe she has always had these traits. But he brought the beast to the surface. What happened to be mother who would...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Apr 1

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    My mother is all of the above. For as long as I can remember, I was afraid of my mother because of her violent temper, her outrage at any little thing that didn't go the way she...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Apr 5

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    After finally getting to speak to my brother and sister alone, it seemed as if they knew where I was coming from with going no contact with my mother, but today they have...
    mummytozach mummytozach 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I recently found out that what my mother has been putting me through for years is called Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I knew things were weird but after years of living away...
    enough75 enough75 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a potential narcissist mother who I rent a property from. She convinced me to rent from her when I was working and I stupidly agreed. Things took a turn for the worse in my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 17

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    Okay so I honestly can't take her anymore. My mother gives me so many problems and I literally can't deal with her. She's always screaming at me for no reason & constantly verbally...
    axnomxi axnomxi 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Angers me my mother is rude and cold to me today but as soon as her abusive honey wakes up her personality changes. She is now giggling and being nice. To me she was mellow and...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Mar 28

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    If anyone would be interested in reading my blog about my life and experience with my narcissistic mother, please let me know. I'm sure I'll be writing quick things here from time...
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    My mother revealed some deep painful stuff for her today. I had not known any of this but I don't think what she says is the truth entirely as to why she is how she is. (She said...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Apr 2

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    You know my mother wants to move away from both of us apparently. But has now said she wants him with her to help her with working. She is not keen on having him away I tell you...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Apr 5

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    She always curses me and just because i am a bad girl does not mean she can do that to me because REAL LOVE NEVER FAILS. Ahem ! SHE IS SUCH A *****!!!! And i think she is evil...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Repost for anyone interested: If you would like to read my blog about my life with my narcissistic mother, feel free! mynarcissisticmother.weebly.com/
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Feeling quite sad tonight. As each day goes on I realise more and more of the damage my Narc mother has been doing my whole life. Things I blocked out are coming back up. I feel so...
    mummytozach mummytozach 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Comes to me solely to say he is asleep again. Said sadly of course. She says "what am I gonna do" and I know it's about hating him. She says the usual broken record "it's been 6...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response a week ago

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    I thought I would never say this about my mother but after everything, I have no feelings other than this. I hate her, everything she is and everything she pretends to be.
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Need some advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation. I've been trying to go non contact with my narc mother for three months neaely and I have had abusive letters, texts...
    mummytozach mummytozach 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    You wouldn't believe what she is doing now. I've been ignoring it and taking it as pretty much nothing. But the last time she did it just made me realise it's possibly a form of...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Mar 29

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    If you haven't heard it yet, listen to Human- Christina Perri Thinking of it from a victim of narcissistic abuse's perspective hits home
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Today she was dead serious and said she would kill me if she could not go to jail, but she can't afford the cemetery plot :) I said to her "so you show your true colours" and she...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Mar 31

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    At my house. She raided my fridge and throws everything around. I now have bloody beef dripping onto my fridge shelves and random things all over my floors. I demanded she pick up...
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Why do I keep being fooled by her? I keep thinking maybe it's about me and my interests but right at the end it is always proven it is about HER. So I came in sweaty to ask her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I am a just turned 23 yr ol college dropout. I dropped out from the best design college in the country after suffering from mental problems. I have been at home for 1.5 yrs and in...
    Heretorant Heretorant 22-25, F Apr 2

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    First of al thanks! So i dropped out of college 2 years after getting unsatisfactory grades. Being at home for the last 1 year made me realize dat all my ideas of having really...
    Heretorant Heretorant 22-25, F Apr 3

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    My mom has ruined my whole childhood. I had a couple of good friends who helped me get away from the depression. She beats me, curses at me, and makes me feel like ****. She makes...
    njeph njeph 13-15, F Apr 7

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    She went to attack my skin again. She does it pretty often I guess. She last did it about early yesterday and the day before. I admit I do let her sometimes, because if I resist...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 day ago

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    I started a blog about my life and experiences with her. A part of me is scared she'll find it.
    SpokenSilence SpokenSilence 26-30, F Mar 27

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