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I Have A Money Hungry Mother

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    My Mother Doesn't Love Me, She Just Loves What I Can Do For Her

    when i was little i remember my mother being a good mom. nice and sweet. but as i got older she changed. she no longer saw me as her daughter but her competition. she never wanted me to succeed in anything. she would tell me not to go to college because i would never finish...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    This Women Is So Selfish

    i am a big time daydreamer. sometimes i like to look at fancy condos and just day dream about one day living there. being on my own. my mother has never respected my privacy so every time i leave the computer for a bit like to go to the bathroom she runs to see what i was...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Since about age 13, I've dealt with severely psychotic episodes and manic outbreaks from my mother. At first I thought that it was just unhappiness which stemmed from her becoming...
    hawksnester hawksnester 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I know that I have to let her go, unfortunately I have to put some space between us to help my own mental well being .... I am 32 years old and I have tried to help my crazy...
    angell29 angell29 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    It took 27 years to finally find a word for her type of crazy. I was the golden child up until I decided to rebel against her. She never let me out of the house to go to friends...
    DAWNOFUNSAID DAWNOFUNSAID 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It took 27 years to finally find a word for her type of crazy. I was the golden child up until I decided to rebel against her. She never let me out of the house to go to friends...
    DAWNOFUNSAID DAWNOFUNSAID 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It took 27 years to finally find a word for her type of crazy. I was the golden child up until I decided to rebel against her. She never let me out of the house to go to friends...
    DAWNOFUNSAID DAWNOFUNSAID 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It took 27 years to finally find a word for her type of crazy. I was the golden child up until I decided to rebel against her. She never let me out of the house to go to friends...
    DAWNOFUNSAID DAWNOFUNSAID 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I came across the term NM a few months ago, and now I can't deny it...my mother fits it perfectly, down to the general causes of it. My mother was severely abused by a...
    UnicornSpirit UnicornSpirit 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    one sided phone conversation have you ever has those? where you pick the phone and mother seems to have a conversation on her own, despite whatever you said? example: mother...
    fien fien 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    "I don't understand you always get what you want so why are you like this." But what I said in my head made it hard to breathe because it was the truth. "I want him to stay, but...
    Augustends Augustends 16-17, F Aug 26

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    My mother has always been a vile and vicous woman. She lives to make everyones life a living hell. When I was a kid my parents would always fight. When I was 9 years old my...
    nexus321 nexus321 22-25, M Aug 27

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    Generally I screen my calls from my mother, brother, and sister-in-law. I was enjoying a movie when my narcissistic mother called yesterday to "check in to see how we are." She...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Being told by my mother that I was selfish & worse since I was a pre-teen damaged me... Made me believe my own happiness wasn't worth a damn (even though I could never make her...
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I have learned something that it's very interesting. My mother is a narcissist, my dad is the enabler. She goes off in the worst kind of emotional and spiritual abuse, and my dad...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    hug deprived I am hug deprived. Being hug is something alien for me. I envy those who regularly hug by family, friends and colleague. I don't even know what to do when someone...
    fien fien 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    a little over a year ago my mother left me in the hospital for 9 hours before during and prior to an emergency procedure of where I was rushed in because I was throwing up blood...
    reaching4theshore reaching4theshore 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    So my brother and mother have been plotting trying to get to see my daughter and me. Yesterday their plans to go Go Cart racing fell through. My daughter continued to read Harry...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Sep 2

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    I hate visiting her. But she is really almost terminally sick. This woman is very negative and draining. Any advice on having limited contact with a mother who is gravely ill? She...
    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I want to forgive my mother. I know her childhood sucked big time. She's not capable of acknowledging just how bad she ****** me up.
    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    My mother loves being in control and looking like the hero, saving and helping everyone. She also loves playing the victim, telling everyone who will listen lies about my father...
    Empresss Empresss 26-30 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Hello all a friend shared this webpage with me recently I found it very relevant and useful so thought I would share http://womboflight.com/2014/06/22/the-connection-between-self...
    ignoredeldest ignoredeldest 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Oh gosh it is so hard but such a relief that there has been no contact with my mother for over 2 months now. But I fear everyone else is getting in on the act too. I have 3...
    ignoredeldest ignoredeldest 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Did your mother ostracise other family members? Over the years my NM has cut contact with all my aunties and uncles and cousins on both sides of the family. We no longer took...
    ignoredeldest ignoredeldest 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I AM NOT HER! Is that to hard to understand? She thinks I am though. I have eaten healthy lately, VERY HEALTHY. The thing is my mother was anorexic, so the woman is breathing on my...
    Claire212 Claire212 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    My mom has a sixth sense. She always knows when I need her and she is always there for me. She always knows when I'm having a bad day. Today, I was in so much pain. I could barely...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery 31-35, F Aug 19

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    I wanted to share my newest update in the "relationship" with my NM, but I just wanted to see what's new in all of your lives, haven't seen any stories from the regulars in awhile...
    Misstaco Misstaco 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    what is there more to explain? I'm going crazy myself.
    kaylalovesmikey kaylalovesmikey 16-17, F Aug 28

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    My mum is so controlling I'm not even allowed to wear my hair out. It has to be in a pony tail each day.
    hopefullgeenie hopefullgeenie 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm very hungry , there's no food in our refrigerator as usual due to being kicked off financial aid I don't even have money to buy a pizza . Pretty soon I'll be loosing weight...
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4 18-21, F a week ago

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    What I hate about out money system is that we need money to actually survive. If you don't have money, you don't have food, or water, or a place to sleep in safety away from the...
    AliasTaylor AliasTaylor 18-21, F Aug 31

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    No contact with my mother for a week now. I prefer when there is no contact. She only contacts me when she wants to take one of my children out. I am considering stopping this...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I can't handle seeing a vast majority of the people I know get places in their live's well I am simply stuck and feeling broken and helpless. I see people going out to event's and...
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I lost my birth mother in many ways. I was about 5 or 6 when I lost her. She was very depressed, and her way to solving the problem was drinking. That was the first way I lost her...
    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F Aug 29

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    Traditional herbalist in South Africa Welcome to Divine Prayers and Spell caster. My name is Prof. pato semu I am a Traditional healer herbalist with extreme powers. I cast...
    mama235 mama235 31-35, M Sep 7

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    I'm not even supposed to have it! My mother has it and so does my brother, and he looks like my mother. I look like my father, and I have his genes, and he doesn't have it. Nature...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I was with a guy for five years he was my first. Despite knowing, as stated by a Dr. that I was sterile at the age of fourteen, my body believed it was pregnant. I began lactating...
    ShiningLight23 ShiningLight23 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have everything in life i have dreamed of, to a degree, but i feel like i want to destroy it all. I have the 'perfect' guy who married me and loves me dearly. He's gorgeous, way...
    LeeHart1 LeeHart1 31-35, F Aug 19

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    I can't be sure and I don't want to be sure. But I have a feeling that its true. It's a very strange story I have only told 1 person and I think they judge me because of it. I...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    One time my wife and i went on a weekend trip with my mother in-law. once we got to the hotel it was pretty late so we stayed in the room and had a drink. I decided to get in bed...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M 17 mins ago

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    I picture myself in a hospital, finally after all this time is see his/her face. So small and tiny, looking up at you. My eyes and my husbands hair or maybe the other way around...
    waterlily88 waterlily88 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    DON'T BLAME THEM BY bob "IF HUNGRY CHILDREN AND THEIR PARENTS SEEM COLD AND BITTER, THEN I BEG OF YOU, JUST STOP AND CONSIDER ALL THE HAVE GONE THROUGH, DON’T BE...
    bobpippin bobpippin 70+, M Sep 4

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    Im 23 years old i have a half sister from my father samuel bracey. All i know about my sister is her name is Heather she is 6months younger then i am so she would have been born in...
    jessicawilliamson jessicawilliamson 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Okay it's kinda like a love-hate relationship. I swear I love her with all my heart, but sometimes it's just like......... UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I mean both my brothers and me...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I wanna make friends with people that understand hat I'm going through. People who have been with or are with drug addicts. Or new mothers. Or people who suffer with depression...
    flosserette flosserette 18-21, F 25 mins ago

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    This is going to be a bit long winded, so if you do take the time to read it all; thank you. My son is 13 months old. His dad and I were together for five years and he asked me...
    SarcasticCommentLoading SarcasticCommentLoading 22-25, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    This human being I called my "mother" is not what she appears to be; motherly, caring, quiet, sweet & innocent. Here's how I found out I got married few months ago, husband and I...
    sydnew sydnew 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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