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I Have A Money Hungry Mother

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    My Mother Doesn't Love Me, She Just Loves What I Can Do For Her

    when i was little i remember my mother being a good mom. nice and sweet. but as i got older she changed. she no longer saw me as her daughter but her competition. she never wanted me to succeed in anything. she would tell me not to go to college because i would never finish...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    This Women Is So Selfish

    i am a big time daydreamer. sometimes i like to look at fancy condos and just day dream about one day living there. being on my own. my mother has never respected my privacy so every time i leave the computer for a bit like to go to the bathroom she runs to see what i was...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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