I Have a Mother Who Is Passive Aggressive

I am trying not to be annoyed, but the more I think about it the more it bugs me....and makes me want to tell my sister to stop talking to my dd.(16).    My sister and I are not close....as a matter of fact, from my perspective, I do...

For as long as I can remember my mom has been like this but I just assumed everyone's mom acted that way! It wasn't until I moved away to University last year then came back for the summer, I realized her behavior wasn't normal.

Now I...

i'm sitting in the house with this bitch, and all the feelings ive had building up for 20 years just resurfaced.  she is super judgemental of me and always has been. its like she is jealous. my father is an alcoholic and she has always...

My biggest fear in life is becoming like my mother.

My mother verbally and physically abused me and my brothers when we were younger. If you were to ever mention any kind of abuse or even strict parenting to her now, she would of...

I'm dissapointed with myself. I understand how after a spiritual victory we should be on our guard for a spiritual attack. Just when I thought that I had found peace with all in my life and had come to find love, acceptance and...

I last wrote a post a year ago, right before I was due to move into an apartment with one of my friends. Things were at breaking point with my mother who would constantly ridicule and argue with me, telling me how little I cared about...

-She never apologizes, whether she's done something as simple as stepped on my foot or said something damning that she can't take back, it doesn't matter. When she does apologize (and I'm sure I could count these moments on one hand...

Iam so happy that i found a place where i can openly complain about my Passive Aggressive mother. Actually, for awhile i thought this was just how most mothers acted. Im 15 now and ive known for awhile that my parents are really screwed...

 OMG, I'm so glad I found this group. I've been feeling like nobody in the world can understand how crazy my mother makes me with her passive aggressiveness.  

Once again, she has sabotaged a special day and then refused to take...

I for years have dealt with feelings of guilt, questioning my decisions and so forth. It wasn't until recently that I figured things out when my Mother called me just to call me a name then told me to have a nice day. It was/is a...

I'm 22, I live with my mother who is 41 and two brothers who are 18 and 3, the youngest who is by a different father. For as long. Over the last 3 years my mum has started to become emotionally unstable. She can't ask me or my brother...

At 41, I finally figured out that I have a passive aggressive mother. She is the kind who lies and is insulted and shocked when confronted and hurt that I would dare question her honesty. She hates my wife and kids and of course denies...

I always dread visiting my mother because I am never sure how she will be.  Will she be chatty or say three words?  Not want to do anything or do everything.  Get annoyed when I ask her something about what she is doing or tell me a...

Recently I had a councilor friend, help me understand abit about what's happening with me and my mother.  The whole situation has had me tied up in tangles and knotts for too many years!  I'm the second born of four children.  My mum...

I'm the eldest child of 4 to a passive aggressive, emotionally unstable woman. I'm 33 years old and left my house as soon as I turned 18 and never went back. We've gone through periods where we don't talk, 99% of the time she's not...

I grew up with a passive aggressive mom, I am now grown and married and have long distance realship with my mother which actually helps with relating to her. I  married a great man I love him like crazy. I am over passive person kind...

Any energy or intellect my mother ever had has been completely devoted to her lifetime of getting what she wants by appearing to be a victim. And for a good bit of her life she has cleverly set the stage to make it look like she is MY...

I love her to death, but when sometimes I try to bring up conflicts and arguments mean things she says , she denies and says i am spreading lies and that i am wrecking her marriage,
so i dont know where to go,
she finds fault with...

I grew up thinking everything was my fault, and believing that I was the reason my mother was so unhappy. After all, I was consistently called “spoiled”, ungrateful and selfish because as a child (and like every child) I required...

Hey! Sorry it took me so long to write this but I had a baby in August and have been VERY busy. SO extremely irritating that mine will act like a nut, spew venom about other people, she is always a victim, and she can be judge and jury...