I Have a Partner In Prison

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 80 People

    Hello, My name is Chloe

    and I'm a recent Journalism graduate and young writer hoping to put together an article challenging the stereotypes of women whose partners are in prison. All being well, it will be featured in Accent magazine a long with a set of photographs. I am looking to speak with some of...
    chloespencer chloespencer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2015

    My fiance is in prison an I really have no one

    to connect with who truly understands what its like. my friends are all supportive but they don't really know how agonizing it can be wondering when he will call or if I've gotten approved to see him yet. my family is really judgemental about me being with him. He is not a bad...
    meisedv meisedv
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    My "situation"

    Hi I have decided to write and hope it helps. I was having an affair,I left my husband to be with this guy,I have 2 small daughters who my ex will not let me see.my new partner ended up in a coma in police custody and I was unable to have any contact with him when I discovered I...
    Heidi858 Heidi858
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2012

    My partner has just gone to prison he done

    something stupid armed robbery and now gona b looking at 4 years plus we have to children under three know one understands it's just so lonely and hard I don't know how I'm gona get through it
    Zoe2508 Zoe2508
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2015

    a true criminal

    hello people i have decided to write about my pain and hurt rather than  bottle it up inside , my boyfriend was arrested in July and has been held on remand since for the offense he did , not only that the day he got arrested i found out he had been seeing a girl behind my...
    ladyjade87 ladyjade87
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    My Love Is In Prison

    i met him about 13yrs ago and we dated for a few months before he got into trouble. He let me go and didnt want me to wait on him....so i moved on and when he got out i had already had another relationship.  but he always crossed my mind....and when i finally got in touch with...
    38Rickysgirl 38Rickysgirl
    36-40
    1 Response Feb 4, 2012

    We Suffer Also

    My partner has been locked up now for four years. She has at times made it very difficult to stand behind her. I come from a life of no drugs or crime and fell really hard for her. I was never told how to handle this. I make sure there's money on the phone, money on her books...
    emerson427 emerson427
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2012
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    18-21
    Mar 17

    We To From Here

    I have been with my partner for 2 years, most of that he has been in jail. There is only 7 more months left on his sentence. Buuuuut, 9 months ago, he stuffed up at the local jail where I am from and got transferred to another one that is a 8 hour drive. Since then, I feel like...
    PinkPeach PinkPeach
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2012

    Question. Trying to thing of a game to write in

    my letters anyone have any ideas ?? Running out of ideas nd words. Lol my mans been Gon Two years.
    BrookelynW BrookelynW
    22-25, F
    Oct 26, 2014

    iv been with my fiancée

    for what feels like such a short time and he really is a great guy. he saved me from a bad lifestyle and made me a better person. but today he got taken into prison. he could be out in 4 months on good behaviour but I struggle not talking to him for half an hour. does any one...
    beckiiboo beckiiboo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2014

    I would like to thank everybody in my life

    who have supported me through my situation with my boyfriend in prison. For everyone out there who judges family's or their loved ones for being incarcerated, it's not easy and were all human beings and we all deserve respect. In most situations that I have witnessed is just a...
    skipper596 skipper596
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    Hi, I'm new here. I've been searching

    for a place to write my feelings down and a place to just basically open up. My amazing boyfriend got sentenced 26 months on August 29th 2014, which is a day I will never forget. We've been given his release date which is half the time (so 13 months) which is now September 28th...
    georgiam123 georgiam123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    Really missing my boy today.

    He went in on September 26,2014. Almost 4 months :( and counting the days until his release. Looks like it's going to be a long time but I love you so much ! I'm here for you always.! Stay strong
    skipper596 skipper596
    22-25, F
    Jan 23, 2015

    I need someone's advice

    or any information at all about tagging?
    TiffanyJadex TiffanyJadex
    18-21
    Mar 17

    a true criminal

    hello people i have decided to write about my pain and hurt rather than  bottle it up inside , my boyfriend was arrested in July and has been held on remand since for the offense he did , not only that the day he got arrested i found out he had been seeing a girl behind my...
    ladyjade87 ladyjade87
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    Bottled Up Inside.

    I miss my baby so much, he got a five year sentence and January the 15th he will be down to four years, it's so hard and i have no body to talk to, i feel like no body around here understands me because they havent been thru what i have been thru. My boyfriends name is Greg and i...
    lovegreg lovegreg
    18-21
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

    a true criminal

    hello people i have decided to write about my pain and hurt rather than  bottle it up inside , my boyfriend was arrested in July and has been held on remand since for the offense he did , not only that the day he got arrested i found out he had been seeing a girl behind my...
    ladyjade87 ladyjade87
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2009

    I would love to start a prison

    wife/girlfriend/family support group! Where I come from there is nothing and I would love to be the voice behind this kind of thing. I am very passionate about supporting prison families. There is a perception out there that people and families in prison are just plan bad. I...
    skipper596 skipper596
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    I'm new here. Not really sure to much about

    this app but just looking for others who can relate.
    BrookelynW BrookelynW
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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