I Have A Partner With Anger Issues

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    I _had_ A Partner...

    Thankfully I left the guy because of his problems, which, looking back, I wonder how I ever did it because I was so impressionable back then which is why I got together with him to start with. This guy used to get angry at anything. Whether it was mundane or serious. Once we...
    BreezyCabin BreezyCabin
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2011

    Should I Move On?

    It has been a long time since I started talking to this guy. We met on facebook. We used to skyping every day and night. we live in different worlds so I always have to stay up the whole night. I'm so into him n fall for him. we are not accualy in releationship but we seem like a...
    saronabraham saronabraham
    16-17
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

    He just flew off the handle again.

    Mad about his money situation. Raised his voice at me, started slamming things around. Part of me thinks instead of going into the bedroom I should have consoled him and said I'm the ***** because I should be more accepting of his misery. When he said I'm going to be miserable...
    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo
    36-40, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    I have started seeing someone

    as of recently and we have truly created a unique bond. I can see the signs that he has anger issues but he has been amazing so far; using self management. He had an outburst, for lack of a better word but says he will seek counselling. He has booked an appointment. I have...
    rnrgodma rnrgodma
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2014

    Helpless.

    She is such a wonderful person when shes not angry. But she has such intense anger right below the surface and i can never tell whats going to set it off.  So every few days, out of nowhere, undeserving i get screamed at with such a hateful tone in her voice...
    Muse0001 Muse0001
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 7, 2010

    My current boyfriend gets mad at everything.

    The other night we went out to order some cheese fries we sat and waited for our order and he accidentally put his newly washed coat in a barbecue stain on the table he got upset then asked them to wipe the table off, they did and got him some napkins to wipe it off, that didn't...
    DirtyDianah DirtyDianah
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    When your partner has anger inside ,

    you never feel at peace .You never know how or when he can be irritated . Even when he wants to help, there is so much drama and so much complaining and yelling and fighting . Even fun events are a pain to get through. It gets way too much for me to handle sometimes ..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 9

    Shattered

    I remember one night my husband asked me a question. He asked me if I was happy in our marraige. I wanted to be honest so I said no. I hoped it would open up a dialogue between us so we could figure out how to fix our problems but instead of talking to me he decided to yell and...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2010

    Well not anymore (i am only beginning to feel

    grateful for the separation) but when we exchange our daughter today i realized just how out of control her anger issues have become. She is consumed, engulfed, drowning in a rage that is beyond my comprehension.
    KR17 KR17
    36-40, F
    Jul 19, 2015
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