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I Have a Phobia of Pregnancy

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    TOKAPHOBIA -yes Its a Real Thing!! Xx

    Hiya all,   ok so one holiday when I was 9 years old I was sat with my nan in a bar, out of the blue I started telling her of how I feared that my elder sis (who was only 12 at the time) would not be able to have children and that she would ask me to be a surragate and how...
    jessticles jessticles 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    I Really Want Kids In The Future But Pregnancy And Labour Scare Me Something Stupid...

    I am 25 and so shouldn't be feeling like this as most women my age are wanting babies. I love babies and toddlers but the thought of being pregnant and giving birth scares me more then anything in the world. I hate the thought of something growing inside me, the extreme tiredness...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    I Was Pregnant And I Dont Ever Want To Be Again

    I got pregnant at 18.  I was really upset about it but now my daughter is 5 months old and im glad she is here.  the whole pregnancy was weird, scary, and i hated my body but i liked my new big boobs lol.  i really dont ever want to be pregnant again tho. before i had her, i...
    EskimoChocolate EskimoChocolate 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    Its Totally Real

    i have a phobia of pregnancy since i was 8 years old, the thought of it makes me feel sick and unclean when i am around pregnant women it freaks me out and my heart feels like is gonna pound outta my cheat its horrible i get so dizzy. my husband wants kids and i am trying so hard...
    charmedbabyalways charmedbabyalways 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    I Think Im Always Pregnant

    I have had 2 normal childbirths and I love my children! No matter how careful, abstinent, or how soon I have gotten off my period, I always think I'm pregnant. I'm scared I will be one of these women that have their period for 5 months before finding out. I am in a...
    AnitaTaco AnitaTaco 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Creepy

    When I was 6 years old I thought every little girl who'll grow up will have to get pregnant and give a birth. And then, I accidentally saw a book about pregnancy. Uh... I was terrified and started crying but kept that is secret. And then again, I saw a music video "Teardrop...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    Holy Sh Ite

    Omg I've never been pregnant, I made sure of that. If I ever got pregnant there would not be a second thought, I'd be off to the abortion clinic, that scares me 2 ofcorse but pregnacy??? holy Shi freakin ite.  I cannot believe that women just go through it and how normal it...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    Its Totally Real

    i have a phobia of pregnancy since i was 8 years old, the thought of it makes me feel sick and unclean when i am around pregnant women it freaks me out and my heart feels like is gonna pound outta my cheat its horrible i get so dizzy. my husband wants kids and i am trying so hard...
    charmedbabyalways charmedbabyalways 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Will Forever Be Lonely?

    I have mental health issues and feel like it would be on par with child abuse to bring an innocent soul into the world that would be damned from the start. My reproductive organs are messed up. My right fallopian tube...looks like it's wearing a corset, for a lack of a better...
    myxanaxtasy myxanaxtasy 22-25 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    Never, Ever.

    I don't care if I live to be 200yrs old, I'm not going to get pregnant or have kids. Period. I don't care how "fine" or how "rich" a man is, I will not allow that to happen to me. I don't want kids and don't have a human maternal instinct. I'd rather be dead or in a wheelchair...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 6 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    TOKOPHOBIA_POST TRAUMATIC_NO PREGNANCY FOR ME... NO THANKS!!!

    he's 10 years married with my mother's sister... i treated him as my second dad... i told my classmate he was my father... i've molested/raped by him... he was very happy when he found out that i was pregnant.. rented a very secluded apartment for a very (pregnant me...
    luilou luilou 26-30 Jul 10, 2012

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    I Have Tokophobia...But

    Hi everyone, I am 25 engaged girl, and Ihave recently discovers what is called TOKOPHOBIA. the phobia of giving birth. My case is a bit different. I dont hate kids or babies in general. But the thought of carrying a baby inside me make me sick, let alone giving birth, i feel as...
    eliza2henry eliza2henry 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    I always feared pregnancy

    as I do not want to be a mum. I was abused as a child, and refuse to take the chance of passing the abuse onto another generation. I got pregnant by accident, and when the test came up positive, I was devastated. I hated the feeling of having this unwanted thing inside me. It...
    cariadK9 cariadK9 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    For years after my first child was born,

    all I hoped for was to be pregnant again. It never happened and I eventually accepted when he was a young teenager that there would be no more and to be satisfied that I had one healthy child. And then, when the first was 17 and I had really begun to enjoy some freedom...
    birdie39 birdie39 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    If the teen is married, can take care of that child, and ask of its other needs without putting them off on mom and dad because they're 'tired' , then I don't have anything to say...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    anyone want to do a pregnancy and birth role play?. Message me
    prettygirl2020 prettygirl2020 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I never feel more sexy, more wanted, more anything really than when I'm pregnant. I love that glow I have!
    RRachelle RRachelle 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I never feel more sexy, more wanted, more anything really than when I'm pregnant. I love that glow I have!
    RRachelle RRachelle 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I have this phobia and I feel like I'm the only one that has it. I've never seen or talked to anyone else that has had it. So if anyone wants to talk about there's, I'd be open to...
    Jayymayyyy Jayymayyyy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    If anyone is into pregnancy, likes to pretend to be pregnant, is pregnant or wants to talk about it all, feel free to message me!:) JustinnLongg
    JustinnLongg JustinnLongg 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    My anxiety is kind of the same. I have always had long hair and when i was younger it was hard to look after. I used to see my mum once a week and she would go through it with a...
    Adalae15 Adalae15 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    -Anorexia -Bulimia -Depression -Self harm/mutilation -Social phobia/anxiety (still working on this, but doing a lot better!) What have you overcome?
    Daphnaia Daphnaia 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    God everything is getting on my nerves at the moment... People just need to ask me something as simple as "do you want a cup of tea?" and I'm ready to kill. Apparently severe mood...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    I HATE having this phobia. :( I spewed in the 3rd grade in front of my whole class after recess and to make matters even worse I spewed in front of another class...not only did i...
    EyeHeartCheesecake EyeHeartCheesecake 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Are these real phobias? Are they not just what you fear?... Phobias can lead to agoraphobia- ahh yeah........
    hayzel1 hayzel1 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I was 19 and he was 39. He was my history teacher back in 9th grade. He would always call me beautiful and let me slide on homework. He always made sure I was Ok. It wasn't until...
    samanthanime23 samanthanime23 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Soooo this is weird but I have a pretty good sized birth mark on the side of my stomach. It resembles a frosty flake. My mom claims those were her biggest craving during her...
    ebonynicole ebonynicole 18-21, F a week ago

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    Anyone with anxiety deal with any fears or phobias? I do & it really ****** me off
    FreeSpirit02 FreeSpirit02 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I do wish I could experience what it is like to carry a baby/babies. To truly feel what women go through every day. I want to have a belly that dominates my body, and to feel...
    Zaloog Zaloog 22-25, M a week ago

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    I used to have one of oddly shaped holes. I used to get caught in holes as a kid and I wouldn't see them when I would be playing and just boom fall in a hole.
    ElSabre101 ElSabre101 26-30, M Aug 20

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    Some people are so arrogant and ignorant, it annoys me so much. Like yes, my phobia is real. Dumbass.
    bbenn916 bbenn916 18-21, F Aug 19

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    I have four; acrophobia (feat of heights/falling), coulrophobia (fear of clowns), claustrophobia (fear of confined/small spaces), and achluophobia (fear of darkness) — this ties...
    waywardgirl98 waywardgirl98 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I used to work in the city (London) and had to use the underground trains everyday, after working a little later then normal I got a later train, for once it Wasnt packed, I was...
    natrualisbest natrualisbest 26-30, M Aug 18

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    I love the feeling of pregnancy, but I don't want kids. After getting pregnant two years ago by rape, I gave them up for adoption. The feeling of carrying such a heavy, precious...
    Enbywithabellybump Enbywithabellybump 18-21 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I love the feeling of pregnancy, but I don't want kids. After getting pregnant two years ago by rape, I gave them up for adoption. The feeling of carrying such a heavy, precious...
    Enbywithabellybump Enbywithabellybump 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    I love the feeling of pregnancy, but I don't want kids. After getting pregnant two years ago by rape, I gave them up for adoption. The feeling of carrying such a heavy, precious...
    Enbywithabellybump Enbywithabellybump 18-21 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I love the feeling of pregnancy, but I don't want kids. After getting pregnant two years ago by rape, I gave them up for adoption. The feeling of carrying such a heavy, precious...
    Enbywithabellybump Enbywithabellybump 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    anyone else have a weird phobia of showers? as a young child i only took baths, of course. when i was 9 i decided to start taking showers. i used (and still use) my parents' shower...
    hgvbhgvbhgvbh hgvbhgvbhgvbh 18-21, T 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Following my wasp phobia post something happened today if you don't know already I have an obsession with teddy bears I love all my teddies like its a pet or a child. But there's...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 16-17, F Aug 15

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