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I Have a Phobia of Pregnancy

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    TOKAPHOBIA -yes Its a Real Thing!! Xx

    Hiya all,   ok so one holiday when I was 9 years old I was sat with my nan in a bar, out of the blue I started telling her of how I feared that my elder sis (who was only 12 at the time) would not be able to have children and that she would ask me to be a surragate and how...
    jessticles jessticles 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    TOKOPHOBIA_POST TRAUMATIC_NO PREGNANCY FOR ME... NO THANKS!!!

    he's 10 years married with my mother's sister... i treated him as my second dad... i told my classmate he was my father... i've molested/raped by him... he was very happy when he found out that i was pregnant.. rented a very secluded apartment for a very (pregnant me...
    luilou luilou 26-30 Jul 10, 2012

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    Creepy

    When I was 6 years old I thought every little girl who'll grow up will have to get pregnant and give a birth. And then, I accidentally saw a book about pregnancy. Uh... I was terrified and started crying but kept that is secret. And then again, I saw a music video "Teardrop...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    I always feared pregnancy

    as I do not want to be a mum. I was abused as a child, and refuse to take the chance of passing the abuse onto another generation. I got pregnant by accident, and when the test came up positive, I was devastated. I hated the feeling of having this unwanted thing inside me. It...
    cariadK9 cariadK9 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I Think Im Always Pregnant

    I have had 2 normal childbirths and I love my children! No matter how careful, abstinent, or how soon I have gotten off my period, I always think I'm pregnant. I'm scared I will be one of these women that have their period for 5 months before finding out. I am in a...
    AnitaTaco AnitaTaco 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    I Have Tokophobia...But

    Hi everyone, I am 25 engaged girl, and Ihave recently discovers what is called TOKOPHOBIA. the phobia of giving birth. My case is a bit different. I dont hate kids or babies in general. But the thought of carrying a baby inside me make me sick, let alone giving birth, i feel as...
    eliza2henry eliza2henry 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Holy Sh Ite

    Omg I've never been pregnant, I made sure of that. If I ever got pregnant there would not be a second thought, I'd be off to the abortion clinic, that scares me 2 ofcorse but pregnacy??? holy Shi freakin ite.  I cannot believe that women just go through it and how normal it...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    I Really Want Kids In The Future But Pregnancy And Labour Scare Me Something Stupid...

    I am 25 and so shouldn't be feeling like this as most women my age are wanting babies. I love babies and toddlers but the thought of being pregnant and giving birth scares me more then anything in the world. I hate the thought of something growing inside me, the extreme tiredness...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    Its Totally Real

    i have a phobia of pregnancy since i was 8 years old, the thought of it makes me feel sick and unclean when i am around pregnant women it freaks me out and my heart feels like is gonna pound outta my cheat its horrible i get so dizzy. my husband wants kids and i am trying so hard...
    charmedbabyalways charmedbabyalways 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    I Was Pregnant And I Dont Ever Want To Be Again

    I got pregnant at 18.  I was really upset about it but now my daughter is 5 months old and im glad she is here.  the whole pregnancy was weird, scary, and i hated my body but i liked my new big boobs lol.  i really dont ever want to be pregnant again tho. before i had her, i...
    EskimoChocolate EskimoChocolate 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    Will Forever Be Lonely?

    I have mental health issues and feel like it would be on par with child abuse to bring an innocent soul into the world that would be damned from the start. My reproductive organs are messed up. My right fallopian tube...looks like it's wearing a corset, for a lack of a better...
    myxanaxtasy myxanaxtasy 22-25 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    Never, Ever.

    I don't care if I live to be 200yrs old, I'm not going to get pregnant or have kids. Period. I don't care how "fine" or how "rich" a man is, I will not allow that to happen to me. I don't want kids and don't have a human maternal instinct. I'd rather be dead or in a wheelchair...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 6 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Its Totally Real

    i have a phobia of pregnancy since i was 8 years old, the thought of it makes me feel sick and unclean when i am around pregnant women it freaks me out and my heart feels like is gonna pound outta my cheat its horrible i get so dizzy. my husband wants kids and i am trying so hard...
    charmedbabyalways charmedbabyalways 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    For years after my first child was born,

    all I hoped for was to be pregnant again. It never happened and I eventually accepted when he was a young teenager that there would be no more and to be satisfied that I had one healthy child. And then, when the first was 17 and I had really begun to enjoy some freedom...
    birdie39 birdie39 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    So what is social phobia? Putting it simply it's the fear of being around people in any 'social situation' be it at work, at the gym, going shopping, going the pub, simple...
    reesewardley reesewardley 41-45, M Feb 10

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    Dreams are like babies. At first, they are tiny. So small and new you don't even know they are there. Slowly as time passes our dreams grow. We find ourselves stretching, as our...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I haven't been able to go to school for over a week because of my social phobia, tonight my mom is accompanying me to a social phobia kids group. I am terrified
    tugboatcaptain tugboatcaptain 13-15, F Feb 10

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    Hey, I'm really glad that this group exists. I have avoidant personality disorder and social phobia is an important part of it. I feel like I'm worthless and I'm terrified of being...
    xForgottenOne xForgottenOne 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I wish I could get pregnant again, but I need a husband who would not run away from responsibilities, and he loves babies too! Lol It's an amazing feeling, to be holding a baby...
    DawnSahour DawnSahour 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I love seeing severed limbs omg it is sexy I know this one is having a phobia but this is the only decent thing I can find for limbs anyone want to let me sever thier limbs off
    katielovespeeingherpants katielovespeeingherpants 18-21, F Feb 9

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    When I quit my job to pursue my studies, I didn't expect i would still b having social phobia. Even when I was in my teenage years I wasn't that good socializing. I'm 35 now & too...
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M Feb 10

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    I have a really weird phobia of puking. I haven't puked since I was 5 years old, but anytime I feel sick, I have a major panic attack. .-.
    ThatOneGirl0221 ThatOneGirl0221 18-21, F Feb 4

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    My story is a long one. I was diagnosed with Achalasia in 1990 at 6 years old. Long before all of the keyhole entry surgeries were created. It took 8 months and dozens of trips to...
    livingtestimony83 livingtestimony83 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I have an app on my iPhone that helps me to control my menstrual cycle. It tells me my fertile days, my risk of pregnancy on certain day, when I should have my next period etc. So...
    Sup3rW0m3n Sup3rW0m3n 16-17, F Feb 9

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    My Story: I had a baby boy 5 months ago, and after having him I started birth control. Not long after starting birth control, my insurance stopped covering it, so I stopped taking...
    TrevorsMommy7514 TrevorsMommy7514 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I'm always available as soon as I can be. I am 28 years young, and looking for a father figure for an online relationship that loves pretend pregnancy romantically. AGE doesn't...
    sincereMelissa sincereMelissa 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    My wife was so radiant and pretty during her pregnancy. I loved taking her picture.
    banner73 banner73 41-45, M Feb 6

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    I'm actually 15 years old, but I think pregnancy is beautiful. I may be a little young, but I eventually I want a baby.
    brightside01 brightside01 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 10

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    I'm all for it because it doesnt matter how old we are if we want a baby, its our dam right! So shut the **** up, you don't understand ****, so don't pretend you do. So if a girl I...
    Dantherainbowgenuisfish Dantherainbowgenuisfish 13-15 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Domestic abuse can start during pregnancy. Monsters believe it's ok to assault pregnant woman, because they believe they won't retaliate. People who make exceptions for this...
    Whinny00 Whinny00 26-30, F Feb 19

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    Only 10 more weeks to go... I am so overwhelmed with emotions... the thought of finally holding our baby in my arms. To know how happy my fiancé is, how excited he is, just makes...
    thejoneses thejoneses 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I have a really bad fear of toilets... Can someone help me??
    ineedthepotty ineedthepotty 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    I am so terrified of this. I try so hard to tell myself that if and when I need to vomit, that I will be okay. Yet, whenever I feel sick I been to tremble and just freak out. If...
    stephhm94 stephhm94 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I am terrified of feet. They scare me half to death, I can't even look at my feet unless I have socks on.
    MysteriousGirl15 MysteriousGirl15 13-15, F Feb 15

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    This is so me. Wow. I don't even know what of do when my mother dies. It's so bad :( I have social phobia as well. If she dies I don't know....she is so unwell. I can't cope...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Feb 16

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    Trypophobia- basically a fear of clustered holes. Just google it, trust me you'll have a new fear
    SecondStars SecondStars 18-21, F Feb 19

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    It's a horrible phobia of vomit.. It is ruining my life. Can anyone relate? I'd love some advice or help :(
    compulsivegrin compulsivegrin 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Is it weird I even have social phobia around my own mother and I've lived with her all my life. I know she does judge me and has said things.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    i get restrained on a papoose board and sedated at the dentist because i have autism an adhd the papoose board is snug but very helpful
    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    You have no idea how much I have cried today. I have so much pain and she only concerns herself with that abuser and expects me to as well. Except she's mad at him, I should too...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 days ago

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    Yes ,I call it a disability! All my organs are intact and yet I am disabled. I don't know what else to think ! I have severe social phobia. I can't walk straight with my head held...
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    ok so I have tripaphobia. omg I almost can't deal. its horrible. it just triggered by the plant this summer. now it won't go away. its everywhere, foods, and ordinary stuff. I take...
    snowhite69 snowhite69 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I was just diagnosed with Usher Syndrome on Wednesday. I've worn hearing aids my whole life. A little over two years ago I was admitted to the hospital for severe preeclampsia...
    AngieNickel AngieNickel 22-25, F Feb 1

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