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I Have a Problem With My Adult Child

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    My Relationship With My Grown Daughter Who Has Several Mental Issues ; (

    This very tough for me to write about but it's my life. My daughter was born 29 years ago. She was a very sick baby and child in and out of the hospital for first couple of years...upper respitory infections..etc.... She always slept through the night and very easy baby other...
    Beachgirl61 Beachgirl61 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    I am a mother of four,

    three sons and a daughter. My eldest son Jim is now 22 years old and I have had some terrible problems with him over the years. When he was growing up he was always fighting at school, he went to a couple of different schools, he was in Prison for a couple of months earlier this...
    KatieF1970 KatieF1970 41-45, F Dec 21, 2013

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    Mrs Pieterse

    i have a daughter, who left house she is 24 i have no problem with that, its the twins. she has two beatifull little girls 4 yrs old witch she has full custody of and gave them to there dad he brings them to me oncemonth for weeend but the onelittle one crs alot for om she hasnt...
    ROSEJADE ROSEJADE 46-50, F May 4, 2012

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    Adult Daughter + Granddaughter + Bipolar Baby-Daddy = No Room For Mother

    I have 2 daughters. Ginger, 22 & Theresa, 20. T had has 2 babies & a great husband. She loves me and we talk a lot. G has 1 baby, a bipolar baby daddy (who is a cop and owns a gun) & G is full of resentment toward me. We've all had problems but are doing better than ever now that...
    Tamkin Tamkin 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

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    Long, Hot Summer

    I have asked my daughter to please leave.  She will be 26 this summer.  She is not working.  I have no idea yet how she did in her first term back at college this semester.  I only know that she spends most nights out anyway.  It's 8 a.m. Memorial Day and she left her 6 p.m...
    BobsyFayCo BobsyFayCo 56-60, F 7 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Respect & Love

    I AM A DIVORCED FATHER HAVING A DAUGHTER IN HER LATE 30's, WITH TWO BEAUTIFUL GRANDCHILDREN, WHO LIVE 700 MILES AWAY. IN ALL THE PAST YEARS, I HAVE ADJUSTED MY LIFE, SO I CAN HAVE A FATHER/DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP, WITH HER. SHE WAS 2.5 YEARS OLD, WHEN I DIVORCED HER MOTHER. I...
    RLEE312 RLEE312 66-70, M 1 Response May 28, 2012

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    My 42 Year Old Daughter Hates Me And Her Husband And Kids Do Not Call

    My husband and I lived on the same property with my daughter and her family for 10 years.  The told us we could stay there as long as we wanted, so we had a house built on the back of their 10 acres. Since my son in law did not have a good job due to living in a small town...
    cmojica0313 cmojica0313 56-60 7 Responses Oct 26, 2010

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    My Daughter Hates Me....

    My 25 year old daughter hates me.  Since she engaged to a controlling man who comes from a wealthy family she became very distant and somewhat offensive.  When I gave her gifts she would make remarks like "did you get that at walmart?" even though it was an...
    sadciara sadciara 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    My Daughter Hates Me

    My daughter is 23 years old and her father and I divorced over 2 years ago after a marriage of 23 years. She was living with me at first but it was awful with her disrespect and failure to finish school and get a job. Her disrepect came in the form of verbal abuse. Loud angry...
    MomisnotBad MomisnotBad 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

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    I Always Wanted A Little Girl.

    My daughter was born 2lbs 11oz WoW small but I should had know this kid was a real fighter. l never would have thought she would grow upto fight me.  I love her so but I can not go on with her beaten me. I have a order of protection on her and the police know our battles. My...
    gramter gramter 26-30 Feb 28, 2012

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    I Had To Ask My Adult Daughter To Leave My Home

    My husband and I took our 30 year old daughter and her daughter in when they had nowhere else to go. She was drinking heavily (even after her 1st DUI and then proceeded to get another DUI in my car. She is going to jail,so she sent her daughter to live with her father and...
    bluiris46 bluiris46 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    My Daughter Hates Me

    she won't speak to me. she actually said, she plans to ignore me. its such a long story. she lives in my house in ca, I am in WA, rent free for 6 months, she won't even look for a job. she has 3 kids, we get her ultilite bills, her dad pays her car and insurance. yet I am the...
    bridgett49 bridgett49 51-55, F 20 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    My Oldest Son Hates Me

    My oldest son is in the Navy. He married an Italian girl that I did not like. The feeling was mutual she didn't like me either. My son told me at some point that she gave him an ultimatum, to choose between me or her. Needless to say he chose her. Many bitter words were...
    katnap456 katnap456 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    My Daughter Says The Words "i Love You", But Acts Like She Hates Me.

    My daughter, now 23, was born into an abusive relationship. Her father was emotionally and physically abusive to me. We all had to go to court-ordered therapy when, after 5 years of marriage, we started divorce proceedings. Her father was restricted to supervised visits only...
    lookingforhelp1 lookingforhelp1 61-65 2 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    My 25 Year Old Daughter Clearly Despises Me

    I'm not really sure why.  I'm not the greatest mum in the world I'll be the first to admit, but I can put my hand on my heart and say I did the best with the tools I had. .  She seemed to need so much and I felt sometimes I couldn't give her what she wanted. ...
    polly55 polly55 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    My Daughter Hates Me Too

    I am in the same place, all three of my children turned on me when my daughter and I had an argument and I told her off for letting me down on something. It was the first time I ever did that but she was being so selfish. She sent me an email that said f--- you and I hate you...
    motherinpain motherinpain 61-65 11 Responses Feb 9, 2011

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    My Daughter Says The Words "i Love You", But Acts Like She Hates Me.

    My daughter, now 23, was born into an abusive relationship. Her father was emotionally and physically abusive to me. We all had to go to court-ordered therapy when, after 5 years of marriage, we started divorce proceedings. Her father was restricted to supervised visits only...
    lookingforhelp1 lookingforhelp1 61-65 1 Response Aug 7, 2011

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    Especially if it abused and/or unearned. Gotten me into minor trouble once or twice...
    ImperfectHuman ImperfectHuman 46-50, M Dec 4

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    My mom,sister and me fight all the time. Over little things and I got the short end of the stic when it comes to my 24 year old sister. It's ridiculous.
    misunderstoodgurl16 misunderstoodgurl16 16-17, F Dec 10

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    I just discovered this page and I thought I could give it a try. I'm 20 years old now and I experienced alcoholism in my family for nearly 13 years of my life. It's hard to believe...
    laurajessica laurajessica 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I was fourteen or so, a sensitive, alienated, geeky nerd. No friends. I was talking to my father, begging him to stop drinking. I wasn’t begging for his sake anymore at that...
    ColdMountain ColdMountain 61-65, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    My mother is phenomenal. She amazes me with the heart she has. It's where I get it from. She raised me since I was a baby. ( my birth mother left) she took me in as her own and...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't see a problem with cross dressing. I am a male and I wear dresses and skirts. I also wear other women's clothing. If your happy with what you wear then your more relaxed...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 4 Responses Nov 25

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    I have a problem with anyone considering it a problem, I shouldn't even have to say this!
    Missatsf Missatsf 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 25

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    This group really annoys me. Might as well make a group for people who have no problem with humans breathing air or horses eating grass. I know their are still backwards thinking...
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 22-25, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yeah defiantly no problem with interracial relationships, I myself am a product of an interracial relationship and I am half white half Costa Rican. I'm also dating a Native...
    femazing femazing 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I can't believe in this day and age anybody would have a problem with interracial relationships. I think they're beautiful!!
    ForeverLynn ForeverLynn 31-35, F Nov 24

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    my boss is very upset with me today, cus i arrived at 9:30. always have problem getting up early in the morning. feel so tired, as if the whole previous night when i should have...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Nov 25

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    The year was 98 I playing on trampoline with my childhood crush.We were coping stone colds wrestling on each other.Then he randomly pecked me on the lips.I was surprised when he...
    ThePunkDreamer ThePunkDreamer 22-25, F Dec 2

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    I honestly have no problem with interracial relationships c: In fact, I want to be in one soon c:
    TerrabyteMcEwan TerrabyteMcEwan 16-17, M Dec 3

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    Warning, this is long, but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    It's more of a regular desire.I enjoy many types of females but my favorite is a female with a big full figure to enjoy and have fun with...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Dec 4

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    I am a boy who wants to meet a girl on EP, get to know her and have fun with her.
    zacklowe zacklowe 13-15, M a week ago

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    Actually, not WITH the men themselves, but while we have sex with groups of women at the same time. Parties. I have had sex with groups of women at the same time though. The most...
    zbigbox zbigbox 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My mother has chronic pancreatitis from drinking wine for years and years with naturally faulty kidneys. Shes been getting progressively sicker the last 3 years. When I was younger...
    sleepingbeauty13 sleepingbeauty13 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I'm oldest client is in his late fifties. But my oldest person was the grandfather of a child I babysat when I was 16. He paid me 500$ to lay back and play with myself while he...
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    The night the ashtray broke was when I first understood something was wrong at my house. I noticed things before, like my parents spending hours at the table talking, or the time...
    ColdMountain ColdMountain 61-65, M Nov 25

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    I'm not sure how much people will actually read this because it's going to be really long but basically I've struggled with depression my whole life . I'm not looking for attention...
    AlissaCupcakes AlissaCupcakes 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    "Storybook holidays are limited to storybooks. ...But extraordinary moments often masquerade as ordinary life. So maybe what's perfect about Thanksgiving is the opportunity to...
    rtvbvfde rtvbvfde 26-30, M Nov 26

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    Apparently we gotta make good from evil because there is no other way. If only evil would agree to this idea as well :) Wishing everyone to find something funny in their pain today...
    rtvbvfde rtvbvfde 26-30, M Nov 29

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    The more loyal and loving you are to an ACoA, the longer you stay by their side, the more they see that you are not hating them, not abandoning them despite all and everything they...
    rtvbvfde rtvbvfde 26-30, M Dec 11

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    she is very selfish and it is hard to accept, she only thinks about herself and doesnt care who she hurts in the process as long as she gets what she wants. i want to learn...
    sophiejon sophiejon 18-21 Nov 30

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    I want to have a child of every major race, and I would love them all. My religion doesn't condemn polygamy but it says you cannot love any more than the other and I'm okay with it...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M Dec 4

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    Hmm not all guys are Ashton Kutcher and not all women are Demi Moore. I appreciate younger guys who are sincere and mature because they present themselves capable of taking care of...
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Part of the problem of having problems is figuring out the causes of all of them
    Curseoftheblade Curseoftheblade 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    When I was on vacation with my family there was a guys soccer team at our hotel with players from all over the world. After meeting them and spending a night club hopping I got...
    leex123 leex123 22-25, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    ^.^ Yupp i do not have a problem at all
    Hopeisinme Hopeisinme 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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