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    Bulima/depress Girlfriend

    i have been with her for 9 years.. we are long distance realtionship... we trust each othere and i came up visit her alot and we have 3 year old son... and she went 3 different consuler in her past.... now its her 4th... she told me she loved me and we were plan to get married...
    goldelite goldelite 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Opening Statements.

    My name is Quintesse and I have a problem: I can't get stuff open. Ever. I have written on this subject before but I keep coming back to it because I still cannot get stuff open. I try. I am actually quite clever, but still I struggle and curse and smack my head asking, as my...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 36 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    I’m terrified of myself.

    Of my weight, I won’t even step on my scale. I know I’ll hate what I see. I’ve been depressed before, but I’ve never been anorexic. I’ve gotten down to 107 pounds, but I’m sure I’m at least 125 now. I feel disgusting and ugly and fat. I know I have a problem, but I...
    DaisyLover123 DaisyLover123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Okay, Not For The Modest Or Faint Of Heart.

    I... Um... Spend like five years wanting the Jack Rabbit vibrator. I got it today. It... Um.... Won't... Fit.... In my "you know." This is a huge disaster.  I mean, I know most people don't wanna hear about this stuff.  But hey, I'm being myself...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    I Hate Basketball

    This may not be alarming to all of you, but if you knew who and what i am then it would be. I play college basketball for a premier d-2 school and it is nothing that i had in mind. Maybe its not the school or environment it was the game of basketball the whole time. Growing up...
    MarkMagnum25 MarkMagnum25 18-21, M Oct 16, 2012

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    So I'm living with one of my best friends,

    and I usually let the little things go that annoy me because I don't want to have any issues, but lately I'm really starting to get annoyed. I like to keep the apartment in fairly clean shape- I don't mean like everything perfectly tidy all the time- I don't have like OCD or...
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Compulsivity Meets Ingenuity

    I don’t scare easily. I mean, I am fearful of germs, but I worry not a bit about intruders (unless they intend to enter my bloodstream. It’s called Hypochondria and it has absolutely nothing to do with this story.)But I have to say, today I got the daylights scared out of me...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 7 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    Kinda Big Problem....

    So I just got the email about my Finicial aid. I had been awarded, 4, 500.00 Dollars for this semester. However the coast of my classes and attendence WITHOUT buying my books, is going to cost at least, 8, 456.00 !!! My Family can NOT afford the come up with the rest of that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 7, 2009

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    Pomp And Circumstantial Evidence

    I have the evidence in my possession.I am holding it now. I will share it with you shortly, Exhibit A, so that you the jury can make an impartial decision.The Case:The Hijacking of Kindergarten Graduation.The Charges:Kidnapping of students who would rather be on the playground...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 11 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    I need help, I'm an ftm closeted transgender

    and I have been talking to this girl on the internet for almost a year. We're pretty good friends but my conflict is she doesn't know I'm trans and I feel like I need to tell her because I don't want to lie to her anymore but I also don't want to lose my friend because of her...
    Xxcrazedbanana Xxcrazedbanana 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    Do Love Notes Even Work?

    I have just given a secret note to a person i admire, but throughout her reading apparently she takes it as me being a psycho rapist. Is it just this generation that is full of idiots or is it just me? Here is how the story goes. Okay there is the unbelievably perfect women...
    MarkMagnum25 MarkMagnum25 18-21, M Jan 20, 2013

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    I've never talked about this before,

    but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. The usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My girlfriend has been going out with the girls a lot...
    MSeigler MSeigler 26-30, M 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    If You Have A Problem, Please Read..

    Hello everyone. To put it simply, i've been selfish. I think about myself instead of thinking about others. But, im trying to change. From now on, I want to forget about my problems, and help others with theres. No problem is to big or to small for me. I will help ANYONE with ANY...
    teenwerewolf14 teenwerewolf14 18-21, M 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    So my ex-suitor(Randy) texted me

    and he's pissed and mad at me for telling someone(John) about him and his ex. **his ex is also my close friend. I text him back if what is it that i told John, but he didn't text me back. We saw each other at school. He's on the phone and was in a little bit hurry. I ask him...
    CuriousGirl3694 CuriousGirl3694 18-21, F Dec 18, 2013

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    Anti-Commingling

    Commingling, if you are talking about, oh I don't know, sex--can be a very good thing. I don't have a problem with that at all. In fact, I am very much in favor of commingling in that respect. Yes. A big fan. Just don't touch my recycling bin. Ever. I have a problem. I am...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 23 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Giving Up

    My mother has had a bit of a drinking problem on and off her entire life. She needs it to "relax" she says. Back in April I was cornered by my siblings to confront her on the issue and help her find a solution. I'm the oldest so I get the dirty work I guess. I was very...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    Unintentional Flirtatious Behavior Syndrome

    A platonic relationship is defined as one “subsisting of spiritual affection, unmixed with carnal desires, and regarding the mind only and its excellences…”* and, as far as I am concerned, it is a complete fallacy.   I have had this debate with people my entire life. I...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 15 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    I Really Do

    I didn't join this group just for this story, but it reminded me of my math teacher. This girl in my Calculus class said, "Mr. U I've got a problem," and he said, "Yeah, of course, everyone in this class does. I assigned them to you." I don't know how funny...
    fitterhappiervelcro fitterhappiervelcro 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Let's Take It From The Top, Shall We?

    It’s been a long day. I’m turning in. Not sure what turning in means exactly, but I’m headed up there to attempt to rest this weary body. I slip in between the sheets and then it starts, the nightly argument. Oh man! Not this again. Oh for once in this life will you just...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 49 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Sister Is Dating My Ex, And Parents Dont See Anything Wrong With That! :(

    I had a boyfriend of many years and now my sister is dating him. What's even worse is that my parents say I'm overreacting. I cant stand being in my house anymore, but I don't have the means to leave. Every morning I wake up and sit in my room and wait for the day to pass; and...
    iDisappointed iDisappointed 18-21 Sep 16, 2012

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    My uncle just died yesterday.

    He's gone, away from this Earth. Where he went, it really doesn't matter. And there's my problem. The fact that he's dead doesn't mean anything to me. It doesn't bring tears to my eyes or a pit in my stomach or whatever. I don't even feel bad for the people he was close too. I...
    Fireyes53 Fireyes53 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Keep Moving?

    Should i just keep moving or should I stop now before I make a complete fool of myself. Basketball is my main problem. It makes me miserable but I love the game. Help me , Please. I wanna quit at times already cause I'm nothing to the team. All I commit are fouls and turnovers...
    NotBackingDown NotBackingDown 13-15, F Aug 20, 2012

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    Celebration Of Learning

     There comes a time in each of our lives where we come face to face with our limitations. Maybe we don’t make the A team, the squad, or we consistently do not get as good a grade as we had hoped in a particular subject. Usually by the time we are adults we have come to...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Im a fool, Im a coward,

    labels that I now believe, their words are like a guillotine, and my esteem is what they cleave. I try to make them happy, but they are never pleased, i feel like my happiness is all but slowly seized. so tonight ill pray to my demons, hope for better luck, but they demand...
    hunghero hunghero 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    And it's with EP users.

    People on here are so judgmental and small minded, arrogant c*nts. Really they are! They think they know it all but they don't. It really pees me off. So annoyed.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Relationship With Married Colleague

    I have been working at my work place for 11 months. It became obvious 6 months ago that one of my married work colleagues had developed feelings for me. He constantly hung around my office area during his lunch. I steadfastly ignored him. Even some of my co-workers noticed and...
    Mellys Mellys 22-25 2 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    An Alarming Situation

    I was in a pretty sound sleep when it happened, the beeping. And of course since it was 3:45am when the dreaded low-battery warning beep began its incessant chirping, my initial response was to pretend that I had not heard it. The problem is, as we all know, it will continue to...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 25 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    I Seriously Dont Know What to Do...

    Well, i am stuck between two guys, i am 16 one of the boys is 21, one of them is 27 (old for me i know) me and this 27 year old have been sort of on and off for a few months, i really really lust him, untill i finally thought the time is now to move on, its not realistic...
    sheshigh sheshigh 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    My Life. Ain't It Grand?

    Well I'm kinda new to this.  I told myself that i would get some help, so I went online and this is what i found.  Hmm, well I'm anarexic/bulimic.  I have been since 8th grade and now am currently in 11th grade. wow time flies fast. i dont like admitting to my...
    udontknowme udontknowme 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2008

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    well, i do have some problem with my family.

    my brother and i got some problems, we used to work together in our shop, my brother can't work alone so since that time he started looking for somebody to help him, as he didn't find any-person my father start to work with him but the problem is that my father is sick he have a...
    loyalboy47 loyalboy47 18-21, M Feb 6

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    Where The Hell Is Stan?

    I suck at geography. I admit it. I can't really explain this lack though,  because as a child I always paid attention in school, but for some reason I grew up not even being able to name all of the states. I blacked out for part of fourth grade perhaps, or it is entirely...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 21 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I Miss Him...

    I miss him so much. breaking up was the right thing to do - if you think about it as much as i have, its probably because its the right choice, right? but it hurts. not all the time anymore, but everyday, once or twice on a goodday, something reminds me about him or i want to...
    evie0317 evie0317 26-30 Jun 21, 2012

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    I need someone to help me out with this

    problem/addiction that i have.
    ManMadeBoy ManMadeBoy 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Hello, I am thirty five years old,

    and I have a huge issue. I happen to be attracted to young guys. Now, I don't mean like little twelve year olds...but like fifteen and up. It's not like I act on it, and yes I think it's a huge problem. I hate going into public because I feel like a ped-ophile. I don't know why...
    OldWoman9 OldWoman9 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Why Can't I Stop?

    I have this need right now to have someone special in my life and I can't let go of it. It's easiest to find people online, but that's also the sketchiest place to do so in my opinion. Everyone I've talked to (elsewhere, not here) has been creepy or had something wrong...
    loveisit loveisit 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    My Life

    I am a rape victim, I am a surviver, Raped for six years by him, Neglected by her, She was only a victim herself?, I was four till ten, Maybe she was only thinking of herself, But I love her now like I always been, I'm not ashamed...only broken
    Gigimurphey Gigimurphey 16-17, F Jan 25, 2013

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    Out Of Control

    Some say I'm crazy but out of no where I just get this huge hit of rage. I control it very well but sometimes I just wanna crack and break loose, so I just go in my room and cry. Like for no reason I just get angry, like something that happened 5 years ago that no longer matters...
    HealForgiveLove HealForgiveLove 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Crazy Story !

    u know.. its a long story , i have problem with one of the boys but this is the first boy i have ever loved & talk to and the first boy i shake hands with too u will think that im a crazy girl and have a problem how come that i never know any boy before him . iloved him when i...
    gloomyadoring gloomyadoring 16-17, F Jun 14, 2010

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    Is Daytime Too!

                      Its not as serious as some. I have night fever and its the daytime. Hey its only 8:27 am here and Im singing Night Fever and to the Bee Gees. What shall I do? Does anyone have...
    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2009

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    Need Halo

    I had aspergers when I was a kid (I'm a teenager n not sure if i still hv it) . Sth is wrong wf me I dunno y I'm so depressed. I dunno how I feel. I think I'm lost... My parents never gave me the proper treatments and attentions so I basicallly suffered in my childhood. I keep...
    Marshaismellow Marshaismellow 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2012

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    Finally a Club Where I Fit In 100%

    Where do I start? Oh never mind not enought time. lol
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 21 Responses Oct 10, 2007

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    Commerciality

    Let me start by saying that I know full well that I am influenced by commercials. I know all about how they use subliminal and not-so-subliminal seduction to get me to watch and then act on my urge to go buy turtlenecks at the end of year spectacular clearance blowout at Macy’s...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 6, 2011

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    I have a problem of sending lots of

    nudesssssssssss 😉 haha
    shaunyy0911 shaunyy0911 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    I Have Boyfriend Problems

    im stuck in between two guys and im abou tto give up on life so if antone cares message me to hear details
    somethinsweet203 somethinsweet203 18-21, F Aug 4, 2008

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    Excuse Me

    You know that person who is always holding the door and offering that you go first when the elevator door opens? That person is me. I'm also the one who will hold the door that extra second when you are struggling with a stroller, and I'll offer my seat in a heartbeat if there...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 18 Responses May 30, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Loves Fake Weed More Than Me

    the stuffs called incents and hes addicted i wish i could spend the money he spends on the stuff on things for the baby but he wont go an hour without it he spends up to 40 bucks a day on it and we really cant afford it but he wont stop every time i try to talk to him about it he...
    1sttimepreggers 1sttimepreggers 18-21, F Jun 2, 2012

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    Road Acrimony

    Rage is such an ugly word. I refuse to resort to it. What I feel is more a sense of acrimony towards my fellow drivers than it is full blown rage. I just like to imagine the car in front of me driving off the end of a cliff, gently cascading down the grassy slope into a marshy...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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    Born with it. Like all of us i have a cross to

    bear, mine's in the form of my condition. I was born with a severe case of eczema but over the years luckily i seem to have grown out of almost all of the standard problems associated with it. My problem is that i still have the itch feeling, my skin is fine. No dryness or red...
    iamespada iamespada 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I'M Losing My Brother

    hi everyone i'd like to share my story with you, i have a problem with my little brother , actually my whole family does ... anyway he's a teenager of 14 years old , and he's not intrested in studying , i mean he don't like schools and everything has a relationship with...
    joodi joodi 18-21, F Jul 2, 2013

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    Hypochondriac

    I am loosing my mind, its getting worse and I cant stop..   a little back ground on me, I am 32 and I was raised with the fear of my mother dying, my father was an alcaholic and abusive towards my Mom and my mom was co dependant, I developed OCD (obsessive compulsive...
    Ohgeez1 Ohgeez1 31-35 4 Responses Jul 3, 2009

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    I Wonder If Any Other Girls Are Like This.

    ANY time I cook with onions, even if I didn't have to dice them myself but just had to put them in a pan, I have issues later that day. About two hours ago, my mom's boyfriend chopped the onions and I picked them up and put them in the pan.  Now, my...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I've Got a Six-pack of Beer But I Don't Like It

    There was going to be a meeting with several guys from work, but it got canceled. It's Tecate beer and it's nice and chilly. Anyone want some?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 31, 2008

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    Deal Me Out

    I have this thing about neighbors; generally speaking I hate them.  Fine, that language is a little strong, but that being said, the two next door are seriously pushing their luck, and my animosity towards them is growing with every notch that they continue to carve in my steady...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 28, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    We all have problems. Reading on this page, seeing everyone else's problems, makes me realize, hey I'm not alone. Someone always needs a shoulder to lean on.
    bigred985 bigred985 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    It's like my family as a whole is a machine and each one of us is a part to contribute to make it work except the machine works just fine without my part :( I just don't get it I...
    PoetryGirl101 PoetryGirl101 16-17, F Apr 11

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    I have tried for 5 years. I want a baby.
    anm52309 anm52309 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    for as long as I can remember I have had trouble expressing my feelings face to face with people for fear of disappointment or anger. Anyone else?