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I Have a Relationship With a Married Man

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    My Relationship With A Married Man

    I've been in a relationship with a married man for 3years now.I'm 25 and he's 32 and honestly I don't care what others think about us. That's mainly why we have lasted this long. I don't consider this to be an affair because we have more than just sexual encounters. We actually...
    cuteTpie cuteTpie 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Ending my relationship With a married man.

    Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong conviction and this is over. He lies and keeps me hanging on to stupid promises . People make choices, I really believe he loves me but he will...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some London, UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Sep 2, 2011

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    A Soldier's Return Home

    My story starts back from when I was 19 years old with this boy, who I will call "Rob," was 18 at the time. Rob and I had a 'fling" way back in the day, but because I was young, immature and shallow I broke up with him because I didnt think other people would think he was hott...
    PinkLady112 PinkLady112 18-21, F Jun 30, 2011

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    I Am Messed Up

    Hi everyone, I'm new here. I've been so bottled up about this, I think I'm going to eventually lose my mind. I have been in a relationship with a married man (obviously) for the last two years. I fell in love with him so quickly, before we ever slept together...I was married...
    hishoneypie hishoneypie 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I Found Out I Am One Of Many .....

     I am 36 yrs old and single – 7 years ago I met a married man at a social event, he was very interested in my work and took my number from me and business card. I thought nothing of it as his wife was at the function and he was considerably ( about 16 yrs) older than...
    Meowgirl Meowgirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2010

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    Oh Dear

    I've always been the perfect mistress. Never cared about the wife, or obsessed about them having sex or whatever. Our time was our time, everything nicely compartmentalized. Manageable. Lots of love and affection, but no jealousy. Until yesterday. Hit me like a ton of...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I'm Having My First Ever Affair With A Married Man.

    For the first time in my life, I am having an affair with a married man. It's so ironic considering that throughout my entire life I have ALWAYS looked down upon adultery and swore that I would NEVER get involved with another woman's husband. I always said I would never stoop to...
    princessmermaid princessmermaid 31-35, F 20 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    My Lover, His Wife And I

    Last night I went out with my lover and his wife.  We went dancing because today is their one year anniversary. He left me with her cause he wanted to dance and she did not. I distanced myself from them and stood on the other side until I felt his arms around me. She...
    Ayisha75 Ayisha75 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 4, 2010

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    Giving In To The Intense Emotions

    I REALLY tried to stop my feelings and hold back from doing this, but I really can not deal with my strong emotions for this guy. I gave him his bday present. We even WRAP the same way!!! He is so perfect I can't stand it. I can't hurt another person (his wife) but i'm hurting...
    TazzieMarie2013 TazzieMarie2013 22-25, F 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    I Never Thougt This Would Happen To Me.....

    I have been having an affair with my married boss for almost two years now. I left my ex husband long before my affair began. I like my boss and we work well together. He was a true friend while I was going throughh my divorce. He is 16 years older than I and I never thought of...
    Confusednstruggling Confusednstruggling 36-40 8 Responses May 31, 2011

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    I Love Him

    yes he's married and I love him. I call him baby and he does the same. if any other woman tried to have a relationship with him i'd have to kick their ***. he's MY husband not yours. :P hahaha
    missxtc missxtc 18-21, F 2 Responses May 15, 2011

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    It's My Life; Without Regret

    Affairs are typically an unfortunate by-product, or end result of unfulfilled and unhappy partners; often negatively viewed, however the circumstances of which are so widely varied, and not so readily to be fairly considered. It is my contention that unless you have ever...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 20 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Married Man

    30 odd years ago at age 15 i feel in love, on introducing a college friend to my friends and boyfriend she starting coming out more an more with us, im a sociable person and never questioned this, after a little while i found she had been visiting his house, turning up in the...
    di528 di528 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    How To Let Go Of Your Married Lover And We Work Together..

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    At A Crossroads

    I have been in turmoil & very confused about the state and direction of my relationship with a married man, and I have decided to take a hiatus from EP as a result. There are several aspects to consider, weigh, & analyze . . yet ultimately two outcomes to decide. I have come to...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 10 Responses May 16, 2013

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    I met him almost 18 months ago,

    it was lightening.. incredible chemistry immediately. I had never experienced anything like it in my life... I remember the day, I remember checking to see if there was a wedding band. None, I smiled thinking maybe this was the start of something amazing... I'm an intelligent...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    Who Would've Thunk It?

    I had just broken up with my BF for just two months out with my girlfriends celebrating my new-found freedom when this MM approaches me.  I was reluctant to talk to him at first b/c I was still recuperating from my last turbulent relationship.  MM had a great sense of humor and...
    mistyblu19 mistyblu19 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    Baby

    I started going to beauty school which is also a barbering school last year in April. My very first day I met this guy and he approached me saying hi, I was attracted right away. Every day we would talk and we started getting closer I knew he had 2 kids with his ex but I had no...
    Chula123 Chula123 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    In A Relationship With A Married Man

    I've been dealing with a married man for the past 5yrs but when I met him he was separated from his wife for about 2yrs. We have such a great friendship and spend alot of time together but I noticed things started to be different, less time spent and he instantly stopped...
    Haygirl301 Haygirl301 41-45 2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife?

    I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we honestly never know until we find ourselves in a place called "here". I became the other woman (OW) a little over a year ago. We were both married at the...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 8 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    My fiancé of 30yrs ago I never stopped loving.

    I'm leaving my husband because he is an alcoholic .. Married 25yrs. I am worried once I move out my affair with my lover will change and maybe for the worse. I love him so very much. His children are younger and he says he does not yet want to leave because of the youngest and...
    Neelloc Neelloc 51-55 1 Response Apr 18

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    Mm's I Want To Hear Your Experience

    I wonder what turmoil you experience in your everyday existence . . if any ? Is there guilt, anger, frustration, an emotional connection ? I'd really like to gain a sense of perspective from your side of this unconventional, less than ideal, and sometimes challenging relationship...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    How To Let Go Of A Man You Love And Married And Working Together..

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 3 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    .. His wife told me yesterday

    that they haven't had sex in weeks and that she thinks it's a sign she should stop trying.. :/ Me and him have been together twice this week. We probably won't be together again for a couple weeks, but my head is spinning. I don't know what I'm doing anymore..
    LanaRae LanaRae 26-30, F 2 Responses May 31

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    How To Let Go Your Married Lover And Working Together??

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    Married Man

    this is the update to my relationship with a married man actually he did leave his wife. not because of me because she is crazy! and i am not making that up......she is bipolar and wont take meds. they tried to work it out and couldnt! we were just friends for years and it...
    jeb1115 jeb1115 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Im In Love With A Married Man

    About a year ago I was introduced to this man who by the way is 35. Something about him caught my eye. He was introduced to me by his brother inlaw and as they stated to me he was in process of a divorce. Im 23 and a single mother of 1. I have had my share of bad luck with guys...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    I Did The Right Thing.. It Still Hurts

    If you want the back story read my blog. At this point we had not seen each other in almost 3 weeks. I've seen him in passing at work, but no sex either. I got the chance to talk to him yesterday and after almost 9 months of crying myself to sleep, limited phone calls, no...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Im In Deep..

    I am in deep with a married man. I feel like Im in prison. I dont know how to end it. I have been with him for 6yrs. Im so scared that I will not find anyone. My previous relationship have been so bad. I almost give up, I often feel numb..I mean, come on, Im 40. Who the hell is...
    Ceci40 Ceci40 36-40 3 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    There Can Be A Happily Ever After For An Affair

    Doug’s Happily Ever After “I want the fairytale.” - Julia Roberts as Vivian in Pretty Woman I interviewed Doug because it was imperative that his story be prominently depicted in this book. As committed as these types of relationships can be, it is infrequent that an...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Sep 15, 2013

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    My story. I have been married

    for 20 years. I haven't been happy for a while, but I stay for the kids. I met my MM over 2 years ago off of a dating site, Neither of us was looking for anything serious, just really good *******. Two years later and I am desperatly in love. So is he. He isn't the first...
    llsnow33 llsnow33 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    Relationship With My Married Boss

    Hey guys. Really need some help here. I've been in a relationship with my married boss for 5 months. Ive never felt like this about anybody. We love each other deeply. He has 2 children aged 11 and 15. I feel like I'm on a emotional roller coaster. I feel so depressed when I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    So 7 Months Later He Tells Me He's In Love With Me And That.....he's Married! Need Advice...

    I met a guy on an online social network, not FB but MYB. Needless to say we met for a little unofficial date. We hit it off by means of we really got along, loved each others sense of humor, talking etc. I'd just gotten out of a very turbulant relationship and I made him, and...
    kadiea kadiea 26-30 1 Response Jan 8, 2012

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    Love

    My girlfriend and I have been on and off since high school. She said she wasn't going anywhere this time. But earlier today, she said she was going to a party tonight and she's leaving me. I keep looking at the clock and thinking about her at that party. My heart is broken. It...
    zanestickler zanestickler 18-21, M Mar 24, 2012

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    Being With A Married Man Has Damaged My Health

    So after now being in a relahItionship with a married man for 2 years I am now at the point where I have anxiety attacks, I was diagnosed with depression and now have ended up having to see a therapist.. When I first entered this relationship I entered it with the impression that...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    Easy To Fall..

    It really sad to have a relationship with a man who is already committed. It happened last march, He was my former professor. before i never imagine to be with this man because first and foremost he is known as a very strict professor in our school. he didn't even gave me any...
    Alexandreablynn Alexandreablynn 18-21, F Jul 10, 2012

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    Feeling Lonely

    "I have a relationship with a married man" I met and feel in love with a married man over a year ago. It was at a time in my life when I felt I needed someone with whom I could relate to. He told me early on that he was married but still I accepted his invitation for...
    downsouth59 downsouth59 56-60 9 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Nine Months And We Are Still Kicking It.

    I know its wrong and I always said that I wouldn't share a man. How in the hell Did I get into this? I know I need to pull out but I don't know how. We said when the new year come in we would stop seeing each other I think we made it through about 5 or 6 weeks. This man is...
    Tmd424 Tmd424 46-50, F 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested?

    Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be grateful if you could take a few minutes to complete: Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/BPY22CT Also, for any other women/men who were or are interested...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 14, 2012

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    I Fell Inlove With A Married Man

    I didn't think that 3 1/2 yrs later I would still be deeply inlove with this man. Our relationship started with lies about him being in a process of a divorce. After months of dating I found out there was never no divorce. Ive been with this man through thick and thin. I LOVE HIM...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    Confused

    *Before I write all my story, my english is not to good. I hope you understand my story 2 years ago, I met a nice guy and we dating. One year ago, I just find out that he's married. I was suspicious and I don't want to have relationship with a married man in the beginning. I...
    angelheretic angelheretic 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    Nope elementary school doesn't count I'm literally forever alone
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F a week ago

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    I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 months. It started off as all relationships do. All nice and loving. Now he screams at me , calls me names, and just recently...
    jon0517 jon0517 36-40, F Jul 2

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    I was having an affair with a married man since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Well tonight I was drunk and my married man came to watch me shoot pool. (I'm I a pool league) of course his wife came with him since I'm friends with his wife. We were all talking...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I had an affair with a married man.. At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Married and had an affair with a married man at work. We've been trying to keep the friend thing going, talking occasionally, but when I think I'm over it those feeling come...
    artist7 artist7 31-35, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I love him and he loves me. It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 7

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