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I Have a Relationship With a Married Man

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    Heart Break

    I went to school with him, we have been casual friends for the first two years of our acquaintance. Then quite suddenly, i discovered in him the soul mate i was always looking for. We have had a very happy blissful relationship for a good two years. I was intimate with him, but...
    penguinnose penguinnose 26-30 2 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Nine Months And We Are Still Kicking It.

    I know its wrong and I always said that I wouldn't share a man. How in the hell Did I get into this? I know I need to pull out but I don't know how. We said when the new year come in we would stop seeing each other I think we made it through about 5 or 6 weeks. This man is...
    Tmd424 Tmd424 46-50, F 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    Married Man

    30 odd years ago at age 15 i feel in love, on introducing a college friend to my friends and boyfriend she starting coming out more an more with us, im a sociable person and never questioned this, after a little while i found she had been visiting his house, turning up in the...
    di528 di528 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    How To Let Go Of A Man You Love And Married And Working Together..

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 2 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife?

    I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we honestly never know until we find ourselves in a place called "here". I became the other woman (OW) a little over a year ago. We were both married at the...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 8 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Love

    My girlfriend and I have been on and off since high school. She said she wasn't going anywhere this time. But earlier today, she said she was going to a party tonight and she's leaving me. I keep looking at the clock and thinking about her at that party. My heart is broken. It...
    zanestickler zanestickler 18-21, M Mar 24, 2012

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    How To Let Go Of Your Married Lover And We Work Together..

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    Oh Dear

    I've always been the perfect mistress. Never cared about the wife, or obsessed about them having sex or whatever. Our time was our time, everything nicely compartmentalized. Manageable. Lots of love and affection, but no jealousy. Until yesterday. Hit me like a ton of...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    A Soldier's Return Home

    My story starts back from when I was 19 years old with this boy, who I will call "Rob," was 18 at the time. Rob and I had a 'fling" way back in the day, but because I was young, immature and shallow I broke up with him because I didnt think other people would think he was hott...
    PinkLady112 PinkLady112 18-21, F Jun 30, 2011

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    Im In Deep..

    I am in deep with a married man. I feel like Im in prison. I dont know how to end it. I have been with him for 6yrs. Im so scared that I will not find anyone. My previous relationship have been so bad. I almost give up, I often feel numb..I mean, come on, Im 40. Who the hell is...
    Ceci40 Ceci40 36-40 3 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    *update* London based Research... Are You Interested?

    Following my previous posts about research regarding the other woman I am now conducting a quick survey which i would be grateful if you could take a few minutes to complete: Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/BPY22CT Also, for any other women/men who were or are interested...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Jun 14, 2012

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    I Love Him

    yes he's married and I love him. I call him baby and he does the same. if any other woman tried to have a relationship with him i'd have to kick their ***. he's MY husband not yours. :P hahaha
    missxtc missxtc 18-21, F 2 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Mm's I Want To Hear Your Experience

    I wonder what turmoil you experience in your everyday existence . . if any ? Is there guilt, anger, frustration, an emotional connection ? I'd really like to gain a sense of perspective from your side of this unconventional, less than ideal, and sometimes challenging relationship...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    In A Relationship With A Married Man

    I've been dealing with a married man for the past 5yrs but when I met him he was separated from his wife for about 2yrs. We have such a great friendship and spend alot of time together but I noticed things started to be different, less time spent and he instantly stopped...
    Haygirl301 Haygirl301 41-45 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I Did The Right Thing.. It Still Hurts

    If you want the back story read my blog. At this point we had not seen each other in almost 3 weeks. I've seen him in passing at work, but no sex either. I got the chance to talk to him yesterday and after almost 9 months of crying myself to sleep, limited phone calls, no...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    How To Let Go Your Married Lover And Working Together??

    This started and no feelings involved but we work together eat lunch and take breaks together. everyone at work knows we are lovers and that he is married.. his conscious get to him and tells me that it need to stop. cuz its not him doing this.. its me that its hard letting go of...
    rosi1979 rosi1979 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    I Found Out I Am One Of Many .....

     I am 36 yrs old and single – 7 years ago I met a married man at a social event, he was very interested in my work and took my number from me and business card. I thought nothing of it as his wife was at the function and he was considerably ( about 16 yrs) older than...
    Meowgirl Meowgirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2010

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    Confused

    *Before I write all my story, my english is not to good. I hope you understand my story 2 years ago, I met a nice guy and we dating. One year ago, I just find out that he's married. I was suspicious and I don't want to have relationship with a married man in the beginning. I...
    angelheretic angelheretic 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    I Fell Inlove With A Married Man

    I didn't think that 3 1/2 yrs later I would still be deeply inlove with this man. Our relationship started with lies about him being in a process of a divorce. After months of dating I found out there was never no divorce. Ive been with this man through thick and thin. I LOVE HIM...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    At A Crossroads

    I have been in turmoil & very confused about the state and direction of my relationship with a married man, and I have decided to take a hiatus from EP as a result. There are several aspects to consider, weigh, & analyze . . yet ultimately two outcomes to decide. I have come to...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 10 Responses May 16, 2013

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    My story. I have been married

    for 20 years. I haven't been happy for a while, but I stay for the kids. I met my MM over 2 years ago off of a dating site, Neither of us was looking for anything serious, just really good *******. Two years later and I am desperatly in love. So is he. He isn't the first...
    llsnow33 llsnow33 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    Relationship With My Married Boss

    Hey guys. Really need some help here. I've been in a relationship with my married boss for 5 months. Ive never felt like this about anybody. We love each other deeply. He has 2 children aged 11 and 15. I feel like I'm on a emotional roller coaster. I feel so depressed when I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Who Would've Thunk It?

    I had just broken up with my BF for just two months out with my girlfriends celebrating my new-found freedom when this MM approaches me.  I was reluctant to talk to him at first b/c I was still recuperating from my last turbulent relationship.  MM had a great sense of humor and...
    mistyblu19 mistyblu19 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    Being With A Married Man Has Damaged My Health

    So after now being in a relahItionship with a married man for 2 years I am now at the point where I have anxiety attacks, I was diagnosed with depression and now have ended up having to see a therapist.. When I first entered this relationship I entered it with the impression that...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    My Lover, His Wife And I

    Last night I went out with my lover and his wife.  We went dancing because today is their one year anniversary. He left me with her cause he wanted to dance and she did not. I distanced myself from them and stood on the other side until I felt his arms around me. She...
    Ayisha75 Ayisha75 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 4, 2010

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    I Never Thougt This Would Happen To Me.....

    I have been having an affair with my married boss for almost two years now. I left my ex husband long before my affair began. I like my boss and we work well together. He was a true friend while I was going throughh my divorce. He is 16 years older than I and I never thought of...
    Confusednstruggling Confusednstruggling 36-40 8 Responses May 31, 2011

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    My Relationship With A Married Man

    I've been in a relationship with a married man for 3years now.I'm 25 and he's 32 and honestly I don't care what others think about us. That's mainly why we have lasted this long. I don't consider this to be an affair because we have more than just sexual encounters. We actually...
    cuteTpie cuteTpie 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    Ending my relationship With a married man.

    Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong conviction and this is over. He lies and keeps me hanging on to stupid promises . People make choices, I really believe he loves me but he will...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    Easy To Fall..

    It really sad to have a relationship with a man who is already committed. It happened last march, He was my former professor. before i never imagine to be with this man because first and foremost he is known as a very strict professor in our school. he didn't even gave me any...
    Alexandreablynn Alexandreablynn 18-21, F Jul 10, 2012

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    I Am Messed Up

    Hi everyone, I'm new here. I've been so bottled up about this, I think I'm going to eventually lose my mind. I have been in a relationship with a married man (obviously) for the last two years. I fell in love with him so quickly, before we ever slept together...I was married...
    hishoneypie hishoneypie 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Baby

    I started going to beauty school which is also a barbering school last year in April. My very first day I met this guy and he approached me saying hi, I was attracted right away. Every day we would talk and we started getting closer I knew he had 2 kids with his ex but I had no...
    Chula123 Chula123 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Im In Love With A Married Man

    About a year ago I was introduced to this man who by the way is 35. Something about him caught my eye. He was introduced to me by his brother inlaw and as they stated to me he was in process of a divorce. Im 23 and a single mother of 1. I have had my share of bad luck with guys...
    princesscon05 princesscon05 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    It's My Life; Without Regret

    Affairs are typically an unfortunate by-product, or end result of unfulfilled and unhappy partners; often negatively viewed, however the circumstances of which are so widely varied, and not so readily to be fairly considered. It is my contention that unless you have ever...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 20 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Feeling Lonely

    "I have a relationship with a married man" I met and feel in love with a married man over a year ago. It was at a time in my life when I felt I needed someone with whom I could relate to. He told me early on that he was married but still I accepted his invitation for...
    downsouth59 downsouth59 56-60 9 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    So 7 Months Later He Tells Me He's In Love With Me And That.....he's Married! Need Advice...

    I met a guy on an online social network, not FB but MYB. Needless to say we met for a little unofficial date. We hit it off by means of we really got along, loved each others sense of humor, talking etc. I'd just gotten out of a very turbulant relationship and I made him, and...
    kadiea kadiea 26-30 1 Response Jan 8, 2012

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    Ma.rried Man

    I'm not having any relationship with a married man except for my husband.What if you're in a relationship with one and you end up falling pregnant.  Would you keep the child or get aborted?
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2011

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    London based Research... Are You Interested?

    NB: I am carrying out some London, UK based research. You might be interested in taking part? Are you having an affair? Are you the other woman? Do you feel that you have been misrepresented? My name is Emma and I am a trainee counselling psychologist, completing my doctorate...
    EmmaResearch EmmaResearch 22-25 Sep 2, 2011

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    Married Man

    this is the update to my relationship with a married man actually he did leave his wife. not because of me because she is crazy! and i am not making that up......she is bipolar and wont take meds. they tried to work it out and couldnt! we were just friends for years and it...
    jeb1115 jeb1115 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    I'm Having My First Ever Affair With A Married Man.

    For the first time in my life, I am having an affair with a married man. It's so ironic considering that throughout my entire life I have ALWAYS looked down upon adultery and swore that I would NEVER get involved with another woman's husband. I always said I would never stoop to...
    princessmermaid princessmermaid 31-35, F 16 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I spooned with a good friend. We were on a guy's weekend away from our wives. We had quite a bit to drink and ended up naked in bed together. At some point I rolled over and...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    That would be great specially if he about nine inches or so that feel great
    iluvlezgal2 iluvlezgal2 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I bought a lusty Leo fake penis of eBay and have been plowing my hole for a while If I can't have sex with another man physically then I at least want to exchange pics or videos
    lovezadick lovezadick 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I have about two people that I can tell my story, and just two. One is my best friend since middle school, and I've explained to her everything. The other is my younger sister, but...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    My mother lied to me my whole youth about who my father was. I was told my father was my mother’s first husband. Meanwhile my mother married my step father when I was just 20...
    dwc294 dwc294 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    CRAZY, OBSESSIVE, PSYCHOTIC. I'm all of those and more. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, I want him with me through all that I go through. I truly love him. Being in a...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I met him while working at a restaurant last summer. He tipped me way above the average to catch my attention. I never payed him any mind. Then about two weeks later one of my co...
    hismarried05 hismarried05 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am ashamed to admit it but I did have an affair with a married black man that I work with. It started off kinda slow with just blow jobs and stuff for about a month but...
    WanabeBuxom WanabeBuxom 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm seeing a married man that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1