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I Have a Sex Addiction

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 519 People

    Sex Addiction Or Not?????

    I have to have sex evryday and when I don't I get I get very angry. And when I have sex I am very agressive and hate intimitcy (sorry if i spelled it wrong). I just do it fro the pleasure not caring about how my partner feels....I try to stop but I have to do it. am i addicted
    truelychanged truelychanged
    18-21
    Sep 12, 2011

    Not Easy

    Several months ago, after a crisis in my marriage, I acknowledged that I am a Sex addict.  I have begun therapy again with a great therapist and attend weekly SAA meetings.  The process is not easy - but with the support of the rooms and the assistance of the therapist...
    4stokes 4stokes
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

    Shame

    Geoff and I watched Shame on DVD last night.  I had heard quite a bit about its uncompromising exploration of a man’s sexual addiction so I was interested to see how they would deal with the subject.  It is a strangely haunting film and probably not something I could sit...
    BarmyCow BarmyCow
    51-55, F
    May 21, 2012

    I Know I'm Dead Inside, Reminded Every Night...

    I thought the need would subside as I got closer to 30 but NOPE. It has only gotten worse. Anyone else have the same problem?
    icaruslives83 icaruslives83
    26-30, M
    Oct 22, 2012

    Ive Been Trying

    To fight it. And lately the stress of trying to get rid of it has been giving me more stress than just getting it over with and just ******* people. i tried this 12 step addiction thing, but im an atheist and i find it to be like a joke... and i try to find help, and i cant find...
    WhiteMushroom WhiteMushroom
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    My Addiction...

    I like the thrill of the chase.I like sleeping with strangers.I like the thrill and the rush I get of not knowing the person well, knowing I am being "bad."I like the idea of sleeping with a dirty, scummy low-life.I like the idea of seducing strangers.Lust overtakes me...
    violetterose violetterose
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2012

    I Dont Have A Catchy Title But...

    well, ive been sucking **** since about 7 and having sex since 10. I think about it all the time, i want it all the time and im not good at bounderies. i skiped school for sex, moved out of my moms house so i could spend more time finding and having sex, and ultimatly its just...
    lilsuckum lilsuckum
    18-21
    8 Responses Dec 5, 2010

    I Am An Addict.

    I am a sex addict. I hate it but I am. I'm a good, kind, caring married man who has had to come to the grips that I have a sex addiction and am compulsive about some sex isues. I have struggles with same-sex addiction for most of my life. I believe this is due in part to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 23, 2012

    Addicted To My Girlfriend And Pleasure!

    Addiction - I that's definitely what you would call what I have I suppose. But I'm addicted to numerous aspects of sexuality. I simply love when my girlfriend invents new ways to give me sexual pleasure - she uses all sorts of toys and I'm usually bound - sometimes blindfolded...
    brad1975 brad1975
    36-40, M
    May 2, 2013

    I've Never Gotten Into Detail With This Before But, Here You Go..

    Lets start off with the background and what events led up to where i am now. I was raped twice, once when i was 6 and once when i was 12. I was scared to see what people would say when i told them so i waited about 2 weeks to tell anyone after the first time, and i waited...
    cef2412 cef2412
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

    Addicted And Loving It

    I am a sex addict. I cannot help it. I have tried to quell the urges but I just can't. I love sex. I love to talk about sex. I love to hear about sex. I call a chatline and I guess I'm lucky, I'm an intelligent guy and I can usually end up talking to a few ladies every evening...
    mountainclimber69 mountainclimber69
    36-40, M
    Jun 27, 2012

    Sex Addicts Partner Needs Advice

    Hi,   First of all sorry for the length of this post but I felt it required explaining. I'm new here but I really need some advice. Basically I have known my partner for over 4 years. We were  together on and off due to his cheating on which I caught him several times...
    Troubled2012 Troubled2012
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 21, 2012

    I Don't Believe In Sex Addiction

    I had for some time considered myself to be a sex addict. I was drawn to *********** since an early age, and I had *********** a lot. I had a 17 years long marriage which looked to outsiders quite successful and exemplary, and I had essentially strictly monogamous sex. I tried...
    lula69 lula69
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Mar 7, 2011

    Addicted To Sex

    OK...a little background here....in my early 20's, I slept with quite a few guys..mostly because I liked the attention and I had serious low self-esteem issues. Then I got married and was faithful to my husband for 11 1/2 years. After we separated and eventually divorced, I was...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2012

    I Think I May Be Addicted To Sex.

    If I'm not actually having sex, I'm thinking about it, ************, or looking at some **** to ********** to. I don't know if this is an actual problem. I mean, I'm able to do everything in my life that I want or need to do, so no obvious problems there. The only problem I...
    Galtar Galtar
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 19, 2012

    Looking For Someone Diagnosed With Sex Addiction Or Someone Who's Partner Has A Sex Addicition For Paid Mag Feature

    I'm writing a feature about living with sex addiction and how it impacts on a relationship. If anyone is willing to share their experience for ££ then please get in touch. Thanks
    lozzieb lozzieb
    18-21
    1 Response Nov 21, 2011

    What Exactly IS A Sex Addict???

    I love sex - I think about sex and am very open minded. I swing, I explore, I am trisexual (prefer women, but have had pre op Transgender lovers in the past, and when I am really horny I will go to a gay sauna. I am pretty careful, use condoms at least for gay sex (always) but I...
    steamyasia steamyasia
    46-50, M
    Aug 17, 2013

    Trying To Overcome

    I love my wife but I struggle with **** addiction. She doesn't know I watch it and I am ashamed to let her know. I would rather get over it and not have her ever find out. I feel that the addiction stems from my declining physical attraction to her. Can anyone help me out?
    Notperfectbutok Notperfectbutok
    26-30, M
    Mar 5, 2012

    Watching ****

    I really can't help myself from watching **** especially when girls are really beautiful. I love the way they bite their lips and moan as if they are having the best time of their lives. I think these are some reasons why men can't help making love with women. Movements and...
    Marguerette Marguerette
    26-30
    May 21, 2013

    I Know I Am A Sex Addict.

    This is a very subjective issue. There are some therapists that don't believe in it, some that do. For myself I know what I suffer from and call it what you will but I simply cannot control my sexual urges and drive. I use sex as a 'drug' to mask whatever I might be feeling...
    Secretajintman Secretajintman
    41-45
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2011

    Is It Real?

    If I tell people I'm addicted to sex they laugh and say 'You just have no self control'. Does anyone else get this. Is this a common reaction? More importantly is there any truth to it?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 21, 2013

    Addicted To Love

    Tell me, is Lola a sex addict? http://mysexlifewithlola.wordpress.com/
    d011y2005 d011y2005
    22-25
    Oct 21, 2011

    Counselor Doesn't Think So - I'm Not Sure

    It's very difficult for me to talk to my counselor about the intimate details related to the general problems I talk about. I experience a high degree of embarrassment, get very warm and turn red, giggly, and find it difficult to talk. I say ‘we have sex’ rather than use say...
    herdofcats herdofcats
    46-50, M
    Jul 2, 2012

    Can I Get Away With It?

    Sex addiction is not an excuse. No one can say, “Oh, I couldn’t help it. I have a sex addiction.” We all have choices at every moment of our lives and it is always possible to stop yourself from going after sex. However, for some people, the patterns of pursuit...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2010

    How Do You Bring The Subject Up In Counseling ?

    As far as talking about sex, I'm generally a very shy person. I find it difficult to express myself, get flustered, and turn red. I've been going to therapy for some time. I'm the type of person that if it involves me or what's going on inside my head, I avoid it. I joined this...
    herdofcats herdofcats
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    We all have one a little bit?

    I'll admit mine but mines is severe but I'm wondering is there anyone worse out there than me xD?
    FFullMetalPanic FFullMetalPanic
    26-30, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    Am I Addicted To Sex?

    I am 21 years old and I lost my virginity when I was 13. I was scared as **** to have sex with my first bc his penis was HUGE. we never really had full penetration so I hated sex. With my 2nd Bf (at 15) his penis was a bit smaller and once i experienced the pleasure of full...
    RheddBow RheddBow
    22-25
    Jul 17, 2013

    I Am Addicted To Spanking

    I was raised in a strict religious family and was spanked a lot growing up. I would get anything from kitchen utensils to slaps across the face from my mother.  My Dad was more consistent but his spankings were always laying face down on the bed getting the belt on the...
    preacherskid1 preacherskid1
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2010

    Help - Does It End?

    I have struggled with sex addiction for 20+ years and no one knows.  I am married with 2 kids and been married for 20+ years.  *********** - watch it whenever I can.  Escorts - yes, whenever I can afford it - and they are high dollar escorts.  I am really depressed - I don't...
    philm philm
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 12, 2012

    My White Wife

    My wife has a fantasy of being with a black bull lover .... I am so down with it love to see her take him in her mouth and swallow his load and him flip her over and take her from behind stretching her tight lips around his massive **** gey her loose and take her *** until they...
    Wanttowatch1069 Wanttowatch1069
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 29, 2012

    My Wife Is A Sex Addict

    I am a Husband of a Sex Addict. I am sharing my story with you because oftentimes when a person is within the mania of their addiction, the collateral damage done is never observed. If my story can provide just one sex addict in the mist of acting our behaviors the motivation and...
    MyWifeIsASexAddict MyWifeIsASexAddict
    46-50
    1 Response Dec 30, 2011

    Recovery Is Ongoing And Forever

    According to PsychCentral, "The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” In other words, a...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 24, 2012

    Influenced By Anxiety, Sex Addiction Or Just Making Selfish Excuses? A Long Reflection.

    Foreword: Firstly, it is important to describe who I am. I am 21, female, a psychology student, I work part time, and I live in a share house with two other women. I don't have a lot of money, but it's enough. I was raised by my single mother with my older brother, with whom I am...
    ellefaye ellefaye
    22-25, F
    Nov 11, 2013

    I have a real bad sex addiction girls

    if you could comment with similar experiences that would be great
    Ramone22 Ramone22
    22-25, M
    Feb 21, 2014

    Sex Addiction And Bipolarism

    I had a weird childhood , at a very young age my uncle started "playing" with me and later i remember having sexual experiences with classmates , i was even lets say abused by the maid who worked at my grandmother's home even if she was just 4 or 5 years plder than me. Since...
    ethaniel ethaniel
    22-25
    3 Responses May 29, 2011

    Perfect Match

    So i've recently started talking to someone about my... problem. My ex suggested i do when it finally slipped out to her what i do for a living. She thought my having such a hardy apatite despite the money i was bringing home couldn't be anything but unhealthy. She even used the...
    Tyrious52 Tyrious52
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 30, 2009

    Sex Addiction

    An addict is--- well just that an addict who struggles, if not treated they will lose everything around them. choices you make dose impact others, it hurts I know. I use to be angry I thought he choose his drug of choice over our family “love has nothing to do with it” seek...
    OneMovieStar OneMovieStar
    18-21, F
    Aug 11, 2011

    15 Year Old Sex Addict..

    I cant help myself. I even go on the internet, get on webcam and ********** for men i dont even know the names of.
    Laroolouuxx Laroolouuxx
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 26, 2012

    Addicted To Sex.

    I like all and any kind of sex. Perverted and straight with anything in between and I mean ANYTHING! You name it I like doing it or have tryed it. I have an erection about eight to ten hours a day on and off. I will try anything and have. I guess I am a pervert when it comes to...
    sexedone sexedone
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2010

    I Know I'm A Addict.

    I am 23 years old now. I started exploring when I was around 8 or 9 with my two best friends. We used to hump each other or use our teddy bears and barbie dolls for pleasure. I didn't know what I was doing, so I did it. In school, I was the "cool" smart kid. I got along with all...
    SweetFreak90 SweetFreak90
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2013

    Addicted!

    I am so obsessed with having sex. I think the female body is so amazing. When I see a woman who is attractive on the street, I instantly fantasize about taking her back to my place. I have often wondered if a woman has thought the same about me. And more over, would it be...
    36yrs 36yrs
    36-40, M
    Aug 17, 2013

    So Alone

    How do I start? I am married to my best friend but we are so different. She is little miss perfect and I am a total freak. She does not understand what I am going through and our perfect group of friends do not understand. So I go see a doctor who has had never had anything...
    DeanThomas55 DeanThomas55
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 7, 2012

    Sex Addict Suffering

    Hi I am Fro Unknown. I've been battling this since about puberty 10 11. As a kid I would sneak out to catch the late night soft core cable shows. After that I was hooked on getting new harder movies by age 13 I had sex for the first time. I'd say 5 minutes in to it I came so hard...
    Frounknown Frounknown
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Aug 29, 2011

    Obsession

    I first had sex when i was 10, but wasn't really "active" regularly till i was in my mid twenties. But then, it was vanilla, and new, and was ....fine....? But then I married my wife 12 years ago, and at first it was adventurous, and sexy. I discovered i loved performing oral sex...
    late2thegame late2thegame
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2013

    Sex Addict?

    I don't know why I put the ? Mark in the title bc I know that I am a addict. My biggest fear is losing my family yet I still have sex w different women and I'm addicted to ****. Even though I have sex regularly I still ********** mutually w/ other women online also.
    Mekkocate1217 Mekkocate1217
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 24, 2013

    I Have Been A Sex Addict Since Pre-teen But Didn't Realize It Till Last Summer.

    After years of thinking I was experiencing love that was in fact lust I realized after answering the 20 questions that I was a sex addict. As a result I had endless empty relationships, never had children and almost wreaked my second marriage only a few of the catalog of acting...
    sa8132 sa8132
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2013
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