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I Have a Sexless Marriage But Love My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 33 People

    How Many Of Us Live In A Sexless Marriage, Or Are Unhappily Married?

    There seem to be an awful lot of us who fall into this category. Do you think that perhaps this is much more common than we are led to believe? I am in the final phase (finally) of my exit plan but am a little bit scared that maybe all marriages deteriorate into this same kind of...
    Gaylez Gaylez
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    I Have A Sexless Marriage But I Love My Husband.

    My husband and I have been married 6 months. We have a two year old daughter together. When we first started dating, we had sex all of the time (2 or 3 times a day). We rarely have sex now. I have tried everything. I have to even beg. I am a very sexual person and this is...
    AintLifeGrand AintLifeGrand
    26-30, F
    Oct 29, 2013

    We me and my husband have been married

    for 4yrs and been together for 5yrs. We met off of craigslist lol and we have a great marriage it's like anyone else's yes we fight and we do have our big blow out fights and stuff but. We do Botha e a sex life we are trying to have kids and we want them and I REALLY EANT...
    mrstheusch mrstheusch
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014

    Im a Woman In a Sexless Marriage

    I've only been with my husband for 3 years, and 6 months into our relationship we started having sex less and less. Now it's down to about once every 2 months. He keeps saying its stress or he's too tired,  blah blah blah. I know he's not cheating or gay, he just only...
    blondy120498 blondy120498
    31-35, F
    Feb 8, 2009

    No Sex For 5 Weeks...feels Like Forever!

    Lucky me is on "Pelvic Rest" with this pregnancy which means no pushing heavy objects, no lifting anything heavy, no crazy long walks, no ******, and worst of all NO Sexual ANYTHING. This is literally killing me! It all started when I was 9 weeks pregnant and had a massive bleed...
    MM2XM MM2XM
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2013

    Bad Kisser,no Sex And Wont Try

    I have loved my husband since the first time I met him.Things used to not be like this.Back when we were younger everything was great.We were nothing like me and my 1st husband but we but lately we have gotten so far apart.It hurts me that he doesn't even try to hug me or...
    StacyLeanna StacyLeanna
    31-35, F
    Dec 21, 2011

    So it's been awhile since we had sex.

    Unless you count him losing it 10 times the last time. I made a stand tonight. After asking him if he wanted head just cuz I didn't want sex to be too much of a hassle. And got rejected again. It's always an excuse. He's stressed. Were almost out of cigs. Ect.. I'm the saddest...
    sloaned sloaned
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    Just Married Two Days Ago...

    I'm a twenty year old female, recently married to a twenty four year old male who mid-relationship joined the army and right this minute I'm in a hotel room in Georgia with him, spending the last 5 hours together watching him sleep, listening to him snore... =/ We were married...
    muffincramps muffincramps
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    Last night I tried really hard to turn my

    husband on, including going to bed completely naked. He start kissing me and rubbing my body, but we didn't have sex. He just stopped and cuddled. I'm still hot and bothered wtf gives?! Aaaaaaah!!!!
    shaygray shaygray
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 31, 2014

    Husband Withholds Sex

    i've been married 16 years.  the first few months we had sex almost every day (except for the period when he had erectile problems)  In the last 24 months we have had sex 4 times.  Is he gay? I've asked him numerous times to sleep in the spare room but he refuses...
    hellandback hellandback
    41-45
    Jul 20, 2009

    A Sexless Marriage and the Man I Love

    I have been married for 2 yrs, of which have been very tough (deaths, moving, new baby, financial issues). Well anyways, my husband and I met in 2004 and started dating. Sex was great the first couple times and then diminished to 4-5 minutes of just "getting off." And...
    IhateEQ2 IhateEQ2
    31-35
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2008

    Sexless For 10 Years

    I have been married for fifteen years.  We had sex when we were dating, engaged, and into six months of our marriage.  In the last ten years, we have had sex 2 times.  I thought he was impotent but I'm not sure now.  He has been supposedly working late quite...
    tooridiculous tooridiculous
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2009
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